Swaggerlisk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
73	I went to a bar by myself for the first time. (Motivational post)		Swaggerlisk	/r/seduction	10/10/16 07:42 AM
35	How the hell do you close?		Swaggerlisk	/r/seduction	20/12/17 05:13 PM
33	"Gender wars" will always exist in society, because the male and female sexual imperatives are diametrically opposed.	CMV	Swaggerlisk	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 04:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How the hell do you close? Good point, I suppose this is something I can try.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:18 AM
1	How the hell do you close? Talking, hanging out with her, getting to know her for who she is and rather than being the ass grabber guy, be the cute nice guy who knows how to talk that she dreams about This is probably good advice if I meet a girl I'm trying to date, but I'm unsure if this will work well if I'm just trying to find a cuddle buddy for the night. These "players" that girls talk about with their friends are actually usually successful, and they don't play the long-con. What I'm wondering is what do they do tha…	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:16 AM
2	How the hell do you close? stay longer after getting her number Interesting idea, I've never tried this. I always duck out after getting a number. try being playful, teasin about something you noticed about her the day you met her From what I've noticed, the specific message I send to her is irrelevant. For girls who are really into me (that I usually am not into), I can send the stupidest shit on my mind (or just a "hi") and they'll bite. Conversely, if the girl doesn't give half a shit about me, it's probably not gonna …	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:10 AM
2	How the hell do you close? Building comfort is the tricky part for me, it seems. I try to seem cool during conversations but I don't really do much kino or "comfort-building", I'm not really sure what specifically this process entails.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:07 AM
1	How the hell do you close? Any tips on establishing said connection? I usually just ask what they do for a living or how they're liking [insert nightlife neighborhood here]. I'm not very creative in this sense.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:06 AM
1	How the hell do you close? Sure, I can just stay. But that raises the question "How do I get the girl to not leave the conversation eventually?". EDIT: Worded that question badly. I guess what I'm really asking is how to keep her interested in me for such long durations.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:02 AM
1	How the hell do you close? Instant dates are extremely difficult and, in the context of a bar, improbable.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 04:00 AM
2	How do you successfully cold approach? Okay, so maybe the issue was that I wasn't making my intentions known from the start? I kind of just made small talk or pointed out a feature about them/their outfit, but I never really conveyed my interest. Could that be an issue? If so, how do I convey interest without weirding them out?	/r/seduction	01/04/17 08:40 PM
1	How should I go about cold approaching on my college campus? Any tips on spotting or "forcing" IoIs? Whenever I look at girls they tend to look away immediately with a neutral look on their face. I don't think the heeled shoes thing applies to me since I'm fairly tall (6'), I've got that going for me which is nice.	/r/seduction	27/03/17 08:54 PM
2	I went to a bar by myself for the first time. (Motivational post) Fair point. Having a few drinks to loosen up definitely helps, but make sure you don't get too drunk. Being sloppy drunk is unattractive, and also you want to actually remember the night y'know? So how did you approach the girls that were dancing? I walked up to them, held out my hands, and said "the three of us are gonna dance now!". I said it while smiling and in a friendly manner. After that, talking to their friend who had came late to join the group was easy because I didn't have to approac…	/r/seduction	11/10/16 01:17 AM