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SwallowedThePill/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:53 AM
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SwallowedThePill/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:25 AM
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Just don't interact with her directly, don't responds to her stuff in group chat. And remember the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. She will lose her mind when you're indifferent about her. That being said, if it drives you crazy, just leave the group man. Do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:06 AM
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I don't mind paying for drinks when I'm the one inviting them. I do appriciate it if they offer to pay, pay next time or split the bill though. I still pay, but if they don't even offer I next them.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:02 AM
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Good job man
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:14 PM
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I'd like to hang with you and your buddy, this is epic hahaha
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:11 AM
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This is not a redpill failure. You're a failure. You wanted the truth but couldn't handle it. If you actually took the red pill you'd spent that year improving your life, starting with monk mode and lifting. You'd work on your game, keep your social life, place more importance on stuff that brings you happiness. You contradict yourself, calling yourself 'never really beta' but you're beta AF. Don't get me wrong, it's ok to be depressed when you find out you've been lied to your whole life. It's …
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:40 PM
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You know you hold hands (while walking anyway) with girlfriends right? Same as going for dinner. It's just awkward to hold hands for longer periods when you're not a couple so it's pretty normal she would let go. I think you're overthinking it. Escalating is easy, be physical and playful, like kids. Try to (playfully) push her in the bushes or something. Make it fun. Grab her for a quick hug 'because you look cute when you're angry' (she won't be angry) after you tried pushing her. Give her emot…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:33 PM
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Grow a beard if you can, doesn't have to be an epic beard, a shadow works fine.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:35 PM
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Look for '12 levels of dread' and start applying.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:45 AM
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'Savage at not giving a fuck' but still your feelings got hurt on a 2nd date and you need to write a post to rant about it. You need some work in that area, truly not giving a fuck, maybe abundance. It's okay though, most of us have been there at some point.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:59 AM
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As an add-on to this: I have never made a woman pay half the rent, I don't want a paper trail of her paying rent, just in case she wants the house when you next her. I pay the rent, she pays electricity, groceries etc so it evens out. I don't know about the US, but here someone paying rent for 2 years automatically becomes the (2nd) renter, with equal rights concerning the house.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:12 PM
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It could be anything man, too weak, too cocky, anything. Describe what you did, how you acted, what you said, be as specific as possible and we may be able to point some things out.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:20 PM
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Any serious relationship starts out as a sexual one. If she wants more than that she'll tell/ask you after a couple months. "What are we?", "where is this going?", "Are you still seeing other girls?" As long as she doesn't bring it up, it's sex only.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:07 AM
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non typical exciting things Can you specify? Thanks
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:54 AM
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My god, you sound extremely insecure. I have pictures taken by exes, it's just a good picture. If it was a picture with her ex you'd have a point, but really man, breaking up because her ex took the picture?
/r/askTRP04/07/16 07:48 AM
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me too
/r/askTRP03/07/16 12:07 PM
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As long as you don't have a monogamous LTR with her you should be going out with others anyway. Untill that time, she's a plate. And because she's a plate you shouldn't care if she responds or not. Once she starts contact again arrange a 'date'.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:16 PM
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This is true, one girl I'm trying to plate actually asked me why I didn't like her instagram picture, she had like 300 likes on it but was hamstering why I didn't like it. I guess other girls don't ask, but hamster the same way if they're somewhat into you.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:01 PM
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Can you post a convo? It's hard to tell where you're going wrong without any examples.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:51 PM
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I had this back in my beta days, you'll find all kinds of excuses why you didn't escalate, but the only true excuse is you were a pussy. That's why she ghosted you. But you figured that out already, good job. Just see it as your job to keep escalating, it's her job to stop you if she doesn't like it (yet).
