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| 3 | How do you respond to "You're a feminist, yes?"The only answer I’d give is “l believe in equality of the sexes.” If they interpret that as an affirmative assertion for Feminism then correct them with “that’s not what I said. l believe in equality of the sexes.” | /r/MensRights | 26/07/26 02:24 AM |
| 126 | Why are men expected to accept the responsibilities of fatherhood before they are allowed certainty?Women are completely unable to empathize with men on this issue. They can’t understand that simply accepting her word is just not good enough when your investment of almost staggering amounts of money, time, energy and emotional investment hinges on whether or not the child is yours. This runs counter to the current zeitgeist of “believe all women” while expecting you as a man to completely change your life because all she said was “it’s yours”. Until you have certainty do not acknowledge patern… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/26 08:09 PM |
| 11 | Anti- Antifeminist Censorship is becoming reality in CanadaFEMINISM IS NOT A MORAL GOLD STANDARD AND STOP FRAMING ITS CRITICS AS MEMBERS OF HATE GROUPS! | /r/MensRights | 15/07/26 04:20 AM |
| 14 | Measuring MankeepingEven when men do have friends there’s a high likelihood that their wives don’t like them and probably do just as much “emotional labor” to cut them out of her and her husband’s lives. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/26 01:33 AM |
| 13 | Men’s happinessIt is a common occurrence. Just remember that, absent any additional context in which you are truly not adhering to your responsibilities, this is a “them” problem and not a “you” problem. So don’t be afraid to push back against them and tactfully explain your boundaries. If that doesn’t work then become more assertive in enforcing your boundaries. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/26 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Men being the sole providers is an unrealistic expectation in 2026.It’s a two-income per household kind of economy these days. But too many people expect men to remain the sole provider. Also if you find yourself married to someone who either cannot or will not work and one of you pulls the trigger on divorce, there is a good chance you will continue to pay alimony and they are incentivized to push for sole custody and child support. Also if the divorce becomes contested, then you’re on the hook for legal fees both for you and the soon to be divorced spouse. Wh… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/26 04:57 AM |
| 4 | Accepting and embracing the situationA bachelor is usually a smart man with a spine who rejected toxic women who tried to destroy his peace. He is a man who knows that there are too many women out there who are a net negative to his life and has concluded that it’s better to remain single rather than get entangled in a relationship with any of them. Another possibility is that a bachelor could have no clue how to talk to women and is hopelessly single. In this case he’s probably better off single but just doesn’t know it. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/26 06:21 AM |
| 94 | Delivery driver, 21, who hit and killed pedestrian while she was speeding to drop off a pizza is spared jailIf she were a man she’d been in jail. If she were a man who killed a woman she’d be in prison for life. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/26 11:59 PM |
| 25 | To American MRAs: Here is some ammunition. While European girls go to Thailand, 18yo boys are cleaning ambulances for below minimum wage (the draft argument).Also I would like to add that in America what a lot of people don’t understand is that the government still maintains the infrastructure for the draft. For example in the Army National Guard, which a reserve component of the US Army, each state has a part-time selective service officer. It is a Lieutenant Colonel position whose job it is to liaison with state, county and municipal governments to collect information and maintain cooperative relationships with these governments. They do this so th… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 06:04 AM |
| 11 | Is Male Violence Truly An "Epidemic?"If anything I think male violence is actually at an all time low. I just simply don’t hear about as much violence being committed by young men as I did when I was young. That’s purely anecdotal but it makes sense given the times we live in. 30 years ago young people hung out all the time in groups sometimes doing stupid shit which included violence which often went undocumented since cell phones with cameras didn’t exist. Today young people don’t hang out as much in person and spend more time on… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/26 05:38 AM |
| 14 | The idea that men are the ones who have power over women is so stupid when you consider that usually women are allowed to vote for pro-war policies and men are the ones who get draftedIn that case I will make you a deal. If women universally agree to have absolutely no say in whether male-only conscription should be used then I will agree to have no say on any of those policies with the exception of Title IX. Not gonna happen. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/26 01:17 AM |
| 24 | The idea that men are the ones who have power over women is so stupid when you consider that usually women are allowed to vote for pro-war policies and men are the ones who get draftedI’m confused. Are you inferring a positive or negative impact for women? Everything you listed here except for abortion bans are positives for women and, in some cases, are positives for women to the detriment of men (e.g. Title IX). | /r/MensRights | 22/06/26 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Do you think that both right wing and left wing talk down on tue Men's rights movement? For feminism and gynocentrism?They come at it from completely different angles but yes they absolutely love to attack MRAs. The left attacks pretty much all men in general for the so-called “privilege” men have when the reality is the only privilege men have is the right to die violently in either war, or on the job usually against their will. Meanwhile the right attacks men to keep them in their traditional roles as provider/protector even when performing in that role doesn’t make any sense for some men. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/26 12:12 AM |
| 35 | Do people have to be so pissed about NASA picking all men for their mission?It is a little more than ridiculous to complain about one all-male mission when all the high profile missions have been a mix of men and women. This is especially the case given that there have been all female crewed missions to space before and given that they are not leaving orbit makes it more baffling that they’d complain just because the mission is part of the Artemis program and this sounds like a more mundane phase of the Artemis program. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk more about this pattern of privileged women thinking they're oppressed by menWomen have an entire professionalized area of academic research dedicated to every little nuance of their suffering while men have no such equivalent. This permits them to create a narrative of oppression by using an entire vernacular of technical terms and high-powered language with which they create the illusion of legitimacy and leave us with an institutional imbalance of power. At best men’s suffering is viewed through the lens of non-gendered human suffering and at worst through the lens of… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 4 | “The family court system is destroying men’s lives and no one is talking about itYou’re right about how rare it is that men pay for children who are not theirs. However the success rate of men acquiring custody when they ask for it is misleading. They only ask for it when they have the resources to do so. Otherwise they are advised by their lawyers to not go for it. Divorce and child custody are matters of CIVIL law. Civil cases are won or lost based on who has the better lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Why there's feminism but there's no meninism ?We’re too busy being Atlas holding the world up and making sure it doesn’t fall. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 07:37 PM |
| 5 | "Women don't start wars" and other myths.This makes sense. I believe that in order to acquire and maintain power as a head of state, there is a very narrow path that all must adhere to and the requirements demanded of following this path do not differ even if the person is female rather than male. I think it is best explained by Machiavelli in that the only bad leader is a weak leader. To stay strong, there are very narrowly defined courses of actions that leader can undertake and ambitious women must do them the same as men. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/26 05:15 PM |
| 6 | The extreme future of this gender war I thinkMen die disproportionately in war. It sounds like the kind of plan the elites would execute as a hidden agenda to “burn off” the “excess” men. Fighting aged men need to make themselves less available for military service. Maybe then governments would understand their power as felt by their absence during a time of need when they couldn’t be bribed or bullied into risking their lives for a society that does not value them. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/26 05:36 AM |
| 10 | Medicine Without MeritIsn’t it suspicious that white male medical school enrollment dropped from 31% to 20%? Also the figure of 31% was in line with that demographic as a percentage of the total population. That was an artificially imposed constraint which means that, in order to get to that figure, the medical establishment had to crush the dreams and hard work of thousands of young white men who were likely better qualified than many who were accepted who were from the target demographic. In other words, they’re cr… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 1 | The "Toughen Up" Fallacy: Why Ignoring Pain Destroys Emotional ResilienceI am not sure that ignoring pain has ever been a prolific coping strategy. I think it seems that way due to male loneliness becoming a known issue within the past 10 to 20 years. Before this, men had someone trusted to confide in and talk about their issues. Fast forward to today’s environment where men don’t have that support and I think what people see as “bottling up emotions” is really just men doing their best to cope in the absence of any real help being available to them. This lack of hel… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/26 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that, given how misandrist education is, there should be more schools for boys?Maybe redesign school such that there are periods during the day where classes are segregated and also periods where the classes are co-ed. That way each gender can learn in a manner that is appropriate for them while also providing an opportunity for boys and girls to socialize on a daily basis. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/26 02:39 PM |
| 1 | ‘Petro-masculinity’ is destroying the planet. Can eco-masculinity help save it? | Andrew BoydThey’re really scraping the bottom of the barrel for ideas on Earth Day articles to run. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/26 04:05 AM |
| 23 | Is This What it Has Come to? Exaggerated Fear of MenI just put on a slight smile and give them a small nod as I walk past strangers of all kinds. That’s just enough interaction to show I am not a threat while not putting off any strange vibes. I in years past I often found myself lost and in my own thoughts and suddenly find myself in surprise eye contact with strangers. When this happens with women it unsettles them sometimes. It’s just one of those facts of being a man that you have to adapt to. Women speak all the time of the adaptations they … | /r/MensRights | 22/04/26 03:40 AM |
| 51 | I hate how much propaganda there is around women doing housework being unfairIf I could offload my provider responsibilities in exchange for doing housework I’d make that trade several times over. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/26 12:02 AM |
| 17 | University professor Jonathan Herring argues state must impose curfew on all men to protect womenA new and inventive way to leverage the patriarchy argument. Feminists just casually throw out that argument to justify even the most outrageous political positions you can think of to the point of dehumanizing men and relegating them to second class citizens. This argument underpins everything they say and do. It also never gets critically examined and has no basis in reality. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 02:21 PM |
| 24 | I hate how much the idea that we have the most power gets pushed by so many people living in their delusional bubbles when they are the ones controlling the narrativeIt’s also shocking how little this assumption is critically examined. Their narrative just simply goes along the lines of “men have always had power and nothing has changed”. While the truth is that there have been profound changes over the last 100 plus years such that the scales have actually tipped in favor of women. Also only a select few men have had all the power throughout time while the majority of the rest of men who have ever existed lived as either slaves or cannon fodder to such an e… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/26 11:53 PM |
| 56 | UK: Immature men are to blame for Britain's 'missing babies', because they delay responsibilities until later in life OP: More male hate.because they delay responsibilities until later in life And women don’t? ’In previous generations, children left school in their early to mid teens and went into the workplace,’ the report reads. You mean in the days before child labor laws? Now, the average age of leaving home for a young man sits at 25, three years older than for young women. Don’t you think that if a young man could leave home sooner than 25 he would? The article never does a deep dive into why this is and just simply labels … | /r/MensRights | 15/03/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Young Canadian men more likely to say gender equality has gone ‘far enough’I’d say young Canadian men are very smart people. If they said that gender equality has gone too far, I wouldn’t say they’d be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/26 02:19 AM |
| 2 | NCFM Files SUPREME COURT PETITION FOR WRIT OF CERTIORARI in NCFM v. Selective Service System - National Coalition For Men (NCFM)Here’s what’s going to happen next: 1) congress will suddenly start to “debate” the issue nominally but not really do anything. 2) SCOTUS will decline to do anything since congress is “actively debating” the issue citing established precedence by deferring to congress as the first line of recourse. This isn’t the first time the branches of government have conspired and done this little song and dance to avoid the issue of doing what it right. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/26 04:15 AM |
| 8 | questions about systematic oppression against menMale oppression has two sources 1) traditional male roles and historical treatment of men. Example: “it’s always been this way therefore it is perfectly natural to treat men this way and to assign them traditional expectations even if they are no longer compatible with the new expectations for women.” 2) collateral damage from women’s liberation and equality movements. Example here include the No Fault divorce which served to liberate women from bad marriages they couldn’t escape. It succeeded b… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 02:29 AM |
| 31 | Why do some women genuiely believes that "men can't struggle, because women struggle more"?They can’t have any infringement upon their victimhood status. If a man said he got kicked in the balls a woman would say that this experience is worse for them even though they don’t have any balls. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/26 07:47 AM |
| 29 | British schoolboys to be "taking a course about respecting women and girls" by september.I think a big reason why this is happening for all boys in Britain is because the ones who really need to hear this message belong to a protected class (e.g. non-white). Therefore in order to avoid allegations of racism they just make it mandatory for all boys. Edit: to clarify I am referring to people who are immigrants, or are children of immigrants, whose countries of origin have cultures that are truly misogynistic. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/26 02:17 AM |
| 29 | The Legal Devaluation of Men's Lives in CanadaI just did a quick google search for countries that have special laws for femicide. It turns out there are 30 countries who treat the murder of women as a separate and distinct hate-based crime. This makes Canada #31. I found that France also has laws that can make one responsible for the self-deletion of their partner: France recognizes the "suicide of a partner" (often termed suicide forcé or forced suicide) as a form of gender-based violence because it is legally acknowledged as the ultimate … | /r/MensRights | 15/02/26 07:37 PM |
| 15 | Women’s sexual health advocate (with thousands of followers) thinks female on male rape and sexual assault is ridiculousThis person is dumber than a box of rocks. Women come in all shapes and sizes. Not every woman weighs 108 pounds and not every man is a towering giant. Plus there are tactics women use to nullify male size and strength. They are blackmail, weapons, restraints and drugs & alcohol. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/26 02:05 AM |
| 7 | Masculinity in SchoolsKeep pushing for an answer as to why they denied your request for a Masculinity club. I guarantee their reasoning will not conform to logic and they will probably display a lot of cognitive dissonance in disclosing their reasoning. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/26 09:35 PM |
| 43 | 24 years in prison on a false accusationWell how can that be? Women never do that! /s | /r/MensRights | 04/02/26 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Allies in GovernmentNo matter which side of the political spectrum they are on, a politician publicly revealing their support for men’s rights could be a political liability since the movement is still not very popular and creates backlash from mainstream conservatives and especially liberals. If there are such people, they likely don’t advertise their support for men’s rights. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | From Online Advocacy to Real Life: Building a Men’s Mutual Aid House (Bay Area)I don’t have any immediate thoughts on how to handle non-conformists, but you could look up some fraternities, see what their bylaws are and see how they handle members who don’t follow the rules. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.More likely he chose not to go homeless trying to fight a battle he cannot win. I don’t think you have talked to any real men in person about this. You might want to. I promise it will be an eye-opening experience. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 08:52 PM |
| 2 | From Online Advocacy to Real Life: Building a Men’s Mutual Aid House (Bay Area)You need to have a very specific plan for handling “non-conformists”. Everyone starts these things with the best of intentions but everyone is human and things don’t always go according to plan. You also need a vetting process to make sure you are taking on men who are suited to function in a fraternal environment. Often former military turn out to be well suited to this environment, but there are others as well. Also if you do this, leave room for flexibility. You will find that as things progr… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.As he said men have to pick their battles. Choosing not to fight for custody does not mean the father didn’t want custody. It means, in light of his personal circumstances to include his socio-economic status, he made a rational choice to not pursue custody. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 07:35 AM |
| 13 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.Hiring and promotion selection bias in favor of women in fields dominated by men in which less qualified women are selected over men. It should be the best qualified person regardless of sex. Period. Furthermore this DEI promotion is not extended into fields dominated by women to hire and promote men. That’s the most impactful example I can think of. There is also bias in family court and application of laws. There are many more examples I can provide but I don’t have the time to explain. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.I don’t think you can call yourself a believer in men’s rights and a feminist at the same time. There are certain systemic and cultural biases and discriminatory practices that unfairly impact men which originated from feminist ideology and are advocated by feminist organizations. Also it’s very difficult to say this simple truth without being labeled anti-woman, but I assure you most MRAs are not anti-woman. While I believe supporting equity of both sexes is achievable, it simply cannot be done… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Teachers to be trained to spot early signs of misogyny in boysI doubt any public school is equipped to teach such an ill-defined subject in good faith to boys. The only acceptable way a boy or man is taught to express positive masculinity is to “support women” and be “allies” to them. I am afraid that’s not good enough. There are certain qualities of masculinity which are very positive in both a work and community environment such as ambition, a healthy competitive spirit, direct communication and discipline. Given that public school faculties are 3/4 fema… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 20 | Should the UN be abolished?If it will help you sleep better at night. Sure. Let’s abolish it. But the UN is one of many instruments of misandry. There are more insidious organizations out there that should probably come first to the chopping block. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/26 10:40 PM |
| 123 | 'Awww you snitched': Woman shoots 11-month-old son in the face with 9 mm so that her ex-boyfriend would 'never be a part of his child's life,' deputies sayThey declined to issue an Amber alert because they believed the child was not in any immediate danger. It’s interesting because I have to wonder if that would’ve been the case if the baby was abducted by the father instead of the mother. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 10:53 PM |
| 16 | The Vietnam veteran experience and men's rightsYou can make the same argument for deaths on the job. In the US there are around 5,000 deaths annually on the job of which 94% are men. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 01:55 AM |
| 37 | The Vietnam veteran experience and men's rightsThere are 58,281 names on the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington DC. Only eight of those names belong to women. These numbers don’t really inform us of anything new since men have always fought wars. But when you take the feminist narrative of oppression of women by men and compare it to the harsh realities of men as illustrated by these numbers, it makes my blood boil too. But what really pours fuel on the fire are comments made by people like Hillary Clinton who say “women are the primary vict… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 01:45 AM |
| 65 | Invisible Man: My Experience as a Male Trainee Clinical Psychologist in a Female-Dominated System — The Centre for Male PsychologyGiven that 75% of suicides in the UK are by men—most of whom are heterosexual—this blind spot is not just academic; it is fatal I guess we men need to call upon our own abundance of power and privilege that psychology and feminism claims that we have so that we can get these numbers down /s. Or the more likely conclusion is that 99% of men have neither power nor privilege and the psychological profession is completely inept with treating men. While feminist and DEI initiatives have driven vital … | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 04:36 AM |
| 28 | Invisible Man: My Experience as a Male Trainee Clinical Psychologist in a Female-Dominated System — The Centre for Male PsychologyMy sense is that the other women were making similar sexually explicit comments and he was matching their energy. He later made the point that these women were completely free to make these comments while he had to walk on eggshells. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 04:26 AM |
| 12 | We genuinely regressed as a society I seensomeone promoting something called the sneak peak test that lets you see the babies gender in 6 week she's promoting it to use it on abortion if they are a boyGet out the popcorn and watch as her precious four daughters grow up to find no men for them to marry because women like her felt it was somehow “justified” to abort male babies. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/26 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Selective ServiceI am not sure why you had to send something in. Even when I came of age decades ago all I had to do was register for it on the internet and that was it. To use the vernacular of younger people these days this was during the “late 1900s”. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/26 02:55 AM |
| 13 | Wife Law (Ley Esposa): in some Mexican States men will be barred from running for office in the 2027 electionsObtaining justice by acting unjustly will not end well for anyone. At the moment I don’t have time to expound further, but then again I shouldn’t have to because it is just common sense to have everyone play with the same rule book. I just hope that this idea doesn’t gain traction north of the border, but I guarantee some radical feminists are probably already hard at work trying to do just that. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 02:23 AM |
| 21 | Dating advice for men, from men threads?Revenge has nothing to do with it. There are a lot of red flags to look out for with women (as there are men) however men have to learn from painful mistakes in order to look out for them. Women are naturally better at being picky. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 08:44 PM |
| 40 | Are the boys all right?We’re at a weird point in history where the perception is that we have to lift up women and advantage them in order to “undo” perceived injustice. That’s the current progressive narrative which has combined with the traditional narrative that men and boys are solely responsible for developing their own economic viability. This has created an environment where women and girls get a leg up and men and boys are only told “you suck. Do better.” It’s a very pernicious Chinese finger puzzle which is p… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 37 | Dating advice for men, from men threads?Be every bit as discriminatory in selecting who you date as women are with men. There are too many women who today shouldn’t measure up to being worthy of a relationship with men. They need a reality check. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 06:23 PM |
| 33 | What makes you think society is gynocentric? Or what makes you think is it not?Don’t you think that this fact alone speaks volumes about the question you’re asking? You can ask about rights for women anywhere on social media but you can do likewise for men only in very specific places. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 06:42 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about the take that “we don’t have a gun violence issue, it’s a men issue”Check here. It’s not a conspiracy theory. The source I’ve linked here is reliable as far as I can tell. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 10:38 PM |
| 19 | Married men that used to by “happy wife, happy life” but escaped that trap, what happened?That can be a true statement only if your partner is grateful for what you provide and do. Otherwise in her mind you’re a doormat and she doesn’t respect you. I personally wouldn’t place my validation as a husband in what I provide, but if I did, I would make damn sure she is grateful for it. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/25 06:53 AM |
| 22 | Married men that used to by “happy wife, happy life” but escaped that trap, what happened?I started having relationships a little later in life than my peers and got married not long thereafter. So I suppose it’s a combination of not learning bad habits and also a healthy bit of learning to love myself first. This last point was forced upon me due to years of being involuntarily single. I think this was an important character building experience because it taught me how to be independently happy without the necessity of being dependent upon another person’s validation. Also no one re… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/25 06:14 AM |
| 24 | Gender quotas in heavily masculinised fieldsTheir excuses for why there aren’t more women in a male dominated field are the worst. It’s always discrimination and never personal preference which is usually the most obvious reason. Also to them biological differences do not exist even though they are painfully obvious. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/25 02:05 AM |
| 5 | I'm done with feminismThe root of all the issues you outlined is the presumption that all men and boys have patriarchal privilege helping them through all stages of life. That is patently false and dispelling this myth is the first step in the right direction. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 25 | why does feminists think that every man who does not like feminism is an incelAt some point in the last 50 years, Feminism was elevated to the status of standard bearer for equal rights between the sexes. It is only in the last 15 years, give or take, that it has become apparent that Feminism causes severe harm and injustice towards men and is just beginning to register at a cultural level of awareness. However we are at point in history where there are too many older people whose views have not evolved with the times and remain ignorant and those who benefit from Feminis… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 03:16 AM |
