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19

You're the side dude
/r/askMRP08/01/25 11:57 AM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP17/11/24 01:20 PM
8

Yes, you're doing it wrong. Seems like you're in the principals office explaining yourself to your mommy. You think you owe her an explanation. Plus, you have zero sense of humor, and you feel guilty. How much sidebar have you gone through?
/r/askMRP24/09/24 12:18 AM
1

The work required to rebuild your life. Mindset Financial Fitness Parental Mental Etc...
/r/askMRP19/09/24 04:29 PM
5

If you do the work, you'll come out of the other side much better financially. One of you is going to rip this proverbial band-aid off. Who do you want it to be?
/r/askMRP18/09/24 07:30 PM
8

Your only insight should be from your lawyer on what your post divorce plans are. Aside from that. Sidebar.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 05:15 PM
1

I'd work on your codependency. Also, I'd get over yourself. You're unique, your story isn't.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 09:54 AM
10

Sidebar. No such thing as, "the one". You have a lot of work to do if you've been reading RP content and you're still saying things like that.
/r/askMRP07/07/24 11:07 AM
18

Stay plan is the go plan.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 06:33 PM
2

I don't see a question. What do (YOU) want to do with your life and who are you letting into it?
/r/askMRP10/05/24 06:10 PM
2

In most areas, they'll look at the past 5-7 years of income/assets. Your business income and Org structure isn't some magic web the state won't be able to figure out. By but all means , do nothing and roll the dice.
/r/askMRP07/05/24 12:43 AM
5

You need recovery to figure out why you think the way you think. Your choices, habits, hang ups, lack of boundaries, etc.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:47 PM
8

Get a lawyer. Get in shape. Get into therapy and a recovery program. Sidebar.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 06:31 PM
3

No
/r/askMRP03/05/24 09:09 PM
10

She knows this, and is using this against you.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 08:42 PM
3

Was great for me.
/r/askMRP02/04/24 08:41 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askMRP31/03/24 06:56 PM
17

8 years ago, I got her a Pandora bracelet for Xmas with some personalized pendants on it. She said she wanted a ring instead. That's when I realized that she wasn't a happy person. I should have gotten a lawyer then. I'm thankful I'm out of that mess.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 09:22 AM
5

Do you want it to end any other ways, ffs?
/r/askMRP24/03/24 07:47 PM
19

I wish reddit had a laughing emoji. Your problem isn't the hoodie.
/r/askMRP17/03/24 11:13 PM
6

This is a Wendys.
/r/askMRP25/02/24 03:26 AM
9

Are you the girl? The answers to those questions have nothing to do with you or your life's purpose. How's that coming along? Seems like You have very poorly defined and developed boundaries
/r/askMRP19/02/24 11:45 AM
4

Because you're completely codependent and operating from a covert contract.
/r/askMRP17/02/24 10:56 AM
18

C) man child mad at mommy
/r/askMRP17/02/24 12:36 AM
2

Try a Celebrate recovery step program. You need to figure out what your beliefs and thoughts are about yourself. This isn't a magic pill, "do this one simple trick" technique. It's a complete and thorough overhaul of your psyche, but (you) have to do the work. Up to this point, you're looking at a partially finished blueprint no one else can see, and expecting your wife to treat you like she saw Dwayne Johnson for the first time.
/r/askMRP09/01/24 05:03 PM
2

You don't respect yourself. Work on that. STFU until you do.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 11:11 PM
0

No.
/r/askMRP29/12/23 04:29 PM
20

Of course you want to DEER. Go in peace.
/r/askMRP11/12/23 02:59 PM
26

Put your big boy pants on, tell her it's over, and give her three days to pack and leave. Do not explain yourself. Change the locks. For extra protection, record the entire thing.
/r/askMRP11/12/23 01:57 PM
3

Check out Ross Rosenberg's videos on YouTube
/r/askMRP05/10/23 01:42 AM
0

No.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 12:17 AM
0

If that's your thing, go for it.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 06:55 PM
0

Find a local mastermind group.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 03:28 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:44 PM
21

You GAF too much about what people think. Try something like "no more Mr nice guy", and "when I say no I feel guilty". So, sidebar.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 11:19 AM
8

Do you have a hobby? We tend to be more side by side talkers than facing each other talkers.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 12:32 PM
3

Anything short of trying to throat her out before you go to bjj is needy.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 07:14 PM
10

Dude if she's not initiating the rain check, it's not a rain check. Figure out the source of your butt hurt. She can see and smell it from a mile away. Sidebar, lift, OYS.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 04:44 PM
5

