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DiscussionSuspicious-Pie-5356/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:23 PM
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Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:12 AM
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Marriage is not an indicator someone will stay with you. Literally 50% of all marriages end, no matter how badly you want it, if the other person in the relationship wants to leave, they will. I’m assuming your views align pretty closely with the OPs here; if you meet someone that is a perfect match for you personality wise, but you find out she has 1 more sexual partner than you’ve had, (assuming you have 1+ previous partner yourself) is that a dealbreaker for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:54 AM
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So you’re a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:28 AM
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It’s not necessarily about your partner’s having had sex with other men, it’s about knowing she knows what she’s doing and/or not believing that a woman’s number of partners decreases her value as a person. She had sex with someone else. S O F U C K I N G W H A T? When you finally lose your virginity, god forbid that girl breaks up with you or you break up with them. Are you now going to specifically look for people who have had exactly 1 previous partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:20 AM
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You’re not doing it well. The behaviors you listed are planets away from what cuckoldry is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:51 PM
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“Okay, today we’re going to be talking about cookies. Cookies are a food item made with two halves of a bun or roll, with ingredients betwixt them. What do you mean that’s not what a cookie is, that’s my definition for it???” That’s what you sound like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:46 PM
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Damn what’s wrong with the monthly wear? These are the ones i was prescribed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:04 PM
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I think compartmentalize would work better. You know these people have lives outside of the activities you’re doing with them, but you compartmentalize them in relation to what you’re doing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:40 PM
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Bruh, humans are emotional creatures, and those are literally things that he’s doing because his impulses are driving him to do so. What could those goals be driven by other than emotions? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:59 PM
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Honestly bro this is the energy we need here, your positivity is infectious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:56 PM
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Most definitely. I think we need to take race off of the census, entirely. They’ve been undercounting black people for decades. The term “hispanic” was invented by white people and has nothing to do with latino people at all. Supposedly the census “tells us who we are and where we are going as a nation, and helps our communities determine where to build everything from schools to supermarkets, and from homes to hospitals. It helps the government decide how to distribute funds and assistance to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:11 PM
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Like, your 80 year old grandad? Whatever, i can get over the mega boomers using outdated terminology they grew up with it, it’s still a red flag, but they’re not necessarily racist just ignorant. It’s fucking 2022, anybody in this sub is probably young enough to be able to discern why it’s a problem to do that. It has a negative connotation associated with it, and we’re more than just our skin color. People using “blacks” to refer to people is typically used as a means of trying to dehumanize th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:37 PM
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Referring to women as nothing but a wet crevice is…your contempt for women is astounding. A guy literally robbed me the other day and the worst thing i had to say about him was “what a fucking asshole” but you reduce women to a part of their anatomy because she what? Wasn’t up to par for your dating standards? That’s misogyny bruh, whether you want to admit it or not, your vitriol for women as a class of peoples is not justified by having a few mismatches. It’s pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:23 AM
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Lmfao that’s one misogynistic ass heart
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:13 AM
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And what do you have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:02 AM
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LMFAO 💀 i can’t take you seriously, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:32 AM
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Everything is toxic, dosage is the problem. If you get too much oxygen, that’s toxic for your body, it’s the same with anything. Moderation is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:07 AM
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I mostly agree with you in this thread but bruh. I literally work two jobs making over $18/hr, and i’m only 20 yrs old. If i wanna dick around for a couple of hours in the evenings playing skate 3 or minecraft so i can just have a little mind numbing fun, what’s the problem with that? Why would i regret it? Why should anyone regret it? Just because you play video games every day doesn’t mean you’ll regret your life. If you’re playing video games every day all day and you aren’t getting shit done…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:19 PM
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Bruh i had a whole long ass essay about why meeting your partner young like we did is your best bet and i switched apps and reddit refreshed smfh. Moral of the story, communication and your ability to vet are the most important thing. There was only one short period of time where me and my girlfriend were not in contact and it was because we had just broken up. We still loved each other very much but her parents just kept moving the goal posts. I met her when we were 14, her parents didn’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah for sure dude, i know so many people who were that type but they got to college and they went buck wild. I just think people are over exaggerating women’s “hoe phase” because they can actually get sex. Men would be doing the same shit if they could but the demand for dudes is lower, because women are more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:20 PM
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Bruh wtf 💀 Genuinely, wtf is wrong with you and other members of this sex? Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:42 PM
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You’re just doubling down on gender roles a bunch of dumb old farts came up with. If the couple has not yet had kids or is not planning on having kids, or is planning to adopt, 50/50 makes perfect sense. The problem is not 50/50, it’s the fact that it costs so much just to survive as a couple let alone with kids. I don’t particularly plan on having kids, but if i were to, i wouldn’t want to make the same mistake that my father did, which is working so much to provide for my family that i don’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:26 PM
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My point is that the colleagues that i was referring to are the same age as me and it’s not as rare as you think it is. I don’t even live in a highly religious area but lots of girls are the “stay at home and study” type, guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:04 PM
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Well, i hope you both can find the next best thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:44 PM
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I’m going into my 3rd year of college lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:41 PM
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That’s not true at all, just depends on your school and the people in it. I know so many girls who’ve never even held a boys hand bc strict parents and them focusing on school
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:08 PM
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Do you know why they didn’t accept your application?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:07 PM
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I think the meek and inoffensive ones are even more dangerous because you could be lulled into a false sense of, not security but their inability to harm. If someone is outwardly aggressive and violent, you know to stay away from them, if someone is harboring violent thoughts under a mask of ineptitude, it might be too late before you realize
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:40 PM
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FDS is not an accurate representation of the real world, nor any subreddit for that matter. People go to subs like that one and this one because they’re mad about the way the opposite sex has behaved. We like to act like we grow out of all of our childish behaviors but you’ll see this get traded back and forth over eons, and not just between men and women but between any groups that have had conflict in between each other. It’s as simple as “they started it” and you can go back and try to trace …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:35 PM
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Ikr, who woulda thunk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:20 PM
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Gender roles exist because it was beneficial to survival and people are averse to change. Nobody can tell anybody what will or won’t bring them happiness, that’s my whole point. What makes you happy will not make another person happy and vice versa. I’m so glad that you found what works for you, but it won’t work for everybody. Case in point, one of the most miserable times in my life, i was a believer in God. My happiest moments happened after i relinquished the idea that there is some kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:07 PM
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“Telling”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:38 PM
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It’s more than one motive. This is part of the problem with ppd. Y’all keep asking why a group of individuals does something when not all of those individuals engage in that behavior or have the same reasoning for that behavior. I’d say the vast majority of women don’t wear revealing clothing for male attention, male attention is just a byproduct of a man wanting to have sex, and male attention is easy to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:18 PM
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What drove you to seek goodness? Someone telling you to go do something good? Or you coming to the conclusion yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:51 PM
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What i’m saying is miserable people are unlikely to do anything for anyone else because they’re still trying to figure out how to do good for themselves. What do you think would happen if you told someone whose life’s miserable to go help somebody else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:05 PM
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40% of PPD men identify as incels?? Bruh that’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:56 PM
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Obviously people should strive to do good things but people who are miserable are not going out of their way to do good things. You have to start somewhere. Happiness is success, it’s not about amassing material things, it’s about finding what makes you get up in the morning. For some people that’s going to be raising a family, for others it’ll be their work, or their hobbies or whatever. Doing good will make you feel good, but if you’re only doing good things for that hit of dopamine you get wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:49 PM
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I mostly agree with your take but i think it is quite possible for a person to be happier that they don’t have a spouse and kids. I would imagine that the average people in intentionally child free marriages are just as happy if not more happy than the average married man with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:27 PM
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I disagree. You can’t help anybody else if you don’t help yourself. If you yourself are miserable you will tear others down in the process to make them miserable. Go ask an unhappy person how much they care about society lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:17 PM
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Are they happier because they’re married or are they married because they are people with fulfilling lives who were already happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:12 PM
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No, thinking that women’s “natural order” (his words not mine) is to be in a domestic role is sexist. People should be able to do what makes them happy, not what some schmuck says is the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:22 PM
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Men who are happy are the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:28 PM
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I just don’t see how people can say shit like this. He’s using the autonomy that living gives all of us, why shouldn’t women be allowed to do the same? “Humanity is less happy thanks to feminism” no, abusive men are less happy thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:27 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:44 PM
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I want to know where you got the idea marriage before sex benefited women in any way. Quit skirting around that. I’m already going and doing my own googling, i want your insight as to how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:43 PM
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Lmao ew no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:39 PM
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The suppositions of a 20 year old on reddit are not evidence. I’m not a historian, thinking about it by myself would do nothing but turn my head into an echo chamber. You have to actually find and read data and comprehend it, and not just intuit your way through real life problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:35 PM
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Lol all i did was be her friend for a while, asked her out and now i’m in the best relationship ever. If a relationship is analogous to heavy lifting for you from the start, it’s not for you bro. Just keep it pushing and keep leveling yourself up and women will be interested. Hold your standards but be realistic. Eventually, you’ll find the one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:29 PM
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I don’t think they’re losers, it was me at one point. You literally just have to throw yourself in and paddle like hell because the only other choice is drowning. When you’re averse to being social it makes things difficult for your life in general. I’m not one for throwing stuff on top of student’s work load for the hell of it but we should make public speech a part of the curriculum and teach it from like elementary school, so that way students have more exposure to dealing with stress and anx…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:24 PM
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And that’s why gender roles are fucking dumb, yo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:15 PM
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That’s not a biological feature of humanity, it’s a dumb analogy men made to have an excuse for being whores. Humans are not keys/locks, they’re people and if having sex is okay for one sex, it’s okay for the other. This is just a vestige of puritanical religious garbage, and no surprise it’s hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:14 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:06 PM