| 166 | Teachers to be trained to spot early signs of misogyny in boysThis is what they’re worried about while boys struggle in school? They have some messed up priorities. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Removed from my son in a spa/pool/hotel complex abroad. What would be your reaction?Trying to categorize toxic versus non toxic masculinity is a whole other can of worms. I was just trying to get OP in the right ballpark. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/25 03:58 AM |
| 40 | Removed from my son in a spa/pool/hotel complex abroad. What would be your reaction?I think you need to be much more discerning in what is “toxic masculinity” versus what isn’t. Hating women for its own sake and not expressing emotion are toxic. However being a protector and provider to people who deserve it is not toxic. There is a lot of nuance that needs an entire book to cover. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 41 | Removed from my son in a spa/pool/hotel complex abroad. What would be your reaction?You don’t have to throw punches unless they do first. Hold his hand and put yourself in between the person separating you from your son. That will cause a stir which bystanders will record and will reflect unfavorably upon the hotel once it is revealed they tried to separate you from your son. Also you don’t know if the staff are not human traffickers. So you are well justified in taking action to prevent them from separating you two. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/25 02:30 AM |
| 2 | The University of Western Ontario's medical school is hiring a biochemistry professor. In recognition of Western’s commitment to DEI, only applicants who self-identify as a woman will be considered. This includes individuals who self-identify as transgender, gender-fluid, non-binary and Two-Spirit.I am not disputing that. I am saying you just can’t put it in a position vacancy announcement in the US whereas in Canada and seemingly all of the commonwealth countries you can. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 6 | The University of Western Ontario's medical school is hiring a biochemistry professor. In recognition of Western’s commitment to DEI, only applicants who self-identify as a woman will be considered. This includes individuals who self-identify as transgender, gender-fluid, non-binary and Two-Spirit.How can they allow such overt sexism in Canada? I know the US is far from perfect, but at least at a surface level you cannot discriminate on the basis of sex among other characteristics. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 49 | circumcisionAbsolutely this topic is 100% related to this subreddit. It’s one of the many blatant double standards in the treatment between males and females. It is a violation of bodily autonomy which is a decision made by parents before the infant boy can give consent. Also the consensus in modern times is that it does nothing to prevent disease which is often the reason given for administering circumcision in the first place. The stance here is the it should be in the same category of barbarism as female… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/25 12:45 AM |
| 63 | What are some gynocentric myths you would like to bust?That only women are capable of empathy. They are the kinder and more caring gender. Nope! They just code their malice differently than men. And of course there’s the stance that only women can be victims of rape and violence. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Men’s Mental Health Issues Get Ignored on Campus?For the powers that be to admit that men need at least as much help as women would require them to destroy the key Feminist paradigm of Patriarchy. They’d rather drink poison rather than concede the point and continue to allow men to self delete at four times the rate of women. This proclivity expresses itself in ideas of “toxic masculinity” which is really the biggest deflection argument the world had ever seen. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/25 06:11 PM |
| 35 | "There's no good men!"They set really high standards for the men they date yet they rarely meet those same standards for themselves. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/25 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Feminism and Misandry go together… like a horse and carriage. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/25 02:20 AM |
| 5 | What are some examples of men's unpaid labor/emotional labor?When she allows Donald J Trump to live rent free in her head and I have to hear about the latest shenanigans he’s done on a daily basis. That definitely meets the definition of emotional labor. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/25 10:33 PM |
| 31 | Men Receive 63% Longer Prison Sentences Than Women for the EXACT SAME Crime – Peer-Reviewed Study from the University of Michigan Law SchoolFeminists constantly complain of systemic sexism against women and girls without any proof while here lies proof of blatant sexism against men and boys while washing their hands of any responsibility to fix it by saying “men set up this system”. Even if the latter were true, they’ve had more than a century of voting rights and opportunity to fix it in conjunction with men. Therefore they are at least as equally culpable for this system. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/25 10:56 PM |
| 23 | Favourite thing about being a men’s rights activist?Using facts rather than ideology to challenge not only the feminist narrative but also basic assumptions of gender differences. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/25 04:28 AM |
| 40 | Man divorces wife after she puts him in debt sending $94,000 to male streamerThis is shitty behavior no matter if it was a man or woman giving away that much money. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/25 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Big marriage problem!I don’t think this post belongs here. Also this is not the kind of behavior that paints MRAs in a positive light. Try a different sub. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/25 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Men ‘portrayed as either frightening or pathetic in film and TV’All we can do is vote with our feet and our money and avoid watching misandrist content of all types. Also we need to flood the internet with bad reviews on that kind of content to include downvotes and 1 star reviews. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/25 01:37 AM |
| 10 | Where do you fall PoliticallyThe conservative side doesn’t see men as evil. They just look at men and their problems and expect them to fix themselves. Liberals see men as the problem and paint all men broadly as such without any regard to nuance. In the last POTUS election I felt I had no choice but to vote for the Democrat since their policies, while harsh towards men, didn’t risk doing catastrophic damage to the US while the Republicans policies did. While I still stand by a center-right political stance, it’s important … | /r/MensRights | 19/11/25 06:00 AM |
| 53 | Where do you fall PoliticallyUsually center right but advancing MRA issues requires thinking beyond the political spectrum since one side gets it wrong and the other side thinks you’re evil. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/25 11:09 PM |
| 30 | Ohio looks to overhaul child custody and parenting laws: Prohibits courts from giving preferential treatment to a parent or custodian because of someone’s financial status or genderOn the surface, it looks like the same shitty family law only they dressed it up to look better without providing anything of substance. There’s also this: Senate Bill 174 had the support of groups including the Ohio Domestic Violence Network, the Ohio State Bar Association, and the Ohio Judicial Conference To the layperson this looks like it has the right seals of approval. But as an MRA there are only two words that comes to mind when I hear this: RUN AWAY!!! If a DV advocacy group likes it th… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/25 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Menwomen Men | /r/MensRights | 17/11/25 04:18 AM |
| 54 | Conscription for men only decided in GermanySounds like willful ignorance of the rule of law. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/25 10:38 PM |
| 107 | Conscription for men only decided in GermanyDid they specifically exclude women? If so, did they at least say why? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/25 10:31 PM |
| 17 | A father's experience with an elementary school's treatment of his sonI’d like to speak out against this style of teaching but I don’t have children so I don’t think anyone would take me seriously. Reflecting back on my memories growing up, I couldn’t imagine going to school in this kind of dystopian setting. I just want to scream at this school staff and say he’s not autistic, he’s a boy and you suck at teaching. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/25 07:15 PM |
| 13 | Did your parents give better treatment to your sisterI think my older sister had a lot more academic expectations placed upon her than me, but otherwise none of my siblings got any preferential treatment. She worked really hard and graduated as class salutatorian and went on to college only to drop out and have a kid barely out of her teens. I was more ambitious than her but I was glad to not have the expectations placed on me. However I would have benefitted more from being pushed a little to excel and also with some extra help which I never got,… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/25 03:41 AM |
| 10 | 'The numbers are stark': Scott Galloway on the crisis facing boys and menI think he’s half right. He calls out the terrible treatment that young men face but stops short of holding certain women and feminism accountable for their part in causing young men to fail. He does advocate for more resources and support for young men. But so long as he continues to hold women and feminism blameless, that’s only a half measure. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 08:54 PM |
| 44 | Why are pastors shaming single men?I recently watched this video which specifically addresses this topic. I am not a Christian, however I like to stay informed on social developments within the church. In a nutshell, it seems that the inflated standards that mainstream women demand of their men have seeped into the church. However church leadership is either oblivious to it or they deliberately turn a blind eye to it in order to maintain the peace. Rather than telling their women to adjust their standards to become more realistic… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | In my country whenever a woman does something bad to a man people support her and when the man is completely innocent people make excuses like "oh maybe the man was secretly hurting her which only she knew" like bro and women complain that men have more rights and supportMaybe this could explain why men seek to remove emotion from situations while for women it’s all about the emotions. In emotionally charged situations, women have all the power regardless if it’s either the man or the woman who is upset. Might be worth looking into from an evolutionary psychology perspective. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 06:23 PM |
| 17 | How does the war on Men end?When the idea of men as a privileged group is thoroughly rejected, then maybe it might finally end. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/25 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Do men need as much Vitamin C as women?I looked at the percentages per serving. For women they have 150% of RDA for vitamin C and 100% for men. It could just be an advertising gimmick to get more women to buy that product since women tend to care more about their health whereas men probably only care about getting all the RDA for all vitamins. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/25 04:25 AM |
| 7 | Do men need as much Vitamin C as women?Google seems to disagree with Centrum: No, women do not need more vitamin C than men; in fact, men generally have a higher recommended dietary allowance (RDA) for vitamin C than women. The current RDA is 90 mg per day for adult men and 75 mg per day for adult women. However, requirements can increase for certain groups, such as pregnant or breastfeeding women, who need more, and smokers, who need an additional 35 mg daily due to increased oxidative stress. Recommended Daily Allowances (RDAs) Adu… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/25 04:19 AM |
| 10 | An Open Letter to Richard ReevesVery well written. One theme you hit upon is the fact that doing the right thing and upholding righteous principles is never easy and is never the most popular thing to do. It often be a lonely place to be but it’s also the right thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Hot Take: I actually DO NOT wish to reject my Masculinity.Rejecting masculinity is probably the single most destructive idea that can be forced upon men and boys. I don’t have time to elaborate but I do know that boys raised without a masculine role model tend to struggle severely as they mature into adulthood. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/25 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Today someone told me that 95% of violent crimes are committed by menMaking reductive statements is a great way to lie using the truth. This makes about as much sense as blaming women for divorce since they are the ones who initiate it the vast majority of the time. I’m sure you wouldn’t agree with this statement so why would your comment, likewise make any sense? | /r/MensRights | 18/09/25 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Is masculinity the product of biology or culture? The case of the exceptionally passive Semai men of Southeast Asia. — The Centre for Male PsychologyI don’t think the societal level equivalent of “living in mom’s basement” is able to offer any useful insights on how to live in a modern world. 99.9% of cultures who have attempted to reject inter-societal competition no longer exist. The ones who remain do so strictly out of charity. Weakness is not equality | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Is masculinity the product of biology or culture? The case of the exceptionally passive Semai men of Southeast Asia. — The Centre for Male PsychologyThis doesn’t strike me as a particularly insightful article about masculinity. The Semai sound like a people who survived strictly by accident rather than due to their culture. All cultures that have endured through the centuries adopted martial aspects and strong masculine characteristics. Yet when called upon to make the switch to violence they did so successfully which might suggest that men might have a natural predisposition to do violence if necessary. Otherwise their background sounds ver… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 05:57 AM |
| 13 | Feminists Oppose Changes to Turkey's Extremely Unequal Alimony LawsThere’s a lot to unpack here but my favorite “argument” in favor of alimony is “being forced to stay in bad marriages”. It never occurs to people that this is a circular argument because one spouse (man or woman) who makes a lot more than the other spouse is equally likely to find themselves forced to stay in a bad marriage because they can’t afford to pay an exorbitant amount of money in alimony. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 02:50 AM |
| 26 | Kirk situation.I completely agree. I have never shunned people because I disagree with their politics. But most people I meet cannot say the same. In fact it is absolutely essential that people of differing beliefs have a dialogue and do everything they can to maintain that dialogue. That’s where the best ideas come from. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/25 04:36 AM |
| 4 | I can't with this app anymoreI also got banned months ago from interest in gas fuck. I consider it a badge of honor. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Hercules star’s son insists women should have right to vote taken away to ‘return the world to a better place’Idiots giving ammunition to feminists to fight MRAs. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 09:28 PM |
| 61 | "I was denied a viewing for this apartment because I'm a guy"They may say they are sorry. But they are definitely not sorry. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/25 10:59 PM |
| 28 | Divorce Plunged in Kentucky. Equal Custody for Fathers Is a Big Reason Why.As if women can never be abusive. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/25 02:57 AM |
| 142 | Divorce Plunged in Kentucky. Equal Custody for Fathers Is a Big Reason Why.Paywalled for me. But I could read the head line: A law setting 50-50 shared custody as the state’s standard was hailed as a victory for fathers, but critics say it puts mothers and children at risk Why am I not surprised they would react this way? Why is it that anything positive for men must automatically face severe scrutiny? Also the law is a default, meaning that if there is a need for custody to go to one parent rather than the other, it can still be done. One need only show reasonable cau… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to be a men's right activist and a feminist at the same time?The stated definition of feminism is to improve gender equality by promoting women’s issues. This definition assumes that all gender inequalities are in favor of men to the detriment of women. Therefore the concept of male disadvantage and male victimhood is completely anathema to feminism. Supporting both men and women equally is a noble goal. However using feminism as a vector to achieve half of that end is counterproductive to achieving the other half of that goal. Therefore my final verdict … | /r/MensRights | 04/09/25 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Crémieux @cremieuxrecueil The gender wage gap is mostly about married men doing one helluva job earning more than everyone else.This is out of date. That single women earnings line has improved quite a bit to outperform the single men. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 10:42 PM |
| 9 | On a serious note, men are falling behind in a lot of aspects in society and life, particularly in Western society, why is this not concern-inducing enough for both liberals and conservatives? and in the grand scheme of things, for society in general? Is society coward to admit its devaluing of men?I will disagree slightly. As a man you should save money, work hard and improve yourself to the maximum extent possible. But you do these things for yourself and not someone else. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/25 03:15 PM |
| 21 | A high school football star had the rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was dismissed.Amazing how respecting due process actually protects everyone to include protection from themselves. In the US that’s one of those things the founders got right from the very beginning which today is getting eroded. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Canadian Parliamentary Petition e-6626: Amend the Divorce Act to establish a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting. If you are a Canadian citizen or Permanent Resident, please sign!Cheering you on in Canada from the US. I need something positive to root for. If it can’t be found in my country, then it might as well be in Canada. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/25 05:20 AM |
| 76 | Wife Allegedly Poured Acid on Sleeping Husband, Locked Him in Room Using Wooden Bar and WireI can already hear the grumblings that he “must’ve done something to deserve it” BS. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/25 02:57 AM |
| 5 | In italy 111 yearly femminicides happen,but it's ABSOLUTELY nothing in front of men suicides (2250),in Italy femminists Say that theirs are "never said worse" but the real ones are oursWhat does that have to do with the comment I left? | /r/MensRights | 24/08/25 07:23 PM |
| 31 | In italy 111 yearly femminicides happen,but it's ABSOLUTELY nothing in front of men suicides (2250),in Italy femminists Say that theirs are "never said worse" but the real ones are oursThe death of a woman is a tragedy. But the death of a man is a statistic. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/25 05:45 AM |
| 4 | On adopting the word "feminist"You don’t advance true gender equality by uplifting only one sex. Yet that is the literal dictionary definition of Feminism in that only women should be supported to achieve that goal. I find it appalling that women are the only sex who can be seen as disadvantaged. In a society of 4 billion men and 4 billion women there is a huge amount of nuance in terms of needed resources and for whom and under a given set of circumstances. Limiting the scope of whom to help to just women is reductive beyond… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 01:08 AM |
| 6 | What if women had to sign up for Selective Service in order to vote?That way it will free up more men to feed into the meat grinder! /s | /r/MensRights | 22/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 13 | About to be shafted by my countries family law systemDon’t forget to establish paternity with DNA testing when the twins are born. Do not sign up to pay child support for children who are not yours. At this point everything is a legal procedure and everything you say will be held against you. Document all of your interactions both in person, via phone call or digital. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/25 02:53 AM |
| 29 | Why do so many women not care about men’s mental health yet actively shame men for being the majority of criminals?One aspect is that the presumption of privilege prevents a lot of men from being seen as a group in need of mental health services. Also I think there is something about how women are seen as more competent in articulating their emotional states that therapists relate with better. Since the field is majority female, they presumably focus on their low effort clients, other women, while dreading their male clients. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men.Call me silly but doesn’t it seem kind of obvious that practical people want practical solutions to their mental health problems? Yet the profession offers anything but practical solutions. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/25 12:54 AM |
| 12 | Why do feminists pretend to care about men?In order to have a movement that gains permanence and leaves a lasting change on the world, it must have an element of universal appeal such that it provides hope and promise to everyone. It is a key feature of how all the major world religions have managed to last for centuries and it is an appeal the helps democratic forms of government to endure. Feminism’s appeal to men is not genuine, but is rather an ad hoc attempt at generating universal appeal in the eyes of human society. It is failing … | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 07:13 AM |
| 7 | Lack of male therapistsI don’t know what the governing body is for therapeutic practices, but I would file a complaint with them. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/25 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Is there data to refute that "misogyny kills; misandry hurts men's feelings"?That is the biggest straw man’s argument I have seen in a long time. Women have had the vote long enough such that they are equally responsible for the political situation and outcomes of their respective countries. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Is there data to refute that "misogyny kills; misandry hurts men's feelings"?Does a country have conscription? Do women in said country have equal voting rights as men? If the answer to both of these questions is yes, then women are equally responsible for enacting conscription in said country. If I am not mistaken most western democracies fit this description. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 23 | Jealous ex murdered father of six after he joined TinderI found it disturbing she was out on bail from the point of committing the murder to the end of her trial instead of being remanded to custody. I am not sure if this is standard practice for Britain or if the justice system seriously considered her less of a threat to the public because she is a woman. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 14 | Is there data to refute that "misogyny kills; misandry hurts men's feelings"?Except it is voted on and enthusiastically supported by female voters. Therefore in nations where women have equal voting rights as men, it is in fact men and women forcing men into the military. So your dismissal completely lacks merit. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Do we want to make the world better or is this sub just for hating women?Can you show me even one post of outright blatant misogyny and link it in a reply to this comment? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 02:32 AM |
| 16 | Tech Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next monthI look forward to the lawsuit. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 03:56 AM |
| 25 | Anti sex subreddit is full of femcelsI think reading the first paragraph tells you everything you need to know. From reading that first paragraph I am reminded of an Ancient Greek play called Lysistrata by Aristophanes in which women withhold sex from their husbands in order to end a war. A lot of feminists like to reference this work as a blueprint for women controlling men’s behavior. However what feminists don’t realize is that when they make the argument that men’s sexual nature is predatory, they forget that men generally don’… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 01:04 AM |
| 20 | Are studies about labour division in the household even reliable?I think one aspect that gets overlooked is that when it comes to household labor, men value simplicity while women like to indulge their “nesting” instinct. Furthermore, we all know what “compromise” looks like in a heterosexual relationship. That word turns into a euphemism for do what the woman wants while the man has to muzzle it. In the beginning, the woman will tolerate the man’s way of conducting their domestic duties but after a time his simple plan for household labor gets turned into Op… | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 06:03 AM |
| 41 | Men Written By Women is problematic.I definitely get that vibe when watching Sweet Magnolias. I did a quick glance at the writers for each of the episodes and I saw only one male-sounding name. The male characters in that show never behaved in a way that I’ve seen any other man or teenage boy behave in real life. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/25 10:13 PM |
| 24 | Man Wins Landmark Domestic Violence Case Against Ex-Girlfriend Who Scalded And Hospitalized HimWhy did she get only a 4-month suspended sentence? What what the court’s rationale for issuing such a lenient sentence? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 04:18 PM |
| 57 | Man Wins Landmark Domestic Violence Case Against Ex-Girlfriend Who Scalded And Hospitalized HimThis is not a popular topic of discussion in the popular media. The silver lining here is that media sources who report on male victims of domestic abuse are more likely to have integrity in their reporting. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Study investigates the implementation of an Australian football themed men's health program in rural Australia. But somehow the academics running the study miss the most obvious question.While I agree with you in principle that no one should be stereotyped, I do believe, however, that men do benefit from physical activity in a competitive environment. I also believe that this predisposition is innate for most men. It could be that it was a pilot program and they didn’t have the latitude to try different things and just went with what they thought was their best option. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/25 05:45 AM |
| 9 | $20 Million to ‘Study’ Men & You STILL Couldn't Get It Right?The Democrats found the problem with men. They just didn’t do a good enough job at invalidating men’s feelings and shaming them into “taking responsibility”. Now they’re doubling down on that course of action while shaming them into compliance with their narrative. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 24 | No men should work in an industry they do diligent work in and are passionate about…becauseThis is the way democracy dies. By justifying double standards and creating “rules for thee but not for me!” | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 12:37 AM |
| 15 | Male in childcare. Vent.This state of affairs should not be tolerated. Anyone who says otherwise does not believe in human rights for all. I would encourage you to write a book about your experiences as a male working in child services. When people look at you and assume that you’re not suited for this kind of work just because you are a man, the thought process is no different than racists, bigots or homophobic people. Writing a book about this experience I think would go a long way towards showing how sexist people a… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/25 08:39 PM |
