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After sex it’s on her to escalate to the relationship just like you escalated to get sex. That’s the most balanced way to move forward in modern dating. To keep your value high in her eyes she needs to work for your commitment, as your commitment to her is worth far more than the sex that she provides to you. This is where most men get it wrong, as they don’t understand value being exchanged. Angling for the relationship after sex as a man is low value behavior as it sub communicates to her your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:41 PM
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You are correct it’s entirely about opportunity cost and “what could’ve been”. The only advice I can give you is never angle for the relationship first as a man especially in the modern dating era. Because she has a plethora of options she needs to bring up the relationship first and she also needs to be more invested in you than vice versa for the relationship to last. Anything else outside of that is usually her settling for you because her hypergamy isint satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:43 PM
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All the data suggests women want men older, more established and experienced than themselves. A man at 22-25 is very very different than a women’s at 22-25 the women will run circles around the men her age socially because she’ll have far more exposure and experience with the opposite sex than vice versa. So a 22f dating a 28-32m will be more “equal” relationship in regard to what each other brings to the table leverage wise. This is also uniquely American/western/1st world bubble phenomenon, ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:21 PM
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Truly desirable men do not use dating apps( speaking from experience) because we’re being sexually solicited by other men lol. Apps got really weird after the pandemic I haven’t used them since. But from what I remember there’s definitely a higher concentration of undesirable women on apps who still expect you to pursue them despite you being wayyy out of their league. They get salty and entitled to your attention when you don’t engage with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:35 PM
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Being the side dude will “red pill” more than any influencer ever could
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 PM
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Spacey was acquitted on all criminal and civil charges. Don’t get upset with me be upset with jury and presiding judges and the accusers who were “to busy” to attend their own trial lol. There was another case where the accusers alleged they were SA’d by Spacey at some famous event that Spacey didn’t even attend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:09 PM
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You could’ve picked some better examples. Kevin spacey, Matt araiza, Patrick Kane, Derrick rose and (most recently but likely based on the evidence or lack thereof ) Connor Mcgregor all got falsely Me too’d for either rape or SA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:56 PM
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Not entirely wrong. “Nice” is the default state of men in the west, women are use to walking over men for the most part even if they are not consciously aware of it. That’s why “bad boys” are easily distinguished from the rest. They are their mental point of origin, women sense that they are just an option which subconsciously makes them chase the “bad boys” validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:00 PM
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The definition or context of a word can change culturally over time even if it’s technically/clinically incorrect. We do the same thing in adult age gap relationships by calling the older partner a Pedophile/groomer despite the fact that pedo means someone attracted to prepubescent children meaning 12 years or younger. Like technically R Kelly isint a pedophile but no one wants to die on that weird hill. Overall I agree with you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:35 PM
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Somewhat true, a man commitment to a women is worth far more than the casual sex she would be able to provide to him. That’s why a men’s standards for a relationship are a lot higher than what they are for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:25 PM
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If that were truly the case then women wouldn’t care how much their man makes. But they do care so what I said still applies. She still wants him to out earn her if she ever wanted to leave the workforce and rear children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:58 AM
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From an investment point a man’s commitment to a women is more valuable than the sex she would provide to him. Which is why men standards are far higher for a relationship than it is for her sex. If a man is going to put his wallet and life on the line then she needs bring value in other ways to make that man’s commitment worth it for him. Regular markets forces at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:08 PM
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You don’t really have choice as a lot of competing is done subconsciously for both men and women even if you’re making the conscious choice not to. It’s not really a bug but a feature of biological success. If you were not competitive your genes would’ve died out long ago. Women compete by mate guarding highly desirable men from other ovulating women. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26766112/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:31 PM
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Older men have more leverage and experience than younger men and younger women have more smv/leverage than older women. simply put, if you want the best outcomes romantically it’s better do from a place of abundance (ie leverage) which younger women have over younger men and older men have over older women. Logically it makes since for older men and younger women to pair off because they both at thier “peak”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:49 PM
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Culture of hedonism exacerbated by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:06 PM
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Get with enough women and you will naturally be red pilled or attuned to “red pill theory’s” since you’ll be more exposed to female nature. So it’s like never ending feedback loop if you’re successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:52 PM
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The dynamics would revert back to what they were pre apps without the abundance of artificial options. A sense of urgency( for men) and agency(for women) would return to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:30 PM
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She can give it up for adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:52 PM
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Resources and money is just an easy way to identify/ define hypergamy but it’s much more complicated than that. Dating up can mean getting a guy thats physically more attractive( genes) or dating a man that she perceives to be higher status in some subject or context that she values. It doesn’t always have to be about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:44 PM
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The planet was always going to heat up regardless of political idealisms. And conservatives don’t deny climate change is real they deny that global warming is solely man made. People from 2nd and 3rd world countries tend to have higher fertility rates than 1st world countries and tend to be more religious too. Edit: Grammers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:29 PM
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The term you’re looking for is called: The conservative fertility advantage. Long story short more fertile religious societies/cultures will conquer or absorb less fertile ones. History doesn’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:52 PM
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People in the west like to hustle ass backwards. Anecdotal but all of my friends that settled down earlier with kids and marriage are making more money now in their 30’s. This likely because they already done with child rearing and as seen as more responsible and dependable. Compare that to people who derail their careers later to have children. So not only are you older and less able bodied but you’re broker too lol. Idk where the sentiment of I need to make 6 figures with lambo before I’m read…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:22 PM
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Why do you think “are we dating the same guy” fbook group exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:56 PM
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A dad bod is safer for her long term investment than a man with 6 pack abs. 6 pack abs get a lot of attention from other women who will try to steal or “poach” her mate. Basically the same logic in why wives fatten up their husbands to make them less appealing to other women it’s a mate guarding strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:43 PM
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Abs are made in the kitchen, not in the gym. 6 pack abs is more indicative of a good diet and nutrition over raw strength building.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:36 PM
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Huh? lol silk is way more breathable than cotton.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:22 PM
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High quality women always freshen up before bed in my experience. They don’t bring the days funk and grime into the bedroom with them ESPECIALLY if they have partner. They also make said partner freshen up before bed as well. They also tend to have either silk sheets, silk pajamas or silk pillows for their hair and skin as apart of their self care routine. This has been the case with every high quality women I’ve dated mostly models(not IG). This ladies video posted below is pretty spot on: http…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:07 PM
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I don’t need to chill or change shit or really take advice from someone who is clearly less experienced than me on the matter. This “red pill shit” is how most of world works outside of America. I’m Brazilian my girl is from India, getting outside of the American bubble will change your perspective but being born out side of it will do that infinitely so. Only in north America UK and a few other 1st world nations do people have this distorted view on gender rolls and intersexual dynamics and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:50 PM
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Mid 30’s. I wouldn’t consider anything under 3 years a long term relationship( most would argue 4/5 years). 1 year old relationship is short term I’ve had several FWB last longer than that and the honey moon phase can last up to 1.5- to 2 years alone. If we’re going by my metric 3 LTR lasting at least 3 years or more. Currently in one now. By your metric, that number doubles. Most likely generational differences between us. I learned how to attract and talk to women the old fashion way…by approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:27 PM
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If you think being on anti depressants makes a woman high quality or high value then I don’t know what to tell you..it’s not the antidepressants themselves that makes a women LV but the common use suggests she is unhealthy in other aspects of her life ie mental health. Go back to my original comment and look at my first paragraph. Does that sound like something you would see on the internet? or does sound like something you hear from someone that actually has experience? It should be evident tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:38 PM
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You’re likely a teenager if you’re using virgin as an insult. Sit this one out, and let the grown ups talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:15 PM
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This is less about what the guy likes vs how high quality women carry themselves. From my personal anecdotal experience there are similarities to what this woman is suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:53 AM
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https://youtu.be/XucbxqlYmyA?si=X8CZCFccLRbozeJz This lady is spot on about how classy or HVW act in bed from my personal experience. 3:15.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:39 AM
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As a guy thats dated a lot of models/baddies women who many men would consider HVW the #1 sign is they don’t tell you their standards you either sink or swim. LVW usually voice their laundry list of standards that they themselves wouldn’t qualify for the guy that could meet them. Some other signs of LVW are: -Not being able to cook/clean -Gym shoes or slide sandals while casually wearing dresses or skirts -bright dyed hair that isn’t subtle highlights or streaks -long nails, long fake eyelashes …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:08 AM
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Reason why guys do it is because making statement makes him seem more confident but there a delicate balance. You don’t want to get into a habit of asking too many questions either because you run the risk of killing the romantic vibe in favor of job interview. Men should aim to make 2 open ended statements that encourage her to talk about herself then follow up with a question. That’s how good conversationalist operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:54 PM
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Depends on how you and her met and if you known each other previously. If this is a match from OLD then doing these things will make you come off as over-investing. Attractive men with option don’t over invest. She’ll lose attraction eventually, it will happen subconsciously. If you met her in the wild or maybe you’ve known her for a while then you get more leeway in fact you should put your best foot forward since both of you are more invested as any screw up on either side is far more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:28 AM
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Real commitment like engagement ring, wedding and marriage for men. Obviously a man’s should have options or the potential to get/exercise other options to make his commitment valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:01 PM
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East Asian society are by far more patriarchal, less gynocentric with stronger traditional values and social shaming or being ostracized when stepping out of line. What u see in the west is a women’s unchecked subconscious mating choices/strategies being perpetuated or even encouraged by western society/culture by securing good genes from one guy(less committal attractive men) and resources from another guy( less attractive but more committal).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:16 PM
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It’s not fantasy the term “spinning the block” had to come from somewhere. In fact this scenario is actually very common especially after high school reunions. Currently going through this now with quite a few women from high school only difference is no bitterness from me because I was attractive/popular in high school and not much has changed since then. They’re still getting fucked zoned tho 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:47 PM
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That’s because very few people who actually consider them self red pill knows what the wall means. The red pill guy above me is one of few people on this sub who actually gets it. The wall is a women self realization that she can cannot get the high caliber men to COMMIT to her like she once could: KEY PHRASE being self realization. The wall has always been about relationship market value (RMV) not sexual market value (SMV) women of most ages can get a guy to fuck them that’s not what wall is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:48 PM
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Those are the views of the red pill movement. You clearly don’t enough about the wall or even the red pill views to have an intelligent discussion/debate. The wall is and has always been about RMV not SMV. A women can still be hot enough to fuck (high SMV) but post wall enough not to commit to (low RMV) ie kim kardashian recent fling with OBJ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:15 PM
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Black belt Brazilian jiu jitsu
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:36 PM
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Women get to brag about the guy all her friends want to fuck. Aka me. That’s all that matters. I’m nothing more than a status symbol really… an attractive guy she’s actually caught( first time in her life probss) that she compares to a designer hand bag at best. That’s me. King dingaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:10 AM
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Only online and it’s usually overweight or obese women. I’m Brazilian but identify as black and there’s a stereotype with African American man saddling up with overweight obese white women. I hover around 9-13% body fat so I’m in extremely good shape/am an athlete so it is a slap in my face honestly that they think they have a shot. In the real world I get much better results, all the women that want to play games and manipulate online fall flat in real world face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:57 PM
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Lack of genuine desire. If she’s giving you a laundry list of standards and hoops for you to jump through. If she ghosts, flakes or breadcrumbs then later tries to “spin the block” or “zombie” you. If she invites you out for girls night. If she engages in chore play. If she doesn’t keep private relationship things private. If she doesn’t offer to plan or pay for dates or contribute in someway ( either paying the tip or picking up the drink tabs: can be between dates 3-5).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:52 PM
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It’s a doubled edged sword. If the guy isint creepy and still gets rejected, his social value just tanked in the minds of every other woman that saw the interaction. I do believe that approaching works better than OLD for most men but it needs to be done strategically to minimize those risks because if u bomb just one girl you’ve likely bombed out the entire venue for potential suitors for you to pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:52 PM
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Outcome independence. it’s all just a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:40 PM
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Straight from godfathers mouth. Be careful tho the septum piercers will downvote you too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:55 PM
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I’d argue the opposite. In modern times in the west, women on average have more status than the men on average which is why dating is so hard for the majority. Because of her nature she can only see the men above her which becomes fewer and fewer as she rises through the ranks. This also why she’ll accept sharing a top guy with multiple other women vs dating a lower status guy that would actually treat her right. Simply put, women are not men, they are not benevolent when they hold the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:04 PM
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The point clearly flew right over your heard. See my response to his comment below.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:50 PM
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You have an oversimplified understanding of what hypergamy is. Hypergamy is a women going after men that are higher status(socially or economically often times these are linked) than herself. Men don’t date that way. We go after beauty( which is linked to fertility) not status. Look at most couples today or who women fuck and get into situationships with… the man is 1 or 2 points above the women in the status department( don’t conflate this to looks matching) …and that can be real or perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:43 PM
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Hypergamy is her aborting your baby then ruffling through the trash for drakes used condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:25 PM
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My point, which clearly went over your head, is the fact that it takes more than money to lead a successful relationship. Masculinity, dominance and good D will get you further than money ever will ask pooky and Ray Ray.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:41 PM
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You’re not entirely wrong but it isint ALWAYS about money. Money is just an easy metric to fall back on, especially when you lack the scruples elsewhere. This is why the pool boy will fuck your wife. This is also why me fucking your gf good will be worth more than the $20k engagement ring you bought her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:51 AM
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Agreed. Asians are arguably the most overrated in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:20 AM
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Most want a wedding they don’t want marriage. But In most cases it’s because all of their friends are getting married or settling down. Most just want to keep up with Jones’s. There’s this slight sense of jealousy or envy when they cant experience what the “group” is experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:28 PM
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Back in the day probobly not but nowadays yes. You get all of the positives and you really don’t have to deal with the negatives. In a big liberal city most women don’t want to settle down which makes my life/job easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:52 PM
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I live what I talk about. Your model tier friends game must be weak asf. Or thier needy, probobly a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:34 PM
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It’s never been easier to get laid if you’re an attractive guy in today’s dating world. Women are easy…if you’re attractive. but a lot of that has to do with fact that guys are giving up. There’s way less competition now if you’re guy at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:15 PM
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A lot of times is just a woman trying to keep up with her peers or the Jones’s. If her social circle is starting to pair off and settle down she’ll be way more open to LTR’s, if she’s actually attracted to the guy be damned. It just so happens coincidentally that time is usually around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:42 AM
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Hard to say. Depends on her level of self awareness and competitiveness. Im assuming she no longer trains and you still do? A lot a guys are soft nowadays, she might have more respect for you. On flip the side, if you compete or if you’re into hard sparring how you take an L matters more then taking the L itself. This women perspective is pretty accurate expectation it’s uncomfortable but so are most truths. Skip to .45 seconds https://youtu.be/no7FuVwcn6w?si=rWZcLD39ON5QNNM8
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:36 PM
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I would say generally no, women who like or compete in combat sports isint some giant red flag you think it is. HOWEVER Hypergamy is still a thing. If you’re not interested in, or participate in these activities yourself, then you run the risk of losing your girl to a guy like me. Martial artist in general (regardless of gender) tend to lean right from an idealistic perspective. You can’t blame anybody else’s when you step in the ring and get your ass kicked. When you hop on your bike you need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:36 PM
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I agree. relationships tend to do better when your demons play well together not necessarily having a ton of the same interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:28 PM
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The real reason Jake isint doing well despite looking good on paper is because most of the women his age don’t care about all of that stuff (right now) at the height of their SMV. Women 18-26 at the peak of their fertility and smv are led by their vagina tingles meaning they’re attracted to bad boys who are attractive, un committal , unreliable and just as flakey as they are. Basically they’re attracted to the exact opposite of Jake who is perceived safe and reliable because of his career . Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:53 PM
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I must’ve struck a nerve lol that wasn’t a dig at you don’t take it personally. I lean conservative and I’m Brazilian but identify as black. I run in some wealthy circles and most wealthy attractive men( who women want the most) tend to lean right as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:41 PM
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Short dyed hair, hella tattoos, nose piercings, unshaved pits, usually over weight it’s not hard not to tell womens political ideology nowadays from pictures alone. Most attractive women tend to secretly lean right because they benefit the most from patriarchy/benevolent sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:22 PM
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Jiu jitsu city boys up. Chad lost his girl to Miguel. Once Gisele starting training jiu jitsu it was a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:36 PM
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There’s a kernel of truth to this. They say men think with their dicks but it’s women who are lead by their vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:56 PM
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Pick me men aren’t swimming in pussy, only men deemed high value by other women can. Being high value and and pick me are opposing dynamics you can not be both, your logic is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:01 PM
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That’s not how being a “pick me” works. By your logic Ana de Armas or Jessica alba is a “pick me” women because they’re in high demand with men looking to date/marry/fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:15 PM
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It’s not as socially acceptable to do so now then It was back then. Now a days a women could like you/find you attractive but still reject your approach for a ego/self esteem boost. This was less likely to happen back then because women had less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:16 PM
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It depends. If they were born into money, they care. If they got it out the mud, they care less, because it’s easier to relate. Shit ain’t rocket science Edit. High value men tend to only care if she has something to lose..high value and rich are not always synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:13 AM
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For the most important traits you actually do need to sleep with a good number of women to have good grasp or understanding— I’m speaking more to the validation and amused mastery bit which can be closely related to having a strong frame. You have to sleep with baddie to realize they’re nothing special. Women are highly intuitive, they can pick up on when a guy is truly not impressed/indifferent to their feminine wiles. Faking it till you make it will only get you so far, you’ll eventually be st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:02 PM
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It translates well from my experience. Since you’re already sexual validated you don’t seek a women’s approval the same way you would if your body count was lower. This is the aloof indifference that a lot of women find attractive, in short, it’s becoming outcome independent. You’re not impressed by her beauty, you know that beauty is very common/nothing special , thus it harder for any women to manipulate you. You have amused mastery you know what she going to do, say or think before she does i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:35 PM
