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It's quite thrilling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:20 PM

Urgh !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:35 PM
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Hope you're feeling better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:42 PM
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Introverted, risk adverse, over systemic, quite serious to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:38 PM
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through their lived experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:27 PM
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Yes, there is no relief Sex, psychedelics, creativity, cuddles, tea, pizza and dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:00 PM
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I liked tinder. There's such an enormous pool of men, it's quick, easy to use and just to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:42 AM
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There's men who go on TRP to acquire casual sex, and there's those who do so to understand women. Both these types of men are outside my dating pool. The men I date are able to have casual sex, and they already understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:38 AM
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I'll try and remain objective and unbias. TRP is for men who lack intuition and who like systemising things. They generally lack the natural intuition that other people have as well as social skills. I am naturally drawn to extroverted, intuitive men with good social skills. These sorts of men learn about gender dynamics through their lived experiences. I'm also quite shallow - good looking men don't have struggles with acquiring sex - so they wouldn't be TRP by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:49 PM
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A man with a handsome face and scruffy hair, smiling as he lifts up his shirt to scratch his belly and I see his muscular torso. The same man on my bed post coitus, one arm behind his head, his cock flopped on his torso and a relaxed, cheeky smile on his face. Men playing football shirtless, covered in rain water and mud. Men playing an instrument really well. Men holding me by the waist, gazing into my eyes and telling me how beautiful I am and how horny it makes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:39 PM
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Even so, he's decidedly not red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:51 AM
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It depends how serious your relationship was Imo. My last relationships lasted 6 years and 3.5 years - so obviously we only broke up because there was serious animosity. If you've not dates too long, the feelings aren't as strong and sometimes you break up for trivial reasons. I am generally amicable with my exes, and wish them well - I wouldn't go for a pint with them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:39 PM
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Nope, never looked into it. I almost exclusively watch comedy series - life is already stressful I need an escape to a happier place !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:33 PM
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Since when were boys told that girls don't like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:56 PM
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Just my theory.. I think they fucked up calling themselves 'The red pill', which is a reference to a movie which ironically is an allegory for being a trans person in a binary world. I also notice it with religions, some political ideologies and conspiracy theorists. They keep telling me that THEIR belief is the 'truth" and the 'red pill" and it instantly discredits everything they say. People tend to listen to others when they present themselves as critical, when they don't get over emotional a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:22 PM
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I think these guys just take what they can and are upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:02 PM
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Leonardo is worth dating if you're interested in money and status but you'de probably only want to bang him doggy style.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:50 PM
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I think it should be a salubrious bit of fun for two people to enjoy each other, and to enjoy someone else's enjoyment. I'm high sociosexual and enjoy casual sex - however I have caught unreciprocated feelings once (during a four month fling) and twice a guy hasn't wanted to see me again after banging. So for me I just ballance out the risk and rewards when it comes to satiating my own sexual needs and that works for me. I have slutty phases in-between relationships, which are overwhelmingly pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:48 PM
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I am in my early/mid 30s and have been a practicing physician for a few years. I make in the mid 6 figures, generous with friends and family, exercise regularly and thus am in good shape, have a good social circle of 7-8 decade+ friends, and own my home. I enjoy travelling, aviation, and ever since I graduated residency have become quite a good cook. The only negative aspect about me in the dating market is that I am an inch under 6 ft. 🍪 ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:39 PM
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Ah, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:38 PM
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Russell brand? Are you kidding? He's a massive lib fem and a communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:36 PM
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Yet you've only ever fucked one man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:31 PM
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. Men are not getting rejected for sex because they are short, bald, poor, or have bad personalities. Women simply aren't interested Women aren't interested because they're "short, bald and poor'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:30 PM
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I don't care about marriage and I'm too poor to seethe financial benefits of it. It's just a piece of paper to me. I don't need a piece of paper for a man to demonstrate he's committed to me as I can tell he's committed through his actions and treatment towards me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:53 AM
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I've said this before. If you really want to fuck a man, it's almost impossible to 'weaponze" sex - because the temptation is there and you don't want to deprive yourself from something you enjoy. Women don't want to fuck their bf/husband when they're annoyed with them because AT THAT POINT IN TIME the desire to fuck him is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:31 AM
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It's a pointless question because TRP and what I'm attracted to are mutually exclusive. All the men I date are simps to some degree. I'm naturally attracted to men who always call me beautiful and do nice things for me. Last time I checked, twerps did not do this for women. Twerps are also never Chad lites or chads and I'm quite shallow. That's not an Insult to twerps - but naturally they discovered TRP because they struggled with women. I also exclusively date extroverted men and never redditer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:40 AM
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I wouldn't be angry, I would be disappointed. Then I would dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:51 PM
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Aww man, I'm sorry. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:37 PM
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Twice. My first ever boyfriend. We dated for five months when I was 16 and he broke up with me because presumably he was bored. It took me forever to get over that as I was young and it all felt so intense at the time. I deleted his number and we never spoke again. Second time happened when I was around 25. We were hooking up and became fuck buddies that were emotionally very close. He didn't feel the same way as I did and in hindsight I think he had some intimacy issues. That felt very intense …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:35 PM
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Has a talent that I find cool and fun to watch (musician, DJ, artist, fire spinning, skateboarding). Makes me snort laugh quite frequently. He can come up with his own quips, jokes and banter. A social circle that I can combine with my own so we have parties and events to go to. Curious and open minded. Will to take magic mushrooms with me, watch a gig, hike in the country, jump in a river etc. Interesting to talk to. Has some good anacdotes and observations about life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:45 PM
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I've seen studies that say that uglier women are more promiscuous. So this kinda throws that off...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:17 AM
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I feel the same about men with women's hands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:48 PM
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That's one of the definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:47 PM
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"Liked by acquaintances; sought after for company"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:31 PM
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Being popular and likable are attractive qualities to most women. Men who have a lot of friends bring a lot to the table in a relationship, and it also shows they have a likable character and are easy to get on with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:25 PM

This, unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:21 PM

Im very much attracted to ripped men, but as the op said - the lifestyle is not compatible with a lot of women. I think that's a pretty reasonable thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:21 PM

Tbh, they would probably benefit from recreational drugs and alcohol in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:03 AM
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Yeah. You can ask verbally without being unsexy. 'you're so beautiful, I want to kiss you" (leans in slowly) Is sexy and in the moment. ''do I have your permission to kiss you on the lips?' Not so sexy. Also works for sex acts and positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:42 PM
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Of I'm no longer attracted to them, I'm no longer attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:30 PM
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Because most people have a visceral, primal disgust towards their partners fucking other people. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:32 PM
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Did everybody clap?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:30 PM
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Horrible way to go. One doctor repeatedly cut up slave women and practiced stitching them back up. So we have those women to thank.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:46 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:16 PM
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It's even crazier when you realise the mortality rate of mothers prior to modern medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:16 PM
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Very true actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:13 PM
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Teenage minor's*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:42 PM
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I'm joking, it doesn't do anything because people can (and should ( withdraw consent during the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:39 PM
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That will hold up in court
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:49 AM
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As I lost weight around my face the men I dated have got more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:45 AM
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Yeah, it's like a ven diagram where different circles over lap. That's why I like having an extroverted, popular boyfriend. You get a whole load of circles to add !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:41 AM
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That's crazy. I think there should be some sort of policy where teenagers are allowed to fuck other teenagers, but adults should only fuck other adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:43 PM
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I love the good side of male energy and it compliments mine really well. I love how men just physically have more energy and love to hyper focus and obsess over things. I like their sexual aggression (in the right context). I like their protective and nurturing side and how safe they make me feel. Oh and dick is the best chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:51 PM
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I think at heart I'm a hedonist, but one that tries to do it in a salubrious way. I like doing anything that pleasures my senses like being in nature, eating good food, dancing, partying, having sex and being creative. So I've got friends I can sit in the pub and laugh at inappropriate jokes with, some sensitive hippy friends I get creative with, some foody friends and some hardcore party people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:46 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:59 PM
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Of depends on what level of drunk she is, and if you were also drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:52 PM
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Honestly I don't think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:24 PM
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This is why I'm scares of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:17 PM
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I always make sure I have a break from relationships after a break up (Also I'm conscious about being codependent). However, I have lots of hot sex and that stops me thinking about them pretty effectively lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:14 PM
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We all get uglier as we age, men just get an extra five years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:07 PM
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90% of the guys who ever got into my pants were funny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:00 PM
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Back when I was single pre-covid - I used to try and meet men put on the wild and use OLD as a backup/in-between thing. I was 20 when smartphone dating was a thing, but people before that used other websites for OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:01 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:12 PM
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No one's arguing against circumcision for medical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:11 PM
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Cream pie is pretty vanilla Nah it's salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:57 PM
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So is your arsehole, but I presume you wash that ok ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:52 PM
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You just have to trust her that she is a good person if she is slow to have sex and did not treat other men better. Exactly - it's a leap of faith. Most women who have had/ have casual sex are normies with normal friends, normal clothes and normal families. Her ex-boyfriends, fwb, etc. look better, or she has had a type that you do not fit I have no idea on which planet this happens - because most people aren't showing their partners pictures of their exes (ESPECIALLY their FWB) and they would f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:51 PM
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Never met one, never met a woman who has met one. Pretty sure it's mostly homeless men and junkies who have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:29 PM
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Or they could just not tell the boyfriend ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:16 PM
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They are turned on by super horny, completely uninhibited women who are obsessed with cock. Most men are into watching cumshots in porn - probably some primitive thong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:51 PM