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Oh so you’re a homophobe, you can’t even hide it. LGBT+ PEOPLE ARE NOT BULLSHIT but everything you have to say sure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:48 AM
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“Every bi guy i’ve ever known eventually came out as gay” You’re allowed to make that claim. “Most men that are bi are actually just gay” This is unsubstantiated biphobic bullshit that you came to the conclusion to with nothing but anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:47 AM
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TL;DR he’s a trad con moron who just wishes women would go back to the kitchen, what’s new?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:43 AM
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Sounds like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:41 AM
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Lol i’m usually a fucking nihilist of the highest order but even i think you’re being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:27 PM
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Lol quit saying they, goofy. Own your poor choices. Your wife is gradually losing respect for you. Don’t project that onto other people who have perfectly healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:22 PM
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So why did you marry a woman like that? Not all women are like that bro, my girlfriend has never admonished me for expressing my feelings to her, i’ve cried in front of her like 3 times and we’ve cried together as well, she’s been my rock through thick and thin. Don’t generalize about women as a whole because you chose poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:52 PM
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Hypothetically, over time and with destigmatization, it could get a lot cheaper. But that wouldn’t benefit men of this decade. I don’t think it’d benefit men at all. Mfs are trying to take the easy way out with prostitution. It’s a fucking shame to me that it’s so hard to find men that value women for more than just their reproductive systems. Toxic masculinity and capitalism are the breeding grounds for men who buy sex and women who have no other choice to sell their bodies to support themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:45 PM
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When you’re that old, the emotional bond you’ve created with that person is more important than how they look, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:36 PM
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Nah bro, old people be FUCKING. Go look at the frequency of sti’s in nursing homes. 50 is way too early to stop having sex, barring medical complications, unless both parties’ libido has simply fizzled out already, which is not exactly likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:50 PM
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Okay i’m sorry too :( i was frustrated bc people just act like straightness is the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:27 PM
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Just stop talking about it if you can’t be bothered to figure out the terminology. You seem like a reasonably intelligently person, so idk why you’re so confused lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:01 PM
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Ace doesn’t make you homosexual either dude…bruh what are you on 💀 it really is not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:33 PM
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I believe that socialism, or at least some form of it, is the only way we’ll have true prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:34 PM
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Tf is up with you and liberals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:26 PM
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Honestly upon reading their comment again, my view has changed. I think the differences between the words “deserve” and “entitled to” are important here and i was more thinking they were using the word “deserve” like “entitled to.” I think that nobody is entitled to a partner, but people can deserve partners, i think i just have to pay attention to people’s tone. Saying you deserve a partner is very nice guy-ish; “i’m a nice guy, i deserve a girlfriend, i open doors, i’m polite, i pull out their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:47 PM
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Did you do any reading on the subject before coming to reddit and spouting off about shit you have nothing but anecdotal evidence for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:21 PM
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Nah she right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:18 PM
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The dudes who are like “nah i’m straight” but then 5 min later are like “lemme see that ass” are hilarious tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:14 PM
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I don’t think being demi makes you homosexual lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:52 PM
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Fuck the red pill but nobody deserves a partner. Either you find someone that loves you and will be loyal or you don’t, nobody’s entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:43 PM
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Oh thank god 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:55 PM
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No it suggests it’s a cheap meal so who gaf?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:57 PM
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I don’t think anyone under the age of 30 would use it unless they were really desperate tbh, only older people and really desperate people are paying to meet people. Dudes in this subreddit get peeved about paying for a $30 meal, lol they’re not signing up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:44 PM
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Damn homie you got the whole squad laughin 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:40 PM
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Lol pal i think you’re a lil confused on how they did shit in the 50s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:37 PM
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What purpose do you think telling a woman that their standards are too high will serve? Do you think she’s going to sit there and re-evaluate them because some chucklefuck on reddit said so? She’s gonna laugh and keep scrolling, i’d do the same. Your whole comment is moot. Women are not your play things to cater to your whims, find a likeminded one instead of bothering women who have standards you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:40 PM
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There are some traits i see in my girlfriend, that my mother has and they’re typically good traits, i just don’t like seeing my girlfriend act almost the exact same way my mom might.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:56 AM
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It stands to reason that the people who are spending all of their time on educational pursuits don’t have time to meet people, but i find it hard to believe you didn’t meet a single non virgin engineer. Maybe i’m biased, all my classmates are pretty chaddy for STEM guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:47 PM
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That’s a good take 🧐 but it’s not the same thing as what OPs saying. I don’t think the same audacity that soldiers have is the same kind of audacity that the average man has.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:06 PM
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No. Audacity- a willingness to take bold risks. rude or disrespectful behavior; impudence. The women the OP of this thread was referring to are talking about the second, and then he’s using the first definition as evidence as to why men having audacity is a good thing, but he’s not using the same definition of audacity that the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:51 PM
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My love for my girlfriend has only grown. We’ve never even fought, when we have disagreements we talk it out like adults. it’s wild i’m so not used to people just saying what they want and backing that up with their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:44 PM
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That’s such a dumb take, plenty of people have characteristics that define them in one way but not another. A person can be audacious in that he hopped up and saved a baby from a fire, or he could go on a random vacation without telling his girlfriend or something. Both of those things are audacious but I wouldn’t necessarily expect both of those behaviors from the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:20 PM
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They’re two entirely different reasons to use the word, they are two sides of the same coin, but only one side of the coin can be up at a time in this case. The men who are doing audacious things on the battlefield are not necessarily the same ones doing audacious things that women disapprove of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:17 PM
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You’re using an entirely different definition of the word. Your comment would work better with the word courage or bravery, because they are not using the word as you are using the word. I’ve never heard of audacity having a good connotation in regular conversation. Like, the word is almost a meme at this point “oh my word, the audacity” it’s very dramatic and typically used to characterize someone as having done something bold, but in a way that’s probably only self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:50 PM
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Lol boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:35 PM
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I didn’t say everyone should have high standards, i think everyone should have the standards that make sense to them. I feel like men’s standards have been so low for so long they act like regular shit that should be expected of people is out of pocket. I think you’re right, and it goes for women as well, you can’t expect shit of people you wouldn’t be willing to do yourself. Realistically not everyone will get to a place where they can have the highest standards but shit, everyone should strive…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:36 PM
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I don’t see how someone having high standards ruins dating. If that’s a dealbreaker for you, they’ve eliminated themselves from your selection process by demonstrating your incompatibilities and vice versa. They aren’t ruining anything, you just aren’t content that you couldn’t get laid with minimal effort. I absolutely abhor gender roles as well as the concept of “alphas and betas” but it’s beta as fuck to see a woman that has high standards and think “she should lower them.” Only a man who doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:25 PM
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Lol you don’t even have to interact with delivery drivers, they drop it off at your door if you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:59 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:52 PM
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Lol better than being a bootlicking wannabe dictator
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:33 AM
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Lol you sound like every other narcissist grasping for crumbs of power
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:18 AM
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“If we started at birth, we could slowly phase it in and people would be less prone to freaking out about it.” I believe that’s called indoctrination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:10 AM
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None of those women are chubby as far as i know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:36 PM
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It’s not my reality, sorry you have to live it. Me and my girlfriend are partners, i have no inclination to provide any more than she has any inclination to receive. Keep your ridiculous pseudoscience to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:47 PM
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Lol i can’t help you if you can’t read between the lines. Be discouraged from dating, whatever bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:35 PM
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Gender roles are fucking dumb, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:34 PM
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I just can’t give enough of a shit about being in great shape. I don’t have the time to enjoy my life and work out so fuck it. My girlfriend sticks around so 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:33 PM
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Planet fitness costs 2.48 to sign up for. No judgement bc i signed up and stopped going but there are options
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:31 PM
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That’s your own naïveté. A date is not necessarily a sign of intense interest, it’s to see if you are interested in learning more about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:22 PM
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I’m bisexual and it’s not a man/woman thing. If i were single and were to ask a dude out, it’s on me. Because I am pursuing them. It’s just a small gesture. For every dude out there like you, there’s a dude who doesn’t care about the $20 or whatever the fuck i spent bc i chose to pursue this person knowing it could end up going nowhere. Sometimes you don’t hit it big after rolling the dice. Tough luck. You’re allowed to have your boundaries. If you want to go 50/50, you do that, but don’t sit an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:21 PM
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That’s not how that works lol. Just bc 1/3 of women is like that doesn’t mean 1/3 of the women around you are like that. You just have to be good at assessing women’s interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:14 PM
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Lol i can’t imagine asking someone out on a date and then just because they weren’t interested not pay for their meal. I’m broke asf and i could still pay for their meal, if your finances are to the point where you can’t afford taking women out, stay your ass home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:04 PM
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I wouldn’t take a woman who’s indifferent to me out to eat. Anybody believes that alpha/beta bullshit is a moron. Other than that and your first comment, i mostly agree with your response
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:44 PM
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Because it’s only now becoming a societal norm that women can/should. And i mean, women in the past would purposely drop a handkerchief so a man would pick it up and go after them. It’s usually not direct but women do initiate interest in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:14 PM
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Women can ask people on dates too, and they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:58 PM
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If you ask someone on a date, you gotta pay for it. Simple as that. You’re lame as shit if you can’t even buy a woman, that YOU expressed interest in, a coffee. Any woman worth their weight in salt can afford that coffee, they don’t need you to buy it for them. You are a stranger. What’s in it for them? Their life is going perfectly great without you, so why should they want you? For your coffee money? Please. If you’re genuinely interested in a girl, you’ll want to buy her that coffee, and fran…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:33 PM
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Because people change their minds. I’ve changed my mind on dates. Isn’t this what dudes around here are usually asking for? A chance? She gave you a chance and you weren’t compatible. Big deal. Go out on another date with one of the other kajillion women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:43 PM
1