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I would assume so. Farming, truck driving, oil rig working, HVAC a lot of blue collar careers are usually based in rural settings where large amounts of space are needed. Add in the fact that more women are going to college and more men go into trades and not really hard to see the divide. They’re probably not many cushy tech jobs in bumblefuck Arkansas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:40 PM
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This is an oversimplification. On average men earn more than women, however, within the context of young men and women, women tend to earn more than their male peers in large metropolitan cities (shocker). Men tend to earn more in rural settings (double shocker). The US is more rural then metropolitan. Vegas in particular is where your average bottle girl can bank $150k+ a year easily and that’s being very generous. Granted the competition is fierce in Vegas for bottle girl positions. https://ww…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:16 PM
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This comes down to demographics mostly. In big cities, generally women want that influencer lifestyle. No body gives asf about big Shirley in rural Alabama wanting that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:00 PM
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Always push for sex on the first meet up. Even if you get rejected women secretly appreciate it because your more in tune with your masculine identity and your wants. You’re also less likely end up in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:34 PM
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It is a DHV but context is key. You’re higher value because you have options so you can dump her, you’re not higher value for just dumping her. Unpopular opinion but during my player years I did dump women for the slightest inconvenience or slightest hint of annoyance and they ALWAYS circled back, not because they actually liked me still, but because their ego wouldn’t allow them to take an L. Overall not the healthiest mindset to have I give them more chances now but I don’t voice my standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:03 PM
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It was better because you were held accountable by your social circle/community. Reputation meant a lot, way more than the facade of the character people created for themselves online. Moreover the dating world was localized instead of globalized which means you had to put your best foot forwards because rejection was much more punishing. Everyone put in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:38 PM
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I agree with the 2nd part but the not first. Empathy and “emotional intelligence” will not make you more attractive to women, in fact, it does the opposite. Being absolutely ruthless will get you far more respect in women eyes then being “nice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:45 PM
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Korean man are just marrying Vietnamese women. American men will just marry other women from other cultures or countries. The feminist will die out. Everyone wins. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:32 PM
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That’s not great, but the focus is on women’s happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:55 PM
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No, the study by “happiness expert” Paul Dolan that everyone loves to parrot was debunked. https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness The anti depressant usage rate among women would also disagree with idea that older single women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:40 PM
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For the 1000th time the wall has nothing to do with smv( physical attractiveness) but rmv( commitment). A women can be very attractive and post wall. It’s a self realization that she can’t get the man she wants to COMMIT to her like she once could.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:42 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:51 PM
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Lol do you date women now a days? If your in big city most dont care about pregnancy or stds and most are fucking raw ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:20 PM
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Women know what kind of guy they can play that game with vs what kinda the guy they can’t play that game with. If she’s making him wait then she’s implying either directly or indirectly through her actions that she doesn’t value him. All of this is assuming she’s not low notch/virgin or religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:29 PM
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Average normal women are addicted to social media. Manipulation and attention seeking behavior are innate default traits for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:47 AM
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Now a days, she’ll show you through her socials. If she’s goes from posting thirst traps to not posting at all or only posting pictures of Elmo or her dog then you’re in pretty good situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:31 AM
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This mostly sounds like bitching but it theres a kernel of truth in there somewhere. Women don’t date the guy they date his lifestyle. A charming tall high status guy on their arm is akin to that new birkin bag, youre just there to to be shown off to her family friends but more importantly her IG/TikTok audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:26 PM
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After 4 kids most women won’t be able to do better then their baby’s father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:16 PM
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The phenomenon Is called “Chore-play” and is one of the biggest shit test/manipulation/gaslighting tactics given from women to men. Men in marriage should stick to masculine house chores: mowing the lawn, fixing the sink, gutters etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:52 PM
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Women trade their prime fertility years to work, only to trade their prime earning years to buy back their fertility. The definition of hustling backwards. Anecdotal but my best friend and his wife did it right. Got married and had kids right out of college at 24. Two boys by 27 and now they both in their early30’s killing it in their careers. Because they’re both married with kids they out earn their single peers in the same age group despite those peers having a few more years of experience. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:01 PM
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It’s a gaslighting tactic used by the very same women who would feel disgusted if they found out they’re hubby sucked a dick back in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:13 PM
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On the contrary, they believe in it more so. They just don’t wear it like a badge of honor like this new generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:10 PM
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You’re getting ahead of yourself. Women don’t screen initially for emotional empathy when their looking for a guy. they’re looking for dominance or perceived dominance( social skills, height, looks, wealth etc) those are arousal triggers for women. If you fail to attract, arouse women she surely not going to gaf about your “emotional intelligence”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:49 PM
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You don’t need studies to observe this. If you don’t put in work as man to be attractive no women will find you attractive. It isint rocket science to see why the guy that put in work( burden of performance) and became a rich CEO is more attractive then the McDonald’s worker. All those things you listed (emotional empathy/intelligence) usually comes secondary or after the initial attraction spark. No guy has ever attracted a girl with “emotional empathy” it can make him more attractive AFTER he …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:54 PM
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Men know that woman become emotionally invested in a man based on his level of perceived competency ― more specifically, his ability to “protect and provide” Therefore, to obtain and maintain the respect, admiration and ultimately the attraction from a woman( or multiple Women) a man must continuously perform. He must continuously prove himself to his woman by satisfying her Hypergamous desire that he is “the best she can do.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:40 PM
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Anything that has to do with male burden of performance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:25 PM
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This is the big problem right here. Marriage isint about being “happy” it’s about responsibility and duty. If a women is willing to marry or divorce based on her “happiness” take that as sign that she is too immature and naive for the commitment marriage requires. Moreover, it extremely unwise to gamble your financial well-being on her happiness which by definition is a fleeting/temporary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:08 PM
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You can have one with out the other but you cant get rid of both. A perceived power imbalance is needed to create interest or intrigue in the first place let alone it helps builds and maintains attraction. As other have pointed out, if you’re a guy, she needs to like you more than you like her for a shot at a peaceful successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:44 PM
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History is pretty clear on this…aging or dying societies are conquered by more patriarchal and fertile societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:52 PM
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Men who are good with women know when to reward or punish women with his attention based on her behavior. Removing attention is a man’s trump card and if done correctly women will jump through many hoops to get it back. But generally you need to be slightly less interested and invested( this goes for attention too) then she is for the relationship to remain in a healthy spot ESPECIALLY if she’s very attractive …your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:07 PM
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No statistically divorce is more likely to happen which results in lower health for the man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:11 AM
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Biological imperatives. Men in general have a larger taste for sexual variety the whole “spreading their seed” or this could be further evidenced by porn browser search history. High labido women for the most part are still looking for the highest too tier man that she can get however some high labido women switch up partners like a high labido man would, it’s just less common do to their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:04 PM
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He has it easier then most, no lies there, however do you think him building himself up getting to where he is now was easy? Is getting rich and famous easy? Or did he have to put in work to get laid as easy as he does? What does he have to show for it? A divorce from Angelina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:51 AM
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I’ve already done the work and have no issues getting casual sex or relationships…so no, not now. If you would’ve asked me this question 20 years ago then I’d consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:16 PM
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Every man has or must have the potential to acquire the majority of the things listed above to distinguish themselves in this current competitive dating market. These are the standards now thanks to hoeflation. Men of previous generations only needed a fraction what is listed above to be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:56 PM
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It means after the guy has: built himself up, has nice career that makes “enough” money, has a nice wardrobe, established a large social/professional network where he respected , drives a nice car, owns or rents a nice house or apt, learns social skills and game/seduction , gotten his physical physique in shape that man now deserves the opportunity to approach women, build intrigue, ask her out on the date, plan the date, arrange pickup or Uber for the date, build attraction on the date, then wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:50 PM
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Men that are good with women know that the men that puts in the least amount of effort and still gets the girl will ALWAYS be seen as more powerful (by both men/women/society) than the guy who jumped through all the hoops. The fuck boys who’s actually blowing her back out aren’t writing good morning txts, taking her out on dates, or giving her flowers or even txting her ass back, I speak from experience. You’ll give the ick to a hawt 22 year old dime by asking for date tell her to come hang/chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:26 PM
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In short they no longer have nothing to lose. A lot of times it just an ego thing to see if they “still got it”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:56 PM
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Mostly true but top tier men settle eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:50 PM
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Now a days top tier men are rarely in their 20’s(thanks to infantilizing culture in west for both men and women) and they rarely commit. but if they do, it’s going to be a women who’s at her or near her peak. Ie Chris Evans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:50 PM
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Once again, the correct definition of the wall is the women’s self realization that she can no longer get the top tier guys to COMMIT to her like she once could in her early 20’s. The wall is about RMV not sexual market value. Women can still be very attractive in her 30-40’s and still be post wall. What you described about women having “unfulfilling relationships” are women whove hit the wall or are post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:09 PM
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The sisterhood is undefeated. It’s a ego/pride thing, and now she’s probably realizing that she can’t do better then her babies father. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:59 PM
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It’s something that I didn’t notice at first since I meet the height requirement threshold but if you really pay attention women can be bitches about height. Just ask one of your girlfriends I’m talking about a real one, not some random chick that will virtue signal or pander.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:45 AM
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I know of Hannah personally she went to a catholic school with my younger sister in elmhurst which is a Chicago land suburb. She comes from a good family. She definitely did a 180, she wasn’t always like that. I will say that her change in behavior is likely a byproduct of her having a lot brothers, she’s very protective of them. Slightly unrelated but I had an ex who was the same way… very suspicious of other women dating her brothers and would not hesitate to call them out on their bullshit at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:53 AM
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You don’t have to necessarily be a dick to attract women but you do need show some level of indifference or dismissiveness initially. She has win over for your undivided attention- and this is where most men screw up…they give up their leverage almost immediately effectively ending the chase and the girls attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:53 PM
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Manipulation isn’t inherently “redpilled” it’s just apart of human nature/ a normal survival instinct mechanism. Women withholding sex from their partner in return for something is form of manipulation or coercion. Hell wearing too much makeup or getting bbl/ plastic surgery/ boob job wearing fake jewelry and designer is also form of manipulation as well. It’s mostly blue pilled guys you actually have to worry about with manipulation ie male feminists (big red flag 🚩 ). Red pill teaches men to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:55 PM
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Manipulation is apart of life. It is what it is..getting upset about it is naive and silly. Your dog, partner, and even your own child will manipulate you without remorse. Women are inherently manipulative and they manipulate men and other women all of the time. You’ve likely manipulated your ex, for him to do it back and have you be upset is hypocritical on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:51 PM
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Never said I alone dictate what’s high quality. I’m just sharing my experience and what I’ve seen from high caliber women. They’re way to image/status conscious to just let any dude smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:30 AM
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High quality women don’t have sex indiscriminately. They don’t do “hoe phases”, they are not goin like that lol. The average chick, yeah for sure, but those women aren’t really on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 AM
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Some do and some don’t just like regular people. The circle I run with isint too big on drugs or binge drinking accept for the occasional nose beer or adderall to keep going on long shoots/days but even that was very rare. I know this because I was the one usually supplying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:11 AM
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If she’s letting a bunch of dudes rail she’s not high quality. Trust me there a big difference between these type of girls vs lonely fan thots and IG “Models”. These girls would not risk ruining their reputation for what would be perceived as “lesser work” or work for an agency that they perceive to be lower. I will say that high quality women tend not tell you their standards you either sink or swim but that’s off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:03 AM
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Because thats not how high quality women behave in my experience. I did some modeling work about 10 years ago for a top promotion (Wilhelmina) and still have a lot of ties/ still run in some of those circles. Their standards are high so they’re definitely not letting 10 dudes smash in a year. 3 or 4 dudes tops, each fling lasting 3/4 months a piece in-between gigs. Even if a high quality women is looking for casual it tends to be fwb’s with few select group of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:44 AM
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There’s nuance to the body count thing, it should be proportional to her age. Let’s say for example a women in her late 20’s and let’s assume she started being sexually active at a normal age (16-18) if she had 10-14 bodies that works out to 1 or 2 new partners a year. I’d hardly say a girl is slut for doing that. If she’s doing 6-7 new dicks in a year then it starts become a red flag because why can’t she lock at least one of those guys down? Or why aren’t those guys trying to commit to her? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:03 AM
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Women wouldn’t be hypergamous if that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:54 PM
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I think women are bad at marriage for a fundamentally different reason that’s not always in their control. Guys get sloppy, lose their edge and stop doing the things that made them attractive to their wife in the first place which leads to the dead bedroom. Men are much more inclined to stick around if the reverse were true. However I speculate that a men entering in marriage is subconsciously unattractive to women because he in essence loses a ton of his “would be” options. He essentially nurtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:41 PM
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It’s murky situation all the way around. On one end you want victims to feel comfortable enough to come forward in a reasonable time to give credence to their accusations and to collect sufficient evidence( dna, toxicology, signs of struggle). But on the flip we have serious issues with false accusations that have ruined innocent men (Brett kavanaugh, Johnny depp, Matt araiza, San Diego football team, Jonathan majors, Derek rose, Patrick Kane, duke lacross team, likely Andrew Tate). Outside of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:51 PM
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I learned how to approach, talk to, and seduce women the old fashion way: by being a creep at the mall. Maybe that’s a testament to online video games not really being mainstream back in the early mid 2000’s. People are wayyy to comfortable just chilling in the house now a days. I play video games too but only Monday- Thursday. Friday-Sunday are meant for socializing and meeting women getting out, going to events and doing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:38 AM
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Basically this. Men need to become outcome independent otherwise you come off as validation seeking and needy which is a display of lower social value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:06 PM
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https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2023/07/marriage-divorce-rates.html#:~:text=Both%20the%20marriage%20and%20divorce,per%201%2C000%20women%20in%202011. 14.9 women married for every 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:41 PM
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Mid 30s man former Wilhelmina model/player
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:23 PM
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Nobody’s coping this is reality for a lot of women past 30. Im probably a lot older then you with infinitely more experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:14 PM
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The correct definition of the wall is a self realization from the women that she can no longer get the top guys to commit to her like she once could. 99% of people talking about the wall on the sub have no fucking idea what their talking about - just like you. The wall has nothing to do with physical attractiveness. If he has options a man’s waining commitment will always hold more leverage over any sexual power dynamic power play any women could make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:33 PM
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Only 5% of women are getting a ring now a days the dating pool is fine and plentiful. Edit: it’s actually much lower 1.5% are getting the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:38 PM
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The wall is about relationships/marriage not fucking. Women can still be hot get a lot of sexual attention and be post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:26 PM
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Whether or not they give a fuck is irrelevant. We all compete in the sexual market place whether we want to or not. Women are finding more compatible partners in older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:20 PM
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Power over men. Women out-earn men in their 20’s and they also are at the peak of their fertility and attractiveness which means more demand in the sexual marketplace and relationship market place. All of these things give women more leverage over men in their same age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:11 PM
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I’m well aware and all relationships have some degree of power imbalance. The real unpopular opinion is a power imbalance is needed for most women to even be attracted to men in the first place. That’s why age gap relationships will always be thing despite how much shaming leftist/genZ/feminist do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:08 PM
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As long as both party’s are consenting adults it’s none of our business. American society needs to stop over coddling our youth and we also need to stop infantilizing young women as if they have no agency of their own. Truth is women in their 20’s have far more power then men in their same age group, a women going after a older man would appear to be more egalitarian imo. Are young women victims or are they empowered? Which one is it? please pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:36 PM
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Yup some statisticians and economists debunked his study about a week after he published it yet everyone still loves to refer to that study to bolster their arguments. If women were truly happier unmarried and single antidepressant use wouldn’t have skyrocketed from roughly 1/10 to 1/4 among women 18-45.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:59 PM
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Black women do that shit to themselves. The loudest mouths when it come to dragging black men and yet they feel entitled to those very same mens protection and when it doesn’t happen… it’s surprised pikachu face. Truth is nobody owe you shit in this world and the only thing people are entitled too is 6 foot hole in the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:45 PM
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For clarification we would need to define “evolve”. In these spaces evolve often is synonymous with moving passed, or rejecting traditional gender roles/standards. We see it all time within the context of women “evolving”; no longer do they have to nurture and nest but women can provide and protect too. The most important distinction is women are encouraged for doing things that are seen as “traditional” within the context of western societies. If women doesn’t want to be mother, she’s a trailbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:00 PM
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The real answer is society and especially women still hold men to traditional standards. We cannot evolve because it would be to the detriment of women and society at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:07 PM
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Can’t recommend this advice enough. Over 15 years of total experience, 6 in mma and 12 in bjj.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:33 AM
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I briefly remember reading he had hired a firm out of LA for legal filings but I’ll take your word, I don’t follow celebrity news/ gossip closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:20 PM
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He’s getting a divorce…in California. He has a lot more to lose then she does, so it makes logical sense why he would try to get out in front of this before she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:59 PM
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More hair is associated with being masculine or masculinity. That’s it that’s all. I’m not Muslim but in Islam a beard is used a big differentiator between the masculine and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:12 PM
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A feeble attempt to shame men in to liking older women or going against their biological imperative. Notice how older women always bring up the age gap dynamic as some sort of power imbalance yet fails bring up other imbalances that inherently attract women to men. You never hear older women say “don’t date that guy because he’s too tall, wealthy, popular with large network or social status, it would be a power imbalance”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:41 AM
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No they are not, and it not even remotely close. Men have an easier time finding relationships as they age. Men are 64% more likely to remarry then women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s and this has always been the case. Women not being able to find a committed relationship is the the correct definition of phenomenon known as “The wall” a women can still be physically attractive and post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:42 PM
