Sveske Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Talking to women over Facebook chat. Yeah, but without the "pls"	/r/seduction	05/04/13 01:48 PM
0	Talking to women over Facebook chat. slow steps, you escalate. i usually write "hey (name)", then "are you there?" if she doesn't answer me fast enough. After that i just start chatting a bit about whatever when she does answer me. Later on during the convo i just write, "wanna get a cop of coffee/beer in the next week?". Pretty straight forward. From my experience with fb-chat it's better to do it real-time like a conversation, although writing a msg like stockholmpua wrote can also work just fine.	/r/seduction	05/02/13 10:48 AM
2	Tonight I was a total AFC Don't stress it. There are two ways of overcoming your AFC-ness. One is extreme exposure (approach everything the boot camp way). And the other is chipping away at it. Just like being afraid of heights Every night out is a good night - don't beat yourself up and embrace frustration as something positive.	/r/seduction	18/01/13 06:55 PM
3	[Texting] Is it okay to frequently text a girl that doesn't usually texts you on her initiative? Rule of thumb is, if you ever feel like sending a text, just to get a text back - don't send it. Got a funmy joke, sure. Someone reminded you of something stupid the girl did, sure. But no "hey cutie. How was your day?". Save that for when you are in a relationship.	/r/seduction	17/01/13 06:38 PM
1	Guidelines for Day Twos Saying NEVER in caps twice arent guidelines - those are rules for what does and does not work. Like ,"NEVER wear womens underwear to a booty call". What you are writing here is just giving people limiting beliefs. Because of people giving advice like this, i had to spend six months extra when learning to meet women, just to unlearn bullshit that doesnt help in anyway. "Always start an interaction by reattracting the girl", "always be in state before you approach", "never show interest in the gir…	/r/seduction	30/12/12 04:11 PM
1	Guidelines for Day Twos Some of this is good, but some is pure bs. "NEVER take girls on stationary dates" - wtf?! If you want sex on the first date this may help a little, but is in no way an absolute truth. Stationary dates have worked fine for me If you want sex on the first date the MOST important thing is to be close to your place (unless you want to pull her to her own). If you dont mind waiting untill next date a cup of coffee is fine. Just make sure you have plans after the date. You have got an hour or two mayb…	/r/seduction	29/12/12 01:01 PM
5	Clubbing solo. Any tips? There's no need to go all extreme on your first time going solo.. My best advice would be to CHILL. Start out with the single goal of being comfortable while alone in the club. A big part of going out alone is to be comfortable in a situation where you have no one to back you up. Suddenly youll realize that no one is looking at you thinking: "who's the weird friendless guy". Youre just a guy enjoying a night out by yourself.. And remember that you can always go to anorher venue. Just chip away a…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 10:06 PM
1	Field tested opener that's been working great for me! Then you're communicating from a place of genuine interest which will help you a lot. If you're asking me which question will work every time then i have no answer for you - cause i all depends on the situation. If she has shopping bags, you can ask shat she's shopping for. If shes wearing something interesting you can ask her about that. Its all about conveying personality and then hoping she'll like you ;)	/r/seduction	06/11/12 03:37 PM
1	Field tested opener that's been working great for me! Depends on what you want to know about her, what interests you etc.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 11:34 AM
2	Field tested opener that's been working great for me! You say: "hi (short pause), i saw you from over there and i wanted to come and meet you". She says hi, then you ask her a question and the conversation going. That how I lt often goes	/r/seduction	16/10/12 02:48 AM
1	Bars Have Become Venues for Friends to Hang out vs. Singles to Hook Up Daygame.. It's the best venue out there! It's free, all the beautiful women are there, rarely any cockblocks and NO competition! It amazes me how few guys actually approach during the day. Get the number -> drinks in the evening and your set :)	/r/seduction	13/10/12 09:44 AM
2	Guys are easy to talk to, but I don't know what to say to women. Ever tried talking to the women exactly like you talk to your guy friends? If your male friends think you re hilarious you probably shouldn't be any different when talking to women	/r/seduction	17/09/12 07:48 PM
