SuspiciousBelletrist Archive

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1	Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's? You’re forgetting erectile dysfunction. Super common in men over 35, mind you. Guys seem to spend their 20s partying, drinking and taking stuff and this has dire consequences on their junk& libidos later on. Most men on antidepressants have libido issues to the point of struggling to have any relationships due to the lack of sex drive. Maybe they aren’t on these threads but the stories I hear are scary. Most of my single girlfriends have dated guys on medication whose libidos were non-existent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 01:30 PM
3	It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experience I believe this post is about dating and finding (quality) partners. What you're doing is not that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 12:07 PM
3	OFFICIAL How are age-gap relationships "at a different stage" thread Ok so here’s a super specific one from me. I’m 35, my partner / fiancé is 34, his best friend is also 34 and his best friend’s girlfriend is 23. The best friend and his girlfriend have been together four 4 years, since he was 30 and she was 19. First off - in my mind, it goes like “what can a grown man possibly have in common with a 19 year-old”. The 19 year-old is barely out of highschool, their brain isn’t even fully developed yet, they’re at a different stage in life. As in they don’t work, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:49 AM
2	It seems most men pursue women for social status rather than loving relationships or company I’d say it is more sex/casual encounters but without the awareness of “buying” it that matters most. I think I saw a thread here a while ago where a guy complaining about this stuff was told to seek professional sex workers and everyone including him jumped in to note how he shouldn’t/ didn’t want to “have to pay for it”. Men want to get that on their own, not because they pay for it, i guess it’s the ego thing. If men were primarily seeking love and affection from a stable partner then these th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 08:25 AM
2	Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members? There are different dating issues because there are different dating goals. Men want to date/sleep with as many women as possible while women want stability. “Having options” for a woman, i.e. having men wanting to sleep with her means nothing since they are worth 0 on her scale of values. Commitment i.e. being “tied down” to a single person, the fear of missing out, etc. is 0 to (most) men, as they put a premium on partner diversity, not stability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 12:47 AM
16	Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheating There is, since most men always complain about women's 'random and subjective' rejection of them. A 7 is a good looking woman, above average, why would a random Joe directly ask for that as if he's entitled to it ? Wanting is one thing, deserving is another. What is his entitlement based on ? If the comment was posted by a woman as ' Give me Average Adam who's solid and provides for me over a rich Chad who wouldn't pay for my coffee any day' you'd be super quick to check her on her weight, age o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 10:57 PM
3	What are some behaviours that make you distrustful of your sex? Yes honestly it's insane! My workmates who do this are all in their mid 40s, married, with kids, mortgages, commitments, I mean do they really feel the need to waste this type of energy on petty hateful stuff ... it's sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 09:24 AM
5	Women, why do you want to work? We work because: 1) need the money. If I am not married to a 'provider' or single after a certain age, what do I do, ask my parents for Tampax money until I go into menopause? 2) Depending on someone who is a provider isn't a good idea especially in today's day and age. Unless there are solid prenuptial agreements stipulating spousal support in case of divorce, you're f*cked if you're a homemaker and your partner/husband/whatever doesn't make somewhere in the range of millions. You won't have an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:48 PM
7	Women, why do you want to work? It's fun for you, my dude, or the guy whose d*ck is getting sucked. It's not fun for the one doing the sucking. Learn the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:43 PM
5	What are some behaviours that make you distrustful of your sex? So mine are several, but i'll just mention the top of the list: 1) Traditionally unattractive women, or older women hating and sabotaging younger, prettier women - I'm no supermodel or anything but man, I've had some real nasty women at work constantly trying to do anything possible to bother me and make me look bad, just because I am prettier/younger than them [I kid you not]. It's unbelievable. Their attitude changes like day and night, from being polite and kind or listening attentively to wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:33 PM
1	Bumble doesn't work because women HAVE to message first and they still WANT traditional gender roles There is no reason or system when it comes to chemistry, feeling attracted to someone, or just genuinely liking them as persons. Personal preferences are just that, not 'whims'. Most men are very picky when it comes to choosing women for potential relationships, one major argument being, for example, physical attractiveness - that's also a 'whim', not a 'system'. You'd like women to actually abide by male-created 'systems', but for men not to have the same imposed on them. Sorry, ain't happening…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:12 PM
0	Bumble doesn't work because women HAVE to message first and they still WANT traditional gender roles decide for whatever arbitrary reason that you aren't worth messaging Out of curiosity, what constitutes 'arbitrary' in your view? I'm serious and genuinely asking. Curious because neither myself nor most of my girl friends have never had a 'whatever arbitrary reason' not to discuss further with a guy from OLD platforms or not to have a second date. The reasons were pretty valid, i.e. lack of physical attraction, lack of chemistry, etc. same as I'd assume were the case the other way around, men r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:22 PM
2	Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationship That's 'the plea'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 11:45 PM
7	Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationship Just to ask about this “men’s plea”, because I keep seeing it everywhere and never quite understood it. From my point of view, everything I’ve read/seen etc. about men’s plea is basically about a magic key, some secret solution to securing sex with young and very attractive women. Nothing else. It isn’t to find a good partner, to have a relationship, for men to improve themselves and become stable persons, to give anything in return to women apart from .. themselves, basically. Every time a man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:15 PM