Lol dude that shouldn’t make you feel some type of way about women as an entire class. Just pay attention my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:38 PM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:43 PM
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That’s a dumb question bro. On a day to day basis you wear whatever the fuck you want and when you have a date you clean yourself up, go grab your nicest shirt, and throw on some cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:15 PM
1

The first two sets were using the intransitive verb and the noun form of the word. The verb form is the most suitable definition on the page you sent me. “to create a false or misleading impression” by not clueing his SO in to his mental health struggles he created the false/ misleading impression that there was nothing wrong. Regardless of whether we think it’s a lie, some people don’t tolerate hiding things, especially things of a serious nature such as this, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:34 PM
1

Thanks homie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:22 PM
1

I don’t care if anyone cares but myself and my girlfriend and she likes when i wear makeup 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:03 PM
3

Good crowd work lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:49 PM
2

“Society pummels constant anti masculine messaging into our brains” oh, brother 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:41 PM
0

Do you have an eyeliner you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:37 PM
1

To make me feel pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:36 PM
1

…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:34 PM
3

This is my favorite comment here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:19 PM
1

Ong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:19 PM
3

Hey i laughed at both of your comments, if it makes ya feel any better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:18 PM
1

This whole thread is just fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:17 PM
3

Thank you for coming here and saying this so I didn’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:15 PM
1

Thinks are okay on my end, i just wanted to drop the whole debate shtick for a while and just treat you guys like humans for once. I think we all get caught up in these pills and forget to remember that there are people with real life experiences that are just as valid as our own are; our lives while different, are all one and the same. We should just strive to treat each other better and things will probably work out alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:10 PM
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“Lying by omission is when a person leaves out important information or fails to correct a pre-existing misconception in order to hide the truth from others. “I didn't lie; I just didn't tell you.”” Now, i don’t think u/THUNDER-CUNT would disagree that he was omitting parts of the truth. A large event such as this would be something you tell your significant other about. I’m not trying to be callous, i think he’s completely justified in doing what he did, it was however a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:06 PM
3

