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I wax it using hard wax. Lasts longer and then doesn’t grow in all stubble due to no blunt edge and also decreases the amount of hair that grows back due to follicle damage. Highly recommend- but definitely hard wax not the strips- those rip your skin off but hard wax only attaches to the hair and not the skin so it’s less painful and more effective.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 03:13 AM
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I don’t think I agree that an honest and open conversation would ruin his trust or force him to look elsewhere. But what I do think is that maybe take the lead somewhere else because maybe he’s tired of always taking the lead and this is why he’s looking for some relief of always being the dominate one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 10:42 PM
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I’m sorry. But what in the actual fuck. Please re-read what you wrote. Holy hell. I’ve never felt unfeminine and I’m smart as hell- and successful- and competent. That’s what makes me the catch that I am! As to intimidating- I’ve been called that- it just means they aren’t good enough to be on my level. Last thing anyone needs is a partner with self esteem so fragile you have to dumb yourself down for them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 10:03 PM
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I have never heard the term on the baby’s collar until seeing this. Maybe that’s why I find it so offensive IDK. I find it to be a hateful thing to write and to be abusive language towards women. I won’t go on- I’m sure I’ve gotten my alternative point across but I’m pretty sure that the description you have simply of “photo of a baby and mother” is not exactly that this is.. that’s a bit gas-lighty. Obviously I’m not making waves about a “photo of a baby and mother”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:56 PM
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That may be. Thank you for that response. However - when we see something- say something. I don’t think it’s funny and I do care about offensive things towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:46 PM
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Disagree with this meme. Tbh I find it offensive and not empowering. 10/10 I don’t like memes that put other women down- we have enough of that in the world.. prefer to lift others up rather than drag them down.. liberal females also believe in abortion, affordable healthcare, education. Sorry but this is offensive. Especially the collar around the baby. It contributes to exactly what it is appearing to want to discourage. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:28 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I don’t like the blaming the victim mentality on this post. Having a baby is extremely hard on women physically, mentally and emotionally. How about just focus on the horrible unsupportive partner who made her most likely just cave to shut him up as I’m sure she was exhausted and vulnerable .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:06 PM
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Even if someone was into this- the only way it’s even remotely safe is when there is mutual respect and care and concern. I would never enjoy any type of relationship devoid of caring for me and my feelings. This is just sad. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:29 PM
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FYI- when you don’t eat enough and then eat more- your body bloats temporarily due to glycogen stores. To put it this one way- and this is roughly not exactly- one molecule of carbohydrates attaches to 2 molecules of water. So the higher your carb intake the more prone to bloating due to more water retention. It’s also why those on low carbs diet lose a ton of weight in the first couple of weeks- it’s the glycogen being used up and releasing all of the water attached to it. The best type of exer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:40 PM
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Yes- and my sex partner wasn’t the computer lol..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:53 AM
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I assumed that she means- I’m married fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:02 AM
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You may want to consider either building muscle mass or upping your protein. Once i started lifting my life changed and I could eat anything and everything I wanted- look good- be healthy and feel great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:57 AM
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Girl- I hear this. I benched 200lbs was 5’3 a size 4 petite- and weighed 156lbs cuz I was strong AF. I had lots of comments about what I did and did not eat. Fuck them all I was/am hot and strong as hell and could kick all their asses. I’m sick and tired of men telling me how much I should weigh. I looked like 115lbs and was hot AF but for all you sisters who worry about the scale- I was technically overweight and 156. At size 4 petite- overweight. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:50 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:50 AM
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Sorry- I’m not familiar with that term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:43 AM
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This was proven to be false. Has been going around for years but the story is not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:28 AM
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My response to this: this is why f that- no dates where they take me on a walk like I’m a dog!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:21 PM
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I was careful. Usually don’t go into anyone’s house until a certain time has passed. We went out to dinner just kept a safe distance the first couple of times until I felt comfortable. I did the same this time around and then eventually did go to his home and his mine for dinner. I just was more selective and made sure I knows the mans habits and where he goes and his personal stance on precautions. Then again I live in CT, we are doing fairly well in terms of COVID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:19 PM
