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We are what we do; that is true for everyone.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 02:40 PM
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This is why there is an understood pattern of abusive men (and dom women) seeking out “high strung” or shy/ meek women. Same shit different gender.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 08:04 PM
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He has a decent IQ. He was born in 1944, and told me this when I was a young teen. I’m glad it helps. Just about everything in the media is toxic, weather by accident or by design. I recommend ignoring them, and listening to your own heart, and the voices of kindness you encounter.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 01:03 PM
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My father put it this way. A man can pitch his case, and then stand back and cry about it. No matter what the woman’s choice is. It’s a woman’s choice to even let the man know about it; he should be grateful.
/r/MensRights09/08/20 09:53 PM
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Because there is very little maternity leave in the US, women choose to not work because they have children that must have adult supervision, and it would cost more to put them in daycare then they can earn at a job. It is fair to say that the whole US is more conservative then Norway because of top-down policy.
/r/MensRights30/08/15 05:45 PM
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Thank You. I am trying to take it to hart as well...we all forget sometimes.
/r/seduction07/02/15 02:16 AM
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Assumptions, assumptions...thanks, I think? But so you know, your heterosexuality has not been challenged here by me.
/r/seduction07/02/15 01:10 AM
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No, but I do enjoy giving out blessings when I think I can.
/r/seduction07/02/15 01:05 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction07/02/15 01:04 AM
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I remember signing up for this sub years ago, not realizing it was a community centered around how to pick up women. I was just - Seduction, I like things that are seductive, I want to be better able to seduce my SO, sounds cool, sign me up. I very rarely comment here, because I feel the intruder to a private realm, but I also have answers to some of your questions, though they may sound trite, and people have said them here before. You are probably aware that there is no one simple answer to yo…
/r/seduction06/02/15 12:38 AM
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I fast on a semi regular basis. Just a little bit of research will show that water-only fasts are dangerous. Starvation will make a lot of systems in your body freak out. OP sounds like he is killing himself and trying to blame the system, if he has truly been fasting this way for this long.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 08:05 PM
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Depending on the woman, it can look just like chivalry as known to be romanticized, or cartoon-ized, in men. I know it may sound odd, but I've seen chivalrous women, and been one myself. Perhaps this is too poetic, but I mean a certain kind of honorable expression, or preservation in the face of opposition. As I see it, this is often an act and expression of caring in a manner that takes bravery. Perhaps this is a side effect of traditional male traits being socially acceptable territory for wom…
/r/MensRights30/03/13 04:48 AM
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It is my understanding that in many areas business which otherwise do not have public bathrooms are required by law&policy to offer a bathroom to obviously pregnant women.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 04:30 AM
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A bit of a non-sequitore here, but relevant. Women pay about 20% - 40% more for health insurance then same-age men, mostly do to all the testing and potential things that can go wrong with pregnancy. But even if you never have a child, you pay more because you might!
/r/MensRights14/03/13 05:25 AM
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Thank you, I'd found that article and edited my comment before I saw yours, it is a fascinating/horrifying story. I wish these men's names could actually be cleared, reprisal made. Perhaps they could make a civil suit for damages against them and receive some monetary compensation? Sounds like at least one has some P.T.S.D, and all went through a serious ordeal.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 08:07 AM
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You should probably not name her, I believe it's against reddit policy. I do think her name should be published, but formally, with photo, to the same level of exposure/venues as those men. She should probably also be on a sex offender list, though I rather despise them in practice. The sad thing is, I'd bet a day's pay she was abused at some point, and is very much a victim herself at an earlier time. Maybe not, maybe she is just one evil, stupid, bitch. However, reality is not usually that one…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 07:00 AM
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I've lived in big west and east coast cities and small northern towns, ski towns, & beach towns, and I have to say my experience is similar, even a casual - "Hay, I could get to know you better if you would like?" Most guys take weeks to believe me, or just disappear, or never get comfortable in the budding relationship because I initiated it. I've even had youth and reasonably good looks/not crazy/laid back on my side. Sure, I've also had "successful" relationships result from my initiation, bu…
/r/seduction10/03/13 05:00 AM
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I would flat out refuse to take a test that asks for my favorite of anything. I don't play favorites, I love all the colors.