How are you guys doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:08 AM
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a) if you’re in a healthy relationship, nobody is the boss, you’re partners and you get to share your grievances whenever you want to. b) neither of your parents were living a sustainable lifestyle and even if they were successful in this lifestyle for a time, you said yourself, that your father has serious health complications from his rugged worklife. C) your comment exemplifies exactly why women don’t want to be tied down to men, because you’re clinging onto antiquated ideals that people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:43 PM
3

It is a lie by omission but not an unjustified one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:10 PM
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The average cost to raise a single child over a duration of 18 years is around $1 million. That’s $55,000 a year. The average US income is only around $12,000 a year more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:19 AM
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Or maybe they’re in a perfectly healthy relationship?… and you’re just projecting your weirdness onto them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:40 PM
1

Yes Haha that’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:38 PM
1

Bro don’t wait too long, you don’t wanna be that guy with a unit bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:23 PM
2

People are so complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:20 PM
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As a CAD guy, i can’t say you’re not right about that one 🤣 life is literally just figuring shit out as we go along. Evolution is literally slowly throwing in random shit in the hopes that it works. “Oh, you mfs wanna go live the aquatic life? Here are some webbed toes, and gimme your hair, you don’t need that” it’s hard to conceptualize the processes that life must have undergone to get to where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:45 PM
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I don’t think that’s what most people think of when they think of a spark. A spark is based on more than just looks. It’s the giddy feeling you get when you talk to this person, like “wow, i can’t believe you exist” physical attraction is important, but not necessary for a spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:34 PM
1

Bro why you got me crying in a burger king? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:32 PM
2

But you’ve never gotten butterflies with your boyfriend? Like i mean maybe you’re just built differently, but 6 years later and my girlfriend still makes my stomach do backflips when i see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:30 PM
1

“Intelligent design” I always say, if the human body is so intelligently designed…why are my reproductive organs right next to/embedded in my waste removal organs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:25 PM
0

We definitely had two very different church experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:59 PM
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I think the moral landscape will be better in 20-30 years if we cast religion to the wayside. I think due to religion, many people act good so as not to go to hell and not because they want to do the right thing. Religion isn’t teaching people to respect themselves, to treat other people with respect, because it’s the right thing to do, it teaches people to do those things so they can save themselves from ashes and brimstone. It’s performative, virtue signaling bullshit, oftentimes and all it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:37 PM
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Oh man, that’s the icing on this utopia cake
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:53 AM
2

Ah okay, gotcha. I totally agree with you btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:47 PM
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Hell, everything he mentioned there is temporary. Tits sag, youth fades away, we all go gray some day, dicks stop getting hard, you could go broke any time due to any random set of unforeseen circumstances . At the end of the day, that shit is irrelevant. Is your partner going to weather the storm with you no matter what, and are you willing to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:29 PM
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I don’t hate it, i’d be cool with it if it not for how much of the trip you spend on the toilet. DXM + weed is much chiller. DXM + weed + nitrous is a transcendental experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:26 PM
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Least favorite: dxm - gives you the shits Most favorite: weed - top tier, levels everything out Honorable mentions: acid, shrooms, nitrous, dmt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:37 PM
5

r/nothingeverhappens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:19 PM
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If you’re only there because of one of those things, yes that is fetishization.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:18 PM
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Damn i found this really heart warming. I wish you both the best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:34 AM
2

For real, ¿por que no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:30 AM
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Dm me, shit is gonna get personal 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:50 AM
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You seem level headed and clear thinking for your age, you’re gonna be alright kiddo. I personally dgaf about being “masculine” and i’ve done okay for myself. You’re 16, you’re not done growing, it’s not the end of the world if you don’t end up in a relationship soon. Losing your virginity is overrated anyway, but i hope things go well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:57 PM
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Bro everybody just feels bad for you or doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:28 PM
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We just saw that the government is using the DNA from rape kits to incriminate victims, so i’d say no until LE can figure out due process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:44 PM
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you’ll never find the love of your life if you’re trying to change yourself to fit what you perceive as women’s criteria through people on the internet. You’ll have thousands of discussions and still get nowhere because this advice means absolutely nothing. Zilch. Nada. Cero. Go into the real world, be confident in yourself, and what you’re looking for will come to you. The more time you spend chasing relationships, the more they’ll slip away from you. Life’s funny that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:31 PM
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It’s not that big a difference, sorry you’re an asshole 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:14 AM
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You were talking about funny as fuck rotund guys and i am one, so i threw my 2 cents in, bc that’s how reddit works. Don’t believe me, just look and C4yourshelf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:40 AM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:07 PM
1

I don’t date anyone who calls themselves any of these dumb terms that ultimately only divide our ability to create effective legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:50 PM
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Me and my girlfriend don’t live together but i’m finally deprogramming myself of this “me man, me provide, ooga booga” mentality that men have and think they can’t be a masculine man without. It’s okay to let your significant other buy gifts for you, pay for dates, etc. i don’t understand why men have so many issues cleaning up their own home just because there’s a woman in the house. You have half the chores to do than you have to do normally, and some extra income. Silly, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:28 PM
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I decided to delete my comment, gonna go hit up a programmer friend of mine 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:04 PM
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I’m a funny as fuck rotund guy and i’m doing great for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:31 PM
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Thank you, some common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:19 PM
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I just don’t see the point in perpetuating this bullshit cycle. Life fucking sucks, i’m not going to bring a kid into this fucked up world and think that i can love and hope them into being alright, when i’ll probably just fuck em up trying to prevent the world from doing the same. Just like my dad did, just like his dad did. Fuck that. Me and my girlfriend are gonna stack our money and do whatever we want without being tied down to some crotch goblins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:43 AM
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The same thing people who don’t ever plan to have kids do? Create a safety net for yourself before you’re too old or get fucked by life. There’s not much else you can do about it, nobody owes anybody sex, relationships or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:13 AM
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A little boy and fat man sized bruh moment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:29 AM
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Scheduled sex is so lame lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:17 PM
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I’m in a committed relationship rn but when i was playing the field, there was no such thing as infidelity so 🤷🏽‍♂️ STDs are easy not to catch, always get tested regularly with your potential sexual partners. Also: https://www.reddit.com/r/news/comments/st8g41/scientists_have_possibly_cured_hiv_in_a_woman_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf If humanity survives long enough maybe we’ll cure all the stds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:21 AM
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Yeah i don’t think that post said anything about people using grooming as an “excuse”…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:49 PM
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LMAOOO they do be like that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:47 PM
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That doesn’t sound bad to me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:43 PM
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To add on to that, it’s not exactly helping his point that men in a relationship are more likely to cause physical harm to women than men outside. that’s your own point OP. If that’s the case, why should women date at all? And that’s part of why there are a lot less women on dating apps. If even 10% of men were the type to harm you, that means every 1 in 10 men that women meet are a potential threat. It’s easier to just avoid altogether. Maybe it’s paranoid but i’d rather be paranoid and alone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:43 PM
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Yeah no bro, the only time i ever think about you goofies is when you pop up in my reddit timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:13 AM
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Hell fucking yeah, my fellow human being
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:09 AM
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I was referring to the entire population of the planet, if you really wanted to and had the means, you could go to any other country and try dating there. Even if you’re only referring to the united states, and if you’re not a major asshole, there are probably still thousands of options for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:35 PM
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It’s kinda dumb. Are there people who behave like that? Absolutely. Is it “women’s nature?“ fucking laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:31 PM
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I’m in a fully committed relationship, sorry pal ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:11 PM
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There are nearly 8 billion people on this planet, it’s very likely you could go through 26 of them and not find the one for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:07 PM
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Literally what she’s saying is that if you’re a promiscuous man who wants a non promiscuous woman, you’re an asshole. You don’t check those boxes so why are you being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:57 PM
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✨Religion✨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:33 PM
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I can’t tell if you edited your comment or if i just smoked too much weed bc i stg that “as” was not there before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:47 PM
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Not the most important thing =/= not important
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:33 PM
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Malcolm gladwell has a ted talk saying that students who rank at high levels at lower level schools do better in the career world than people who rank at low levels at high level schools. Basically, you’re better off going to a community college unless you’re certain you’ll be in the top percentiles of performance at an ivy league school. The person who ranked 1st at a good community college might be a better pick as an employee than the person who ranked 5th at harvard because the mentality man…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:30 PM
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Alright well hold your breath when necessary, find a rhythm, don’t forget to breath. I suggest you go eat some ox tails and some crab legs, when the bones and shells don’t have a scrap of meat on them, you know your training has done you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:59 PM
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How long can you hold your breath?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:46 PM
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It’s not something inherent in their psyche, parents tell little boys “you’re a man, don’t cry,” “you gonna let that girl beat you in (insert competition here) ??,” your peers tell you you’re a pussy if you show any emotion. They tell so many young boys bullshit like this and it ruins their sense of self worth and the only thing that makes them feel “like a man” is machismo bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:35 PM
-1

