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Personally, I'm a bookworm, poet and aspiring novelist. I LOVE a poetically described sex scene, especially if there's a broader context other than just the sex itself. It has to be passionate, it has to have character development leading to the attraction between the characters, it has to focus on describing emotions, sensations, it has to describe the character's bodies in a way that isn't objectifying, feel affirmative and lovely, and not have power dynamics (maid vs employer, age gap and shi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:53 PM
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Totally. A guys says "she wasn't fulfilling my sexual needs" and I hear "she didn't enjoy having painful anal sex every week, swallowing cum and being degraded in bed, but I was definitely having orgasms and pushing her boundaries as much as I could to get what I wanted" Mfs are so transparent, I can see through them from miles away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:11 AM
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Honestly surprised by seeing the amount of downvotes on comments defending him, and the amount of upvotes defending the woman's rights to have her boundaries. Not at all what I would expect, and this restored my faith in humanity a little bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:06 AM
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I think op said third world war meaning WW3, not using third world to mean developing country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:04 PM
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When the traffic lights are yellow, it means that at any second it's gonna turn red. A "yellow/orange" flag is inevitably a red flag in disguise, that seems more tame just because you haven't given it enough time. Stick around and you'll see it turning blood red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:22 AM
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Those are red flags to me personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:19 AM
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Oh god there's nothing I hate more than men interpreting women's desire for other women as symmetrical to men's heterosexual desire. It makes me fucking furious, they think sapphic women are like "one of the boys" and that we have the same sick power fantasies they have. Doesn't help that there are some pick mes like the one in the screenshot, that will actually compliment them on behaving and treating us like this. I had a work colleague who I befriended years ago, and he knew I had a girlfrien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:19 AM
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I noticed the exact same thing, thanks for pointing it out. English is not my first language and I basically learned it online, so I used to see many people (men, usually) calling women "females" on the internet, and I thought that was normal use of the English language... Then I learned that this is how red pillers call us. It sounds very odd to me now, seeing women use this term to refer to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:36 PM
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"I felt so embarrassed" 😭😭😭😭 ohh poor you! Of course, when embarrassing things happen you post them on TikTok for the whole world to see! What a couple of scumbags these two, of course they're sleeping together. From one of the screenshots it seems that the guy is dating her COUSIN, and as expected, the cousin got mad and the pickmeisha in the video still had the audacity to blame the guy who stood her up, which is fucked up of course, but he didn't force you to steal someone else's VD. The disr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:59 PM
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Pick me is not just a FDS term, I believe it was black women on Twitter that coined the term. It's almost interchangeable with "NLOG". Here in FDS it's more dense than that, since we have terms like "pick me culture" and stuff. That said, even my 14 year old niece who doesn't speak English but is always on TikTok used the term "pick me girl" out of the blue a few days ago. I almost died laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:39 PM
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They released "hot girls wanted" which was very critical of the industry, and therefore it was considered very "controversial" Naturally, some time later released "hot girls wanted: turned on", to try and redeem themselves around the porn industry, by exploring the topic through a sex posi lens. I won't be surprised if this documentary becomes successful, and some time from now they release another documentary challenging this one. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:10 PM
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Awesome! I wouldn't expect any less. Btw, happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:20 AM
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His reason for not having her over was so weak, like... You have to drive 30 min to pick her up and 30 min to your house? Wooooow poor you. Men really think they can get away with anything these days. Obviously he was married and this was an excuse. But there are men who won't drive 5 minutes to see you, let alone drive you around. My bf used to BIKE on a single speed bike for about 15km to see me, literally crossing the town, and 15km to go back to his house, just so we could see each other and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:23 PM
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ErIkA LuSt LMAOOOOO dis you? Someone so controversial that even JEZEBEL, epithome of the libfem, criticized her """work ethics""" aka pimping and exploiting people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:11 PM
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Wow... What a piece of shit. Claims she's bad at coding but she somehow passed all the company's test and hiring process, so I bet her skills are not even near as bad as he's trying to make it look like. Bold of him to assume her skills are the same as it was when he did a single project with her years ago. Also, he seems bitter that his bro didn't get hired and is trying to sabotage the other candidates. Bros before h03s, amirite? And the worst thing ever, is that he used to subscribe to her co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:13 PM
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Absolutely. Horse girls make scrotes go brrrrr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:15 AM
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I remember a post here a couple of months ago, about how "horse girl is a feminist issue". There's the stereotype that "horse girls" are crazy going on among men, and the post was generally talking about how riding horses and dealing with them teaches women and girls to have boundaries, to be confident and assertive. And also because it demands time, so a "horse girl" will never be easy to tame and become a typical tradwife, devoting all her time to children and the manchild hubby It's honestly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:09 PM
