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Tomboy pill = women who are outwardly masculine but have a feminine side exclusive to you. The patrician's choice. Masculine women = women who are masculine and reject their femininity. The plebian's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:51 AM
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Serial casual sex(for man)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:49 AM
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Men say far worse shit to other men than they do to women. Men(and women but mostly men) also have a hierarchal system and sometimes attempt to who they consider sub-ordinates to get an upper hand. This isn't personal, just strategic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:34 AM
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Nah, other things in life also exist except sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:02 AM
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Virgin and 30 is pretty ngmi, maybe not for sex(prost if he's that desperate) but that completely hollows a person's soul, specially the lack of friends/reaffirmation about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:44 PM
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Dating apps have a vested interest in keeping men swiping and paying for their subscription bullshit. I don't know why you'd expect success there if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:36 PM
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Can't be in a friend zone if you aren't a friend https://imgur.io/gallery/jzErjg7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:42 AM
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Being rejected is not a choice. Being friendzoned is, I would never allow myself to stoop so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:27 AM
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Oh come on, you know the answer, stop sneaking in a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:02 PM
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Everyone settles in some Way on their partner and that doesn’t mean there’s no “truly loving” even though the person is not your ideal. Setting in trp/ppd context is primarily about women having access for sex to higher quality men(better looking, more masculine etc), but being unable to convert that to relationships and instead having to "settle" for someone worse. Most men cannot have sex above their value value as they aren't choosers by default, so they don't /can't settle. Settling isn't ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:48 PM
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You misunderstand what women seek. They don't swap from seeking alphas to seeking betas(providers), it's just that commitment generally brings equilibrium to dating standards. In other words, they cannot reasonably commit to those that let them fuck. Women admire both 1) Sexual dimorphic masculine qualities and 2) Providing for her(financially/emotionally/and to an extent even mentally; decisions). Those "gigachads" that are the combination of these two are very rare, and consequently taken off …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:29 PM
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Social perceptions feed into that - women are less likely to be regarded as "real" gamers or the games that more women play as "real" games. I'd say that it's more based on dedication to a particular activity than gender roles. Someone who plays video games for four hours a day is a "gamer", while someone who has games on their phone to pass time might be a gamer but won't label themselves as such as it's not a major part of their life; it's based upon perceived interest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:51 PM
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Well it can, but if you go it into thinking no will be the default answer(it will be) then it shouldn't be that bad. You're basically doing a monotonous task at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:02 PM
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Not a redpiller but the point of cold approaches isn't to get dates, it to shatter shyness. Your first "no" for an answer is scary. Your 30th, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xrxwuc/comment/iqjk5do/ Third paragraph. It's disrespectful if the woman is a known trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:20 AM
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Easier options
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:18 AM
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Lol no For marriage you need someone who can also run a household to a relatively good degree and seems like a good mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:25 PM
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women sleep around when their younger, they’ll face the consequences when their older in life Difficult time holding relationships aside, it's fairly easy to fake being chaste if you really try(so long as you don't have an obvious digital footprint). I’ve been given is simply a man won’t want her. But, in all seriousness, who would even want to be with a man that considers your only value to be how close to a virgin you are. Just because men value chastity and lower n count doesn't mean we think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:16 PM
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Men date "down" when horny hypergamy ??? Men ALWAYS date up aesthetically when they can and when they can't they wish they could and would. if they could. STOP gaslighting. Men ALL want attractive woman , often more attractive than them. Mix this with. the documented of men overrating their looks etc and you get the picture. Hypergamy is being attracted to(near solely) to people of superior socio-economic background(status essentially) Men wanting attractive women doesn't make them hypergamous. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:08 PM
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No shit, that's one of the prime reasons why. Males have small gametes and their reproductive refractory period is smaller compared to women. 1)Hypergamy is required for evolution and no I don't hate it or portray it in a negative light, I simply refuted the above poster to their false definition of the word. 2) Read my entire convo with that person(if it isn't deleted/shadowmuted)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:03 PM
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It's truly amazing how ppd women they think the pool of men who cannot get dates are comprised of incel neet lazy fucks. It's like they have an intrinsic mechanism that defends them from the true inequalities of the world, since it might mentally disturb them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:24 AM
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hypergamy = hypocrites It's a biological thing so hypocrisy(voluntary pretext) doesn't apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:53 AM
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They aren't my equal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:37 AM
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"You remind me of my dad!" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CdqMZ_s7Y6k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:31 AM
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Virgin because awkward = it's over. Virgin because you found your calling = cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:28 AM
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We went from the n count doesn't matter To Men do it at the same time To I'm sure there are studies that show men do it higher. Nice post op, the amount of cope here is enough to run a gas chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:37 AM
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Who's willow?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:11 AM
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Try finding someone who is also religious(and always was, god forbid you find one of the "reformed" people) It's harder but the reward is superior
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:08 AM
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That's not even an accurate summary of the pill ideologies Blue pill doesn't exist, it's a framing device used by the red pill to colloquially mean "normies" or mainstream advice. The only people who talk about BP are RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:02 AM
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Cba searching my post history for another proof of me shitting on rpers to verify that, go believe what you gotta believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:12 AM
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Dictionary definition. Plus again, not rp :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:41 AM
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It existed pre rp/internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:33 AM
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Hypergamy isn't an rp concept lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:40 AM
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It's always framed as bad here so Rpers consider it bad/an obstacle to their goals but it has an evolutionary purpose. and your quoted comment would have been simpler to copy and paste rather than link Wanted to show proof that I'm not changing my views to suit my needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:39 AM
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Most professionals/college grads date someone with a similar educational background. It's simply not as important as you think it is or wish it would be. Also, I'm not RP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:37 AM
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I quoted my own comment to say(with proof before your convo) that i dont think it's bad, I simply disagree that hypergamy isn't real Women aren't Hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:34 AM
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are our only value Are what we value, what see seek and what you are is not the same. Also what did i say that was wrong? That women don't date down socioeconomically?. We do care about careers just not to the extent that women do. Most rich people indeed do not marry college aged barista's for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:10 AM
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da men's can't be hypergamous Yes becuz hYperGaMy bad and only whymans is bad No https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xpslxt/comment/iq6mf4j/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:07 AM
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Also part of hypergamy is only/primarily being attracted to a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Men cannot be hypergamous because they are attracted to people with average looks and superior ones (gay males also)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:46 AM
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socio economic standards Also hypergamy is defined as the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Applies to women 1000x more than men. Obviously people want the theoretical best possible to them, that isn't hypergamy. Marrying a college aged barista is marrying down but all aspects except looks. Arguably looks is the most important thing from a male pov and that's correct, but that isn't hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:40 AM
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It's different because the sexes are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:50 AM
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It's a biological algorithm that aids in evolution, all female animals have it to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:45 AM
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Hypergamy isn't about just pursuing the best possible partner, it's only being attracted to someone with higher socio-economic status. Basically someone who is superior to you in pretty much all standings. Men happily date down while women don't for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:44 AM
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It's a biological algorithm that aids in evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:42 AM
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This isn't unique to any country or group. Ethnostates and primarily monocultural societies have wayyy less infighting compared to those being shared by multiple ethnic residents. Was south africa a western style democracy before this happened? It's not based upon democracy but upon the fact that the majority will try to impose rules that benefit their culture for obvious reasons. Democracy just helps fuel this through a officially recognised process. Modern europe is fine. lol iran is currently…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:22 PM
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Immigrants(specially non Asian ethnicity) keep their culture and if they replace western societies, they still will just impose their own country's traditional ethos upon the western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:17 PM
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Yes of course they all were there, but infidelity being publically shamed and destroying your future prospects and commitment being more of the norm is superior than current western society where birth rates are declining and commitment is unnecessary due to liberation. It leads to mass immigration and eventual cultural collapse.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 05:15 PM
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It was, at least in the sexual morality aspect + more stable birth rates(currently below replacement for western countries)
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 03:47 PM
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Well people who preach body positivity somehow try to counter the shame with "encouragement". This leads to fat people aligning with themselves with the "body positivity crowd" even if the name itself is a misnomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:43 AM
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Stoicism doesn't work, it's self tyranny; pretending that the problems that by their nature affect you, do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:58 AM
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Korea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:57 AM
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Yeah TRP has a very specific western party city focus but never says it does. Imagine using TRP in India or Brazil lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:56 AM
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Oh and a further point, you do know that immigrants from all non western countries do bring and usually keep their culture right? The endpoint will be 1)Back to the norm 2) Heavy central regulation towards population control 3) Singularity (probably not)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:40 AM
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Of course both of those options are acceptable to me. Why wouldn’t they be? Because it leads to infighting and catering to people who aren't yours, once your population is small enough they can take control and aren't as charitable/altruistic as the natives. For example see whites in South Africa or the miserable state of modern europe where ethnic groups keep using it for their own religious conflicts and the natives cannot do anything or exert control in their own country to get shit solved. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:36 AM
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So do you agree with the point that non western countries are doing better than western ones? Do you think they have a better future? Non western countries aren't doing better but they have a future which western countries do not, unless the future of having your ethnic population being a minority in your own country is a desirable or acceptable future for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:59 AM
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The biggest threat to western societies byfar is sub replacement population growth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:47 AM
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I disagree with hijab , multiple wives etc but the "traditional" societies have the benefit of atleast surviving and not damning their own nations by relying solely on immigration to band aid low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:40 AM
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Countries with equal legal rights for women and men. Without exception have below replacement population and will be wiped out soon so you don't have to worry. This is just pure fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:39 AM
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Well if you are an agent in a system that gives you the pretense of being valued, and you cannot elevate your kind.. The best option would evidently be to bring the other side down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:36 AM
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I try to gtfo away from them but yes society would he better if people invariably shamed them.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 05:24 AM
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Exactly, the more liberated a population gets the more it's birth rates crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:35 PM
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It's a corruption of the masculine nature of being fit, the same way abusing plastic surgeries and ugly lip fillers would be toxic femininity. Keep in mind this is the OG definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:35 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:47 PM
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Toxic masculinity is aspects of masculinity that are harmful to the host(aka toxic). Examples: steroid use , Taking unnecessary fights, gang violence for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:50 PM
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Are you worried you won’t be able to hurt women if other men protect them No it's 80% of feminists who want egalitarianism and 20% who use it as a agenda to gain power.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:24 AM
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Toxic masculinity is a real thing, just not the feminist definition. It's aspects of masculinity or masculine culture that harm the person. Like steroid use or repression of emotions(stoicism doesn't work longterm). By this logic toxic femininity does exist also.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:23 AM
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They shame women because they fear raising another man's child. No they do it to keep birth rates in check so their civilization doesn't crumble
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:20 AM
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Men who send dp's are exhibitionists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:18 AM
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How based would the greeks have been to not only not simp for women but somehow turn everyone homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:17 AM
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Alot of women tell socially acceptable answers instead of complete truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:16 AM
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I'm play vidya but id reckon the problem isn't video games by themselves but people using them as indulgence and escapism, more so than any other hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:15 AM
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16 Radfem Knew what bullshit was coming before I even read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:12 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:20 AM
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Men understand women have different preferences, our best bet still remains to cast a wide net and hope one sticks, it's a method tailored to modern dating standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:09 AM
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Women's outward advice and their esoteric desires are completely mis-alligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:00 AM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:58 AM
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Men also only commit and work towards things they value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:58 AM
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Well I apply that to everything regardless of subject)))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:54 AM
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Body positivity should not exist, it reduces societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:44 AM
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Good looks= confident. Mediocre looks = chilled unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:34 PM
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Easier said than done basically means that the advice isn't concrete enough It's like telling someone to "be more confident".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:34 PM
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Imagine kissing your wife goodbye with a count of 3 returning home and the fucking number becomes 13
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:23 PM
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Blue = what your mom told you Red= what your uncle told you Black= red with a fatalistic outlook based on genes. Purple = not fully red(I think most self proclaimed rpers fall into this)
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 05:37 AM
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The absolute state of modern rpers
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/22 05:32 AM
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Being consider disposable (sperm is worth little, and so humans prioritize women>men even subconsciouslyj) compared to women unless you win the rat race. I've been doing fine success wise but still cannot afford to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:42 AM
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It's not that bad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:38 AM
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Settling isn't primarily about being cheated on, it's about being considered a downgrade by the woman, and thus you being used to help raise a kid. They fear being "loved" only for their utility and not something deeper like a genuine emotional connection. Cucking usually refers to aware and agreed upon cucks in relationships(open relationships mostly) and not those that got cheated and were unaware.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 07:50 PM
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Fair enough, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:39 PM
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Generally speaking, men who have casual sex don't mind women doing the same. They still prefer lower, also that's a small%of men overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:32 PM
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Imagine if there were two different test for both sexes. Men had a high bar to pass 75/100 in the looks department but it worked out after this and they got what they wanted. Women had a low bar 30/100, but higher opportunity post passing so a 90/100 gets alot more opportunities compared to a 70/100. It's important to both for different reasons. Looksmaxx doesn't work as well as women if you can't even cross the bar(as a male) but it helps.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 03:31 PM
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Why should they change for you? Are you a person worth changing for? They shouldn't change for a singular person (nobody would), if the sexual revolution/liberty allows them to be promiscuous then they now can. If people collectively wanted their society to have less promiscuous women, then shame would've helped massively. Now the women have shitton of casual sex, men see this and either 1) hop on the train if they can 2) give up commiting to a shitty deal and go become addicted to video games, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:24 PM
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Shame is a tactic used to bring about changes by both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:19 AM
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twitter.com
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:34 AM
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To the right person, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:30 AM
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Btw many women do consider sluts disgusting, they just don't signal publically, so as to not let themselves be conspicuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:29 AM
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He didn't call women disgusting whores. He called whores disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:27 AM
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Wouldn’t you wanna be with a guy who didn’t care? Here's the kicker, almost every man looking for a serious LTR cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:26 AM
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It can be damaging to both but is disliked by men more than women(men dislike "sluts"more than women dislike manwhores) because atleast being a manwhore implies status/looks/game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:24 AM
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It does matter and every single one(even the simp/whiteknights) subconsciously know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:00 PM
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crimson pill? is it just another name of rp?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:57 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:54 AM
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Same for me, I know it exists, somewhere. But is it even worth pursuing over things more concrete like knowledge or wealth. I am incapable of loving everyone and why would the person I seek be attracted to particularly me. Imo unless you somehow manage to find someone in school/college and stick with the person, its doomed. Trying to connect to people over a electronic human market place or "making friends" only to get a partner are fruitless endeavor . Casual sex also offers me nothing other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:54 AM
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Basically alot of men think of love as utility to their lives and exchange of value, rather than some spiritual connection thing. Some may call it love because the term is too broad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:45 AM
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Yes good but dont orbit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:31 AM
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Men on this sub are so out of touch and obsessed with this narrative that all modern women are highly promiscuous True, alot of them(like the person you originally responded too) always hyperbole for reactions/bait. However current western culture is doomed as women become self sufficient, which leads to commitment not being important and traits like economic success and career becoming subordinate to traits like height, race, and attractiveness(genetic looks ) being more important in casual dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:54 PM
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This isn't some obscure explanation it's the primary reason that men like low n count women. It's common knowledge(but isn't spoken openly so as to not be a target). If you deny this simple and obvious truth out of disgust or delusion, then it's your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:56 PM
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It’s so insecure. Why do they care so much about previous sexual partners? Do they think they’re being compared? This thread was the explanation for this. No it's not just insecurity. Even men who had little to be insecure about dislike promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:53 PM
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https://twitter.com/RokoMijic/status/1311069120461406210 Read below
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:27 AM
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https://twitter.com/RokoMijic/status/1311069120461406210 Read below
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:25 AM
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Right left dichotomy is stupid and removes most nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:55 AM
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so you base your life around physical pleasures? No, tf are you on about, I even said sex isn't as important to being a great person as trp claims. being better than masturbation doesnt make it any less lame. its like stuffing yogurt down your throat every morning and being like 'well its way better than oatmeal!!!' you know what else is better than oatmeal, not being so fucking cringe bro Tradcon schizo detected, no point responding further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:03 AM
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because men who have no obligation to society are like...losers? i dunno Most people don't care about being labelled "losers" by a collective group that only seeks to use them and make them subjugate themselves. The men who you deem as "losers" are busy getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:58 AM
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How is this related to capitalism .Socialism/communism would be the same but with looks/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:56 AM
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Volunteering at soup kitchens or helping special need children guaranteed a productive effort and genuine good. Trying to lone wolf against current dating methods/strategies is a waste of time. Morality is good for the collective but can be a limitation for the individual, if only you uphold that moral value then you get no benefits but are stuck due to the limitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:51 AM
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sexual strategy for what end? there has to be some reason that inevitably eads back to societal improve But why though? Its simply pleasurable. thats the lamest form of winning ive heard of. even lamer than internet points and thats really fucking lame People have sexual desires and its better than masturbation for sure and less effort than relationships. Surely better than just being in a relationship for sex it does benefit me, because i judge myself based on my character. i would feel much be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:45 AM
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i mean i assume trp believes helping weak men does help society to some degree no? It may do that as a by-product buy the main goal of trp is sexual strategy and not to improve society. except having more casual sex isn't 'winning' any more than stuffing your face with candy is winning. enjoy your diabetes It is "winning" since it's hard to get consistently and what the subreddit is based around. winning atleast for them. huh? why would i cheat because other men are doing it? my morals are my mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:28 AM
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What the fuck is larry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:21 AM
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Ostensibly women are more emotionally connected to sex whilst men can bang and not think about it a week later. Having emotional connections can make you jaded if it gets broken(the standard for casual sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:18 AM
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Those who missed out on their youthful joy/time do but that goes for jaded old men who didn't have the party phase too. Everyone has their regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:15 AM
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the answer actual would be to have morals and standards. encourage men NOT to sleep with women, have some self respect. eliminate casual sex. be a good person and a good father. thats the actual answer, not becoming whores to spite the feminists redpill is like that girl who fucks her cheating boyfriends friend to get back at him instead of being an adult and bettering herself This won't work since the person who abstains from this strategy will benefit the most instead of co-operating. Nash equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:13 AM
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Man ppd's almost entirely western pov/stance makes it so predictable at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:26 PM
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I see marriage as pointless anyways but why gay people specifically and not everyone.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:05 PM
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Ah
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 08:13 AM
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anti gay as in marriage?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 07:33 AM
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I think the quote was that "woman understand each other, that's why they hate each other but pretend to get along for their own benefit"
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 07:32 AM
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I don't want children but the world is perfectly fine(relatively) to have children granted you are well off financially
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:17 AM
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I don't see what porn does to romance specifically. Imo it's OLD that changed courting to a shopping system.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 04:31 PM
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Not really hate
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 04:19 PM
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Pussy sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:03 PM
1