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A lot of women don't want to do this though because it can lead to being pumped and dumped. And most the time women don't orgasm on the first sexual encounter - so a pump and dump with no enjoyment isn't very appealing to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:34 PM
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It takes about five minutes to explain to your son to pull back his forskin and clean his penis. We have the same conversations with kids about washing their arse cracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:24 PM
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These guys are just plain nasty. They will be nasty in other ways if they were circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:23 PM
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There’s a lot that goes into it so it’s a matter of convenience to them. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:19 PM
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Whatever the arguments for or against circumcision are - the lad can decide when he's an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:17 PM
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I mean..you could say the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:12 PM
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It's interesting seeing this question because I recently saw a photo of my first boyfriend when he was..25/26 and I could tell he looked absolutely gorgeous. Tall with a fairly classically good looking face (aside from his sticky put ears which didn't bother me and the hair covered them). I got the 'ick" with him after maybe..five years of dating? He was extremely stressful to live and have a relationship with. Throughout the years he would shout at me a lot, express jealousy, hated going out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:09 PM
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F30 and M34, Had a tinder hookup summer 2020, I wanted to keep it casual as I was just out an LTR. Hook ups with him became more common. He confessed he wanted to be exclusive by Christmas and early 2021 he said he was in love with me. Were taking it super super slow as I think that's what is best. We live separately but he's round mine four nights a week. Things are very sexually charged which is good, we also flirt with each other all the time. He wants kids but I've said no as I think by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:59 PM
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I've never heard it. Presumably it's just something men say to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:50 PM
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You mean like the majority of relationships do?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:44 PM
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Oryx and crake is one of the best sci fi books ever written, certainly not for the feint of heart, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:44 AM
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Tbf I'm in the UK, might be different. I've never seen a successful fat girl and we have plenty of non whites here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:41 PM
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Seconded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:18 PM
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30% are content with a fat ass/tits with sexy fat distribution. Actual obese women appeal to less than 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:39 PM
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Men should regularly test their girlfriends knickers for rogue semen with DNA testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:52 PM
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Be even more shallow than I already am, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:43 PM
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Either way - the pool of chubby chasers is incredibly small.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:40 PM
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I've met and spoken to plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:08 PM
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If I could pick men who have mild OCD, I would. I don't find men doing housework 'sexy' (or whatever) but it makes my life considerably less stressful, I'm not a bitch to be around and I'm just generally a better girlfriend. I like a nice space to relax in and I like being able to find stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:08 AM
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His value drops the moment he suggests she should be a cuck. Shes drowning in attention and has other men lines up. If they divorce, she's still better off than she was before meeting him - especially if they had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:04 AM
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Yeah - everyone online says this, I've yet to see it in person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:03 AM
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I would go as far as saying it can kill attraction. When you slip into that mother/son dynamic the woman can stop finding him sexy and feel resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:47 AM
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Young, superficial women aren't thinking about this though, they're drowning in attention and don't have scarcity mentality. They enjoy the ride, once it's over they find someone else. There's very little motivation to let your bf have fun with other women on the sly whilst not having fun yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:13 PM
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If a woman LTRs a HVM, she herself is HVW. HVW don't put up with being cuckqueened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:58 PM
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And those women are fucking other men on the sly. They are high value themselves and it's often about image and media whoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:57 PM
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It's completely pointless. Women want a relationship that serves their own imperatives as well as men's. The point in a relationship is to add value to your life. Women have demonstrated again and again they would rather be single than in a sub par relationship/ relationship dynamic. women need to accept they will most likely have to share a high value man with other women Disagree. If you're of the same value as a man, he's as scared of you leaving him as you are of him leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:26 PM
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Legalise prostitution and adjust wealth imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:45 PM
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The earth has more than enough people, they just need to be shifted around a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:42 PM

