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I hate this website, most of it at least. I would leave if there was an alternative with a userbase comparable in size. There was ruqqus but sadly it failed.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:06 PM
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Maybe if you went outside you would see that looks don’t matter. Seeing how many people say "just go outsuide, there are tons of ugly guys with hot girlfriends" is blackpilling in itself, because their idea of an ugly guy is very different than mine.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:07 PM
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What surgery did you have?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 12:31 PM
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I don't think that women are attracted to thugs because they are stupid, but because they are violent.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:40 AM
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They do but as I said, on a legit talk show where content actually matters, she definitely wouldn't be sitting like this wearing this. Thinking that she just happens to show legs almost to her ass and the she is not doing it to draw attention is silly.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:32 PM
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I’ve never heard of an incel actually putting in the effort. That just proves that you don't actually know any incels in real life and are just parroting what you read on reddit like the woman in the video. Most incels I know in real life are college educated and go to the gym.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:27 PM
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It's not a big deal but she wouldn't be sitting like this on a legit talk show. Do you think that it's an accident? This kind of videos always have women showing something, because no one would watch them otherwise.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:40 PM
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She is naming every stereotype except one, hmmm I wonder why she left that one out. Btw it was absolutely necessary for the host to show her legs like that. It seems to me that the woman talking thinks someone cares about what she has to say, but the show is just an excuse for the host to show herself off.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:22 PM
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> sitting 23 hours a day > cheetos, mountain dew > stank smell Who is more likely to tick these boxes, the average incel or her?
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:07 PM
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Are you for real? Most people are nowhere near smart enough to be physicists, not even close. Physicists have an average IQ of about 130. Which means the average physicist is in the top 2.5% smartest people in the world. Look up what Bezos said about why he dropped out of physics. But all of that is off point, as IQ is mostly genetic anyway. So what if there is a million physicists in the world? There is also a million people with perfect pitch. Doesn't mean that you can do anything about having…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 10:31 PM
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Does this mean you can't develop the self-confidence of a fighter, the health of a sprinter Yeah maybe or the intelligence of a physicist? Fucking lol, of course you can't.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 08:59 PM
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What would you have done differently? I think I would've started working out sooner but that's pretty much all I can think of right now.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 08:47 PM
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His hair is going too. Once he shaves it, it's game over. "I hope you had the time of your life."
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 08:37 PM
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Also because of the blatant injustice of life. Imo that's where the concept of reincarnation comes from. Since people don't get what they deserve in this life, they will have their justice (or justice will be done upon them) in the next life.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:56 PM
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incel ideology The ideology of wanting to get laid but not being able to
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:30 PM
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women claiming men have inflated self images Because they find average men ugly.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:25 PM
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Cucked sub site is cucked.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:12 AM
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Bald celebrities like The Rock or Jason Statham aren't relevant to the average man. I love when people bring up Statham as an example of how bald guys can look good and he was literally a model. Losing your hair in your teens or 20s is a social and dating death sentence. Happened to me and I can only agree. When you finally shave your head it's game over. It's like when you realize that you suck at a game and you quit it and say "I'll just play something else". Since I shaved my head women won't…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:06 AM
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It's the same with sex, it is if you don't have any.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 12:55 AM
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Ever heard of other parts of the world where using a gun for self defense is not possible?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:43 AM
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Yes, when I went bald it was pretty much game over.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:05 AM
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Yeah I've been saying this since forever. But people sort of brush it off even though it means that for a not so insignificant percentage of men it's literally impossible to find anyone. When people say that it seems like every girl has a boyfriend but it's not the same for men, it really is true to some extent.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:01 AM
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It skews the other direction past 40. Tbh I don't care what happens past 40 if I'm alone until then.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:53 AM
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No. It never began.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:50 AM
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You don't have to look like that to be disqualified for your looks.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:15 PM
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Meanwhile you're not allowed to say that you find attractive girls attractive, because that means that you only aim for supermodels and you deserve to be alone.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 12:46 AM
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Young men outnumber young women by 4-5%. That's not exactly negligible. Even if everyone was completely monogamous, 1 in 20-25 men would still end up alone.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:02 PM
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"Men are by nature merely indifferent to one another but women are by nature enemies." - Schopenhauer
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:49 PM
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I am sure there will come a point in time when the blackpill will go mainstream, and people will act like its common knowledge. People will go to great lengths to downplay the importance of looks, but when you link a study, the comments are "wow what a surprise, women prefer attractive men."