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I disagree with a couple of things in this statement. There is still a point in dating and I wouldn’t disqualify someone to be dating now. It’s also hard to quantify how hard/easy it is for everyone to find a respectable person to date at this time. Sure there are challenges but challenges are a part of everyday life. I’m an exceptionally bright and accomplished woman and I dated during the past few months. I just was smart and careful about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:09 PM
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Well.. in my divorce I did get half of everything. It was the law in my state (CT) and I literally got exactly 50% of everything.. Most states marital assets are shared. I also get a significant amount of child support.. IDK maybe we meet the definition of “wealthy” here.. we both made almost same exact salary also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:03 PM
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Yes- trust your intuitions then of course. I’ve learned my body tells me things way faster than my mind works them out. And people who are too good to be true usually have some pretty big deal breaker secrets. I totally get that. Those reasons alone are for sure time to move on and every time I didn’t listen to my gut but gave people chances when I felt like you describe I’ve been hurt and disappointed. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:27 PM
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This X100. I have an MBA and a lot of economics training. I would read these books I don’t think these on their own are a red flag if someone of finance and intellectually oriented..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:09 PM
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I mean.. I read books about things like that to better understand negative traits to avoid being manipulated by them.. I would have asked why he found that particular topic interesting. It’s also related to psychology and game theory economics and I by no means am a liar but do take time to “stay woke”. Just another perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:08 PM
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Same. 40 years old. Never used hormonal BC. I am regular and know when I’m ovulating which helped me to get pregnant when I wanted to and not pregnant when I don’t want to. I just use condoms when I’m ovulating and that takes care of it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:35 PM
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I disagree with the doubters here. This kind of behavior is par for the course with most of the men I know in my family and through work. This is how humans are supposed to act towards each other. Enjoy the bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:18 PM
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I am on my second Tibbie. I would put money on your dog being part Tibbie. If I can figure out a way to share my mixed breed Tibbie pictures via PM I will. He looked very similar and everyone laughed at me when I said that was the type of dog I had because they are not that common. When we got the DNA test I was right. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:01 PM
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I bet he’s part Tibetan Spaniel. I had one just like that. DNA test came out Tibbie. I would say he has some Tibbie in him- especially if he’s from NC or GA or some other southern state. Either way- he’s adorable how could you not love him. Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:50 PM
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Great question: basically we got married too young. Was a 14 year marriage and we fell out of love. I still care deeply for him- we have a son together- we get along very well and are better off as good friends rather than husband and wife. We are so close that we’ve rented a house together for an upcoming out of town wedding. Separate bedrooms of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:09 AM
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Just wanted to say ladies. My ex husband is a gem. He took care of me while we were married- supported me all through college and 2 masters degrees- and also made sure I was taken care of in the divorce. Wanted to add this point because seems like a very grim picture is being painted here. Anyway- if I were to get married again I would totally get a pre-nup because I’m aware I may not come out so well if anything was to happen to me in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:13 PM
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I learned and now get it. There are times when sex is so good that I get extremely wet because I’m into it. I’ve found that some men think that this is a bad thing. They don’t care about women getting pleasure and/or understand how it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:05 PM
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Thanks.. now I just googled and have another thing that is making me feel a bit insecure.. oh man..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:10 PM
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Sorry- what is WAP? I keep seeing this acronym but can’t find its definition. TIA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:26 PM
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Someone reached out to me from another dating site and that’s how I found this one. It wasn’t you but what they did helped me so I’ll thank you for doing that for others. It’s the right thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:58 AM
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I totally agree with you. I don’t need social media posts I need loyalty and honesty and caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:41 PM
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It’s ok- it may have been my mistake but thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:51 PM
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Yes we are- sorry wasn’t responding to you but another poster that said in the US inheritances don’t become marital property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:43 PM
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Actually- legally that’s false. When you’re married- an inheritance becomes marital property. There are some ways to get around that including a prenup but generally anything accumulated during a marriage becomes marital property in most US states. Each state has different rules but most states are community property states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:27 PM
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Yes- that makes a heck of a lot more sense... in that case - hit send- but just know you’re scratching for a fight and probably best to just swipe and disengage. I’m divorced now. Disengaged has resulted in some great things for myself and me and my ex are now the best of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:13 AM