Well people mostly care about the money and stability over the cool factor but for things as ephemeral as dates you can glamorize it a bit. Pretty sure most people would prefer their partner be a a fintech software engineer over a risky job like a boxer or a construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:20 PM
1

Well people generally masturbate to the hottest person because why not so usually yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:15 PM
3

Or over glamorize it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:10 PM
7

Rename it to make it sound cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:10 PM
4

Most relationship just "happen" without surveying as hard as ppd claims
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:06 PM
5

Active effort during the dates. Makeup is pretty overrated too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:03 PM
1

Holy shit golden truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:59 AM
15

Cool job = sounds cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:56 AM
2

Humanity is biologically inclined to give females the preference since a womb is more valuable than a sperm
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 02:26 PM
11

Enemy keeps spinning wat do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:23 AM
5

Arrange marriage countries will have a lower advancement rate probably. But yeah there will be height selection specially as countries become more affluent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:53 AM
19

The pressure of passive eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:05 AM
1

I doubt there would be many similarities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:48 AM
1

Being asian in a white country must be godmode difficulty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:01 AM
1

Plenty of people use SM in moderation just fine. Gaming is also designed around dopamine but people use that in moderation also. If it gets too bad then retrict it or warn him beforehand that if he gets addicted that's it's then gone I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:44 AM
4

It's mostly about making them have the ability to have a relationship than forcing them too have one, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:40 AM
1

There is only so much that is bad genetics or upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:38 AM
1

Better to tell him to control his SM use than not let him use it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:36 AM
3

Rp isn't all that shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:35 AM
2

Why are things like this? Are men such objectifying dogs that they just need things to be transactional? Are men usually desperate with shit self esteem? Are women taking advantage and actually to blame? Is the average woman just superior as far as sex goes? Is it the risk of pregnancy? Is it the risk of violence? Or is our consumer society just turning every single thing into a product to be consumed including us? It was always transactional. Keep in mind that marriage in the 90's was basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:56 PM
2

It's not false though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:48 AM
2

No, this may sound incel-y but i assure you it's not(and I'm not). The reason men dislike high n count is because women can use sex as leverage for ltr's and relationships, thus are expected to do so. If "pussy" has an innate value as in it can be used to control and get women what they want then giving it out for free is careless/ shows lack of value(this is what men subconsciously think, also why people see it as an achievement/prize). Since men have to "earn" their status then their dick has …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:00 AM
1

He just needs a wash and a haircut smh my head
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:51 AM
1

Men and women occupy different aspects of the dating game and thus applying universal standards only works if it's too generic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:47 AM
1

Unironically philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:46 AM
3

Then humanity collectively wastes a lot of potential
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:56 AM
1

Obviously for kids it makes sense but if kids aren't in the picture then it's largely worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:14 PM
2

How is marriage the ultimate commitment when all it does is make severance harder. If shit hits the fan the ring isn't going to make the other person stay anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:13 PM
2

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:14 PM
1

Goldmine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:11 PM
2

I would kill myself before I reach the answer to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:10 PM
1

I’m simply asking to explain the reason for concern. So ignorant men don't become bb. It isn't about punishing women but having self respect and knowing what you are getting into. If a man knows what he is getting into and accepts his fate then I doubt telling said person anything will give him a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:58 PM
1

AF/BB is only a concern to those who are aware that it exists and is a bad deal(rp, ppd etc) . Most normal people will gladly BB thinking it's genuine. Rp assumes they are doing it out of ignorance since no self respecting man would be treat a woman like a queen when she refuses to treat him like a king. It's giving away value for scraps in return, akin to a husband partying with sluts in ibiza and then wanting a "motherly" wife to settle down with(for example) and not giving it all for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:14 PM
1

such as the wives having more control and shaping the husband's thought of himself, herself and others in a large scale to further narratives, but that's a stretch. Just in general would like the notion of marriage being more challenged as it's a clear governmental/law court lawyers tool for control and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:37 PM
1

I mean if you have a male friend being used absolutely, but do you really and truly care about a strangers marriage? Really? Be honest. Individually no, but if as a collective plenty of men are being used/ are ignorant to this then it has greater effects than just them being fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:36 PM
2

What about ltr without marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:48 PM
1

I didn't live during the early 90's but modern online rejection is pretty ephemeral compared to personal to your face rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:21 PM
2

Remove the if
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:14 PM
1

Part of treating people like human beings is knowing that they have the capacity to deceit and lie for their own self interest, yet even hinting this gets you called a number of names by folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:08 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:59 AM
1

Inherently yes to an extent similar to how most men are naturally inclined to dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:58 AM
1

The biggest fault of anti-natalists is imposing their pessimism into the world. Covid was so so much better than shit like black death and smallpox. Overwhelmingly people(even in worse scenarios than the west) still feel it's a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:57 AM
1

Good since I don't want them either and that negates the need for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:53 AM
1

This shit is so obvious that anyways who asks to explain this is just purposely wasting the poster's time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:51 AM
1

