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NAH, SISSuspicious-Judge-380/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:10 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTSuspicious-Judge-380/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:33 PM
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this is too relatable😭 sitting in his bedroom pretending i thought his shit was good lmfaooo i am cringing at my past pick me self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:21 AM
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proud of myself bc some guy left a note on my car saying “you’re hot” with his number. old pick me would have thoughtfully texted him. FDS me cracked up, sent a photo to my girlfriends, threw that shit in the trash and walked my way into work 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:05 AM
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same my roommates and i dont allow men above the first floor (bedrooms on floor 2&3) and they have to use the “men’s” bathroom (my cats liter box room 🤣). i’m not letting men invade when they probably don’t even respect me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:11 AM
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talked to my roommate about her boyfriends online postings about her. he has a big following and makes her the butt of the joke all the time while she posts super sappy shit about him. she says he “always asks” and isn’t like how he portrays himself online, it’s just a character. people that know shes my roomie were sending me his posts out of concern for her... after defending him she said “not to be a pick me though” LOL. lord help me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:37 PM
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my first thought lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:32 PM
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If this was one of my roommates, I would have cleaned up the soup, started a new batch/a meal, and let her fucking SLEEP! then MAYBE have a conversation about how to avoid that in the future. it’s so obviously a mistake made because she’s exhausted, his reaction is terrible but just the fact that he was even mad rather than concerned for her is so so LV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:40 PM
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also the fact that she’s in grad school and has a full time job. a HVM would have met this with compassion. she’s BURNT OUT AND EXHAUSTED!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:32 PM
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for me the second “break up” was worse because it was basically dealing with the loneliness and pain and truly realizing how much time i wasted. i never wanna be in that situation again. it was basically “keep providing emotional support for me and i’ll just have sex with someone else” no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:49 PM
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my grandma also had to support herself and 12 children after her husband died. the kids were 8-30 years old and she ran the entire farm as well. she was such a strong woman who encouraged me to read, travel, and work hard and i’m so grateful for that. she also died earlier this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:03 PM
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Hiii ladies. Hope everyone is doing good. I’ve been reflecting on my past relationships and i’m wondering if this is a ~nitpick~ or not. whenever my ex would get to my house he’d just text me “i’m here”. now that i’ve found FDS i’ve started to feel like when a man gets to my house to pick me up he should come to the door. is that too much to ask for? i was at my sisters house the other day and her roommates boyfriend came in to get her and i just thought it was so sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:14 PM
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also got off vibes from this esp the second to last paragraph ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:35 AM
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that sent me😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:32 AM
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oh my i realize the way i worded that was terrible. i meant the slash to be an “and” LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:14 PM
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Met a HVW with FDS values (like... i was so close to asking if she surfed this sub🤣) at work. was very refreshing 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:36 PM
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I’ve gone rock climbing before! Different types of physical activity like dancing/ hiking, kayaking/canoeing are really fun for me and also helps me vet for laziness 😭🤣. it’s important to me for my partner to be physically active and healthy. please don’t hike with someone you haven’t gotten to know though/ go on a busier trail !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:59 PM
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oh my god this is exactly like all the dudes i hung out with in high school. i cringed this entire fucking video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:25 AM
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yeah, i’ve also had similar conversations with my therapist in the concept of relationships you can’t escape. for example, my parents can’t just be cut off but i’ve been able to adjust to their behavior by spending less time with them/ setting boundaries. similar situation with coworkers. now with a man? lol no thanks i’ll just dip because i can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:03 PM
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this is why it’s so important for me to keep up with this sub tbh. i come check it every other day or so. i feel so validated every time in all the “gut feelings” i’ve had in different situations that i just ignored because an LVM was “trying” or being better than the last (even if being better was as simple as not yelling at me...) and i was conditioned into thinking that was enough. i never want to slip back into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:50 AM
