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1	Do you think there should be 'blue quotas' for male teachers, social workers, HR professionals, flight attendants, nurses, or secretaries? Looks like you identify as a woman now.	/r/MensRights	12/08/24 12:37 AM
2	How to convince my husband not to circumcise our baby boy? They don't know how big you'll get when you have an erection. With mine, they cut too much, and now it hurts to have sex. Does he want his kid to feel pain during sex? I nearly gave up on sex altogether. My boy is not circumcised, I wouldn't even wish it on an enemy.	/r/MensRights	30/07/24 03:56 AM
1	How to convince my husband not to circumcise our baby boy? Idk about that. It's not worth ruining an otherwise healthy relationship, in my opinion. Just accept the life you've been given and do better for your own kids. A parents mistakes should inform the next generation. Thankfully, the world is becoming skeptical of traditions, and we have access to so much information that we may be able to raise our children better, free from the ignorance of our parents.	/r/MensRights	30/07/24 03:45 AM
4	How to convince my husband not to circumcise our baby boy? Yeah, in the same way that removing your eyes will decrease the risk of glaucoma.	/r/MensRights	30/07/24 03:38 AM
2	Has the mental health community ever failed you? Talk to a male therapist. I have been seen by 7 therapists in my life. I have had wonderful female therapists, but none have been able to overcome biases against men. When I'd tell her something about my wife, who was clearly in the wrong, it was somehow my responsibility to cater to her feelings. Other than gendered issues, the female therapists were great. When I spoke with a couple of male therapists, which are a bit harder to come by, they were much more fair on gendered issues. Male therapi…	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 01:47 AM
4	She makes $550,000 a year. Her husband makes $60,000. Here's how it affects their relationship Ride the money train as far as it will take them. Mooch as much as they can and just cheat? That's what I'd do if my wife was a rich cunt.	/r/MensRights	25/07/24 05:59 PM
11	Society discovered loneliness epidemic just when women felt lonely for the first time Here's one instance where feminists got very upset that men wanted to talk about how marriage, as an institution, is bad for men, but they do it all the time all over campuses in the US, write tons of articles attacking international men's day and men's mental health awareness campaigns. You can do your own literature review, but I think you have a good point. Maybe someone here can make a database of instances where feminists have actively campaigned against fair treatment of men. https://motor…	/r/MensRights	28/05/24 05:23 AM
7	Why are so many Feminist statistics accepted without scrutiny? Shifting the goalpost is one of sociology's greatest weapons, of which they have many. I do, in this case, understand how the goalpost might naturally shift from overt pay discrimination to unseen factors - it's at least worth considering as an actual scientific pursuit. However, when you do such an analysis, you find conflicting results depending on the field, so it's really a moot point that boils down to 'some fields prefer men and some prefer women'. If you do compare the positions where thi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/24 02:49 PM
3	Is there is a mission behind the de-education of men? He WANTED to pump out the atmosphere. But at some point, he realized making the biggest vacuum tube ever created that could withstand mechanical strain is difficult, to say the least. And what happens when you have a leak? A 300m/s wall of air is going to slam into the train and kill everyone. Not a smart move	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 02:34 PM
16	Why are so many Feminist statistics accepted without scrutiny? I don't think we care about being more victimized. It's bad enough that we are. Now, this is from my own observations... it isn't like we don't care about victimization of women, unlike how feminists, typically, blame men for all of men's problems. From what I've seen, the people here are willing to call out injustice on both sides, given post history from many of the members, unlike those in feminist circles that will always find an excuse to blame the man for his own problems. In fact, a lot o…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/24 06:44 AM
5	Is there is a mission behind the de-education of men? I think it might be the tenure system. Some professors make it to tenure because they manage to not make that mistake prior, possibly because the situation had never arisen in their role in research, but when they get tenure and have to make their own research decisions, they get fooled into believing something will work because someone like Elon Musk was behind it - Elon is a terrible engineer but good at tricking people into thinking he knows what he's doing. We, including other countries, not…	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 04:21 AM
10	Is there is a mission behind the de-education of men? Are you from UC, and are you a physicist? I'll give examples you may have heard of: Elon Musk's hyperloop, some water-from-air device that was supposed to get water for people in the desert (not much water in the air in the desert), and various carbon capture schemes that were bogus from the start.	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 03:40 AM