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Yes men can absolutely peak in their early 40’s granted genetics matter. Look up the winners of the sexiest men alive, 100% are in their 40’s. Last couple years off the top: Chris evans (42), idris Elba(50), David Beckham (48), John legend (44) Dwayne the rock Johnson (51) the most goes on For example A black guy will probably look better then white guy at the same age when getting older. Look up the sexiest men alive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:33 PM
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For the 1000x time the wall has nothing to do with beauty or smv. The Wall has to do with RMV, it’s a self realization for women that they can no longer get the attractive guy to commit to them like they once could when they were in their early 20’s. People really need to go back and read Rollo’s book to actually understand the terminology before debating a topic they clearly no nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:24 PM
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Oof u peaked early then. Most men physically peak in their late 20’s to early 40’s. Some men don’t actually look like men until they reach their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:59 PM
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I met my girl in real life but I think online is better for most guys unless they have the network and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:14 PM
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Because I know how people behave/act/move I don’t need studies to confirm social phenomenons/dynamics I have experienced. The average girl out here has fucked more then 4 guys in a lifetime I can’t say the same for the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:30 PM
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Your argument only works under the assumption that the men and women interviewed for the surveys are fucking each other. You’re the one that’s fucking stupid or autistic at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:26 PM
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No your reaching. I believe studies where people share the body counts are full of shit because people rarely tell truth, so much so that are studies on people who lie about sexual experiences. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6326215/ https://phys.org/news/2006-02-lovers-liars-sex-partners.amp https://www.bustle.com/articles/165091-were-still-lying-about-how-many-sexual-partners-weve-had-survey-finds-but-men-women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:23 PM
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In real life no but online dating and social media yea because even the unattractive women still want you court them or jump through some kinda weird hoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:43 PM
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I Never take studies like that seriously since soo many people lie. Men overshoot and women undershoot for obvious reasons. Inner city high school kids are doing those numbers their senior year alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:19 PM
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There’s no such thing as a “high value women” only men are “high value”. Women are “high quality” there’s subtle difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:28 AM
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Economic downturn from a shrinking tax base and aging population. Immigration will slow the decline but not stop it as immigrants after first degeneration tend to have lower birth rates. This will only exacerbate the problem further: higher taxes for people still working which will lead to less marriages/relationships overall as people won’t “feel” financially ready, rinse and repeat. Only once the government realizes it’s facing economic collapse, and immigration is no longer working, they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:37 PM
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Knowing your way around a women’s body better then she does AND making her orgasm consistently is one of the strongest preselection factors imaginable. Women bond heavily through sex more so then men. If your sex game is on point, you can get away with a lot and she’ll even make excuses for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:53 PM
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I agree with most of it except for the negging bit. Negging is fundamentally no different then teasing or roasting which will be needed for banter and attraction building. Everyone negs even if they’re not aware of it, yet people have such a hard on for it by labeling it toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:53 PM
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Men are still expected to pay but that doesn’t mean that you always should. I’d advise men to not be too eager into throwing themselves in the provider category off rip. Women are good at knowing what they can or cannot get away with based on who’s sitting across from them at the dinner table. I pay more (entree) but Ill always make her pay portion of the bill whether it’s the tips/appetizer/ or drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:06 PM
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The new guy, American pie 1-3, the water boy to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:35 PM
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In 2023 your first meet up with this person SHOULD NOT be some fancy dinner date. Women will justify it by saying it’s traditional but it’s actually not. Traditionally, people met through social groups first, not on a date after swiping right. I can tell most people here are chronically stuck on online dating. When u meet in real life first, then go on a date, there’s less expectations on impressing since your already familiar with this person, there’s more initial investment from both parties w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:32 PM
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I don’t disagree but the more u like the guy the more he can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:02 AM
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The desirable guy is either already taken, has other more attractive options, won’t commit or no longer sees her as a viable option aka she’s now invisible. This is what “The Wall” refers to in TRP. The wall has nothing to do with physical attractiveness(SMV) but the acknowledgment from the women that she can no longer get the guys she once could to commit to her (RMV).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:50 PM
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The gripe a lot of dudes have about that is discerning genuine desire for being settled for or being the back up or “safe option”. AF vs BB. The guy she genuinely desires doesn’t have to jump through hoops. The safe option guy is the guy who inevitably gets cheated on a divorced raped later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 PM
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This goes in reverse too if a women actually likes you she won’t give a shit about the date or who pays she just wants your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:50 PM
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Borderline narcissistic and flighty. The biggest difference is they tend NOT to tell you their standards like more average women, you either sink or swim. baddies are not for the weak, keep your cool and hold frame at all times. Eventually you’ll get sick of her shtick. Recommended in short doses only. Never wife a baddie find you a nice lil mid and dissapear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:36 AM
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He gave her a choice (which is the polar opposite of control) to follow his boundaries or he was going to leave the relationship. She accepted his boundaries and cried wolf later. She needs to take accountability for her actions/decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:10 PM
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Moreover she edited the pictures he told her to take off her IG. A lot context missing. We need to see those pictures too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:59 PM
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I don’t particularly like the guy but destiny has the most balanced insight into this situation. https://youtu.be/P-3ZwZ5XZf0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:09 PM
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So you thinks it’s unreasonable to have to accommodate your partners boundaries when being in a relationship vs being single? Can people not change? It’s not uncommon to change your behavior and stop doing single shit once you’re committed to someone. Edit. So because you met me on tinder it’s ok for me to stay on tender after we’ve established a committed relationship because “it’s who I was when you met me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:05 PM
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So it controlling if you remove yourself from the relationship if your partner failed to respect your boundaries? Remember he said she can do whatever she wants but he’s not going to continue to date her( his boundaries).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:28 PM
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I know he didn’t say it but I’m testing your logic. Everyone keeps saying boundaries are for yourself and not other people yet they can’t answer my simple question. Is it controlling or not? All mature relationships require compromises on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:11 PM
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Is it controlling to ask your partner not to cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:05 PM
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Apparently expressing your standards and boundaries qualifies as abuse now? Clown ass generation. we saw this happen earlier this week with keke Palmer. Jonah hills no saint but the ex girlfriend is toxic for even leaking this. Just attention grab for relevancy. Especially after he’s moved on with different women and had a kid…it’s giving bitter ex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:06 PM
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There’s a kernel of truth to what your saying albeit it’ll be seen as an unpopular opinion. It is because of this very dynamic that men will ALWAYS be the real prize in the relationship because her hypergamy demands it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:54 AM
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I can see your angle but if they’re your real close friends they’ll find out your personal business regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:29 PM
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Mutual friends. Both of our best friends are married to each other and set us up. Meeting this way is ideal, since both of you have more skin in the game both parties tend not to misbehave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:05 PM
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Beyoncé is a solid 8 but Kelly Rowland was always the best looking in destiny child. Kellys a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:39 PM
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It would depend on her competition anxiety from the new increased attention he would be getting and the amount of dread he could instill her. It’s def difficult and not common to go from BB to AF territory after being committed to her for so long. Another phenomenon I’ve observed/experienced is if the women feels like the guy will make a significant jump in wealth/status/atttactiveness she’ll do 1 of 2 things: She’ll dig her claws in and attempt to manipulate the guy into being emotionally codep…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:58 PM
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Women hedge their bets. If the guy has potential and is ambitious she’ll stick around in hopes to get a return on her “investment”. In terms of how valuable she see you tbh I never thought of it that way…could be why it’s not unheard of for the guy to leave after he’s made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:24 AM
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This isint particularly some new phenomenon. They make memes about this in the black community around tax season lol. She’ll likely kick u out multiple times, they’ll be multiple threats of DV and threats of protective orders. Men wouldn’t be giving you these examples unless they were true to some extent. A simple google search will show u articles from your tango to men’s health to cosmo all advising against it. Men who are aware of a women’s nature or have experienced this themselves know her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:32 PM
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Had situation like this with family member. That Depends on the the lease agreements whether lease or oral, the state, and how long you stayed at the residence. Either way, let’s say for example, if the argument/fight was bad enough, she could place protective order against you( doesn’t even have to be truthful especially with how courts treat men) and you’ll have the leave the residence until the case is resolved which can take months. The protected person usually gets full access to the shared…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:18 PM
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If I had speculate it’s that they wants to reward the woman for seeing the potential in them. She stayed and built when most women want a turnkey relationship. It’s the ride or die Bonnie & Clyde energy. It’s easy to “love” a guy when he’s rich and has it all, which why rich men normally don’t reward women( unless she’s exceptional) with his sexual exclusivity after he’s made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:54 PM
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One bad argument especially if she “feels” like she’s about to take an L and she’ll kick u out. Women with that much leverage over their men tend not to respect those men much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:25 PM
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From my personal anecdotal experience with my professional business network of top tier 1% men this is the case in most of their relationships. The ONLY time I haven’t seen it work that way is if the guy met his wife BEFORE he became a top 1% guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:34 PM
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She needs him by far more then he needs her which is why she is still with him. Jay z is a multi billionaire Beyoncé is 40+ with 3 kids. She doesn’t have the options you think she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:59 PM
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Jay z has 5x the wealth of Beyoncé. he cheated and Beyoncé took him back because she knows he has by more options then her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:13 PM
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Competitiveness disguised as empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:23 PM
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High COL states tend to be progressive, progressives seem to hate anything seen as traditional or the status quo. Look at Reddit and look at this thread for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:28 PM
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Marriage is one of the few easy paths to wealth creation. Cost of living is higher when single as opposed to having a spouse. Most millionaires and wealthy people are married and they stay married. The wealth gap between singles and married couples is widening. That’s the incentive. It not rocket science to see why the powers that be (wealthy corporations and politicians) want to keep people single, they spend and consume more then married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:27 PM
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Instagram is the number 1 dating app in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:28 PM
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Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:01 PM
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It isn’t until it is..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:22 AM
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Not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:20 AM
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Men with options don’t chase
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:18 AM
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Then let us go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:05 AM
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It’s not her standards that people are upset with. It’s her trying to reframe it as black empowerment thing which is weird asf after she got called out, clearly she was trying to move the goal post to save face. Her standards are her standards no matter how delusional or hypergamous they may be. Unfortunately all she brings to the table is her money and shitty attitude, any guy at or above her level financially won’t care about her money, and likely see her as an evolutionary dead end. She alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:07 PM
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Depends on your value in relation to hers. Women are very good at knowing what they can and cannot get away with based on a particular man. If your status is well above hers she’ll seduce herself for you, you won’t need to put in much effort. If she believes she’s “better” than you then yeah you’ll need to “wow” her and jump through hoops. Never sacrifice your integrity for the validation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:19 AM
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Good one lol how about hop off my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:27 PM
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I’m far from being delusional I’ve been around since the Venusian arts/RSD days before so suave which inevitable turned into redpill/manosohere. TRP initially spawned from the seduction community back in 2007-2009 it’s not some new phenomenon. The red pill officially went mainstream last year in 2022 thanks to popularity of tik tok and Andrew Tate (who was one of the most googled persons in 2022) if TRP is not mainstream why has every news and media company (CNN, the guardian, vox, Vice, MSN, NB…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:18 PM
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Attached below: https://nypost.com/2021/07/10/why-progressive-women-want-to-date-men-who-act-conservative/amp/ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0146167218781000
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:08 AM
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TRP is already mainstream thanks to Andrew Tate. “Progressive” women mostly prefer conservative/ right leaning men and there are studies that back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:06 PM
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It’s just not realistic now a days especially in the TikTok generation: People have too many options and attention spans are too short thanks to easy dopamine thru social media. Add in demographics,( let’s say for example, you live in big city) your competition might not be willing to wait as long as you and they will undersell you/ or mate poach. Women need to be reasonable, chances are he already knows you’ve slept with someone sooner( I’d even argue if she’s applying arbitrary timelines to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:54 PM
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By you logic I should keep using dating apps and continue to talk to women even when in committed relationship because “I shouldn’t have to change what was obvious to her” head ass. Do you see how that sounds? She should just accept it because that how I was when she met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:37 AM
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When you’re In committed relationship don’t do single shit. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:20 PM
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Men are currently bankrupting the marriage industry. Only 5% of women are getting married today or roughly 50 women for every 1000. Until the marriage law changes don’t expect much to change. There will be a lot of unmarried women in their 40’s over the next couple of decades. But to answer your question: most western women will end up marrying western men for the simple fact that non western men arent looking to marry a western women like non western women are looking to marry a western man. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:08 PM
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You can leverage the attention from lower tiered women to get higher tier woman. Use it all the time in the bar/club
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:27 PM
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Slight increase, my dating/hookup life in my 20’s was better than most and 30’s are shaping up much better and effortless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:26 PM
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Lol she’s engaged might actually be married by now, in her early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:09 PM
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Bad argument, rollo’s daughter is already engaged/married apparently to some pro hockey player in her early 20’s. She secured the ring and commitment first and her graduate education 2nd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:04 PM
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The wall isint about beauty or sexual market value it about relationship value or RMV. When TRP mentions the wall it’s about the women self acknowledging that she no longer can get the attractive men in her 20’s to commit to her like she once could. A women can still be physically attractive and post wall. A lot of dudes talk about sleeping with milfs and cougars not wifing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:45 PM
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It’s the current infantilizing culture surrounding the west. compare 25 year old today vs 25 year olds pre 2000’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:23 AM
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Correct men get less today then what the they’re grandfather got decades ago. Men and women are inherently different, we look for different things in each other, and are aroused/turned on by different things. Women of the past were usually of great moral character chaste/ low notch, knew how cook from scratch, clean, knit, sow on a button, garden and grow her own food; she was fit, feminine, friendly and submissive/cooperative etc. no attention seeking behavior, no HOEtivities, no promotion of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:40 AM
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In my personal anecdotal experience i find it to be true. Granted I’m in my 30’s and likely older than many who frequent this sub. It could be demographic thing where younger women might think differently about this but I have yet to observe such a phenomenon. Below are two articles and the studies linked to those articles: https://nypost.com/2021/07/10/why-progressive-women-want-to-date-men-who-act-conservative/amp/ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0146167218781000 https://www.psyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:21 AM
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The issue is women still hold men to traditional standards: she expects him to court her and pay for the dates, she still expects him to be taller, earn more, protect and provide for her etc…and most men are ok with this expectation on some level because this has always been thing in one form or another. But when you flip the script and the guy asks what does he get in return??? he realizes that he’s getting less than what his father got and his father before him. This is where the chasm between…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:18 AM
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Excellently put
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:53 PM
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No, not that I’m aware of, Steve Harvey is her step father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:19 PM
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Context: Lori Harvey is Steve Harvey’s daughter who’s known for dating high profile men in Hollywood and the music industry. She might be mostly known for turning Michael B Jordon marriage proposal down. After her split with Michael B she started dating his friend and “snowfall” lead actor damson idris who she just recently split up with. The video below is posted from his premier, he’s the star of the show, yet she does exactly what you described about always being available and casts him out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:36 PM
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Lori Harvey’s most recent breakup is a perfect example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:00 PM
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Where would u put rollo tomassi ? He predates everyone you just listed by over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:58 PM
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I chose that study specifically for contextual reasons because I believe this study was what he was referring to in his rebuttal. but his arguments still stands: where are people getting these number from about rape and convictions rate and what and what is the criteria on which this data is being collected? I tried just throwing your numbers through a search engine and I didnt find a single source that references your 5% conviction rate for example, from a legitimate source that wasn’t a discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:10 PM
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In my opinion when we call a thing a culture that would seem to imply or infer that the majority of people are taking part or participating in said culture. So when I look at “rape culture” then look at the numbers that 1/5 women are SA’d on college campuses, I realize that a large majority of women are not being sexually assaulted and or rape on campuses. Myron left a bad taste in my mouth on how he handled the situation, but I agree more with his argument: that the surveys and the selection cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:39 PM
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Men have to do all of those things too, especially if they want a 2nd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:52 PM
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For the 1000th time, the wall is about relationship market value (rmv) not sexual market value(smv). A women can still be very sexually attractive and post wall. Dudes will still fuck her but most men won’t wife her especially if she can’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:50 PM
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I don’t negotiate with terrorist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:37 PM
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Most men are looking to commit to the cute girl that flies under the radar, as opposed to the dime a dozen chick that wants to be seen at every function and all over social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:51 AM
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Its not so much of what she’s saying, it’s her pattern of gaslighting/manipulation tactics that I’ve recently noticed/picked up on. It’s being done too deliberately for it to be a shit test, and just low key enough so that other in our friend group can’t call her out on it. I can see that she was losing ground in the power balance of our relationship/situationship( she’s very attractive I’d even argue that she’s never not had all the power in all her relationships) which is why its scaring her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:32 PM
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Started as ONS/FWB situation after meeting at mutual friends birthday party couple months back. I’m currently pulling the slow fade after a conversation I had with her Thursday night that turned me off completely. Only reason I haven’t flat out ghosted her yet is because of our mutual friends, we both have “skin in the game” in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:36 PM
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Nothing is more un sexy then asking for consent for some women. It’s a dangerous game but pretty common, especially amongst older women who arent on the woke train. Women expect the guy to be socially savvy enough to know when consent is being implied or inferred by her, she’ll never tell u outright it’s always non verbal. It’s on you to push her boundaries. I’m currently dating a very attractive women whom told me her pussy would have dried up immediately had I asked for her consent. Good thing…
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 05:10 PM