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I mean.. honestly I don’t have the full context but your response is a bit aggressive and not sure what he said deserves that kind of wrath. It’s not like he’s saying now I know how shitty I made you feel when I broke your heart because mine has been broken. I don’t know how much it hurts to burst an eardrum either but that doesn’t warrant saying I lack empathy..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:49 AM
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Girl- I have an orgasm pretty much every time. Usually more than one... just sayin’ which is why I wait. That oxytocin is a bitch and I get attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:17 AM
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I didn’t mean to hurt you I’m sorry you feel that way It’s everyone’s fault but my own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:47 AM
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1 month free here too and wow has my mental health and motivation improved. The silence and lack of drama is beautiful..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:45 PM
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Thank you. Our eyes are open. We will move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:50 AM
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Thank you for saying you’re proud of me internet stranger. Thank you it means a lot to me I needed to hear that. He also told me he wanted me to know the other woman.. no fucking way. Just NO. Best wishes. Stay strong. You are strong and beautiful. Inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:39 AM
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My therapist- who I’ve been seeing for 2.5 years says that I tolerated some of the abuse because deep down I thought that was all I deserved. Aka- my self esteem wasn’t high enough to walk away. It’s true- I was lonely and post divorce and also vulnerable. I’ve learned now to recognize when I’m vulnerable and to be sure to take good care of myself and look inside and do healthy things. Cutting back on alcohol and exercising more has helped my self esteem. As well as positive self talk and focusi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:45 PM
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It’s so hard. I couldn’t stomach the thought of the other girl being another victim. I’m strong but what he did to me- gaslighting and emotionally and verbally abusing me while I was pregnant- that would have destroyed another woman. Fuck that. I will not be destroyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:23 PM
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Same.. and that emotion.. I believe it’s called rage and indignation and maybe also possibly wanting revenge and to stick up for the you who was so terribly manipulated. But yes my therapist says fix myself and don’t worry about the rest. That advice is solid in some ways because it keeps you out of the loop so you can heal and move on. Can you tell me what SA means? Sorry - I’m not familiar with that term. Best of luck to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:16 PM
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Dying.. 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:06 PM
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I’m sorry you feel this way. I understand and empathize. But true recovery brings you to a place of absolute strength and peace that you do eventually see the beauty in how strong and resilient you are. It’s just hard to conceptualize that when you are working through the pain of healing. Eventually my scars became beautiful and perfect to me and my own inner strength and self love that I’ve fought so hard for is my super power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:05 PM
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I love this. And totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:02 PM
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Good point. I sent concrete proof. Undeniable proof including screenshots of text messages.. who knows if I’ll get through but I did my duty and told her all of the lies and sent her time stamped texts to me of when I know he was with her. I didn’t want to harm her but I did want to prevent another single mom women like me to ever feel destroyed and insecure like he did to me. Honestly- fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:59 PM
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I swear to god I want to put my ex on that. He did exactly as the OP’s post says. I did message his new “target” and told the truth of some things I know he was keeping from her.. The thing is ladies- those of us who fall for this seem to need to learn the lesson the hard way and we don’t look closely at ourselves as to why we are vulnerable to this. We accept shitty treatment, excuses and apologies until our self esteem kicks in and we’ve had enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:53 PM
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I know- that exactly what happened- gaslighting poor me bullshit. I guess I needed confirmation one last time that he was such a loser asshole before I was brave enough to block. But my god- the peaceful quiet feels so liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:47 PM
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I’m in the same boat and what I did was take a moment to have some clarity. Maybe not the best idea but I told him exactly what I thought of him in no uncertain terms. Refused any apology because there is no apology in the world that will make things ok. Then blocked his ass. Let him keep the anger and every time I feel it I imagine throwing it on him. Told myself that I was better than all his BS and to move on. He’s the angry small person. And just like you my life is so much better without hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:18 AM
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You don’t usually need to sterilize a menstrual cup- soap and water in a public bathroom work and it’s a grey idea for a donation to a shelter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:01 AM
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I kept a few screenshots to remind me of the bullshit for a while too.. every time I had a doubt it was right there in black and white for me to see. Was liberating once I deleted for good as I knew I didn’t need to convince myself any longer. It became my full truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:41 AM
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