3	Woman admits to having sex with a 13 year old and doesn’t face any jail time On average, despite being just as likely to commit statutory rape and of the same average age, women are sentenced to half the time that men are. What we see are the wild cases where women get off with a pussy pass, but in reality they average a few years in jail, which is still unjust.	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 03:27 AM
9	Female judge dictates 1 year for lethal acid attack. Not rigged btw! A 4 year old boy would get a harsher sentence.	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 03:07 AM
4	Female judge dictates 1 year for lethal acid attack. Not rigged btw! Maybe some soap-making accident will befall her in the future?	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 03:02 AM
34	Why are so many Feminist statistics accepted without scrutiny? I get into arguments with sociologists all the time. They have an idea about the world and then make the statistics fit that idea. Common tactics are using definitions like those, denying some statistics as biased because of some socioeconomic reason (like women work lower paying job BECAUSE of patriarchy, therefore the correction to the wage gap only proves their point, despite there being no evidence that a boys club is preventing women from entering a field en masse - in fact, the opposite is…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/24 02:32 AM
40	Is there is a mission behind the de-education of men? University of California, all of them, are cesspools. Their physicists (obligatory not all) have been fooled time and time again by horseshit, greenwashed ideas that are thermodynamically impossible. These posers basically fall for perpetual motion machines over and over. I have no idea how anyone has any respect for UC. I know it's not entirely related, but it irks me.	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 01:44 AM
13	Why do male abuse victims get arrested? I know aikido and isshyn-ryu and I would sit still when my abusive ex gf would smack me around. I could've ended her in a moment, but I would never, ever have the courage or lack of empathy to do it. Besides, guns and knives are great equalizers. The Duluth model of DV is sickening.	/r/MensRights	24/05/24 04:15 PM
3	Feminism finally got to my friend One time just isn't enough. A random passerby may ignore you. It's a collective aggregate of many such arguments over an extended period of time that has the potential to change someone's mind. Eventually, the screaming child grows up.	/r/MensRights	24/05/24 01:44 PM
1	Feminism Lied To A Generation Of Women. Now They’re Realizing What They Actually Want If we tax the rich and their corporations, we could afford a universal basic income. But the governments of the world are paid to let them siphon money from the economy so they can hoard it. A UBI might even save us money in the long run because we could do away with some of the social safety nets that cost a ton of money to run, and instead employ those workers to better the infrastructure of our cities and towns. Companies need to give back to the countries and the people that literally paved …	/r/MensRights	24/05/24 01:42 PM
1	Feminism Lied To A Generation Of Women. Now They’re Realizing What They Actually Want There is nothing about managing one's home that directly benefits a company such that it produces a profit. Therefore, housework remains and will remain unpaid labor. The labor could be subsidized by the government, but then it's just universal basic income. The real fruits of that labor are the children and their future. It's way more satisfying than a paycheck and recognition from your boss. If your mom is unhappy, show more appreciation so she knows that what she did is the most meaningful th…	/r/MensRights	24/05/24 01:34 PM
1	New York Times readers are done with the gender pay gap myth Thanks for that. I'll haven't looked at older literature on the subject, so that's enlightening.	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 09:01 PM
4	New York Times readers are done with the gender pay gap myth Women are not prevented from getting an education in the western world. A vast majority of grants and scholarships are for women and minority groups, none for men exclusively. No one is blocking women from high paying jobs except themselves - CEOs work 14 hours a day, 7 days a week, with only one month vacation total. There are just way more men insane enough to do that. No one is making them have children or stay home to take care of them - they could work and pay for daycare and still come out…	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 08:57 PM
1	New York Times readers are done with the gender pay gap myth What are the instruments used to determine equal positions? The wage gap is reversed by about 20% in all major cities in the US. Women out-earn men there on average by the same margin they're complaining about. Not only that, because companies don't want to be labeled sexist, companies in certain fields, like physics, will pay women significantly more and hire them at twice the rate.	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 08:47 PM
39	Feminism finally got to my friend I've had some success. When it doesn't work, I say, "I don't know, you sound kinda racist," and exit the conversation.	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 08:38 PM
62	Feminism finally got to my friend Switch everything he says with black people and white people. As a white person, you'd be similarly justified in wanting to encounter a bear instead of a black person because you're about as likely to be the victim of a crime in the same proportion as women are from men. I don't believe that, of course, but the statistical symmetry will force him into cognitive dissonance. You could also look for ways to replace men with jews and women with nazis in his arguments, then repeat that to him. This w…	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 08:27 PM