Well if you lived in a small town in the 90's you actually were forced by circumstance to engage in conversations/group activities with the women. If the 90's town women had tinder they would all do the same thing since tinder increases the scope of people available to all women by alot while for men the ones who are chosen by the women(small%) benefit greatly to the detriment of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:43 AM
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Trp's basis is that since women are akin to men in the sense that have the ability to manipulate and deceit for their best self interest. So men should have a repertoire of skills (looks, money, status) even if it's an attempt to pretend to have those things(like acting with abundance) to balance it out somewhat. If OLD is the primary method of dating nowadays and its systems obviously favour the women(as they choose). Also let's preface by saying that some of trp's members are misogynistic. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:41 AM
1

If a man knows “the kind of woman he’s getting into” why is it anyone else’s business? We generally assume his ignorance so he warn him or his actions being subordinate to her in which case we look down upon him/pity him. It's like driving a mercedes and then if lambo comes up to your car, you will feel inferior. If a man can handle that much shame(in the case of not receiving anal in this case) or accepts it then he has little drive/self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:27 AM
2

Women choose so this The difference is both men and women have access to hundreds of people online Is one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:51 AM
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women will cease to date misogynistic men Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:07 AM
3

Feminism tries it's best to have a monopoly on gender issues and skews the narrative alot to gain power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:56 AM
1

Is women wanting to sleep around without being shamed a right being broken or a consequence of her actions The latter. Having protected from being shamed(unless defamation) isn't a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:53 AM
1

is witcher 3 open world good or overrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:41 AM
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You can't convince an entire gender to work together to abstain from pussy. It's not the same. Also consumers have other options while men(unless bi) dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:24 AM
1

Regardless of the economic system, the problems only exist due to people "meeting" each other online and not irl in group places.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:13 AM
4

Nah, AFBB arises due to the inability to get into a committed relationship with the alpha not for thinking the beta is "pure"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:49 AM
1

experiencing under capitalism Technology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:47 AM
2

Being fat is also a character flaw whilst being short is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:31 AM
1

No? I never said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:24 AM
1

How is accepting of fat people(obesity is a disease) better than telling them to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:23 AM
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I'm pretty sure that if I just masturbated once a week to fat women I would eventually find fat women attractive. I don't think so, or atleast for most people including me this isn't the case. Being fat(unlike short or small tits) is also a character flaw whilst being a physical one which is the distinction. If liars had pinnochio noses then no amount of positivity would change it being undesirable and a bad mark on the person. There is no use discounting your preferences if it leads to a glutto…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:23 AM
1

The body positivity movement on the other hand make people feel comfortable with where they're at with their body and that can in turn make them not resent their bodies and treat their bodies better You said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:17 AM
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Literally everyone does. Being fat is 90% due to negligence. Now is being a chain smoker acceptable too because you don't care if it's changeable or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:16 AM
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>body positivity makes them treat their body better >be fat Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:15 AM
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Thing is that being bald isn't as bad as being born with a genetic defect or being a burnt victim. Also since sexual selection will largely not be impacted by these "movements" it should be focused on social outcasts due to body problems than sexually undesirable traits. Also these movements don't work on women since the only people who can get away with bitching and whining are people who have vaginas. Even fat acceptance did jackshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:57 AM
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The only people who deserve a body positivity movement are burn victims and acid attack victims. People's sexual preferences don't change because le feminist or mra group said that being a whale or short is okay. People don't discount their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:24 AM
1

Unironically having a good father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:18 AM
2

Tomboypilled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:00 AM
3

(or rather: way below their weight class) Rofl my sides are in orbit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:00 AM
10

Yeah don't see the point of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:13 PM
1

Obviously not. Even the parent-child relationship isn't unconditional as many parents dislike their kids for making them take more effort etc. Also most people love their child over some rando's obviously, since the child represents legacy and familiar bond. Unconditional love doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:38 AM
2

Entertainment plus the only remaining sub with discussion about these topic that isn't ruined by softy mods or ban waves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:49 PM
3

marriage was normalized. There are plenty of reasons why its diminishing among the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:40 AM
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They can get above average men in less than a week if they want too(unless they are insanely fat or have a genetic defect). No use fucking average men then even without the risk of pregnancy. Average people get married yes but the number is decreasing steadily and marriage has little benefits aside from an environment for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:13 AM
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Why would a man who rejects someone(is in power in this scenario, which is quite rare) take an insult of a rejected fat girl(not in power+ has animosity towards him now) seriously. It's like a guy asking you out then calling you a bitch after you reject him and it affecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:35 AM
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So they can have sex with any average man they want This doesn't matter because they don't want to have sex with average men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:31 AM
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Plus divorce court lawyers waiting to take all of your shit+ archaic divorce laws
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:30 AM
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I mean I would love it if waiting until marriage were normalized and all men would accept it. What about people who reject the institution of marriage. I'd guess that one of the big reasons why people don't get married nowadays is that it seems pointless aside from cultural and community validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:29 AM
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Lol nobody will take that insult seriously irl. Imagine this scenario Fat girl(assumedly) : asks someone out Guy: "no, you are fat" Girl: heh, you are gay Nobody will take that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:27 AM
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Hard to say what is or isn't redpill nowadays. I guess my bp take would be that most women aren't whores and serial casual sex isn't as common as people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:37 AM
1

Didn't bumble have a statistic posted someone that the vast majority of women used the 6'0 height filter despite that only encompassing 15% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:07 PM
3

The husband material op is talking about is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:49 PM
6

Not worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:48 PM
69

swiped left on them on twitter Ha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:48 PM
2

If humans were by nature Individualistic, then we Humans by nature have self interest before everything else(we follow laws to not get punished, not for compliance for example). Tribalism only existed as primitive battles needed a strongformed community which is not needed now as it's covered by the military. In fact, it is only western societies which don't have any agricultural past which are Individualistic as hell, even Greco-Romans were quite anti Individualistic, whereas societies in Asia …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:57 AM
1

Anyone remember the peacock signal post that one ppd user posted. Basically that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:09 AM
2

Just waiting for transhumanism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:05 AM
1

>Not have to worry about being stabbed to death >so be a man Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:02 AM
1

I envy the fact men don’t settle Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:01 AM
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You have to conform to their herd bullshit or you're just larping lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:56 AM
2

There are bigger problems in life than not having the advantages that women do so nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:11 PM
1

Yeah but that's also a character flaw. Porn addicts may negative effects due to masturbation but that doesn't make masturbation less pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:14 AM
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The reason is pretty simple. Attractiveness can be used as a commodity for exchange(specially with women). So a women sleeping around for no purpose is seen akin to a man simping with no hope for reciprocation(OF etc). If you think only men shame women for being promiscuous you would be dead wrong. Women simply act as a collective since collectively nagging and demanding things works well for them and is practically useless for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:10 AM
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If women are promiscuous and they can choose(now) to choose the they have every incentive to just go for the top% man. Whether this is a problem is arguable(this was the norm throughout early history but with choosing mate for offspring)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:05 AM
10

Just get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:01 AM
2

sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:59 AM
5

If only you knew lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:51 AM
10

Alpha fucks beta bucks. Alpha(attractive dude+ high status) gets to have alot of casual sex without commitment. Beta bucks- alot of the remnants who have to commit for duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:51 AM
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The collective cannot shape up the individual as a collective is merely a combination of all individuals. Collectivism is subordination of individual desires for the group and it does not work because the group is usually just the few elite or simply culture. Japan is not a good position economically because of collectivism or traditon but because of harsh work culture that also brings many downsides. China is just capitalism with a shit government I'd say humans by nature are individualist and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:28 AM
1

men kept saying it was chads not nice guys that are doing the rapes and women need to choose better No one ever said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:24 PM
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You can compensate for looks with personality but the discrepancy between thresholds is huge. If you are a 8/10 then personality>looks in terms of importance. If you are a 5/10 then personality is irrelevant since you aren't even a candidate for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:23 PM
0

That's just general naivete and ignorance of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:21 PM
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Some women do this to keep up the pretense of having a low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:17 PM
5

Individualism is good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:15 PM
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Sleeping around is literally done for pleasure unlike pregnancy. If a person sleeps around but they aren't having fun they are fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:14 PM
5

Ltr without marriage would also decrease the rate of death without the cons of marriage, I'd assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:52 AM
3

Ltr without marriage would also decrease the rate of death without the cons of marriage, I'd assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:29 AM
1

The last thing people in locker rooms talk about is about chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:01 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:21 PM
14

Yup this is the basis of AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:59 AM
11

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:09 PM
0

Why? 45 million in damages is a shitton, if he even is paying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:35 AM
5

You don't need marriage for it in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:36 AM
18

reliable source of sex Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:56 AM
1

It's not conditioned merely reinforced similar to masculinity in men. Women may say they don't care about it(just as some men say they only value personality) but everyone knows the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:20 PM
13

Pros:Tax(government) Cons:Literally everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:19 PM
8

Never experienced the fabled locker room talk personally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:57 PM
-1

It's not that, it's that age allows for men to build a career and have some status which appeals to women. You're not talking about the 40 year old janitor here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:05 AM
1

Do the ammoral option
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:39 AM
2

What would handling the truth entail
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:53 PM
2

Trophy wife is specifically when rich businessmen have s hot wife to show off, most men don't show off their gf outside of general group pictures etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:15 AM
2

Ugly usually causes depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:38 AM
4

Just remove the word "ugly" and you get 2X
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:37 AM
1

Isn't love without like just lust
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:49 PM
1

height is a primary concern? Literally the majority insecure' and 'dishonest' If they figure out that you aren't exactly 6'(most won't tell, won't care if u are 5'10 or 5'11, they just say 6' as a substitute for tall). If you are questioned just say you thought you were 6' so you wrote it. Works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:47 PM
6

yup it's a troll account
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:49 AM
1

When they devalue feminine men they say men without backbone/simps not femboys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:48 AM
1

Many\=\ most
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:45 AM
12

Alot of high n dudes still prefer low n for ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:45 AM
2

Skill issue kek
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:44 AM
4

guys should be accepting of the fact that women are viscerally unattracted to short, bald, ugly men. They know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:42 AM
8

The ones that say they don't care dating a high n count for relationships usually actively try to not remember that or simply think the positives out way the negatives(high n count but is hot for example). Some just hide their opinions more than the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:41 AM
5

be liked by her friends and family (girls REALLY care about what others think about their partners. They need co-signers and can’t really think for themselves. Men don’t have this pesky need) Yeah this shit is extremely Infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:38 AM
1

Both do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:37 AM
7

Dodged question Splendid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:22 AM
3

married men are happier Doesn't take into account divorced men perform better in their careers Work longer hours, and poorer men are less likely to marry so skew the data maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:20 AM
1

women get sick of their friends being treated poorly, so they stand up for them. By cultural acceptance of obesity? It's not like they are promoting weight loss methods or diets. They simply say that being fat is okay(it isn't). Its like if people told cigarettes are fine and chain smokers should be treated akin to regular people when doing so legitimately is bad for the smoker. And you're so offended by the notion of people supporting each other you call call it the "herd" and "collectivist mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:02 AM
1

100k achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:04 PM
0

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vuf29t/comment/ifdx2tu/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:21 AM
0

Like feminism worked specifically because they lobbyed their way into politics and sold a lot of nice ideas to women all the time, now they are united with LGBT+ and woke culture because being together makes them stronger, and look there are a bunch of bullshit being changed because of that, like you can't say anything and must be very careful with what you say because getting shot is not your worst fate anymore. Feminism worked early on because right to vote and own property/work were genuine h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:17 AM
1

It's good this way, their "uninonizing" Is just approval for the herd that many of them are so dependent on. I mean the abortion rights were delegated to the states and they did such poor riots/protests it was laughable. Women don't help women because they are the same gender as them, they help them because while men's strategy is to get shit done on an individual basis, women's strategy (atleast for alot of them) are to nag and whine while believing society is against them to get governmental/i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:54 AM
1

Because protesting for "acceptance" for fat people is disgusting but less disgusting than collectivist morons who are so dependent on the herds approval that they do what the herd demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:36 AM
1

Have kids How will that conflict with mgtow, unless you mean adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:35 PM
2

If it's open then sure affiliate with commoner scum. LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:45 PM
2

It's like if your gf is religiously following roided dudes on insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:43 PM
1