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thanks for sharing this. i’m so happy you’ve realized your worth ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:44 AM
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omg yes as a 21 year old i NEED this post... i just opened a 403b & have had a Roth IRA since I was 18, I have no idea how else to get in terms of finances beyond seeming responsible... but even that can be put up as just a front that fades away once you’re trapped. I do feel that to start this woman should have had these conversations BEFORE marriage but yeesh it seems there’s already plenty of red flags (22 & 27 when started dating, 7 year relationship before marriage, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:46 AM
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My ex used to say that I couldn’t talk to him about my depression until i cleaned up my eating habits (because yeah that’s totally why i have depression- not anything to do with the way you treat me...). i was so depressed and eating a lot of processed stuff, but not even nearly as bad as many of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:23 PM
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I know a dude I went to high school with that’s getting a graphic design degree and literally says a job will just “fall in my lap”. I ended up cutting him off last summer after he did something I dont wanna get into but he’s literally the first guy i think of when i think LVM. Gross, dirty, pothead, lazy, unmotivated, misogynistic but “feminist man” (we all know what that means....) The friend group has kinda split into 2 and there’s HV in one group and LV in the other... i wonder why... but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:24 PM
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NOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:39 PM
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yep. it’s very depressing and he’s so fucking disgusting. i could go on and on about the things he’s done to her and i/other close family members but i’ll save my breath. it still hurts though, i just am trying to accept there are some things i cannot change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:27 PM
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same! i feel shitty about myself when I dont do it at least a couple times a month and usually have “linen day” marked in my bujo... i’m cringing thinking about the male beds i’ve slept in now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:22 PM
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This got onto the front page and listen to this absolute pick me comment: “When I met my BF, he owned one set of sheets, one pillow, one blanket, and one towel 🤦‍♀️ I was staying there a few nights a week, so I just brought over half of my linen closet. I also had some extra fleece, so I made him a second, not terrible blanket. He refers to the blanket as the best gift I've ever given him and refers to the rest of it as "his towels", even though I technically own 80% of them 🙄 I'd like to think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:17 PM
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yeah. i tried years ago when they first started dating. i have to keep reminding myself if i try again it will be wasted energy :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:28 PM
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the audacity of these men to flirt with me when it’s clear i’m in shape.... it’s so unattractive to me to not take care of your body. if i spend an hour every day making sure i feel & look good then why tf would i be attracted to a couch potato alcoholic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:08 PM
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good luck sister! i love that you recognize this boundary for yourself :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:06 PM
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this is absolute QUEEN ENERGY!!!!! i’m so proud of you. absolutely inspiring. and just think about what thought patterns you’d have right now if you engaged with him. you’d probably just be thinking about what you didn’t say that you should have or replaying it in your head. instead you’re just moving on and not letting him have an ounce of your energy. love to see it. this is true SELF CARE AND SELF LOVE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:01 PM
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my cousin who used to be my best friend got engaged to an absolute scrote last night. there are so many things wrong with this and my heart is aching.... she’s 20 :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:58 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:13 PM
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Thanks queen ❤️ I’m glad you’ve been able to overcome those wounds, you’re so strong 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:12 PM
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Yeah... this man also told me that therapy was for people who couldn’t figure out their own problems. it took many months for me to get rid of the ideas he put into my head about therapy. yet i had to give HIM therapy for what HE DID to me! wow. 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:11 PM
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I’m glad you’ve found someone better ❤️ you deserve the best treatment, i’m so sorry you had to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:10 PM
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my LVX’s best friend told my LVX that he didn’t love me!!! and i still kept talking to him!!! forgot about that one 0-0 you’re so strong queen. i’m so happy FDS has given us the tools to avoid this in the future. much love❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:08 PM
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Thank you❤️ It’s been a couple of years since I last saw him, and i’m still healing. Just started therapy 5 months ago and that plus FDS is uncovering a lot more than I had previously realized. It’s hard but realizing my worth simultaneously has been rewarding. Take care❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:01 PM
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as a female direct support professional.... most male direct support professionals are lazy asf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:44 PM