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Hahahahaha queen shit!!!! That's such a perfect story, I bet this guy thinks about it to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure this is a joke and it's fucking hilarious nonetheless, and also very true, men are so fragile they won't tolerate a lighthearted joke or "banter", as they like to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:04 AM
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You just said it all, and said it beautifully. However, I think that even if they wanted to have this kind of sexual connection with a woman, their Madonna/Whore complex wouldn't allow them. They wouldn't be able to truly shut down that voice that objectifies the women in front of them, that places women in one or another category, and defines the way they are supposed to interact with this body in front of them. So it's not something they're denying themselves, it's something they just can't ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:57 PM
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Scrotes: making pussy drier than the Sahara desert since the dawn of time. Lol, I think the "come for me babe" is even worse, because it puts so much pressure, it's so distracting and they act like our orgasm is FOR THEM, for their pleasure. Ughhhh so out of touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:09 PM
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Dirty talk in the sense you describe is absolute NAY. No women should be treated like that and called that, let alone in the bedroom. But, as expected, liberal feminism psyop has brainwashed women into thinking that this is what desire sounds like. It's fucking gross, I'll never allow anyone to call me any of those names ever again. Now... "Dirty" sensual talk is a must for me. I can't just have quiet sex, I love it when my partners are vocal. Words of affirmation is one of my main love language…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:19 AM
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Oh god "laziest dirty talk from the last porn he watched", absolutely yes! Guys think this is so creative and arousing 🙄🙄🙄 the worst thing is "cum for me babe" when you're far from cumming lmaoooo just shows how out of touch they are. I love a guy that is vocal during sex, but there are so many better things to hear and say, that would really get a woman going, and these porn addicted scrotes will never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:56 PM
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If she wanted to have a baby, why not get a donor or adopt? Why have a baby with a NVM boyfriend and make the child suffer by having such an awful dad. She has enough money and could choose any donor in the world. There's no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:44 PM
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"the close I might get to being in a relationship with one" I sincerely hope the fuck not. Die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:48 PM
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Omg, same! My friend who recommended me fds and is always talking to me about it and even sending screenshots and links, has never sent me her handle and I never sent mine. Imagine giving your handle to a man... My IRL friend who recommended me FDS could be you and I wouldn't know LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:20 PM
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Found said tweet LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:24 AM
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Have you never heard of a community dildo? It's the latest trend here in Paris, every public restroom has one. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:06 AM
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If I could delete it, I would haha I really felt like washing my brain with bleach 😬😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:40 PM
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Definitely hahahaha wow, it would make me feel so special if a guy I was dating offered me half-empty contraceptive that wasn't even prescribed to me 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 /s I saw one guy on Twitter posting a drawer full of this kind of shit, like used toothbrushes and hairbrushes, panties and even a dildo, bragging about how nice of a guy he was, looking after his "female guests". Like bro.... That's obviously stuff that your fwbs left behind and you put together in a drawers and now act like a white knight. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:34 PM
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So true, you're right. Plan B also doesn't require prescription, right? So it would make sense he'd have access to that. In fact, I also believe any couple with potential for reproduction that don't want to have kids should have at least one in storage, in case some accident occurs with regular contraception, like a broken condom or if the woman skips the pill by mistake. Why would he lie about the long term contraception tho... 🤦‍♀️ Men are weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:30 PM
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If he hadn't lied about the contraceptive pills, I would think nothing of it. My dad has three daughters and he has always kept pads (not tampons) and medication for cramps around, for when we visit and might need them, especially since my older sister has very intense menstrual pain, to the point of passing out sometimes. To me that is completely normal for a man that has daughters. But birth control? That's a crappy lie that doesn't even make sense. Edit: only now I saw the other screenshots a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:24 PM
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LONG RANT WARNING ⚠️ I was a huge Manson fan growing up. I started listening to his music around 10 years old, and I was fascinated by him. I owned his records and merch, which I would beg my parents to buy me as birthday presents. I looked up to him so much and his music kick-started my interest in learning english as a second language. I became a fan when he was still in a relationship with Dita von Teese, and she was perfect to me. I also looked up to her and idealized their relationship. She…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:15 AM
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Unfortunately, I think rescue missions are only successful with pickmes that are really, really hurt and tired. Pickmes are pickmes because they make excuses for men's behaviours and even blame themselves for their abuse. Once they see for themselves how terrible men have treated them, and realize how tired they are of being mistreated, is when they will listen to us and give FDS a shot. Trying to remove a pickme's rose tinted glasses by force or before she's ready never works. It's a shame that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:17 PM