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 12:16 AM
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Men complain about not being able to get a women. Women complain not being to get the man.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 12:10 AM
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If I could, I would donate 10 cm from my height to a man in need I bet you'd change your mind the first time you'd encounter any sort of conflict with a 184cm man while being 174cm. Not everything is about women. You're not aware of it, but height affects much more than your ability to get laid.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 12:06 AM
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How is that not getting them on looks? It would mean a girl not being interested in you initially because she didn't think you are attractive, and then becoming interested because of your personality.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:05 PM
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So you did get some women on looks alone? How do you know that other ones liked you for things other than your looks?
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 09:47 PM
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I mean I'm short and ugly so it's not like I would be successful with women if I hadn't discovered the black pill The only difference is that we'd still have hope which is not really a good thing given our position.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 09:39 PM
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When I read this kind of posts I usually think they are made up. But after reading a number of stories about a girl "saving herself for marriage" and then fucking an attractive guy on the first date, I'm inclined to believe they are true.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 09:30 PM
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Terarodgers top kek
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 11:56 PM
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Then you have women telling men to see escorts which is sad seeing how 98 percent of women would not date him after this. They wouldn't date him before it either though. The reason why women don't want men who saw an escort is because it means that no woman wanted to have sex with him unless he paid for it. That fact does not change when you actually go and pay for it. Tbh if you're over 30 and had no other options your whole life and probably never will, seeing an escort is not the worst move.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 09:44 PM
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There is the sexy son hypothesis, which basically says that but for sons.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 09:34 PM
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People will tell you what they really think of you only when you're fighting and they don't care if they hurt your feelings. We are constantly told that things like height, baldness and dick size don't matter, but it's the first thing people will go for when they want to destroy you. Even when the subject has nothing to do with dating, for example on a post about a guy causing a car crash or something like that. In that situation it's totally acceptable to say he must have a small dick and every…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 09:32 PM
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Not neccessarily blackpilling, but I remember the moment I realized that the problem was my looks. All my life I didn't think I was ugly. Still, I didn't like my picture taken. When I'd see how I really look in pictures, especially from another angle, I'd be shocked but I'd quickly brush it off. I was deluding myself just like bluepill would have you do. But something happened when I was going through pictures from my bachelors graduation ceremony. Seeing how I look next to people I had been see…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 11:40 PM
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By realizing it's not just me, it's actually not that uncommon nowadays. I see people online saying that everyone around them seems to be in a relationship, but that's not true in my case. Guys from my generation who are below average in height are largely incels.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:48 PM
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And then when men complain about not being able to find anyone, women will project and say it's because they only go for the most attractive women. Because for them not being able to find anyone means not being able to get the guy they want, not actually not being able to find anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:29 PM
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As a bald guy I agree completely. I regret stopping using minoxidil and "just shaving it off". Once you do it it's game over. That bald subreddit ic coping hard.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 09:47 PM
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Same with lifts or hairpieces.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:12 PM
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At this point I'd choose being treated like a man over anything else. Anyone who chooses they'd rather be short clearly has no idea what it really means to be the shortest man wherever you go.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:01 AM
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Sperm banks don't accept sperm from men under 5'10 or something like that, likely because it's not feasible for them due to lack of demand.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 08:51 AM
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You do realize the women here are literal complete sociopath/psychopaths that get off on the suffering of those that they consider beneath them. This is the answer. It's the same reason why women go to /r/smalldickproblems, they enjoy having the high ground.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:23 AM
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She may have lied to you about her past because she correctly knew you'd freak out about it. Yeah because that is a perfectly reasonable reason to freak out about.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 08:07 PM
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But I thought that being short and bald doesn't matter
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:08 PM
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The fact that the face vs height debate still goes on only proves that both are equally important. That is, equaliy important in dating. In general, height is more important because even if you're ugly people will at least treat you like a man.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 10:59 PM
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Don't forget shortcels
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:03 AM
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Relative privation fallacy:
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:59 AM
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Not the person you responded to but I've completed nofap 3 months many times. It makes you horny, which is not surprising, and that's it. Everything else is a load of shit. Especially "semen retention" lol.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:49 AM
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If you, as a man, are called a “good guy” it means that you have ZERO redeeming qualities and women just have to think of something to not make you feel bad. If you get called a nice guy it seems that you're choosing to be nice which is a virtue which deserves a compliment. But in reality guys who get called nice are completely harmless and couldn't do any damage even if they wanted to, which makes the "compliment" completely meaningless.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:22 AM
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There was a study saying what I said, can't be bothered to look it up.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:57 PM
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People agree who is at both ends of the scale (ugly and beautiful), and there is some variance for those in between.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:29 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/799446/resident-population-of-nyc-by-sex-and-age/ That's interesting, in NYC there really are more women than men in 20-30 bracket, despite the usual ~5% more boys at birth. I've never seen this before, why is that so?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:21 PM
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It's naturally 5%, it's just human biology. In China it's twice as much.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:16 PM
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5% difference at birth is not so small when you think about it. In 20-30 age range the difference is say 4%. It means that about 1 in 25 men would still end up alone even in a theoretical case where everyone is 100% monogamous which would benefit bottom of the barrel men the most. Remember we're only talking about what is theoretically possible here, not taking into account the usual reasons why men end up alone in reality.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 06:50 PM
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Because wrist size is an indicator of frame. It's not that having small wrists will hinder you from putting on muscle, but having a small frame will.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 11:04 PM
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Historically? Men used to be held to a reasonable standard. Also throughout most of history, arranged marriages were the norm.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 08:28 PM
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66, cyborg. I don't fit literally anywhere.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 12:15 AM
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Most women are married to men they're only kind of sexually attracted to. And that's because they could not get commitment from the men they really wanted or were really sexually attracted to. That is why women think that incels only want the hottest women. "What else could be the reason that you are alone? I mean if you wanted to, you would've surely found someone, right? You better settle for someone who wasn't your first choice like the rest of us buddy boyo!"