In the UK we call it 'brewers droop'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:39 PM

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:37 PM

Ahhh, very good point. That can be worked through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:32 PM

Oh it's always face first. I actually love short, muscular men. I like the structural integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:32 PM

That was my first thought. Wouldn't date a dude with a porn issue, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:30 PM

Rupert isn't particularly my type, but I can objectively tell he's attractive. Daniel Radcliffe was never a sex symbol but very easy on the eye (lovely smile and eyes etc). They both look a bit older for their ages IMO, Tom felton especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:29 PM

I started working when my kid was four, when she was nine my social life was back in full swing. Very much depends on your support network and how you raised your kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:26 PM

You can easily work on lack of skill and premature ejaculation - that might just be his lack of experience. Not able to get or keep a hard on? Hmm..that's trickier. Personally that's a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:24 PM

Interesting how the main HP actors have aged. Some considerably better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:22 PM

Put of the main Harry potter actors, Emma Watson is the only one who's still retained her attraction. The others smacked into the wall head first. Probably drinking and partying more and also experience hair loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:19 PM

Lol, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:02 PM

Which is why we lie :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:48 PM
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Attractive people are content in repeatedly shagging their attractive partners. They're also probably unwilling to do anything to risk that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:11 PM
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Am I shocked that a company is altering itself to appeal to a wider audience and make more money? No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:23 PM
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It works until it doesn't work. Probably easier to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:05 PM

We all have our breaking points, no matter how much we love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:34 PM

Why would anyone divulge their sexual history to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:00 PM

From a guy's perspective that is both insulting and shows how the standard is not applied equally throughout their life and paints an AF/BB dynamic. People are allowed to change their mind. If jumping in bed straight away with men doesn't work, you adjust your technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:57 AM

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:43 AM

As much as people on here poo-poo 'just be yourself' there is some truth in it. If you are yourself from the start, warts-and-all, someone isn't going to run away when they discover the 'real you' a year or so into the relationship. You put your cards on the table and if someone doesn't like it, they can jog on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:14 AM