This is why i hate this fucking sub, because statistics aren’t everything. They’re a good way of predicting things on paper. But real life is much more complicated than a bunch of numbers on a paper, even if the chances are low, they’re not that damn low that you could so arrogantly and confidently make the statement that she won’t get married just because she’s black.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:24 PM
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Yeah no, we can leave traditional masculinity in the trash can where we left it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:19 PM
0

Drake? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:15 PM
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Thank you, my girlfriend just saw me cry the other day when my grandfather passed of covid. That’s a legitimate reason to cry. I could understand if a woman wasn’t attracted if i cried when my fucking tamagotchi died but seriously? How brutal must a person’s life have been for them to get like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:08 PM
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If that’s your opinion on women, your perspective is extremely skewed and/or you’ve been around shitty women your whole life. I’ve been in love with the woman of my dreams for 7 years and she’s been right alongside me the whole way. I don’t make much money but we’re perfect for each other and that’s all that matters. You seem to think yourself and “the average woman” think the same way and you’d be so wrong in that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:18 AM
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You’ll get destroyed because those are obsolete puritanical values than only morons espouse nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:33 PM
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No, you got cheated on because those people were pieces of shit. That may have been what attracted them to cheating but everyone is responsible for their actions. They chose to cheat because their own sexual gratification was more important to them than doing right by you, and they would have done it with a dude with a smaller penis if they thought they would benefit from it. It’s not about the dick, your exes were just being selfish pricks. I’m no gigantic monster cock wielder but my girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:46 AM
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The point is it doesn’t matter if you have a small(er) dick if you know what you’re doing. Some women are gonna care about your dick size but women typically don’t cum from just PIV. My girlfriend has a vibrator, am i supposed to be insecure because my cock doesn’t have a motor inside it spinning at 1000rpm? Be realistic. If a girl is choosing to be with you and you’ve deemed her good enough to be with you, that’s all that matters, who gives af what some dude in her past got to do with her, is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:34 AM
-2

It’s not even a hypothetical. There are so many dudes with big dicks that have no clue what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:23 AM
1

but getting a participation trophy of a girlfriend is a “maybe,” huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:34 PM
1

I mean, is she a girl you talk to regularly or have you just been crushing on her and you gave her a valentine? What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:26 PM
1

Okay pretend it just says “people who hate 50/50, why?“ 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:47 PM
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Is it hypocritical for you to want a woman that doesn’t have every single one of your features? If your answer is no, then why is it hypocritical for women to expect you to be on the same level as them in some areas and lower/higher in others? Don’t judge a fish for it’s ability to climb a tree, we’re all capable of some things, and incapable of others. It’s always going to be incongruous because individuals have different expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:45 PM
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“From a distance” the reason why many women are adamant about social media is they don’t ever have to get near you to approximate trustworthiness, social status, if you follow a bunch of half nude instagram models, whatever. I’m sure you’re a wonderful guy but there’s little benefiting women from taking the risk of ending up in a secluded area with a man that they haven’t vetted with the standards they’ve chosen. It sucks but i’m sure women would be alright with missing “the one” if it ensures t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:24 PM
1

I mean short of hiring a private investigator, what can you do to vet a person from a distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:52 PM
1

It that were the truth, most of these people wouldn’t even be in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:07 PM
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It’s a range of “asshole to psychopath” and it only takes one of those introduced into your life for your life to go downhill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:21 PM
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Not saying you’re a threat to people but someone who wants to cause harm to someone is not a reliable source of information. You can’t check if a person has a criminal history with that person, if they want to tell you the answer that sounds right and not the truth, they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:58 PM
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It was a reddit generated one lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:01 PM
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I didn’t say a nice person without social media couldn’t exist. I said women use social media as an indicator that a person has a social life, is not currently in a relationship, is not a creep, etc. everyone gets put on trial in dating. You’re judged, you judge them, if you both conclude you want to date, you do. If their insistence with social media is an issue for you, move along and if your lack of social media is an issue for them, they’re free to move along as well. Yes i do go through lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:26 PM
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And you don’t think your entitlement to women’s youth and bodies is rude? Excuse me, you must be an Adonis God King deserving of all the carnal pleasures! /s you’re allowed to want younger women, but your choice of the word “unfair” leads me to believe that you think you deserve a relationship in the first place. It’s not a birthright and the way you talk about women as if their only purpose is to be young and fuck you is probably why you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:28 PM
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It’s not just the traditional social media, if you express interest in a woman, expect that she’s googling the shit out of you. I would be concerned too, if i googled a person (granted they had an uncommon name) and found nothing? Absolutely nothing? Not a LinkedIn, not an upwork, nada? It can be kind of suspicious if there’s no online trail of a person at all.There are online background check services that can give you people’s zip codes, addresses even, all you need is a DOB and a name. So if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:17 AM
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Do you think that our biology doesn't influence our behavior? Influence? yes ;determine? no Do you think evolution doesn't select for behavior? Do you think that evolution would not select for something that makes "survival easier"? Humans are still affected by evolution but there are so many factors, the internet, the cost of living, mental health, etc etc. maybe evolution did select for the gender roles that increased survival in the past, however those roles are no longer necessary for the su…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:36 AM
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Your flair has me dying, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:53 AM
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First of all, I’m sorry you had to go through that. We have to shout stories like this from the rooftops because men don’t understand. I didn’t understand until my female friends shared their experiences with me. A friend of mine was getting hit on by a man that could be her grandad. She went home crying, telling her father about about what happened and he said “Well, you’re dressed like a prostitute, that’s what you get” Another friend of mine, her own father let his old pervert of a friend sne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:32 PM
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Obviously female therapists wouldn’t have to do that if they didn’t have so many male patients posing a threat towards them. It’s not a condemnation of men, it’s the reality that men who have mental illness and who are going to a therapist’s office are potentially aggressive and it makes no sense to put a woman in a situation like that with a man whose mental health is in an undetermined state.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:22 PM
2