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 11:22 PM
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I agree with everything you said, but I think there is a bigger problem with "I see unattractive guys with girlfriends" and that is that I literally don't see them. People who say this clearly have a different idea of what an unattractive guy is.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:23 PM
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It's more likely you'll find a good match from 1500 than from 5.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 10:18 AM
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> have made zero attempt to adapt to the times > They don't want to do anything to better themselves > they overvalue themselves > expect better than they are Literally 0/4 for the vast majority of incels, and I've been on these boards for years, and know a number of incels in real life.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 08:05 PM
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Average dick is around 5 inches today* It was possibly less than that, 28000 years of sexual selection ago.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 08:05 PM
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For what price? Do you think that if they really cured baldness they wouldn't squeeze every last billion out of it?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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those who deny female dual mating strategy Those are mostly incels in denial who think that if they distance themselves enough from incels who are not in denial, women will not see them as incels.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:38 PM
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If it actually worked there is absolutely no way that it would be affordable for most people.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:30 PM
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Are you realistically going after women who might be into you? Or are you in your mind getting angry because some 5’10, bombshell with big perky t*ts won’t talk to you? Fuck you. I don't care if this gets removed, this is fucking insulting. Ironic that WE are the ones who are constantly told to "go outside", but we're regularly hit with shit like this.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 09:28 PM
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these same guys spouting this crap are also saying they shouldn’t have to date people below their standards Do they? All I see is guys saying they don't want to date overweight women if they're not overweight themself. Which is perfectly reasonable and not at all comparable to "only wanting tall chads".
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:42 PM
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My biggest problem with this is equating controlling weight for women with gaining muscle for men. After all the hard work, how much muscle mass you will actually gain is limited and ultimately not up to you.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 01:43 PM
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I'm bald but I also can't grow a proper beard.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 12:02 AM
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I always say this regarding going bald. It started when I was as a teen, and it seemed like the end of the world at the time. At some point I realized that the only thing it will affect is success with women. And considering that was zero in the first place, it will make no difference like you said. After that I stopped giving a shit and it really is liberating.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:43 PM
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You're joking but there was a study which showed that blind people care just as much about physical appearance.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:35 PM
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We gain 80+% of information about the world though sight but people will lose their shit over the notion that physical appearance will affect mate choice to a similar degree.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 10:46 PM
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But if the man of their dreams becomes abusive, they'll claim that they're not psychic, couldn't have known In my experience, guys who were the most desired by women were not necessarily the best looking or tallest, but it was those who were the most aggressive or straight up violent. While those who never got any attention whatsoever were regularly at the receiving end of said violence. Couldn't have known? They did know just fine. I'm sure those men demonstrated who they are plenty of times. I…
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 10:44 PM
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Your attractiveness or any other facet of your personality is not static. Like height? Bone structure? The amount of hair I got? The ability to put on muscle mass? Core memories from my formative years which were largely determined by aforementioned supposedly non-static features?
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 07:17 PM
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Birth rates are declining in the west though.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 11:44 AM
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She believed feminist propaganda and thought every man lived like 8+ chad. Apex fallacy. Other men don't even register as men to them.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 05:15 PM
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Doesn't matter because it's unlikely you will ever get to the point where a woman will see it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 07:39 PM
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Knowing all there is to know about women? "Cracking the code"? It's simply observing what kind of men women choose. If you don't have features which make those men attractive, knowing what those features are will not help you much as most of them are immutable.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 12:01 AM
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Uh, that was about 60 years ago like just 2 decades after WWII...when even a square beta provider could easily snag a decent-looking wife. There might be some truth to dark triad and status playing a part in it, but this is the main reason. If those girls had access to as many men as girls today have, they wouldn't give a shit about him.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 12:24 AM
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Exactly, "get better at oral" means that your dick really is useless.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 12:17 AM
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Blackpill "followers" seem to be inexperienced in dating? No way!