/r/askTRP26/05/16 08:36 PM
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What kind of advice do you want? It's your life, if you believe you can make it playing football, go for it! Your mom will probably love you whatever you choose, especially after 'making it'. I don't know where you want to live, and what the football club is paying you, but rent and groceries are kind of expensive here. Also how old are you? I'm in the Netherlands so if you need some specific information let me know.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:37 PM
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Thanks bro, needed to hear this.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:07 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:55 AM
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What have you tried? Be playful, teasing, keep escalating as far as you can. You might get more then a k-close.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:20 AM
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If it's a no go, what are you asking here? You know what to do.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 09:25 PM
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So you have been seeing eachother for 4 months, but haven't had sex yet? Did you kiss or escalate in some other way? Sounds like a bad idea to travel with her, IF you think you're gonna have sex with her. If she's a cool girl, you like to see Italy, and you don't mind her banging other dudes on the trip, then go for it.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 06:31 AM
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I used to be shy, thus boring. It's some kind of fear that the other person(s) judges you. Like the book of pook says, be the 6 year old you, doing and saying whatever you want, teasing and leading girls. IDGAF attitude, but not total jerk. And yes, offend people with your humor. It show's you DGAF, you're keeping it real, remember bitches like 'honesty', this is what they mean, even if your humor offends them. Deep conversations are fine sometime, not all the time. You've got to give her feelzz…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 08:05 PM
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Plain is okay, just make sure the fit is good. Make it plain v-necks, black is always good.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 07:00 PM
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Most has been said already, but for the next time, even if you're uneasy with stuff, act like it's normal and you don't really care, you want her to be as open as possible to find out more stuff. If you act uneasy or disgusted, she's not gonna tell you anything anymore.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:29 AM
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I'm surprised she was still interested after all these months, ignoring her IOI's must have worked in your favor. Next - "Hey I'm cooking dinner thursday, come over and bring wine", escalate, lose virginity.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:15 PM
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I've banged many chicks 'on a break' with their boyfriend. Conveniently the break starts after meeting me, and ends after having sex with me. So yeah, dump her ass.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:22 AM
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What works for me (50-60 hour work weeks) is waking up, getting my amino acids, and hit the gym first thing in the morning. Today I was at the gym at 5.45am, usually around 7am. Rest of the day is work (start at 9), preparing/eating food (prepare in bulk if you can), shower in the morning and evening, and still time left to see my buddies or read or whatever I like.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:17 PM
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You have pics from when it was short?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:37 PM
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None of your fucking business. I understand it's hard to see it happening right in front of you, but your uncle has to figure it out himself.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:08 PM
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Women logic: if it's worth arguing about, I must be right. That's why you don't argue with women. You may win the battle, but you'll lose the war.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:58 AM
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You don't want to be perceived as the cool dude, you want to be the cool dude. Do awesome shit, be social with everyone, have fun, work on yourself. Once you can be happy all alone, work on getting girls. Like user/nice_and_friendly says.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:54 AM
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Fuck 10 other chicks, you have scarcity mentality. And no, clinging to a woman will never work.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:39 AM
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I have one, it's the easiest SMV boost you can get lol. I meet many 17-23 year old girls with my job, and anytime I casually mention I went for a ride panties get wet. Followup is ofcourse "I'm riding again tomorrow evening, wanna join?" if they're 18+. About 90% says yes. But yeah, you need to love having and riding one, don't do it just for the pussy. What I haven't figured out yet is the best way to aproach girls checking you out from the sidewalk while waiting at a traffic light.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:35 AM
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"Tomorrow 8pm your place, I'll make you smile again" Go over, escalate, smash, leave.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 09:08 PM
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With "hey have a good day" you fell into her frame, making her think she 'has' you, hence her ignoring you (test). You're probably still in the anger phase, or you have scarcity mentality, or both, if this pisses you off. Just go over, smash her, and leave.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:32 PM
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Hypergamy, this shit is red pill 101. Ignore or pursue, it's up to you and your moral standard. We don't judge.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:27 PM