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Yes dating one now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:25 PM
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When you’re a guy who’s dated plenty of very attractive women/models etc, the novelty wares off when u realize most attractive women want you to kiss their ass and walk on eggshells. It’s catch 22, u need the skills to consistently attract beautiful women to realize they’re nothing special. Plain janes come with their own problems but at least they’ll put in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:05 PM
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Still a 5. Men generally don’t seek financial security in women. We care only so much that she has something to lose, the actual career is irrelevant to us. Intelligence > education. Excessive education is yellow flag in my book, mostly because of censorial and hegemonic climate around universities and college campuses. Students are being taught what to think, not how to think. Most PhD’s are insufferable people fueled by academic arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:29 PM
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No he’s right, mature adults marry for contentment and children. It is a red flag for a women to marry for “happiness” because rest assure, she will end the marriage and destroy the family over her “happiness”. By definition, happiness is a fleeting thing, which personifies her naive world view on how relationships should be vs what they actually are. But thank you this serves a great vetting tool for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:08 PM
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Comes down to demographics mostly, it’ll be tougher in some places(rural) but easier in others (big blue cities). You’re biggest problem is that youre smaller,shy and soft spoken, it’s not entirely about skin color but that can play a factor with some women. Black dudes are seen as more masculine, so they’re are certain societal expectations. In my experience it’s easier to get ONS and FWB then LTRs which is perfectly fine for me( I get that this is it everyone’s cup of tea). So my answer is: ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:28 PM
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I have 2 on rotation right now, down 1 from 3 I had at the start of the year. 4 is doable but not sustainable so if any man says he has 4 or more chances are he’s capping big time, rich with too much free time or a bum. 3 is the absolute most you can do and still be on your grind/focus/purpose and this coming from a life long player with magnitudes of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:35 PM
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Casual take. The red pill has been around since the late 80’s/early 90’s. It was around well before tate, and will be around wayyyy after Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:17 PM
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Most women over share and tell on themselves. Just act like you don’t give a shit and she’s telling it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:45 PM
2

This reads a lot like: “Master give Dobby a sock?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:06 PM
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Facts I forget about Adam driver, but also a very good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:22 AM
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Pete Davidson is the living embodiment of pre selection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:02 AM
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Red pill never claimed to be the solution for female promiscuity it is an adaptation to it. Women no longer want to be wives and mothers and currently there are no solutions, only tradeoffs, and the trade off is pumping and dumping. Let us not forget that women fought and advocated for the current dating trends that can be observed in the sexual/relationship/dating market place today. I think you’ve took a sip of mainstream media koolaid and your conflating incels who cry on Reddit with the red …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:01 PM
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Red pill is “Self preservation” for a multitude of reasons. Red pill teaches men how to look for genuine desire/attraction/arousal in women to avoid being used and manipulated. It discourages men from committing to high n count women and to avoid single mothers. If a man wants to get married red pill encourage men to go abroad and to avoid the predatory divorce laws of the west etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:38 PM
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What in the word salad? Once again the red pill does not promote sexual promiscuity in women, feminism and our current dating culture does that. The red pill is the response to that, it’s form of self preservation for men and seeks to understand sexual dynamics between men and women. If women no longer want to be wives and aren’t marriage material what are the alternatives? Pump and dump. The sex double standard is the only double standard that benefits men, because it’s actually takes skill and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:23 PM
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It’s not the red pill that encourages women to sleep around and lower their value, the red pill is a response to the current degenerate culture around sex and dating. Look at every red pill channel ever( fresh and fit and jedidiah bill valuetainment) their shows are primarily focused on calling out/ analyzing bad behavior in women, instilling or promoting traditional values for both sex’s, and self preservation for men(marriage avoidance etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:31 PM
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Make your intentions known but not directly, don’t explain it, it’s needs to be conveyed covertly through your actions and it has to be subtle enough to make her wonder. She shouldn’t be too sure about you initially (familiarity is an attraction and arousal killer) which is why you never offer to be her friend first. The ONLY way being friends first works for men is, if you friend zone her first either in the form of a false take away to build attraction or preselection where you show her not te…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:58 PM
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It always comes down to life experience, financial stability, wisdom etc. As women get older they stop pursuing a lover and start looking for a sage, or someone who can guide her spiritually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:15 PM
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Because the HR lady admitted it on the post. He had been 4/5 interviews in at that point and things were looking good until one of the young ladies mentioned that he ghosted her and she suspected that he was still involved with his ex. It was later found out on the post that he was dating 3 other women who circled jerked the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:49 PM
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Funny story: a close friend of mine was posted in the secret group “are we dating the same guy” and is now suing the girl who posted/doxxed him for libel/slander after what she said on the app got him passed over for a job. He’s a fairly attractive dude too 6’5 played some ball oversees. The company he interviewed for HR generalist was also a part of the group, saw what the other girls said and decided not hire him. All was well, until his sister saw that he was posted and screen shotted everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:05 PM
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Women don’t understand men at all as they have the luxury of not needing to do so to attract a mate. Once a women hits the wall, or loses a bit of attractiveness only then will u see them put in work to attempt to understand men since they can’t fall back on their looks and the attention dries up. Men MUST understand women in order to attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:29 PM
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I’ll play along. What if I told you your need to qualify yourself to me an other internet strangers is a “DLV”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:32 PM
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Was a part PUA community as well in the early 2000’s and I disagree with your assertion that mystery was a fake. All of his strategies from negging(essentially just teasing), peacocking, DHV’ing, and false take aways etc are still very viable today if not al right necessary. You can shit on him for being a weirdo but u cannot deny his impact to the scene back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:34 PM
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We’ll duh which is why specifically said women who frequent “are we dating the same guy” private group on fbook
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:30 PM
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Women who visit those private Facebook groups “are we dating the same guy” need to be very very careful about what they post. Trashing a guy too much online can open up the group for defamation lawsuits. Also, some of the men have sisters cousins family members who frequent the group as well and I’ve personally witness girls getting called by the guy their posting and by the guys family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:54 PM
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Red pill is a lens to observe or the ability to discern the real sexual dynamics between men and women. Just because you enter in the relationship doesn’t mean you discard the red pill in fact it almost impossible to do so. You don’t stop dating your partner when you enter in a relationship, If anything, you need the red pill even more to navigate the tumultuous waters of modern day dating and relationships, for men it is a form of self realization and preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:48 PM
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It means she’s should defer to her husbands leadership when it comes making the final big decision. Doesn’t necessarily mean he’s always right or she’s always right or that she can’t make any better suggestions or constructive criticism. it means that she respects her husbands leadership skills enough to let him take the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:20 AM
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This isn’t the correct definition of the wall. The wall is a self realization/actualization that the women no longer can get the same high caliber of men to commit to her like she once could. The wall is about both RMV and SMV and it’s not entirely based on looks. Women can still be good looking and post wall. Once again it’s important to know what your talking about before making arguments in a forum. I see a bunch of people debating what they think is “red pill” topics are despite having no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:14 PM
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6 by far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:43 PM
1

Not single but I’ll play Height: up 6’ as I’m 6’1 Income: don’t care as long as u have a job. I don’t date women who have nothing to lose. Race: don’t care, I’m collecting flags at this point, similar interest are more important. House/no house: don’t care Body type: skinny/petite/fit. I have sub 10% body fat u need to work out hard enough so we can order that extra dessert. Kids/no kids: I don’t date single mothers but the girl I date needs to want kids. I won’t take you seriously otherwise. Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:01 PM
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30 is fine but you should be aware that your approaching the fork in the road. 32/33 would be a hard cutoff for me and even then that’s likely too late if u want a big family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:15 PM
3

A college degree use to mean something. Now? Not so much..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:00 PM
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A fwb of mine gave me access to the group in Chicago through her Facebook. Its was kinda fun at first seeing all my boys from the gym and the girls from my gym that frequent the page however it is quite unsettling when u see how a lot of women talk about dudes. If guys did the same thing we’d be brought up on some kinda criminal charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:26 AM
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Doesn’t work that way most guys are looking for a women under the radar the cute girl that nobody really notices think Anne Hathaway princess diaries or the Cinderella type. Most dudes don’t like the IG thots thats at every social function wanting to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:25 AM
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Even in big cities the below average have options. Demographics and logistics will always be more important than any “pill” someone is following.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:26 AM
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The riskiest position for a women to work is one where she travels a lot for work, so think consultants etc. women who travel a lot sleep around a lot, and are more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior since they won’t get socially shamed for it. Source: was a consultant and the guy these women slept with. Many had husbands/fiancés or boyfriends but I always got the “we’re separated” excuse until I saw the IG stories the next week. https://www.psypost.org/2022/05/women-more-likely-to-engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:44 PM
1

Correct. You reward her incrementally with those things but only if she’s earned it. You’re preaching to the choir over here I don’t have issues with dating or getting women mostly in part with that fact that I’m ruthless asf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:41 AM
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Women treat most men like designer handbags that they show off to their friends and family—she doesn’t like you, she likes the lifestyle, validation and attention you provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:10 AM
1

It no secret that we’re better together than we are apart, men and women are complimentary to each other. The powers that be(politicians and corporations) would like to keep people single. Single people spend/consume the same amount as married couple while earning less. Democratic Politicians peddle fear(abortion reproductive rights) to single women then sell them the solution(vote for me). Single people are being marketed too. And can someone please share a link that women are happier single? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:44 PM
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I’m speaking generally because we’d talk in circles forever if we use personal anecdotes. The data is out there, women mostly want the same dudes, and unbeknownst to them are sharing the same dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:36 PM
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What women want is men is pretty static: tall, handsome, make good money, fit, high status or clout, smart funny etc. see 80/20 most women go for the same type of guy. What men want in women is pretty varied: but generally a women who is cooperative, nurturing, loyal, could be a good mom/chaste, younger than him, fit or have good body proportions, cook and clean( a tall ask today). Mens variance in preferable traits they find in women can be proven(sadly) by porn. Look at the different categorie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:27 AM
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If you are not a high risk individual this is such a stupid dating requirement idk where to begin. Idc if your vaxxed or not vaxxed that has little baring on whether you would be a good partner/husband/wife/person in general. Personally I’d be more worried about y partner being a vegan. Anecdotal but I never got Covid once throughout the entire pandemic despite being exposed on a weekly basis turns out I’m highly resistant if not outright immune due to respiratory allergies and asthma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:32 PM
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Theres a difference between “creating desire” and “genuine desire”. The former allows for more rope to hang yourself with, the later, makes the relationship feel easy/effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:26 PM
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It’s done to weed out women who do not genuinely desire the man. Recognizing and vetting women for genuine desire is essentially what the red pill is about. If a women really likes you she WILL move mountains to be with you/fuck you etc. once a man experience genuine desire and an abundance mentality it becomes easy to distinguish from women who see you as an option vs a another women who sees you as her only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:05 PM
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In a more traditional demographic setting I would be inclined to agree with you. As far as dating in 2022 in a major westernized city? Hard disagree, you’re giving up your leverage. She likely has 1,000+ dudes in her dms, she needs to show initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:12 PM
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Women DO NOT value men who give away their commitment easily. The healthiest dynamic for a relationship to start on is her coming to you for the “talk” not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:38 PM
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Marriage is not only a union of two individuals but those individuals families. What’s the point of two families “coming together” if not for offspring of said union. Historically and religiously only fertile people married which infers that marriage is primarily for family/children. Children benefit the most from marriage, developmentally and socioeconomically. So yes if u want your child to have the best outcomes possible, marriage is needed, cohabitation does not cut it. https://www.ncbi.nlm.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:30 PM
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Something something they want authority without the responsibility something redpill talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:14 PM
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The red pill (formally known as the PUA seduction community) has been around since the late 80’s early 90’s. Instead of F&F we had Ross Jeffries. The tactics and redpill theory’s have been proven over time with actual field testing, the same tactics have been out there for decades. The dynamics won’t change much, it’ll be more slightly competitive for men and most women are too self absorbed in their IG to notice the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:38 PM
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Before you can identify something you first must define what that something is. Red pilled is a praxeology meaning it is a philosophy, tested and based on human behavior, it is not an ideology. The very fact that your looking into behavior of red pilled men means you actually red pilled yourself. Some people are naturally red pill or what the seductions community calls “naturals”. Black men in general are going to be naturally more red pilled then other races based on my anecdotal observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:48 PM
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Just a shaming tactic. Contrary to popular belief among women, men do not have reproductive rights. If I get a girl pregnant and I want to keep it and she doesn’t, I’m SOL. On the flip side if I tell her to get an abortion and she doesn’t I’m on the hook for child support for 18 years. Vasectomies are not 100% reversible, which is why freezing your sperm is a requirement from your doctor before the procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:42 PM
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Women become attached through sex unlike men, they cannot differentiate and compartmentalize between sex and love as easily as men which is why you should NEVER believe her when she says she more attracted to the guy she’s making wait. The seckss is never worth the wait. Talk is cheap and actions speak
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:33 PM
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That’s usually the exception but so is the fact that my brother law is younger than my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:19 AM
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I want kids so my hard cut off is 32. My sister is 33, been married/trying for over a year and is having a hard time conceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:05 PM
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I’ve been studying game theory and seduction since 03/04 so it’s been long enough that it’s a sub conscious thing for me. Add in fact that I have a lot connections with party/club/bar scene and my city and a lot of the early “TRP” theory’s are proven in real time. I will say that recent situation hit home, someone I consider like older sister was recently married and has been having very hard time conceiving a child. It’s definitely put some things in perspective is regards to my hard cut offs f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:52 PM
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Misguided feminist policies is why men are becoming less masculine. Read “The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men” by Christina sommers or read DR Helen Smith’s “Men on strike: why men are boycotting marriage, fatherhood, and the American dream and why it matters”. Masculinity is actively being suppressed in our current political climate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:26 PM
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Being a parent/fatherhood/motherhood is the ultimate life experience imo. But what the hell why not donate as much as you want. Shoot the club up bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:43 AM
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Context is key here. Is she a virgin and remaining celebrate for religious reasons? That’s respectable Or Is she 28-30, hitting her epiphany phase, trying to “get right with god” after she’s been slutting around? Hard pass 🚩. Edit: when women say they’re celibate it usually a feeble attempt to artificially raise or leverage their smv/rmv. Don’t believe the hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:32 AM
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Great straw man, none of what u said disapproves my point about frequency of paternity fraud. Roughly 17- 33% (depending on demographics) of all paternity DNA test come back negative. How do you not find that insidious? https://study.com/learn/lesson/paternity-fraud-laws-statistics-cases.html https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternity_fraud https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2008/aug/01/freedomofinformation.childprotection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:15 AM
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It’s happens enough to be mentioned in Greek myths and Shakespearian literature, have you seriously not seen Maury lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:15 AM
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They are not in fact the same. The ultimate feminine mating strategy is to commit paternity fraud, secure superior genetics from a short term guy/AF and get a provider to take care of their offspring/BB. This is deceitful in nature. https://www.jstor.org/stable/40064685 Mens duel mating strategy is to spread his seed and then find a chaste women he can invest his resources into.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:48 AM
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And you must be Sherlock Holmes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:23 AM
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Both sex’s have duel mating strategies but I’d argue women’s strategy are more nefarious in nature. If women can’t wait around then they should go for older well established men but then there’s the whole age gap thing. While it is true that divorce rates are high amongst young couples, the numbers drop off after age 24 until you reach 32 and the odds increase incrementally by 5% from there so u shouldn’t wait forever either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:11 AM
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Like most on this sub, people don’t understand the red pill enough to be able to debate it knowledgeably. AF/BB has everything to do with women’s duel mating strategy, has nothing to do with men. Red pill “ideology” is really just behavioral science. There are 2 issues with your argument. 1) there’s no incentive to settle down for attractive men outside of having kids/marriage. 2) most men won’t be attractive enough to most women until they get older which usually happens in their 30’s. Edit 3) …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:08 PM
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That’s 2 incomes not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:19 PM
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Agreed men are so unaware of the leverage they have especially with withholding and rewarding attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:18 PM
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You really doing the most rn. You must be young lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:57 PM
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I’m 100% sure your shaming will convince them otherwise. You seem so persuasive!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:38 PM
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It’s propaganda to believe the earth is over populated, just because your current city is overpopulated does not mean the rest of the world is this way. Countries like South Korea are literally paying couples to have more kids as an incentive to their abysmally low birth rates. An aging society with a low replacement rate is a dying society, immigration does not help past the first generation. And I 100% believe it is unnatural to not want kids. Idk where this idea of “I need to make xxx,xxx amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:31 PM
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Unless that family is extremely well off children taking care of parents is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:00 PM
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All women want our money lol location makes no difference. As someone with duel citizenship I’ve observed different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:29 AM
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Because western women want a monopoly on available male attention/resources and men going/looking else where undermines the power they thought they had. Foreign women just appreciate and treat men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:54 PM
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“…super rare occasion I actually want to be with a guy” -ahhhh there it is! Was waiting on someone to tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:48 PM
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The ones with self respect usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:47 AM
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If you think that’s going to make girls genuinely desire you…lol. I know guys who have none of the above and we still. take. your. girl. Lil dick pokin and all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:58 AM
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The red pill is the study of human behavior(generally speakin, don’t give me that exception to the rule BS) within the context or dynamic of human mating strategies, I’ve yet to see anyone get this right on this sub. You cannot believe in science and not the red pill, that’s not how logic works, stop comparing it to anything else. Moreover you are right! however most males don’t get laid, therefore, they can’t think without their dick because most will never get the luxury of sleeping with enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:56 AM
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Considering most guy are short they should choose 1. Im tall enuff, dick big enuff, and I make enough fiat currency. Option 4 should be have game and social skills. U can be tall rich with big dick and still get your girl took by people like me. Don’t believe the hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:27 AM
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That has more to do with proximity, not so much preferences. People tend to date other people that are close to them. High earners run in the same circles and visit the same upscale venues. High status men don’t necessarily care about the income, it has more to do with “she needs to have something to lose”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:21 PM