Arrange marriage cultures usually also have strict backlash for divorcing and the people in the relationship are just expected to go through with it. India for example is famous for this and has a 1% divorce rate. This for sure is due to external factors like parents/culture and not two people loving each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:56 PM
2

Your assessment of the other poster must have been accurate to trigger such an emotional response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:01 AM
1

Hit the spot perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:37 AM
1

Vince carried wwe when the wrestlers couldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:21 AM
1

How common is this Instagram girls issue? Probably not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:18 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/w3kqpk/comment/igybgl1/ if she slept with someone else fast before me, or had a one night stand, then she also has to do that for me.” She doesn't have to do it as quickly but if she is intentionally delaying it for the sake of some vetting process then it gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:09 PM
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No, I don't have tradcon beliefs either. What people did before they met you is obviously important regardless of experience. I don't care about n counts(unless it is egregiously high) but past relationships and history is obviously important even in non sexual cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:00 PM
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Why do you care so much about what a woman did before she met you. What people do defines them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:56 AM
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What do you call a polygamous(1 man many women who are monogamous for him) man that expects obedience, sex, money and material things from women without them expecting anything(monogamy, money, cuddles, dates, etc.) from him in return other than his occasional attention and his presence? delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:51 AM
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The reason is because Instagram is a gateway to parasocial relationships while porn is porn. 100% valid to dislike following Instagram girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:45 AM
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He's but there are men who are fine with their gf's watching porn but still hate the concept of betabuxx. Betabuxx is just payment for a false desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:40 AM
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if something is free then you are the product. Ads.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:36 AM
0

what if it was hentai?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:31 AM
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They're not going to list trp methods in ppd lol, it's a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:25 AM
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The truth is that the vast majority of women prefer taller guys since it reinforces their feminity, vice versa with men preferring shorter women as it reinforces their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:36 AM
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When dealing with humans, you gotta see how they act not how they say. Communication is a channel open to manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:35 AM
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Animal brain sees tall = fit/athletic Animal brain sees big waist/boobs = good mother/fit to raise children. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:33 AM
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Probably in an LTR already
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:28 AM
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Online dating. Average guys Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:23 AM
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TRP literally calls for action to self improve, the opposite of cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:16 AM
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TRP codifies the idea that the "sexual marketplace" is fairest when women have fewer rights. First and foremost keep in mind that TRP is sexual strategy for men. TRP says that the current smv hierarchy means only the top% of men get the most sex without "buying" it(prostitutes/beta buxx). TRP then gives methods to improve/gain advantages to be the top%. They also show women's hypergamous nature and the resulting notion of 80/20 and AFBB. Naturally this is or may seem unfair to men who aren't top…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:15 AM
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most do not want to go to prostitutes Hundreds of dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:57 AM
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But if higher value men are sexually unavailable to lower value women, it might make women more willing to settle for their attractiveness matches. I genuinely don't think this will be the case for most women as attractiveness match isn't really relevant in this case as women consider a big% of men unattractive and men are the opposite. A 6/10 women sees 6/10 man as bland/only beta buxx while a 6/10 man would probably be down to fuck a 5/10. Also this solution would imply that people with good l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:55 AM
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Beta men still get sex, and it's better than going sexless. Not always, beta buxx also has to buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:51 AM
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I mean, I probably eat more than any fat person I know, and I'm still in pretty good shape. I'm not disciplined with food at all. Still an obligation to yourself to stay in shape regardless of how hard is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:15 AM
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Being white pill after being red/black pilled is like trying to believe in god after becoming an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:57 AM
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Sure does act as a motivator, plenty of people cba about their own lives but care about children that they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:22 PM
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I don't agree with your reasons for Anti-natalism(no child of any species can consent before being born). I think humanity is a net positive so long as a person has his needs met and can think about the future and his/her ambitions, which is why I unironically think people below a certain income level should not have children, I've been to some third world countries and i can assure you the poor children there have little prospects to navigate through life and will continue the chain of poverty.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:21 PM
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Everyone is white pill before they inevitably notice reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:15 PM
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Out of comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:27 PM
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Boyfriends aren't shackled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:57 AM
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Sluts have standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:56 AM
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Boyfriend material>>>>>>>>>husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:34 AM
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Just alot more added responsibility. now not only are you not dealing with another women but also her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:08 PM
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I mean obviously she can but the intent is obvious. What if the woman realises that the dude she has been vetting has a past of fucking around in clubs/ONS but is ready for LTR now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:02 PM
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Ok so is the woman in this scenario consistent with holding sex(fair enough) or just delays it for LTR. If it's the former then sure I can understand women being ltr focused and not engaging in sex without commitment. If it's the later then the woman is enforcing her own standard when she feels fit(I slept around in the past but now you have to wait because I will make you wait for my feewings, but i give it freely to ONS dudes). Could be an effective strategy but it for sure has a high failure …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:00 PM
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The way people care about others did. If others cba about it then you shouldn't have to either unless you are particularly moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:52 PM
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Ok so is the woman in this scenario consistent with holding sex(fair enough) or just delays it for LTR. If it's the former then sure I can understand women being ltr focused and not engaging in sex without commitment. If it's the later then the woman is enforcing her own standard when she feels fit(I slept around in the past but now you have to wait because I will make you wait but give it freely to ONS dudes). Could be an effective strategy but it for sure has a high failure rate if the man rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:51 PM
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I don't agree but common consensus is this. A guy has to "earn" or be worthy of sex while the woman simply chooses. In this sense the usually guy wins(courtship+ looks+personality) and women are neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:48 PM
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“I’m not gonna hide that I was very sexually active in my 20s. You know why? Because everybody knows the secret now: that when a woman sleeps with a man right away, it’s not because we don’t respect ourselves. It’s because we don’t respect…you. This makes no goddamn sense, lets say the dude was marriage material but wanted ONS and did that with chicks prior. How does this change anything unless you are in the opinion that women who partake in hookups/short term also aren't marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:45 PM
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Let's say the dude slept with alot of women early on but now wants to LTR, is that enough grounds to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:42 PM
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The answer is obvious lol, they can leverage it to get access to better looking men for hookups and at the same time use it as a carrot on a stick to vet LTR's. It isn't about being "used" No one way will say it though sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:41 PM
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because no one is owed sex. Sex is expected in relationships, kinda becomes obvious that one side is deliberately holding out to vet or whatever. it doesnt matter what the woman's reason for not having sex with you is, you are not owed that sex. full stop. No shit but alot of ltr focused men also wouldn't like to be dangled around to prove themselves and will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:35 PM
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They want to show a different persona. hookups = nobody will find out so it's fine. Delay in LTR hoping that the guy thinks they are some chaste church godess for some reason. It's mainly not about protecting yourself but trying to give a specific impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:27 PM
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I mean many men(even ltr focused) think that if you consciously delay sex for some self platitude that you aren't relationship material either. It's kind of hard to explain but most men can tell the difference(before they have sex) between women who sleep around often or are doing it now specifically because they are more interested in them currently. At some point it just becomes obvious and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:24 PM
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I mean not really, if it was the other way around(woman wants to bang but the male consciously delays it to "vet" the woman/make her wait to prove worthy it would still be witholding sex technically, not that it's always bad but the term isn't really based on male solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:19 PM
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Too old to apply. If neither side gives a shit then it's pointless to follow norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:13 PM
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a little exaggeration to get the point across I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:12 AM
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Ty for honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:00 AM
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I'm saying there is a reason parents teach their kids atleast to be skeptical while dating/chasing the opposite gender, it's easy to be blindsided while your mind is all roses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:07 AM
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Foolproof way to fuck a country
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:05 AM
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They should remove marriage as an institution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:02 AM
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Fathers teach daughters not to trust men all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:57 AM
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college sexual harassment/assault training Women won't let that shit fly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:46 AM
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"I really want to touch you." Ohnonono
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:45 AM
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Nah sisyphus could not have been happy since he didn't choose this path, he was essentially a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:37 AM
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That's not settling in ppd/rp terms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:30 AM
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Some people are pretty apathetic about it since there is little they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:27 AM
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No I meant that a nasa scientist turning SAHM would lose more value than a store worker turning SAHM, the system does not take the earning potential of the woman or the time spent since it's outdated and designed to leech off money in court fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:25 PM
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Enchanters got me down bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:25 PM
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Lots of people think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:20 PM
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Problem with divorce laws are that they are extremely binary and outdated, like how do you put value on a woman. For example let's say your wife is a nasa scientist and dudd 2's wife is a store worker. Are their time worth the same? If the business dude strikes a deal and makes millions then his wife should not be allowed 50% of that amount obviously, she didn't contribute that much. Why is a fixed amount (50%) assigned to compensate for the time of literally any women ever, be it a lazy person …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:05 PM
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People realise that love isn't the fairy tale perfect match thing but two people essentially trying to own part of each other, bit hard to describe really. Really when you realise the true nature of love/companionship then the mystery/desire of it gets less appealing. Older times were different due to women needing to marry someone. I believe the consensus was that women are the ones more interested in connecting on an emotional level and having stronger feelings about forming long term romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:09 AM
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I meant that a man raping a woman usually has sterotype of a stranger using physical violence then forcing the woman into sex, while woman to man rape/SA is usually drugs/drinks into sex. Even though most rapes are commited by people known to the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:27 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:05 PM
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It's likely as they are/or perceive themselves to be in more danger in the case of Rape/SA. Including violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:03 PM
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There is no solution since attraction cannot be controlled nor changed in a societal scale. Any "solution" would include governmental laws to limit interaction which wont happen. Use this sub as entertainment/hypothetical debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:00 PM
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You guys are making this way too fucking complicated for no reason. *Do you care about morality/being fair No- prioritise yourself. Yes-Read below *Do you think your girl will protect(or atleast try to) should you get assaulted/get ambushed etc. Yes- Protect her. No- Dont protect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:07 PM
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Everyone in society has a place and a role to fulfill that eventually ensures that we don't have riots breaking out on every corner. If people are to follow the social contract it should benefit them, atleast a little. You cannot expect someone to work towards helping a society that does not help Or affect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:00 PM
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Nobody does this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:13 AM
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Confidence in gym: damn I can achieve my goals and look fresh as fuck. Confidence with girls: damn I look fresh as fuck so my odds are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:33 PM
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The one who sets the standards is the one who needs the exchange the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:12 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:43 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:41 AM
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Kind of, through religion and general social acceptability. Probably due to near non existent contraceptives a few hundred years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:41 AM
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Romantically yes ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:07 AM
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It's fine if population falls. Third world countries are growing in an insane rate anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:15 PM
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I guess stds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:49 PM
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Most people would assume that talking about gender pay gap means women get paid less for the same work. If kids are involved on the women's side then she probably takes breaks/works less hours so this concept does not really apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:14 AM
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What they think happened. Guy: wow so creepy I better move on What actually happened Guy: wow what a retar I better move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:15 AM
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That implies people are only open to those hot to them They are the vast majority of time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:55 AM
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Wonderful game thanks for the link
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:55 PM
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Well Better to be safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:00 PM
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Oh you meant it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:25 PM
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Downsides are extremely minimal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:10 AM
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How is this relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:07 AM
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Funny how TwoX happily ignores the 40ish or so%(cannot remember article) of women who are pro life and keep ragging on men for absolutely no reason. Someone calls them out and they ban them lmao. Like imagine if there was a male equivalent of that sub, would be banned within hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:01 AM
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First impressions are pretty much key. If you aren't good looking them most won't give you the time to reveal/understand your personality, goes for both genders btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:57 AM
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Yeah, not being betaboy is good even if you are planning for marriage so you don't get walked all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:53 AM
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I wonder if any of that made sense. It all made sense and was very well put, are you a writer? So what this all implies, is if currently things are unfair, and there is in fact a solution, it is for both genders to come to an agreement of what it looks like to make both the sexually adventurous modern woman and the sexually inexperienced incel happy at the level of companionship, and implies there need be a come to Jesus moment of accepting sacrifice on one end and hard work on the other can pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:31 PM
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Afbb basically says that women choose the best looking men for sex(ofc), since men risk less during sex +multiple other factors means they are willing to have sex with women less attractive than them so a women can find casual sex with men better looking than her This is the AF part. When the woman then goes to commit to a relationship, she usually cannot find a dude as attractive as the ones that gave her casual sex because men don't give away commitment as easily as sex. The new partner now is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:11 PM
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The problem(if you consider it to bs so) is mainly OLD. If average women can get chances/rolls with attractive or better men in terms of looks and/or socioeconomic condition then simply trying to find one until you land commitment is better than settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:54 PM
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Eh it's more of a generalisation of women as a collective identity for the sake of trp's goals. It's not that women don't date average dudes, it's that the large portion of them seek the top% or an upgrade. Average dudes are pretty invisible to most women for regular casual sex. Sure average dudes may get it once or twice per year if they try hard enough but that's nothing compared to chads(top%) Not all women are hyperfocused on hypergamy but if your goal is to get alot of casual sex then havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 AM
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With that common reality, you will always have women (and men), perceiving their spouse as "better". Which is why the real definition uses socioeconomic status as a measure. This rarely applies to men though, men rarely seek/are only attracted to high socioeconomic women, it's always looks#1 by far while for women it's a threshold of socioeconomic+ looks( both can compensate for the other missing to an extent) How can you tell a woman isn’t just happy fucking a “lesser” man if he earns similar i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:52 AM
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Also, when people love their partner, they tend to perceive as "better", they phrase themselves as "lucky". With that common reality, you will always have women (and men), perceiving their spouse as "better". Which is why the real definition uses socioeconomic status as a measure. In marriage yes but in hookups/fwb/str(all redpill focus) it's usually looks + status or a method of speaking, frame etc. Also alot of the people who perceive their spouse as better usually just mean that they got who …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:51 AM
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Well kind of yeah, a homeless person would have a different standard of better than a model
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:16 AM
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Not simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:15 AM
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TRP definition is basically that women only want the top 20% of men. Implies the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:15 AM
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Even out side of old, looks thresholds have to be met. There is only so much you can shoot up with personality above your looks score.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:00 PM
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In a short time frame(OLD) yes that would be true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:55 PM
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Makes you seem perpetually bored/lost in thought
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:22 PM
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Looks are like fishing bait and personality is like a cooking grill. The latter is useless if the former cannot do it's function.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:44 PM
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True and real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:27 PM
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Hard to meet organically in this day and age though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:25 PM
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>4.11 Take the reprise pill https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-1Im1xz9fkc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:24 PM
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The fuck is that title lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:22 PM
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you dont want to be a BB you shouldn't get married. One of the multiple reasons to not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:03 PM
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Why women lie about this I don’t know. You merely have to rephrase the exact same thing and they’re 100% in agreement. Female solidarity only exists if you preach what the herd says
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:00 PM
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Includes Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:50 AM
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be stable, a little funny, a few hobbies, a few showers a week. This sub wouldn't exist if the requirements were this piss easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:40 AM
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He doesn't need poly ltr for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:17 AM
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Women will down a bottle of pills meanwhile men will resort to firearms. One method is a cry for help The other method is a surefire way to take your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:57 PM
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https://www.dictionary.com/e/acronyms/cba/#:~:text=CBA%20is%20an%20acronym%20that,it%20is%20in%20the%20US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:58 PM
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U think a high smv male will allow himself to be in a official poly ltr Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:05 AM
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Ugly guys have too high standards so hot guys have to pick up the slack and making women feel good about themselves They have harems because they don't nitpick women's bodies and call them a bunch of names Literally everything you wrote is so dead wrong it enters potential trolling territory
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:07 PM
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Tfw someone robs you off your solitude but does not provide any company
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:50 PM
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You say that women's value is basically intrinsic--is that only because women offer sex? Because men largely have a wider pool of women they would be happier with than women vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:28 PM
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It's envy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:05 PM
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Holy shit stop with the procrastination, not even ugly dudes thing like this. "Lol why, just because I am insert minority? Well sure most girls will chase after chad their whole lives and never settle down(with me). But the desperate ones will come back and realise that I'm the best they can get, just get blocked" Bla bla bla bla Nobody cares about your made up revenge fantasy, it only sounds cool in your head. Even mgtow don't give attention to women and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:02 PM
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kek
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:00 PM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1382201607249666049 Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:59 PM
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Physically, she’s a 6/7. But she emotionally supports you and stays by your side through the good and bad. She’s ambitious, outgoing, driven, loyal and a good person. She makes you feel loved and desired (assuming you do the same for her). Not worth breaking the bond for the hot chick, 1 is superior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:33 PM
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It’s just a trait Has severe negative connotations if you are a man If someone will dump you for sex, then why pander to them? He isn't pandering to said person, he is simply lying(by omission I guess) to have sex with at least someone so the virgin loop breaks, assuming he isn't in a serious ltr that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:02 PM
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Everyone has a different moral compass. People with a shit hand will play the cards they have to, to the best of their ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:50 PM
1