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Yeah, they think the male gaze is the be all and end all of attractiveness. They fail to realize that women have a different taste for what is attractive, which is much more specific and detailed, and then think we're lying when we say we find someone attractive that is not attractive to the male gaze. They think Alba Flores is ugly for example, but sapphic women (me included) are absolutely crazy about her and her strong features. I'd rather have a date with her than with Megan Fox or any other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:30 PM
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Men say stuff like this, but when they see women complimenting other women that they don't find attractive, they always go "oh wow you girls are so shallow and fake, you're lying to this woman's face, how dare you??". 🤡 And even if both women are conventionally attractive, they'll think it's not genuine, that women are being fake, sarcastic, etc. Who wants to compliment someone that can't take a compliment and only sees the bad in everything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:45 PM
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He deserved it, I don't feel sorry at all. I feel schadenfreude. Guys really think it's okay to be community dick. It's really unattractive, and women ARE GONNA TALK ABOUT IT, whether scrotes like it or not. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:50 AM
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I tried this app in 2020, and the AI really is super sweet, I imagine it's even better now. I remember saying something that accidentally sounded rude and she was the one who apologized profusely. It made me feel so bad, and men have the nerve to do that on purpose. What is odd tho, is how this AI is programmed to accept the abuse and apologize when you abuse her. In my country, on of the biggest banks created a female AI to help customers (she didn't even have an avatar or voice, just a female …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:12 PM
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Oh yeah, I don't actually mind, it's just really funny how men are so sensitive about it on the internet. Idk if it's about my country or if men are only crazy like this online, but unless a guy is literally shorter than 1,70m (5' 7'' I guess) no one minds, no one says anything, and most short guys I know are just regular dudes. 🤷‍♂️ I'm not used to seeing people flip their shit about stuff like this, but it's fricking hilarious. Edit: Grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:18 PM
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I'm getting so many down votes in this comment LOL, even though I said I don't mind if men aren't tall. And I said I would just ask, which is enough for them to lose their minds. I saw a notification of one saying I'm making people feel insecure and that won't get me dates lmao, if a simple question makes you insecure I want nothing from you. Apparently it's a CRIME to even ask about a man's height, but they can nitpick everything about our appearances. Omfg get over yourselves, scrotes. Now I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 11:41 AM
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Nem me fale amiga. Everyday I wake up Brazilian. R slash iwantout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:59 AM
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I don't even care that much about a man's height, but whenever I go back to dating I'll make SURE to ask them about their height, just to vet and watch the shit show of scrotes almost shitting their pants in anger. It's so funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:37 PM
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He wants to triangulate her against the new gf, otherwise he wouldn't care about CoMmUnIcAtInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:04 PM
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Unfortunately yes, sis hahahahah Lave o pinto, como esquecer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:58 PM
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Yes, I have a few male friends, most of them are in stable long term relationships and have never hinted at anything other than platonic towards me. Of course, having too many female friends is VERY odd and huge red flag, but it really gives me the ick when a guy doesn't have one single female friend, I just can't trust them. To me, it's obvious that he only values women for sex. Of course I need to vet the friend too and see if it's really just a friend, I'm not blind. Also guys who claimed tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:06 PM
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LMAOOOO, he can stay lonely with his smegma, I'm ROLLING. In my country being circumsized is very uncommon, they only do it for medical or religious reasons, and I KID YOU NOT when I say that the government in one of the states literally launched a public campaign called "Wash your cock" (literal translation), because too many men were getting penis cancer from being filthy and not washing properly. Ewwwww. I was lucky tho, never had any unpleasant surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:37 PM
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OMG yes. So many men obsessed with 90s and 00s bands from their childhood/adolescence that are not even active anymore. Ick, ick, ick. I also hate when men only listen to one music genre, especially if it's the the "rock" spectrum, like prog rock (the worst condescending douches imo). They'll bitch and moan about anything you want to listen to that is not what they like. And they'll extend this to movies, TV shows, games, etc as well, and criticize everything you like as "schewpid". My dad is li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:32 PM
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If he doesn't have female platonic friends, it's icky flag to me. Same way as OP said about not enjoying art made by women, if he doesn't enjoy women's company as it is, without it being sexual, it's a dealbreaker. Edit: OMG, guys that always have their butt crack or underwear showing, from poorly fitted clothes or being too overweight. GROSSSSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:23 PM
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People only overreact because you lie, buddy. In real life, no one cares that a man is 46 years old. It's the natural course of live... You're born with zero years of age and as each year passes you get a year older, and eventually (hopefully) reaches, and even goes past 46! It's normal, sweetie, everyone knows that, there's no need to be ashamed... Now go play with your toys and be nice, I'm watching you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:11 AM