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:46 PM
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I've read a study I find relevant, a "shaken baby" analysis that showed more women report to have done or do it, by far, then men, however, when men shake a baby, the child is much more likely to sustain injury, and for a hospital visit to happen. looking for study to link
/r/MensRights02/11/12 11:55 PM
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I find them..hideously immature. My own ban came from answering a question they asked. There was a post in srs discussion asking how a woman could consider herself an M.R.A. When I answered..they banned me for being a M.R.A claiming to be a woman (which I am) I am horrified that they claim to be a protector of goodness and reason and are illiterate to reasonableness themselves. I think they are a worse blight then r/spacedicks, at least one knows they are stepping into shit gong there, with SRS,…
/r/MensRights15/10/12 07:58 PM
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I'm not sure whether to just say "thanks" or "no big deal." I like to think everyone does what they can where they can. I'm not all that self-less, but I do make a habit of convenient kindnesses. Have not heard from the O.P. but I actually did share my pot-roast with friends and new aquatints today.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 01:48 AM
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Usually I read/scan posts like this and just move on because there is nothing I can offer...However, in your case I can at least buy you a beer or the equivalent...and I might even have a lawyer to recommend. if I don't hear from you I will follow-up in a PM with any information from a friend of mine - she used to be a divorce lawyer, is still an active lawyer (fighting bank foreclosures now) and lives half the year in Truckee. She has worked as a lawyer in the Truckee CA area for a few decades.…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 05:50 PM
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Some are trapped by ideology and damage and dis-info. It's just part of how the women's right's movement got co-opted by bad ideas. fight the Idea, not those who have it, for maximum effect. Because of this, true independent thinkers who happen to be women, by in-large, will behave rationally with a little education.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 09:10 PM
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Perhaps we are just having a semantics problem here, but I'm not certain enough of what you are saying to respond fully, and I think you are missing the core of what I am on about here. Did you happen to watch any of the link I sent? My concerns are that, becouse of the finer points of early zygote/fetus development and the effects of various hormonal toxins, people as well as animals who would have been male are being born instead with all the outward expressions of the female. I'm just trying …
/r/MensRights03/05/12 10:46 PM
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Thanks for getting into the details of this. I was trying to keep my comment short & sweet. I understand that, for many different reasons, humans can be born that are different kinds of combinations of both sexes, and that the initial xx or xy plays a part in the adult's gender expression even if they physically appear to be of the opposite sex then their chromosomes. Here is a documentary that goes into some specific details of what is blocking some men from becoming men while in the womb. I kn…
/r/MensRights03/05/12 07:54 PM
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I understood that. I find it fascinating that it looks to be true that without males there would not be what we call "higher life forms" at all, never mind anything remotely human. It is also true that all human life starts female, and is induced to become male. There is some real truth in saying that females created males out of themselves to protect life, and without the male sentient life would not have developed. As in many good things in life, it takes two.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 06:27 AM
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While this is literally true in some ways, the presence of the male is also integral to advanced life.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 05:07 AM
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They are interesting in that after this very early stage child care was nearly completely on her for three years, now for the past few months he has been doing most of the child care. Having good partnership gives adults the ability to go be adults away from children.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 03:12 AM
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My friend told me that for the first few weeks her husband was better at keeping track of and noticing when it was a good time to put the baby over the bassin. She was recovering from a first and not so easy labore, and he was with them for most of the first month.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 01:45 AM
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There are a few different methods I know of people using/developing over time, in conjunction, and starting from day one. All children are different and, shit will still happen. I'm not a parent, however I've been around for about 10-20 hours a week with this particular parent for over 3 years. There appears to be plenty of people talking about it. Edit : My experience is that you really start from day one, and not doing so may make switching to these methods more difficult. Example : Infant is …
/r/MensRights02/05/12 10:31 PM
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I have a friend with a toliot trained (now) 3 year old who only ever needed to wear dipers about a dozen times. There are way's to keep clean and sanitary without dipers, dipers are really new in human evolution. Edit : bonus, no diaper rash and a baby than cries a lot less.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 10:14 PM
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My real life community has a lot of breast feeding moms in it, though I am in no way saying this makes it socially similar to pre-modern times. Yet, I've definitely seen a trend where 90% of the child care falls on the woman for the first 2-3 years of the child's life then evens out or even balances toward the fathers spending near 24-7 with their child for weeks/months at a time. Edit : I wonder if this is common and resources for fathers with toddles would have a larger audience then fathers a…
/r/MensRights02/05/12 10:01 PM
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Thanks for that, WOW, I'm really disappointed. As a woman on reddit I was delighted to see a female-centric sub area. This is just solidifying my view that modern western feminism is off it's rocker sexist - so sexist they can't even listen to a dissenting female voice. I hardly ever "play the girl card" on Reddit, but that mod made me want to jump up and down screaming I HAVE A VAGINA....except it would be sexist of them to hear me out on that basis, which kinda would have proved my point....pr…
/r/MensRights30/04/12 10:37 PM
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I just got banned from SRS for defending being a woman and a MRA in that thread. Glad to know I'm welcome here. I've never been banned before - is there someway I can fight this?