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yeah... it stayed in my mind for the rest of the time. the sex of course sucked. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:17 PM
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thanks for validating me. Yeah, in the moment it felt wrong, but i wasn’t sure what to do, and i was in his house. i’d never let myself get into that situation again. if i did have sex with a guy and somehow he got through 3 months of vetting and said something remotely similar to that id immediately stop... i’m sure he watches some really disgusting and disturbing porn. i’ve said before in this sub that i am so sad for the woman i used to be and i’m so happy now i know how to avoid these men an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:47 PM
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reminds me of a time a man said to me during sex “i want to choke you to death” we promptly finished up, i left, and haven’t had sex since... this was almost a year ago. i still shutter thinking about it. terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:29 PM
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wow. this really stood out to me. i used to feel emphatic for the guilt my ex felt over cheating on me and that was a big reason i stayed. i was young and didn’t realize it was a manipulation tactic for him to talk about how awful he felt about it. i only spoke once or twice about how terrible it made me feel. sigh, i mourn for past me and i’m so glad she’s grown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:40 PM
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I guarantee you that this woman worked hard for everything he’s talking about. Even if you get into grad school “on a whim” you still have to put in an incredible amount of effort?? Men are so jealous when women are successful🤣 Also 2 new piercings is anywhere from 130-300 dollars if done professionally which seems pretty in her budget so i’m not seeing how that’s impulsive 🤣 he’s mad she has autonomy. notice how she’s been “impulsive” the whole time they’ve known each other, yet he still chose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:35 PM
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this fucking sent me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:34 PM
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while he does say some things i agree with, most of the men that are fan boys of him will take everything he says as gospel. he thinks the invention of birth control is the downfall of society lmao. that’s a slight exaggeration but you can look up his thoughts on birth control and face palm yourself. i also just dislike how he makes a series of statements that seem to lead to a sexist or even racist conclusion but he won’t say the conclusion... if that makes sense. imo he’s just the person dumba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:26 PM
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girlie i have nothing to say. i literally cringe thinking about our relationship. this man easily could have bought a mattress if he cut the pot habit & shoe addiction for a week or two. with the FDS lens now i see we were doomed the day we met🤦🏼‍♀️ now i sleep soundly each night on my extra firm queen mattress LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:19 PM
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that is interesting, i’ll get to those articles sometime today. it’s honestly been a struggle to not talk about their looks with them because that’s what feels “natural”, so i without a doubt have lots of learning to do on this subject!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:17 PM
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woohoo! being an auntie is the best thing ever!! i have 2 nieces and i always complement them on their intelligence, for using their words (one is autistic), how hard they kick a ball, etc. instead of saying “you’re so cute!!” (they are though) or complementing their outfit. gotta teach them that stuff doesn’t trump how great they are as a person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:38 PM
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LVM truly make no effort to put theirselves in women’s shoes and think about how scary and dangerous that would be...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:33 PM
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i hope dinner was good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:32 PM
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no jordan peterson is for me too!!! that man is terrifying and young men like him because he taught them how to make their beds and take a shower???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:20 PM
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i dated a mf who slept on a mattress pad in my pickme days.... so now i require a MATTRESS. he also complained about how he always slept so bad when he would stay over at my house... like please, at least i provide a mattress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:10 PM
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if he wanted to, he would!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:13 AM
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My last relationship (and only long term one thus far) he asked me if he had a big dick... i was like “it’s average” and he got SO PRESSED. this was over a year into our relationship. he definitely knew it was average, and probably would have gotten mad no matter what my response was. ugh, i seriously cringe thinking about our sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:38 PM
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yeah they gaslight me into thinking i’m crazy for not desiring short term relationships and hookups... i’d rather work on myself. my 4.0 didn’t come by easily and prolly wouldn’t exist if i was wasting time with LVM 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:34 PM
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i’m 21, and i’ve just been abstaining from dating. just because i feel like it’s nearly impossible to find an HVM that’s age appropriate for me anyways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:27 PM
