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This is an insane idea. Just think about it for longer than 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:00 PM
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The science that confirms my preconceived ideas are correct while the science that challenges that is patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:08 PM
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Idk who the OP is but they sure do love posting on this sub and complaining about men complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:25 AM
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Ok so I assume you’re good with race science as well. Also pro vigilantism, don’t believe in laws, and think we should exist in tribal societies that are run by families with blood feud skirmishes every few years like the Māori? This isn’t morality, it’s pure hate and vengeance. Get help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:48 PM
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So revenge is justified, even if the perpetrators and the men who exist now are separated by generations and have a completely different social and moral system that they exist in? I assume you would also be ok with African Americans owning white people as slaves now, because white people held African Americans as slaves for hundreds of years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:10 PM
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Search this sub and comments. It’s everywhere. If you’re on the internet you’ve undoubtedly heard some dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:30 PM
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Somehow both misogynistic and misandrist at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:18 PM
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This is 100% correct. I’m a married man. Marriage is hard, not easy. Maintaining a healthy relationship with a whole other human is work. It’s just no one wants to put in that work, they want it to be easy, and if it’s not easy it’s “not meant to be”. They want quick dopamine hits, dream dates, a nearly perfect partner, and no challenge or work on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:13 PM
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It’s a pretty standard place to hang out and chat with no expectations of spending a bunch of money on food or a specific time limit. For me personally, I also find that when I have a drink I tend to relax a bit and be more myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:47 PM
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Ok? What’s your point? I don’t see how evolving immune responses to disease and infection is relevant to social attitudes around dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:13 PM
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I don’t see anyone arguing that here and I’m certainly not. But kind of a counterpoint actually to what you’re saying; humans DID use or distribute women in ways that we would consider unfair or unjust. Apes have a dominant male in their clans that can mate with multiple females. That doesn’t mean that we should desire to do that, but it goes against your point that just because we evolved a certain way, doesn’t mean we have to accept it as a moral or societal good. We can contemplate and observ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:06 PM
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Humans aren’t roaches. We are highly sophisticated and evolved mammals that have developed consciousness and large brains over millions of years of evolution. We have instincts and biological impulses yes. But the important and obvious distinction is that humans have changed and suppressed instinctual behavior in multiple different ways throughout history. Just because a behavior is, or was, evolutionarily or biologically advantageous doesn’t mean that it’s desirable or “good” for humans to prac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:01 PM
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It’s interesting how pursuing equity and fairness gets tossed out the window when it affects someone personally, or if it challenges someone’s worldview. Yes we have evolutionary instincts that are hardwired into us. But we aren’t living in familial tribes wandering the Savannah anymore. Id suggest you check out the literature on how cooperation has evolved in humans. It has been advantageous to our long term survival as a species to cooperate with one another and work together. This means that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:57 AM
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Not my understanding of it from men but I don’t think anyone knows what anything means anymore. It’s all subjective and everyone has their own “facts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:19 PM
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You’re encountering men you like in “Southern Christian” circles but you’re “Blue Pill”? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:31 PM
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How old are they? And I agree with you in theory. “Back in my day” this was relatively common, because people would meet naturally in life, interact, and form connections. Physical looks mattered of course, but personality would go much further than it does now. “These days” there is significantly more emphasis on the visual and immediate. Social media has absolutely cooked both men and women’s brains in different ways that value high expectations, immediate gratification, and peacocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:14 PM
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Men can definitely do this, especially in the “trad” spaces. But women do this eagerly as well, both in trad spaces and more subtly even in “progressive” ones. They just don’t frame it the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:04 PM
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Idk why people keep saying this on Reddit when not 10 minutes ago I saw a reel of a woman complaining about a man being “too excited”. Then every woman in the comments was shitting on men as a sex. It blows my mind that it’s somehow acceptable one way but not the other. It should never be ok to disparage the opposite sex for “icks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:03 PM
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Yeah but they’re also with unattractive women, so idk what your point is. I’ve very rarely seen unattractive guys (these days) with attractive ladies. But I do see the other way around occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:57 PM
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That’s fucking wild that a sub like that is even ok to have on Reddit. Sounds like it belongs in 8chan or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:31 PM
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That’s not surprising, although if you told that story online I would expect some of those responses. I’d be more concerned if you told this to women irl and they said that. But this sub is just a microcosm of some of the worst thoughts and mind palaces built on the most emotional and extreme feelings about the opposite sex from both sides of the binary. It’s not representative of reality, but it is a concerning undercurrent of how online interaction and OLD are dehumanizing people and gamifying…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:48 PM
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Interesting way to read what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:26 PM
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I did describe it, you just can’t be bothered to look at the sub history and do some basic searching because it might conflict with your preconceived notions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:25 PM
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Like I said go look at the posts and comments in this subreddit. There’s posts on here multiple times a day and men and women furiously commenting on every single one. Red pill men yelling about how they don’t get any and women need to hand it out like candy and femcels yelling about how men are trash and subhuman. This… really shouldn’t be surprising or controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:19 PM
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Yeah I can’t read what you wrote here and have no idea what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:17 PM
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I don’t think by itself it’s red flag. It depends on how the person who has it is handling it and managing. But yes getting into a relationship with a person with depression will be harder than someone without a mental disorder. But I don’t think that’s new information