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When he was all "oh you should teach me sometime" I instantly saw a red flag. Any guy that asks a woman to "teach" him something in the context of dating is very likely to be porn sick, with a "hot teacher" fantasy. Men don't usually like to be seen as less. Less intelligent, skilled, whatever, and men never ask women for help because it's emasculating. I don't trust men that are too eager to ask to be "taught" something by a woman. Of course it's just a plot to meet up, but in these scrotes min…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:56 AM
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What a powerful post. I'm very proud of you for beating your addiction, and for sticking to sobriety. This is very insightful, thanks for sharing. I don't have personal experience with AA, but my older sister used to attend. I always felt like she was constantly miserable and felt a lot of shame, but I used to think the shame was linked to her addiction itself. Her shame, though, was most likely linked to AA's toxic environment, and it only clicked when I watched a video on Youtube, on the chann…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:27 PM
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I came here to comment the exact same thing. "Nightmare" was the exact word that came to my mind. I hope she leaves him and by the looks of it, he won't even care. Too bad she'll always be bonded to him by having this child together, and it's likely this bum ass deadbeat dad will try to "reconnect" with the kid as soon as they grow just enough to miss him. And then the kid will resent the mom from keeping them apart, because the scrote will put on his best effort to appear like a fun, cool, laid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:02 AM
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"A wet dream! About his own wife" Wow, SHOCKING!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:26 PM
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As if all women in this sub are straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:12 PM
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My friend has a long history of excessive jealousness from all of her partners, and many of these relationships ended because of her controlling behaviour, which is why she decided to seek therapy. I think it's my friend's pathologic jealousy acting up again, because her girlfriend never gave the slightest reason for her to be jealous. But anyway, she was with this therapy for a long time, over a year doing weekly sessions, so you'd think the therapist would have figured out by now how delusiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:12 PM
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Well, according to my friend, shit started going down like this when the therapist got pregnant LMAO I thought it was funny that she said this, but obviously someone's hormones wouldn't make them suddenly incompetent at their job. I think my friend just didn't see the red flags earlier. Anyways, therapists need to be vetted too, we can't trust all of them just because they have a degree on the wall. Hope we all find a great one that helps us level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:36 AM
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I've heard cognitively behavioural therapy (CBT) is very focused on that, recognizing patterns of thoughts and behaviours and working on making better choices. So, very feedback based. I would be careful with that too, though. A friend of mine was talking about a recent experience with a therapist that had a CBT approach but she was also very "holistic" and "spiritual". I myself am very spiritual, practice tarot, astrology and stuff, but I don't think this had a place in conventional therapy. Ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:26 AM
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Oh god, YES! Were they Freudian psychoanalysts? I have always hated everything about psychoanalysis, these smug Freudians just blinking and jotting things downs and never exchanging a single word with you. And they're the ones who charge the most, indeed. It might take YEARS for you to have a breakthrough on a psychoanalyst's echo chamber. Completely useless and a waste of time. Psychoanalysis can just explode, it's fucking bullshit. Let's not forget that Woody Fucking Allen has been doing psych…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:18 AM
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What a great therapist! I'm glad you found someone like this, and that the focus is "why you feel the need to water down the discomfort" instead of "why you're so sensitive". You two are goddamn right, a flag is either red or green, just like men are either high value or low value, there's nothing in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:54 AM
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Imagine marrying a literal human raisin. What has patriarchy done to women 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:50 PM
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Thank you sis, your words are very healing for my inner child. If it serves for something, at least I learned to be extremely skeptical of any man in positions of power, people will go out of their way to make excuses for these guys' gross behaviour, it's exactly like you said. Too bad I learned the hard way, but I did. I'm so sorry about what happened in your highschool, can't even imagine the extent of damage these men did. Something very similar also happened in my highschool, with two creepy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:25 PM
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Oh god, this brought me so many memories. I'm so sorry you went through all of this... My storytime: I was preyed on by a professor of mine for several years during college. I started college aged 17, and one of the first classes right in the second semester was with this dude. He took a "liking" for me, for some reason. He was obsessed with me. He would pick on me, in a class of over 45 students, and would jokingly flirt with me during class, in the middle of a lecture with everyone else presen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:58 PM
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The bar is in hell and the LVM professor still limbo dances under it. Goes to show that no matter how educated a man is, it doesn't make him high value by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:27 PM
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He's obviously cheating on his wife with the student. I'd bet an arm and a leg on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:23 PM