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The earth being populated is the biggest fucking propaganda I’ve ever seen. Outside of a few years birth rates have been plummeting in most western countries since the 1950’s—so much so, that governments like china and Korea are funding social programs to increase the birth rate, Korea has literally tripled payments for having babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:45 PM
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If a women suggest going non monogamous with you the relationship was over long before she asked, especially since non monogamy goes directly against a women’s sexual strategy a imperative. The only way I’ve seen it work is with gay couples or the guy is super attractive and his girl is bi, and to lesser extent, if they guy is bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:39 PM
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And then call it a an “equal” relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:09 PM
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Honestly that’s the way it should be, weeds out people who aren’t as serious especially when everyone is glued to theirs phones now a days. Women who were genuinely interested always messaged me within minutes of matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:10 PM
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Actually bumble’s algorithm incentivizes u to be as picky as possible. The worst thing you could do on bumble is mass swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:38 PM
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Had a friend audition for love is blind 2 in Chicago couple years back. From what she was telling me producers only pick former models. If what she says is true, these dudes aren’t hurting for options..they get to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:09 AM
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All Religion outside of islam feminizes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:47 PM
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bad boys are attractive because they provide a challenge for her. He doesn’t send her good morning txts, ask her out on dates, or maybe even flakes on her or doesn’t even txt back. She doesn’t know where she stands with this man as compared to the other guys that would bend over backwards just get a whiff. She thinks she can change him ( just lol) and deludes herself into thinking he’ll grow a soft spot just for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:14 PM
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Attractive men too. Outside of sex, relationships are liabilities for most, more so if he doesn’t plan on having kids(marriage being prerequisite).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:05 PM
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Limit the number of concurrent matches to maybe 2-3 that will get rid of the validation seeking behavior. Limit the radius of swipes, a big problem with online dating is it’s been globalized, women are swiping right on chad 15k mikes away begging to get flown. It’s annoying asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:17 PM
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Post wall has more to do with mindset but it’s closely linked to age and looks. Post wall women are now mentally aware that they can’t get the most desirable men to commit to them like they once could. Often times they’re hamster will fire up and they’ll self delude themselves into thinking that they no longer find those desirable type of men attractive—they will actively look for a more safe options( until they cheat or monkey branch on him). Other women who are more self aware that they are po…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:55 PM
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A huge chunk of heterosexual women act or play bi because it’s brings them more attention from both sex’s. Women are attention sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:52 AM
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Most men love tall women, look at every super model ever. I’ll gladly put her legs on my shoulders and pray she doesn’t kick Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:50 PM
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Women are naturally manipulative and shit test unconsciously. The only time when women don’t shit test is if her hypergamy is satisfied. in 2022 that means she’s not that attractive (sub 5) and dating extremely out of her league. 6-7s shit test the most initially and 8-10 do so more later within the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:55 PM
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The fact that you think you’re not being tested indicates your lack of experience with women. Shit tests go from the obvious “are you a player?” or “ I have a boyfriend” to “you never listen to me!” Or “man A got his girlfriend x gift, why don’t you ever give me x gift?” to a more subtle “ why don’t you come out with me and my friends?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:44 PM
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All women do this, especially the more attractive they are. Kiss it to the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:49 PM
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Red pill awareness is needed more so in relationships it’s a form of self preservation. Shit tests and playing “games” doesn’t just stop when u commit to each other, I’d even argue they get more nefarious especially after honey moon phase ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:44 AM
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Visit Columbia, women actually have to offer something other than their sexuality to keep a guy there. Net positives for everyone evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:18 AM
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No fucking shit. Biologically a women’s survival was mostly based on their good looks/aesthetics. It make sense that they evolved knowing their a looks and sexuality is there’s primary agency since they lack the raw hand strength to alter their environment thus increasing their survivability like man could.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 04:01 PM
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But this is where it falls apart this is the NFL not the NBA he’s gone one day a week at most assuming it’s not a bye or an away game. It’s not like the nba where players are gone days at time or back and forth every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:15 PM
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She surprisingly out earns brady and has more to lose financially. However he can replace her a lot faster than she can replace him. You don’t easily replace the Goat in football. She’ll 100% date down after him. He’ll 100% get a younger, tighter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:08 PM
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She’s tripping. He was coming off one of his best seasons ever, everybody knew he wasn’t going to retire. Add in the fact that he’s only away from home MAYBE 2-3 months out of a year if you factor in away games only. She’s fumbling the bag pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:05 AM
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Demographics play a huge part in what pill a guy is more likely to identify with. If you grew up in Chicago, Miami, New York etc or any place where women learn how to finesse men at a young age you’ll find more red pilled dudes. Black dudes tend to be more red pilled on average
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:58 AM
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But that is part of the simping problem that is exasperated through online dating. Women in rural bumblefuck are swiping in the major cities looking for some rich simp to fly them out for a weekend. Men who are good with women don’t need to rely on flying girls out unless she’s some celeb or IG model. Regular plain janes who expect to be flown out ooze some degree of entitlement, but where did this entitlement come from? Simps who indulge and enable that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:46 PM
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As one other has said on this thread traveling a lot especially for work is a great way to up your numbers. Women who travel a lot are more likely to engage in riskier sexual activity’s mostly because their sexcapade stories will never reach their social circle where they can be shamed for it. Married women are notorious for this, you’ll always get the “married but we’re separated” excuse and you’ll come to find out she isint separated at all. Another tip is to go out on Sunday Monday and Tuesda…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah it’s a problem. Women seem way to comfortable asking for unreasonable things from men, which leads me to believe that men are indulging these women and their impulses. There’s 3 random women in my DMs now asking to be flown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:15 PM
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I should have clarified women behavior would change drastically. Have you been to Columbia? It’s very easy to get laid because of prostitution. Since sex is a cheap commodity women don’t have the leverage that you in see in the west. It becomes risky to dangle that carrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:43 PM
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Doubtful I speculate things would end up similar to Columbia or another similar Latin Central American country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:22 PM
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Jokes on her I don’t give out my number unless the 1st date was good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:15 PM
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In my experience some women do, especially if she considers herself an attractive/baddie type(she’s never as hot as she thinks she is). And ironically these women are the easiest to game by simply withholding attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:45 PM
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Contentment is the longer lasting feeling of satisfaction as compared to happiness which is a temporary feeling of pleasure. Happiness by definition is a fleeting thing, remember it’s always referred to as “the pursuit of happiness”, so it’s extremely juvenile to leave you relationship because you weren’t “happy”. Men need to think about the economics/logistics of leaving an LTR before doing so….is he in small rural town where good options are few and far between? It would be unwise to leave sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:19 PM
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“Happiness” is a fleeting thing, it is unwise to chase it. You chase contentment. With that being said men do like sexual variety and are biologically less monogamous than women. The answer is yes for most men but it just depends on when in his life are u asking. If he’s younger and sexually inexperienced he’ll likely want multiple casual sex partners. After a while, shit gets old, and he’ll want to find some one to settle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:45 AM
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That’s an extreme take. Most men have had casual sex and still care about getting their partners off. Even if a guys has only 1 ONS you don’t think he wouldn’t be more sexual appealing than the virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:02 PM
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Withholding attention is punishment enough now a days since women seek it soooooo much.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 06:10 PM
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Being promiscuous as men shows experience and experience is highly associated with competence/ leadership qualities. If givin the choice most women pick the more experienced guy over the virgin, despite what they might say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:19 PM
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Inexperienced men can’t lead women sexually or in a relationship. She and her children benefit from his leadership. If he can’t lead then she is less likely to respect him over a man that can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:15 PM
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Women value experience, men value inexperience. If she’s a virgin she is benefiting from his experiences pleasuring multiple other women before her. Women hate virgin men for a reason, lack of experience, awkwardness and lack of social proof/status
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:55 PM
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Leftist ideology is the personification of feminine thinking. Collectivism, group think/identity politics, equality of outcomes etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:40 PM
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Play the field never commit until my late 30s early 40’s. Basically what I’m doing now although not making millions but a couple 100k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:48 AM
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Missionary’s is the premier starting position. All the girls that fucked me from the bottom all trained bjj get u a girl that trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:36 AM
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Meh you could argue that’s it’s predatory the other way around with women and her family marrying into a “richer” family. Either way who cares, your Thai wife is waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:03 PM
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Kinda facts I’m enjoying the fuck out of dating. A lot of dudes don’t put the extra effort into socialization. On the flip side though the things u listed doesn’t make men more attracted to you, unless he’s bum looking hang on to your coat tails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:17 PM
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Girls who don’t like rough sex seem to be the exception. I can only think a few girl that I’ve bedded that didn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:03 PM
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Women are more emotional biologically, it’s expressed mostly with how they easily communicate with infants(who obviously can’t talk) plus that part of the brain is more developed than men. Women experience a wider range of emotions while men experience narrower deeper set of emotions.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 06:15 AM
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She’s fucking the bass players because he has high social status within that venue. All eyes/attention are on him, he leads the band, other women are attracted to him, other people came to see him, he’s the local celebrity. It all comes back to status or the perception of status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:20 PM
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Who do women fuck when they get horny? Not just anybody. Guy has to have value or status, it doesn’t have to be real value or status, it can be perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:29 PM
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Who do women fuck when they get horny? Not just anybody. Guy has to have value or status, it doesn’t have to to real value or status, it can be perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:28 PM
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Lol emotional personal attack eh? We call that sign language when a women can’t win an argument. Shame, Insults, Guilt trips, and the Need to be right. Seeing 3 different women makes me lonely? definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:18 PM
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A lot of women are being marketed too since women are responsible for 80% of consumer spending. Single women/men spend the same as married couples while earning less. If I was mega corporation with lobbying power I would push feminist lifestyle/narrative on to women too, keep them single and keep milking the cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:09 PM
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Or maybe women are aware that their Beauty and sexuality Is their primary agency in locking down a high status guy to improve their life. A lot sex workers just like to fuck for money. Getting naked and talking to simps online>working at McDonald’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:59 PM
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Yes and It’s 100% entitlement at this point. I have women from Thailand and central America in my dm straight up asking to get married. Some attractive women from rural New York and Miami asking to get flown out and a bunch of clueless OF girls who think I’m going to pay for something that I can get free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:54 PM
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No those are obvious to see through. I’m taking about the OF girls, the green card girls, the fly me out girls, or the local “masseuse”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:17 PM
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Make an online dating profile as a guy and see how many women sell themselves online. Now imagine you taking that women home to meet grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:59 AM
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HVM are the catch/prize because they are scarce. Beauty is very common especially in places like Miami and LA. Women keeping HVM in the dark about their value is women greatest asset next to beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:33 PM
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It matters more to women then it does for men, unless he’s a bum. Men don’t look for financial security or status in women, that’s a womens metric of success in a partner they’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:06 PM
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Hamsters gunna hamster
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:34 PM
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You could say the same about future and chief keef as well. Women are lining up to be the 8th or 9th baby mama and it 100% says more about women than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:26 PM
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Some men will wait as long you want them too and still leave you, some will even do it out of spite. Waiting is not an end all be all. I’ve also said previously on this post that attractive men still entertaining and sleep with other women on the side while they wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:02 PM
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You lose the guy you’re genuinely attracted too. High status men time is valuable, they’re not going to wait on you if dozens of other girls are looking to take your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:44 PM
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It’s called exercising options, and by your logic women are far more likely to be narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:31 PM
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Basically this. If she’s see’s u as high value enough she wont wait to sleep with you in fear that another women will scoop u up. If she has u waiting 6 months she sees you as a safe option since there’s no competition anxiety within the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:41 AM
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U don’t sound bitchy u sound awkward. Attractive men will either patiently wait and see/ have sex with other women on the side, or he won’t wait because his other option won’t wait. The market sets the price in this regard not you. In other cases, If he waits, he likely doesn’t have other options so he waits and bides his time while u extract resources through dates and emotional labor and rule making. Of course I’m speaking generally and there are no absolutes, demographics play a huge part as …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:35 AM
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Hvm like effort, effort and gratitude is a must amongst men worth their salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:28 PM
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The suicide rate among men says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:43 PM
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Men subconsciously do this through body language and other social quos that demonstrate higher status. Women are better suited than men to pick up on these social Q’s UNLESS that man is good with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:34 PM
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Yes and no. Women where makeup to unconsciously compete with other women for a hvm attention. They want specific male attention but it’s more so to distinguish themselves from their competition and peers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:09 PM
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I agree that the market is flooded with simps and losers but your mother is the exception to rule—the exception to the rule doesn’t invalidate the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:06 PM
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Mens problems will become women’s problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:45 AM
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economically it devalues our currency and in this particular context doesn’t solve the actual problem. It was literally done to buy votes or stop the bleed of the upcoming slaughter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:03 AM
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“you ain’t black if you don’t vote for me” lmao like what? This is far as we go down this road sleepy joe, he’ll never get a vote from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:38 PM
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Anecdotal but in my experience it’s mostly young women initiating these relationships. I never had more 18 year olds in my Dms when I was 25. Now at 30, it’s mostly 22-24 year olds. Women just like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:31 PM
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Depends on which woman you ask? Are all her friends getting engaged and married? She’ll be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:37 PM
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More homeless men and women as they reach retirement ages and kodokushi. Most people want to have a partner and be married but A lot of modern men and women are being marketed too to stay single. There’s some government studies that suggests single people tend to spend similarly to married couples despite earning less. The powers at the top are financially incentivized to keep people single they spend more and save less as compared to a married couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:05 PM
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Women release more oxytocin than men. Which would explain why they get more attached than men after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:30 PM
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Love is chemically no different than eating lots of chocolate. Men should avoid it at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:16 PM
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It’s still an average, for every girl doing 20 Ds a year they’re are girls who are doing 1-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:03 PM
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That’s being modest. I knew girls who were sleeping 2-3 guys a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:58 PM
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You have oneitis you likely think the few girls you approach will be the one—this comes off as extremely needy to women and they can easily sniff it out the desperation. You need to put yourself out there more and approach 10 women a night and become outcome independent and build an abundance mentality. Learn to have fun and be selfish and stop giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:18 AM
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Average around 10-16. Which would leave for around 3-4 hookups a year (likely more) assuming she rotates guys every 3/4 months i think is pretty realistic. If they travel a lot for summer/winter or study abroad the numbers are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:09 AM
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When I was earning less I cared and now that I earn more I could care less about her salary degree or titles. I would gladly entertain a female bum but I wouldn’t marry anyone who had nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:52 PM
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The easiest way: Assuming he’s likely still in college get him lifting and tell him to join an intramural coed sports team or join a frat and host parties on or nearby campus. This will bring the girls to him where he can practice engaging with women and if the parties are bangers it will bring him social status or clout on campus
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:09 PM
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Feminism/societal/Media pressure for sure. Generally speaking women operate in the hive mind they need others in their social circle to consign for them.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 10:08 PM
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She’s 5 or adjustable 6 at best. Girls who look like her are a dime a dozen where I’m at
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 03:18 PM
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If u watched any of Rollo’s content you know that he hates the doomer black pill whine fest. Black pill is to gen Z what red pill is to millennials/genX.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:02 PM
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Agreed. If op disagrees then maybe they should set up tinder as guy and see how flakey women are. Women want to be treated as special but really she’s just a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:01 AM
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Then you would be wrong. Where do you think high status rich men live? —The men, women want the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:22 PM
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And may the odds be ever in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:51 PM
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It’s pretty obvious….she’ll kill your baby in a heartbeat but swim through the trash for drakes used condom. Since women choose who get born(men don’t have reproductive rights) abortion is the ultimate expression of hypergamy—which is why they fight furiously to preserve that right. Edit it’s the ultimate fail safe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:56 PM
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Emotionally unavailable men are more attractive because they seem like more of a challenge and women end up playing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:39 PM
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Yes basically this, assuming she wants something serious, which I think most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:45 PM
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Those stats only hold true until after both parties are 23(divorce is far more likely if they marry too young). You are mostly correct though, rates of singleness amongst women is the highest it’s ever been and packing into major cities where women outnumber men surely won’t do them any favors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:45 PM
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“Every women wants an American husband but No man wants an American wife”—Ben Franklin probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:23 PM
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Feminist don’t actually want equality and that the overturning of roe v wade actually made the sexes more equal within a context that neither has reproductive rights depending on the state. Edit: and still managed to get downvoted lol. Men have lost there reproductive rights after roe v wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:36 PM
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Absolutely this. Red pill is for approaching in real life not playing the OLD slot machine.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 04:16 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:14 PM
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Let’s keep it a stack, It’s all fun in the sun until you get into a serious fight or argument and you hold it over his head. As a man NEVER move into a women’s house she’ll leverage it against you if things get spicy, either she move into your place, or you buy a new place together. Your ex isint stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:31 PM
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They don’t call it quarter life crisis for nothing…Be the crisis king..