/r/MensRights30/04/12 08:41 PM
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Not at all. This was something I did primarily in the suburbs of Boston as well as the city proper, and also throughout New-England in general, in the 1990's and early 2000's. Some of the men where older then me, people born in the 50's and 60's.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 06:05 PM
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I made a habit of doing this for a while. I had some men refuse to go through a door I held for them, get angry at me even, and tell me to stop. One took the door out of my hand and closed it, and then just walked away. edit: Most men where cool with it, said thanks, though some thought I was flirting. I mostly stopped doing this a lot because of the awkwardness/occasional confrontation, and because I got older with more little aches and pains, doors are actually heavy, and can be hard to hold o…
/r/MensRights27/04/12 04:37 AM
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Female breasts are only related to reproduction in that they are used to feed babies with, not for sex. A lot of women do not feel that their breasts are any more sexual in nature then a man's are. Most breast-feeding women have a need to feed their child occasionally, or frequently, while in public places, and are not always free to do so legally, while a man who has no reason other than comfort can be topless without challenge in the same public spaces. The sexuality of breasts is something pu…
/r/MensRights24/01/12 01:22 AM
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Some guys realize this at 30..40... or beyond if ever this life. Your still in your dawn, any one can change, you can slip into it (what ever it turns out to be) like a new coat.
/r/seduction31/12/11 06:02 AM
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I read a little study on the differences in this nationally. In general, they found that in New York and the east coast it can be easiest to start conversing over a complaint, that more people will engage in conversation to solve a minor problem or commiserate than they are to receive a compliment or exchange pleasantries, this later is more the norm on the west coast.
/r/seduction18/12/11 08:08 AM
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I watched and listed to my father as his dreams of a large family broke apart. He wanted more than one child, but my mother (for her own very good reasons) refused. I will never forget his hart break, the tears in his eyes, looking down at his strong yet empty hands and declaring that women had all the power he wanted. Nothing he could do or say mattered, his fight was lost and gone. I've always found it easier to love and respect him, and men in general, then my mother or women like her. I reme…
/r/MensRights21/11/11 03:23 AM
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Life as we know it would not exist, there would be no genders, and I think that would not only be less fun, but far less viable for life forms as advanced as those on earth. (It has been proposed by evolutionary theorists that without genders everything would still be very small and simple.)
/r/MensRights18/11/11 11:42 PM
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In the case implied here, the "red queen" might win. I think we would all loose. The genders, across species and time, are not always easy allies, as they run through life, and away from death.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 06:13 PM
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Only addressing your first point here, to highlight that female teachers have been show to be detrimental for girls in some key ways. AP, and an opinion piece I see that gender dis-quality is always bad for both groups, and when we focus on that it can help bring the bigots around.