Shows I'm at 0 votes overall so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:03 PM
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The average vocal feminist wants power for women and cba about equality. This is the same reason why many people are egalitarian yet not feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:53 PM
1

Ever wondered why wars are started? Its because society needs to get rid of excess young men, and the easiest way to do that is to make them fight each other and create all kinds of excuses for these conflicts. Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:47 AM
2

Remember the key rule about lying/manipulation. Expect them to ask you to verify it if you can. Example: Lying to a college admissions interviewer about being good at football. Expect to be asked about certificates/trophies. Make some backup excuse and a fake event where you lost your virginity should you be questioned, make it so that fictional person is hard to trace/verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:26 AM
1

Maybe a better take would be telling young women interest from males for casual sex doesn't mean much. Doesn't really matter. The reason it would stroke the ego is because it makes them realise the tools that they have to use as they wish. It's like asking men not to get a ego boost when a woman checks out his abs or a diamond watch. It reminds them of what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:23 PM
1

Marry within your social-economic class. Only because severance laws are shit. If women would get 0% of that money they would be fuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:50 PM
2

it would seem to suggest thing physicality is better than emotionality. They just say marriage is not worth it and good ltr's are extremely hard to find. Not that short term>actual relationships. Essentially, this is why men get angry over body count, having to wait for sex when women gave their body to other men with no restrictions, alpha f*cks and beta bucks. Men get angry when having to wait for sex when woman give their body to other men for the same reasons it's aggravating to go to an eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:35 PM
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Eliminate video games and porn entirely or make them privileges that need to be earned and paid for with "pay by the minute" vouchers gained from approved volunteer work and community service. Impossible to do so, will probably lead to other escapist hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:22 PM
1

Isn’t that a convenient conclusion for you to make. Any stats to back it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:51 PM
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trp is a hookup/short term dating app so what they say is implied to be hookup/plate focus only
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:10 PM
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height (taller women) Most fall within the desirable range bone structure (symmetrical face that isn’t “manly” looking required), Same as above and boob/ass size as well I'd reckon it's far less important than dicksize
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:09 PM
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no one wants fat girls Not exactly true but most healthy weight/gym dudes absolutely will not date someone fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:06 PM
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Because some people(not me personally) consider a fetus a child. So abortion = child homicide to some people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:02 PM
2

The reason men pay is to increase their chances, if you don't pay some other fucking thirsty fuck will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:57 PM
2

I doubt we will go to those days again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:34 PM
5

Being fat will never be attractive simply because being fat implies laziness and/or gluttony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:07 PM
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These movements are pointless, attraction cannot be bargained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:14 PM
1

Hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:07 PM
1

Likely not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:22 PM
1

...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:53 PM
0

I for one wish marriage is abolished or atleast is free from government intervention/paperwork
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:41 PM
21

Dangerously based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:21 PM
1

gg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:27 AM
1

I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:05 AM
1

Older men also like younger women usually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:53 AM
2

TLDR? I'll read it tommorow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:12 PM
3

True they are fucking you, not your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:33 PM
5

Non-existant hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:31 PM
2

They complain about delusional standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:33 AM
3

Metaphysical questions are always divisive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:09 PM
13

Anything that makes dating harder could be considered a hindrance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:10 PM
1

It's just princess fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:20 AM
1

but almost allen with a libido are trying to fuck 20 something year olds. Yes, it's not just redpillers it's literally everyone. 20 isn't pedo either(technically 17 isn't pedo either but that's beside the point).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:44 PM
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Posted by the other poster. Successful salespeople succeed by finding out what the customer wants and giving it to them Implies that like customers, people always suggest what they want. Reality is that in dating people don't give 100% genuine/true advice because it might paint them in a a bad light, unlike customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:17 PM
1

People here are confusing attraction and love
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:02 PM
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“You have to date young women who have never had sex before and most women start having too much sex by the age of 17” Do you honestly think redpillers are trying to fuck 17 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:59 PM
4

Red pill advice sounds like a lot of excuses to be a pedophile to be honest. Completely baseless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:46 PM
8

Customers don't lie to save face
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:37 PM
3

...so paying isn't an infringement on bodily autonomy then? Forced payments are Paying to leave a country isn't a forced payment, you have the option to pay and leave or stay( and cs is costlier) , moving costs would also apply to both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:50 AM
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Still have the choice to leave, you could have 500k and be stuck with cs payments
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:31 AM
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Because their brains literally do not like maths/science/tech the same way men don't like teaching/nursing as much. No amount of affirmative action will change this. The only reason feminists argue for stem "representation" is because it pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:29 AM
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1) You have the option to leave 2) The other person does not. Who is borderline imprisoned here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:02 AM
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Women don't go to stem because most of them don't have an interest in stem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:55 AM
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It just means harsher conditions in india leads to people having an increased desire to off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:52 AM
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Cuz I do like snickers bars. If she buys it like no problem, no biggie, I notice that. If she gets all turned off like, no buy your own candy or too bad im not going to spot you, I scratch her off my list immediately for anything serious. Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:10 PM
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I mean it's possible that this happened only after marriage, doubt many people marry people who cannot fuck them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:05 PM
2

This poster you have been replying to is trolling everyone in this entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:04 PM
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Inflate everything they do(try to give signals/stand out) for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:40 PM
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Relationships= LTR's in all my replies was implied, specially when comparing them to the hookup focus of rp. Any other reader would have understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:59 PM
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Then we have been discussing two different things this entire time, such a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:41 AM
2

Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:01 AM
1

Rp is for sexual strategy for men, not for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:58 AM
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Again, false. I’m a relatively attractive women and I’ve dated quieter, shorter, larger men than me. I’ve initiated the interest in them too (sometimes guys have not realized I was hitting on them because they just assumed I wouldn’t be interested). Alright but most women would not approach men that they don't deem to be better than them(unless they are prior friends which is a different case). Women don't have to do that most of the times so it isn't a reliable strategy to get women(specificall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Even in redpill theory "chad" or even the redpill community will sleep with literally anyone moderately attractive(plates). RPW and FDS are more selective in their approach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:22 PM
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Knowing that I don't have this masculine inclination and don't want to fucks me up some days. Real masculinity is individuality and not comprising on your ideals, if they are within reach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:51 PM
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Plenty of normal women asking men out these days Usually only attractive men/shooting upwards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:44 PM
3

What was said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:20 PM
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Blowjobs aren't dominant too and are universally liked. The spectrum here is dominant and submissive/calm Not dominant or bad. Just because the action isn't dominant does not mean its bad by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:04 PM
1

Field report is just an imaginary wanking session
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:10 PM
2

Wokeism basically means pushing feminist/leftist narratives for social brownie points. Butchered term
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:32 PM
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The only time people are equal is in death
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:22 PM
2