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:52 AM
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Ur fuckin autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:49 AM
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exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:42 AM
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Its an exaggeration guys holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:58 AM
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Yes. But the wall isint just solely about aging and physical attractiveness. It’s about psychological realization that she no longer has the unlimited dating and commitment options she once had in her prime years. She now knows that she can no longer retain the same caliber of men she once could. Sexual attention and relationship attention are two different things yet women conflate the two. That’s why you see a bunch delusional women think the wall doesn’t exist—it’s because they’re still recei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:26 PM
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Red pill is about reality. Men are at the most attractive until 50. There’s are various data points/gender studies/ surveys that back this up. This rule is even more exaggerates amongst certain ethnic groups who age more gracefully than others(black and Asians). Stop the cap 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:53 PM
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Lol facts we don’t all play by the same rules when it comes to aging. My father is 60 and looks in his early 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:44 PM
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Ruined more so by Ig and Only Fans. Women use it to sale themselves or for followers/clout
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:25 PM
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Until another school or mall gets shot up.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 04:29 PM
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Very interesting analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:39 AM
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Most men would if they could. He’s been famous since he was 10, of course he’s emotionally stunted, this is common behavior for him, you could infer that those women aren’t getting with him because he “emotional available”. On the contrary the more beautiful the women the more she’s going to feel attraction for guy who is unavailable in some sense. Beautiful women don’t value men who give away their commitment easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:00 PM
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A lot of women hate Leo because he’s the ‘not so subtle’ reminder of their fleeting youth/fertility/beauty/ leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:30 PM
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The end goal is discernment. Red pill serves as weeding out tool for men to distinguish between women who have genuine desire for them vs the women who are using them as a backup plan/safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:43 PM
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There are inherent advantages and disadvantages to OLD but meeting someone in IRL will always be the preferred method for most. OLD allows you to cast a wide net and potentially get more options with the least amount of effort but those options are more likely to drop off sense there’s less skin in the game and little consequence for doing so. Meeting in real life is better because women can’t play as hard to get without phone screen protecting them. There are other things in a real life encount…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 05:40 PM
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Since men typically want quantity over quality, within this context, it does get better. The quality seems to slowly wane every passing year. More neurotic women with baggage or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:33 PM
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They don’t like toxic men, more or less the emotional rollercoaster “rock the boat” feeling toxic men provide them. Women love drama, it gives there life meaning. If your relationship ever starts to get stale just starts some shit for no reason lol you’d be surprised how effective this is for keeping her engaged. Don’t nuke the relationship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:51 PM
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Anecdotal but most do seem unhappy. They have all the career accolades and money they could ever want but there’s is no material substitute for having a family/children. The only exceptions I’ve seen are the women who were responsible for raising there other siblings( maybe they were oldest and they were responsible for babysitting all of the time) or the aunt who raised all their sibling kids, nieces and nephews etc— imo they are the outliers since they got that child rearing/raising experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:20 PM
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Have u listened to their lyrics? They promote degenerate lifestyle for women masqueraded as feminist empowerment. It’s all about them bragging about getting plastic surgery and finessing men outta their resources and cheating. Fundamentally a lot more damaging to women then Andrew Tate. Women are easily marketed to and manipulated and mega corporations know this…that why women drive 70-80 of consumer spending and hold the most consumer debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:10 PM
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The only modern benefit of marriage for men is having children. This is not AF-BB thing, If she doesn’t want children she doesn’t deserve marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:53 PM
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Sex work for a girl is the easy way out. Do we as a society respect people who take the easy way out? Or do we respect somebody who got it out the mud, took their lumps, made something of themselves and became successful anyways? Fuck no that would be an embarrassment to me and and especially my family and they’ll never let me live it down for the rest of my days. She’s not even for recreational use. No I own a company that funds scholarships for disadvantaged youths and active in my communities…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:20 AM
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cancel Andrew Tate, but promote cardi B and Kim K and Megan the stallion to women? Lol make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:34 PM
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She’s for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:41 PM
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Feminism can only really exists in 1st world/rich countries. People like Andrew Tate get a lot of flack for being sexist but when you’re well travelled you quickly realize that most of the world isint a 1st world country, and we do in fact live in a bubble that’s not entirely based in reality when comes to gender roles and intersexual dynamics. Comments that are seen as sexist or misogynistic in US,UK or AU are commonly accepted and even encouraged in poorer parts of the world where basic surviv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:35 PM
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Assuming you mean the girls, they try to lock you down with casual sex first then propose a relationships later( I never commit…usually). Remember they don’t actually like you they like the lifestyle u can provide them and they want access to those social circles and the clout that comes with that. Which would explain why my last 3 ex girlfriends are still around and all of them are good friends( it’s hella awkward for me btw.) as for building your social status/social network it helps to have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:03 AM
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What your seeing is the beginning of self correction in dating market and in my opinion it was always going be inevitable either in social revolutionary sense( what we experiencing now with red pill popularity, Andrew tate etc) or out of necessity/Mother Nature sense (wealth gaps disparities, mass war and violence and societal/ economic collapse) genders always revert back to their traditional roles when shit hits the fan, history doesn’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:38 AM
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The men has to be above a women in something she values it’s not necessarily always about money. A lot of simps lead with their wallet and get finessed. If youre the worlds best yodeler and this particular women likes to yodel, she will find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:31 PM
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status and game is the most important qualities to have. Im connected in the bar/party scene in my city and when I walk in one of the bars/clubs I know everybody that works there and everyone knows me. I get special treatment because I’ve built those personal relationships. When I invite girls out they get special treatment by proxy for being with me. It creates this kinda local celebrity effect/bubble. Bonus points If the girl bartenders or bottle girls find you attractive because they’ll do mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:48 PM
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I’m black I literally get a pass just like “oppressed” women. Black people and women are both “oppressed”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:52 AM
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She wants to give you: shit tests, headaches, stds from Tyrone, baggage etc the list goes on. Chad and Tyrone got the best parts of her and none of the worse. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:27 PM
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The majority. So many young people lack the social skills. More of the same: more frustration, more sexlelessness, more anti depressants, more porn/ video game usage. We need a forced sabbatical on tech and dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:36 PM
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Masculine dudes want sexual variety, we want lot of sex with multiple different women, it’s a scientific fact. You are playing into the feminine imperative and not your masculine predisposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:01 PM
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5 is wild. Either way this making for a very interesting lunch time read
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:49 PM
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I think a lot of what you can get away depends on demographics. You think you can play hard to get when there’s 30+ other women willing to take your place because you live in New York or LA? Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:51 PM
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approaching in real life is the best since it’s hard for women to play hard to get without a screen. Made out with 4 girls at the same bar over the weekend and all but 1 flaked for dates so far, so even if you’re attractive it isint particularly easy. I get decent amount of matches in OLD but most don’t go anywhere I can usually edge out 1-2 dates per week. Moral of the story don’t limit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:23 PM
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It’s only hypocritical if your assuming men and women are the same. Despite some feminist/social construct BS argument men and women are biological different we have different attraction/arousal queues and different imperatives. Men are more polygamous by nature, this can be observed in multiple ways: sex is overall less risky, larger testicle size, ability to farther multiple children simultaneously, asymptomatic to STI’s, the ability to compartmentalize emotionally, the necessity of his orgasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:35 AM
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I can make an exception for widowed women in sense that’s is something out of their control however: Who’s more likely to disproportionately file for divorce? Which gender is more likely to initiate domestic violence and be abusive( results/stats will shock you) ? Who benefits more from society and social programs men or women? All of these things listed above are the main reason for poverty/homelessness rates in women The answer is most women make their bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:25 AM
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I theorize a lot of women won’t have that luxury in the next couple of decades. Marriage is and has always been a business/economic decision I think the spiraling of the world economies will remind us of this uncomfortable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:43 PM
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I would agree that women are less interested in settling down but it will ultimately be to their detriment. Homelessness among single elderly women is on the rise since they don’t have extra financials to fall back on. From a societal point, more single women usually means less children, less children being born means less of tax base to pay into those social programs women benefit from the most. Look at Japan and South Korea those are dying societies so much so that they using immigration( for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:33 PM
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Glad you too are happy! Dating in smaller cities tends to be better and lot easier, both men and women are better behaved since the consequences of rejection are a lot higher(ie fewer options). Dating in big cities is extremely competitive, even ugly people have options, and everyone is replaceable. Depending on the age and attractiveness of the women( the younger and hotter she is), a man leading with commitment will likely be seen as lower value. He’s also more likely to get finessed and used …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:27 PM
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Where did you meet your husband and when? Women that are 20-22, at their peak physical attractiveness, in a major city, are not trying to get locked down like that, especially in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:06 PM
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Right and wrong. Redpill is mostly about accepting and learning from some unpleasant truths in regards to intersexual dynamics. Both men and women can learn from this. The red pill as it exists today is mostly to assist men navigating a modern dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:03 PM
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21-27. From what I’ve seen once a she hits 28( when those hangovers start to get real) is when the partying slows down and she starts looking for something more serious. The only exception Is if she’s in grad school, women will extend their hoe phase
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:50 AM
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I’ve had the opposite experience but i think a lot of has to do with demographics. I expect women in smaller rural towns attempt to get locked down sooner but if you’re in major metropolitan area (ie NY,CHI, Miami) both men and women are going to be far less committal. I live in Chicago and I have lot of connections to the party club scene, attractive young women get offers of commitment all the time but aren’t done partying/hoeing around, they often make fun of these desperate dudes. Men that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:18 AM
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The redpill acknowledges a women party years( hoe phase) and observes their decision making when choosing a mate. It doesn’t seek to control women but more so to encourage them to settle down sooner when they have the most leverage to lock a high value guy down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:28 AM
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The thing with online dating is…the match companies are incentivized financially to keep you single. Remembering this important concept will open your eyes on how the algorithms work and how to game the system. Always better to approach and meet In real life, it’s far more difficult to play hard to get when that screen isint being used as a buffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:58 PM
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Men don’t care about how much a women makes because ultimately she’ll still look to you to be the provider. 60 years of progressiveness doesn’t undue millenniums of evolutionary biology. The thing with career women is they don’t actually understand what a career is for— to provide for a family. They get so hellbent on advancing their career that they push off the idea having husband/kids until it’s too late. Having family to provide for is fulfilling to both men and women not some soul sucking c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:48 PM
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The stats in articles are talking about generalities so why are using your personal anecdotal experience? The exception to the rule does not invalidate the rule—most women prefer older men. If a women is at her peak attractiveness(18-23) in the smv it makes more since for to start prioritizing marriage around that range since she’ll have the most leverage to do so, if we take the same logic and apply it to men then this would explain the age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:07 PM
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women don’t have the luxury of having the same amount of time that men have when it comes to locking down a life partner. Once again, nobody is advocating for age gap marriages but women do prefer men older then them. The stats are in the articles posted below. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:37 PM
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Correct, women should prioritize marriage before men because, simply put, they have less time to do so. Women peak earlier and also decline earlier than men from LTR standpoint. Studies show men can remain attractive( reminder that this not just physical attractiveness but the total package) to women from ages 30-50(men peak at around 35-39)as compared to women being their most attractive to men( which is 18-23) . This is further evidenced by the fact that men have an easier time remarrying late…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:56 PM
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Don’t put words in my mouth, no where in this thread did advocate for large age gaps. Lol typical triggered women. The ranges I gave were the ideal ages men and women should consider marriage. The average age for women to be married is 33, and for men 34, which is reflected in what I previously said. You’re just responding to argue and not to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:25 PM
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I stated my ranges based on logic/stats and (to a lesser extent) personal experience. You re clearly more emotionally invested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:57 PM
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Then don’t believe me I personally don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:53 PM
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I don’t listen to other men this is based on my personal experience and the women I find in my dm’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:35 PM
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Double standards will always be a thing because men and women are inherently different—we have different attractions and arousal triggers. Cheating as a women is seen as worse not only because of uncertain of paternity and promiscuity but because of the emotions that tend to be involved for a women to cheat. It’s a double whammy, she cheated emotionally then physically whereas when men are mostly seen cheating it’s usually just get his dick wet. That’s why women will take a man who cheated back …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:02 PM
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men are peaking in attractiveness(not just physically but the total package: status, wealth etc) to women around those ages, so my ranges for them reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:51 PM
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Statistically If a women is gets married before 24, it highly likely that marriage will end in divorce. On the flip side, of a women is not married by 35, it’s statistically far more likely that she never will be. MY my ranges given above account for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:34 PM
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For most women I’d argue the standards don’t get higher or lower, more or less, they change to align with new persona they created for themselves in their 30’s. How many born again virgins have we seen? Or party girl women who are now suddenly getting baptized in their 30’s? She’ll claims that she no longer is attracted to alphas/fuccbois/ etc, but that’s mostly because she can’t consistently attract these men to commit to her like she could in her prime years, so she justifies other/beta traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:18 PM
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24-33 for women. 33-42 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:41 PM
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You’re mostly correct however if you’re physically attractive and you receive too much feminine attention it can hurt you in a sense that a lot of women will be intimidated and auto reject themselves. You have to appear obtainable or achievable for her. This works the other way too only men don’t get turned in by women hanging with a bunch of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:17 PM
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If a women genuinely desires u she’s not going to want to wait long. Not saying she’s has to jump in bed immediately, but both parties should be fooling around after a 2-3 dates at the very least. Women shouldn’t make arbitrary rules or timelines and be reasonable…the 90 day rule feels robotic and transactional and the single mom is going to have a hard time locking down high value guys when she conveniently starts asking chaste. high value guys pick up on game and can see through the facade. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:57 AM
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I think some of this is actually rooted in biology. Women unconsciously know that they needed good looks to ensure resources and protective provisioning from the highest caliber guyy in the tribe they could get, it all comes back to survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:52 AM
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I don’t need PPD to remind me that I’m sus as hell r/nattyorjuice is one of my favorite subs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:06 AM
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Validation for when she gets rejected or played by the guy she actually likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:22 AM
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Women are so use to society and most men kissing their asses, thats why they get to act entitled with a laundry list of demands that couldn’t possibly fulfill themselves. Only when an asshole rolls up and tell hers to fuck off does that man become attractive to her usually because that “asshole” guy has to leadership qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:13 PM
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Never over share your emotions or cry in front of women(not limited to just gf either). They’ll throw it back in your face every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:13 PM
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This sub is hella weird lol I’ve never wifed anybody I wasn’t fucking, it’s a prerequisite. U do all that waiting to find out the cookie was wack then what? Break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:51 PM
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And? Women consciously or unconsciously know their value is placed on their looks. They NEED to be the better looking sex because biologically their survival depends/depended on it. The “wall” has nothing to with looks. Google is your friend, use it! and it amazes me that in the age of information, we humans have the knowledge of mankind in the palm of our hands and yet we choose to be willfully ignorant. The wall has everything to do with a women ego and self assessment of her worth in the SMV …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:55 AM
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I aspire to be you later in life sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:30 AM
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How old are you now? Kinda sus, but most dudes are at their most handsome in late 20’s to early 30’s. 19 year olds look boyish I highly doubt you were at your most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:25 AM
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Men don’t age better we age slower, hence the common phrase men age like wine. Women are done growing at 14-16. Men aren’t done until 25 with most not actually growing into their frame or face until early 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:51 AM
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Nah we all have an entitlement problem and it’s only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:12 PM
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Remember double standards will always exist for both sex’s. There could be arguments made that since you weren’t emotionally invested when you cheated it “WaSNt aS BaD” but the fact remains is that your still a women, and women are not respected for having lots of frivolous sex like men, society sees it as the easy way out for women, it doesn’t take any character development to achieve for women like it does for a man. Therefore men/players/womanizers/ cheaters are generally more respected(not n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:37 PM
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Correct now cheating is obviously wrong no matter what sex does it however Mother Nature/ biology is amoral and there will always be double standards. Men can cheat and be very much in love with their wife and not catch fee fee’s for the side chick…the same can’t be said for women (generally) speaking. I can tell you from being the guy women have cheated on their boy friends with…you can get any information out of her in regards to her boyfriend, she will air his dirty laundry out and not feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:23 PM
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Emotions. Generally women need them to fuck another guy, men don’t we can compartmentalize a lot better, so cheating as women is much more nefarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:54 PM
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I’d say DC and Chicago for sure. NYC is too big and everyone suffers due to an abundance of options that even unattractive people have. Miami is a no go for anything serious and I would avoid any place that’s relatively hot all year round too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:22 PM
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Horseshit. As an employer, If the pay gap was real why would waste i my time hiring men if I can pay women less for the same job and cut cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:38 PM
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Yes indeed…. Miami, LA, CHI, and NY are all super competitive dating markets. Miami and LA more so, cause it’s warm all year round.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:25 AM
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Men should never say it first to avoid the “ick”. “I love you too” after she’s said it first is the way to go, it conveys the healthiest dynamic of the relationship. If she says it too early, she likely doesn’t mean it or she’s love bombing or manipulating you. “ I got love FOR you” should be the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:34 PM
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Miami?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:55 PM
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Not sure it I call it balancing of the universe. He’s got the money status and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:18 PM
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My boy is one of ‘em. Software dev for top company, has jaw like Stan from American dad, did mma in his 20’s, rich family, Eastern European, and can’t talk to girls to save his fuckin life. He’s now dating a model but he’s 32 and it’s his first real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:11 PM
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The cons outweigh the pros (if there’s any). Most women can’t do better than their baby’s father, and they usually still have feelings for him while she try’s to get you to pay for her, her children and her mistakes. You have all of the responsibility and no actual authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:55 PM
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Looking at it seems like a place where women go to vent about men. I don’t see much in terms of dating advice or strategy. I could see how guys could hate it and I can see why women would frequent the sub especially if they don’t have that core group of gfs to vent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:28 PM