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Omg the last one is my favorite too. What a life hack! My sister was in dispute for child support from her deadbeat ex, and he thought that claiming to be unemployed was enough to get away with not paying and supporting his daughter. He literally tried to claim he was bankrupt, even though he had half a million dollars on real estate, in another state. Then, after my sis won the case and he was force to pay child support, he brought her to court again to full claim custody of their daughter. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:43 PM
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Ohh how the turn tables. He thought she was going to be broke forever, and homegirl out here is just 32, free of debt, making 175/hour, buying her brand new Audi in cash. This is too funny, you cannot make this shit up. Good on her that she found it all out. If she was able to level up this much while living with a scrote, I can't imagine what she'll do on her own, once she gets the divorce. What a queen, I'm so excited for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:31 AM
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I believe the article is referring to strangulation on the context of domestic violence, but I can't dismiss the link between "choking", in the context of BDSM or "rough sex", and how mainstream it has become. The most softcore pornography nowadays will feature it, and it's being pushed to more and more people as normal and expected. It's so fucked up that literal strangulation has become so mainstream that expecting to just have my neck gently held and caressed, because it's very sensitive is "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:04 PM
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Absolutely. It's also very funny how LVM are completely REPELLED by women who have their shit together. They know we know what is good behaviour, and how we deserve to be treated. They know the previous men set the bar too high for their scumbag selves, so the minute you say you were treated like a queen by men in your life, the abandon ship. NVM are different, tho. They see it as a challenge to be the first shit male in your life and scar you forever. They take extreme pleasure by being "the fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:53 PM
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When I was a kid, my aunt would take me to her beach house on summer break, and before we went into the ocean she would always ask me if I was on my period, and say that I should never swim in the ocean during my period because it could attract sharks LOL So, don't go swimming with men on your period I guess 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:47 PM
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That certainly will expose NVM/LVM, but that's too dangerous, I'm not sure it's a suggestion of a strategy from your part, but just to chime in, in case someone else is reading; I wouldn't do that. I think it's best to say you've always been treated like a queen by every man in your life, including your dad, even if you have to lie about it. Otherwise, this just gives them too much leverage to use against you down the line. A NVM might just expose himself right then and there, but a smarter, sne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:13 AM
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Great post! Very detailed. I love these tactics to expose NVM and LVM, like the blood in the water test. I'd love to see more stories like these from other women, and how men reacted to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:02 AM
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Really? I always felt that this song was heavily loaded with a lot of painful stuff, obviously but I wouldn't imagine the recording was like that. But I'm not surprised at all that people would turn this into a sexy little song to strip to. Anything that is violent and sex related is pornified. That's what porn is, in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:57 PM
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She said "no Homer Simpson sperm" and the guys throwing themselves are definitely that. Also, GIRL NO, ew. Just go to the sperm bank, no matter how much it costs, that sperm is at least tested in infinite ways and no future legal implications for you. All in all, I think the tinder profile is trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:40 PM
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I would totally share it, but it's only on my Spotify and my last.fm so I don't want to doxx myself lol Also, I think it's too personalized and curated especially for my own specific "sexual landscape". Like, I even put Nina Simone's "I put a spell on you" on there, and not everyone would find this song sexy, although it does play on fifty shades of grey 💀 Another one that I enjoy is "Ride with You" by The White Lamp. It's a long deep house song, but it has that tune that makes you want to move …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:09 PM
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Absolutely. I remember listening it for the first time and thinking "wow, nothing makes a woman as wet as 'help me get away from myself' and 'my whole existence is flawed', that's premium content dirty talk" 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:00 PM
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Me too, I only use music when I want to disguise any sounds lol 💀 but even then I don't use the "sex playlist", to not be so obvious. 😆 Dancing is an excellent form of foreplay, there's something really special about being taken on a slow dance, that slowly and passionately escalates to something else. Foreplay begins WAY before touching, and most men are so unaware of that. LVM complain that foreplay "takes too long", they can just fuck their hands instead and never get to experience what "love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:23 PM
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Another thing that I think is worth mentioning: English is not even my first language, and a few of these encounters were with men that don't speak English, but all of them thought the NIN song was "sexy". That's because of porn culture. All of them know what "fuck like an animal" means, because they've heard that in porn. 🤡 I even read online about many women reporting that their partners "moaned in English" ffs. Two native speakers of the same non-english language, and the guy wanted to "fuck …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:18 PM
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Thank you! Yeah, when I was creating my playlist I was looking at other sex-themed playlists and I was shocked by some of the songs, obviously all written by men and from a male perspective, very pornified and male gazey. Nothing wrong with sexy songs written by men imo, sometimes it can even be more enticing, but the way he narrates and portrays it is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:11 PM