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:19 PM
1

Women's rp(the sub) is about relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:41 AM
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RP is an ideology for managing relationships between men and women Rp is basically what women are/look for(or so atleast what rp claims ). People can use the info/ideology for their own purpose but among rp it's commonly accepted that marriages are bad/not worth. Sure many rp followers might be married/are looking for marriage this does not mean rp(community mostly as rp is it's community) itself advocates for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:40 AM
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How does this disprove anything, if they want to marry they can. Rp is still against marriage, it's hookup focused
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:58 AM
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There is no solution. This was how evolution was intended and was for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:05 PM
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RP is against marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:36 AM
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Dating is exhausting with no guarantee of reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:33 AM
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Money is a bigger concern if you are broke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:19 PM
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I said both. Ppd people was in response to this look around ppd Looking around ppd is pointless since people behave differently here than irl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:11 PM
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Ofc some people think like that but the vast majority of people don't try to shame others for trying to find love. Ppd is a bad example since people debase others who they disagree with all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:42 PM
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273 people. Extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:45 PM
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It's attractive for then until its so big that it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:06 PM
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I don't think people here shame people for thinking they deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:04 PM
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Individuality and confident demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:32 PM
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Lmao what did op expect to hear when he asked this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:50 AM
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Not relevant to the topic at hand though(paper abortions)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:44 AM
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Reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:43 AM
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slut is a deeper insult As in it affects the target more, the purpose of an insult. but women do not Qualities of a fuckboy likely landed him to be with the said person so......
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:51 PM
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Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:39 PM
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Slut is used as an insult historically because men feel the need to control womens sexuality They always have and will always want to This is true, but a reason for slut being used is also because women can have sex with better looking men but not commit to them. "Slut" comes from a sense of control but is also a deeper insult than "fuckboy". No one I know who calls someone a fuckboy sees any sort of prestige in it If someone is a fuckboy then he can have access to sex with multiple women. A ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:38 PM
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Or she’s a good woman so she meets his high standards. If men could find a 9/10 looks + good personality they would. Same for women but with men. If they can find the above then why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:27 PM
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Settling and settling down are different phrases. Describes the same thing, at least in this subreddit. Women "settle down" because if a man is attractive and good at commitment then he probably can afford to high standards himself. Doesn't mean they are unhappy/got a shit deal just a natural phenomenon when you compare short term with ltr. Money and commitment aren’t the same. If women want you to commit then you can still choose to be there for her if you loose money. The insecurity/anxiety is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:23 PM
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"fuckboy" also carries a twisted sense of prestige that slut does not. Slut is used a shitton more than fuckboy or it's alternatives precisely because being a slut is a bigger insult(equivalent to this would be the overuse of "incel"). men have so little self control they offer sex all the time Men don't offer sex, women do. A man that can get and takes sexual offers from alot of women may have little self control but atleast has looks/money/status. Women don't require that to be a slut. " Fuckb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:18 PM
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No it's because manwhore= lack of self control + good looks or good with women. Being a slut is easy being a manwhore is difficult. There is a reason women don't use manwhore/slut to men. It can be a compliment in times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:44 PM
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It’s not saying you are attracted to marriage material men to be more interested in getting serious when you don’t have enough time it’s just a change in priorities. The reason people say "settled" is because a woman who can bag men "high tier" than her sex usually cannot do so in marriages/ltr so its a degradation(not always). For men it's being invisible to women before you bring money/commitment to the table. If women are only attracted to you when you bring money/commitment to the table then…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:37 PM
2

This is the core message of redpillwomen iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:15 PM
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It's not because of reaching an arbitrary age number(30) but because being older entails atleast some sense of maturity and wealth which women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:12 PM
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Because slut implies lack of self control/hedonism. and Manslut/manawhore implies lack of self control and good looks/game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:10 PM
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>Dying with husband worried. "Can i have sex with someone else" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:46 AM
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It's because most rpers are extremely unsuccessful before they adopt rp and lack social skills(no rp will fix this gap). Also rp tries to appeal to most women or dating market with a hookup focus. This means that a portion of women will be turned away, which is to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:04 AM
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Female version of mgtow probably exists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:49 PM
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But why try if women are not even interested in men? I'd assume women who aren't interested in men are single. As for women as a collective, yeah relationship rate have dropped probably, specially in work heavy countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:49 PM
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So how haven't we died off as a species? Because most people still feel being in a relationship is superior to staying single even if sacrifices have to be made by both parties. And why are women on dating apps and dressing nice and putting Botox in the faces? To look good Wtf are they doing it for if men would fuck anything? Looking good boosts confidence and opens up more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:40 PM
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I fear changing society to fit a narrative only works for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:45 PM
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The reason sisyphus cannot be happy is because he did not choose his path. He was punished and thus did not voluntary choose his path. I agree with this tho You can’t change how reality works or control human nature. It is the way it is. It’s much healthier to accept it and work within those bounds to live a happy and content life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:44 PM
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Feminism = men bad, women stand up together. +past chad experiences lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:46 AM
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I also am not going to pretend as if I haven't noticed a pattern of younger, heavily overweight women often being wholly unremarkable in other areas of their lives. Refering to this not op
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:01 AM
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Also id assume alot of overweight people wouldn't be on tinder so it would raise the margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:38 AM
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5'9 is lowballing hard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:37 AM
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I'd guess virgins who couldn't get laid but want to get rid of the virgin status(socially mocked) would consider using a prostitute the most. People who can get relationships/sex somewhat regularly usually think that it isn't worth it, compared to a virgin who puts it on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:33 PM
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Being overweight usually but not always signals lack of care or laziness, that spreads across everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:50 PM
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If you lead with money as a way to compensate for looks/weight then you attract women who value you for your ability to part with money for them. They think the money you spend = how much you love them(since, naturally looks aren't what is keeping them). This might give you the illusion of love, but it isn't you who they love. TLDR- Lose weight get bitches :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:42 PM
2

So you usually end up fucking a starfish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:55 AM
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Yeah but it's usually a one way streak. For you she's a hot prostitute for the chick it's probably another client to get the job over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:55 AM
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Yeah I don't get the appeal of prostitutes too, even in casual hookups there is some attraction albeit physical. Prostitution is literally sex for labour which just kills the whole mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:09 PM
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Japan and korea are also examples of work cultures crushing birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:02 PM
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Unrelated, but good luck on finding the one, dating is already brutal for most men and you are playing on the hardcore difficulty. Changing yourself to be more masculine for a sake of a relationship that was never according to your desires is worse than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:38 PM
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Fucking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:56 AM
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Don't get how this basic thing is so hard for them to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:26 AM
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Emotions are natural reactions to stimulus. If something makes you sad you can either fix the problem or leave if it's not truly not solveable. Stoicism is literally just coping silently to appear to have some self control lol you just direct the sadness inwards instead of outwards. Stoics also advocate to expect nothing from life and supress desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:36 AM
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Stoicism is self tyranny, worthless philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:27 AM
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numbers game In terms of sending requests yes individual women mean nothing to them. False unless psychopath/sociopath. Getting dates is rare so each individual person is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:07 PM
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but really they are doing the same thing to many women No it's the opposite of that. Getting a date off online apps is an achievement men for most and is a rarity so they try their best to not flatter. The other part is social norms expect men to pay so people think it's better to just pay and get the date off on a good end rather than argue or juggle bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:35 PM
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I'm talking in the framework of finding dates off online apps. Since men outnumber women by alot + simp harder it means to differentiate yourself from others you are expected to pay. It's not that they don't care. It's that they want to stand out or appear more wealthy/charitable to leave a good impression, It's flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:31 PM
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Holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:21 PM
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Most men who go on dates try to increase their odds since they are directly competing with every other man due to how relationship dynamics work. If this includes planning everything or paying for dates then it's sadly a needed sacrifice unless you are good looking/high status. If it was the other way around then men would expect women to pay aswell and women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:42 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:23 AM
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Hypergamy the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. And that guarantees humans engage in the same behavior Because dating site stats+ other research shows that women gravitate to the small% of men at the top. This isn't unusual for humans and happens across many animal species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:13 PM
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Reason is literally because one parent shares multiple women so he cannot focus on each one adequately. Lowkey single motherhood will be the norm in poly marriage societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:46 PM
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Use your brain and the reason is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:43 PM
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Polygamous society and relationships are worse off in raising children. Reason why should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:42 PM
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Polygamous society = bad for raising children. No morality involved :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:41 PM
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Bad for the growth and raising of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:38 PM
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Bad for the growth and raising of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:38 PM
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Women of various species have evoluted to only seek the highest quality mate(hypergamy). This exists for evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:31 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:54 PM
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I like women who are somewhat stern and aren't pushovers or unable to handle responsibility/turmoil without frontloading it to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:21 PM
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And there's nothing wrong with not being chadmaxx unless you care about ephemeral respect from people you likely don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:15 PM
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Yeah seems normal? I don't see what's wrong. Submissive people probably don't seek submissive/feminine people since then neither get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:13 PM
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Nah it's just personal preferences. I doubt gym chicks find it hard to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:06 PM
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"As long as I find him cute" = "Settling" for a 8/10 who does not have options rather than the 10/10 who does Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:03 PM
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Depends on how strong the bro code is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:01 PM
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Not always attractive but i guess necessary??? Like I don't think people would care about a woman being able to inflict violence/protect. But being able to have the capacity of violence is basically necessary as a man to be respected in society or by women. It is not socially imposed as feminists claim with muh patriarchy, only reinforced. You never see women who complain about patriarchy date a stickman do you. In women it usually doesn't matter for attraction purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:57 PM
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Think of it like hunger. You can supress it but cannot eradicate it. When it's fulfilled you can focus onto other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:43 PM
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9 months
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:52 PM
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People don't seek abusers. The people with high dark triad traits and those who are good looking attract a fair bit of women who don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:32 PM
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Yes. I am dating a homeless woman that is a 5 on a good day precisely because she can't do better than me and knows it. https://imgur.io/gallery/aDOqMjI
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:17 PM
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True or bait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:49 PM
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When a ship sinks, people know who are expected to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:21 PM
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People should only have sex in marriage or some close to it. Why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:20 PM
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I think most people would agree that face>height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:00 PM
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Are you willing to learn Mandarin for me Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:51 AM
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men are less picky for sexual encounters just as picky as women for marriage. I mean yes People generally get more picky in marriage as it is a much longer commitment so factors such as wealth/personality/beliefs are of more importance here. Women lower their standards of marriage since the top% of men who have the most options and those of whom who appear to be stable in their life(wealth /relationships and looks) are unattainable for a LTR as opposed to a hookup/ONS which is low commitment, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:32 PM
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I don't below in "shallowness" as a concept since attempting to lower your individual desires and attraction to fit societal norms is merely putting on an act since desires can only be contained but not eradicated. Preferences are fine but women undeniably have much stricter baseline standards, which is what I meant. Sure tall women aren't the preference for men but the pool of desired/acceptable height of women are much more common than the desirable height of men(6ft/tall)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:57 PM
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The fact that it can be approved at its formation but then thrown out due to multiple subjective factors (like the impact of kids)= not reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:37 PM
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It always was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:58 PM
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This also is relevant to standards and so called "shallowness". Men will choose the physically better looking woman most of the time, but their baseline requirements are fairly low, specially when compared to women. Women's baseline standards are much higher and they would rather not participate in relationships(short or long) or share a person than lower their standards. Part of this is just lust of men to have ONS in tinder etc, but i think this largely applies to dating and relationships as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:08 AM
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Ugly is a subjective term but there are physical features that when considered in the context of women as a collective, are objectively good to have like height. Sure there are some women who want shorter guys or don't mind but being tall is superior to being short when considering women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:04 AM
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7 to 8 is a much bigger difference. 4-5 is still NPC category to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:56 AM
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Can be thrown out; not reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:41 AM
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12 kids. Imagine the birthdays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:02 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:58 AM
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But the athletes were dicked over by their league and few are misogynistic in that thread. Most just complain about inequality or revenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:37 AM
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Why would a male dominated sub equal a misogynist sub if you are saying 99% of men are nice guys? But it isn't a misogynist sub, they were not hating on women just the women's team attempting to cry for inequality while being offered a contract that pays more upfront. It feels like you are agreeing with women who say men are toxic when you say that. No because you think anything that even vaguely paints any women in a bad light(even if it's justified) as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:26 AM
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If a child is born and does not have enough funds offered for his care he starves or dies. If a child isn't born and has no funding then via abortion this won't be a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:23 AM
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The main thing people are mad about is the unfairness and the backtracking of the women's team and not about fairness. This is the top comment which I copy pasted. "basically there are 2 main options on how to pay national team players - (1) more upfront guaranteed money, better benefits (like health insurance) with a smaller bonus for winning, or (2) less upfront guaranteed money, no real benefits, but a much larger bonus for winning. The first is more stable with less upside, and the 2nd has m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:24 PM
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As for this sub, it's an rp vs bp debate subreddit without the excessive censorship of other subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:08 PM
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maybe its a small % of men but its 99% of the internet and i'm way more It's the vocal spammers primarily. People with normal views won't type the same general message everywhere. People will be drawn to controversial/bait comments more often than the average positive or general comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:07 PM
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Well this is just going to turn into a blame game like every financial abortion debate, oh well. Both sides will say the same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:02 PM
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But if a person(while abortion is available) does not want custody/foregoes parenthood. He/she should be able to cut tied, women(through abortion) can do this, men cannot. I understand women should not be forced to have abortions against their will but if this is the case then it only makes sense for men to atleast be able to financially remove himself alongside parenthood (while abortion is an option)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:44 PM
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A small% of men act like this. The people who see on redpill/incel sites are the extreme minority. Most men don't keep fake personalities during dates lmao. Only hyper attractive people can act like shit and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:07 PM
1

