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| 2 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityUnfortunately, I don’t foresee the “culture war” ever ceasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about the fact that women aren't really expected to give the same level of care to men's consent as men are to women's consent?Don’t think you read the prompt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't pre-selection affect men too?The real world isn’t as simple as you’re making it out to be, OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:19 PM |
| 2 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?Yeah it’s a TikTok thing. I’m 28 for context, and almost every person I talk to doesn’t care about height as much as it’s portrayed. But let’s be clear, it’s always been a preference. Phrases like “tall, dark, and handsome;” “tall drink of water;” etc. and the heights of older couples to me indicates this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.Luckily we have a term for that — “lying by omission.” You’re probably a sociopath lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.Not if you want to be moral. Your perspective is: “it’s ok to be immoral if other people are also being immoral in the same way.” That’s simply a crazy position to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.Luckily I’ve found an honest partner. I agree most people aren’t, but they’re still behaving immorally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.To avoid ambiguity. People need more honesty in life. These people aren’t who are the subject of discussion aren’t being honest with themselves let alone others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameI fail to see how voyeurism is a new phenomenon. You don’t need porn to get off, you’re right, it’s just a more fun way to get off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameMy point is that almost nothing of porn is problematic, and somehow it is the evil plaguing our world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the same“Almost” was the key word in that sentence. Porn is about having an orgasm. Sex is about communication and making sure your partner feels good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameYou’re right, but why not talk about dealing with porn addiction separate from porn abstinence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the samePorn addiction is real, just like alcoholism. However, I would not tell someone to abstain from drinking simply because a (relatively) small number of people suffer from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the samePorn and sex are almost entirely unrelated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameMakes a valid point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameLots of things result in dopamine spikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameLots of things result in dopamine spikes. Are dopamine spikes something we ought to preclude from our partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameBecause it’s logically inconsistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameLol what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameSo…. Watching porn isn’t a woman’s equivalent to watching porn???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 29 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameA woman’s “equivalent” to a man watching porn is posting pictures? You’re lost. Take a break from the manosphere please for God’s sake. I agree that it’s ridiculous for someone to dislike their partner watching porn, but having to make some weird connection to a completely unrelated activity to prove your point makes it sound like you have no justifiable grounds to support your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Never take dating advice from womenNot sure how many times we need to say this, but UGLY WOMEN EXIST TOO! OP falling into the very trap he is accusing women of falling into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Bro who cares if "men have it harder than women?" You sound like a whiner playing victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?bruh what u on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Which scenario would you pick?Fair enough. I guess it’s a vague term. I was defining it the way r/femaledatingstrategy does. EDIT: Also, making $40k/year puts someone in the 98th percentile worldwide (adjusted for cost of living), and in the 40th percentile in the U.S. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Which scenario would you pick?It's honestly despicable how people's brains work. It's not altogether unjustified, considering the social conditioning in capitalism combined with the exacerbated wealth inequality which has been growing worldwide in the last thirty years, but it is sad nonetheless. By disparaging women who would choose 4, by OP's framing, you're precluding 90% of men and the vast majority of women from creating familial units. So it's not worth your time to marry someone who isn't in the 90th percentile of inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters?Exactly. "Best" is a designation which is very subjective both physically (do your bits mesh well -- vaginas, mouths, and anuses range in size just as much as penises or strap-ons; people have different kinks and turn-ons) and emotionally (do the partners vibe well, have similar libidos, etc.). Obviously there are components which are not debatable -- for instance, are they a good listener, do they want to please the other person, etc.), but comprise only a portion of the overall experience. Plu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 0 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?yeah those people suck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:50 PM |
| 5 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?Hear hear! It's pathetic how decrepit our communication skills are culturally. By ghosting, you can waste days of precious time for the other person. "Will they finally respond? Would it be messed up to date someone else only _____ days after we last texted?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 5 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?I disagree. I strongly prefer people who have slept with at least one person to people who have never slept with anyone. It's simply because I don't like wasting my time, and I've already been through the experimentation phase. I'm attracted to people who have their shit together, and know what they expect of themselves and others. Inexperience is not sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?In response to your take -- maybe in a liberal city, but in most places, the combination of a small dating pool and anti-gay sentiment, this is unlikely to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?I looked up papers on the topic through Google Scholar. The peer-reviewed research was methodologically and statistically sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Yeah I did more research, and I was wrong. I apologize. I assumed that the substitution effect would outweigh the scaling effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?You think that prostitutes want to catch something? They'll enforce it/ be professional about it for their own safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 14 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Bro prostitutes get tested frequently. When was the last time your partner was tested? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?You know that legal prostitution makes trafficking LESS likely, right? EDIT: After doing more research, I realize I was incorrect in this assertion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?I actually disagree. I think that the context of a brothel is sufficient to separate/ compartmentalize communicating with women for the purpose of soliciting prostitution and communicating with women for other reasons. It's possible OP would be BETTER about not sexualizing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Dang, US$170 "isn't too much?" Congrats on your professional success! An average date for me is like US$20. If a partner of mine suggested that we ought to do something which necessitated spending that much money, I'd definitely look sideways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 31 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!THIS! Exactly what I thought. A man repeats exactly what a woman says and is respected where the woman was not. Even if he cares for his wife, it can turn into benevolent sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If as a man, you date women, you're a cuckI’m from a family where that didn’t happen so maybe I’m a prisoner to hindsight bias. EDIT: Also, that’s kind of why I need to date. I need to thoroughly understand her character before I commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | If as a man, you date women, you're a cuckJesus that’s bleak. I agree committed relationships are generally poorly portrayed and we have bad role models in pop culture. However, I date in order to find the best possible mother for my future children. If you don’t want kids, it doesn’t really matter I guess. EDIT: grammar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Is cheating the only safe dating strategy for men?Um... what? Maybe a very, very small subset of people want to be dominated, but I'm guessing most people just want to be treated as people. Maybe the borderline abusive behavior was the impetus for infidelity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Is cheating the only safe dating strategy for men?I can tell you’ve been hurt in the past. I’m sorry about this. Unfortunately you’ve chosen to go the route of hurting other people so you don’t have to deal with your feelings. It is impossible to be in a sustainable relationship with another person without 100% trust in them. I firmly believe this. It seems like a fwb thing is better until you learn that there are shitty women and trustworthy women. Just like there are shitty men and trustworthy men. It seems like you’re determined to fall into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Is cheating the only safe dating strategy for men?Cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be.I've seen so many of these types of posts, that there has to be a community out there for you. Statistically, there are overwhelming odds that you'll find someone with mutual attraction who feels identically to you in terms of commitment. Hang in there, you're still so young. I mean marriage and "commitment" is on the decline, but so is marital infidelity. I feel like people don't really change all that much over time, just cultural norms (which is mainly from the popular and powerful voices of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 03:16 PM |
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