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Me too!! Literally only one guy was ever bothered by this, and he was a virgin porn sick guy, who spent all his free time drawing cars and anime girls in boobs and butt pose. Needless to say after we finally did it, I never contacted him again. (I was 17, don't judge)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:56 PM
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Most of my male sexual partners were exactly like this too, but the boyfriend I lost my virginity with went down on me before anything else, because I asked him to. And after 3 seconds of cunnilingus, he said "oh, you need to shave", and fully stopped. But I was really trimmed and shaved on the sides and lips, like, very properly groomed. He was so, so terrible at sex that it lasted like 3 minutes and no one came. I never saw him again, and he had asked me to be his girlfriend weeks before. LOL.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:51 PM
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8 years and still "girlfriend". That alone says it all. He has never intended to commit her, he's been wasting her time all along. He claims that only now he became bored and started considering dating someone else, but the truth is that this was always his intention, otherwise she wouldn't be a forever girlfriend. And yet, no one """better""" has ever showed interest in him during those 8 years, and it's definitely not because of his gf. He is probably one of those delusional guys that think "m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:01 PM
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True, true. Like the guy OP mentioned chasing. He was definitely not a HVM because: 1st: A HVM would respectfully cut off any contact with a woman that is chasing him and he's not interest in, especially if the reason for being uninterested is a perceived lack of self respect from the woman in question. 2nd: if a HVM is really interested in a woman, they won't be put off by her slight insecurities, they will try to reassure them as well as possible, considering the insecurity is no overwhelming …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:02 PM
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Yes, they're not "unicorns", they're men, they're real. But they are indeed rare. Not a mythical creature, more like an endangered species like pandas. I know that many women have complained about how FDS quickly becomes negatives with all the scrotation reportation, but that's the reality of our world and our culture. If HVM were abundantly hanging from trees, we wouldn't need a strategy to navigate the ocean of shit that is the dating scene. I don't mean to discourage anyone, I agree that HVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:15 AM
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Omg I hate this "you haven't tried mine" bullshit. Just like when I used to date exclusively women, and creepy men would say "you haven't tried mine". FUCK NO. I will never enjoy olives, spicy food, or your crusty penis. Get over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:50 PM
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What a cute, funny and not at all insensitive joke! 🥰 He was offended on behalf of his short brothers, of course. The brotherhood is strong, they got each other's backs, we women could learn a thing or two from them. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:35 AM
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I'm really confused. Did he think that was funny? What was he expecting to accomplish with that? Any possible answer won't be a good enough answer. What a prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:54 AM
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"Have you had omicron yet?" What the fuck???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:39 AM
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Awesome!!!! OP, thank you so much for doing this and reaching out to her. Queen, if you're reading this, know that you're safe here, and you'll find many resources to heal, and other women willing to lift you up higher than any scrote ever could. I know it's hard, we all know how much it hurts. But it was worth it, you'll come out stronger, and in this strength you'll find everything you need. You'll never regret this decision, and it only gets better from here on. Welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:55 PM
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That's true, most conspiracies come from the internet, but some conspiracy freaks will become extremist and turn into preppers, build a bunker and try to live off the grid. It would be a shot in the dark to end up dating a guy like this, but not completely unrealistic. I remember watching an episode of doomsday preppers where a guy took a woman on a dinner date, and then took her to his "bunker" that was just an abandoned rocket launching facility or something. He even wanted her to drink the gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:11 PM
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No, he wasn't. The poly guy was my friend's "boyfriend", who consented to be her boyfriend and a week later was caught cheating, and then told her he was non monogamous and polyamorous, and only consented to be her boyfriend so she wouldn't leave. 🤡 This 32 year old was actually very prudish and slut shamed everyone, and was proud to say he had slept with less than 5 people his whole life, and that he used to be gay (?????) Idk, this guy had MAJOR issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:58 PM
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I have seen many losers who claimed to stay away from social media. Most of them have other types of addiction problems. So true. I've seen countless men that are "not on social media" and love to brag about that as if it makes them special, but at the same time they spend hours upon hours playing call of duty or watching redpillers on Youtube. LOL There are so many kinds of social media quitters, we can't lump them all together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:59 AM
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Hahaha oh sis, I can relate to A LOT of what you said. I'm a white latina, so I still have some passability as something these scrotes would still consider human, but the shift when they realize I'm not their "equal" is really tragicomical. They can be in the middle of a full blown philosophical discussion or whatever, but when I mention or they realize I'm a foreigner, and especially from latin america, the conversation either turns sexual instantly, as if their monkey brain can't handle it and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:48 AM
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I disagree and agree at the same time. I myself only have reddit (which is anonymous) and Facebook, although I only use Facebook for the groups and marketplace, so I never post or comment on anything at all. I do this because I don't want to expose myself and my life, and make people believe they have access to me, because I've had and am currently having a problem with stalkers. It's also better for my mental clarity. However, if a man doesn't have social media, he better have a good reason for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:14 AM