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 02:58 PM
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Also their idea of what is an ugly man is not the same as yours.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 12:03 AM
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I'd find a guy who was a virgin until 30 or late 20s and ask him what he did to turn it around. Most likely nothing but women his age started looking for a betabux.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 11:59 PM
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Don't forget mental issues. On boards discussing mental issues you will see women in relationships much more often than men in relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 08:05 PM
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I know plenty of incels working in STEM who are quite successful.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:47 PM
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If only there was some way to go to a place where the receptive response rate of women is higher. Are you really suggesting this as a viable solution? Even if you go to a place where the standard of living is lower, women will not be actually interested to you, but in your socioeconomic status. How is that different than prostitution? Also attractiveness is extremely subjective when it comes to women's attraction to men. Lol even blind people still prefer people who are universally attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:44 PM
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I never knew that guys who can't get laid are supposed to be woman haters until I got on reddit. In real life literally every single one was a stereotypical high inhib nerd.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 11:13 PM
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So a man could get rejected by 99.99% of the young women in a narrow age group and still fuck more pussy than he can handle. On boards like this you can see guys who approached 500 women in their lifetime and every single one rejected them. Do you really think each furter attempt will bring him closer to one which will not reject him by process of elimination? No, it will only further reinforce the possilibity that no one ever will be interested. Attractiveness for the most part is not subjectiv…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:15 PM
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small dicked When someone makes a serious post about problems due to having a small dick, everyone pretends that they wouldn't use this against him in an argument. They know this is the ultimate insult as you can't do anything about him.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:52 PM
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And now do a video without showing so much cleavage and see how many people care.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:40 PM
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I know. I'm just saying because there is probably a lot of people who come to reddit in order to vent or share experiences with others who are in a similar situation, but don't want to be attacked or be forced to justify themselves all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 06:01 PM
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When you block a user, you don't see their posts or comments anymore, and they can't see yours. Just saying.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:54 PM
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This. Status/money will maybe make her willing to date you, not actually want you, which is a big difference.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:56 AM
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I don't get looks of disgust, women simply don't look at me. And if we happen to make eye contact, they immediately look away.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:53 AM
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There are plenty men who treat women like shit who can get women just fine. It's almost like there is an another trait which determines whether you get women or not.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 12:53 AM
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Volcel if you're not putting on the blue suit.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 11:21 PM
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Same except I went bald a lot sooner. Since that happened I can't even make eye contact with women when out in public. It's not that they were checking me out often before, but now it literally never happens. If you're not one of few people who can actually pull it off, balding young = game over. There is the bald subreddit which encourages guys to shave their head instead of doing every treatment they can to postpone it for as long as possible. I regret not looking into treatment when I was you…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:06 AM
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They say this because they know when a woman says she can't find anyone, it's not that she actually can't find anyone, but she can't find someone who meets her standards. So when a man says he can't find anyone, he must be also only aiming for women who are out of his league. Projection.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 12:55 AM
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I haven't been on this sub for long. And btw I don't think this sub is gonna last very long.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 06:28 PM
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I can't remember the last time I saw the word mogs on reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 06:24 PM
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We gain 80% of the information about the world through sight. The purpose of life in terms of biology is to survive and reproduce. Why it is so difficult then to accept that the sense of sight will also play a dominant role in choosing a partner?
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 01:00 AM
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If you're a khhv I don't think you'll be able to hide the fact that you're kissing or having sex for the first time.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 12:38 AM
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Preselection. I don't know how many times already I've heard a story like this one.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 12:35 AM
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You see this all the time on reddit, but I have yet to see a SINGLE instance of this in real life. Women seem to be unable to think of a reason why men would be unable to find anyone ever when it comes so natural to them. That's where all the stereotypes come from. Do you smell? Do you look like a hobo? Do you tell women they belong in the kitchen? I mean just go out and don't turn down every girl who hits on you. What do you mean that doesn't happen? You just don't notice them because you are o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 04:33 PM
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Which suggests that men who are at least 183 cm tall would, on average, prefer women who are taller than 170 cm. That is like top 10%. What about other 90%? Come on, do you seriously believe that for women <170, their height will affect their ability to find a man in the slightest? How many couples do you see where the man is taller and how many where the woman is taller?