| -11 | Counter to "Not all Feminists..."It is well known that feminists as a group are not a monolith and we can acknowledge not all Feminists are misandrists. This is not unlike other groups who advocate for political, cultural and social change. However the feminists who currently are in power are very clearly misandrists. These are the feminists who have the power to shape policy and influence culture to their will. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Can you prove a patriarchy doesn't exist?If the man doesn't comply then she turns his head so fast that she breaks his neck. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Destabilising Manhood and Masculinity: Unbecoming Men in a Violent Gender OrderI agree and I am starting to perceive that more people are seeing through their lies. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Happy Father's Day to all the Awesome Dad's out there.Also add in the default judgment of 50/50 shared custody. The only way this changes is if there is solid evidence that one parent should have more custody than the other. There is at least one state in the US where this is now law. It should be law everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 03:54 AM |
| 34 | Destabilising Manhood and Masculinity: Unbecoming Men in a Violent Gender OrderThe book will be of interest to scholars in Sociology, Psychology, Social Work and Environmental and Gender Studies... …and no one else. I really hate feminist commentary on how boys and men should behave. It tries to paint the male sex as inherently undesirable and nothing but trouble leaving men and boys with an inferiority complex when the truth is they are normal human beings. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 01:45 AM |
| 8 | Men Are Addicted to External Validation, Then Wonder Why They Feel EmptyImmature men seek external validation. The older I get the more I find myself doing the same things for different reasons. Get good grades so that I know the stuff I am learning and I can stay relevant in the job market. make money so that I have the resources to take care of myself and the people I love. I got the woman I wanted decades ago and I don’t have a need for another. Nor do I need to be validated by any other woman. Build muscle so that I don’t break a hip in old age or find myself wi… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/25 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Women are drawn to unchangeable traits in men such as height, face, jawline, voice, frame, size. Men, on the other hand, value changeable traits in women like low body count, natural look, healthy weight, minimal surgery. One side wants what you’re born with. The other wants what you choose. PT2.Would you prefer non-western traditions of relationships? I’m sure it must be a wonderful experience for a teenage girl to be forcefully married off to a middle aged man. \s | /r/MensRights | 11/06/25 11:09 PM |
| 8 | It's Time for a New Chapter in the Men's Rights Movement — One That Demands Respect, Reform, and Real Change…and absolutely no feminist influence. While not necessarily anti-feminist it needs to be something completely unique. You’re right that it should not be about blaming women and should not undercut women. However it should be indifferent towards supporting women. It’s not to say we don’t care about women, as individuals we do care as about them, however I just think that women’s issues are beyond the scope of a men’s rights movement and there are plenty of other movements and institutions which … | /r/MensRights | 28/05/25 04:43 PM |
| 88 | Women changing their last name is propagandaA quick google search came up with more than 5000 deaths on the job annually and well over 90% are men. Meanwhile there were 873 women who died in child birth in 2022 in the US. So already a huge discrepancy without accounting for other causes of death such as car accidents and violent crime. Both of which will skew heavily towards men. I guess that child birth mortality has to be down to zero before they give even the slightest thought towards reducing deaths for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/25 10:34 PM |
| 19 | Not Every Problem Men Face is caused by "the patriarchy"It’s only once you shake off a feminist lense does anything really make sense regarding men’s issues. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/25 10:27 PM |
| 11 | An unspoken flaw in the feminist movementThey looked at the most privileged men in society and ascribed the same level of privilege to all men by using “the patriarchy’s foot soldiers” argument. The problem is that the level of responsibility that the common man is burdened with is so great that any level of perceived privilege is by comparison insignificant. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 12:42 AM |
| 9 | ‘Toxic’ work environment at the largest U.S. feminist group prompts president to leaveMore compassion and cooperation at work for the fairer sex. Granted both men and women are members in this organization but there is no way it is anything other than female led and dominated due to the organization’s stated reason for being. Ava Max had it wrong. If all of the kings had their queens on the throne we would most definitely not be popping champagne. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/25 01:23 AM |
| 14 | Are feminists allowed to comment on this subreddit? If they are, why aren't they commenting?They are allowed and they comment and post often. Their arguments often get torn apart, but they are always welcome to try and engage with us here. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 02:52 PM |
| 7 | Egalitarian Feminism is NOT opposed to Men's Rights ActivismI doubt misogyny is anywhere near as prolific here as you think. However if you have in fact been paying attention to the content here then you know MRAs have legitimate concerns and there seems to be very few spaces around in the digital realm to share and discuss these ideas. So if that means we have to put up with a few assholes along then way then so be it. I call it out when I see it, though the things you might consider misogyny here are mostly men coming to vent because there is nowhere e… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Egalitarian Feminism is NOT opposed to Men's Rights ActivismI applaud your willingness to come to this sub and share your ideas. However in spite of efforts to make Feminism into a universal ideology, it has still proven to be anathema to helping men due persisting stereotypes which feminists are both unable and unwilling to fight and Feminism using the best and most successful men as the measure by which all men are judged to have privilege. I am content to leave Feminism as a guiding ideology for women but it has proven to be counterproductive for men’… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 03:50 AM |
| 30 | Mens Rights discussion with feministGrowing up 30 years ago, feminist discourse sounded much more egalitarian in the US. The issues they debated and fought for seemed more reasonable for the most part. However that is not the case today. The belief that every man has “patriarchal privilege” presents itself as a huge stumbling block for advocates who try to address the low hanging fruit of men’s issues. Any attempt to develop any kind of governmental advocacy specific to men is viewed as a threat by feminists and dealt with accordi… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 06:44 AM |
| 3 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)I suppose that depends on the quality of the cops and police department whose jurisdiction you reside in. I think at least in the US there is a huge variance in quality of law enforcement. So while a false accusation by a woman doesn’t always result in the arrest of a man, I think it happens enough such that it should be a grave concern. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Am being treated unjustly? Teachers Assistant - NYI am quite certain others have faced similar circumstances and quietly accepted reassignment just like you. However I feel strongly that at some point we as men have to draw a line in the sand and say enough. If that’s not you and you’re not able to fight this I understand and it’s your choice. But if you think you can fight this with litigation and you have the resources to do it, then I encourage you to do it. Discrimination is wrong no matter who the victim is. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 02:23 AM |
| 26 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysThat is a very complex question to answer and is beyond the intended scope of my comment. But I think it is clear that the causes of fatherlessness have a large structural component to it which I think is a bigger culprit than personal responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 04:29 PM |
| 83 | Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black BoysI’ve heard that the lack of a father at home causes boys to have discipline issues. Furthermore I think black kids are the most likely demographic to not have a father at home. That could be what’s driving the trend. I only skimmed the article and it looks like they are pinning this on racism and made no mention of fatherless homes. Racism is an equally likely cause, however the fact that the article overlooked fatherlessness completely is very much indicative of how there is a blind spot for th… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 02:25 PM |
| 77 | Again with the "all men are the problem".There is no patriarchal system. When men do something wrong, they are typically lone wolves and if they operate in groups, they are usually part of gangs. There is no legitimate institution through which men as a group undertake any kind of endeavor let alone inflict violence upon women. If men were allowed to have their own institutions, they might actually be able to hold bad men in check or keep them accountable for bad acts, to include, violence against women. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/25 05:53 PM |
| 7 | this is about the need to create a culture for male rights advocates and for men that is detailed and well rounded and makes sense free from traditionalism and seperate from but not just in opposition to feminism and not just fashion but that to.I propose that creating this culture should be done as follows: Step 1: utterly and completely destroy the notion that Feminism “helps men too”. If women still want to follow along with it then that’s their business and I am content to leave them be. But feminism has no place dictating how men should fix their problems because their solutions do not work for men and are never done in good faith. Step 2: exert political pressure to create political institutions that report on the specific needs a… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/25 02:00 AM |
| 84 | Mike Johnson Says Men Need to Stop 'Playing Video Games All Day' and Get to Work: 'They're Draining Resources'It sounds like someone is upset that younger men are not subjecting themselves to back breaking labor, building families and then later risk losing it all on the flip of a coin. As a middle aged man myself, if this “deal” for young men doesn’t change into something more favorable, then I say to the younger men please keep playing the video games and don’t apologize for it. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/25 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Who are perfect role models for men according to you guys?Anyone who can make a positive contribution to a man or boy’s life and, more importantly, are not on the feminist-vetted list of pre-approved role models. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | men are more oppressed than people acknowledgeIt makes me want to scratch my eyeballs out every time someone uses the word “patriarchy”. It is this nebulous concept full of half truths, hyperbole and straw man arguments that is supposedly the all-powerful argument that underpins feminist ideology. If this word is ever used, it means the person using it is not very intelligent. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 05:19 AM |
| 30 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?People with contrarian views do not get banned here. The rest of Reddit hates that. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 04:33 AM |
| 19 | Is it immoral to get a secret paternity test done???Just do a 23 and Me ancestry DNA test and just say “it will be fun” to find out about your child’s ancestry then create your own tree (secretly) and see if it is a match with your child. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/25 02:04 AM |
| 27 | Shock: MSM says something sensible about "Adolescence"If you have a different take then don’t keep it to yourself. Please enlighten us and show us the way. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/25 03:35 AM |
| 8 | The problem with men's attitude.Women also have more time than men to fight for these things and your anecdotal story of a man being too lazy to follow up on things is just that: anecdotal. Please see my direct reply to OP’s post for more details. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 06:29 AM |
| 14 | The problem with men's attitude.I think what drives the perception of women first to protest, at least in part, is the disparity in labor force participation rates. In the US, for men ages 18 to 54 it is 89.1%. For women in the same age group it is 77.9%. At first glance one might not consider this to be a huge difference. But when you plug these percentages into the actual total males and females in that age group, you come out to 64.2 million women and 71.8 million men in the workforce and 17.9 million women and 8.8 million … | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 06:17 AM |
| 5 | Perceptions of research biased against menApparently Gamma Bias pervades not just the media but also “scientific” research. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 08:02 PM |
| 17 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to express sadness, anger or frustration in public, but when men do the same, they're labeled as aggressive or emotionally unstable?My best guess is that it is a knee jerk reaction due to fear that a man in emotional distress might physically attack someone. That same fear is usually not present when women are in emotional distress. I once attended an emotional intelligence class. The instructor, who was a woman, presented two scenarios of a man and a woman interacting. In the first scenario the man angry and is yelling at the woman and the second, the woman was angry and yelling at the man. The conclusion she led us to was … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 08:19 AM |
| 25 | Is it me, or are men globally fed up with women’s bs?It is one thing to deal with women’s bs on a personal level which can be enormously difficult in and of itself. However it is quite another when they are actively being supported by all levels of government, and also by cultural and social institutions that have matured into powerful centers of influence over the past 50 years. That’s the cake, and the icing on the cake is that all the above still believe that women are the “oppressed” and men are the “privileged” class. I’d say there is no ques… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 08:37 PM |
| 13 | Why do men not support other men, in the same way that women support other women?There’s no equality for men either but that doesn’t mean it’s not an ideal we shouldn’t strive for. Same line of reasoning with meritocracy irrespective of sex, race, creed, religion or national origin. It is an ideal that needs to be advanced. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 08:22 PM |
| 16 | Did you call yourself a feminist in the past before learning the corrupt truth about feminism?I never called myself a Feminist but growing up I held a firm belief that everyone deserves an equal chance to build the life they want. Up to a point, I believed that more rights and better legal protections for women were necessary to achieve that end. But that all changed when women started blowing past men in a lot of ways and instead of throttling back on equality initiatives for women they just kept going. A good example is college enrollment and the amount of scholarship money reserved on… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Feminist Rights vs. Human RightsThe problem is that feminists think they are one and the same. The reality is they’re not. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/25 03:19 AM |
| 14 | Why do we feel mad about the word patriarchy?It is the easiest method to determine whether you are dealing with intelligent life. If they use the term, that means they are not intelligent and not worthy of your your time. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 08:46 PM |
| -8 | DEI Dying is Great for MenIt was forced to die which is not good because the idiots who created it in the first place need to learn that what they created was bad. Now what’s going to happen is they’re going to bide their time, wait four years and bring it back stronger and become much more damaging to men. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 10:38 PM |
| 209 | Why Men Need Their Own Space And Women Should Stay Out Of ItAmen. Since women lose respect for men who offload emotionally, men need other men to offload to rather than keeping their emotions bottled up. It can’t be done without male only spaces. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/25 05:25 AM |
| 12 | Does Marriage Civilize Men?I think the maturity process does that more so than marriage for men. It just looks like marriage civilizes men since marriage and maturity are occur concurrently. I think the only men who become civilized by marriage are those who fit the “bad boy” persona. As for the rest of us, our time is diverted to either parenthood (which often goes hand in hand with marriage though not always) or a lot of other things we’d rather not be doing. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/25 08:19 PM |
| 16 | DNA tests at birth...The funny thing about all of these stories is that there isn’t a single man who will react “honorably” to this situation in the eyes of women. That might be an obvious clue how deep false paternity hurts men and shouldn’t just be dismissed or compounded by court-ordered child support payments for a child that’s not his. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 09:55 PM |
| 3 | 2024 AP Exams Male to Female Ratio by Subject. "Boy Crisis" is misrepresented.I think OP posted this here to debunk the “myth” that boys are falling behind in school. The irony here is that this data and the context in which it is present is actually a microcosm of the difficulties that men and boys face culture-wide and the failure of the social discourse to help men and boys. Please note that these are statistics pertaining to Advanced Placement tests. This is comparing the best students against each other by gender. It telegraphs the message that the top 1% of boys are… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 09:43 PM |
| 20 | selective service court case "update"Interesting how the SCOTUS declined to consider it due to congress actively debating a change to the law. Given that these debates went nowhere, and continue to go nowhere, I think congress never had any intention of debating the matter in good faith. They only did so to forestall a SCOTUS ruling while maintaining the status quo on the male-only draft. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 06:39 AM |
| 30 | I didn't know it was this bad for menModern feminism is definitely not the equal rights movement it once was. To be clear though most, if not all of us, do not advocate for turning back the clock to the 1950s insofar as rights for women are concerned. However the powerful cultural and political machine that is feminism has gone too far and has become too difficult to stop as it eats into the rights and quality of life of men in the name of helping women. There is a lot of powerful advocacy contained in many of the institutions of w… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Male privilege is a real thing guys and the term "parental alienation" is invented by a pédophileThe development of birth control was spearheaded and funded by a racist, eugenicist woman who had clear intentions to encourage people she deemed as “undesirables” to use it but that fact doesn’t seem to stop women from using it. Using the same logic even if the concept of parental alienation was coined by a pedophile then what difference does it make? That does nothing to invalidate the use of the term nor whether or not it happens. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 21 | What do you love about being a man?Direct communication. I hate beating around the bush. I’ve often noticed that what takes me one sentence to communicate will often take women an entire paragraph or chapter in a book to convey. If you’re speaking in riddles to me or “insinuate” what you’re saying, then you didn’t say it. It is all the more confusing when women say men are the ones who suck at communicating when the reality is that it is men, not women, who will say exactly what they mean. Sorry but communication is infinitely be… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 03:24 AM |
| 41 | Women’s Justice Board begins plans to send fewer women to prisonGlanced at it and first thing I see is “make streets safer” and “reduce the number of women in prison”. The idiots in charge don’t seem to recognize that these goals are in conflict with each other. And they say men are the privileged sex while reality tells a completely different story. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 11:31 PM |
| 39 | What is your response to the “men’s problems are caused by men!” bullshit?Women find self-reliant and confident men attractive. Men like sex with women. Therefore men work towards achieving confidence and self reliance in order to be attractive to women and get sex from them. To do this, men keep their emotions bottled-up and when men step outside this archetype every man’s SO loses respect for him. Based on all of this, I think it is fair to say women should be partially responsible for men’s mental health because of their powerful reinforcement for men keeping their… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/25 10:28 AM |
| 13 | What are some way men are legally discriminated against?I haven’t encountered it first hand, but I’ve heard grumblings about DEI initiatives that enforce prioritization of promotion and hiring of women ahead of men even if there are male candidates who are vastly better qualified for a given role. I’ve heard it is blatant and open discrimination outside the US and more subtle within the US. I know it is harder to get away with in the US due to the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment to the US constitution but I think it still happens at an … | /r/MensRights | 18/01/25 11:47 PM |
| 4 | How do I look good in court to get sole custody?While I think all parents should have an equitable custody arrangement to see their children, I fear you’re trying to get this out of a place of malice rather than love for your children. I would say get rid your malice and contempt for your ex before you stand before a judge to try to get what you seek. If your primary motivation is not because you love your children, then are you really the better parent? I empathize with your current situation and it was wrong for you to be totally cutoff fro… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 17 | Male victimhood ideology driven by perceived status loss, not economic hardship, among Korean men | PsyPost“These patterns were absent in women, who displayed much lower levels of victimhood ideology under similar conditions.” They analyzed four different studies of men and only men and went into detail about the demographics they studied. The study did not include any women and the author just simply tacked that sentence onto the end of the article hoping no one would catch it while giving the appearance of women being some kind of a control group in this “comprehensive scientific study”. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 12:48 AM |
| 10 | What are good responses to women who say men have it easy / men aren’t oppressed?A common rebuttal you might find to women not wanting to work shitty and dangerous jobs is that they are discouraged from doing them due to harassment and “toxic masculinity”. Intuitively we all know that is total bullshit. Unfortunately I don’t have the research on hand to refute that, but it might be helpful to have some data on hand that does and have a counter argument ready made if they pull that card. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/25 08:07 PM |
| 2 | ThoughtsCan you provide a link to the article? | /r/MensRights | 09/01/25 05:03 AM |
| 82 | This is more common than you might think: Men having to pay child support to the woman who r*ped them.Another point of moral contention is why a convicted rapist is allowed to keep her kids? This basically says that a mother who is a convicted felon is a more fit parent than a man just because she is a woman. Yet another reason for MRA activism. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 25 | Male Domestic Abuse is More Common Than You Thinkand don’t let anyone tell you it’s “not as bad” as female domestic abuse. No one deserves it and everyone should be given resources to combat it. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/24 04:18 AM |
| 25 | A man's suicide leads to clamour around India's dowry lawI don’t claim to understand India’s dowry laws, but I find it interesting that opponents of changing this law try to shut down debate by simply stating that “women need this law therefore you will not touch it!”. It illuminates one of the obstacles that MRAs face when trying to make a positive change because this hard-line attitude shuts down any possibility for making adjustments in legislation that achieves a win for both men and women. To best summarize, a law will stand as is if it protects … | /r/MensRights | 23/12/24 09:20 AM |
| 103 | School shooter's manifesto indicates she was a man-hating radical feministThe shooter was female? None of the news outlets are reporting the sex of the shooter. If this is true, then once again the media is guilty of gamma bias. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/24 09:39 PM |
| 40 | The left approach to losing male voters is to explain how their cause is wrong.If Republicans continue to win elections then we know who to blame. The anti male agenda from the Democrats is so bad that all the Republicans had to do to get their vote was to treat them like human beings while promising nothing of substance. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 10:39 PM |
| 57 | Women as Intimate Partner Violence PerpetratorsWomen perpetuating violence: this is interesting let’s go down this rabbit hole and find out why this isn’t their fault. Men perpetuating violence: they’re bad people who need to be punished. Nothing to see here. Moving on. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 07:10 AM |
| 17 | "Decentering Men" - Women de-emphasize Men in Their LivesWe should contact the SPLC and ask them when should we expect the “De-centering Men” movement to be blacklisted by them. Of course they will say never and probably applaud their “positive efforts for equality”. It’s not just hypocrisy, but perfectly symmetrical and blatantly obvious hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 03:39 AM |
| 14 | Believe all women : Should you really?Unless one can scientifically prove that a woman can never tell a lie then no. That of course is impossible and a man’s right to due process should never come secondary to believing women without evidence. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 04:28 AM |
| 11 | Crazy how it's socially acceptable to openly hate white straight menTo answer your question which was not posed in good faith, frankly, yes. Though degree differs between the different wars that happen, men suffer a lot more than women. While you could argue in WW2 that many women died in Germany and Japan as a direct result of allied bombing campaigns, and yes many were subjected to raping by occupying forces, men still died at a much higher rate than women. That war was probably the closest to all genders suffering equally. After that, there is no comparison. … | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 11:51 PM |
| 155 | Crazy how it's socially acceptable to openly hate white straight menIt unfairly disadvantages young white men who are being made to atone for the sins of those who are either long dead or no longer hold any power. Anyone who speaks out against it is slapped down with the epithet that “equality feels like oppression to those who were privileged”. Those with the power to reform this circumstance have been too heavily indoctrinated by feminist logic that they are completely blind to what’s really going on. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 08:54 AM |
| 6 | What issue has affected you the most?Initiatives that seek equality between the sexes in occupations. These are only taken seriously when a field is occupied by majority men but there is never any effort to recruit more men into women-dominated fields. A good example is the one that Richard Reeves points out in his book “Of Boys and Men”. He asserted that only 0.7% of kindergarten teachers are men while a total of 7% of fighter pilots are women. While it is reasonable to assume that these fields will likely always be female and mal… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 07:47 AM |