57

Ah, yes. The average redditor that spends most of his free time arguing online with strangers, and then complains on the same website about his "dead bedroom", and how things turned sour "out of nowhere". Completely oblivious to his own reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:58 AM
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Oh, they're definitely lying. And skipping their skin care routine. 💀 Thank god I found FDS, I used to think this was normal, after growing up bombarded by Hollywood images of what a straight couple looked like, not only with a huge age gap, but also a clear difference in grooming standards, so the woman always looks even younger and it exacerbates the age gap. And people still claim men age well. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:48 AM
22

What a psycho! The excuse of wanting to have kids is so bogus. So, only women's fertility is important, and he wouldn't feel any guilty by baby trapping a woman with his rancid old sperm?? Liar, he just wants to break women's boundaries. Fuck this guy, I hope he never gets to have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:40 AM
11

Hahaha I had to look up the reference and yessss I love this movie. I was super proud of myself for that, even the scrote was really impressed. Too bad he's probably gonna be extra careful with that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:35 AM
16

The fuck???? That's straight out CREEPY. Why would he lie about that? Someone would argue that living closer is a benefit, so why lie? LMAOO. Was he a stalker or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:25 AM
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Idk your age, but I'd bet it's that, combined with the fact that most men are aging like cheese left under the sun these days. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:22 AM
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That's the cruelest form of future faking. The carrot these guys dangle of a better and more comfortable life is way worse than the typical carrot, which is filled with absurd promises of a fairy-tale like romance. We are quicker to sniff the bullshit when the promises are too grand, but general kindness is easier to fly under the radar. Being from a third world country, I get this a lot too. Even a NVM from my country has promised to "take me in and take care of me" years ago, like I was some s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:19 AM
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True!!! Being trapped with a lying LVM means we're being kept from being with someone we truly want and deserve. That's a great point, and that's exactly what LVM want to happen, so we settle for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:56 PM
106

Hahaha good one. "You wouldn't have given me a chance if you knew I went to jail 🥺😭"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:16 PM
64

Holy shit, I actually just posted here about something really similar that happened to me when I was 19, but in my case the guy claimed to be 27 when he was actually 32. I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I'm so fucking angry that these filthy scrotes can get away with this. The idea of asking for ID is nice. When I started going out with this 32 year old he showed me his ID but I didn't suspect anything so I didn't even check the birth date, I just looked at the photo and signature. 🤡 I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:13 PM
4

This poor woman is so gaslit by pick me culture that she feels bad for breaching his privacy, and that he should have told her it "turns him on" so they could "work something out"... This makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:29 PM
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Everyone said it so well, but I'd just like to point out the part where she goes "I have a huge passion for astronomy (not astrology 🙄)" Like LMFAO I'm not like others girlsssss eewwww who believes in shit like that eyeroll OMG please don't give me shit for it, I know men hate astrology, especially one like yourself, so serious and put together and a businessmen, I'm so grown up LOLOLOLOL OMG PICK ME Girl... I feel bad for her and of course he's 100 times worst, and he's the one who deserves to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:57 PM
11

You don't need to be "trained out" of emasculating behaviour imo. Of course, you should never coddle men and offer to do stuff for them for no reason and before vetting thoroughly, because they have zero respect. But the way a man reacts to what could be "emasculating behaviour" is what will give away his true colors. You shouldn't be policing your own behaviour all the time because that'll keep you busy in your headspace, and it'll distract you from vetting and spotting red flags. Just let your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:16 PM
11

I thought the same thing. And there was definitely the factor of expecting to have "third date sex", or at least making out in the car. He might have parked in a dark sketchy area to have more "privacy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:50 AM
12

Omg hahahaha this is hilarious. Nothing is as charming as curry-induced explosive diarrhea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:17 AM
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Girrrrll what? That's a LITERAL TODDLER. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:12 AM
22

It's perfect, I was waiting for you to release more icons and really hoping there would be one that looked like me and ta-daaaa you nailed it! I want to say that I'm loving your art, it's so delicate and adorable and it has a nostalgic feel to me, like the illustrated fairytale books I used to read as a kid. Looking forward to seeing more of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:49 PM
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Omgggg so adorable, the last one looks just like me 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:09 PM
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No fucking way. I would never change my last name. It's not really that common in my country anymore, usually people keep their maiden names or hyphenate it. And it not even just about the loss of identity and sexism of it all. I can't imagine the stress of having to change all of my documents, registries, validating my degrees and all of that. And also, always having to carry a marriage certificate to prove you are who you say you are... Coming from aa EXTREMELY bureaucratic country, few things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:15 AM