You’re attracting the wrong kinds of women if you have to compare them to guns
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:16 PM
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“Human male breastfeeding is possible,[6] but production of the hormone prolactin is necessary to induce lactation, so male lactation does not occur under normal conditions.[7] When it does occur, hyperpituitarism is indicated. Also, the male breasts lack special lobules[clarification needed] that is present in both male and female.[citation needed][contradictory] Domperidone is a drug that can be used to increase lactation. Male lactation has also been seen during recovery from starvation. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:18 AM
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As long as you have the option, that’s fine by me, it’s up to you and your partner how you handle finances/child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:54 AM
1

That makes more sense i was confused af for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:04 PM
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Treated differently in relationships/dating/marriage or treated differently as human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:27 PM
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Your DNA makes you a human, gender roles are just something we came up with to make survival easier. We are no longer hunting and foraging for survival, or building civilization, civilization is here. The idea that a person has to act a certain way because they were born with a certain set of genitals is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:08 PM
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Asexuality has not been pushed, disregard for gender roles has. The reason why they’re so dumb is because nobody fits in them perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:58 PM
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I’m sorry for being pedantic, i’m just a high ass word nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:47 PM
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I think gender is trending towards “we’re just people.” Women are independent now and that doesn’t mean their gender role is “independent woman” it means we’re trying to put people on a level playing field. I’m not an incel or a chad, does that mean i’m not a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:47 PM
1

You’ve brought up an interesting etymological inquiry. Would the use of these things be a social construct? “an idea that has been created and accepted by the people in a society Class distinctions are a social construct” So they themselves would not be social constructs but the idea that they are good to have would be a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:39 PM
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I don’t think they’re necessary at all. For a long time it was “man work, man mow yard, man fix car. Woman make baby, woman take care of baby, woman cook and keep house clean” i don’t think it’s conducive for healthy relationships, it creates resentment. I think it makes more sense for people to be DINKs until their 30s and then if you want to have kids, do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:36 PM
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He said those things were social constructs, i was just correcting him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:32 PM
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“Healthy gender roles to return” 🤣 elaborate on that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:10 PM
3

Contraception, abortion clinics and std clinics aren’t social constructs. They’re physical constructs, they just have social consequences. Laws are a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:06 PM
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AWALT. Many red pillers are conservative and disagree with terms such as “ACAB” “Well if you don’t mean ALL cops are bad then why say it?“ but then turn around and make dumb generalizations. Some back pedal and the worse of them double down and say they were being completely literal in their statement of “AWALT”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:54 PM
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Ew a creationist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:18 PM
0

I’m talking about the united states
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:46 PM
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It’s really fucking not. They weren’t allowed to vote or work. They were essentially in indentured servitude, they had no means of educating themselves, providing for themselves. If you had no choice but to clean, cook, fuck and rear children you’d try to make it so that you could choose whatever path in life you wanted, correct? Why wouldn’t women be afforded that same luxury?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:18 PM
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Notice that they said the return of female oppression. Women were historically oppressed and women don’t want to go back to that, silly goose
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:55 AM
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“Raw sacrifice” is this satire bro? We literally have it the easiest people have ever had. Motherfuckers used to have to fight off wild animals, hunt and forage for the ability to mate and all you have to do to find a mate is what a healthy adult should be doing in a relationship anyway. I think the issue many of us have is we think the genders are monolithic. Fact of the matter is you’re right and you’re wrong at the same time. Some women will want all of the values you’re referring to, some wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:51 PM
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Happens all the time, OF women want to exploit horny men for their wallets without having to physically touch them. Ofc some of girls are pornstars, or have an active sex life but a lot of them are solo sex workers who just want to pay their rent. I can understand why some women would do it, they get sexualized every time they step out their front door, might as well get rich off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:58 PM
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We weren’t made to get married and have children, there is no innate purpose to life, we’re all just some mildly evolved apes trying to survive on this dumb rock that’s shooting through the cosmos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:54 PM
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The most rational comment here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:46 PM
16

“Model” or “producer, director and photographer for a short film company” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:44 PM
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What a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:04 PM
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Idk i can’t speak for those, if people feel the need to use those labels to try to explain themself, all good. I think it gets weird when you have the people with dozens of genders/labels, but i really think that’s a consequence of gender roles being a thing in the first place. A bunch of old dudes decided: this is a man, a man does x, this is a woman, a woman does y. We’re all individuals and i don’t think there’s any concrete way to claim that a person born of a certain sex is going to act a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:59 PM
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It’s not supposed to be sugar coating garbage, it’s just like shorthand. The largest trend in language is the abbreviation or truncation of phrases and/or words, because humans are lazy. Why would i say i’m sexually attracted to both sexes but only romantically attracted to women if i could just say i’m bisexual and hetero-romantic. Some people do just want to feel special and it’s sad they feel like they have to assume an identity to be their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:14 PM
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There is no high horse, i don’t think i’m better than anyone. Most people are garbage, just different flavors, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:01 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:58 PM
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That’s not what it means at all but i’m glad it works at filtering the garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:54 PM
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Who am i, the reddit police? Say what you want to, i believe in express consent not canceling people for an errant kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:39 PM
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It’s never ruined a moment for me 🤷🏽‍♂️ live your life and i’ll live mine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:20 PM
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You’re a man, you have the luxury of not having to be on edge because you know you can defend yourself. I’m not a pussy for having empathy for women who don’t want their boundaries crossed. I didn’t say anything about police or social media, you jumped to your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:23 AM
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Okay weirdo 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:44 AM
2

$500 says i go orgasmless from next tuesday to 1 month past that date and that you can’t do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:30 AM
2

I could give up masturbating, you said give up orgasms. I have a girlfriend to attend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:15 AM
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What a sad outlook on life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:04 AM
1

I agree with you but i think guys should step away from making advances on women they’re so early in a relationship with. I think of myself as a pretty sociable person, i can read social cues and i still don’t just lean in and kiss a girl because i think she’s given me a signal. It’s never once, ever harmed me in the pursuit of a woman to say “i would really like to kiss you right about now” and waiting for their response. Even a head nod will work. But if you say something like that and they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:04 AM
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If an ugly woman or a man kissed you, how would you react?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:59 PM
2