3	Advice request: how best to use job to add value/attraction? I'd say talk about it with passion. The whole downplaying to seem casual-cool is something most girls can see through. What I think is most important to communicate is why YOU like your job. Not why other SHOULD like your job. I'd be like: "oh my job? Ever been on an airplane?" - "sure??" - "I fly those bitches and it's AWEEESOME!" (overexaggerated ofc ;))	/r/seduction	17/09/12 05:47 PM
1	Does intelligence help in attraction? Before or after you tried to fuck her?	/r/seduction	29/07/12 08:29 PM
1	Does intelligence help in attraction? Any kind of skill requires intelligence, especially social skills. Having knowledge of things isn't the same as being intelligent. So yes, social savvy requires intelligence	/r/seduction	29/07/12 08:27 PM
4	Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars. Cooking recipes, especially for baking. "2 cups og flour, 2 eggs" etc. Don't go straight for it, but make it funny. Like, "I could whisper anything in your ear right now, but I think you'd rip off my clothes right here on the spot if I did - so I won't". She'll no doubt challenge you to do so, and then you pull her in and start saying something really out of context while smiling and keeping it slow and sexy. Works wonders if you get a girl to your apartment/bed aswell. And she's never heard it …	/r/seduction	27/07/12 08:32 AM
0	I have a question for the real alphas here It's all about calibration, it's not something you can pre plan. Listen and experiment, test things for your self and see what works and what doesn't.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 07:33 AM
0	What to say when a girl says "What?" after holding eye contact for a while. "what?" - "i'm winning" - "winning what?" - "the eye contact battle of course, you suck at this :p"... "what?" - "oh i was just thinking about pigeons having sex, no biggie". In other words, say whatever, it doesn't really matter.	/r/seduction	19/07/12 09:49 AM
1	Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together" "Quit worrying about how to attract girl...", doesn't mean "stop approaching". It means, be who you want to be, do what you want to do with your life, but it also means when you see the girl of your dreams - you go get her	/r/seduction	17/07/12 07:34 PM
1	How much touching is too much? Touching is how you know if the girl is into you. You test the waters and see. On the last date i was on, me and the girl went to her apartment after a bar. I literally said, "okay i'll start taking your clothes off now, if you don't like it you can just kick me out (i was late and all)". She didn't kick me out, so guess what i did?	/r/seduction	26/06/12 03:54 PM
4	[FR] HB9 at Ikea. Too young? Smile, look her in the eyes and just say whatever.. "Oh sorry, meant to say Wade, senior citizen", "Like a knife through the heart", "oh shit, my social readings are way off. i thought you were like 30". Seriously whatever comes to your mind, "i might be old, but i love kittens. Does that help?", "shit, old AND poor, you just made my day kiddo". just keep smiling and relaxing it's np.	/r/seduction	26/06/12 03:47 PM
1	What are some tips for getting girls in college, whether it be at parties, bars, or just during the day on campus? http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/87e37/how_do_i_go_about_starting_a_romantic/c08g6oi	/r/seduction	24/06/12 11:55 PM
5	text msg - How'd I do? Texting is a great way to shoot yourself in the foot Yes, if you do it wrong. Waiting longer doesn't show that you're busy, it just shows you are weird for deliberately waiting X mins before answering someone. What you want to communicate through text is busy, but interested. You are busy and can't always answer right away (sometimes you do, sometimes you don't), but you take time out of your schedule to contact the girl because you are interested in her. If you're always that busy why even text…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 11:43 PM
1	Seddit, I really need advice. You guys made me, but with great power comes great responsibility The problem isn't getting the hot girls, it's keeping them. In my experience you first have to adjust to the fact that you deserve hot girls. As soon as you have that in your head your body will simply follow. Its all in the subcommunication (how your eye-contact is, do you feel inhibited when talking to a woman, etc). My best advice is to start taking chances. Fuck all that work on yourself shit, taking chances is what really builds character. Could be anything really, stopping a girl on the st…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 11:24 PM
2	text msg - How'd I do? Fairly well? "HB8: r? I can meet u out if ur not busy. 1:01 PM". He got a date didn't he.	/r/seduction	24/06/12 12:37 PM