| 6 | If a war breaks out and US participates, who will fight or be drafted into it?The first groups of the population to be “voluntold” into the armed forces would be members of the Inactive Ready Reserve (IRR) followed by retired service members getting recalled to active duty which will be a larger pool of available manpower. Thereafter they might consider restoring the draft. The irony here is that the burden of WW3 will first fall upon the ones who have already done their fair share of war fighting. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | A dad writes about suicidal thoughts and what he feels is excessive child support with mom sending bills which are driving him deeper into debt.“42 U.S. Code 666 - Requirement of statutorily prescribed procedures to improve effectiveness in child support enforcement” Code “666” is a very appropriate designation for this provision of the law. It looks like the source of all the terrible draconian measures used by the government to confiscate money from men that they couldn’t afford to be without. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Saw this on another subreddit yesterday and thought to myself "when was the last time anyone thought to vote for their boys?"False equivalency. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 10:58 PM |
| 151 | Saw this on another subreddit yesterday and thought to myself "when was the last time anyone thought to vote for their boys?"One hypothesis I have is that it’s possible that men finally showed up in droves to vote because they were tired of being constantly vilified by the left and voted against the Democrats. It wouldn’t surprise me if that was the case given how much the they have gone out of their way to support everyone but men and the only incentive they offered men to vote for them was because “they need to support women” without offering any kind of policies that directly support them. So basically this is men … | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 05:43 PM |
| 106 | Are you tired of being told vasectomy is the right way because of safety?Another point of frustration is the assumption that a vasectomy can be easily reversed when a man feels he is in the ideal position to have children. There is never a guarantee that the procedure can be reversed and there is a significant chance that it can’t be reversed. Yet I’ve heard rumblings that some have said all men should get a vasectomy who are not yet ready for children. Sorry but if I am a guy who definitely wants kids later down the road but just not right now, then the answer is no… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 08:28 PM |
| 12 | New men’s shelter in Calgary - help us name itI think this makes the most sense. It will bring a greater awareness at how overlooked domestic violence against men is and also give a big FU to the government for not supporting Earl Silverman. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 10:12 PM |
| 33 | Has anyone seen this show? Many of the comments in this article are worrying.Not sure how a curfew imposed on men only would work in the UK, but in the US, something like this is a clear violation of the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment in the constitution. Though it would be entertaining to see the mental gymnastics unfold as lawyers try to argue that it’s not a violation thereof. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 125 | "The future is female."It is hate speech. I think those who choose to promote this slogan try not to see it that way, but still engage in willful ignorance of the truth. The future needs to be equality for all. Not female. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/24 01:56 AM |
| 23 | USA: KU instructor on leave after comment to ‘shoot’ men who won’t vote for women goes viralOr write about reducing the male population to 10% and you become a tenured track professor. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/24 12:29 AM |
| 59 | Reactions to boys falling behind vs girls falling behind in educationIt’s like saying heads I win and tails you lose. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 04:18 AM |
| 57 | 'No men allowed' ladies lounge founder says feeling of exclusion felt by men constituted part of the artworkIf men can’t have their own exclusive places then neither should women nor any other nonbinary person. This is the kind of BS that makes men not care about anyone else but themselves and that’s the way it should be until everyone gets to play with the same rules instead of living with flagrant double standard. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 12:07 AM |
| 13 | Why The Boy Crisis Misses the Mark on Solutions, and How Masculine Presence Can Provide the AnswerOr just regular men willing to donate a little of their time regardless of their parental status. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 12:16 AM |
| 18 | Do we need an Anti-Feminist Academia?Not necessarily an anti-feminist academic discipline, but we definitely need a men’s studies of some type since there is such a thing as Women’s Studies in college. However the only way it would work is if this field of study completely rejected the notion that Feminism helps men and totally rejects Feminism as an underpinning ideology. Unfortunately these are terms which academia cannot abide by and if such a field of study were to be formed, it would get hijacked by Feminists in a heartbeat. T… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 03:28 PM |
| 36 | Movember has gone woke! Movember CEO Michelle Terry pledges collaboration aimed at imposing 'healthy masculinities' on men and boysIt is questionable if masculinity needs to be fixed and, if so, I have no idea what that looks like. But one thing I know for sure is that women and feminism have NO PLACE trying to fix men and masculinity. They’ve done enough damage to men and need to get out of the way. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 12:09 AM |
| 83 | I can't get a job in HR because i'm a manIf you have any male colleagues or classmates in your field I would reach out to them first to see if they are having similar difficulties in getting a job. They might be having better luck in other geographic areas or in different industries. Also if they are having similar difficulties as yourself then you can collaborate with them to identify clear patterns of discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Court essentially overwrites a deceased mother's will giving daughter more money than she was intended to be allotted b/c it's argued the will has a gender-biasArticle didn’t say how much was redistributed to her. I wonder how much she got and how much her brother got. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 12:33 AM |
| 79 | Young women are starting to leave men behindGood. So now we can scale back those tax-payer funded support programs that disproportionately benefit women and redirect it toward men where it’s needed. Right? | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 12 | Clergy career ruinedThat sounds like a terrible thing that happened to you. I am not certain that this is necessarily a Men’s Rights issue unless she accomplished this due to social privileges conferred upon her just because she’s a woman. While I will always support Men’s Rights, I will never undercut a man or a woman who legitimately earned something. However I can tell you as someone who has served a long time in the same organization, the long arm of justice eventually catches up to everyone even if things in t… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 10:31 PM |
| 131 | Women outlive men now but by 2032, men are expected to live just as longHeads-up! Feminist rage inbound. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/24 05:25 AM |
| 9 | Women get worse medical treatment than men?And you know this… how exactly? Are you an administrator at a hospital with access to thousands of patient records that are protected by privacy laws? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/24 01:27 AM |
| 50 | Women get worse medical treatment than men?I don’t understand how anyone can tell if one sex is receiving better medical treatment than the other even on an anecdotal level. The US has privacy laws in place such as HIPPA and the Privacy Act of 1974 to prevent disclosure of this information. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/24 01:20 AM |
| 5 | German Newspaper headlines: The world could be so beautiful without youLashing out at all men will only serve to amplify these grievances because they only serve to further sever the already tenuous ties that certain low value men have with society. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 07:25 AM |
| 6 | Studies show men work longer than women thus earn moreWell fuck. Now what do I do??? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 10:40 PM |
| 26 | Studies show men work longer than women thus earn moreAlso Feminism =/= human rights | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 85 | Studies show men work longer than women thus earn moreAmazing how math works. More hours = more $. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/24 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Because work in Japan is SO easy...(Turning a genuine issue into a man vs woman gender war)I am not well equipped speak intelligently about work culture in Japan. I can only say that men are definitely not freeloaders from the domestic toil of their wives. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 02:07 AM |
| 38 | Because work in Japan is SO easy...(Turning a genuine issue into a man vs woman gender war)Pretty sure this person has it completely backwards. I believe it is women who are secretly afraid of men becoming the stay at home spouse and finding out just how much less stressful that role is versus the corporate grind. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Mother goes to jail for refusing to let father have visitation and therapy with his sonsDoes that really matter? In the US justice system we are supposed to adhere to due process. Too many times we’ve seen men get thrown out of their homes, alienated from their kids and even thrown in jail all based on the word of a woman. Okay so the grown kids are throwing out accusations. However accusations are not sufficient to abrogate the presumption of innocence. Only convictions are. So again it is due process at play. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 20 | Mother goes to jail for refusing to let father have visitation and therapy with his sonsI read it. Everything which supposedly transpired was strictly the account of the mother and even the judge suspected her of being manipulative. But I suppose it could be a case of law enforcement protecting their own. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 07:05 AM |
| 18 | Mother goes to jail for refusing to let father have visitation and therapy with his sonsOh let me guess the narrative on this one is that the father is such a horrible person that mom can’t stand the thought of him getting any parenting time whatsoever and will commit a crime to stop it. it seems this comes up suspiciously frequently. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 04:40 AM |
| 24 | Kind reminderWomen are naturally discriminatory in selecting mates. Men have to work at it and, in some cases, learn by making terrible mistakes. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 07:27 PM |
| 31 | R/womenYou’re right and everyone in Men’s Rights knows this should happen. But reality is a different story. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 21 | R/womenIt’s not just you they would ban. It’s the entire men’s rights subreddit that will get banned. So please don’t. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 36 | The rising number of men dropping out of the workforce could hamper housing, Social Security and economic growthAnd the media will keep spitballing solutions that completely fail to address the actual problem. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 11:37 PM |
| 18 | CalTech [CIT] brags about "equity" programmes to result in 50% female enrolment in its' STEM fieldsI will support it as soon as I see an initiative to bring the proportion of male Kindergarten teachers to 50% from what it currently is which is almost 0%. I’d like to see someone bring this up at a DEI conference because the look of cognitive dissonance on everyone’s faces would be priceless. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 06:22 AM |
| 64 | Article: Why young men are turning against feminism?To gain more power and influence if you’re already a high value man. Politicians, both male and female, love to push forward feminism to get the female vote which is 53% of the vote. Also CEOs do it so they can say they are proponents of DEI so that they can get the seal of approval from government and participate in diversity conferences. It keeps high value men in positions of power and women’s empowerment gets a leg up. The only losers in this scenario are ordinary men whose basic social safe… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 11 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.Have you tried to educate your aunt/mother? I would tactfully explain to her that while her efforts to “correct” your behavior were well-meaning, they were completely misguided. It would be a step in the right direction to dispel feminist dogma. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 01:39 AM |
| 12 | What are things we as men can do/change within ourselves to do better?If you want something fight for it. Just accept that you will be attacked on all sides for the things that you want and the values that you uphold. Also don’t accept life under shitty circumstances just because popular culture does not view you as a fully developed human being. Do everything you can to change it. At the same time there are certain traditional masculine virtues that must be upheld. Among them are self reliance, discipline and diligence. What is absolutely crucial is to only reser… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 05:01 AM |
| 79 | Australian education system (80% female) continues its sexist antimale trend, 2024 NAPLAN results showing female students outperformed male students in literacy across every age group. Teachers' response? All good!Citing biological differences, if I am not mistaken, was also a reason put forth by many before the 1970s for why boys outperformed girls at the time. Interesting how that argument has become much more friendly now that the school system has been completely restructured to favor girls. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Does patriarchy cause violence to women?I refuse to engage in any kind of intellectual discourse which uses the term “patriarchy”. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Do women lose more from divorces than men?I always laugh when I hear that men gain more from marriage than women. It’s just simply not true. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 01:17 AM |
| 13 | Her audacity to blame men for deleting themselvesToo many lies and false equivalencies to count in just that little snippet. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/24 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Men feeling pressured to have childrenThey have kids. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Men feeling pressured to have childrenI have an odd question with this one. Both my older siblings (brother and sister) had pressure to have kids at some point. As for me, I was never placed under any kind of pressure to have them at any time. After being married for many years, I still don’t have them, but that wasn’t from lack of trying and is beside the point I am trying to make. Does anyone know what this means? Do my relatives really think that parenthood was never for me? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/24 01:22 AM |
| 13 | Isn’t it just lovely how anytime a guy says anything even remotely related to issues that men deal with, he’s a “coward” or “soft”?It is far more manly to speak up and call out BS when you see it rather than suffer in silence. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 05:16 AM |
| 8 | What if you are a therapist who doesn’t like working with male clients? - Article from Centre for Male PsychologyIsn’t that a little like working for Starbucks and refusing to serve coffee to someone you don’t like? That usually gets you fired. Maybe that’s what should happen to therapists. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Feminism Must Include Empathy for Working-Class MenThe bird of politics does not fly for men. Neither wing helps men as a group. In fact not helping men is the one thing that both sides agree on though for very different reasons. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/24 03:24 AM |
| 8 | /r/interestingasfuck banning people using a bot for participating in this sub.Happened to me also. I wasn’t subscribed and it was just a random subreddit that found its way into my feed and occasionally posted interesting content. It didn’t break my heart to be banned. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 67 | Criticism of feminism = terrorism?Too many feminists, scholars and politicians have their heads so far up their ideological ass that they think attacking feminism is akin to attacking basic human rights. They cannot see that feminist solutions do not work for most men and they need take their self righteous BS and go climb a tree. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Older female coworkers trying to prove you are a "loser" by one upping youIf she wants to play the stupid game of “Keeping up with the Joneses” the let her. If you need to say something then I would start bragging about how much money you were able to put away in your IRA because you saved money on XYZ. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/24 12:02 AM |
| 15 | Are men always losers in marriage, divorce, and child custody?In cases where alimony is awarded in a divorce between heterosexual couples, only 3 percent are women paying money to their ex husbands. I suppose this is not surprising since women will usually not marry a man who makes significantly less than them. I think the priority for reform needs to be in family court and enforcement of a more equitable child custody agreements and also a major crackdown on predatory collection practices as well as easier flexibility to account for changing economic situ… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/24 09:11 PM |
| 13 | Why do feminists say, kill all men?Feminism: the only ideology that has permission in mainstream media to use fascist and totalitarian rhetoric to advance its agenda. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/24 04:13 AM |
| 75 | New misandrist tactic just droppedIn all this fervor of women demanding more from men in relationships, women have completely forgotten that they too must bring something to the relationship besides sex. While this might work for a short while, contrary to popular belief, that is not sufficient for a man to sustain a long term relationship with a woman. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/24 04:04 AM |
| 10 | Why when a women speaks it’s empowering but when a man speaks its mansplaining?I believe they call it “punching up” which of course is complete nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draftIt’s time for SCOTUS to take this up. They previously ruled on this back in 1981 upholding a male-only draft on the basis that only men served in combat at the time. However all military jobs have been open to women for almost 10 years now. They declined to hear a challenge back in 2019 since congress was actively debating a change to the law which is an initiative which since then fizzled out. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/24 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Surprisingly enough, some women want us men to...live longer. Here's the catch.… to serve them. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/24 06:44 PM |
| 275 | Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvotedI think I read somewhere that women feel more threatened walking out in public alone while men are actually assaulted more often and are more often seriously injured from these assaults. Though I need to more critically research the matter, I will say it is difficult for men to give these kinds of considerations to women they do not know if the underlying assumption is that women should always be protected while men are left to fend for themselves. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/24 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Is there even a point in opening up anymore?I’ve been fairly lucky in that most of the women in my life have been on a fairly even keel and don’t engage in manipulation. But there are times when they try to have constructive conversations with me and they often take a harsh tone with me which causes me to disengage from the conversation. I think they do it because they’ve learned to deal with men in general in this manner. However my disengagement is something I learned to do when I got bullied in my school days as a means to protect my m… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/24 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Mad at my friend for saying men can’t be raped: just a rantBy this logic a woman should never be able to murder a man under any circumstances. But a loaded gun, a motive and an opportunity literally blows that argument away. There are obvious methods with which women can rape men. Alcohol and drugs being among them. Also there’s blackmail and also handcuffing at gun point followed by getting down to business. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | A question for Men's Health Week: do you think the idea that masculinity prevents men from seeking help for prostate cancer is overhyped?Is rain wet? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 10:31 PM |
| 27 | Realistically, which of the two main 2024 presidential candidates are better advocates for men's rights?They are both equally worthless in advancing the Men’s Rights agenda. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | We need to build up men, not put them down just for being menIn recent times the narrative from one side of the political spectrum has been consistently negative in regard to men. The other side only offered guidance in accordance with traditional masculinity. While I do identify with some traditional masculine values, overall I find neither side has been particularly helpful for men as a whole. I can see only one way forward: advance the MRA movement, expect to encounter unrelenting resistance and don’t be afraid to be almost universally hated. Don’t ask… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 04:58 AM |
| 6 | activistic sexism against men is so mainstream. Google agreesI think we should label this as “Weaponized Hyperbole”. Taking all the worst parts of the MRA movement and blowing them way out of proportion and improperly conflating it with several Manosphere bad actors in order to discredit the whole movement. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 02:18 AM |
| 15 | End the "female biological superiority" rhetoric I see so often in men's rights spaces.Some of this stems from historical marginalization of women and a feeling that “we should make men the second class citizen of today since women were second class citizens of yesterday.” This of course only breeds resentment instead of progress. Also some of this discussion is a little disingenuous. For example when talking about the vote getting extended to women over 100 years ago, many will make it sound like all men have had the right to vote since the dawn of time. However the right to vote… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 06:51 AM |
| 110 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesI thought I was reading decent article until I read this: A more productive social media post might feature a montage of boys and men with this caption: “Yes, you need to level up…you also deserve empathy and compassion along the way.” Even the ones who try to be helpful are completely tone deaf to the proper solutions. Most of the problems stem from structural disadvantages for men and have very little to do with “toxic masculinity”. I stopped reading after that because I realized I was reading… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 12:00 AM |
| 51 | Women DON'T want equalityYou mentioned a lot of double standards between men and women. I’d like to add one of the more pernicious ones is the treatment of men and women when the police are called in to intervene in a domestic violence situation. The automatic assumption is that the man always did something to her or if she assaulted him, then they assume that he must’ve done something to deserve it. So they arrest the man regardless of what happened, and if they don’t arrest him then they force him out of the home. Whe… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 06:23 AM |
| 77 | UK: Sister of man wrongly jailed for 17 years over a rape he didn't commit reveals how she's wracked with guilt after disowning him when he was convictedThe sister is just the sideshow in this article. This is the real story. They already had a man in prison for a horrible crime. It didn’t matter to them that it was the wrong man. They just wanted to have a man, any man, answer for it and they ignored exculpatory evidence to ensure it stayed that way. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 01:07 AM |
| 29 | Men and other mammals live longer if they are castrated, says researcher | BiologyI believe they took both the beans and the frank. So no princesses on the side. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 28 | UK: Woman, 32, flew into a rage and stabbed her boyfriend with a kitchen knife twice after he used up the milk making HER a cup of tea avoids jail. OP: Because she is femaleThe guy didn’t report it initially because he was afraid of what would happen to her daughter. Moral of the story, don’t be the hero and don’t be virtuous with women who don’t deserve it. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 06:08 PM |
| 142 | Men and other mammals live longer if they are castrated, says researcher | BiologyHistorically speaking, men became eunuchs for a reason. Usually to work in a palace around female royalty so that they would be sure not to sire any unauthorized offspring with them. Typically when you work with any higher echelon of a society, you also have access to their resources. This means that, as horrible as it is to lose genitalia, they had access to a much higher quality of life than your typical layperson during the timeframe in question. That higher quality of life probably fully exp… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 24 | If Men Really Are the Problem in Relationships Then Why is the Lesbian Divorce Rate So High?I believe this is what the scientific community calls a “confounding variable” which has a habit of shaking bullshit loose from a hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 04:30 AM |
| 27 | Serious question about suppressing men in the futureI recently saw other posts in this subreddit outlining government initiatives in Australia to “teach men to better behave”. It’s not surprising given that’s how it’s always been with men. If men are found wanting in any situation the response is always “suck it up buttercup” and never a helping hand. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 03:21 AM |
| 107 | Why are single healthy women allowed to complain about the lack of romantic encounter but not single disabled men?Also some men chose to be short rather than tall so I guess that’s on them as well. s/ | /r/MensRights | 27/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 7 | Is it too late? (Title IX)This is not the time seek vindication. She came asking for help. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are dying on the battlefield but here's why that's a good thing!How can that be? This is supposed to be a world built by men and for men /s. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/24 07:29 PM |
| 7 | MALE DOMESTIC ABUSE IS MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINKAlso if anyone argues that it’s not as much of a problem due to size and strength differences between men and women they’re wrong. Getting hit by your significant other is extremely damaging emotionally even if you’re not physically hurt. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/24 02:26 AM |
| 196 | Men are dying on the battlefield but here's why that's a good thing!So many trail blazing women replacing men in male dominated roles. Interesting how that enthusiasm and pioneer spirit is completely absent on the battlefields of Ukraine. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Physical tasksSorry you got downvoted for pointing this out. This mistake drives me nuts. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 02:28 AM |
| 25 | Mental health and menI should think that just the suicide stats of three out of four suicides being men would be sufficient to demonstrate the mental health challenges that men face. Those are easy to find and seem to hold up globally. Not sure how a truly rational human being can just brush that off as something innocuous. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/24 01:26 AM |
| 24 | Is dating worth it in modern times?You have to be very selective in who you date. Women do this naturally, however men have to work at it. Furthermore some of us have to be taught some hard life lessons before we learn to be selective. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Emmanuel Macron wants to force visitation for divorced men.That’s about as useful as getting rid of fairy dust which is equal parts imaginary as “patriarchy”. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 06:32 PM |