5	10 Double Standards MEN Are DONE With They're afraid.	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 08:10 PM
12	Feminism Lied To A Generation Of Women. Now They’re Realizing What They Actually Want I would bet everything on stay-at-home partners are the happier partners.	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 07:13 PM
9	According to some surveys, it's not most women who pick the bear instead of the man, but a vocal minority. None of them legitimately believe they are safer with a bear. They are just attacking men. The ones that answer truthfully, that they'd rather encounter a man, are the ones that aren't constantly thinking about how much they hate men. It's that simple.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/24 06:41 PM
1	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems That's absurd. Men love women. Gender stereotypes were at one point necessary for survival but are no longer needed and are not misogynistic, though they do harm both sexes. In the past, humans sacrificed freedom for security and stability. Men are disposable since you need only a few to repopulate, so they grow strong and emotionally blunted to hunt and fight - the dangerous jobs. Women sacrificed their autonomy for protection, which they desperately needed in order to raise children and grow a…	/r/MensRights	23/05/24 06:24 PM
7	This chart written on by a feminist activist on male domestic violence is about what I have come to expect I was abused by a female partner who left cuts and bruises. I have a nice scar in my thigh matching a fork. I was laughed at by feminists at my college who claimed I must have been in the wrong. For the record, in the fork incident that I shared with them, I merely stated to my partner during dinner that I wanted to go see a movie with a friend and that I planned to even though she didn't want me to, because we'd planned it months in advance, which she knew. Those dastardly feminists had me for …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/05/24 08:38 PM
5	This chart written on by a feminist activist on male domestic violence is about what I have come to expect Some animals are more equal than others.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/05/24 08:28 PM
2	This chart written on by a feminist activist on male domestic violence is about what I have come to expect The shit that universities and journals come out with now aren't any better. The 'grievance studies hoax' showed that feminists would publish Mein Kampf if you swap Nazis with women and men with jews... I don't think that's progress.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/05/24 08:26 PM
5	This chart written on by a feminist activist on male domestic violence is about what I have come to expect By academia, I assume you mean propaganda machine. There is nothing remotely academic about what feminism or other so-called grievance studies do on campuses.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/05/24 08:24 PM
3	Would you date women who emphasise that they are feminist? Speech is action. It can change minds. The old saying goes that if you change two people's minds, and they change two people's minds, and they change two people's minds, and so on, then the world will change. So, keep 'just talking about stuff'!	/r/MensRights	21/05/24 04:05 PM
8	Would you date women who emphasise that they are feminist? To answer your question instead of berating you for asking it... it's a good and valid question that ought to be addressed over and over. No, MRA is not one-sided, at least, not in the way feminism is. It's apples to oranges. There is no "some animals are more equal than others" rhetoric here, as is the mainstream feminist position that seeks solely to put power in the hands of "women". I used quotes because that's not really what they want, they just know that they can use history to trick wome…	/r/MensRights	21/05/24 04:03 PM
7	Would you date women who emphasise that they are feminist? All the smart feminists are dead or politically dead.	/r/MensRights	21/05/24 03:43 PM
27	Would you date women who emphasise that they are feminist? You will always be the source of all her problems.	/r/MensRights	21/05/24 03:42 PM
8	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? And if the female teacher gets pregnant, the young boy will have to pay child support while he's still a child. You really don't think this will weigh on a man's mind? That an older woman manipulated him into having sex? Sexual coercion by females is not something to take lightly. Maybe it isn't as bad, but you seem to want to totally ignore it.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 11:51 PM
12	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? I like that they can't see that the phrase applies to them, not us. Especially not now.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 09:06 PM
12	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? If you convince even one person to reconsider their worldview, you've acted. Maybe you convinced the person that goes on to implement policy change, and that person convinces thousands. Every bit counts. Thank you for doing your part	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 09:04 PM