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I have a lot of options, and I keep a rotation of 2 women that I’m sleeping with concurrently. Helps that I’m in a big city, own my own business, drive a fancy red sports car and have huge social circle and network of associates. I lift 3 days a week and bjj 4 days a week. Former mma fighter. I lose a lot of girls too though mostly because I refuse to serve them and cater to every whim, it’s lot of women have that queen complex and expect you out in a ton of effort while they give very little in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:46 PM
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Every girl is going to shit test whether she’s consciously aware of it or not. You should take it as a compliment because it usually means she’s attracted to you or interested in you in some sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:38 PM
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Precisely. Often times she’s leaves because she isint “happy” but that exactly the problem, she’s pursuing something that’s essentially a fleeting feeling or emotion. Smart women chase contentment, not happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:09 PM
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People lie but numbers don’t. women file more for divorce, women willfully destroys their families more because of “unhappiness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:21 PM
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Men aren’t disproportionately filing for divorce and wrecking their families. men prefer to stick it out even if the marriage is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:41 PM
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Women can get pregnant off of pre-cum alone. He doesn’t actually have to reach orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:13 PM
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Also hot sauce vagina girl that stole drakes condom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:04 PM
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Ill play devils advocate: the burden of responsibility falls mostly on women why? They have 15 different forms of contraception and they have access to abortion( in most cases/states) but the most important part of all ? Women ultimately choose who they have sex with. For men we have two options: vasectomy(which doesn’t always work/ isint always reversible) and condoms(which can break) Edit also forgot women can give up their child forfor adoption no questions asked. Women putting it on men lack…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:06 PM
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Youre clearly triggered and in your fee fee’s , thanks to all your personal attacks against me. Feminine women don’t need to declare to strangers on the internet that they’re actually, in fact, feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:11 PM
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Women in tune with their femininity look for the man to be the leader and make the decisions, they crave dominance and masculine energy. yes this is true even amongst hard core feminist whether they like to admit or not. It’s fact and not a “personal opinion”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:35 PM
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Only inside the bedroom. Women have to look up to you/admire you/respect you in some sense in order for her to fall in love with you. This remains true well into middle aged adult hood. Women look for leader when their young and sages and priest when they get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:23 PM
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Men that like to lead won’t mind. Coachability and compliance is scarce among modern women, it deserves a price and high status guy will pay for it( commitment/money). Enthusiasm is all you need, be eager to please and he’ll come around…and if not, leave him for a guy that will, if you have to leave him for him to figure it out, so be it, he fumbled the bag, but be humble always.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:42 AM
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I like to call it Microwave money, easy cum easy go( no pun intended). The kind of women that does only fans or escort services tend to be very shortsighted. It’s discouraging but you did it right: u got the ring, u got your kids and your hubby. You’ll statistically likely end up much more content and happy with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:49 AM
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it frustrates me when women clear 6 figs selling pics of their butthole or selling farts in jar on only fans, while I work 80 hours week operating my business. There is no happy medium and there are no solutions…just trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:06 PM
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Tis the way of the world. The world is also very sexist too. Women get shit on for having lots of sex or doing sex work because it’s the easy way out, it doesn’t take any effort or self development on her end. On the flip side, it’s hard for men to get sex, he needs to bring value(money masculine energy), be attractive( three 6’s) and be socially savvy enough to talk her panties off. Who gets more respect? The trust fund baby or the self made millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:21 PM
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first time? ***Queue James Franco hang meme
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:49 AM
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Could give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:32 AM
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Around 25-30 bodies no cap 🧢. This is only true if it’s back to back though, take a break get in a LTR, get sent back to the streets, and it becomes fun again..sort of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:50 PM
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Validation and emotional support too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:29 PM
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Narcissism and or solipsism. Keep frame and don’t buy into her bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:01 PM
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Your penis size is directly proportional to how she values/ see’s you. If she’s sees you as high value and attractive? Congratulations you have huge penis. Vice versa etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:00 AM
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I wouldn’t underestimate sharia law. I predict those countries will a last a lot longer than the US and other western nations. And sure there’s always immigration and assimilation to stall the fallout, however modern societies should look at history and the fall of Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:51 AM
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While it’s true that replacement rates are falling in North Africa and the Middle East only UAE(1.4) Qatar(1.8) Malta(1.1) and Bahrain(1.9) are below the replacement rate(2.1 for every women). 3/21 or roughly 14% of those countries are below 2.1 replacement rate. https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.DYN.TFRT.IN?locations=ZQ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:30 AM
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Lopsided populations serve as a weak argument for overpopulation. Just because people pack into cities does t mean we’re running out of space or resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:29 PM
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You fed into the climate change leftist propaganda/myth. The world is not overpopulated, in fact, birth rates have been in decline the last 60 years. People who live in overpopulated cities seem to think the world is overpopulated. We are an aging and shrinking society especially in 1st world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:31 PM
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On a long enough time line women will primarily be the victim of their own success. Not having enough children to replace an aging population you’re looking at shrinking tax base which means less money for social programs —the thing women benefit from the most. What does this mean: no social security, no Medicaid health care, less scholarship opportunities for women to go to college, no more quota hiring, no subsidized child care, less food stamps etc. it’s a shame most women by the comments are…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:29 PM
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Anecdotal but if you get enough tail eventually youll wanna settle down. That’s not to say that the chase and getting sex isint fun, but after awhile is does become mundane. Assuming you’ve done your part in becoming the best version of yourself you likely have some assets or wealth that u would like to pass to your offspring. The choice is picking and vetting the right women and make damn sure your not being settled for and keeping frame in the relationship at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:50 AM
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Unpopular opinion: look at Islamic states or nations in severe poverty, they don’t have this problem. All half jokes aside, with the way things are going, don’t expect anything to change. Social programs(programs that women benefit from the most) will cave first due to a shrinking tax base and cripple society eventually leading to societal collapse(at least they we perceive it). Once that happens you’ll see an over correction at the detriment of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:53 AM
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the guy that smashed and dipped will always be worth more than the guy that wifed to smash. Anything else is a lie. Also anything else than—“anything else” is another woman trying to make other women look good for ppd/the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:38 AM
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I find that women will often default to the exception rule or interject with personal experience in an attempt to invalidate an arguments, especially surrounding dating/social dynamics. PPD man: “women don’t like short guys” PPD women:” that’s universally not true because my friend dated a guy who was short”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:19 PM
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You don’t need ppd to confirm that women crave attention and validation from attractive or high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:53 PM
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Older women are looking for their priest or sage or someone that can lead them spiritually or philosophically. Their needs change while a mens needs stay constant in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:02 PM
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All is fair in love and war
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:14 AM
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Rookie mistake. Pressure is built for shoulders not hips. Women are not equipped to deal with a man’s problem. If u need to vent, vent to your boys and not her because she WILL use it against you later at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:50 PM
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Yes but thats separate from your smv. How much demand you’re in with the opposite sex determines your smv. The market decides your value, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:07 PM
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Careful, youre conflating your self worth with SMV( sexual market value). Someone like Lizzo has high self worth and extremely low SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:39 PM
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It’s bad for most women because having a high n-count lowers their ltr value in a man’s eyes. It’s not difficult for women to get sex but it’s a lot harder for a women to get relationships and commitment which they value more. Women tend to mistake sexual attraction for ltr attraction, just because a lot of dudes are hitting you up to fuck doesn’t mean they want to wife you. A womens metric of success in the dating game is her getting the relationship or ring. N-count is one of the few double st…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:09 PM
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Studies show that women with high n-counts are unsuitable for ltr or marriage ie She’s more likely to be unhappy and divorce. And in then there’s the additional risk of uncertainty around paternity and it’s no surprise why men would filter a high n-count women out or not take her seriously. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:41 PM
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No, it’s not the same, not even close. Women need to fall in love aka need an emotional connection to cheat. Men will cheat for cheating sakes and still be in love with/ or emotionally attached to their girl after. The man loses more because he loses the girl emotionally then physically, whereas is most cases the women loses her man just physically. If the guy is attractive she’ll take him back, but no matter how attractive she is, she’s getting dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:22 PM
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For the same reasons men don’t wife up sluts and women with high n-counts, it all about paternity. Even though we have paternity test today , 70 years of technological advancements wont undo millenniums of biological evolution. On the flip side women are devastated when their partner cheats emotionally or starts to support the other girl financially. Why? Because he’s taking the resources from her and investing it into another woman and her offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:52 PM
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Women attempt suicide more often, men are just more successful at it. It could be argued that men are less equipped, women experience a wider and more intense range of emotions as opposed to men. Think about it from evolutionary biology perspective: babies/infants can only communicate through emotions and women are the child bearers. It mostly a variety of factors, but men have less access too social services and safety nets and also tend not to seek out medical mental services like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:05 PM
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Women are far more neurotic/anxious and experience more negative emotions than men. Men also seek less medical service than women. So, naturally they’d likely end up on more depression medication. Depressed people shouldn’t date, they need therapy, I’m talking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:31 PM
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All relationships are transactional. It’s not pleasing to the ears, and Ideally they shouldn’t be, but all relationships have some form of give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:59 PM
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Male, 29, I lean slightly red pill. I don’t agree with this decision just like I didn’t agree with vax mandates. On the surface level this is attack on women rights however I think( and theorize) this was done more so to address a future economic problem of low birth rates. Boomers are aging out into retirement and death and they’re aren’t enough babies being born, thus not enough tax payers to subsidize social security and other social programs. Going after abortions and contraceptives will mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:10 PM
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29-35% and up. The overweight and obesity rate in women is too high especially in the US compared to most other countries. Numbers get even worse for women when comparing obesity rates among minority groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:59 PM
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Good lifestyle/financial advice terrible dating advice imo. Highly educated people are some of the most incompetent people on earth, especially socially. Natures way of keeping things balanced lol. I banged a couple rich guys wife as a valet at 22/22 at the my towns country club. Don’t believe the hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:11 AM
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The question isint about exclusivity, more so who’s she’s more attracted to. The key take away here is that SHE PROPOSED FWB with Mark but has Dylan propose exclusivity to her. If she really wanted Dylan she wouldn’t have waited for him to propose commitment to her. At least, in my experience you’re doing it right when shes applying pressure to you seeking your commitment. “Heyy can we talk? I just wanna know where things are going/headed” etc. when I usually get hit with that txt I don’t have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:19 AM
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I agree and she’s likely underestimating Dylan’s smv and leverage in the smp. Not saying that she has to hop in bed with Dylan asap but men aren’t stupid, we can pick up on subtle behaviors and we can sense if a women has slept with guys quickly or not. She’s playing a risky game and if she’s waiting months, she’s likely to lose him to another women who might not wait as long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:10 AM
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Not totally wrong but looks definitely play a part in relation to his options. If he’s getting social proof and validation from more attractive potential options(these women don’t actually have to look better or be better than her, it can be perceived) playing games become too risky, she’ll feel more compelled to put out quickly. This is something she can sense based on his behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:54 AM
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Outside of a few possible outliers in her past Jenny finds mark more attractive. She’s breaking rules for mark and making rules for Dylan. If you’re an attractive enough guy she won’t wait to be intimate in fear that another women will scoop you up. Edit. added from another comment I made: —The key take away here is that SHE PROPOSED FWB with Mark but has Dylan propose exclusivity to her. If she really wanted Dylan she wouldn’t have waited for him to propose commitment to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:01 AM
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Somebody’s salty lol. Don’t shoot the messenger, if the data is showing that most of those women are unhappy, those women should take accountability, and make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:25 PM
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But you never stopped to think why do men do that? It’s to be more attractive and get women! If men could fuck women and have children without providing something most would never work or strive to be the best version of themselves. Men aren’t the ones going around projecting calling themselves “strong and independent and they don’t need no women”. You said it yourself, that men are often getting remarried after being widowed. Men understand the importance of women and feminine energy in their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:12 PM
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These are the exceptions to the rule we are speaking in terms of generalizations. But whatever helps you sleep better at night, I’m not here to cater to women’s insecurities. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/the-not-so-empowering-lies-women-have-been-sold-about-happiness https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:48 PM
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That’s not actually an argument. Women prioritizing their entires lives on a career and not building a family and maintaining relationships is a fools errand. A corporation is a faceless entity that doesn’t give a fuck about you, they’d replace you in a heart beat if you ever grow Ill or die, why do they deserve such loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:32 PM
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Traits like submissiveness, altruism, kindness, sweetness, and the self awareness to know that she needs/wants and values masculine presence in her life are some of my top examples of femininity in women. Career woman and women who don’t want kids are not feminine. They were marketed to in their youth, and later indoctrinated in college, in short they were flat out lied to. The most unhappiest people in the world(according to psychology today) are high earning, career driven, unmarried, childles…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:23 PM
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This is what I’m thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:38 AM
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Never said the world is going to collapse, mother nature humbles all regardless of your “feels” or political views. Nature doesn’t care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:54 AM
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See this is exactly the problem with this new age mid-wit, Marxist bullshit. You let a women lead, not only are too weak to call yourself a man or masculine, but she’ll lead you right into the end of the relationship, doesn’t matter when, It’s not her place. She’ll find a guy stronger than you or kodokushi with dogs or cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:30 AM
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Misery needs company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:25 AM
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But it is. And your take is horse shit. Mother Nature punishes those who are not aligned with it. Don’t believe me? fuck around and find out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:19 AM
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Garbage take. Move out of the city. Testosterone and masculinity means everything, literally. There is no society and sweet comfort luxuries without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:17 AM
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Leaders lead from the back not the front. And even some CEO’s like to be subs in bed because they lead everywhere else in their life. It’s about balance. “ pressure is built for shoulders, not hips”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:42 AM
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Too soft. Pick up martial arts mma and other masculine hobbies, no video games. Start working with your hands and building stuff. Get in shape if you aren’t and gain muscle. When your T levels are up everything else will fall in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:55 AM
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I’m very masculine and feminine submissive women appeal to the part of my lizard brain/ instincts that i can’t control. It’s very attractive. Ultimately you submit to each other, it’s more about the appropriate roles you should be playing in each other’s lives. It’s popular to be androgynous right now and that’s exactly why everyones unhappy and things are going to shit. Mother Nature/ god/ evolution/ the cosmos or whatever you believe in etc has a strict hierarchy that needs to be followed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:47 AM
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Sure its not, assuming you don’t value any and everything you ever knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:16 PM
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Average age of marriage for women is 29. This is usually when women become more aware of the wall. Women usually marry men around their age maybe a couple years older. These men are climbing in smv that peaks in his late 30’s early 40’s while her smv is declining. Her hypergamy is usually satisfied assuming nothing catastrophic happens to his value. Relationships are still worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:16 AM
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Makes tons of sense she’s got skin in the game and she doesn’t want to look bad in front of her peers/family if the relationship immediately fails after the introduction. It’s more about her than it is about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:08 AM
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If men aren’t having sex than women aren’t having sex. A sexless society is a dying society. Luckily we’ll likely see an over correction from the government before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:38 AM
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Modern young women— it use to be men before IG and social media. They don’t even try to hide it anymore, tons of women are still posting their ASSets and thirst traps on IG while being in committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:26 PM
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Drake won’t have to carry hot sauce, what a relief!!!! All jokes aside, if it was available to men I doubt many men would actually use it. Think about the most attractive guy you know…would you actually trust him to take the pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:32 AM
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Exactly bro a lot of men are unaware that women are far far far more emotionally abusive. But women will be women, it’s nature, I know my role and play it well. But the Moral of the story remains the same: “If you want to secure a woman’s commitment, never let her be sure about whether she has yours.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:06 PM
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Sure sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:35 PM
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I’m not here to cater to your personal insecurities. See my comments below.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:20 PM
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Uncertainty in a mans feelings(for her) is attractive to women. There’s something alluring about a man who doesn’t want to be caught. Non committal behavior sub-communicates to the women that the man is higher value or has higher status than her( which doesn’t actually have to be real but can be perceived) and that he has other options. You don’t need empirical data for this, only a good understanding of female nature and relationship experience. But since most people on this sub are socially in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:19 PM
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Women don’t value men who give away their commitment easily. She wants to work for it, so let her work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:55 PM
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It’s not “my rule” it’s “the rule” I’m not a women, I live objectivity reality and I speak the truth, not “my truth”. You’ll find the ok Cupid study/survey to be the most referenced data. You can also google women find 80% men unattractive. They’re are a ton of sources and data. Men lie, women lie but numbers don’t. Source: https://www.yourtango.com/2016285828/women-find-80-percent-men-unattractive-says-crazy-study
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:22 PM
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Yes, most men are socially inept. I’m speaking generally and you’re taking things personally and relating it to you’re experience and assuming you’re experience is what most women experience or the only one that counts—your solipsism is working overtime. Just because you might be an exception to the rule doesn’t negate from the general rule itself. Edit: grammers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:54 PM
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An “unattractive man” that is able to cheat and exercise his options and sexual agency by definition is an attractive men in some regard whether real or perceived by others. Looks are less important to a women IF that man has other attractive qualities: game, status, financial security, muscles/height. So while you say you date ugly men, I’d be willing to bet that said ugly men had one or more of the qualities listed above in order for you to even consider him worthy to date—which actually makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:15 PM
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I understand love enough to know that it is fleeting feeling, and chemically no different to eating a lot of chocolate. Don’t let Disney and the notebook lie to you. People who “fall in love” are naive or idiots at best—but people who walk into love….that’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:23 AM
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Speaking from experience, but only attractive men can love opportunistically and even still, it’s not within our nature to do so. But you wouldn’t know because most men(bottom 80%) are invisible to you, you only see the attractive men doing it so therefore all men love opportunistically. Apex fallacy. Edit: happy cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:59 PM
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There are no victims in dating all is fair in love and war. It’s within the nature of women to compare partners. That’s why alpha widows exist and why women with high notch counts are less likely to pair bond and far more likely to divorce. I bring it up because I want men to be able to discern between being the “only choice” and/or just “another choice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:47 PM
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Just lol and you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:48 PM
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I disagree. modern women are not attracted to average men. Women love opportunistically, those men might be her best choice of what’s left, but not her 1st choice. She might be still pining for that one ex or fling and that doesn’t stop her from monkey branching when someone better comes along. See will,Jada, Tupac and August Alsina.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:29 PM