26	[FR] I got a blowjob. first time a girl deep-throated me i saw 'girlfriend-potential' manifest itself	/r/seduction	24/06/12 12:28 PM
3	Shut Up and Kiss her Being brave is not acting without fear, it's acting in spite of fear. Be a brave man :)	/r/seduction	23/06/12 02:49 PM
11	Are there some people who just aren't cut out for this? Fuck the hierarchy and stop comparing yourself to other people. You're just a guy, you have one life. Planet earth is an insignificant little dot in the universe and in the great span of time none of this will ever matter to anyone. Why not just say fuck it and do what you want?	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:38 PM
20	I'm 27/F and I've been seeing this girl for a month, but we haven't even kissed yet! ~HELP~! Escalating in a situation like that is all about controlling the tension. This is mainly done through three things, 1) eye-contact (most important), 2) touching, 3) silence. People always think you have to have a 'kiss-close routine' and shit, but you don't. You just need to touch her (doesn't have to be sexual, even just stroking her finger or hand maybe), look her in the eyes and shut the fuck up. Then you move closer and BAM!	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:31 PM
2	Do it so you don't regret it The opener is probably the least important part of the conversation, at least with regards to what's being said. Focus on eye contact and a nice relaxed body instead of over-thinking the words. Just say what comes to mind, "you're cute", "you look cool", "you have a nice style" etc	/r/seduction	21/06/12 10:36 PM
2	Value Statements vs. Qualifying? hehe, been a while since ive been reading theory. shouldnt have responded to OP when i have no clue what the terms mean now xD.. nice explanation, think i get it. when you supplicate you make qualifying statements, and when you're being awesome, it's mainly value statements?	/r/seduction	19/06/12 12:27 PM
2	Value Statements vs. Qualifying? "Never heard of qualifying statements..." - "That's not what's meant by qualifying statements.".. Does not compute.. I was talking about qualification as a concept, that its a question or a statement followed by a question, then I gave an example. What you're saying is that qualifying statements are supplication?	/r/seduction	18/06/12 04:00 PM
3	Don't ask yes or no questions. "Can i have your number?", obviously doesn't work without a long "pleeeeaaase" at the end.	/r/seduction	18/06/12 02:40 PM
2	I've been lurking here, and I've got a question on Sunday game; what do you do? youtube, search 'simple pick up', do the same	/r/seduction	18/06/12 02:32 PM
1	Need a quick analysis of a facebook conversation. "but depends how far your willing to go for that grade young missy you're * lol" "not very far"	/r/seduction	18/06/12 02:06 PM
1	Approached more than 50 women, but still no results... It's not all about techniques its alot about your state of mind. 50 women might not be enough for your head to come to terms with the fact that you've decided to be a stud. If you've been socially awkward for 30 years and just now approached your first 50 women, your mind is probably trying to get back to your previous state of mind that it knows and trusts. Just keep at it, force your brain into submission. You have all the funny lines and the sexy comments, you've probably seen 1000 movies and…	/r/seduction	18/06/12 11:50 AM
2	Value Statements vs. Qualifying? Value statements i believe are the same as DHV-spiking, "my ex, who was a model, bla bla". Qualifying is about being picky, showing the girls that you don't just make out with anyone. Never heard of qualifying statements i always thought it was questions or a statement followed by a question. "Shit, i want to go to China so bad before WW3 breaks out.. Do you like travelling/adventure/seeing new places?" Rule of thumb is: "Don't try to impress people, just be impressive".	/r/seduction	18/06/12 11:37 AM
8	[FR] Never Leave the Girl, or Game Drunk! The girl's an ass and so is your friend, and it's always okay to excuse yourself to the bathroom.. Often people studying pu get into their heads that they are the only ones flawed, and that's not the case, just fyi. That being said, there's no reason to escalate like you did that early, if you haven't slept with the girl before. There's a reason for always trying to isolate before you escalate. Women aren't like men and it takes them a bit longer to get into a sexual mood, but when they do they'…	/r/seduction	18/06/12 11:17 AM
1	How do you increase the likelihood that she will be receptive to your kino? Reverse kino is also pretty über. Facing eachother, take her hands, put them on your shoulders etc	/r/seduction	14/06/12 03:43 PM