29	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? It's made men afraid to be alone with women. It's made men less successful. It's made men an othered class, demonized for wanting basic human dignity. Oh, you meant good things? Shit, I got nothin.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 09:00 PM
10	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? They aren't the same, but does that mean they should be treated differently? Are almost adult female students sleeping with a male teacher less cognitively mature than a nearly adult male student sleeping with a female teacher? Because female brains tend to be more developed than males at that age...	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 08:56 PM
18	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? That was a knockout punch.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 08:50 PM
22	Is there any moral difference between MRAs and feminists? MRA didn't need to exist if feminism wasn't one-sided. But of course, it is. While feminists talk about equality, they only care about one side while actively demonizing the other, so MRA was made to balance the scales and talk about men's issues, which is precisely what feminists told men they ought to do. Feminists saw the introduction of men's issues into the movement in two ways, 1. "Well it's the patriarchy anyway, so let us handle it and maybe things will magically be better for men" (they…	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 08:41 PM
2	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems If your husband is lazy, stick a boot up his ass. A lot has indeed changed over just the last 10 years. Boys are overwhelmingly left behind in academics, the barrier of entry to jobs, including most police academies and military, are higher for men as they keep lowering the standards for women to get more of them in, the average pay gap is disappearing and in some cases swaying in women's favor (despite your anecdote), and there are far more safety nets for women - it might be that so many women…	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 06:14 PM
0	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems That's dumb.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 03:57 AM
2	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems You have it wrong. Men who go live alone receive tons of criticism from everywhere all the time for being bums that contribute nothing to society. The most vitriolic filth is spouted in some radical feminist subs, absolutely horrible things, and those subs are still up. The MGTOW subreddit, which wasnt nearly as fucked up as, say, the female dating strategy subreddit, was universally hated and taken down. Women are the only group that society will build a huge safety net for. Women have access t…	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 03:53 AM
1	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems Why? I think it's untrue because men's problems are societal problems, they're just being ignored and will soon fester until it becomes a problem that can't be ignored.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 03:24 AM
4	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems You are very privileged to have a device to write comments on a silly website. Check your privilege	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 03:21 AM
6	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems Idk why you got downvoted... that's the only thing that irks me about this sub sometimes. I'll try. The far right holds very old religious views of gender roles. Men are supposed to be strong, able to suppress emotion to get done what needs to be done for the sake of God, country, and family. A man's emotions are between him and God, so effectively men are to deal with things themselves. Women are a protected class in these religious views, even if they are restricted in rights and opportunities…	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 03:18 AM
3	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems I think you got a lot of hate when you shouldn't have. You're kind of right and kind of wrong. The only reason men tell other men to 'man up' is because of female sexual selection, ultimately. That is the kind of man that women have selected for over thousands and thousands of years: strong and able to set aside emotions so they can do what must be done for the family. men are by and large letting go of such notions, allowing their boys to cry and engaging in empathy... because they are allowed …	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 02:59 AM
6	Women problems are society problems but men problems are individual problems Evolutionary biology has a lot to say about this, but in short, yes. Female sexual selection naturally selected for men with the desire to care for a family. Otherwise, like deer, men might just go off and do their own thing. This is well-studied and documented in the NHS open access literature on the subject, if you're interested.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 02:43 AM
2	Question: If men’s issues and wellbeing are often ignored and not taken seriously, doesn’t that make them victims? You know what's funny? Every single (okay, not every, but you get it) statistic that black activists cite for the disparity between white and black in America is mirrored by the disparity between men and women, with men being worse off. It makes intersectional feminist's eyes glaze over in stupification when you list these statistics, starting with what they agree with and then flipping the script. For example, you bring up that blacks serve longer prison time for the same crime, and they go "mh…	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 02:39 AM