/r/MensRights20/10/11 07:12 PM
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I can behave with all the maturity and respect possessed by a hypothetical conclave of Bodhisattva's, and everyone around me will know I'm on my cycle, becouse I'll be in the loo simultaneously and violently expelling fluids from most orifices. I'll have told them about me and my Endometriosis, becouse not doing so would be worse and might make someone drag my semi-comatose self to hospital. I am not alone, actually, there are many women who have it worse then I do.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 10:53 PM
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Being organizationally challenged and having a cycle that tends to free-range anywhere from 17 to 47 days...I will sometimes get a heads up that I'm due becouse I have an out-of-proportion emotional response. Also, if one works on a set schedule with the public, it is pretty much impossible to have much control over when one is exposed to others, and when one is required to behave with professionalism and good cheer at all times...well, we try to keep the crying on the inside.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 10:28 PM
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I managed to successfully point out the cognitive dissonance of this to an acquaintance of mine. He agreed with me that he had had his son circumcised for tribal reasons that are not really any different (other than perhaps in scale) to F.M.G. I feel a bit bad for him, really. He is (on the surface at least) liberally educated, left leaning, and kind. He now knows he has participated a blind cultural violence upon his son that can not really be changed. I think he may not ask me for the "news of…
/r/MensRights15/02/11 10:47 PM
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Criminal and social issues like this can be mitigated, where not fully solved, by individuals in pubic places possessing wearable "quite cameras" that are recording, and sending that recording to secure location(s). I don't think this technology is that far away from being available for more people, and I see it as an emerging right of the modern age which can lighten expense and grievance on both the government and the populace, by reducing crime and corruption. Mind, it is a right, not a requi…
/r/MensRights30/01/11 05:28 AM
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There are legitimate negative side effects to the conditions you list, they are more then cosmetic.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 10:18 PM
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I liked that the actual Mexicans in the kitchen knew which amendment he was talking about, and answered in Spanish. (even if this was set up, it is a winner)
/r/MensRights08/05/10 10:36 PM
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I generally agree with you, being able to split costs (as I can with my current partner) is an easier way to go. I have been both someone who's bill was consistency paid by my date, and I've consistently picked up whole tabs when I was affluent and my date was not. When one partner makes twice or 4 to 6 times as much as the other, there will be compromises on both sides. Sometimes people have widely different income levels and entertainment budgets from that of their dates, to the point that goi…
/r/MensRights19/04/10 11:28 PM
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Each paying there own way works out if there is a similar level of discretionary income, and/or the cost of date can be kept within the lower-earners reach. I've often been asked along for activities I could not afford and would not choose on my own, if my date had not been paying, then I would not have gone.
/r/MensRights19/04/10 10:38 PM
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Many (most?) women care more about how they feel in a man's company then what a man looks like. (or so says this woman)
/r/seduction13/03/10 02:24 AM
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Are you assuming that there really are only two sexes, and that all women are feminists?
/r/MensRights18/01/10 06:38 AM
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I read about this as much as 10 years ago, and the point that I remember being said about it was that micro loans had started out with the distribution being about even between the sexes, but that women had such a higher pay-back rate and made such substantive returns of that fortune to the community that the concentration of the loans was directed to them. One of the reasons for the delinquency of men that I remember being sighted for this was that men are far more likely to die and/or be draft…
/r/MensRights07/09/09 08:12 PM
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Your welcome. I have a plethora of cool stories about my dad, I've thought about writing up a collection of them, though if I was to publish I'd probably feel obliged to give him the credit.
/r/MensRights06/07/09 12:23 AM
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My thanks, to you and everyone who responded so positively. I count myself as blessed in the good parenting I received : from both of them, they just had different areas of strength. I'm honored by the idea that a bit of the good my dad shared with me can go on, through these strange webbings, to assist parents and children I'm unlikely to ever meet.
/r/MensRights06/07/09 12:11 AM
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I realize that I am slightly to the side of this topic...however, My father taught me to be a survivor, rather than a victim. When I was still a young girl, probably 5 or 6, he told me about how men and women are made to fit together, that this was adult love, and how children are created in that love. We never talked about fear or abuse, we talked about awareness and strength. When I was 11 or 12 he gave me a book called "the encyclopedia of love and sex" , told me to hide it from my mom, and t…
/r/MensRights05/07/09 12:54 AM
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I have enjoyed this interplay between you and feuerdis. I was particularly glad to see you chime in with your first post in this thread, because I too am a woman who greatly admires men in much the way that you described. I have always considered myself a humanist rather than a feminist, because i find so much of feminism to be set against men, I find that while the struggle for equality has archived some significant goals, it has also opened the door for different forms of inequality. Part of t…
/r/MensRights15/04/09 08:30 AM
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As a woman, I agree with you all. It has happened a few times, that I find a woman with whom meaningful conversation is impossible, and then discover that they read cosmo or the like.
/r/MensRights02/03/09 08:53 PM
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This debate has wondered around and grown cold. Yet... My purpose has been to use my money as a vote, and too that end I have been mostly very successful in not supporting that which I would not wish for myself. I'm not saying that I have been absolutely successful at all times and in all ways, I am saying that if more people considered the power of their money in small ways, we would have a different world. You tell me to "go find a real way to change those conditions somehow." This is my answe…
/r/MensRights27/02/09 05:25 AM
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I am not entirely certain what you are trying to say there. The chain back to the company is completely broken in most if not all of my transactions. Example: A person bought a set of chairs in the 60's for their vacation home. Time passes, the original owners pass on, their children inherit the house, and before selling it, unload the items they don't want at the local thrift. I buy one of the chairs that was donated. The $25 I pay for it goes towards the the operations and salaries for the thr…
/r/MensRights24/02/09 12:21 AM
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I disagree, it's not direct. The $ I spend on something at a yard sale or an independent thrift store does not go to the pocket of a large co. That is what matters to me. That is part of what I mean by voting with one's wallet.