| 11 | There should be SERVERE PUNISHMENT if a woman lies to a man about her child being hisYet another problem solved by paternity testing. If a man has this right to get one any time, then he can just simply do a “trust but verify” just to be sure. If he doesn’t exercise this right and the child later turns out not to be his, then that’s on him. Either way with paternity testing, this question becomes moot. I just feel sorry for those French men for whom this is not an option. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Seen this randomly pop up in my news feed. Not Pay-walled.I was less concerned about the fact that they allowed for sex selection (though the practice is questionable) than I was with their reasons for doing so. The article made a mention of certain women getting the “ick” factor is consideration of having boys rather than girls. It was also revealing how many put forth a lot of social reasons for wanting girls rather than boys by referencing a lot of areas where boys lag behind girls in terms of academic achievement which I take as an implicit acknowl… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 10:06 AM |
| 21 | Woman who Murdered Boyfriend & Avoided Jail Now Wants even more Female Privilege From Feminize Kangaroo CourtGreat. So when a woman wants to get rid of their significant other in the worst way all they have to do is get high, murder him and get an easy sentence. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 02:02 AM |
| 3 | What’s a better word for toxic masculinity that doesn’t demonize men or masculinity?The term is never used in good faith in any context. There are always men who behave badly just as there are women who behave badly. The responsibility for the bad behavior is usually the fault of the individual and seldom the fault of the group to which they belong. Using this term ascribes way too much responsibility to the group (men in this case) for bad behavior and becomes very damaging to all men when used. Therefore it should simply never be used. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 06:12 AM |
| 72 | Why do boys lag behind girls at all ages of education? MPs to Investigate "The Education Committee has launched a new inquiry into why boys consistently underperform compared with girls in educational attainment across all age groups and nearly all ethnicities, and examine ways to improve outcomes."Agreed. I have zero faith that any western democracy would conduct such an investigation in good faith. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 04:56 AM |
| 35 | Complaining is solely possible for womenIt stems from one of feminism’s most flawed tenets: men built the world for men and women are powerless to change it. That is the state of affairs at the ideological level. At the political level, western democratic institutions are heavily influenced by well funded and well organized special interests which have siphoned off substantial resources for women’s advocacy leaving men with almost nothing and they continue to jealously guard those resources. At the cultural level men have always been … | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Quietism for men's well-being.Very few men would be considered members of the so-called patriarchy as you described it. Nowhere is that more apparent than when it comes to war and male draft. Here is a system that an ordinary man is completely powerless to deconstruct and kills ordinary men by the tens of thousands and, on a couple of occasions over the past century, killed men by the millions. I’ve read one feminist describe the ordinary man as the “foot soldier of the patriarchy” who still works to uphold said patriarchy e… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | We the Parents - Movie "Exploring the state of family courts through the eyes of parents and experts. "Just watched it and it is a good documentary. Only bad thing I could say about it was Warren Farrell at one time saying that father need to “step up to the plate and be dad” while completely ignoring the structural hurdles in place for allowing good dads to be dad which is what this documentary is about. I liked how it included a mother who had been denied parental rights as well which goes to show that a 50/50 presumption helps for both parents and not just dads. though I think the majority of … | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships?A man’s only leverage is to learn to be okay with being single. He must identify what he wants in a relationship and seek it out. If he doesn’t find it he has to be willing and able to stay single and if he finds that he has to compromise too much to the point of a power imbalance then he has to walk away. Furthermore, being single I think is something men are far better equipped to deal with than women so long as men have at least a few friends. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 04:32 PM |
| 44 | R.A.D. women's only self defense classses....I think it should be a violation because self defense should be something that everyone should have a right to be knowledgeable about. Women might feel they need to know this more than men, but men clearly have a need to know how to defend themselves given that they are the ones who get assaulted more frequently. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 01:44 PM |
| 15 | Am I the only one who thinks the talk of toxic masculinity is nothing more than a shit test/manipulation test from society in order for the powers that be to keep looking for things to scrutinize in men?If you come across people who use the term toxic masculinity you can immediately classify them as unintelligent and deal with them accordingly. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Declaring yourself a 'non feminist' is an act of discrimination, tribunal rules in judgement against Environment Agency manager who was 'unhappy with its pursuit of diversity and inclusivity'400 years ago it was Galileo against the Catholic Church challenging the idea of the Earth as the center of the solar system. Today it’s MRAs versus government challenging the idea that Feminism brings equality for all. Getting the truth of the matter out there often requires defiance of powerful institutions. But just like how gravity ultimately wins out in the long run, eventually the truth will emerge in the end and create change for the better. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/24 02:10 PM |
| 19 | The reasoning to exclude all women from conscription in modern society seems questionable. I’ve listed some points that come to mind but people might have others they could add.Also you might hear the argument that no one should be conscripted. However when that argument is made in the context of whether or not women should be conscripted, this argument becomes a complete deflection. If conscription is the rule, then everyone should participate. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/24 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Quick update about my nonprofit!That’s awesome. I hope it is successful. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Forced to complete ignorant mental health training at schoolIs this assertion cited in a textbook or any other form of published content? Edit: this was a question asked in good faith. So these downvotes are really annoying. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 03:11 AM |
| 6 | Am I crazy?Not wrong and also it’s a methodology supported by the United Nations. In calculating its gender equity scores for countries, any time women have the upper hand in a given category for a particular country, they simply classify the country as having achieved equity for the category in question. This is true even if women have vastly higher outcomes than men and there are no means to quantify anti male discrimination. Source: “Of Men and Boys” by Richard Reeves | /r/MensRights | 09/04/24 04:46 AM |
| 8 | The “pink tax” is so stupidJust the mere fact that men require at least 20% more calories of food per day is sufficient to render half of the pink tax moot. Monthly pink tax amounts to just over $100 per month for your average woman. And according to this the average woman pays $406 per month on groceries and the average man pays $458. Also men pay anywhere from $15 to $100 more per month depending on age for life insurance which probably accounts for the rest of the pink tax. This is just scratching the surface. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/24 04:55 AM |
| 40 | Male rape victims have to pay child support even if the guy is a minorUnder these circumstances, there should be a narrowly-defined right of the victim to claim up to 100% custody of the child which should not be contestable and the perpetrator pays full child support if exercised. A convicted felon, the mother in this case, should not have a position of privilege under the law over the victim (the father). | /r/MensRights | 05/04/24 08:24 PM |
| 16 | Why it’s not ok to say ‘Kill All Men’The fact that women can say this without any serious repercussions speaks volumes about the real privilege they have in society. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/24 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Is there any evidence the "Duluth Model" is falling out of favour in many countries around the world? At least, that is what I have personally heard myself.As an American, that’s one idea I wish was never exported out of the US. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/24 07:08 AM |
| 79 | Women hardest hit by student debt and lifestyle choices - article claims this is unfairThey are the majority of students and they also make up the majority of the lowest paying degrees. Not exactly a shocker, but then again no one held a gun to their heads and told them to go to college and take out massive debts to do so. Women are supposedly more inclined to make conscientious decisions than men so if they’re making poor life decisions then they have only themselves to blame. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/24 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Is Passport Bros a scam?So goes the logic of one anecdotal observation somehow “proving” the entire approach is a failure. Even if the Passport Bros approach to relationships doesn’t pan out, I still applaud these men for trying it. It is not something I would ever do, but it is still a valid attempt at trying something different rather than the insanity of trying the same thing and expecting different results. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/24 10:53 PM |
| 172 | ADL says MGTOW is an extreme misogynist movement.I skimmed through the content on ADL. Their main reason for classifying it as a “hate group” is because of its anti-feminist stances. If that’s the case then this is the most unique “hate group” I’ve ever heard of because I can’t think of any hate groups out there which has a “live and let live” mentality. It’s exactly like trying to hate monks and the whole of idea of monasticism. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/24 10:59 PM |
| 32 | New Hampshire Representative DESTROYS routine infant circumcisionShe says that the decision to circumcise infant boys by parents is a choice that is taken away from them when they become adults since they can no longer choose to be uncircumcised. I completely agree and I think the practice of infant circumcision should be banned. If men want to be circumcised as adults that is perfectly fine and I cannot think of any reasons why an infant should be circumcised even for religious reasons. In this case, a child raised in one faith may choose a different faith o… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/24 08:16 PM |
| -4 | Denmark announces compulsory military service for women tooWell I doubt that women will deliberately get pregnant to avoid peace time conscription, but a full blown war is a whole other animal. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/24 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Denmark announces compulsory military service for women tooYup. More women will work the support jobs to make more men available for the meat grinder. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/24 04:44 AM |
| 164 | Disgusting...The matter-of-fact style of word choice is the most disturbing of all. She speaks as though she did something wholesome like caring for the sick, elderly or disabled when in fact she did just the opposite. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory nowadays?Here’s a fun fact: if DNA testing is not an option you can at least do blood type. By a father matching his blood type to that of his purported offspring, there is a 14 percent chance of discovering false paternity. Granted it is far less desirable than a DNA test, but it is better than nothing. Also I would think that knowing the blood type of your child is information that cannot be withheld from a father given that it’s information that any parent should know in case of emergency. I suppose t… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 17 | 7 signs of a manipulative womanVery informative. One of the things within the power of men to fight back against women who have the social backing to do things they shouldn’t be able to do is to become pickier about the women we choose as partners. As I’ve gotten older I now realize that sometimes being single is preferable to being in a relationship with a manipulative, abusive or radically feminist woman. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 03:53 AM |
| 102 | My wife abused me — I got her jailed after cops saw horrific nanny cam footage "repeatedly threatened to go to police claiming her helpless husband was abusing her — and would even scream for help to trick neighbours into believing that was the case...holding a carving knife to her husband’s throat"Just finished reading. I thought I read that she got four years in prison. At any rate, it looks like there was a satisfactory outcome to this case. However the fact that it took 20 years for this resolution to come is a reflection of society in that it protects women to a fault. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/24 11:38 PM |
| 66 | "Radical Feminists" are insisting the reason on why women quite the workforce to become stay at home mothers is apparently male managers with stay at home wives, because they are supposedly more "Sexist".I think women quit the workforce because women have cultural permission to do so at any time amongst a myriad of other options for a lifestyle. Men on the other hand can do anything they like so long as they work full time and give all their extra money to their family, which is to say they have NO other options to be seen as a normal contributing member of society. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/24 02:53 AM |
| 21 | What do you say when you’re talking about men’s issues and feminists bring up the “who’s in power” argument?They also have well funded and well organized lobby groups. For example Mother Against Drunk Driving (MADD) which succeeded in raising the legal age of drinking to 21 for everyone and everywhere without exception to include US service members. That by the way is one of the many contradictions of the US in that you can enlist at 18, go to war, use the most destructive weapons ever known to exist and yet still be considered not legally responsible enough to consume alcohol. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 07:43 PM |
| 170 | Gen Z doesn't agree with stay at home dadsMaybe they’re afraid that men would find out what it’s all about find that they enjoy it. If that happens then the whole feminist argument of “domestic slave” completely shatters. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 02:26 AM |
| 17 | ‘Fragile male ego’: anyone notice this term being weaponised to embarrass and shame men, and invalidate emotions?It’s feminism evolving the way it fights for their goals by trying to control language. This is a tactic which tries hard to frame the discussion in matter that makes it more difficult to argue against their agenda. I just take it for what it is which just smoke and mirrors. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/24 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Is The "Patriarchy" Truly Real?If Patriarchy is, or ever was, real, then it has hilariously failed in its stated goal of creating a world by men and for men. The only privilege I got from the Patriarchy was the privilege to die for a frivolous cause and to work harder than a slave to pay it all to someone else. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | "they tell us...." narrative and my answersI’ve literally never even heard of any man younger than a boomer who agreed with any of the opinions in your original post let alone meet any man like that in person. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 04:16 PM |
| 3 | "they tell us...." narrative and my answersThis is stuff they learned from their mothers and grandmothers about the world they grew up in, which today, largely no longer exists. Up until about 20 years ago this was a potent narrative to advocate for change in favor of women and girls. Now they use it as an important tool to leverage their way in to a privileged status at the expense of men. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 03:50 PM |
| 19 | The disposability and dehumanization of menI was just reading a post in another subreddit about a woman who committed manslaughter by the name of Darla Jackson. She ran over a 39 year old man with her car in a road rage incident and killed him. Plead guilty to voluntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 6 years in jail (15 years maximum sentence). She was found guilty back in 2018 so she will be out of prison this year. What I found interesting about this is that nothing is mentioned about the biography of the man other than he was a Chi… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else feel revulsion at the idea of being a provider?It certainly feels like that’s the center of gravity for a lot of men. Even if you marry a woman who is equally committed to holding down a full time job and earning similar income as you, they sometimes revert to part time or just entirely quit and leave you holding the bag as breadwinner. Sometimes it’s for a good reason to become a SAHM when daycare costs more than the income earned from her job. But it’s also not uncommon that they do this for more frivolous reasons. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 06:42 AM |
| 125 | Men and women's brains do work differently, scientists discover for first timeSounds like someone just earned their doctorate by proving that which common sense already taught us. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 08:22 AM |
| 9 | Once, a misogynist was someone who hates women. Nowadays, a misogynist is someone whom women hate.This quote has both truth and symmetry. Very poetic. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Finally told my wife about some abuse I suffered as a child something. I have never told any other human being ever.It is exceedingly clear that men can only talk about emotional issues with other men who can be trusted. This is why men only spaces are important to have so that these important things can be discussed only amongst other men. There used to be plenty of them available but they’ve either been invaded by women or completely shut down. So now these important discussions are relegated to the dark corners of the internet. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 3 | "Men rape women to show their masculinity" how logical is this saying?If this is true then I guess 99.999999% of men are not masculine. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Going to Court on Wednesday to contest an Emergency Order for ProtectionThis is a breach of trust that feels worse than cheating because she abused the law while keeping up pretenses that everything was fine. Don’t reconcile with her. Divorce her and file for full custody. Your son shouldn’t be raised in any part by a selfish manipulative mother. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Are there any movies/shows that show male victims of rape and sexual violence getting revenge on their female perpetrators?There is this episode of Law and Order: SVU | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 07:49 AM |
| 101 | Requiring Men but not Women to Register for the Draft is Sex Discrimination | ACLUIn today’s laws, in order to find misogyny you have to analyze second order and third order effects of each law and conduct a full-blown study. But in order to find misandry you need look no further than what the law literally says. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Women's Health GapI don’t have any hard evidence to present for or against. But the implication doesn’t quite seem to meet the sniff test because women visit the doctor much more often than men and are usually the ones who are far more concerned about their health. In light of these trends I remain skeptical that there is a health care resource gap in favor of men. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Thinking time to divorce my wifeTime to retain a high-powered divorce lawyer and prepare for war. Be prepared to sell that million dollar house to pay for it if that’s what it takes in order to secure at least a fair custody agreement which, by the way, is not covered by a prenup. I would also take some time to familiarize yourself with ALL of the shenanigans that women sometimes do to come out on top in a divorce and child custody and support agreement (i.e. false DV accusations, etc) and have a contingency plan for each and … | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 06:02 AM |
| 78 | Feminist NSW education minister pushes for Newington College boys school to go Co-ed, despite parents objectingVery interesting how they frame boys doing better in single sex schools as an “advantage”. You never hear that word describing girls doing better than boys in all other learning environments across the board. Of course the powers that be cannot allow this to stand because boys doing better in school, when segregated from girls, makes the school system look like a bunch of misandrists. All inconvenient truths must be crushed and swept under the rug. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 4 | why is vocational education or technical school training seen as inferior to college education?Why do you think modern feminism is a right wing movement? | /r/MensRights | 04/02/24 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Looking for your opinions or comments on a poll I conducted at a university. Could you share your thoughts?It’s very clear that we’re not going to hear the end of it any time soon regarding the gender pay gap. Also none of the women would tolerate their significant other earning less than them. That is as impossible of a situation as one can imagine. On the one hand women will get every possible hand-up imaginable to close the imagined pay gap and on the other hand men who want to marry and have kids are going to have to do everything they can to out-earn the women they pursue as wife material. Then … | /r/MensRights | 01/02/24 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Therapy most of the time doesn't work for men, and here's why.From reading these comments here it sounds like female therapists get one to talk about their problems and make ones help one to put forth solutions. It sounds like combining both methods as parts of a two-step solution would be ideal with men. First talk about all the issues so that they can all be identified which is what women do ad nauseum then once fully identified, work towards finding solutions which is what men are naturally good at (usually). I’ve never been in therapy so this might be … | /r/MensRights | 29/01/24 12:57 AM |
| 41 | 250 feminist organization accross Canada are asking the government to ban claims of parental alienation in family courtBut I thought feminism fought for both men and women? How can this possibly be? /s | /r/MensRights | 24/01/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | This may be a HISTORIC MOMENT for MEN'S RIGHTS in Argentina. Female Milei candidate promises fathers will not have to pay child support if mother has ‘punctured condom’ or lied about being on the pill. Also offers paper abortions for men who don't want to become fathers.Empty promise. This is stuff that is almost impossible to prove. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 05:39 AM |
| 47 | UK: Girls outdo the boys at school AND university with males achieving higher in only five GCSE subjects, study findsSo it sounds like they are pointing out that girls are killing it in like 80% of all academic subject. Then, instead of asking how we can help boys achieve something more akin to parity with girls, they instead ask how they can empower girls to completely and utterly dominate 100% of all subjects in stead of “just” 80%. The boys can’t catch a break on anything. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Feminist academics are proposing a hostile takeover of masculinity, targeting young men and boys for re-education with 'healthy masculinities'.This is why we need men’s rights. Too many people who are not men are trying to decide what’s best for men and we need a collective voice to tell them to fuck off. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Anyone on here pay more to their ex wife than me?Can any of you annotate these figures in terms of percentage of take home pay (if that’s not too much info to broadcast to internet strangers)? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/23 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Tired of conditional loveI agree. It was pure luck. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 08:34 AM |
| 17 | Tired of conditional loveA huge reason why I married my wife is because she was interested in getting to know me even when I was unemployed and living with relatives as I made the transition from college to the workforce. When I got settled in to my first job we started dating. But yes, in most cases a man has to first secure a good job before directing his attention towards relationships with women. But I’d also say that as soon as you have status remember the ones who gave you attention when you had no status. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How to abolish conscription (military slavery) around the world?!I would agree that all able bodied adults should at least go through basic training (Army or Marine version) followed by some kind of national service (not necessarily military). That would be more politically feasible. Otherwise we have the potential to see people getting drafted and sent off to war just like the Vietnam era. It would give all people a familiarity with military service which has been falling off steadily over the past 50 years while not forcing people into military service. It … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 04:16 AM |
| 3 | How to abolish conscription (military slavery) around the world?!Could also work the 14th amendment angle and argue against the draft due to its overt unequal application. This might force an all-or-nothing change to the draft. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 04:05 AM |
| 20 | Glynn Simmons, longest-serving wrongfully-imprisoned US inmate, cleared of murdering a woman after almost 50 years. Only eligible for $175,000 compensationThis got me thinking. If doctors have malpractice insurance, then why don’t prosecutors have wrongfully accused insurance? In cases such as this one, the wrongfully convicted should receive compensation in the millions and it should be paid from a fund that is mutually funded by prosecutors with each one paying premiums based on their track record and their assessed risk of wrongfully charging and convicting a person for a crime they did not commit. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a man-hating boss?I guess they didn’t get the memo that DEI is for everyone and it’s not a license to discriminate against white men. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Have you ever had a man-hating boss?No one who was a direct man-hater, but I can think of one senior executive who I have noticed only mentors women and actively promotes the careers of almost exclusively women. The best part is that the person is a man. Additionally I’ve tried advocating for assignment to certain key positions which are stepping stones for advancement, but I’ve been rebuffed on several occasions despite knowing with absolute certainty that I was the best candidate. What’s more is that each of these positions woul… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 07:26 PM |
| 22 | Diversity policies face ‘full-out attack’ in 2024, leading HR boss warns | The GuardianSo you’re saying millions of white dudes have to be locked out of good jobs which they’re qualified for just because a privileged handful of CEOs happen to be white male? Meritocracy has to be the only deciding factor in choosing whom to hire. This blatant racism and sexism needs to just go away and be left in the Jim Crow past. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Is this even a valid rebuttalCall their bluff and ask for a source banking on the fact that they are full of total BS. I would do so because 1) I’ve never heard of statistics that quantify time spent outside of home by gender and 2) I can’t imagine a useful purpose of said statistics and 3) if by some wild chance there are stats out there, I doubt there are any significant differences between genders. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/23 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Eating disorder hospitalizations for young men surged 416% in nearly 2 decades: report - Globalnews.caUntil now I had never heard of this issue with men and I understood it to mainly impact women and girls. Is this a new trend that has emerged with men over the past 10 to 20 years? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/23 06:19 AM |
| 21 | How can women perform emotional labour for men when they don't open up emotionally?The real emotional labor is done by people who continue to do what needs to be done despite their current emotional state. It’s men who do better and do more heavy lifting in this regard. A smart feminist should drop this argument like it’s hot. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/23 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Is it okay for men to show emotion/talk about their feelings.I’d further qualify that and say it should only be done with other men who can be trusted. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 04:35 PM |