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 11:26 PM
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Alright in this specific industry taller women are preferred. So what? You also can't be an astronaut if you're too tall, does that mean that tall people are treated worse? There are countless other examples like this. Evolutionarily, above-average leg length is associated with higher fitness. The thing is, men are the ones who are being selected for height, not women. There is a study on this sub which says men prefer women 7cm shorter than themselves while women prefer men 25cm taller.
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 11:08 PM
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What does this have to do with what men prefer?
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 10:45 PM
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Taller women (170 to 180 cm) are objectively preferable Since when?
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 10:39 PM
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Monogamy was invented precisely to counteract this. Since monogamy in the old fashioned sense is not enforced anymore, yes, we're sort of heading back to ooga booga state of things. Which btw is not sustainable in a civilized society. Now what does normal mean? It is natural. But if we're going for that argument, since men are physically stronger then women, there are things which arise from that power balance which are also natural but would not be considered "normal".
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 04:27 PM
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How does being short negatively affect women? Do men prefer tall women? Are shorter women less likely to have children? Are women expected to be able to defend themselves or their partner so being short is a disadvantage? No, all of these are a short man's plight. I brought this up on /r/short and it immediately got deleted.
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 04:06 PM
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Also when women learn a guy is a virgin it's game over. "Why would I want this guy if no other woman wanted him?" Not all of them, but there are so many stories of this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:58 PM
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There was a study about this. Basically everyone agrees that hot people are hot and ugly people are ugly, and there is some variance for people in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:20 PM
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I have the theory that there's a threshold for looks, and beyond that personality matters more If the first requirement is looks, and personality comes into play only if the requirement has been fulfilled, which matters more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:05 PM
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So if you're attractive you can worsen your status by being a hobo. I mean obviously, so what? Almost no one who tries to date is a hobo. The majority is doing what they can to improve their appearance. If your problem is physical appearance, most likely it's the things you cannot change. And not the fact that you haven't yet read a reddit comment telling you to cut your hair and take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:02 PM
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Edgy. Google it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:00 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4NwTJFOm8M
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:52 PM
1

Remember that cashier from target?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:44 PM
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You get used to it and aging is brutal. Yes after living a life filled with people that care about you. I'm not reading any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:05 PM
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Except in the adult world women can escalate a conflict A LOT further than a 4 year old equivalent man could before getting his ass kicked. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:56 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:49 PM
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(11) No Incel/Black Pill Content I use a different layout.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:43 PM
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we are literally in an incel sub right now. Lol rule 11. Show me a single sub of this type which doesn't have this rule. Yes Equating those two things pretty much settles the debate this sub is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:34 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen is a sub which mocks a specific type of women. Do you think it's justifiable for a 35 year old woman with kids from different men to have a (unreasonable) list of demands for potential dates, like she's listing specs of a car she's looking to buy? Do you seriously think that it's the same as men complaining about being rejected for 25 years? The male equivalent would be a guy complaining that porn actresses are not knocking on the door of his mother's basement to ask him…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:07 PM
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Why not just read the article? There is like 30 of them only on that list which doesn't include all countries. Also your North America cop out is wrong. Jamaica and Panama for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:37 PM
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Being allowed to complain about not finding a mate. Also, women are allowed to complain about not finding the kind of men they want. But when a man dares to complain about not being able to get any women at all, he is instantly the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:12 PM
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This fact is the reason why you cannot physically retaliate against women. And that means they can get away with a lot more than a man would. Gives them a sort of physical immunity. Remember this exchange from Friday? Deebo : It's best for you to take your ass home. Debbie : I'M NOT SCARED OF YOU! All these niggas around here might be scared of you, but I'm not. Deebo : [Throws the bike and stands up] YOU TAKE YOUR ASS HOME! Debbie : NO, FUCK YOU! You're lucky I'm not a man, otherwise I kick yo …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:51 PM
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No idea :/
/r/BlackPillScience04/02/22 09:28 PM
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well dressed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:37 PM
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Under 30 there is like 4-5% more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:28 PM
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Yeah, redditors' "I know an ugly guy who slays" is more reliable than anonymous statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:18 PM
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You can argue that beauty is (to an extent) subjective, but the impact on male height on dating success is one of the things which are not debatable. It's a fact. Nevermind red pill, blue pill, online dating, hipergamy, yada yada yada, from an anthropological standpoint - tall men are more likely to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:00 PM
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Imagine what it's like for a 56-year-old woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 05:20 PM
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One of the things this sub is "debating" about is are women privileged in dating, but at the same time men moving to another country to land a woman is considered a genuine solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:40 AM
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we are at a higher risk of being assaulted I'm absolutely one hundred percent sure that every men you ever met had to physically defend himself more times than any women you ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:22 AM