You have such an odd obsession with what your biology “dictates.” You’ve created the “alcoholic paradox” as i’m going to call it. I can’t say i’m choosing to masturbate because it’s my choice, bc you’ll just use that as evidence of “my biology” and i can’t say i could stop masturbating whenever i wanted because “that’s what an addict would say” Touché.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:38 PM
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You are the person who made the claim. Unless you can prove that males have no biological meaning other than depositing sperm, the burden is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:25 PM
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It depends on the somebody. My girlfriend is the only person on this planet who gets to touch me without asking, and she still asks. Nowhere near as exaggerated as the video but boundaries are defined by the individual. If you don’t care if people do that, that’s all you but if you haven’t discussed boundaries with this person yet, then kissing them is obviously off the fucking table, and if you don’t have the social awareness to recognize that, i can’t help you. If someone has a negative reacti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:19 PM
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That doesn’t make it your biological purpose. Biological imperative sure, but you don’t get to tell anyone what the purpose of their life is. And it’s a dumb argument you’re making. Orgasm =/= Procreation. Never once have i ever had an orgasm to procreate and i don’t plan on it. I don’t want children and i don’t have to fight my biology not to. I want sex, i want orgasms but not procreation. To prove you wrong, all i have to do is willingly go my whole life without procreation and that was alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:56 PM
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Masturbation and sex are two different things. You don’t need anybody else’s say to masturbate. You do need someone else’s say to have sex. I’m not advocating for no orgasms. I’m advocating for people to think beyond procreation. I masturbate because it’s fun, it feels good but i wouldn’t die if i stopped masturbating. You have an innate fear of death, procreation is the only way for humans with nothing to show for their lives to feel as though they’ll “live on”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:40 PM
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I didn’t say don’t pursue them, they’re just not where your meaning in life comes from, unless you prescribe it as such. I think orgasms are an evolutionary incentive to keep sentient beings from getting bored of procreation. The only other animals that have sexual behavior outside of procreation are the ones research has shown to have higher levels of cognition, i.e. chimps and dolphins. You’re capable of things much more noteworthy than procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:28 PM
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“Sexual assault is an act in which one intentionally sexually touches another person without that person's consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their will.” So i would say the determining factor is what you mean by felt up. To me that sounds like touching someone sexually without their consent. If people touch other people inappropriately, that should not go with 0 repercussions. People need to keep their hands to themselves, unless given permission…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:23 PM
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If one of those adults doesn’t want to be kissed and the other engages a kiss, it’s no longer two people agreeing to an intimate situation, it’s one person assuming that the other person is okay with them laying their mouth on them and doing it solely because they perceived there to be “a moment.” I can’t imagine kissing someone for the first time and not asking permission, or stating my desire. Just because you’re in an intimate situation with someone doesn’t mean you’re entitled to do any inti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:10 PM
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I’ve had mindblowing orgasms, delivered by myself or my girlfriend, none of them ever made me think “this is my purpose” Music is my greatest purpose, nothing feels better than making music i like. I love my girlfriend but i couldn’t have sex with her every second of every day of my life. But i could spend the rest of my life creating new things and never get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:54 PM
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Sex is great, orgasms are great, masturbation is great. If i didn’t have the urge to do those my life would be even better probably. They don’t cross anywhere near the top 5 most important things in my life, they’re just a part of my life i quite enjoy, but if i lost my dick, what am i gonna do, shrivel up and die?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:40 PM
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I want people to stop hiding behind their biology because they have no self accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:27 PM
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Ok and? Are you weaker than your biology? If no, then it’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:26 PM
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Reddit is a distraction from the futility that is life, like most other activities humans engage in. Lots of good has probably come from reddit, no good is inherently had at the creation of new human beings, it’s the way their lives are lived that means something. Reddit gives me no meaning in life, neither would having a child. Ultimately nothing i do will ever be of any importance, just like most other people. But i’m damn sure going to try to enjoy it while i’m here, since i’m doomed to exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:23 PM
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But it sounds like you’re arguing for men not to work towards being better than just their primal urges. I.e. “boys will be boys” or “there’s nothing wrong with us, it’s biology” no, we’re animals but we’re sentient beings, you have more to you than “fill woman with seed ooga booga” and allowing men to resign to that kind of attitude would result in the most depravity that society has ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:14 PM
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There is no biological meaning of life, we’re on a rock plummeting through space and you procreating means nothing on the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:07 PM
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So what. You’re an infinitesimally small part of this universe. Our society means nothing to the universe, it only means something to us. Your life means whatever the fuck you want it to be. My life means whatever the fuck i want it to be. You are not a being incapable of sentience, incapable of your own thoughts, dreams and perspectives. If procreation is your #1 goal in life, have fun doing that, but there are some of us who are not slaves to our base impulses, and don’t derive our meaning fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:46 PM
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Okay, whatever, men feel a biological urge to procreate. Does that mean you should base your meaning of life in procreation? No!! If your entire meaning of life is procreation, who would want to procreate with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:27 PM
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Your biology responds to your environment. It was important for males to impregnate as many women as possible when human numbers were dwindling. There’s 8 billion of us fuckers on this planet, we’re in no dire need of people, you’re only arguing for your most primal urges, not anything that really matters. Humanity is more than just some dumb baby making machine, or at least i hope we aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:15 PM
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And this is precisely why less women are marrying and/or waiting until later in life for marriage. It is illogical for women to put themselves in the position of a dependent as a grown adult. Many men want a housewife and women are trending away from that, for a variety of reasons, namely safety. I think many men want marriage, but don’t want to put themselves in a position where they’ve lost all/a significant portion of their assets. I’m personally not the biggest fan of marriage as an institut…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:46 PM
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That’s typically a result of puritanical religious values, which aren’t universal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:57 PM
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Have you ever been to a nursing home or an assisted living community? Literally stds are a serious problem because the old people are banging all their neighbors , old people get action too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:55 PM
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Who gives a shit about the pope?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:36 PM
1