| 15 | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? According to the New York Times, lets ask Women only.This is yet another article outlining how men are not “measuring up” and completely neglect to ask for men’s input. Also the reasons put forth for single motherhood were that the men were basically abusive drug users or they got pregnant by men who wanted to continue sleeping around. So no one wants to talk about how so many of these single mothers chose to sleep with terrible men and get pregnant by them? I call BS. There are plenty of decent men out there who get overlooked. But that’s “entitl… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 11:52 PM |
| 15 | I like this community…but…in my honest opinion…The only problem with muting the self-pity here is that sometimes people need a place to vent. Without this subreddit there are very few other places in the virtual realm for men to do that. I think it’s okay to give men permission to vent their frustrations in the short term and then morph those frustrations into something more productive in the long term. I don’t think we need to remind men to do that which they’ve been told to do since birth which is to take responsibility for their circumsta… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/23 04:25 PM |
| 57 | Has modern feminism ever helped men in some ways?It introduced the idea that men and women don’t have to be tied to their traditional gender norms. As a result we have some men doing jobs that were traditionally occupied by women such as nursing or become a stay at home dad, and I do emphasize the word “some” here. However feminism has been several orders of magnitude more liberating for women than it has for men in terms of career choice. In terms of social issues, the benefits all go exclusively to women and have completely shut out men from… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/23 02:10 PM |
| 14 | France: Macron was 15 when he fell in love with his 40 year old mother of two teacher. OP: This would be illegal in the UK. The teacher would be prosecuted.90s. Not 70s. Macron was born in 1977 and was age 15 in 1992. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Research: Male Applicants For Female-Typed Jobs Tend to Face Discrimination, Female Applicants For Male-Typed Jobs Tend to be Treated Fairly.I do HR for the military currently and this is what I am afraid awaits me once I retire and try to enter the civilian labor force. I don’t relish the thought of trying to seek out an HR job as a middle aged white male in a field full of women who are likely to have an in-group bias. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 03:27 PM |
| 47 | Dr. Richard Wrangham, Harvard anthropologist, argues that all males are inherently violent and worthy of immediate extinction. (as soon as parthenogenesic technology is finished, anyway... )No one who subscribes to these kinds of beliefs should ever have a place in academia and has no right to call himself/herself a scientist. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/23 05:19 AM |
| 11 | Being a good guy in this generation isn’t worth itJust remember the reason for being a good guy is because it is the right thing to do. It has very little to do with dating. I’m sure it counts for something with women, but it’s probably nowhere near the highest priority even if they might openly say otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 07:10 AM |
| 6 | Pew Research study concluded that “Women are generally more religious than men, particularly among Christians”. Especially older women. Is this another type of control or feminism over men?Historically speaking this has always been the case. To provide an illustrative point, the Chateau D’If that was featured in the 2002 film the Count of Monte Christo was a real place. It was a prison for Protestant women who refused to convert to Catholicism. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Male maths teacher at all-girls grammar school wins £45,000 after being sacked over 'playground plot when pupils made up lies about him assaulting them because it was fun'Those are rookie numbers. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 02:19 AM |
| 23 | 63% of young men now singleThis article basically took a spray & pray approach to identify the problems. Most of them missed the mark by a mile but I think this one nails it: “The expectations of American men are also rising in the minds of women, according to masculinity expert and University of Akron professor Ronald Levant, who added that ‘unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.’” For the last 50 years I think men have only been saddled with more and more responsibilities and demands on their time as well a… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 02:47 AM |
| 13 | Why are Male grievances constantly erased or ignored??After a long day at work you’re jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire. Gotta do at least 50% of household chores even if you are the sole breadwinner working at a decent job that drains all of your energy. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 04:06 AM |
| 53 | There Is No PatriarchyThe patriarchy construct does two things. 1. Provides a framework for establishing women as victims for all problems which befall women. They try to extend this construct to men as well, but it fails when men seek redress and are told either their problems are not as bad as they think or “women have it worse” and therefore women need to be prioritized. 2. Here’s the really slick part of patriarchy: when men have legitimate issues, women and feminists conveniently wash their hands of any responsi… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/23 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Difference in hobbies and what that translates toOne bit of information that I think really confounds the claim of sexism in e-sports is the fact that the best chess players in the world are men. I think the best women chess players are no where near the top. This is very telling because while playing chess in a competitive environment, you don’t socially interact with your opponent which makes it impossible to claim harassment. Also physical advantages such as greater strength or speed have no meaning in chess. Therefore in terms of gender dy… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/23 07:22 PM |
| 68 | What women define as sexual harassment or catcalling is often biased, studies showIn summary what defines sexual harassment is a huge moving target, nebulous and almost impossible to define. This means it is far too easy to weaponize against men. It is also extremely problematic for men since the social expectation that they approach women and not the other way around has not changed. I’m just glad I married the right woman years ago and I don’t have to worry about this BS and hopefully won’t ever have to. But I really feel sorry for the young single men of today. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/23 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Wtf is this subMost of us find pro feminist and pro MRA to be conflicting viewpoints. While many feminists don’t see it that way, the feminists who have power (e.g. feminist lobbyists, magazine editors for feminist magazines, and pro feminist politicians) have used said power to advance women’s issues exclusively and often to the detriment of men’s issues. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 10:32 PM |
| 34 | Wtf is this subCan you provide a few examples of specific posts that “drag women” in your view? | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Male gender role and heroicsMen are naturally more prone to take risks than women with limited exceptions (e.g. protection of children from danger). So I would say it is more instinctive than cultural for men to take heroic action when needed. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Fear of child support keeping you from having kids?In the last 10 years I’ve been hearing a lot of concern from demographers that people in the west are not having enough babies. Funny how this simple fear about becoming a father is never given a single thought when searching for solutions. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/23 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Men Overran a Job Fair for Women in TechI found it interesting that the author failed to quote a single man who came to the job fair. The entrance fee was hundreds of dollars so they must’ve had a damn good reason for going. Also no one pays that kind of money just to “crash the party” or to make a social commentary especially in those numbers. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/23 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Someone make sense of this, please...Actually greater rights for women in the west has in fact resulted in lower fertility. When having children becomes optional or can be delayed, the result is typically that people choose to delay having kids in favor of other priorities. Women are told they can delay having kids until their 30s, however a downside of waiting until then is that women end up having fewer children the more they delay. This is a fact that feminists neglect to share with many women as they plan their lives. The end r… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/23 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Article about dating that I interviewed for is up.I think they have this backwards: “Many men perceive themselves to be far less marriageable. And in turn, many women perceive them to be less marriageable, too.” | /r/MensRights | 29/09/23 07:02 PM |
| 17 | Figured I’d share my article on circumcision. It blows my mind this is even considered controversial. His body, his choiceHere’s something scary from the article: “It’s believed by many doctors that circumcision makes up over 1.5% of all male deaths.” The article further clarified that many of these deaths were classified under secondary causes such as infection rather than the primary cause of circumcision. This by itself should be reason enough to ban the practice on infants or other persons unable to give consent. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 03:07 AM |
| 7 | As a woman, how can I be more aware of men and their needs?To be clear, I don’t think anyone is asking to roll back the status of women to what it was in the 1950s and before. By and large I think what most of us want is to have the same level of advocacy that women and girls have gained over the last 50+ years in order to address the challenges that are unique to men. Furthermore, it is very important that everyone understands that this advocacy takes nothing away from women. I’ve seen too many straw man’s arguments to the effect that advancing male we… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 01:19 AM |
| 8 | If you need any proof that men's rights are not taken seriously, simply look at Ukraine right nowI think if a nation has no choice but to use the draft then it should be all or nothing. Given the way modern armies work, you can draft women and have them do jobs that aren’t necessarily close combat roles. Also for those few women who can handle the physical and mental stresses of close combat, no need to discriminate. Send them to the front. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 02:34 AM |
| 15 | Emma Raducanu tells girls they don't need men to succeed as she reads revised fairy tales which write out Prince Charming in new HSBC ad. OP: Reverse the genders and imagine the outcry!The west will also be supplanted by societies that permit substantially fewer rights and privileges for women and girls. In the end, I think that will be our last point of leverage: either grant men a basic support structure with positive respect for men’s contributions or the west dies only to be replaced by societies that are actually misogynistic in not only custom but also in their laws. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/23 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Why does the media portray men to be idiots?Would the same list of characters have even half the amount of cultural gravitas? | /r/MensRights | 21/09/23 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Danny Masterson's wife stands by him for his whole trial. He's found guilty, so she divorces him.I think a broader question to ask is how does this scenario “normally” play out for the common folk? For couples in which one person gets sentenced to prison for decades is a divorce normal? It’s hard for me to judge her actions without placing it within this kind of context. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/23 03:35 PM |
| 33 | DiscriminationRules for thee but not for me! | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 03:19 PM |
| 18 | How Do Men Hold "All The Power?"These men represent a tiny minority of all men. As a means to expand their own power, they are actively discriminating against men in favor of women at the expense of ordinary men. CEOs do it to expand the labor market to add more workers to the labor force and drive down labor costs. Politicians do it since women are 53% of voters making them a prime voting demographic. Dropping these facts into the middle of this conversation and leaving zero context does not make you look smart even if you th… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Men more likely to sell their soul in industries - anyone know why?I don’t think it’s “toxic masculinity” that influences men in pursuit of excellence. I think men do in fact have an instinctive drive to want to feel like they are the best at something. However when taken to an extreme, it can be a coping mechanism. The most common example is if your domestic life is in the dumps, some men throw themselves into their work as a form of escapism. In some ways this can be a better escapist pursuit than self medicating with drugs, alcohol or online gaming. However … | /r/MensRights | 17/09/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | From the Teachers community on RedditIt gladdens me to see that those in that subreddit are aware of the lack of academic achievement of boys and also they seemed to take this issue seriously. It is really causing me to consider my next career. I only have a few more years left of military service and I have the right educational background to teach. I wonder what would happen if I jump in to K-12 with an agenda for helping boys to catch up to girls. Probably not worth the effort and shitty pay, but the utter failure of our K-12 ed… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/23 08:01 AM |
| 11 | I so strongly disagree with this article more than I have disagreed with anything ever in the history of all thingsAlso radical feminism: reduce the male population to 10%. Sorry but self-preservation is not misogyny. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Lyft supports discrimination against men in ridesharingIf a man seeks to do harm against a random woman, then couldn’t this app be used for the very purpose it seeks to protect against? I believe a man could just as easily request an Uber specifying a female driver and if the app works as intended, a woman shows up as intended. I am not a lawyer but I am pretty sure this is a violation of the 14th amendment. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 05:05 AM |
| 51 | If men really are the priviledged sex, please give me some examples..In daily interactions I think women tend to be taken less seriously than men especially in regards to technical knowledge and skills. However in terms of equality before the law and general quality of life outcomes, men have it far worse. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/23 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Men are just disposableThat’s not going to remove any significant number of voters from Republicans. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Gey & Lesbian Couples. Were We Wrong?I think IPV and relationship satisfaction are two different things. It is possible that male homosexual relationships have less IPV while lesbian relationships have more relationship satisfaction. Both statements can be true so I think maybe OP is mistakenly conflating the two. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/23 05:27 AM |
| 13 | Netflix Limited Series: DEPP V HEARDThanks for sharing. Now I know I will not be watching this mockumentary. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 05:34 PM |
| 11 | Women’s only nightclubJust the top 10-20 percent. They don’t want to be “sexually harassed” by the remaining 80-90 percent. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 04:18 AM |
| 51 | Is the wage gap real?The controlled gender pay gap is the only legitimate measure which the article pegged at 99 cents on the dollar. So basically the gap is non existent. The “uncontrolled” wage gap simply boils down to choices men and women make. Granted women often choose to leave the workforce to raise kids at a time when their career growth would kick in to high gear. But that’s a much more nuanced conversation than the current one being played out in popular culture. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 39 | Almost 50,000 people killed themselves in the US last year. 80% of them were men.I read a different article that quoted the same stat and prefaced it at people without further breaking it down to men and women. Maybe when it becomes 90% men it will be recognized as a gendered issue. … on the other hand 90% puts us into the territory of war casualties and on the job deaths. So even then nope. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Saw the Barbie movie - holy crap it was bad, but not necessarily why you think.Correct. Leni Riefenstahl. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 05:32 PM |
| 25 | Saw the Barbie movie - holy crap it was bad, but not necessarily why you think.I remember taking a history class in college on modern Germany. We had to watch a Nazi propaganda film called Triumph of the Will. If feminists were to make a propaganda film in a similar vein, the Barbie movie would be that film. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 04:00 PM |
| 15 | The new crisis of masculinity“women have entered schools and the economy in force and they’re doing really well. And I think men are beginning to feel a little bit worried and lost in comparison.” Actually men at worst don’t care and at best are mildly supportive of the elevated economic status of women. The only problem is that women do care since they won’t date down to lower-earning men. So the more they earn the smaller their dating pool and the more likely their child-bearing years will expire without reproducing. Sorr… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 01:47 AM |
| 12 | Bill Maher calls 'Barbie' 'preachy' and 'man-hating'That’s probably why the most unpopular people today are the often the ones who speak the truth. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 01:28 AM |
| 331 | Megan Fox Says Her Body “Aches” From Carrying the Weight of Men’s “Sins” Her Entire LifeProbably doesn’t ache as bad from carrying the weight of 30 years of working a trade or 20 years of military service. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 01:24 AM |
| 8 | This just ruined my night, like.... The hell was that???I assume from his reaction that he developed a relationship with her child under the mistaken assumption that he was the father. Is this the context of what happened here? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 12:11 AM |
| 6 | "Women's Rate of X is Increasing Faster than Men" - Math every MRA should understandThis is a perfect example of how you can tell a lie with statistics. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 04:45 AM |
| 25 | The military-industrial complex is now run by women. Women are in political & military power the world over.After the last Greatest Generation president (Bush 41) there’s only been one who has had military service. Even then, his military service closely resembles an attempt to shield himself from service in Vietnam (Bush 43). | /r/MensRights | 03/08/23 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Men work fatalitiesThe first question to ask is are safety standards lax because risk of death almost exclusively impacts men in the work force ? Another question to ask is, as women have moved in to traditionally male-dominated vocations over the last 50 years, how have safety standards evolved? I don’t have the answers to the questions but I think this is the proper starting point | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 285 | Man paid over $19,000 per month in alimony and child support for 16 years... Was sent to jail after being unable to pay anymore and ended up killing himself in prison.Maybe that’s exactly what should happen. The ex and/or the judge should be charged with murder. Edit: also a wrongful death lawsuit brought by any surviving relatives he may have. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 10:34 PM |
| 71 | "Barbie" movie is becoming a new litmus test for dating menThis line made me laugh: “Az Zahra said, she believes how men respond to seeing “Barbie” could be an effective gauge of their respect for women.” It’s more like an effective gauge for determining how much self-respect a man has. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Italian men cannot withdraw consent for IVFGot it. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Italian men cannot withdraw consent for IVFI don’t understand. So he’s legally required to provide his sperm or do they already have it frozen? | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Men are better at rising kidsI am not going to call this “settled science” but there is certainly a compelling argument which at the very least debunks the “Tender Years Doctrine”. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Casual misandry in Law & Order: SVU and other television shows.I don’t watch it very often but there was one episode that specifically dealt with male rape committed by a woman. I have no clue which season (series as it is known in Britain if I am not mistaken) but if you can find it I would recommend watching it. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 02:24 AM |
| 36 | “Motherhood Penalty”This reads just like any other modern-day crap piece concerning women’s issues. It lays out all the issues and backs it up with data. Then when it comes time to identify culprits for the issues at hand, it completely abandons the data-driven approach and points an angry condescending finger at the one demographic with a big huge cultural target painted on its back: MEN. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 05:22 PM |
| 28 | Barbie movie claims to be against sexism, but it just promotes it. Please rate it online.The feminist agenda is very clear in this movie which is the first movie I’ve seen in which they explicitly used the concept of patriarchy as a plot device. Every male character was two dimensional and their depiction of the “real world” was cartoonishly depicted as male dominated without any nuance. I got a few cheap laughs at best and I am still struggling to mentally unpack this movie and it’s multiple levels of ignorance, sexism and intellectual dishonesty. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 09:00 AM |
| 108 | For five years in a row, advocates have tried to push for a default 50/50 custody and parenting time split in Illinois, but the family lawyer lobby has fought it and won each time.Family lawyers stand to lose $ from said legislation since there would be less need for their services under a 50/50 presumption. Since 50/50 is an equitable agreement under most circumstances, there’s no need to cough up hundreds of dollars an hour for family lawyers. So the bottom line is they are not opposing the legislation due to virtue. They just want to keep their cash cow. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Masculinity, Fear and Cultural PanicInstead of engaging in the cognitive process of analyzing when people will be violent and when they will not, they just paint a with a broad brush and say, because men commit most violent acts they are the problem. That’s just intellectual laziness. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/23 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Working Woman Cries & Asks Why We Fought For Women To Get Jobs In The First Place — 'I'm So Tired'I don’t think it is very productive to engage in Schadenfreude. The right answer is to neither take pleasure in the struggles of another nor be a white knight. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 04:57 PM |
| 12 | Is The Patriarchy Real?At best, it’s a woefully inadequate construct to assess the lived experiences of ordinary men and their ability to control their own destiny and that of their family’s. At worst, it serves the same purpose that the Jews did to Hitler and the Nazis during WWII: a boogeyman upon which to focus the worst parts of humanity towards an evil purpose. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/23 06:12 AM |
| 2 | There is no significant help for men who are strugglingI think the sarcasm went over your head. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 08:10 AM |
| 45 | There is no significant help for men who are strugglingIt’s all because a privileged few men at the top 0.1% outnumber the women by a 50:1 ratio at that level. Therefore the 99.9% of the rest us not so privileged men get to pay the price for their success. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/23 06:37 AM |
| 4 | I saw an old clip of Andy Samberg today saying “men have it so easy” and it’s been on my mind all dayI suppose if all you look at are the most successful men and put on blinders to the rest of the men then I can see how one could come to this conclusion. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 04:48 AM |
| 6 | The life expectancy gap between men and women in the United States has further widen to about 6 years (79.1 for women, 73.2 for men) as the whole nation's life expectancy dropped after the COVID-19 Pandemic.Kinda defeats the whole biological argument for men living shorter lives. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 17 | Internalized behavior from TVWe’ve all seen the tired trope of the dumb man getting rescued by his smart wife played out in the media for the last 50 years and it is really starting to look like women have internalized it. I have noticed that when women have arguments with men over factual information, they automatically expect to be right and its the most infuriating thing trying to work past that mindset. I will sometimes get in to arguments with women over facts that I know are true because they directly relate to what I… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/23 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Invisible Victims: When Men Are AbusedUh ya think! It’s insane that there are those who think this is the case. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/23 05:31 AM |
| 6 | Scotland moves toward removing trial by jury in sexual assault casesI am not Scottish, but I would rather they didn’t do this so that other Western nations don’t get paid a visit by the same good idea fairy. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Mother always talking about how she hates menPlease do everything you can to challenge their views because it sounds like your mother and sisters only want to live in their own echo chambers. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Was the women's rights movement really about equality, or gaining power?The 19th century women’s movement definitely was about equality. Back then all a woman had to look forward to was to marry and have children and there’s definitely nothing wrong for seeking the right and the resources to choose a different path. But at some point within the last 50 years, we kinda overshot the equality mark which has worked to saddle men with more responsibility and simultaneously reduced benefit towards participating socially. The situation today is such that on the one hand me… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 12:06 PM |
| 33 | Family court is absolutely stacked against men. A personal story.Keep telling these stories over and over again. If this happens to too many men and the stories get out there then eventually I think things will change. While it may be true that these situations may continue to be dismissed in the interim, eventually I think people will start to listen if they keep hearing the same shit story over and over again. Then when things start to hit close to home, for example someone’s brother, neighbor, etc then that will be where we hit the inflection point. But fo… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/23 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Ex GF entities to half of ex-BF assets ?There are prenuptial agreements for marriages. Is there any kind of equivalent legal agreement for relationships which serves a similar purpose? It seems like a there’s gotta be something that a person can make their bf/gf sign to say: “I will let you move in with me so long as you agree to walk away with nothing should our relationship go sideways.” | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | European Space Agency study suggests that NASA should send an "all-female" crew to Mars because women are more "efficient" than men and need less resourcesThe entire premise of this articles rests here: “Researchers from the European Space Agency (ESA) found women use less oxygen, produce less carbon dioxide and require less food than their male counterparts.” If this is a genuine concern for choosing whom we send to Mars then here’s a genius idea: how about we establish weight and body composition requirements instead of just choosing to go with all women and blatantly discriminate against men? In America we have the National Labor Relations Act … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/23 03:36 AM |