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Not in that words, but they en masse deny rejecting ugly men for their looks. If they all straight up said "no way I'd spend my life with an ugly dude" that would pretty much settle the debate this sub is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:11 PM
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If women were generally as honest as you in this comment this sub would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:12 PM
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I'm not reading all that. He obviously isn't an incel by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:48 PM
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Because my first husband was(still is) invoulutary celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:08 PM
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If you've never spent time in any incel community then don't talk about a topic you know nothing about. Lool it's me who should say that. The subreddits were NOTHING like .is. I spent a lot of time in those subs but don't visit .is because of content like that. Run that karma breakdown bot on me if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:40 AM
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True. Saying women lie about what they are attracted to is not misogyny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:11 AM
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Judging incels based on honeypot.is is like judging white people based on kk k. Everyone is aware that this obviously is not your average incel, but they will still insist that a guy who can't get laid is not actually ugly but women can sense that he has views like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:58 PM
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You can see what people get together outside closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:34 PM
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Not a stereotype. Just what happens from my experience. My real life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:38 PM
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FDS or even reddit is not representative of all women, but people who post on honeypot.is are representative of all incels. Maybe it's different in the US, but every single incel I've ever known, myself included, was a stereotypical goody two shoes nerd. I never knew that guys who can't get women are supposed to be assholes until I got on reddit. If anything, people used to tell me that I should be more of an asshole if I wanted to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:29 PM
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There are studies about women being attracted to bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:04 AM
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Stop getting mad at biology. To the contrary, we're getting mad at people denying biology. If women were to admit to 80:20 as you just did, this sub would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:02 AM
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And the reason why they put on makeup which mimics arousal is because it's fun to put on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:54 AM
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50k karma Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:47 AM
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Maybe not short per se but definitely below average. In some parts of the world the average is >180 cm, especially for young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:38 AM
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Every woman I knew who made a point of expressing her preference for kind, caring men ended up dating a typical tough guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:31 AM
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Lol they most definitely don't. It they did we wouldn't have these discussions where I'm painted the bad guy because women don't find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 AM
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I don't expect it to make it better. But being told it's not true makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:00 AM
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tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:32 PM
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Do you think there is a guy who isn't already aware of this? Society is not going to somehow be rearranged in such a way that a girl youre attracted to is going to be with you enthusiastically. I don't want society to change in a way which would force women to be with me. I want people to have the decency to say "Yes, women don't want you because of the way you were born. Yes, women don't want you because you're ugly. Yes, women lie about these things."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah me too. Except for occasional trolls, but those posts get removed immediately anyway. She is just repeating bullshit accusations she read on reddit which would justify hating incels if they were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:20 PM
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The direction of causality is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:16 PM
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regularly post online that it should be legal to rape children(as in literal 5 years olds) Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:09 PM
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This. Women have no idea really how much sex drive influences a man's life. What kind of question is that anyway? "Why not spend the best years of your life alone?" "Why not wait until both you and your partner are past your peak?" "Why not wait for your sex drive to start declining to start having sex?" "Why not wait 10 years to date a woman who wouldn't give you the time of day before?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:10 PM
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Keep wearing your slouchy grey tracksuits I don't. and getting buzz cuts I'm bald. women have a greater opportunity to peacock and look pretty thanks to fashion and beauty standards. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:22 AM
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Lol not even remotely comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:15 AM
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Lol not even remotely comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:15 AM
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Lol not even remotely comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:15 AM
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They have to come off eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:32 PM
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Not strictly related to the topic but take a look at this: https://www.populationpyramid.net/world/2019/ Look at age brackets when dating is most relevant. For example, in the 20-24 bracket, world average is that there is about 6.5% more men then woman. That's six point five percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:46 PM
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I have observed that physically unattractive people tend to also be unattractive in the inside That's called the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:39 AM
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Or, the same does not apply for women. I agree with the general pretty privilege, but the more specific claims in the first study like this one unattractive men who provide unusual or alarming information in their profiles may not receive a second glance from women does not apply for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:53 PM
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Why does the study only account for men? Find a study which shows the same for women and I will not contradict it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:40 PM
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Funny how women insist that men only want virgins, but suddenly it's only 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:51 PM
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Lol no. Lol yes. See how easy it is to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:43 PM