Are you marrying your mother? If she funding your life?
/r/askMRP17/07/23 01:06 AM
1

What do you think you should do?
/r/askMRP13/07/23 11:45 PM
2

Don't. You that needy? Are you hungry enough to eat trash?
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:47 AM
8

Your next step is to kick her to the curb and date other women. Acta non verba.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 03:14 PM
28

She's a plate, and you gave her a hundred? My friend, (You're) the plate.
/r/askMRP29/06/23 04:16 PM
5

Then why does the lie matter? Again, details....
/r/askMRP29/06/23 04:15 PM
1

(you) or anyone else can't make anyone feel anything. You're not responsible for her feelings.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 01:07 AM
9

She She She She. What do YOU want absent her?
/r/askMRP25/06/23 06:22 PM
5

Because you're likely codependent. Work on that. You're also dishonest with yourself and your relationship goals.
/r/askMRP28/05/23 09:57 PM
25

WTF does this have to do with you and your marriage and your mission?
/r/askMRP25/05/23 11:36 PM
3

Giggity
/r/askMRP04/04/23 10:22 AM
6

Clothes
/r/askMRP03/04/23 10:50 PM
9

She She She She What do YOU want?
/r/askMRP18/02/23 10:51 PM
1

You know what you need to do, but you feel guilty. Just do it. There's only one way through this, and it doesn't involve peace or simplicity. Won't go away.
/r/askMRP03/02/23 11:24 AM
3

You don't want advice, you want someone to coddle your poor decisions
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:25 PM
2

Punt. This will only get worse over time.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 09:24 PM
4

Correct. OP needs to learn how to enforce boundaries. Tell her you don't date women who aren't punctual. Mean it. Assume punt formation.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 02:03 PM
-4

Salvage is not an option. Get a lawyer Get into therapy Get a plan
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 07:22 PM
6

"I'm all she has here" ... besides the miles of you know what she's taking in. Her hunt for a new sponsor likely started a year ago.
/r/askMRP28/11/22 10:24 PM
4

Do you need advice, or do you need someone to cosign the stupid decision you're about to make?
/r/askMRP28/11/22 10:23 PM
5

Check out Ross Rosenburgs work on codependency
/r/askMRP27/11/22 01:37 PM
10

You're likely showing codependent signs. You're seeking external validation, thus the need to word vomit everywhere and not shutting the eff up. When you're your own mental point of origin, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Make peace with the man in the mirror.
/r/askMRP26/11/22 03:12 PM
5

Does this apply to your life in any capacity?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/22 08:17 PM
1

No.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/22 08:17 PM
9

Lawyer.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 04:41 PM
21

That's the gravitational pull to keep you in orbit.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:02 PM
2

Leave her the Eff alone. You already know that. What you're really looking for is someone to approve of you going to bang her again.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 02:46 PM
2

Give her the ol two piece!
/r/askMRP03/11/22 09:47 AM
5

Right. Seems like OP wants something else besides the truth.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 05:02 PM
3

Why is she a long term GF? Can't really add anything that hasn't been said already. I recommend a clean break and a mental reset.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 03:45 PM
1

Who gives an Eff what we think. What do you want to do with your life, and how does your STBX fit into that. You say the word, "she" way too much. Start saying "I".
/r/askMRP30/10/22 04:17 PM
3

Punt.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 03:07 AM
2

Agree. For OP he's screwed.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/22 03:46 PM
2

"I don't commit to women who have male friends".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/22 02:10 PM
5

This. All of this. Stop shoving cheetos and hot pockets down your gullet while on your ninth agathor quest today, and get yourself together.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 11:33 AM
18

Here are 10 tips. The best way to get her back is to create a life that you can live without her. There's nothing to do. It's over. Get a DNA test. Stop stalking her. Stop giving her money. Get a lawyer. Get into therapy and a recovery program. Get into a gym. Read the sidebar. Those books will help you through this. Start using "I" statements instead of she and her. Sidebar!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 09:26 AM
1

Correct. Safety = Dexter St. Jock
/r/askMRP06/09/22 11:02 PM
3

She goes limp... "with you". Figure that one out. Sidebar.
/r/askMRP27/08/22 10:18 AM
1

You need to get your s*** together instead of holding a chick at night. Monk mode. Sell all your stuff, live with your parents for a year, get a real career. You have an income problem, not a financial problem.
/r/askMRP24/08/22 01:42 PM
1

Married Man Sex life by Athol Kay. Good read.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 11:09 AM
2

When you're in DC, let me know. #wingman
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/22 10:08 AM
3

Not sure if scammer or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:01 AM
28

Approve. Also a brotha in that demographic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 11:01 AM
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