| 10 | Is "Girl Power" Sexist?I would say definitely yes and you don’t even have to create a nuanced argument to back it up. All you have to do is ask 100 women if they feel “boy power” is sexist. I suspect 90 of them would say yes. Therefore I think we have the answer to the question. Everything else is either details or a double standard. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/23 02:29 AM |
| 5 | The Boys Under the Bus - Econlib“Reeves sees the political right as living with the hope of a return to the traditional household with the male as the primary breadwinner.” I’ve had a lot of exposure to people with conservative values in my professional life both men and women. None of them have ever expressed this desire. While my own experience is purely anecdotal I don’t think this is well supported by any facts. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 01:23 PM |
| 7 | USA: Wife accused of poisoning husband with fentanyl-laced Moscow Mule. He told friends if 'anything happened to him it would be her'.It’s comments like these that serve as proof for the need for this subreddit. We see far too often that when a woman assaults her husband the presumption is made automatically that he did something to deserve it and we really need fight against that. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | what were some of the historical issues men had in marriagesThank you. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 05:03 AM |
| 7 | what were some of the historical issues men had in marriagesI have an unconfirmed recollection that the man was legally responsible for the actions of his wife, but I don’t have anything off hand to back that up. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 04:55 AM |
| 6 | I’ve created a new anti porn sub for MRAI’ve had some similar trains of thought. So if you’re hopelessly single and have tried everything to start a relationship and failed, you’re just supposed to have zero sexual outlets and just be okay with that? For men in that group, that’s a huge no thanks. Under these circumstances I can’t imagine trying to get through that stretch in my life back when I was hopelessly single, however I would like to hear what proponents for porn free have to say. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Tell me what masculinity means to you in one wordIndependence | /r/MensRights | 30/04/23 03:51 AM |
| -6 | Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ?Saying or implying that “all women are (insert adjective here)” is really painting with too broad of a brush stroke. In my experience only vain and shallow women really expect this kind of treatment. Likewise there are shallow men in similar quantities as shallow women and I don’t think it’s our job to change their hearts and minds. Therefore I don’t think this is a very productive discussion and we should do better than this so that we don’t come off like the toxic feminist subreddits out there… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/23 07:30 PM |
| 48 | Women more often employ “levelling” as a competitive tactic, study finds | Levelling is a tactic aiming to transfer resources from an individual having more resources to one having less, under the explicit guise of equality.Women tend to work interdependently while men tend to work independently. This is nothing new under the sun. But what the story lacks is any kind of objective analysis of the strengths and weaknesses of both styles. I got the impression that, without really saying it, this was yet another story of man bad woman good | /r/MensRights | 25/04/23 06:10 AM |
| 9 | I’m just so tiredIf I was wealthy enough and didn’t have to work, I would go back to college and take social science courses like gender studies to do nothing but write papers and do presentations on why these academic fields of study are completely wrong about men. If my facts are solid and without the need to pursue a degree I wouldn’t mind being the lightening rod. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 11 | Australian government does blind study to confirm bias against women. Finds there is actually bias against men.Sounds like they want to gerrymander their studies such that it “reveals” anti woman bias. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/23 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Definition of "femcels" according to Chat_GPTSo how does this thing describe non misogynistic involuntary celibate men? | /r/MensRights | 19/04/23 12:51 AM |
| 8 | What is you're response to Wikipedia saying there is no widespread Misandy according to expertsHere’s an interesting passage from the “Misandry” page on Wikipedia: “Marc A. Ouellette argues in International Encyclopedia of Men and Masculinities that ‘misandry lacks the systemic, transhistoric, institutionalized, and legislated antipathy of misogyny’” I am sure the existence of the draft just by itself pretty much annihilates this argument. The draft is systemic in its application, has existed since the dawn of time, it is institutionalized given that men understand it is what you “have to… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/23 12:35 AM |
| 2 | What is you're response to Wikipedia saying there is no widespread Misandy according to expertsMy first question is where are these “experts” getting their grant money from to do research? Also sociologist and anthropologist don’t get in to these occupations without being ultra liberal in their political inclinations and completing years of work in an academic environment pursuing similar subjects of study as many feminist “scholars”. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/23 12:21 AM |
| 22 | Sugar and spice and everything nice. Wife who tortured husband for 20 years now jailed for Four years.And probably still gets half his stuff in the divorce. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/23 04:22 PM |
| 29 | What do women really want ?Sounds like a young woman in a young marriage who doesn’t understand how marriage works. You’re not going to “feel it” all the time. In a marriage, you’re supposed to have a life partner with whom you build a life. What that ends up looking like is often different than what you imagined when you were younger. But more often than not things tend to be a positive result. So it sounds to me like she is being selfish by not compromising on her vision of the future. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 04:02 PM |
| 10 | "The incel trap or other related movements such as mens’ rights activism (MRAs), men who go their own way (MGTOWs), and father’s rights groups" [These are not the same]“2. Incels often struggle with serious, unaddressed mental health condition.” Or maybe they have mental health issues because they are incels instead of the other way around! It is not at all far fetched to say that if you’re told growing up that sooner or later you will meet someone and fall in love and then you come of age and it doesn’t happen, that would most certainly give you mental health issues. “Greater investment in preventative mental health – i.e., providing counseling, support, and … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 04:30 AM |
| 13 | 'It just didn't enter my mind to initiate sex;' Low sex drive in men linked to chemical imbalance | CNNIt’s the American news media. They can’t help themselves from taking a swipe at what they think masculinity is (but actually isn’t). | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are male victims of rape being ordered to pay child support?Yes. We must think of the child. The only problem is they’re thinking of the wrong child. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | What are western feminist view on forced conscription during times of emergency?It’s not even lying. If you’re pregnant in the military, you’re non deployable and does not result in automatic discharge so long as the family care plan remains solid. So a female service member can literally walk up to their first line leader and tell them straight up that they plan on getting pregnant so that they cannot deploy and there will be nothing they can do. Also promotion boards are directed to not disadvantage said women for promotion opportunities due to lack of opportunity to depl… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 06:47 AM |
| 21 | The idea of female Sex Strike is relatively common - yet society still pretends sex is not a commodity controlled by womenDon’t threaten me with a good time! | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 03:44 AM |
| 31 | What advice would you give to males today at these 3 stages: Pre-teen (shortly before being a teenager), teenager, 20sLearn to be an excellent judge of character so that you can avoid crazy. Go to a few divorce court proceedings before getting married. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is it bad to be a man today?In regards to #2 physical activity is never a bad way to work out frustrations and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. It’s something I think is particularly useful for men though it can be a healthy outlet for anyone. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 02:06 AM |
| 5 | My experience with "Are We Dating the Same Guy"Maybe we need a page on Facebook to publish the names of women who use these kinds of pages. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Might be off topic. But It needs to be saidAt the same time we have to completely control the narrative of what exactly constitutes “positive masculinity”. That’s a concept that can be completely hijacked by the wrong people. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton: Ukraine conflict shows climate change primarily affects women (Yes, you read that right...)When politicians make gaffes such as this, they usually realize their mistake and attempt a retraction almost immediately. Hillary Clinton however has done nothing but repeated this obvious gaffe for decades. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Fuck you Ford!They list a lot of things it doesn’t have. While they are making a list they should add worlds most hateful marketing campaign. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Hillary Clinton says Ukraine conflict shows women and children are 'primary victims of conflict and climate change' | Fox News VideoHillary Clinton’s quote is the perfect embodiment of modern feminist fallacy. In a single sentence it does three things: 1) makes women and girls the victims to the exclusion of all others 2) invalidates the traumatic lived experiences of men. 3) Dehumanizes men by flat out refusing to acknowledge they are capable of feeling pain. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 02:55 AM |
| 2 | 31-year-old woman who became pregnant with 13-year-old's baby won't go to jailThe victim’s family needs to fight tooth & nail to gain custody of his child. That’s also another reason to push for jail time so that she has to surrender custody. If CS is going to be forced upon this young man (and it will) then I’d rather see the child in the custody of him and his family than she get a dime in CS. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 05:44 PM |
| 18 | what to do if ex gf steals everything you own and your dog, gets u evicted and beat up by rcmp without any evidence of a crime. Cuffed in cruiser didn't finish my rights before being let go.Change the locks first thing after a break up and protect your most valuable objects in a safe deposit box. Granted this won’t cover everything but it’s a start. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/23 09:30 PM |
| 6 | India Supreme Court Shocker: Mom’s infidelity no basis to seek paternity testOnly thing to do is to keep fighting the good fight and stand up for men’s rights and keep hammering home the point that this is a fantastic example of why many men are opting out of marriage. There are many men’s issues that need to be addressed, but on this particular issue MRAs have the highest moral high ground and exposes a major weakness in feminism which needs to be exploited with impunity. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/23 09:21 AM |
| 8 | Is America Finally Waking Up To Our Boy Crisis? | by Lisa BrittonThe initiative to create a Commission on Men and Boys failed to make it out of committee. One of those morons voting against it is quoted as follows: ‘House Majority Leader Rep. Joe Fitzgibbon, (D) West Seattle, said the state needs to be careful, “that we don’t narrowcast to just the segment of our society that’s been historically most advantaged.”’ So by that logic, those 39 states who have commissions on girls and women should have those commissions abolished so as not to “narrowcast” to just… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | The pay gap myth explained graphically (for sharing)This definition is more in line with “reductive” than “simplistic”. this explanation takes a complex issue and makes it understandable in layman’s terms WITHOUT omitting any important elements. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | In the war between the sexes, beauty is a machine gunThat is exactly right. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 04:49 AM |
| 2 | The Tragic Disconnect Between Men And Women – No Sex, No Babies, Lots Of Loneliness, Shrinking Populations…and the lack of a parallel rise in suppression of inspiring leaders and pathways for young men. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Women trying to tell men what they should find attractive is so bizarre.If feminists can dictate what men should find attractive then I demand that women find short men attractive. Of course that will never happen, but if we’re not going to live in reality then this is the reality I want. But the reality is that both men and women have permission to be as discriminating as they want in choosing who they want to be with. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I knew a lot of intelligent women and a lot of feministsIt did a wonderful job of advancing the rights of women at first. Then about 40 to 50 years ago it transformed into granting them special privileges not accessible to men. I don’t think I need to elaborate further because countless other posts to this subreddit have covered this extensively. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I knew a lot of intelligent women and a lot of feministsActing in one’s self interest, in most cases, is the most intelligent thing to do. So it doesn’t surprise me that many intelligent women are feminists. I believe feminism is great for women. Women like to think it’s great for men too, but that’s simply not true. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do women always have to “marry up?” In college most of my class was girls putting males down who were their equals. They always said they deserved to marry up like to a professor or Doctor. Why isn’t an equal partner good enough?I would also argue the average woman as well though she won’t realize it until she is somewhere north of 30 and wonders why she still hasn’t started a family yet. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/23 02:39 AM |
| 42 | M2F Transgender Feminist Professor Raewyn Connell argues that men must be castrated en masse in order to deconstruct the patriarchy, also men must be kept politically and socially devided in order to bring about social justice in 1995 book 'Masculinities'It reads very similarly to the writings of southern intellectuals in the 19th century defending slavery in America. It is appalling that this woman made an academic career out of writing this nonsense for so long that she was able to retire from it. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women RightsThese are some good points. My only question is wouldn’t women be more inclined to support men’s rights if that support is reciprocated by men for women? I’ll admit I might be a little naive to think the world could work this way. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women live longer but in poorer health - Gender equality minister (2017)I think being dead is often worse than being in bad health in most cases. Also the proper metric to use would be quality of life since “health” is a little too nebulous. “Bad health” can mean anything from being in a vegetative state with Alzheimer’s to getting around comfortably with a minor inconvenience such as using a walker or a wheelchair without any other encumbrance. Bottom line is that if your health’s not the greatest but you still have a good quality of life then then that’s certainly… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Number of occupational injury deaths by gender (US)The casualties of war stats are even more lopsided. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/23 04:56 AM |
| 0 | The Institution of MarriageStraw man’s argument. I believe this discussion is taking place in the context of modern marriage between a man and a woman in western nations who are both of legal age. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/23 04:48 AM |
| 2 | It is time for men to STOP allowing feminists to define for us what manhood is or how we should express it.I agree. Don’t ask for permission from anyone. Just do it. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/23 03:05 AM |
| 69 | Why women lose respect for you as soon as mental health problems appear?Women expect their men to be the rock in a relationship. When they fail to live up to that standard, even temporarily, they get insecure and project that insecurity back on to you. It makes opening up very difficult for men to do with their significant others. Then they wonder why men don’t like to open up… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 07:36 AM |
| 11 | Online dating makes women devalue menI can remember back before online dating was a thing and the image of a man a woman would describe as her ideal mate was often different than the man she was with. This often happened because the man had the opportunity to interact with her before being rejected. Bring in online dating today and now that opportunity for interaction is taken away and forces a man to be accepted or rejected on the basis of their profile only. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Feel Lost When It Comes To Defining Manhood?In my view, the one universal tenant of manhood is the ability to define for yourself what makes you a man and live it regardless of any social or peer pressure you may face. This tenant holds true for two reasons: 1) it is impervious to the ebb and flow of today’s gender-fluid environment and the less concrete definition of manhood as compared to a generation ago. 2) It is a tenant for which femininity cannot make a similar claim due to the fact that women tend to be relationship oriented, thus… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/23 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Live alone and don’t get married!!!If that’s what you’re hoping for, then I have to say that they could change in ways you might not expect. For example a 50% “bachelor tax” on all that you make. Given the self-righteous BS out there, I wouldn’t put it past our society to do that in reaction to MGTOW if it ever became popular enough amongst men such that it created real problems for women. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 07:15 AM |
| 10 | Three female guards at same prison jailed for affairs with inmatesI love the use of the trademark. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 41 | What are people's thoughts on this article: BREAKING: Texas Supreme Court rules against father seeking to prevent ‘chemical castration’ of his sonSounds somewhat similar to eugenics about a century ago which was the forced sterilization of those deemed unworthy of procreation. Not an exact comparison, but this is something that sounds just a crazy. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 11:03 PM |
| 23 | My friend wants to commit suicideDon’t wait until tomorrow. Talk to him now. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 06:32 AM |
| 50 | National Post article defends sexual objectification of men, says men can handle itMen can handle it? Well that’s painting with an awfully broad brush. Also even if that were true, I don’t tolerate double standards of any kind. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 06:21 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on the notion that "men cause their own problems"?It is a completely tone deaf response that is often used as justification for bleeding resources away from men in favor of women leaving men with a less than equitable distribution of resources for help. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 06:55 AM |
| 15 | Two-thirds said they felt society didn’t understand young men.Basically the only paragraph you need to read from the article is this: “Dr Seidler said that required ‘reframing the pressure around being a man, away from rigid and harmful stereotypes, and towards a positive pressure for putting your health and wellbeing first’.” I am not convinced that it is stereotypes that are preventing men from seeking help. I think the help that is available to men is failing to address their needs. Every man I’ve ever known who had mental health issues were under the c… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/22 04:19 AM |
| 12 | Why us this happening, somebody help.The “prosecutor” also sounds like a scam artist. Some are nice like Nigerian Princes and others are jerks like South African prosecutors. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/22 01:58 AM |
| 30 | CNN analyst says ban on men under 25 owning firearms ‘will limit the number of mass killings’There goes the prime demographic for military recruitment of men aged 18 to 25. Even if you create an exemption for that age group, that still sends the very negative message to young men that you can be used for cannon fodder in war but you cannot be trusted with a constitutional right to own firearms. Also discrimination on the basis of ANY immutable characteristic wrong. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Conservative men love it when children are raised in fatherless homes with absentee fathers, they love it so much that they call men who want paternity leave and bonding time with their kids "pussies", "faggots", "defective males who want to be women", etc, they don't want equality for fathers...Disagree. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | A growing number of men are undergoing a radical and expensive surgery to grow anywhere from three to six inches. The catch: It requires having both your femurs broken. GQ goes inside the booming world of leg lengthening.I am 64 inches tall. I would never do it even if I could afford it. Probably because I care very little about what people think of me who aren’t family, friends, bosses or co-workers. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/22 12:20 AM |
| 8 | Humans could face reproductive crisis as sperm count declines, study findsIs it true that much more money is spent on women’s health research than men’s? If so, maybe the reason we don’t know why the decline in sperm count could be because too many resources have been allocated towards women’s health research and not enough for mens health research. I am only speculating and if someone can say I am wrong and prove it then I will stand corrected. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 05:56 AM |
| 7 | 3 major feminist groups back Heard’s defamation of Depp.Still too many who do not adhere towards acting with any semblance of sanity. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 02:17 AM |
| 26 | Do you think there's any truth to this?I agree. I think the vast majority of men understand that you’re either all in or all out. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 09:55 PM |
| 12 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”So guess saying “it takes two to tango” is now considered misogyny? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:09 AM |
| 34 | Feminists are mad that false rape accusers are getting prosecuted and jailed in the UK.I am a little uncomfortable with the stance of “making women feel comfortable coming forward” in regards to reporting rape. I understand where it’s coming from but at the same time you can’t make them feel too comfortable so as to just simply point a finger and a respectable man gets thrown in jail, loses his job and gets his kids taken away. I am also not convinced by the “but false accusations are so rare” counter argument. If laws and enforcement of said laws can be abused and weaponized, the… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/22 06:02 AM |
| 12 | We need that brotherhood that is basically the sisterhood. How do we accomplish this?I would tend to agree. Since emotionally opening up to our significant others tends to backfire, that only leaves opening up to other men if you do it with the right kind of man. If you do so with men who are assholes, then they’ll make you feel like absolute shit. But if you have men in your life who are good mentors, then usually they are good to open up to. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/22 05:27 AM |
| 38 | An interesting prediction for the dating marketI think they’re saying that, in the absence of a sexual relationship, a man is only going to work hard enough to earn money to support himself. It kinda makes sense because the primary reason men form romantic relationships is to have sex. If you take that out of the equation, then what’s the point? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: incels are justified in feeling frustratedRead my entire reply and you will have your answer. In fact I’ll help you out. Should be the second to last sentence where you’ll find my violence and misogyny disclaimer. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 02:12 PM |
| 145 | Unpopular opinion: incels are justified in feeling frustratedIncels are a group that would benefit the most from receiving empathy but are simultaneously the most empathy-deprived group on the planet. I am speaking a man in a long term marriage now, but before that I was essentially an incel before I knew the term even existed. During that time, I was made to think that there was something wrong with me and it really weighed down my confidence. Today, looking back on that time of my life and processing it as a more mature person, I now know there was noth… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 07:25 AM |
| -3 | Male students down by 400k (2021)That headline of a 400,000 drop in male enrollment over the past year is probably misleading since the male/female proportions still remain at 40% and 60% respectively. That has been the percentages for a number of years now. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How to help male students stay and succeed in collegethis: “Men have had the spotlight for far too long,” one self-described gender studies professor boomed to round applause. “Why are we putting it on them yet again?” The men to which this professor refers are either long dead or no longer socially relevant today. So the young men living today have to pay a price for perceived historical injustices? It’s sentiments like this that do a huge disservice to young men today. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 9 | California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’sSo men need to eat more food because they are bigger and need more calories and therefore need to pay more for food. Also men have to pay more for car insurance because just being a man means you are a higher accident risk. So where’s the equality enforcement there? | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I need help… 37 yo very active father here…I don’t have kids so I don’t have a dog in this fight. But I would just like to comment that it seems ridiculous that cs is decided upon mostly at the discretion of a judge instead of by means of the law. I am seeing too many men getting financially ruined by using attorneys and going to court. 50/50 should be the default in all 50 states and territories. In fact I would even extend that argument to encompass divorce in general. The exact stipulations of divorce needs to be codified in law with … | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 10:18 AM |
| 7 | We’ve been ignoring a very important question that will affect men for the rest of the existence of this country. A question I think needs to be ironed out now. “Does the government have the right to deny you from having children?”I would also like to add that, following a basic google search, I found that nearly all international governing bodies focused upon how this affects women given no mention to men. So I think bringing this up in a men’s rights forum is very much needed. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 05:34 AM |
| 8 | We’ve been ignoring a very important question that will affect men for the rest of the existence of this country. A question I think needs to be ironed out now. “Does the government have the right to deny you from having children?”About a century ago, Eugenics was a popular government program administered at the state level which regularly sterilized men and women they deemed “unfit for reproduction.” So once upon a time government had a right to deny you from having children. Fortunately Eugenics gradually died out after WW2 because of the similarities with Nazism but the historical precedent is there. But the question of whether or not Eugenics can make a comeback is not settled and I think it needs to be considered a v… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 05:09 AM |