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"Women forgive attractive men, tolerate unattractive only up to a point"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:13 PM
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I'm in the same boat but older. For me, the answer is pretty much no, largely due to the reasons you stated. I'm not interested in women who wouldn't even look at me ten years ago dating me for resources. One thing you didn't mention is work which is one of the biggest differences between life as a teen and life as an adult. Btw, reddit can't handle biology and it's guaranteed to make responses hostile so I suggest leave it out if you want genuine advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:16 AM
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It's a fact of biology. Before you get triggered, the same also applies for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:50 AM
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The only difference is that men are not allowed to cover up their physical flaws like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:49 PM
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Almost anyone would. They want a woman makes a minimum of 40k+. And a woman whose income will grow over time. is nothing more than projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:46 PM
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I never understood why people think that writing "I know a short/ugly/whatever guy who slays" online is a good argument. Well I know no guys like that, and I never had. Now what? Do short guys slay or not? Your word against mine. Since neither of us can prove it, it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:45 PM
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Who do the leftover young men date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:32 PM
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You know what's the actual ratio in real life? There is 5% more boys born than girls. The ratio evens out only at like 40. Women live longer on average and that's why is there more (older) women in total. But at the age when dating is most relevant there is significantly more men than women. Even if everyone was perfectly monogamous, there would still be men who would end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:47 PM
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hit the gym, get some nicer clothes, or fix their hair Implying that men who think that appearance is critical don't already do this and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:39 PM
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And I'm saying that all of that is not important if he is facially attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:36 PM
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Yeah waitresses and cashiers only get hit on by men who are waiters and cashiers themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:26 PM
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short, nerdy, skinny, long haired, baby faced, agreeable, openly compassionate, with androgynous fashion and effeminate mannerisms This says nothing about how good looking you are though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:13 PM
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To me, it suggests a man who is either not particularly interested in or curious about sex (and as such incompatible with me), a devout member of a religious tradition that forbids premarital sex (and as such incompatible with me), or has such exacting and specific standards in a partner that it's doubtful I'd meet them (meaning he wouldn't want me anyway). There is also a fourth option which is by far the most common one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:00 AM
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Or without sugar coating, if he was able to get laid but didn't because of for example religious reasons, that's fine. But if wanted to get laid but couldn't because no woman found him attractive enough, that's a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:52 AM
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What kind of logic is this? All women get to be in their teens in their 20s. What does being average has to do with age? And how fat they are or aren't is up to them. While a lot of men never get to have traits which would get them attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:44 PM
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objective physical attractiveness B-but I thought that beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/BlackPillScience19/08/21 09:43 PM
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Ruqqus.
/r/BlackPillScience19/04/21 11:56 PM
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So, similar to chimpanzees?
/r/BlackPillScience11/09/20 11:57 PM
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"Men are by nature merely indifferent to one another; but women are by nature enemies." -Schopenhauer
/r/BlackPillScience11/09/20 11:46 PM
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If you're not big enough, they will reject you right there as soon as you drop your pants. Look up /r/smalldickproblems.
/r/BlackPillScience26/02/20 08:32 PM
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There is literally all kinds of women in porn, but men are pretty much of one type.
/r/BlackPillScience22/02/20 06:52 PM
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I wonder how psychopathy male would rank here. The scale would probably need to be adjusted.
/r/BlackPillScience04/02/20 06:09 PM
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Did they give an official explanation anywhere? What exactly is so shocking and offensive?
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 06:50 PM
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I'm guessing you don't have sex because you can't get any woman, but I'm convinced that she didn't have sex because she couldn't get the man who she wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/20 11:53 PM
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mrw
/r/BlackPillScience02/01/20 10:45 PM
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Women prefer masculine faces even more after being exposed to male-male competition/violence*
/r/BlackPillScience23/06/19 05:26 PM
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Possibly it's a signal of high testosterone?
/r/BlackPillScience23/06/19 03:41 PM
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Beauty is a natural superiority. - Plato
/r/Chadfish20/06/19 09:53 AM
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If the claim is that incels can't get a single date because their personality, even anecdotes where get dates by saying dumb shit are enough to disprove that.
/r/Chadfish18/06/19 09:14 PM
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Women's preference for tall men is one of the things that has been researched so well that it's not debatable anymore. Men increase and women decrease their n count when asked.
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/19 06:47 PM
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They think this. Internet made it possible to know what they really think.
/r/BlackPillScience07/05/19 05:49 PM
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The point.
/r/BlackPillScience04/05/19 08:27 PM
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I would argue that most women really don't care about height We can discuss anything, but this has been studied so well that it's not a matter of opinion (even if you want to pretend that you don't see real life). http://humboldt-dspace.calstate.edu/bitstream/handle/2148/624/ThesisFinal.pdf http://research.similarminds.com/romantic-height-preferences-in-men-and-women/227 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3546926/ http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0192513X13519256 http://res…
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 07:34 PM
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All women were young once, while a lot of men are never tall. The same women complaining about men seeking young women did not complain when they were young themselves.