1	My insurance won't cover my gynecomastia sugery, but covers trans surgeries. I want to meet this person... foe science...	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 07:11 PM
1	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved Clearly, it's because school has failed him as he is a boy.	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 08:26 AM
2	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved I was hated in high school by a radfem teacher, so I was graded very harshly. I switched papers with a girl I knew who got straight As, a genius. I got the graded paper back marked with a C and hers, which I totally half assed, was marked with an A. We were suspended because of this stunt but the school had two other teachers grade the papers blind after my dad threatened them with legal stuff and they gave the paper that the girl wrote, which I turned in for a C, an A while the paper I wrote, w…	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 08:24 AM
1	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved Was it just? Probably not. Did it feel good? Probably.	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 08:13 AM
0	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved I recommend you look into the basis of psychological diagnoses from the evolutionary biology perspective because it seems you have a limited understanding of WHY we currently have ADHD as a mental disorder. Also, it maybe depends on region, but where I am in America you can basically tell your general practitioner that you think you have adhd and you'll get diagnosed and medicated within the hour after a series of like 10 questions.	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 08:01 AM
3	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved They may be saying that ADHD is way overdiagnosed. Or they might believe that it shouldn't be considered a mental disorder, which would not make it factually incorrect since there is no 'fact of the matter' thing as ADHD. All diagnoses are defined arbitrarily away from the norm, where that distinction lies vary over time and through culture. ADHD would be the healthy state if we were a purely stalking and hunting culture. We would then be giving calm children coffee because they couldn't keep on…	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 07:58 AM
1	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved Please write that book, and do not hesitate to collect video or audio evidence if you can.	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 07:53 AM
2	Schools are biased against boys because their less behaved The school system started out to make good factory workers, which is why boys naturally don't do well and girls do. The reason schools were so strict with bells, seating, line ups, and the like was primarily to beat the boys into submitting to this structured behavior while girls are naturally better in that environment.	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 07:50 AM
2	If The Patriarchy Exists, Then Why Aren't Men Thriving? I said the same thing in a few sub reddits and got tons of hate, being called a woman-hating transphobe despite being a queer trans person. Women who haven't transitioned to men don't and can't understand how utterly lonely and hopeless it feels to be a man or how much hate men get. "Wow, why doesn't anyone hold the door for me or ask me if I need anything?" It was so much easier as a woman, ngl. I continue saying it and recently have taken your post basically wholesale, so thanks	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 02:46 AM
1	Went to r/Feminism for help with research on the oppression of women in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. Got called a ‘jackass’. Oh lol None of those seem like particularly hot takes to me. Is reddit really full of entitled princes and princesses that get offended over those opinions? Or is just like a few crazies?	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 09:31 PM
1	Went to r/Feminism for help with research on the oppression of women in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. Got called a ‘jackass’. What fact might that be? I like triggering glass lickers with facts.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 05:57 PM
1	Went to r/Feminism for help with research on the oppression of women in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. Got called a ‘jackass’. You should speak differently. Speak with dignity and respect while giving people the benefit of doubt, assuming until rigorously proven otherwise that they are being genuine. You'll get a lot of things you want that way.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 05:56 PM
1	Went to r/Feminism for help with research on the oppression of women in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. Got called a ‘jackass’. How will it catch up with them?	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 05:54 PM
1	Went to r/Feminism for help with research on the oppression of women in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. Got called a ‘jackass’. I don't believe that. Many an Arab woman I've met that came to the US has broken down in front of me because of how they're treated. They have Stockholm syndrome or something and don't realize how bad it is until they're free. That being said, most of them don't agree with the radical majority and typically remain moderately conservative by US standards.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 05:53 PM