| 3 | There Are No Instances On Reddit Of Women Being Bad People. Only Men.It is statistically impossible that there are only good women and bad men on Reddit. But wow they are going to try hard to make it sound like that is the case. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Why are boys/men supposed to be "Manly"?It’s really simple. Most men like sex with women and most women like to have sex with men who are masculine even if they say otherwise. In light of these facts, it astounds me that some think it’s still some big mystery. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 49 | Are women equally as likely to be child predators as men?Even if they’re not, that’s no excuse to give them a pass. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 6 | How was Pauline Harmange's appalling book I Hate Men received?Sounds like the feminist version of Mein Kampf. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | should average white middle class men go to college?Not a bad idea. I was hoping to do private sector work, but it’s not a bad option. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 4 | should average white middle class men go to college?I do HR in the military but I will have to retire sometime in the next 10 years with 20 years left in my working life. I am scared to see what it will be like if I have to try and go in to HR on the civilian side. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 6 | A Queen who had the longest reign in history over arguably the richest empire in history is a big problem for those who rail against the toxic patriarchy.They actually did change it a few years ago such that the oldest child could become king/queen. But the highest female in line to the throne is 5th or 6th in line. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | ‘Controversial’ proposal would see young NSW men banned from driving until they turn 21You have to look beyond the demographics to craft better laws. That’s just legislative laziness at best and outright discrimination at worst. Obviously some young men under the age of 21 are better drivers than others. Maybe they should roll up their sleeves and do the dirty work of finding out what behaviors lead to these fatalities, explore mitigating measures (i.e. better training) and, most importantly, avoid discriminating against a segment of the population based upon immutable traits. Tha… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 07:07 AM |
| 11 | Kinda sick of things being celebrated for having less men/ white men. Why can’t it just be the best person for the job gets hired and be done!I guess we have to settle for less than the best engineers, doctors and scientists to meet a quota. Do we really want a doctor who was selected by quota and not merit to take care of us? | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Men’s appearance standards are basically impossible to meet up to.Well there is a medieval torture device called the rack. Maybe every gym should have one. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 04:16 AM |
| 10 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongI would be curious to know how they define “unprovoked”. I imagine that most men who seek a paternity test do so for a reason. This question is either a non-sequitur or has an implied double meaning (e.g. there should never be a good reason for a man to get a paternity test). | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Competence isn’t the same as misogyny/mansplainingTo acknowledge that “mansplaining” exists is to give it far more legitimacy than it deserves. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | This woman Amanda Trenfield left her husband and kids for a man she met once. She got rejected then wrote a book showing no remorse for her family and now makes money off the story. Her current job is to encourage women to follow in her footsteps. Made a video calling out her bs! Hope you enjoy!Maybe she’s making so much money from her book that her ex is collecting alimony from her. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:19 AM |
| 7 | What is the dumbest claim of misogyny you've seen/heard? (please read description)I doubt the draft even cracks the top ten. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 41 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"This tells you everything you need to know about this article: “Men need women far more than women need men” So I guess we need women around who think we are nothing more than walking wallets and workaholics who live only to serve them as slaves. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Seattle's equity movement punishes white men to push race-based marijuana licensesI think all legislation aimed at achieving racial quotas through racism and sexism should be deemed unconstitutional under all circumstances. You don’t achieve justice by acting unjustly. I really don’t like this whole “outcomes” approach to equality because the message it sends to white, straight men is that their contributions are not valued and, no matter how incredible, he achieved due exclusively to privilege. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Child CustodyI seriously doubt the 92% figure is accurate. You might get into the same ballpark if you include cases in which 50/50 custody was awarded but even then I don’t see it getting to that. Second point, I think the reason men don’t seek custody, if that is a true statement, is because many know they will lose the case and so they don’t even bother. They might try if they knew they had a decent chance at getting a fair shake in the courtroom rather than running into rampant bias. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 06:51 AM |
| 6 | I am thinking about starting a Men's (Male-Only) Club and could use advice and critqueWe don’t talk about fart club. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | The cause need more attentionYou gotta be willing to make yourself the object of hatred by a mob. It will be difficult but if enough MRAs stand up for what they believe, then gradually people’s attitudes will change and fairer legislation will follow. Methods to get it done are no different than the civil rights activists of the 1950s and 1960s. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I feel betrayed by societyLife is a dick. With women around, it just gets harder. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel betrayed by societyHelen Mirren, Meryl Streep, Susan Sarandon, Goldie Hawn to name a few. Also these are women who still got leading roles after 60. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 19 | Employers are so sexist it’s ridiculous!Please elaborate on “diversity requirements”. Does this mean that if you’re a white male and you’re the best qualified, or even the only qualified applicant, you don’t get hired? | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Warfare is inherently EugenicCompared to China, Japan, Germany and especially Russia, the US has had comparatively few combat deaths over the past 100 years. Maybe there might be a dysgenic situation brewing in those countries, but I seriously doubt that that has happened in the US. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 8 | EU strikes deal to impose 40% quota for women on boards of large companies by 2026Absolutely. As the saying goes, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I saw this on r/AskFeminists. Can y’all help me debunk this?I am not going to try to apply a rebuttal to each of these arguments because I don’t have time. But they generally seem to be straw man’s arguments. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 01:35 PM |
| 24 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesWell in that case, men are entitled to paternity testing upon demand and, if found not to be the father, then child support payments shall immediately cease and he is due a full refund of all child support he has paid. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 03:56 AM |
| 10 | A friend posted this on Facebook. I found it disturbing, to say the least that she thinks like this. What's your opinion?Man man is married because he earns good money instead of earning money because he’s married. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | WV rep wants to ban child supportI thought it was more like 85%? Do you have a source for 97% | /r/MensRights | 04/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 18 | If you miss on social development during teenage years, you're basically screwedI basically swore off my “social development” during my teenage years. Failing to learn to interact with cruel, back-stabbing sorry excuses for human beings is not something I ever regretted. That is essentially what the so-called “cream of the crop” people were that I went to high school with. 20 plus years have passed since then and looking back on those days, I don’t regret being anti social. So this whole mentality of being screwed for life at 19 years old because you were socially awkward w… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 05:34 AM |
| 20 | Unborn Child Support ActSadly I fear that these valid, common sense arguments are going to get drowned out by the thunderous applause from the champions of feminism | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 17 | Unborn Child Support ActThis kind of language is far too prevalent this day & age: “Parents know that the cost of raising a child begins long before birth, and fathers need to take responsibility,“ said Senator Daines. It is dripping with condescension and works to reinforce that image of men as not fully formed adults. That more than anything is why I am in the men’s rights camp. I feel like a social punching bag whenever I hear anyone speech like this. Also the whole “paternity testing at the mother’s discretion” is … | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 7 | There is No Gender Wage GapOne important point to consider is that you see very often with married heterosexual couples that once children come along, one parent will either reduce their hours working or will entirely leave the labor force. Usually that is the woman who chooses to do this, though not always. In order to make up for the loss of household income, it is often the man who feels compelled to do those things needed to increase his income to better support his growing family. I think men earn more money because … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Why do people love shitting on men?Because we cannot blame others for our failures while there is no shortage of excuses that others can pin on men. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Funny - Modern Women On TikTok Are Now Asking Men What's Wrong?What’s wrong? Nothing now that a I’ve stopped answering loaded questions. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | How to move forward if you have 4 years old kid to raise my yourself?My parents divorced when I was six and dad passed away when I was 10 and now I am 40+. There really is no good way to break the news. You’re just going to have to tell her in a straightforward way. Then after that, encourage her to talk with you about her mother to ensure it is a subject that can be discussed openly at any time and will help her to process her mother’s death as she grows up. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 07:04 AM |
| 3 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?So in theory a woman can name any man as the father and he automatically has to pay up? If that’s the case, then how can we claim to live in a free and democratic society? This is tantamount to depriving a man of his property with absolutely no due process. It should be added to this law that if the alleged “father” wants to challenge paternity then he should have the right to request a DNA test. If this somehow violates the privacy of the mother to be, then it should be added that she may choos… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 04:49 AM |
| 103 | harassmentThat is discrimination on the part of your boss if they expect you to be responsible for putting a stop to the the misdeeds of others. Thoroughly document everything that happens. You can try and have a conversation with this girl but if it goes nowhere then you should not have to take the fall for her actions. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk about virgin men and women that shame them?Something to be said for the concept of “tabula rasa” or “blank slate”. Inexperience can be positive in that there are no bad habits to unlearn. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Pink Tax?I think men consume about 25% more calories than women. Therefore wouldn’t it stand to reason that men pay 25% more for food? Can we call this a blue tax??? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 7 | "Johnny Depp and the Tragedy Of Male Abuse Victims"What is even more disturbing is the fact that it is so hard to believe that men can be DV victims. Men are under enormous pressure to not retaliate otherwise they instantly change from victim to perpetrator. I am sure more than a few women have used this to exploit their significant other and intimidate them. Then drag this out over a number of years and that will really take a toll on the mental health of any man. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Paternity fraud should be treated as serious as any major fraud if committed knowingly.Women like to say “no uterus no opinion” about abortion because it uniquely affects them. We should be able to say “no penis no opinion” on this one since paternity fraud uniquely affects men. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 16 | La. congressman proposes bill that would allow pregnant mothers to get child support paymentsHow would this be enforceable? The only way I can see this happening is if the father voluntarily acknowledges paternity. Otherwise can a woman just pick some random dude off the street and claim him to be the father and demand he pay-up? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Men are required to stay and defend Ukraine, but women face a difficult choice — to flee, or fight - ABC NewsI guess “go to war or go to jail” is an easier choice then? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:37 AM |
| -14 | People defending the “small d*ck energy” insult, what do you guys think?Why is this posted here?!?! This is not a useful discussion of Men’s Rights. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | DNA TestIn a perfect world this would totally make sense. But it’s not ever going to happen because too many groups with political influence are going to throw an absolute tantrum. In fact I think there are laws in France, for example, preventing fathers from obtaining paternity tests. Best thing to do is if you’re not married to a woman and she gives birth to a child she claims is yours, do not acknowledge paternity under any circumstances until a DNA test confirms it. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 7 | MisogynyIf you were a 13 year old boy on FDS complaining of misandry you would have been banned by now. You’re welcome. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Guys, guys, guys, I just Googled : "How do I benefit from the patriarchy?" check this out :Agreed. It’s easier to make something up and blame that thing for your problems rather than fixing your problems. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the way women choose partners is an MRM issue?In most cases no. The only exception I can think of is if a woman gets trigger happy with claiming sexual harassment against a guy just for showing interest then turns around and welcomes the same kind of advances from a different man. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 3 | The way that women treat short men is horribleLooks like his fabricated story didn’t quite “measure up.” | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | According to r/Feminism women don’t commit domestic violence.Classic move to avoid responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Today I took one of the best medicines for bad feelings, cryingIt’s not every man’s cup of tea but I will never shame anyone for doing it if it helps them to heal. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 9 | "Talking to boys about being a boy"I also tried to give it a fair shot to read but the sound of nails on a chalkboard got to be too much for me. “Aspirational Masculinity” is just code for second-rate feminist. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 01:37 AM |
| 23 | please don't downvote me, just genuinely curious! i just like to learn hahaWhy would you expect to see equal numbers of men and women construction workers, sanitation workers or primary education teachers? There are many occupations the men have a stronger aptitude for and others which women have a better aptitude and a lot of other occupations that are gender neutral. It would be insane to expect equal representation in all occupations. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Are there ways women can be ally’s of mens rights advocates?Absolutely! And the good news is that it’s a lot easier to do than standing up for feminism because you don’t have to do any intellectual gymnastics to do it. You just have to treat men like a human being complete with strengths, weaknesses, emotions, hopes and desires. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 137 | MSNBC guest: "White Men" are the biggest threat to women’s liberty as citizens, and the right to voteAgree. Men actually earned it by the blood spilt in over 200 years of war. That argument is just as stupid as Hilary Clinton’s argument that women are the primary victims of war. Some feminist have their heads too far up their ideological asses so be able to see the truth. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:22 PM |
| -3 | Alimony laws has no basis in societal/legal/civil principles. It amounts to naked robbery from one group to another.Women sometimes pay alimony too in cases where she makes significantly more money than her husband. On another note, It’s still a long shot to say that alimony is out dated since it would be reprehensible to leave one spouse completely destitute in cases where one spouse hasn’t worked in years or even decades. I would vote in favor of temporary alimony used to help pay for acquiring useful job skills and be phased out over a five year period and ban lifetime alimony payments. If a verified condi… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm doing a class presentation on men's rightsBe prepared to become a lightning rod and build your case as though you were going to trial. Have lots of reputable sources and be ready to refute their counter-arguments. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 06:44 PM |
| 13 | A father complained he has had custody of his two children for over five years and she has never paid support. Dad says the child support agency cannot order child support from mom because they cannot find any source of income for mom.Probably income under the table. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Another child dead after courts grant full custody to the mother even when social workers expressed concerns about her mental healthDid the father contest custody? As far as I can tell the article didn’t say. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Can someone please explain what "Toxic Masculinity" is?Generally bad behaviors by individual men that get falsely ascribed to all men so that feminism can weaponize it to gain power over men. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Motherhood should always be a choice. OK. But shouldn’t fatherhood also be a choice.Women get to choose twice while men only get to choose once. Both men and women choose once when they have sex. But once pregnant, only the woman gets to decide for a second time. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/22 03:04 AM |
| 28 | it was worse being a man than a woman in the 1900sA handful of casualties versus millions of dead men? That is not a comparison. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.The only reason I have ever thought of my height (5’4”) as a draw back is because it is a huge deal breaker for most women in the dating world which was a source of agony for me during my bachelor days. Otherwise I never gave my lack of height a second thought and I am sure a lot of other men feel the same way. I’ve seen a lot of questionable things attributed to that imaginary “patriarchy” but this one is by far the most spurious. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 12 | Does patriarchy exist today?Each cause needs a boogeyman. If one doesn’t exist, they manufacture it. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | The war on the West: DOUGLAS MURRAY examines how Western civilisation and all its astonishing achievements in culture, science, medicine and free thinking are being erased from history as the product of 'dead white males'This should be required reading for college freshmen. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | "How do I force my reproductive slave to stay?"I think she’s asking the wrong question. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Swedish law prevents men from pissing standing up. My brain hurts....It’s very telling that the only feminists I saw questioning this overreach were older women. I think that’s indicative of how modern feminism has corrupted its original purpose. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/22 05:31 AM |
| 4 | My company created resource groups for all sorts…except white menVeterans of the war against white male disenfranchisement. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/22 12:08 AM |
| 32 | My company created resource groups for all sorts…except white menI am a veteran and if I saw this list at work I would invite all white men to be included in the veterans group so that they have a group. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 59 | “Why are some men insecure about their height?” The Double Fuck-You Standards for MenI am not so much concerned with the idea of these standards as I am how women express this preference. I have a SIL who said that it is more important how a man makes her feel than how he looks. Then in the same breath expressed relief that her husband is tall. That’s when my bullshit alarm started blaring. I have no problem with women having physical preferences because men have them too. But I just wish they were more honest about it. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 03:57 AM |
| 3 | An abusive woman lights a man's car on fire | Truly one of the saddest videos I've ever seen. Especially with the custody context around it. If it serves as any consolation, he reportedly got a new car and full custody of his kids, but sadly not all men get justice.No. It comes from a movie called “Waiting to Exhale”. It’s an older movie which came out back in 1994ish. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 02:47 AM |
| 19 | Bill Maher's segment on Zelenskyy, Ukraine, and masculinity being responsible for the survival our our species, is his best in yearsPlaces the blame for a sex drought in America exclusively on men. That’s not cool. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/22 06:27 AM |
| 11 | Dear Society, you made it clear you don't care about men. So I'm going to stop caring about you.I agree not all women are evil. I think the best skill a man should develop in this day & age is to become an excellent judge of character. If we can learn to cultivate good relationships with the good women in the world and shun the bad ones, then I think that will solve a lot of our problems. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | i say post about male fragility and wanted to add my opinion to the tableI don’t know where she learned about masculinity, but a masculine person strives to not let any negativity, mocking or harassment affect their confidence, judgment or positive mental state. Therefore men who exhibit signs of “male fragility” are not truly masculine men but are actually men with fragile egos. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism?Only when people realize that feminism and men’s rights are not mutually exclusive movements. Men’s needs are just simply different than women’s. Also the myth of the patriarchy needs to be completely destroyed. If there ever was such a thing it was a privilege reserved for a minuscule minority. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 06:12 AM |
| 6 | UK: A former Ms Great Britain claims it's impossible to find love? The answer gives a troubling insight into the mindset of many young men today. OP: More anti male crap“It's easier for them to bounce from one girl to the other…” perfect example of a woman taking her experiences dating the top 10% of men and ascribing the horrible experience to ALL men. Does it ever occur to women that these high value men have options and when a man has options you’re going to see this kind of behavior? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | I refuse to date a woman in my workspace; all women turn against meWhat about self identifying as asexual? That is a legitimate stance you can take as opposed to straight or gay. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Should conscription be gender neutral?Absolutely. The modern Army has jobs for everyone of all physical and mental abilities. You don’t always need the fastest and strongest in every every job. In fact for a large proportion of jobs it is better to be mentally sharp though everyone needs to be able to function in austere environments. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | A girl said to me at work day "I'm all for feminism and women's rights, equal rights but if WW3 happens thank god it will be the men first, I don't want to fight in a war"Except many generations before us didn’t live a normal life and far too many saw battlefields from which they never returned alive. The lack of a large scale conflict over the past 77 years is an exception which feels like the norm. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How to debate the argument “mens problems are caused by other men”Women in heterosexual relationships expect men to be their rock. That ancient expectation has not budged an inch. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 05:55 AM |
| 6 | Men invited to job interview though job open only to womenJudging from his spelling of certain words I think he is is from the UK or a UK commonwealth nation (Canada, Australia, New Zealand, etc). | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | I can’t stand the sexist double standards in TV showsYes are absolutely correct. Seeing that show makes my blood boil. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | hey, do any of you have a list of legal right s the women have that mean don't? just wondering.You would think we could fight the unequal sentencing bias. One of the reasons certain groups are advocating for abolishing the death penalty is its unequal application against minorities. One would think we could fight the longer sentencing of men using the same logic. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | What do you think? Am I being a snowflake for finding this sexist? Local supermarket restroom.I wouldn’t complain, but I wouldn’t shop there ever again. This might be intended as a joke but, it is one done in poor taste. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 18 | "Its men doing that to other men" - Response to struggles men face, stumped me in a debate with friends and I regret not knowing what to sayThere were a lot of women who fought against other women against the advance of feminism. In a lot of marriages back in the 1950s and before, there were a lot of women who just simply took it upon themselves to take up domestic duties and never express any desire to work outside the home. Often times it wasn’t men who enforced this it was mothers and grandmothers ensuring that this happened. So to say it is “men do it to themselves” is exactly the same argument you might have heard some 70 years… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/21 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Men in hard jobs complaining about the standars being lower for Women. The fact that this could get people killed (and probably aleardy did) shows how far goverment officials will go to be "progressive"Army is transitioning to a gender neutral fitness test. The standards are ridiculously easy though. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is the MRA community so anti-accountability/responsibility?Nowadays the word “accountability” has been used as a euphemism for “believe and do as I say or else…” | /r/MensRights | 05/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 0 | How do ya'll feel about paternity leave?My only concern is how would 6 to 12 months of leave impact non-parents who might be called upon to go above the call of duty to cover their absence? I am involuntary childless and if we’re only talking about a little less time off then okay. But if it turns out to be the case where someone like me can’t get a day off when they really need one, then we might have something to talk about. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | IL Lawmaker Advocating for Castration and Tax on Males.This is nothing new. A century ago, we implemented eugenics programs in the US which imposed mandatory sterilization on person deemed unfit to reproduce. They gradually faded away when people realized that this was far too similar to Nazism with the last of these carried out in the late 1970s. However I am fairly certain that this is now considered a crime against humanity. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me who seems to think that boys are given harsher punishments than girls in schools?We pay fines for breaking the law all the time for things like speeding and parking. But the biggest fines we will pay are the ones paid by men who are usually straight as an arrow whose only crime was not being a good husband in the eyes of just one woman. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/21 06:46 AM |
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