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You're absolutely right. I trust animals 100% especially our pets. They know when someone is sketchy or just downright evil. Little bit of storytime to make my point, I recall watching the Brazilian version of Netflix's Love is Blind, and there was one couple where the guy was absolute shit man-bun NVM, and the woman had a cute but anxious rescue dog, and she even warned him that he might be aggressive with strangers. The guy was convinced that the dog was gonna love him. When the guy met the do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:30 AM
14

It's true that men age like wine. They become vinegar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:47 PM
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I don't speak french, but just by taking a quick look I can tell that there are too me "Je"s in this letter. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:21 PM
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I'm wondering about the parking lot situation. He insisted on her parking in the overflow lot which was "just a 2 minute walk away". Bullshit. If the overflow lot is 2 minutes away, then the actual parking lot is ridiculously small, and she wouldn't even be able to "circle around" in it waiting for a spot. Doesn't make sense. Men's sense of space is whack. Whenever a guy says something is 5 minutes away, I immediately consider 15-20 minutes away. Also, she was likely wearing high heels, so she s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:35 PM
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Queens, the episode is not available on YouTube yet. I usually listen to it on YouTube while I work, because it's the only platform I can use on the company's PC. I'm dying to listen to it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:10 PM
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I got my flair yesterday!! Woohoo, thanks mods! (It's funny that the night before I got my flair, I had dream where I had gotten my flair. And a few hours after I woke up - ta-da! And I wasn't even posting that often. Mad psychic abilities right here.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:08 PM
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I'm disappointed but not surprised. The first time I heard about south Korean feminist movement was around 2018, with the rise of the escape the corset movement. I learned that most of the rethoric of their movement is aligned with radical feminism. Here in the west, however, we have the palatable libfem, sex pozy ""feminism"", where so called feminists bamboozle themselves into performing femininity in all levels and claim it to be empowering. On the other hand, it seems like the mainstream fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:24 PM
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Wow, this girl really wants to live life on hard mode, huh? Having kids with guy whose sperm is likely rotten at this point, and so old he already has his foot on the grave, so he won't be around to raise them... Imagine you being 10 years old, just learning about the world and then realizing your dad is 71 years old and won't live much longer. Being 15 and having you dad die on you due to old age? That is, considering the child won't be born all messed up. Let's never forget Chris Chan is the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:48 PM
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Girl, I'm so happy for you! Let's all speed together full throttle towards queendom. Don't even worry about analysing his behaviour anymore. He's past and just an asshole now, no need to dwell. The lessons were learned, and they were: trust your intuition and put yourself first ALWAYS. Strategize, rebuild boundaries and standards, and strenghten your sense of self worth so you can do what's right for you when the time comes to start dating again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:28 PM
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The amount of dude bros defending this creep is so telling, smh. Like, at least pretend I'm cackling at you girls saying he looks like a leather sofa, so true lmao. Someone should do a TikTok trend of "I think this guy looks just like this thing" and a pictures of him and a leather couch or leather car shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:16 PM
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I agree, women do hate, internalize and hide it. But the thing is, even if they don't hide their hatred, and the men notice, they don't care. It's cultural that your wife should hate you and "nag all the time", so even when they can tell that she hates them, they stay married, taking advantage of all the benefits of having a mommy bangmaid. Another classical case of "they know, they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:50 PM
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Handbook material right here. So detailed and thorough, I love this! It's scary what LVM will do in order to get us to sleep with them. I'm so proud of you for snapping out of it. I unfortunately think I'm too much of a pickmeisha still and would end up falling for this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:55 PM
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I'm cackling at the part about the protein shake line. Hahaha it seems like some fanfic I would read on Wattpad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:09 AM
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I was talking to my friend who introduced me to FDS, and we were both talking about the hard work that the mods put in this sub, and how that's what makes it a safe space. I hope I can get my flair someday but, honestly, merely having access to all the great content and the Handbook is already a godsend. And it's all free!!! Can you believe that? Tons and tons of quality life saving and entertaining content for free? I don't mean to kiss ass or anything, but in the end, it's the flairs and the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:42 AM
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Spot on. I was watching one of those crappy Netflix dating shows (Love is Blind, the Brazilian version), and of course this show is basically love bombing 101 for guys, and red flag overlooking 101 for women, where people are expected to get engaged with someone they've never seen, just by speaking to them. I could never. Anyways, there was this one dude in particular that stood out, Shayan. He is an Iranian "entrepeneur", and the first thing the women noticed in the pods was his foreign accent.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:20 PM
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Thank god it's back!! I was going insane refreshing the sub 10 times a day. Besides the improvements and new rules, another great consequence of this "disappearance" is that it made me quit the lurking and finally join the sub officialy. I'm really excited for the flirting tips and cute stories (not sure about what this will be about, tho).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:33 PM
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