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I mean, you’re being nice. I’m a civil person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:36 AM
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You have not helped at all, but thank you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:29 AM
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What makes you say that high n-count women can’t pair bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:47 AM
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I’ve known far more women to be repulsed by males who slut it up moreso than male virgins. Usually male virgins are virgins because some separate factor about them is repulsive to women, most male virgins wouldn’t be virgins if they were otherwise repulsive in some way. Women generally have no issues with virgins who are otherwise normal and don’t have some egregious fatal flaw. Virginity isn’t the issue, usually the issue is the same thing that’s precipitated the virginity in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:46 AM
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As a woman I completely disagree, and all my female friends are equally as keen to be in relationships as I am. I don’t know where in the US you’re living, or what your social circle/social exposure looks like that you’d think women don’t want relationships but I’ve lived in the mid-Atlantic and the south and never seen that as the predominant sentiment amongst my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:10 AM
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Did you misread what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 03:34 PM
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Me and my boyfriend had the exclusivity talk way early, he brought it up and basically said “yeah, I don’t want to share you, it would make me sad” and I agreed that I’d also be upset to know he was with other people. That was a huge green flag for me, that he wanted to be exclusively seeing each other and giving me his full attention very early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:01 AM
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I wouldn’t fault the guy for doing it but I’d also assume he wasn’t interested in me enough for me to be spending my time on. I’d move on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:49 AM
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28?! Lie. This bitch 50
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 06:58 PM
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I don’t know, I think I have a fairly unique perspective since I grew up quite sickly/ugly/fat so I wasn’t spoiled with tons of male attention. I finally got appropriate treatment for a previously undiagnosed chronic illness in my early 20’s so my looks changed dramatically, and I suddenly had loads of attractive and successful men throwing themselves at me...it was a nice feeling...but it also felt just so shallow and fake because I knew all those men probably didn’t care much about who I was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:00 PM
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Several things: -emotional support for sure, so not anything you could buy. Although I’m a fairly capable, happy and successful person I do have a chronic illness that just knocks me down every few months. I’ll have 1-3 days where I’m useless. My partner doesn’t nag or get annoyed, he just cares for me and helps me get back on my feet. He’s incredibly supportive and wonderful. Calm, understanding, and an amazing problem solver. He’s also just incredible competent, if that makes sense? I trust hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:23 PM
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I was not a virgin when we met, but I was also not very sexually experienced. I’d only been with 3 other men who I’d dated seriously, and I hadn’t had sex with anyone for over 5 years before he and I met. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:08 PM
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I wish more men knew that a lot of women genuinely don’t care. The amount of time it took me to convince my guy that I’m not bothered by the fact that he’ll never be the breadwinner is insane. It’s still something he’s insecure about after all this time and I wish I could just erase the stupid idea from his mind because I literally could not care less
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:12 AM
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This is my situation with my guy, and I’m usually the one asking if I can give him a BJ at the end of the day because...I mean I LIKE him? That’s why I’m with him. I love the goofball of a person he is, I think he’s a living work of art, and I would like his dick in my mouth and then to fall asleep on his soft tummy. It’s nice, especially after a hard day, to have a nice intimate time with my partner. If he asks for something sexual I don’t see that as “oh god more work!” I feel like “oh fuck ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:08 AM
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I disagree with needing to have similar income. I will almost certainly always make more than my partner due to our chosen fields, and on top of that will always have more family money since I’m a trust fund baby and he grew up in the foster system. However, the power balance of our relationship isn’t disrupted by this because I highly value the non-financial contributions he makes, and the many ways in which he improves my life in ways I couldn’t manage on my own and either have to hire someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:01 AM
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House wives (good ones) aren’t necessarily lazy. Housewives who have nannies and maids, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:55 AM
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So, this has never really been an edict of mine or anything but as a woman in a relationship where, for the very first time in my life, my partner has been understanding and ok with the fact that I’m not perfect all the time I would think the quote should mean this: “If you can’t stand by me and support me on the off days when I’m tired, overwhelmed, under the weather, and yes even on the rare days when I’m paranoid/jealous (because seriously who is Jenna, though?) then you don’t deserve to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:58 AM
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I mean I am his. I intend to be his for the rest of my life. I also want him to visually enjoy what’s his
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:33 PM
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Yeah, this is my fear. That he’s wanting me to be someone who he’ll ultimately be bored with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:43 AM
