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Spousal Support / AlimonySuspicious_Reader-0/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you’re lonely. It’s reasonable to feel this way…. and it’s reasonable that you think it’s based on her but it’s probably just based on you wanting something similar.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 11:09 AM
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dang! a lot of these responses sound like they are coming from angry bitter men. marriage is still sacred for a lot of people and it hurts when this happens…. there’s usually a reason. some women are narcissistic, but a lot of women burn out. marriage isn’t easy, we didn’t all learn to communicate well. the Gottmans are the gold standard if you’re wanting to navigate relationship struggles or maybe a healthy one in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 11:07 AM
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honestly, he doesn’t need to do all that. if he’s uncomfortable with her behavior and he’s unhappy, and he can’t communicate with her, stalking her won’t improve anything. she’s done. he should end it too, provided he’s unhappy with the behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 11:00 AM
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I’m a wife, legally separated after 16 years and from my perspective, she’s not feeling you right now. If the marriage is long term, I’d be shocked if she hasn’t been trying to communicate with you for a long time and felt unheard. Women exhaust themselves until they finally…… go silent. Sadly, if it’s a regular occurrence and no obvious fight, she’s checked out and moving on. Maybe not fully ready to pull the trigger on ending it, but she’s got one foot out the door.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 10:57 AM
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stop making blanket statements about women as if we all just came off a conveyor belt. Some of us do know what we want and as long as you hold on to that narrative, you’ll never have a solid ground to develop a healthy relationship from.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 10:24 AM
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my standards for health went up… for myself and for them. I realized in my 15 year marriage I want someone who is active “not overly active,” but in shape and attractive and wants to remain that way. I’m working on being in better shape and holding off on dating until I feel like I’m in a place where I feel comfortable and can meet someone where they are at comfortably too.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 08:59 AM
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men are good at expressing emotions, some just struggle to identify a breadth of them.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 11:06 AM
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I’m really sorry you’re sitting in this alone. That “same house, different worlds” stage is such a mind-bender. It makes everything feel both surreal and painfully real at the same time. Something I’ve learned (going through something similar) is that people often don’t reach out because they don’t know how to show up. They don’t want to intrude or say the wrong thing, so they end up saying nothing. Not because they don’t care—but because they don’t know you need them to. Have you had the chance…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 04:20 AM
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I was in a similar situation - my husband didn’t want to leave. Both of us had been unhappy for years but I think he was in denial about how unhappy he was. The kids see everything and know. He wouldn’t leave, wanted to tell the kids it was my decision. Our kids are about the same age. It’s a year since he moved out. We share custody. He’s so much happier (it’s refreshing to see) and he’s got a girlfriend. There is grass on the other side… maybe get into therapy and see why you don’t feel like y…
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/25 07:53 AM
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Sorry you went through that but sounds like you’re better on the other side.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:18 AM
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I’m not an asshole and I don’t hate her. Why would anyone do that to the mother of their children? Disgusting.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:16 AM
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Ideally yes, but she’s 15 years older and has been out of an office for just as long. Computer skills alone need to come up to speed, etc.. even at her salary years ago, it’s not a sustainable wage in the Bay Area.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:15 AM
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it doesn’t benefit us or the kids to do either. the kids are almost old enough, if not old enough, to do what they want. they aren’t 5 and 6. they are involved in sports, friends, academics and one will be getting a job soon.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:14 AM
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She’s 49. Temporary spousal is more than spousal so she’s kicking the can?
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:11 AM
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thanks. the kids mean the world to us and they are our priority.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:09 AM
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Lawyers are not psychics. Family law is not black and white, there are lots of factors, negotiables, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:08 AM
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I’m not a piece of shit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:06 AM
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A “job” will never allow her to be self sustaining in the Bay Area. She’s not my property. She makes her own decisions and she’s in the process of leveling up some office skills.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:05 AM
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We have not involved lawyers yet, both of us lean towards being fiscally conservative. Ideally we will come to our own agreements. I’m not attempting to evade support, even if it is lifetime. It was a decision we made and she supported our family while I worked, often I gone on weeknights. weekends and weeks for work trips. She is the mother of our children, she devoted her life to them and did a better job than I could ever imagine doing. I want the best for her. She intends to return to work. …
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:00 AM
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Use ChatGPT - it’ll help you begin to feel better and move forward
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 05:40 AM
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