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:13 PM
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I mean just scroll down the post history of this sub and find the posts made by women. The comments. There’s a lot of women on here that dehumanize men just as much as the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:10 PM
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I’m not necessarily arguing with you, I’m saying that women do this too. “Women present all women in a terrible light then act surprised when men call them out”. The knife cuts both ways on this one, it’s simply that the two extremes of either sex makes their sex look awful to the opposite sex. It’s common on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:08 PM
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Women do the same thing here. If it’s a red pilled guy giving out “advice” to other men, or a femcel saying how all men are inherently evil, it’s all bad, biased, and resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:03 PM
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It’s incredibly depressing and sad. I think these companies that gamify human interaction are to blame, but meanwhile we (as humans) have to be better about treating each other better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:42 PM
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That must be nice, I have no clue what the vibe is outside of the country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:37 PM
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Possibly! I wouldn’t know, I’ve only dated in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:57 PM
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I mean I get it, this is a debate sub about this topic, but I feel like this is something that will not be agreed on by men or women, especially here. The problem is not that women or me are #badandevil it’s that social media and OLD have gamified intimate relationships. Instead of it being a human connection with both people trying to figure each other out and learn, it’s two people that already have an idealized image in their head of what they want, then searching for a person to live up to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:13 PM
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Oh yeah no sorry lol, not you specifically, the general “you”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:42 PM
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Wow, that was a depressing read
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:38 PM
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Even if it’s not Life Partner status, you matched with me because you presumably looked at my profile and liked me? But you can’t even be bothered to ask me questions or talk to me? Doesn’t seem like you like me that much then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:24 PM
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It doesn’t help that everyone thinks this also and that you’re constantly told that approaching a stranger in public to converse is very creepy and weird if you’re the opposite sex (unless you’re hot)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:29 PM
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It’s not at all but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:52 PM
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I do walk away when I’m bored or feel like the conversation isn’t going anywhere. I’m not trying to waste my time. But it’d be nice if more than 10% of some online could hold a conversation and ask questions if they actually like someone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:49 PM
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It’s very different when (as a man) you have very limited options for people to talk to/ask on dates. I imagine it’s easier for women because they have 10 more people they could go talk to other than the boring guy, so it’s way easier to move on and forget. For me (men) there’s not nearly as many women trying to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:42 PM
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It really does, it sucks. I try to get out in the community and do fun things with people, but it feels weird and uncomfortable to be forward with anyone, I always feel like I’m being creepy and don’t want to be perceived as a weird guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:35 PM
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Nope, when I was much younger, and dating apps were still very new, I didn’t feel like jumping through hoops was as much of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:30 PM
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Yeah I know this, but any woman I want to date I want to be just as invested as I am. A relationship doesn’t work when it’s one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:29 PM
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Not my goal right now but I have been in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:20 PM
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Yes no warning. Sometimes physical the first date sometimes not, and the physically intimate is not straight sex, more like kissing and touching. The dates are fun and conversations are good, I feel that way and ask them afterwards how they feel and they say they enjoyed it and look forward to seeing me again 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:12 PM
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Not being told lack of chemistry, the ghosting part. I’m very ok with being told there’s a lack of chemistry that’s just communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:10 PM
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I’ve found this to be true as well. Younger women, usually mid to late 20s, don’t make as much effort as women in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:42 PM
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Women have told me if this is the case in the past. To be clear this doesn’t happen all the time, but it does happen often enough to be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:39 PM
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No clue. It’s happened a couple times, not every time. We text back and forth, make plans for a second date (which they say they’re looking forward to) then just stop responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:38 PM
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It feels like this sometimes irl. Anecdotally for me, it happens in two situations, the first is when you first match or connect with someone, the conversation is one sided about 80% of the time. Idk what it is but it seems like there’s an expectation for the man to carry the conversation and ask all the questions. I usually unmatch if the other person cannot converse because reciprocity and care are important to me. The second context I see this in is after a date. Even if the date went really …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:16 PM
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Yes, the alpha male shit is totally detrimental. There’s a difference between being yourself and embracing your masculinity in a healthy way versus performative masculinity that’s more of a parody than actually having a strong character
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:04 PM
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Idk what it’s like in the UK but sometimes in the US there are community events that are free to go to. But it really sounds like you are busy with starting your career. If I were you I’d be focusing on that. And if you have time hanging out at a bar with pool, find some friends, idk but if I’m being honest I’d probably be too tired
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:20 PM
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I’m married dummy, how’re you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:17 PM
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Oh ok so you’re just saying men are inherently bad in bed because men are inherently selfish? What a nuanced and unbiased perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:10 PM
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I don’t think the complaint is that women aren’t having sex (btw statistics are showing that younger women and men are having much less sex in general) it’s that women are having sex with a small percentage of men consistently. And if your complaint is that most men in general are bad at sex because they lack experience, how are most men supposed to get experienced at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:55 PM