I mean i’m weird, but i’m not a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:07 PM
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Yeah people are just weirdos all around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:50 PM
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I’m quite ashamed of the members of my sex, so sorry homie did you like that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:43 PM
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I was going to be a forever boyfriend but then my girlfriend was like “if one of us ends up in the hospital, the other wouldn’t have any right to make medical decisions for the other.“ So now i’m pretty sold on getting married to her in the future. I plan on spending the rest of my life with her, i can get us a paper that makes sure we’re by each other’s sides when we absolutely have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:40 PM
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I mean, you said don’t be fat twice, and if your comment was any longer i’d have to wager you would have said it again. I don’t know many guys that are that adamant about not dating a fat woman but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:30 PM
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If we’re going to refer to the dating pool as the sexual marketplace, it should be a free market. The consumers decide the prices. The price is determined by whatever the consumer is willing to pay. You don’t pay with money, you pay with your qualities as a person. The difference between an irl marketplace and the sexual marketplace: everybody is both the consumer and the product. (I’m high as shit so feel free to tear this analogy apart)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:26 PM
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Damn, not even a “hi?” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:19 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:14 PM
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There’s a difference between forcing yourself to socialize and forcing your social interactions. If you’re cripplingly introverted, maybe starting out with the sex of your attraction, isn’t the way to go about it. And definitely trying to “pick them up” isn’t going to do you any good. It’s one thing if it’s teaching young men to have genuine social interactions but it’s not, it’s just teaching dudes how to get over rejection, just so they can throw themselves at women shamelessly and with little…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:27 AM
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If you stopped wasting your time on being a PUA, you might actually figure out how to socialize normally and stop forcing all your social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:11 PM
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I think the whole low value/high value thing is stupid. It’s so subjective and arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:06 PM
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You seem smart and introspective enough not to get caught up in the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:53 PM
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Man this is not the place for you to learn about dating. I know it especially must suck not being able to get out the house but you’re so much better off just experiencing it for yourself than reading stuff, especially from TRP community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:03 PM
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Lol enjoy being two people who live together with a fancy paper with kids, special sally 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:08 PM
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I’m a man. I don’t need to lead my girlfriend, she’s brilliant all on her own. I don’t want anyone to submit to me, and i don’t submit to anyone, i own my own business. “A duty a husband has to his wife to lead” 🤣 Bro, the only duties you have are to be respectful, faithful, loving and caring. All the other shit is artifacts of religious bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:05 PM
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Women are only doing what they weren’t allowed to do for centuries. Women in this century are taking advantage of all the freedoms their predecessors never got to. Dudes have had the option to educate themselves, work for themselves, earn money, buy homes, and choose a wife or play the field and women largely don’t want to play the support role anymore. At least not like that. There’s little incentive for intelligent, hardworking women in the 21st century to be in relationships with men who thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:40 PM
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You really could have left that 2nd sentence out and gotten your point across just as effectively without denigrating the marriages of numerous people who decide not to pump more crotch goblins out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:28 PM
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If you find it repulsive when a woman has casual sex than you better not be having casual sex yourself. If it’s repulsive for them, it’s repulsive for you to get your silly little willy wet too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:18 PM
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Man if you have to read a book to approach women, you’re doing it wrong. Just talk to people and then talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:11 PM
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Do you think going to work and providing for yourself is inherently a manly thing? If so, why? Just because that’s how it was for a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:57 AM
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Idgaf about your stupid pills, that’s why all you idiots are single or stuck in an endless cycle of casual sex without meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:17 AM
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Could also be a woman, and her girlfriend is just her female friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:26 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/shzaun/what_are_the_benefits_to_dating_a_red_pill_man/hv6a3gf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:34 PM
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Me and my girlfriend don’t live together. She’s getting her nursing degree and i run my own businesses. By the time we’re living together, she might be making more than me, easy 70k a year. I make enough money to support myself, pad my savings and pour the rest of my money back into the business. Would that make me a mister mom?, if i made sure the house was clean, considering she wouldn’t even be home that often at the start of her nursing career. imagine your masculinity being so fragile that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:31 PM
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Dude maybe the majority of guys probably don’t even know about half the bullshit we spend our times talking about on these dumb sub reddits, i think i’m done, none of these discussions matter. People are going to be who they are and they can only go on their own journey of exploration through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:02 PM
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Enjoy your “truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:12 PM
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Isn’t that just about everybody? Your looks attract mates, if they like your personality, they stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:57 PM
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Wow, that’s just about the saddest thing i’ve ever read. I mean is love just a bunch of chemicals telling humans to mate? Could be. Maybe love isn’t real but if love isn’t real, what is? I think that’s exactly why you can say love is special, not everybody gets to experience it. How special would something be if everyone had it? “Love can’t be real because it results from shallow things”? Physical attraction is a small small part of the relationship. It’s important, you need it, but once you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:16 PM
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Dm me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:18 PM
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Be funny more than anything else, the more time she spends laughing, the less time she spends looking at ya
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:16 PM
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How much can I understand women? You act like they speak another language inherently. Talk to them. I own my own business, and i found my niche so i never really work. Idek if i’m adjusted now tbh lmaoo. Sex game is great. Listening and persistence are the two most important things. You can please any woman, as long as you follow her instructions and keep going until she tells you to stop. When you’ve dated the same woman for a long time, you learn all her cheat codes. It’s extremely rare to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:13 PM
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If you subject your partners to poor hygiene, you are an asshole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:59 AM
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I didn’t say “red pill lies”, i said “my disdain for red pill lies (as in, is aligned with) in...” Hate red pill? No i hate machismo bullshit and red pill is a whole lot of machismo bullshit. Your comments reek of machismo bullshit. What you describe is not a partnership, you think that you should be the captain by default. Both of you are the captain at all times, and you shouldn’t make moves without one another. If you’re not choosing to make the same moves quickly with healthy, civil discours…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:58 AM
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You make broad sweeping generalizations about what “women” do or don’t like and you’re bitter about them. I live in the fucking hood dude, can’t get much trashier than florida in general. Unless you’ve dated hundreds of thousands of women, you’ve never had a sample size large enough to make most of the claims you’ve made. Manipulation is what shitty people do. Men have physical prowess so they have less reason to rely on manipulation, and many men do use their physical prowess at the detriment o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:28 AM
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As long as you’re treating dating like a game that requires “strategy”, “winning” or “a playbook”, you will not find love. “Red pill men” don’t find love, they find a woman dumb enough to be their indentured servant or have casual sex with. If you feel you have to keep your thoughts about these things away from your romantic partner, you shouldn’t be with them. If you purposefully keep your thoughts about these things away from your romantic partner, so that you can have access to sex, that’s bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:34 AM
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There’s a distinction between being attractive and sexually attractive. And both are subjective. I’m fat, i wouldn’t consider myself attractive, yet i have a hot ass girlfriend. Just don’t be an asshole, don’t be ugly and stop feeling entitled to other people’s attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:23 AM
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It’s a broad generalization that may or may not even be true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:34 PM
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I’d hate to live in the world you do, guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:12 PM
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People with massive disfigurements find love too, unless you’re literally an oompa loompa i think you’ll be okay. “Whether you think you can or not, you’re right”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:04 PM
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Find a woman who has your values or come to terms with dying lonely 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:43 PM
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Or you could find a woman that doesn’t give af about stupid gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:07 PM
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The problem isn’t that you have a term for hot dudes, it’s that you think that just because they exist you’re incapable of getting a romantic partner. Have some fucking confidence, mate, even fake confidence works to start with. Fake it till you make it, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:42 PM
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That’s called life buddy. Some guys are just hotter than you. Big fucking deal. Michael B Jordan exists yet my fat ugly ass still has a hot girlfriend. Don’t be an asshole and it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:16 PM
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Dude, it’s hard for you to keep a woman around because you believe in terms like “chad” unironically. Get a fucking hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:59 PM
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I’m fr like, the songs he makes can be pretty hit or miss and when he was younger he could be a little whiney sounding but he’s definitely improved, i’ll give him credit where it’s due. He’s no prodigy like they made him out to be but a solid musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:38 PM
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Yeah but those aren’t complete anatomical replicas of a person, they’re body parts (analogs thereof, whatever) and they’re typically to scale with the real life thing. A small scale whole human body sex doll sounds like the yellow brick road to pedoville
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:35 PM
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You’re almost right. We’re all individuals, we want different things and it has nothing to do with gender. I’m a man and idgaf about my girlfriend’s virginity. She didn’t care about my experience when we first started having sex bc she knew i wanted to commit to being in a monogamous relationship with her and that i care about her pleasure. You can’t have a healthy relationship if you start out with antiquated, puritanical concepts such as “virginity” and ladies would lose a lot of quality guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:33 PM
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That means you find a woman who’s a virgin, if that matters to you so much. But only if you can hold men to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:45 PM
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I think a small scale sex doll would be a lot weirder…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:37 PM
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If you enter a monogamous relationship and fuck someone else, you cheated. The hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:32 PM
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Noooo ofc not, it’s a replica of you so she doesn’t miss you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:09 PM
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Just don’t be ugly and do be funny. The more time she spends laughing, the less time she spends looking at you. You can even be fat, just be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:03 PM
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Justin bieber is actually a pretty great singer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:58 PM
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You can’t gauge a person well enough based on the first date. If you want to have a long term relationship with someone, having sex with them will make you form a bond to them and cloud your judgement. If you don’t want to have a long term relationship with them, having casual sex isn’t going to influence you into wanting one with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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