If a child is born then a absent/cut ties father actively harms the child. If a child isn't born and pregnancy is at its early stages then the father can cut ties and quit parenthood while removing himself from future financial duty. The mother can then get an abortion or not according to her desires(she bears the baby so she should have the choice).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:02 PM
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Bailing before the baby is born = abortion possible and child future isn't affected. Bailing after he is born = living child cannot be supported
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:58 PM
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He means that if a child is born then CS is fine but during the early stages of pregnancy if the male wants to opt out of parenthood then he should be able to. The mother can then has the choice, abortion or not according to her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:47 PM
1

Take the mage pill in dark souls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:42 PM
1

They are dodging your questions like neo from the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:12 AM
2

Rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:42 AM
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I assure you that is one of the lowest thresholds among people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:32 AM
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Well yeah but if there is a person who does not cross the threshold for most people's look filter then he/she is doomed for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:31 AM
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So she decides everything about the pregnancy, including whether to terminate or not. But that wasn't the core of OP's(the main post) message. It's a question to pro-choice women so what you said is already implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:25 PM
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They want to have their own cake and eat it too. Don't bother arguing about financials in an abortion to women. Its utterly pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:42 PM
2

Eh people ghost for alot of reasons, just move on to greener pastures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:38 AM
1

Red flags basically are small things you notice that are negative and may escalate in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:36 AM
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Atleast they are lenient with ban posts unlike other subreddits like these where they have shit like Rule 1) All comments and posts must be from a feminist perspective. Post- Generalized misandry People who disagree in the comment section are banned. This subreddit is atleast entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:35 AM
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Much smaller pool of people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:11 PM
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No, having high standards in America is a good thing. Regardless of country, yes. You guys always scream that Americans standards are too high and now you're saying they lie about it. Makes no fucking sense. People lie about their standards(if they are high) to show a false sense of benevolence. You don't see rich 30 year old men saying they want to date attractive girls younger than them, or see women saying they won't have a relationship with someone not tall enough or not rich. There is benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:12 PM
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(I don't believe in this, set your own standards. But it still lowers your reputation) . I don't but people do, which is why people lie about their standards/desires so as to not seem "shallow" which is what I meant in the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:07 PM
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Like women don't benefit from lying to men about what's attractive at all lol. Some of them do . If you were to have high standards then it's better to lie and say you accept everybody then let others perceive yourself as shallow(I don't believe in this, set your own standards. But it still lowers your reputation) .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:05 PM
2

Why stay then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:51 AM
2

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:47 AM
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Most people just do the chores required either out of necessity or a loving sacrifice. Nobody is going to sit there with a goddamn calculator trying to figure out the% of chores required by the other partner. Worst case scenario hire a cook/cleaner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:54 PM
2

Pretty much everyone watches porn or used to(before finding someone). I don't think porn is the reason sexless men stay sexless. Usually a combination of social skills/looks/money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:44 AM
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People desire both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:43 AM
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I mean no shit. They generally fill the void of loneliness though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:06 PM
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Does exist when at a certain age people focus on getting children. Hoe phase might be the wrong terminology but women who sleep around alot and then slow down to find a partner for marriage/kids is essentially what "hoe phase" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:02 PM
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Not exactly true. While yes fat ugly women are usually ignored, so are fat ugly men. The bigger point people try to say is that it's harder to get an equal as a man as women usually have multiple options from men better and worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:37 AM
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Plus women see how men treat different women based on looks alone. Before a woman even showcases anything about her personality. That goes for both sexes though. Halo effect+ modern dating being a catalogue of matching based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:33 AM
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Yeah most people equate blackpill to nihilism when it's more lookspill. Blackpilled posters on chan and their own subreddit keep doomposting maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:31 AM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:24 AM
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Sure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:18 AM
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Marriage is not bad for men. It strongly behooves a man to commit and support his wife and offspring, for their health and development and the stability of society. Of course marriage is the most viable way to raise children and beneficial for the long term interests of the family and child but that's not what I am talking about. I am not saying that people shouldn't marry because marriage in of itself is bad. It's the outdated divorce system that purely exists for wealth transfer. In reality di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:54 PM
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The original comment thread started with marriage is a bad deal for men." Don't divorce" and "life is inherently risky" does not solve anything. I assure you if things were the other way around for women, female solidarity and constant nagging would force it to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:31 PM
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The problem would be solved if government was not involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:24 PM
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Just because you are not one of these women does not mean much. Most people would fall for those two categories (including me btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:03 PM
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Risk reward ratio not good enough, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:01 PM
1

Isn't the cause of the deadbeat dad thing in black communities due to people choosing bad partners(the thugs, street jocks etc)? I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:51 PM
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Well there are a category of men who want to get married but don't or reluctantly do so due to severence laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:50 PM
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Mfw I realise some women might be against the legalization of prostitution due to this reason. https://imgur.com/gallery/yrhXU0S
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:48 PM
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Only if children are in the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:43 PM
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Gigachad. jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:39 PM
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You do realise two people are involved in marriage it's inherently risky in nature due to that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:37 PM
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Married people also on average work longer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:36 PM
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He is saying that depressed lonely people don't marry. So the marriage pool is happier due to a lack of them. Not that marriage instantly makes men happier. It's an elimination thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:34 PM
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A small percentage of women marry for money, probably the same amount of men marry for looks. I wouldn't say women purely marry for money, it's just that being richer than the woman raises your points by a significant margin, same with women's looks for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:09 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:07 AM
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What stupid ass answer is this? Men don't sign divorce papers because they lose a significant chunk of money or pay child support, literally shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:49 AM
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Imo the biggest thing is not losing significant chunks of money on severence or paying child support for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:47 AM
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I've stopped trying to respond about divorce payments to women on this subreddit as some of them unironically think they cause a 50% increase in value or their services are equal to the efforts needed to sustain corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:30 PM
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I am asking basically for the government to not be involved with marriage splits and let the two people set up their own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:35 PM
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Prenups is not a proper marriage contract but a flimsy failsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:34 PM
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Discarded alot, specially after children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ukfayy/if_men_want_to_protect_their_assets_in_a_true/i7s176y/ Respond to this by quotes like I am, this comment by me goes into more detail. The other OP of that thread dodged all the statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:54 AM
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Why do you assume women don’t work in marriages? This is not true anymore. I am aware, the point is that the more ambitious/high earning you are or think you could be the more shitty the fixed divorced clauses are. The “million dollar company” story is rare and also doesn’t take into account that the wife could be working with the husband on it? The wife working(unless she is a business partner with shares for example as is common) should just be given a salary like a regular employee. The story…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:53 AM
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But that's not always true. It would imply that the non earning partner contributes directly or indirectly the amount they seek which usually does not happen. If a guy gets married, then a few years on he builds his company to a million dollar level for example. Did the woman really add 50% of the value to that she seeks? Usually not, For example billionaire's wife having a divorce like bill gates. Did his wife really contribute the amount she seeks? About compensating for her time, the breadwin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:42 AM
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I don't plan to marry but the problem with 50/50 splits I go in severe detail in this comment. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ukfayy/if_men_want_to_protect_their_assets_in_a_true/i7s176y/ Basically I think its wealth transfer and not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:32 AM
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Prenups are shitty safety nets that can be discarded on filmy reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:28 AM
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No I mean divorce amounts are set by the state, i want it so that at the time of marriage the partners can decide the future divorce split(if it happens to them). Not talking about the calculations after divorce like it is right now but deciding the split before the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:14 AM
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Not at its formation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:07 AM
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Letting people decided on the divorce splits by themselves like any other contract, rather than it being locked by gov. At the formation of the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:03 AM
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At the start I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:41 AM
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And to answer the question: the reason is because you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them. Possible without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:57 AM
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Problem with marriages is that you cannot alter the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:52 AM
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Earlier is used to about individually/rights- Voting rights/education/sending them to work. Now these still exists among feminism, feminists fighting for saudi arabia for example. But in modern feminism in western countries , it has dissolved to women trying to gain more power while spinning the narrative to suit their needs while ignoring and being hostile literally every other group aa they don't want to share the spotlight. They wont criticise every woman being allowed to leave ukraine(optima…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:21 AM
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Not necessarily true. People who couldn't get laid wouldn't go to monkdom because they couldn't get laid. Incels want sex. Monks follow whatever beliefs they have , some of which might require abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:50 PM
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I mean what are good standards? Is 1% too low or too high. Nobody knows. Also men aren't attracted to every woman they meet. Men simply are content with most people and choose the ones they can get/date (picture a buffet), women have a laundry list of requirements due to a bigger portion of men being interested in them. It has always been this way. Men who are attracted to almost every women they meet need to reassess their standards Not uncommon for women to have unrealistic standards then comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:35 PM
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Pretty small compared to the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:13 PM
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Incels are different from monks and priests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:10 PM
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How the fuck did socialism come into all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:27 PM
2