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I don’t care how he dresses as long as it’s what he wants to do. He knows how to look nice if I bring him to family or work stuff and that’s all that would be a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:12 AM
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That’s fair...he doesn’t dress great or feel very good about his body in general...guess he’s at least not trying to impress anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:18 AM
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Not quite but thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:41 AM
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Showing off by dressing the way I dressed when we met? I’m supposed to not only change my style totally but to something that he finds less visually stimulating...couldn’t be just, ya know, trust me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:10 AM
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I mean look I’d be a hypocrite if I expected him to NEVER find other people attractive. I can acknowledge other people being hot. What I don’t like is that he wants me to tone things down about myself that he enjoys looking at in other women still. Like, if he hated peoples dressing like that across the board I’d be more understanding. But he’s drooling when there’s some stranger in the store with a terrible dogface and backne dressed the way he likes, but when I come out ready to leave the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:08 AM
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This is what I worry about! Like, I’m standing next to him in the frumpy clothes he “prefers” me to wear and he’s drooling over some chick who’s wearing the exact outfit that I have at home and look 10x better in? The fuck is that supposed to make me feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:04 AM
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Seriously! I got PROPER annoyed the other day because he commented positively about the way a girl was dressed and I said “I OWN that, you don’t like me to wear it anymore!”. His response was “Well, you’re basically my wife!”. So you don’t want a hot wife? The fuck??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:59 AM
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It’s one aspect of an entire relationship dynamic. There are so many things that comprise our relationship. I love him and I feel loved. I just also feel confused that I know what he finds sexy, and I want to be sexy for him but he seems to not want that from me, his partner, while still looking for it from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:27 AM
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I mean I guess I’m just confused? This is a running theme with men I date and while I get the “you’re just an object to be possessed” response THAT also doesn’t really make sense, because we also like our objects to look nice to us. Never been accused of self-absorption before but hey I’ll take the critique
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:25 AM
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So, what you’re saying kind of makes sense because I seem to be treated like a sexy goddess in the pursuit and dating phases...then men get mad at me for the things they initially lusted after once we’re comfortably in a relationship. My boyfriend now, I know is very attracted to my petite small waist/wide hips frame. He likes tiny women with drastic curves, and when I dressed in ways that showcased that when we were initially seeing each other it drove him wild. The first time I wore one partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:22 AM
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I would like ideally to be his girl who also looks like the girls he wants to fuck. Would love to navigate that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:14 AM
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I suppose I have never really thought of the way I dress as “for attention” from anyone, or for the approval or appreciation of anyone but myself. I like finding myself attractive. I like looking in the mirror and being like “that is an aesthetically pleasing person, and that person is me”. I often dress up when I’m home alone by myself because it just feels good. I guess if they’re assuming that I want to look nice for other people, that’s a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:43 AM
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I wouldn’t say I’m not a feminist at all. Like...yay that I can in fact vote and own land, and I would personally enjoy, for example, if certain types of medical care was a bit less androcentric, because I have personally had experiences with that being an issue in my life....def not all on board with more extreme feminist views though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:39 AM
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Well, fortunately I have never been pumped and dumped in my 27 years. Currently in a monogamous relationship so def dont remotely need the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:34 AM
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I guess. These dudes seem to see me as a person in general otherwise. It’s just related to the way I dress mostly. Suddenly it goes from “nice!” to “...you’re wearing that?”. Like buddy this was the same thing you were practically cumming your pants over a year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:27 AM
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You’re fine, like I said you’re close. It’s leg related and not overtly sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:25 AM
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Close but no cigar...also not relevant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:22 AM
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I mean, I have no issue meeting men who are interested. This is just an odd thing that crops up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:18 AM
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I mean, I guess I’m just tripping up on the fact that they don’t want me to look a way they enjoy. Even if I’m a possession that they don’t want to be taken away, it’s still weird. Like, if you buy a car in part because you love the awesome custom paint job. You don’t drive the car home, park it in your garage and go “That paint job is so amazing I better change it so no one ever wants to steal my car”. You want to keep enjoying the paint job that made you want to buy the damn car in the first p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:17 AM
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What’s FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:13 AM
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