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? I haven’t seen anyone demonizing women having casual sex. The only people I ever see doing that are trad Christian type people, who aren’t in this arena anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:30 PM
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Im not in any echo chamber at all. The only thing I do is read books, listen/play music, and look at Reddit, mostly for hobby interests. I’m married. I’ve been on dating apps though and have talked with many different women. I don’t know of any statistics about women on or off apps, I don’t even know how you would quantify that or where that claim comes from. My comments and statements come from personal experience and actually interacting with people on and off apps, data/statistics, and readin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:59 PM
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This is not true. 47% of men 18-29 are single. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/02/08/for-valentines-day-facts-about-marriage-and-dating-in-the-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:48 PM
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“Yall” So all men are bad at sex? And if this is “y’all’s” view of sex, why are “y’all” having sex at all? How is anyone supposed to get experience having sex if the people without experience never have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:44 PM
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I don’t know if I agree it should be hard necessarily, but I do agree that it should be meaningful. For me, sex is an intimate and inherently emotional act just as it is physical. I think the problem men “see” by way of dating apps and pop culture/media is that women have a never ending phone book of choices, are very picky, and (anecdotally) struggle to hold a conversation or be authentic. Whereas a man can be an authentic, genuine, “average” looking guy and will get 1 date every 3 months out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:36 PM
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I don’t think this is true at all anymore, and hasn’t been for at least 15 years. Women’s sexuality has been praised constantly and consistently in pop culture since at least the 2010s if not earlier. I’m not sure what cultural space you’re swimming in though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:25 PM
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I don’t think this is true at all anymore, and hasn’t been for at least 15 years. Women’s sexuality has been praised constantly and consistently in pop culture since at least the 2010s if not earlier. I’m not sure what cultural space you’re swimming in though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:25 PM
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This. I’m a man and I understand the complaints about dating. Some of it is somewhat overblown and some of it is absolutely true. The solution is for men to masturbate more (a good jack sesh is better than bad sex imo) and be more picky with who they date instead of being desperate horn dogs all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:22 PM
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You haven’t had sex with someone that actually cares about good sex or has experience then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:19 PM
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Your farts must smell like flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:59 PM
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There’s a lot of women like this, I’ve been through some very one sided and bad conversations early on before I learned to skip that part. Why match with me if you can’t even ask a question? I don’t even bother with people like that anymore and there are women out there that can talk and care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:52 AM
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Married for 11 years, two kids No pill? I have opinions about all this stuff and I’ll sometimes agree with RP takes but I’m not invested in any framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:30 PM
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The men who are presumably supposed to be doing the approaching are telling you that there is. If all men hear from women is how awful we are, how high the expectations are for us, and on top of that, our feelings/thoughts about these issues don’t matter, why should we put ourselves out there? Believe all women but don’t believe men? Women are telling the truth about the social dynamics around dating but men are making stuff up or lying? You can listen to men or not that’s your choice, but men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:09 PM
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Yes it’s exactly for the same reason that the person above was awarded for their comment. “Men have mental health issues but if only they’d do more work to help themselves they wouldn’t.” Imagine using this logic with any issues that women experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:41 PM
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Interesting, but I think most people (here on the internet, social media, and in the wider media) mistakenly think that happiness is a goal to have in itself. I think that’s a very unfortunate belief born out of a society that lacks any coherent message around truth or principles and replaces meaning with consumerism and solipsism. Humans usually don’t get into relationships because of happiness. Maybe they experience happiness at first, but they certainly don’t stay because they are pursuing ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:20 PM
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Yes, if we all just treated each other as human beings then we’d all be better off. But thanks to social media and politics (partially) men are giving up, and women are getting more vocal about just not liking men in general. Watch the birth rate and replacement rate drop like crazy in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:17 PM
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This is also true. Men will complain here all day then go swipe on Tinder and give 100 chances to the women that do the shit they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:27 PM
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This is genuinely terrifying. It’s like a dystopian social credit system but for dating and based on mob rule. Idk how popular it is but anyone could say anything about any man and he would be permanently excluded from the dating pool. Creepy and bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:51 AM
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INTJs rise up 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:03 AM
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Yes this is exactly what I mean. I got very lucky and met my now wife in high school. We’ve been married over ten years now. But I would have never chosen her out of a line up and I don’t think she would have done that for me either. But I got set up on a date with her by my friend and her sister. These moments don’t happen anymore it seems. There isn’t room from either gender (for women an initial “spark” and for men, when women aren’t initially sexually attractive) for learning about others an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:43 PM
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This makes perfect sense and like I said above is what I have experienced as true. But in order to make it to that with a man, there has to be a first date, a first conversation, an introduction. In my experience the vast majority of men never even make it to that first step because women are not even liking their profiles, so there’s not even a chance for men to exhibit those behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:15 PM
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I think this makes sense and is what I have experienced. The problem is that in the current dating world or market or whatever you want to call it, the threshold to even make it to learning about a man’s personality or emotions or allowing that connection to grow seems to require a high standard of physical attractiveness, the perfectly worded profile, the sublimely worded text. There is no expectation like this from men for women as far as I have seen. Most men from my experience let mistakes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:02 PM
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