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girl, trust me. the sooner you block him the less you’ll cringe in a few months time when you think about it... i still cringe thinking about how i kept texting my ex for months after we broke up despite KNOWING it would never work out and that he was a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:14 PM
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love that for her :) and so happy you have a HVW in your life!!! She probably had an impact you can’t even comprehend since you were young!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:51 AM
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what. the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:44 PM
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i agree. i have a HVM friend, whom i’ve known since middle school. he has a girlfriend and when they started dating about a year ago, we started talking and hanging out less. i saw that as a good sign, that he was prioritizing her and spending time with her. also, his girlfriend comes with to hang out some of the time and is obviously welcomed to. she’s one of my good friends now as well. so, if your boyfriend has female friends, he should also be proving that you’re a priority over them AND be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:32 PM
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tell me youre in a situationship without telling me you’re in a situationship 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:39 AM
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this is what i thought instantly! if you hope (or assume) that rape is what’s gonna occur if she wears revealing clothes and drinks alcohol, it makes you think how he views and treats the women at the parties he goes to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:15 PM
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i dislike diamonds, so i would want some other stone...probably an emerald :) as for proposal i agree with everything you said !! also for the proposal i want my nails to be done and to look nice, but still would want it to be a surprise, so they’d have to come up with a plan for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:03 PM
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same I thought FDS was gonna be a ton of women plotting a genocide of men or something 🤣🤣 turns out even when women do hate men all they do is... avoid them??? whereas men, ya know, shoot up buildings, kill their wives, and purchase video of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:00 PM
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it would be impossible to summarize all of his opinions because the man takes his advanced degree to mean he knows everything and never shuts his mouth. hes a professor that wrote a book about self improvement that a lot of men like even though it’s extremely basic things. men with daddy issues love him because they see him as a father figure who tells them to make their bed🤣 he’s sexist, racist, and has been on hiatus recently because he got addicted to valium and then went to russia for treatm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:47 PM
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I dated a JP fan casually at one point. seemed HV, applying to grad schools, good job, independent, took care of himself and always paid blah blah. me, being 21 was shook because i was pre-FDS and he wasn’t verbally abusing me off the bat like my previous BF. anyways, he was pornsick as fuck and called me a bitch as a joke a couple months in. was confused when i asked him not to say bitch around me. i said “it makes me uncomfortable” as my reasoning and he couldn’t get it. ghosted him after that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:35 PM
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god i almost downvoted out of disgust at the 2nd one... the audacity....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:05 PM
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he pulled the suicide card so many times, i couldnt even tell ya. i didn’t realize how messed up it was until a couple years later. the art exhibit invites a ton of florists to make bouquets matching paintings! it’s super beautiful, i love plants and flowers :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:44 PM
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i also have a story like this!! there is an art exhibit that happens ONCE a year for a few days. it’s my favorite exhibit, i go every year every day. i started talking about wanting to go with my ex weeks in advance. finally the week comes along and we choose a day. the exhibit is free, we would just have to get there early for good parking or we could take the bus, i’m fine with either, just really want to see the exhibit. my ex had issues being on time. that’s fine because me too, but this cro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:45 PM
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i plan to level up by working on mindfulness skills (with the help of my therapist) and grinding on job applications :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:20 PM
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same!! so proud of you and me for getting through it! i just have 2 exams left and i’m hoping to pull a 4.0 this semester 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:43 PM
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i love k flay she makes a lot of FDS type music😎 but also a ton of not FDS lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:34 PM
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“self employed” looks like the only woman he’s compatible with is his mom😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:18 PM
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my ex blamed his cheating on being mentally ill. i’m mentally ill. i have depression that i’ve struggled with since i was a young girl. you know what i did? sought out therapy, started confiding more in my family and friends about how i was doing, and stopped dating/ expecting some other person to carry my emotional baggage. now i’m doing much better and still working hard. cheating happens because they wanted it to. not because they’re depressed, anxious, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:15 PM
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