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 08:15 PM
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I don't know shit about neuroscience, but it always seemed to me that claiming that sex differences are a social construct goes against evolution. For thousands of years, men were out there killing or getting killed, while women were at home giving birth and taking care of children, simply because of biological differences. How could their brains not evolve independently when their roles were so different?
/r/BlackPillScience10/04/19 05:51 PM
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Before. But I'd argue that they would find them a whole new level of attractive if they'd witness them winning a fight.
/r/BlackPillScience27/03/19 07:30 PM
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That's the solution then? Are you impliying that being pushy will universally result in more sex? Just don't take no for an answer bro.
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/19 03:40 PM
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Money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 11:17 PM
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Orgasm from masturbation is chemically not the same as orgasm from sex.
/r/BlackPillScience24/01/19 08:14 PM
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That doesn't mean he wouldn't fuck them. "Standards" means who you go for, not who you find attractive. Who you find attractive is not a decision.
/r/BlackPillScience17/01/19 06:52 PM
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I first read thas as "now I'm chadless".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/18 07:30 PM
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Is it me or something about the picture is off? Some filter?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/18 07:25 PM
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It's not even the same because all women are young once. Those women being butthurt about men preferring young women were once young women themselves. They had a shot then. On the other hand a lot of men never get to be attractive, tall or rich.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/18 10:35 PM
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I know, frankly my immediate reaction to the title was "ew". I was then genuinely surprised that that wasn't other people's reaction... I mean no offence to people who have large age gaps in their relationships, by the way - love knows no boundaries, etc., and happening to fall in love with someone in a different generation is one thing. Consistently seeking out women of a certain age despite your own advancing age makes Johnny Depp look a bit creepy Top kek. Women are so scared of the fact that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/18 07:37 PM
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and I've gone on dates with about 10 people. But I've only felt a physical connection with one or two of them. not eight of them:two of them You can't make this shit up. Literally 80:20, straight from the horse's mouth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/18 12:06 AM
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Good Looking = Good Person. Always. No matter what. Halo effect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/18 12:12 PM
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she says things like "I wish we had gotten together so long ago" or "Why didn't I do this so much sooner" Because back then she looked good enough that men who she wanted also wanted her, and now those men are choosing younger women over her. She did this "much sooner", just not with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/18 12:01 PM
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What I find unusual is how she's vocal about her partner's genetics. Women usually say completely opposite, but their actions show that they actually think the same as this woman. For example height preference. When asked why they want a tall guy, a lot of women actually say it's because of high heels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/18 12:17 AM
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Similar: "Woman love nice guys, we don't understand how much we love them until we're a little older" lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 12:06 AM
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That happened because without arranged marriage women started to choose men on their own. The Impact and Importance of Height on Mate Selection "I argue that practices such as arranged marriages and political disenfranchisement of women, which were common in Europe until late 19th century, suppressed the effect of sexual selection for height. However, as European cultures became more socially progressive, sexual equality increased, allowing innate mate selection preferences to be expressed more …
/r/MGTOW04/01/18 09:57 PM
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Show me one legitimate scientific study which supports claims about "benefits" of semen retention. And I don't mean shit like this but actual scientific papers.
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 06:27 PM
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Comment on the video from op: And in case you are a slightly moronic poster: This is an ironic humorous commercial - not a new broad cast nor official information by the government
/r/MGTOW29/08/16 12:52 AM
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I agree, but that's the way it is.
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 10:09 PM
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it's just sticking your dick in a wet hole It's not just sticking your dick in a wet hole. It means a woman found you attractive enough to let you stick your dick in her wet hole. Big difference.
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 11:23 AM
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Realize that once you get passed 'getting laid' there's a whooooole lot of bullshit that comes with relationships. I imagine, but in order so see that you have to actually get laid.
/r/MGTOW16/05/16 10:12 PM
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It like when people ask me do I have a girlfriend or when will I find one. I mean I get it when my mom asks me that, but I don't get why other people ask that. What's in it for you?
/r/MGTOW15/05/16 05:42 PM
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As a former poster there I have to reply. I bet that none of you are 20, 30, 40+ virgins. You weren't MGTOW when you were a teen. You were a horny kid like everyone else. Your mind was occupied with girls and sex, naturally. By the time you were 20-25, you experienced sex, relationships, someone actually being into you. At some point you decided to go your own way because you've seen both sides of the coin and concluded you're better off alone. Now imagine that you've never even seen the other s…
/r/MGTOW11/05/16 02:28 AM
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Lifting won't fix your teeth or being bald though.
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