/r/MensRights23/02/09 09:16 PM
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Can one be a woman and a misogynist? How is it that dissing on diamonds is against women?
/r/MensRights23/02/09 06:51 PM
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I've never bought a computer in my life. Yes, I use them, I've been given hand-me-down's, and I type now from my desk at work. I buy nearly everything second hand or from a local person who made it, to ensure that my $ does not go to support practices that I abhor. This has been my way for over a decade. If I seem self-righteous, that is becouse on this topic, I practice what I preach.
/r/MensRights23/02/09 06:47 PM
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I'm a woman. I've worked in high-end jewelry, which is where I learned this information, and formed my opinion. Diamonds are the hardest, coldest, most pressurized stone on earth. They work for some people, but over-all, their an energetic and financial albatross on a marriage. Edit: http://everything2.com/node/957548
/r/MensRights23/02/09 06:36 PM
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To buy something is to cast a vote for the way it was created.
/r/MensRights23/02/09 09:03 AM
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"main stream" society asked men for generations to pay a quarter of a years salary to purchase a useless stone for his perspective wife.. it's been a sham and a shame, a marketing scheme, and about the worst spiritual symbolism i can imagine to cast on a marriage. The sapphire is the stone originally associated with marriage ; until De Beers changed the story through advertising.
/r/MensRights23/02/09 08:59 AM
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ah. Another puzzle piece. Thanks
/r/MensRights05/01/09 07:26 PM
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Unfortunately, this implied malice may not be completely out of place. For the most part, these chemical formulas where created in the late thirties and early forties. As far as their creators where aware, they where totally new to existence, certainly in such proclivity and intimate proximity to humans, and through the water supplies, to much of the bio-shear. Did they do no tests before implementing there wide spread and invasive use? Who has known what influence they are capable of, and for h…
/r/MensRights05/01/09 09:03 AM
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from the article : "In the latest study, researchers found women with higher levels of phthalate breakdown chemicals, or metabolites, in their urine were more likely to give birth to baby boys with undescended or small testicles, and small penises." How is this not an issue for men? When these babies, if these babies, become adults, do you think it won't be an issue for them? That their sex, the main representation of their essential maleness, is reduced, disfigured, and poisoned becouse of indi…
/r/MensRights04/01/09 10:32 PM
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I remeber reading something a long time ago that, as infants, boys are weaker than girls. I don't have time for a more extesive search right now, and this is the only corrilating article I found on the web, and it's rather tangential, and white type on black for added annoyance. http://www.world-science.net/exclusives/060901_911.htm I know I have read about this in a text book somewhere though, something to do with the history of kings who could not produce males to inherit their realms. Then of…
/r/MensRights01/01/09 01:54 AM
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"It's very unequal" There is also a huge size differential between male and female sex organs. Right or wrong the leniency given to woman is a direct result of the idea that, as woman are on the receiving end of sex, they are much more passive. With rare exception, women simply are not as potentially physically violating men. I'm not saying the law should treat the sexes different, just why it does. The reverse is seen with going topless, not a big deal for men, generally unacceptable or illegal…
/r/MensRights20/12/08 06:48 PM
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What has me puzzled is how a 35 year old could possibly pass, even in a cursory way, as a 13 year old. This whole story is so vile and otherworldly in it's grotesqueness, I am left wondering how wide-spread this cut really is. This could be a modern-day Lovecraftian short story, and the 35 year old "child" an extra-dimensional vampiric creature.
/r/MensRights25/10/08 08:10 PM
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I greatly prefer humanism to feminism, so in my opinion, my opinion originates from a clearer, and more balanced perspective than any feminine-centric one ever can. I find the idea that a man can be tagged unworthy because of some "performance" criteria to be shallow and self defeating; for men as well as women. Sex, physical and emotional connectivity, is good when it is right for all involved, when there is not a performer, but an equal participatory spirit.
/r/MensRights16/07/08 10:33 PM
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The attractiveness of circumcised V.S. uncircumcised is part of encultureization, or liking to look at what one is used to looking at.
/r/MensRights22/06/08 08:33 PM
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