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I'm interested in this as well, but I think improv classes are the way to go if it's not natural to you.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 11:11 AM
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If amused mastery doesn't fix this, or she starts saying 'you're not taking me seriously', I just let her vent. She doesn't want you to 'fix' it, she just wants you to listen. Ask her 'how does that make you feel', and 'tell me more', 'go on' etc they love that shit. She can vent her emotions and you didn't do or promise anything, win/win.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 11:09 AM
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Seems like you had a goal, which motivated you. Set new goals, small ones, big ones, and go for them. Also try to find your emotional center, being pissed about shit isn't gonna change anything.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 10:59 AM
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Made me laugh! Stay alive man
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:33 PM
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With plates I hit them up whenever I want to meet up, which means sex. Sometimes they hit me up. LTR 2/3 rule or maybe a little less. For every 3 times she initiates, I do 1 or 2 times.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:35 PM
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Wrong frame dude. She should struggle to keep the conversation going, be comfortable when nothing is being said. You don't have to convince her to like you or fall for you, unless you're not the prize. Be the prize, and she will try to convince you.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:31 PM
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Explain the situation. If it's general beta behavior without any extremes, and suddenly you're acting all alpha, expect shit tests. Many, many shit tests.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:28 PM
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I just summarized what you wrote and asked what made you feel like you deserve respect, but your fragile ego can't handle it. See this You're a virgin but feel you're too good for the girls who want you, you're lazy, you don't lift, you feel bad for yourself, you have a porn problem, you have no mission, you have no game. Change that, it's really not that hard to understand.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:14 PM
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Google 'victim mentality' Why should anyone give you respect? What have you done or are you doing to deserve respect? You're a virgin but feel you're too good for the girls who want you, you're lazy, you don't lift, you feel bad for yourself, you have a porn problem, you have no mission, you have no game. Yeah man, you deserve all the respect /sarcasm
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:27 PM
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I love it, lol. I usually don't suggest it unless the chick is superfreaky and open about it. What I do is I start on top, 69, eat her, and when I 'pause' I lean back and 'accidentally' sit on her face. Always works out if they're into you / horny enough.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:19 PM
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abdada is right. Most important is that your clothing fits right. My casual look is usually a black v-neck with jeans, clean shoes/sneakers and a belt. Semi-casual is the same, except for the vneck I wear a slimfit shirt with the top buttons open. Casual is a suit, girls love it too. Wear it with aviator sunglasses and sharp haircut.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:00 PM
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Salsa.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:37 PM
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skittles
/r/askTRP28/08/15 01:42 PM
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One of my buddies lost his left arm when he was 12 years old, he's 26 now and pulling girls in huge numbers. It's the attitude, self pity is no girls, he doesn't give a fuck and enjoys his life, the girls follow.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:09 PM
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Sam was in her life before you were so you can't expect her to drop him, that's why you don't ltr a chick with guy friends, at least I don't.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 09:49 PM
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Been there just a couple of days, hot latinas everywhere!
/r/askTRP16/04/15 04:03 PM
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Did you see the hormone implant? Always wrap up brother.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:46 PM
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Personally, I'd tell her straight in her face it is no longer working for you. She's probably gonna ask why but don't give her reasons except for "it just isn't working" or something similar.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:43 PM
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Just leave and do something else. When she finally calls/text you where you are, ignore. Your time is (or should be) valuable so why let this 'ltr' disrespect you like this. My girl knows if she has me waiting for more than 5 minutes, I'm gone.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:36 PM
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Haha no I will definitely not wife up the new girl
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:59 PM
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Makes a lot of sense, thanks!
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:58 PM
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Thanks for the warning man, it is/was tempting for sure.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:57 PM
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Thanks for this extended reply, I agree I haven't fully digested the pill yet but your words confirm my thoughts and I thank you for that. I keep the new girl as a plate, and probably the old girl as well. The old girl never agreed to the break-up by the way.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 10:56 PM
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