Same could be same for most dating standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:31 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:25 PM
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Yup "I know and have arranged people to cheat with but I am too much of a bitch to call the relationship off so " open marriage" it is. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:33 PM
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The person suggesting the open relationship 8/10 times is trying to break up in an unofficial way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:53 PM
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50/50 is a fair split because it account for all the non-monetary benefits a woman brings into the relationship - ie value that is non-monetizable itself but contributes to a man's earning assets/building wealth. Because the reality is, as much as people want to deny this - people absolutely do enjoy more career success within a LTR. Comparatively few people are capable of making great career leaps when they are single, unless they entered the market at an advantage (familiar support/influence/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:09 AM
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There is You can simply design a monthly amount that the breadwinner pays to the person ar home, this should be allowed to be negotiable. There is simply no reason for the government to set a 50/50 limit other than the fact that wealth transfer + divorce court lawyers making bank. If you don't like the contract you can opt out/negotiate like every single contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:10 AM
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Sure and they aren't fair or just. Compensating women I agree with, just not how it is done currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:48 AM
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Already wrote paragraphs of explanation why 50/50 split is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:47 AM
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Yes marriage is beneficial to kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:48 AM
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1) The stay at home partner has you know? A fucking home+ food expenses+living expensed covered, usually. 2)If their service is to take care of the kids+home(nanny/babysitter) then just set it up so the person gets a set amount of money per month. If someone goes bezosmaxx and eans a million dollars with taking business risks then it makes no sense for the stay at home partner to get 50% of that, it's pure wealth transfer. 3) Living conditions change and dont have to be set in stone. Ofc alimony…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:04 AM
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1) The stay at home partner has you know? A fucking home+ food expenses+living expensed covered, usually. 2)If their service is to take care of the kids+home(nanny/babysitter) then just set it up so the person gets a set amount of money per month. If someone goes bezosmaxx and eans a million dollars with taking business risks then it makes no sense for the stay at home partner to get 50% of that, it's pure wealth transfer. 3) Living conditions change and dont have to be set in stone. Ofc alimony…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:03 AM
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If you have never looked after kids you will never understand, to suggest it’s babysitting is actually quite offensivse Sure but it's not comparable to running a business f a relationship splits up, it is treated as a business partnership since that is the fairest way to do it for all parties involved. I wrote paragraphs explaining why this isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:01 AM
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They couldn’t have earned this money without the other partner so of course it’s spilt 50/50, it’s a partnership See this is the problem, it simply isn't true. The breadwinner doesn't gain 50% of his value off the house take carer. The SAHM demanding 50% only makes sense if she contributes 50% to the revenue. Judging divorce splits by% is then simply wealth transfer under the guise of compensation. one by working one by working in the house/family. This should not entail 50% for no proper reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:05 PM
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Literally the first sentence of my first reply was I agree with compensating the parter See the big reply I sent you to know why 50/50 splits isnt right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:53 PM
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If their service is to take care of the kids+home(nanny/babysitter) then just set it up so the person gets a set amount of money per month. If someone goes bezosmaxx and eans a million dollars with taking business risks then it makes no sense for the stay at home partner to get 50% of that, it's pure wealth transfer. 1) You cannot put a monetary value on a women's future earning potential, even if you could this begs the question of why does an arbitrary split exist at all. 2) Alimony seeks to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:45 PM
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I agree with compensating the partner but 50/50 is excessive because https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ukfayy/comment/i7pocm3/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:27 PM
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Lmao this makes no sense, if the laws made the split 90/10 you would have women rightfully complaining about it. Marriage is usually a requirement for LTR and it benefits SAHM women. Just because people want marriage and kids does not mean the system isn't shit. It's a compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:25 PM
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Even if the expenses are covered, the earning partner is still a. growing within their career/increasing their marketability on the job market and gaining more earning potential through experience and skill-honing and don't forget pensions. All of these things a SAHM has to forego. A man will not loose his job upon his divorce, but a woman who has taken ample breaks from work will be behind career/pension/savings-wise unless her husband is setting money aside for her while he works. And how does…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:22 PM
2

Financially support not equal to bullshit governmental unfair contracts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:52 PM
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It's not about people not wanting to give away anything (some do) but most people simply think the 50/50 share is unfair as the efforts of the person taking care of the home isn't as big as someone running a company for example. The breadwinner takes the risk of the company and gets reward/losses, the person at home does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:50 PM
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Just because someone has a wife/husband doesn't mean 50% if a magical number. A SAHM does not contribute hundreds of thousands of dollars for example. SAHM also have a house usually rented/owned by the man, have daily working expenses covered by the breadwinner etc. Governments shouldn't set marriage contracts and it should be allowed to be negotiable other than the dogshit 50/50 that exists for wealth transfer. Staying at home is not the same type of risk as a business risk, It's not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:48 PM
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50/50 should be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:43 PM
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Lol no, it's harder to actually find dates as a man and unless you have external variables that boost your desirability ( good looks etc) you will lose in the dating market to men who will provide( even sacrifice) more. Remain single too This only works if you know you can reliably find women who will accept the split. Again, women are the final pickers. They choose which men to date and if a woman has a choice to pick a provider or a 50/50 splitter it's objectively better to pick the provider i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:23 PM
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People here just come to debate, real relationships are alot more loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:14 PM
2

Dangerously based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:13 PM
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See the problem is that most women expect men to sacrifice their earnings and share their wealth, while most many men accept this if they are in a relationship where they make more money. Men are allowed to make choices that fuck up their own finances and then complain that women would rather be alone than make the same choices. This absolutely destroys a huge amount of relationship prospects for men. Women can afford to be picky about their wealth while most men cannot, this is why men sacrific…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:11 PM
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Why don't they just say the obvious. Hiding the fact only ruins their image.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:03 PM
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True. I'm fine if they want to do that, but the attempt to hide this fact is so confusing. Almost every woman searches for a man more l accomplished than her financially. Inb4 personal anecdote about how they earn more than their husbands so i am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:58 PM
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Because some women unironically say no as "convince me" or play games. It's just intuition at that point about what she means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:00 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:55 AM
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They cannot answer it, the double double standard is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:47 AM
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Surgeries to make men taller involves shattering your bones and injecting metal into them to artificially increase your height Side effects are pain, have to relearn how to walk, poor condition of legs. It's just not worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:45 AM
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Why? Is it because being a woman gives you advantages socially or is it purely a preference thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:43 PM
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Hard to say. Most people stick with comfort so if I were to transform into a woman tommorow, i would be scared shitless as I have no idea how their brains operate, will literally have to pull off a "no longer human".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:36 PM
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Can't say I'm surprised, female solidarity is just insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:50 AM
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Lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:49 AM
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The convo had been a waste like five replies ago when all you got was deflections.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:52 PM
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If women had an equivalent of an ED it would be the same, menopause is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:58 AM
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No use
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:29 AM
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Don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:28 AM
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Mothers often stay home with children, sacrificing earning potential. It’s not fair for a woman to have sacrificed 10 years of no income to her three kids and then upon divorce, be abandoned with few prospects very low income and three kids to take care of. That’s why child support and alimony exist. See compensating them is fine and all but giving them a % of money rather than just a set amount of $/day. If somehow person a is married to b, and b is the SAHM and a becomes a multi millionaire. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:27 AM
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Worried about alimony? Marry someone with good earning potential. So if I flip this if a couple have a huge difference in earnings they shouldn't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:21 AM
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Women really like the shitty contracts when it benefits them, female solidarity is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:20 AM
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Women really like the shitty contracts when it benefits them, female solidarity is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:20 AM
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I don’t know why all the guys seem to hate the idea of marriage… If you’re worried the women wanting to marry you is a gold digger, cheater, POS who will make you raise/pay for a baby that isn’t yours, it seems to me you shouldn’t be with that person. Maybe you should BREAK up (not brake up). Because there is little reason to do so as a man except a fringe sense of necessity. Divorce splits(if the man earns more) favours women, divorce is a costly and stressful procedure. The woman can get secur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:17 AM
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The modern world is devoid of meaning and true purpose Nah, just choose a path you want and be the best at it or try to, just because nobody praises virtues doesn't mean it's a meaningless world. True purpose has never existed, purposes written in religious books were merely to mold society as a moral law. Now the highest societal value a man can have is being hollywood-hot and banging a thousand women. That's what people who aren't "chad" think, would you take a ceo or a footballer of a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:06 AM
1

Sagging tits and a non sexually functioning penis are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:53 AM
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Bateman pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:28 PM
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50+ men at 24 year old Uh your judgement is warranted, bail lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:58 AM
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Pretty sure most of them stay after work hours too. Japan for sure work longer hours even though stats say it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:55 PM
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Take a look at Japan/Korea, they have a low levels of obesity yet have an arguably worse dating scene. That's due to their work culture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:40 PM
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Fml
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:43 AM
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I mean if a man wants a real relationship then shuffling partners once they get old is a pretty stupid idea. Younger chicks are also probably harder to get if you are older so it could be considered settling but not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:27 PM
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Why would I marry a man that believes I decrease in value just because I’m aging? Why would I risk him leaving me with a kid, for him to chase after younger ass once I age out? Its because it.. Happens? Men prefer younger woman, it's no surprise. If someone believed your looks decrease with age(does for both genders), it doesn't mean they think of you are worthless. People don't treat older women like complete waste, their smv just decreases which isn't a problem for most men who genuinely do wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:11 AM
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So logically a man who believes in the wall and only wants sex This wall doctrine affects this not most relationships. Relationships>fading beauty for most who aren't looking for just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:06 AM
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Decline does not mean Useless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:05 AM
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Kek it's alpha fucks beta bucks. Women in their peak physical prime(beauty) go for "chads" and when their beauty or smv declines they drop their standards for a secure future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:53 AM
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Watch no response from them now splendid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:46 AM
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I am not denying the possibility that she could just be attracted to him even with her track record, it's hard to tell without full context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:52 PM
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Feminism before was women trying to get rights in the workspace/votes etc. Feminism now is women collectively trying to gain power for themselves in the expense of pretty much anyone else. Feminism aims for gender equality but you usually never get the feeling in feminism circles that they actually give a fuck. Usually it's complaining and complaining and making generalizations. Same for mens right subreddit for example but it's 5x worse for feminism. That's why it's annoying to talk to self pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:28 PM
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Point is if he improves and let's say he is a 6.5-7 if a girl then dates him then she would be genuinely attracted to him which K due to her history will probably never be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:51 AM
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This was a very good post. And it perfectly illustrates the disconnect a lot of dudes have. They want to be first. As in the first choice, if not the only choice There is a difference between men wanting to be the first choice and being "settled for" R isn't cap America 2, he isn't the type of person K lusted and tried to date and so if Cap 2 comes along whose to say she doesn't cheat/leave R for the person type of person she was attracted to. If she wanted to date some tall handsome buff dude a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:48 AM
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Or maybe chain hooking up with people on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:40 AM
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Your nudes leaked online https://m.imgur.com/a/1k3JgLj
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:28 AM
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Desires can only be suppressed, not eradicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:57 AM
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How do you get paid to ridicule thirsty simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:51 AM
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Obviously this shouldn't be enforced in court, just saying people who slack after getting into a marriage are morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:46 PM
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Obviously hyper specific cases cannot be made that's why divorces can be initiated without a big reason. Common no's are obvious like cheating/domestic violence but the specifics not so much. There isn't an written agreement for a man to be productive and take care of themselves or a woman to take care of their looks but there is a nonformal agreement between the parties to actually you know contribute to the union(mariage)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:45 PM
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What has all of this got to do with the topic on hand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:36 PM
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The true reason is because people have a natural urge to protect children, because they aren't self sufficient and women, because woman hold ovaries which are the population capacity of a country. It's biologically hardwired as if a significant amount of women die then the country loses massive amounts of it's population. Not this and it’s more natural to send a mother off with her brood of children, This is feminist rhetoric to avoid the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:25 AM
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Nah thats just being smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:21 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:57 AM
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they adapt and conform due to their nature This is well recorded tho isn't a revelation. Modern women don't follow the same principles as ancient oppressed women, you don't have to adapt when you can influence laws that protect you. If a king rules over you, you obey or adapt or die. Same isn't true in today's age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:51 AM
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Law/ regulations made by the controlling interest mean jack shit if they're not made in unison with those who have been directly affected. Ofc, but how does this relate to ancient china where kings ruled and fought. There weren't modern courts there. Nowadays women's rights have taken alot of precedence in court(being ridiculous at family court) . Women are adaptable in times of oppression, but how does this relate to anything else you have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:49 AM
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This means they aren't overwhelming the oppressed demographic and they adapt and conform due to their nature, what does this have to do with chinese concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:46 AM
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Comcubines are effectively slaves, both were marginalised. You just want to prove some bullshit and give false examples lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:35 AM
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Also why do you think women now are accepting to be abused. You are comparing a modern women with rights and laws/regulations supporting human rights compared to concubines in ancient china. Slaves also were killed if they didn't do the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:33 AM
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If in old times a man was asked to go to war and refused, then you know what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:32 AM
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Same for men in wars, Japanese kamikaze etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:43 AM
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Prenups can be dismissed on even filmsy reasons they aren't as reliable as contracts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:02 PM
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Well yeah that's why the state shouldn't interfere, which they will because they can and people won't object to this, not even the lib men, lib women benefit from the governmental regulations so they won't object to it. It won't happen ik.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:00 PM
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Sure, if you put it in the contract that won't happen due to governments not giving up power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:44 AM
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Humanity favours not leaving women in the dust as women are needed to sustain a country's population capacity, same reason why men fight in wars and in an emergency we let children(of course) and women leave first. This biological urge to not leave women with nothing seeps into the governmental marriage system. Marriage is completely horseshit on governmental terms and prenups do nothing. Plus marriage doesn't offer you much, the termination means you lose money and if your goal isn't to raise k…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:39 AM
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Remove the state from it and make it into a contract, with alimony clauses citing the% etc. No reason state should force these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:27 AM
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