I mean, the word has lost all meaning now. It uses to mean a man who was sycophantic towards a woman who wants returning the same amount of interest or energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:01 AM
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I think everyone has something beautiful about them. I like making people smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:58 PM
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Woop-de-fucking-do. Excuse me if I don't shit myself with excitement, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:46 PM
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JGL was a heart throb in his peak, people are insane if they think he's a five.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:53 AM
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It's very different. The bikini line and the armpits get friction so rashes are very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:43 AM
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No idea what you said there mate...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:42 AM
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Tried that. It's just the friction my arms rubbing against the hairs growing back, same with the sides of my vagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:47 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:44 PM
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I think so. I love men flirting with me and it's important to my relationship satisfaction for that flirtation to continue. Likewise, evidently my flirty personality keeps men happy and validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:38 PM
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I've literally never heard of this, and any normal person (however they identify) would not take this rhetoric seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:06 PM
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Evidently there innumerable people on here who have at innumerable times experiences foreplay without actually having sex? Is this an American thing? Can someone explain it? I don't understand giving/recieving oral without going all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:59 PM
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You're insane if you think I'm only interested in Chad - considering that's a slither of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:07 PM
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I'm good with how I look now and love my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:29 PM
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There is little to no expection for men to shave down there, however there is very much an expection for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:22 PM
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Exactly. To have large boobs and a large arse, I would need to put on weight. However, my body naturally distributes fat to my breasts and stomach and my legs and arse stay naturally small and toned - so it doesn't look right. Other women have tiny breasts, even of they were to be obese, so women hit the gym and just look muscular because their hips are narrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:19 PM
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This: only real standard is to be at a healthy weight and have a decent figure. Simply isn't a true. If I stopped shaving and wearing make up, I would really really struggle to get a man to commit to me. I will go as far as saying I would get ridiculed for not shaving my armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:15 PM
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Being picked over a morbidly obese woman isn't some achievement for woman or something to even be proud of. Hi and ask on some women's subs what their experience with hair removal is of you don't believe me, and makeup does not effectively cover spots, and infact makes acne worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:40 PM
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There's certainly a happy middle. I've had a partner who never cried and rarely showed emotion - other than agitation and humour. I've also had a bf who constantly spoke about his feelings and cried frequently. I found it overwhelming and even self absorbed. Both relationships dwindled because both caused me stress in the long run. It's stressful not knowing what your partner is feeling through his 'frame" and it's exhausting having someone constantly talk about themselves and being their emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:22 PM
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Being fit and skinny isnt the ideal female body. Having a ratio and specific fat distribution is. A nice round (preferably big) arse, perky, round tits and a flat, toned stomach. It's not something that most women can get without surgery. Hair removal, again - isn't something all women can achieve. For example no matter what I do to my armit hair - it's will always rash up and go pimply when the hair grows back. Due to hormones we are often prone to acne, which is somewhat of an uphill battle. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:06 PM
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10 years ago, JGL was a regular on r/ladyboners. He was way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:16 PM
1

After how long, in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:41 PM
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That made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:40 PM
1

I'm just not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:38 PM
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That would be a hard no for me because I don't date introverts at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:05 PM
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I think theres three types, and most people experience all three in their life time. The first love. This isn't actually love, this is infactuation an it's very very intense. It's basically your hormones and chemicals going brrr. You're more on love with the idea of love. Subsequently this fizzles out. First attachment: this is maybe your second or third serious relationship, maybe you even live with them at some point. You have a strong attachment to this person but it's not to last for ever, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:01 PM
1

That book came to my mind to. I think the author erroneously misses out the impact hormones have on us. I don't think strength would necessarily make women violent - rather male hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:46 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:01 AM
6

Grow a beard. It looks more masculine and can hide a weak jawline. Shave your hair of if it's receding. Hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:08 AM
1

Currently am
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:05 PM
2

Anti-cat people are needy and have low emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:59 PM
2

It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:48 PM
3

The point of a hug is to be mutually comforting, that's literally the point in them. It's not a favour you do for someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:16 PM
2

Agreed. This is counterproductive to teaching basic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:15 PM
4

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:01 PM

You say this - yet all my friends who broke up with their children's dad's managed to find a new relationship just fine. Some took on the stepdad role, some didn't need to because the kids were older/still saw their own dad's, some had their own kids and made a blended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:04 PM
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Nope, not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:50 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:50 PM
2

Alpha bux - most boyfriends and husband in the west where the relationship starts quite casual and flourishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:54 PM
1

Your post is the epitome of lacking empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:31 AM
4

That's not true. 'landwhales" aren't actually foodies, they get that far from eating shitty junk food. A real foody enjoys good quality food and cooking. It's a valid hobby like any other hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:30 AM
2

Literally anything negative. You have a couple of sentences to write in your profile and you choose to talk about what you don't like? Nah. Anything about being a nerd or liking gaming and anime. Not smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:28 AM
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Disagree that men find it easier to obtain relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:24 AM
1

Strongly disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:26 PM
3

Literally any kink that I don't share. I only have sex that I'm 💯 enthusiastic about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:41 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q0082n/sexlessness_rape/ Strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:44 PM
0

Loving affection and cuddles. You can't beat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:05 PM
1

I've never dated a gamer and hopefully I never will!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:30 PM
1

Thanks for sharing, I had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:15 PM
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Full disclosure - I have thought about this ALOT. For a very long time I dreamt about an MMF and even a gangbang. I fantasised about it constantly. But at the same time, I loved being in a loving, monogamous relationship. One was seven years and the other was four. When the second one finished, I deliberated finding a man who was a cuck so I can Indulge this fetish. It turns out that it's quite a juxtaposition. I like having sex with lots of men, but I feel absolutely no attraction to men who ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:04 PM
1

You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:51 PM
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I don't like this idea. If she meets a 35ypz by the time she's dated him, lived with him and vetted for being a parent - he's late thirties. If you want a second a third kid he's going to be early forties. Lower sperm count, higher chance of autism and physically a wee bit knackered for running around after toddlers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:49 PM
1

2%? Try 0.2%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:47 PM
1

Purely based on looks - men peak at late twenties and then start to decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:44 PM
0

To get my vagina licked, cuddles, have shelves fixed and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:52 PM
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It's the most important physical trait for me. Followed by physique and then height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:48 PM
2

Personally, I want to be attracted to the person I'm dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:42 PM
2

Geese are twats!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:41 PM
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I mean - as long as you can see a woman's body picture in OLD - it's pretty easy to tell if she's over weight or not. Anyone hearing this would make the assumption it's a 'gotcha' - not a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:45 AM
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Don't believe it, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:03 PM
2

I find it hard to believe that any man is deliberately not sleeping with woman, unless he's very religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:48 PM
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Sure, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:43 PM
17

Sure, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:42 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it 'morally'. However, in practical terms the vast majority of women would unmatch if you asked that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:47 PM
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The simple solution is to put in effort and be her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:18 PM
1

This is going to be very subjective. I have female friends that are content without sex and atop having it, then when they start seeing someone they're at it like rabbits for at least a year. I myself function poorly without sex. I start thinking about it obsessively and I get really cranky when I haven't had good sex in a while. A vibrator doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:51 AM
1

Very attractive: he has a body that feels amazing on my hands and has a face I love to hold, gaze into and kiss. He's bomb in the bedroom: he eats pussy with the enthusiasm of a dog eating chips, his cock feels great inside my and he enjoys long sex sessions. He makes me snort laugh, I look forward to seeing him, he gets on well with my friends and they like him, he has a good, solid social group himself. He can hold down a job. He absolutely adores me and it shows. He loves it when I smile and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:48 AM
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First he needs to find a woman several leagues bellow him. When he has that, he will have wondering eyes for girls closer to his league and eventually cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:58 PM
1

I don't really care about marriage, I'll take it or leave it. I will be open a discussion about marriage if it benefits us both financially in someway. If he was adverse to marrying me, I would see it as a red flag, though. I know if I wanted to marry my current bf or either of my exes then they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:02 PM
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"young women don't want 40 year old men". Well according to you, desperate fat ones do. Which we knew all along any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:59 AM
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Omg no, Leo is not handsome. He looks like a potato nowadays. He was very handsome 15-20 years ago. He's a very good actor and charismatic. Understandably, people (men and women) gush over him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:18 PM
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What's funny? I'm not sure what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:15 PM
3

Who has the looks here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:59 PM
0

You thinking that someone calling you gay is an Insult means you're homophobic - duh. If you keep thinking about massive cocks and naked hot men live I think it's fair to assume you're gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:18 PM
1

Being tall is like..so toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:08 PM
1

Please tell me what I would gain from doing that? Men struggle with dating, so what? What can any of us actually do to mitigate the situation for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:07 PM
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Reason #20375# why I'm happy not to be an American.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:01 PM
1

Sounds uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:59 PM
1

Rent free
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:07 PM
0

I thought it was very watchable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:07 PM
0

Cover me in chocolate and feed me to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:06 PM
2

I find it hilarious that they're so clueless about making women cum in porn, they have to get a magic vibrating wand to finish them off. The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:25 PM
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Nah - we still have incels in the UK, NZ and aus. Guys just don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 PM
1

Between 5'5 - 6 with cum gutters and a six pack. Low to no body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:05 PM
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Thanks for exemplifying that no men on here know what a 30yo looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:03 PM
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