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But are those men their first choice? This is a key difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:04 PM
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Those type of women are recreational use only as implied by their behavior, they do not deserve to be taken seriously. If a women truly likes, respects or values you, she’ll limit other mens access to her. My most recent ex girlfriend deleted all of her socials when I was with her for 2 years straight. Only 3 months after our breakup is she just now starting to be active on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:34 PM
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How many of these men are those women’s first pick for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:49 AM
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College educated women initiate divorce 90% of the time. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:41 AM
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Hard disagree the majority of young millennial and GenZ women especially in their peak years are 100% seeking attention and validation through social media aka IG, tik tok, and tinder. The number of women seeking validation on socials will far outweigh the number of women actively watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:39 AM
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This is something rollo mentioned in one of his books back in the day. Men are looking for an unlimited supply of seckss whether they get it in real life or online via porn. On the flip side women are looking for unlimited supply of validation or attention supplied by the globalization of social media. I get where OPs going it’s just not articulated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:43 PM
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Her: “let’s be friends!” Future Hendrix: “I’m good love, enjoy” Be more like future
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:41 AM
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“The wall” means you have less options and more competition from younger women then you’ve previously had at a younger age. Mediocre women have more “options” than attractive men for sex but not for LTR/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:28 AM
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Equality doesn’t exist in nature even in our legal system. Mother Nature, evolution etc does not incentivize equality either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:29 PM
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This is only true through the lense of online dating IG where everyone can afford to hold out and be picky. In real life, women aren’t as picky about these things. Status, lifestyle, game/frame, and height will trump pure looks every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:25 PM
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I don’t recommend cold approaching outside of specific social environments like bars night clubs. The biggest things to take away are becoming out come independent. Women can pick up on needy energy and caring too much about interaction outcome initially will turn her off. U need to learn to punish or reward using your body language. If she says something you don’t like take a subtle quarter step back from her, on the flip side she does something you like open up a little more. You should always…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:54 PM
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Most men that are good with women had to fuck around and find out. I spent my teens being a creep cold approaching women in the mall with the boys. the lessons we learned were invaluable especially by the time we got to college and in our 20’s, none of us have Issues with dating or getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:12 AM
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20-24 is the sweet spot imo. 18 year old girls don’t even know how wipe their vagg properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:16 AM
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You’re feeling sorry for yourself. I can only help motivate guys who want to change their lives and dating situation—this dating shit ain’t easy. Pressure is built shoulders(men) not hips(women). This is what happens when generation of men would rather play vidya games instead of being creeps and learning game at the mall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:50 PM
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Nobody has fumbled the bag or picking up a women more then me… I just don’t give a fuck. Men need to learn how to take rejection( because it will happen a lot) , learn from it and rework your approach until something sticks. Become outcome independent. You care too much and that’s needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:35 PM
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All is fair in love and war. The world doesn’t really care about our problems especially as men. Your likely too young to be on anti depressants. Guys need build themselves up even more now and we need more self discipline: no video games on weekends, gym 4-5x a week, cut down on screen time, minimum 2 nights a week for socializing with women or “netwerking”, establishing boundaries and standards with women, cutting porn use, masturbating only 1x/week if your not getting any etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:21 PM
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6/10 I’m having fun but I still need to convince the majority of women to sleep with me. Getting them out on dates is the hard part, sleeping with them after —a bit easier. The problems in modern dating are plenty but I don’t like to focus on women’s numerous options because that will always be a thing and why fixate on something you can’t control? Men are too comfortable sitting at home gaming or being a wall flower and not pursuing the women they want out in social settings. Complacency is dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:02 PM
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In the real world both of these concepts can exist. I’ll avoid talking about rape/ sexual assault because that can be triggering but heres another analogy: If I go the south side of Chicago, while flashing a bunch of cash in hood, and get robbed and beaten — I am a victim, and yes a crime was committed…However, I am also a dumb ass for putting my self in that situation knowing the probable outcome. Things can always go wrong, but personal responsibility/accountability will always play a factor w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:10 PM
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One of the best counters to hypergamy is an abundance mentality, which is something you lack, she’ll destroy you with this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:11 AM
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If it ruins your perception then you are not cut out for dating fucking and adult relationships. Quit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:52 AM
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Fuck no. And any man who’s actually getting that much pussy isint counting, I lost count years ago. that fact that he came up with 72 is suspect as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:03 PM
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Date cougars. At 25 women are still going to have this mindset arguably well into their early mid 30’s ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:02 AM
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You shouldn’t give a fuck you can’t change the past get yours and nexxxttt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:56 AM
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Based asf but true. I’d like to also add that women can subconsciously pick up on men who can get laid regularly or with ease. As a men, if you’re ever unsure about how she’s see’s you/your value/ status, pay attention to how fast she’s opens up and overshares to you, especially on date 1(assuming she’s not drunk). It’s because she trusts you and feels comfortable submitting to you. Also, another strong indicator is if she blocks other men access to her, pay attention to social media activity de…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:35 AM
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Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:28 PM
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A lot of women won’t “settle” but will quickly settle for kodokushi with dogs and cats. Such is life… Men need do need boundaries and standards though. Thirsty lower men play into the superficial inflation of women’s egos and standards so it’s partially on us too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:20 PM
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Men do judge women on past partners she’s picked. That may or may not include n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:37 AM
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Every good lad has taken one for the team. Beauty is only a 5th of tequila and a light switch away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:25 AM
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Very little unless she’s brings substantial value in other ways aka wifely duties. I just broke off a 2 month fling with a 35 y/o women mostly because she didn’t know how to effectively communicate, establish boundaries and borderline narcissistic tendencies. Kodokushi will the future of most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:41 PM
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It’s likely debt from all those advanced degrees. “So tell me why you needed 2 masters degrees again”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:32 PM
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I disagree. I like the time constraints feature, it really shows you who’s serious about dating or using the app and who isn’t. If you can’t respond within day and half of messaging someone you don’t need to be dating because evidently it isint a big priority for you . It’s 2022 we’re all glued to our phones in some way , no one is ever that busy —this is coming from owner of a small business that routinely works 60-80 weeks and balances the social life, girlfriend, and occasional jiu jitsu tour…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:41 PM
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Agreed. Give em 7-10 days MAX. It’ll keep the pen pals and less serious folks off the site too. A pet peeve of mine when I was on the apps were people who were just looking for “friends” and “nothing romantic” on dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:42 PM
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Good idea. If I had to add a suggestion I would say they have to message each other within a 24-36 hours window similar too bumble. This is to discourage validation seeking behavior ie collecting a bunch of matches in your inbox like tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:05 PM
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29/ COO of a cannabis logistics firm in Chicago. I do well with women, and I’d like to think I understand them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:11 AM
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There are a lot variables to consider. Every women is different and will have their preferences: some women like it hard fast, others slow and sensual. Communication is key. It tends to get easier the more the women is emotionally attached/connected though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:45 PM
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I value these things for myself, not to fit any stereotypical molds women are looking for. Hell, I’ve slept with plenty women with only a fraction of those “qualities” listed above. Do it for you if you want to, not for pussy, because after a while casual sex becomes mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:39 PM
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I agree to an extent but also disagree. Whether the guy will stay/wait will be more indicative of the surrounded dating market/environment they are in. Waiting for sex doesn’t really work in big metropolitan cities especially where women out number men ie Chicago and NYC. This mainly due to the fact that EVERYONE has options even unattractive men. And while it’s true that men are willing to wait and put up with more if he’s deeply attracted to the girl this only works so far as his relation to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:08 PM
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The difference here is you have to be “above” her in something SHE values, it doesn’t have to be true or real but PERCEIVED. Good looks and being physically attractive is a cheat code but not a requirement(although it could be argued physical looks are more important in modern dating) : for example if women values yodeling and you’re the best yodeler in the world some women somewhere will find you attractive enough to Fuck marry and kill— in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:25 PM
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Most women who pump and dump ime usually caught feels too fast and would rather leave before getting left—a form self protection/preservation I think more men than women pump and dump but for me I usually try to escalate to FWB or LTR if I’m really feeling her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:13 PM
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It’s a Generational/age thing ime. I’m in my early 30’s people my age and older tend be a lot more comfortable with non PC jokes(I’d argue some even have disdain for PC culture in general) despite me being in very liberal metropolitan city. For perspective my girlfriend expressed to me that her pussy would have dried up immediately had I asked her for consent they way Gen z men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:53 AM
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I think it is for men. Men who’ve had a ho phase tend to be less jaded/bitter and less judgmental of women’s nature in general. The older generation called it: “sowing your wild oats” its 100% a thing. The results: I don’t feel the need to coax my partner into doing some depraved shit I never got to try when I did it exploring with other girls casually. I know what my wants and needs are and can better articulate my boundaries. if you’ve had enough casual sex you realize it’s mundane activity an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:14 PM
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Couple things: you shouldnt exchange numbers or socials until youve at least made out with her. it’s not full proof, but ime the likelihood of her flaking is much lower after you escalated properly. Immediately going for the #’s/social is a good way to get placed in the “orbiter” category. You need to become outcome independent, she likely picked up in some neediness or maybe she was just having fun(shocker, I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:39 PM
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You’re grandpa likely isint a true scallywag by today’s standards. Real players are respected and revered by both sex’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:20 PM
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Correct. in my party years (18-26) I could give 2 shits if she wanted to get to know me to have children, at that age it’s actually a turn off. Now that casual sex is getting old the women willing to settle down is more attractive to me. If I was unlucky with women in the past I would probably feel differently and value the women who wants casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:18 PM
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Of course, the philanders I’ve observed in real life tend to remain attractive, even in there mid 40’s, if the wives do not want resentment or to be cheated on then they must remain attractive themselves. The world is never that black and white, most level headed men are going to want/value both at different times in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:00 PM
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Both but at different times in my life. I’m in my late 20’s, casual sex doesn’t excite me like it did 10 years ago. So I’d value the women who want to have my kids over women that want casual sex. It’s just im at a weird fork in the road where women arent quite ready to have kids so it’s casual sex until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:39 PM
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Ultimately 1 over 2, having/raising children is the ultimate experience IMO. Keep in mind, I may be speaking with rose tinted glasses because Ive had a ton of casual sex—I’ve sowed my wild oats so to speak. Men who haven’t had a ton of casual sex will pick 2 until they bottom out and the wells dry then it’s 1 out of necessity. I would say philanderers are more then capable of committing, and most do, it just tends to be later in life and usually on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:22 PM
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It’s option 2 until it’s time for option 1. Society is extremely hedonistic and selfish now a days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:38 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:21 AM
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Depends on the context but generally no, men are less discriminatory then women when it comes to this stuff. Is she in the friend circle or part of your professional network? Then yes, men have to show more respect and move carefully in this scenario because the risk is greater if things go sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:44 PM
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Ironically there’s little financial incentives to staying single. It’s a catch 22, as the cost of living sky rockets getting married allows access to: better pay or a “marriage bonus ” from your employer, broader and better healthcare coverage for the cost, tax incentives when filing jointly (especially if you have children), social security benefits, better access to loans and other types of insurance(auto, home owners etc). I use to side eye boomers and old timers when they said loss of tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:37 PM
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That depends on you’re definition of “good men”. The good men I know are not having issues attracting/sleeping with women, and finding meaningful relationships. The ”good men” I see often being referenced on this sub are among the whiny type who always blame there dating misfortunes on something other then themselves like: being short, not making enough money, women being promiscuous, failing at online dating etc the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:22 PM
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More suicides, substance abuse, porn use, and vidya games. Most western men are weak, flabby and whiny and fail to take responsibility for they’re own actions. Mother Nature/god/ cosmos ( or whatever you believe in) has a history of not being kind to such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:41 PM
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I wouldn’t call it instinctual but practiced and finely tuned. It takes experience with many different women to get an idea on how to arouse women correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:48 PM
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Estp. Can confirm, no issues with dating or getting laid or just meeting people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:40 PM
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Vocal minority. Don’t let the show “love is blind” fool you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:05 PM
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Most black women don’t like white men. It’s all preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:00 PM
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Mutual effort and gratitude is a must among men worth their salt. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:05 PM
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This is total bullshit. I have abs and my metabolism is extremely high, I eat a fuckton and binge drink on the weekends. I’m 29 but have been physically active consistently since 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:30 AM
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Beauty is only a fifth of tequila and light switch away 🥴 “I still fucked tho”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:32 AM
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I modeled for wilhelmina in Chicago about 4 years ago. I’m a Brazilian jiu jitsu instructor now though 6 foot 165 my weight division cut off is 168.4.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 PM
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Lol There’s more fat white women in my dm’s more then anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:38 PM
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Men can't blame dating apps, feminism and the Internet forever ( except maybe Gen Z they're fucked) I blame most men for being timid and not putting themselves out there enough. now thats not to discredit the fact that now a days you have to move a little different but a lot of these guys think the results would be different if wasn't for XYZ excuse. In other words, if you aint getting laid now, you probably wouldn't get laid then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:21 AM
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Disagree as a man you’re fleeting commitment to her is your leverage. Men are the gate keepers to relationships and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Most men are unaware of the leverage they have within relationships. I will say that in marriage men lose that leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:05 PM
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If I had to guess, less common as you get older. In my personal experience, in highschool I’ve had sex or some kind of sexual contact and play with all of my female friends. A lot of my boys can say the same. Everybody fucked everybody at least once at some point oral sex at the very least. Can’t really call them sluts because we all knew each other for 3-4+ years before any of that happend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:37 PM
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Because ape brain want. Extroverted, psychopathic and narcissistic behaviors is attractive to a womens lizard brain in the short term because evolutionary biology dictated that those were stronger and more dominant men as opposed to the more passive introverted type. Only when they get settled in a LTR or have children the long term provisioning light switch turns them off to this behavior because it’s more destructive to their offsprings survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:40 PM
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Skinnier women are more aesthetically pleasing but Thiccr women are wayyy more fun to fuck imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:32 PM
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“Asshole” is a word women and men use to describe an attractive guy that doesn’t follow the status quo or follow her “rules” on how she “should” be courted. Example of being an asshole: asking your target girl to hold your drink while u flirt with her friends. Bonus points if u take the glass, have a sip, then give her back the glass as u continue to flirt with her friends. Quadruple bonus points if she’s hotter then her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:21 PM
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Indifferent in a sense that your not expecting some outcome with her based on how “nice” you act towards her. Most people treat attractive people nicely, but attractive women receive special treatment and attention from guys who want something from her. If you act indifferent towards her aka treating her like a normal person(without the special treatment and attention) then she’s more likely to seek your approval and validation because she sees you as “different” then all the other guys. She fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:57 PM
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Manipulation is beta behavior. Betas lack the social scruples to influence people naturally through their leadership skills. Alpha influence others into thinking his idea is the best idea for all and the people WANT to do it. That’s the difference. Manipulation implies that the individuals don’t want to do it, or are unaware, it’s exploitive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:41 PM
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B/c beauty is a fifth of tequila and a light switch away 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:14 PM
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Depends on the women. Some women are more subtle or shyer with their IOI’s while some women are very open or flagrant. But generally if a women wants to show interest she will find someway to show you. Just like if she wants to fuck you she WILL MOVE MOUNTAINS. if shes playing games she will make it known in her actions not her words it’s on the guy to find out what she’s after asap so he doesn’t let her waste both of their time. I honestly don’t feel bad for guys who can’t pick up on IOI’s if u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:10 PM
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From my experiences and observations I’ve found that both parties take the “lead” in dating within healthy relationships. The women sends the “invitation” the men approaches and initiates. The men hooks her then sits back to let her chase. (Chasing too much as a man lowers your perceived value in her eyes) After she chases for a bit then she pulls back again, only a little less then before this time( she started to get invested) then repeat the cycle for the men until both parties are “hooked” T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:55 PM
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It won’t be that obvious with guys who are good at this technique. On the surface it’ll seem like he’s playing it cool,or maybe, he actually is. He tried to escalate physically with you u resisted last minute for whatever reason. Freezing out can be something subtle like browsing IG or Fbook or responding to work emails. It’s a take away of attention(sometimes a false takeaway) when the arousal levels are high which is hard not fall for if the guys knows what he’s doing. The attraction level is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 07:47 PM
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Freeze outs are extremely effective if done correctly without malice. It’s essentially reverse psychology. It works on the basis that the guy is respecting her boundaries but in doing so the romantic vibes/foreplay is cut off completely. The women then feels like the date is ruined because of lack of arousal/intimacy( It was her idea anyways) so she reinitiates the physical interaction. Contrary to popular beliefs on this thread, the better u are at foreplay and turning women on, the more effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:11 PM
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It’s an over reliance on technology to do everything for them, they don’t know how to socialize. This is coming from younger millennial(born in 92) Technology is actually regressive. Think about txting. It really wasn’t a thing until early mid 2000’s. Instead of hearing a voice or actually talking to a person you sent words on a screen, and it was expensive to do so. Who remembers when txting was ¢25 a pop just send and open txts on their Cingular wireless Nokia brick? Who remembers telephone la…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:28 PM
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Lmao this thread is exactly why zoomers are the predicament they are in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:07 PM
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I’m 28 so not sure where I fit on the old/young spectrum but I’m getting laid regularly with little effort. Granted I live in a big city, but it isint really hard to get laid now a days at least imo. I think it’s the lack of intimacy which is leading to more casual sex and flings/ fwb it’s almost like a rubber-band effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:15 PM
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What age range would u consider “near my age” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:35 AM
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This doesn’t take into account that younger women prefer older man. On OLD I have my preferences set to 21-30, I’m a 28M. All of the women in my DMs are 19-26. Older women 29-33 swipe right as well but never just aggressively drop into my DMs like the younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:38 PM
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28M and after doing some serious back tracking I’m at n count of 33. Had a hoe phase during my rockstar early 20’s. I personally don’t give af about my partner n count unless it’s higher then mine(assuming we’re the same age ish)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:08 AM
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Most young professionals tend to drink only during the weekends but go hard asf cause corporate grind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:15 AM
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False! I would say it use to be the case but not anymore. I was white collar that turned blue because blue collar is where the moneys at rn. College degrees are oversaturated and no one gives a fuck about your shitty bachelors degree. My fuck head C students friends that went to trade school instead of college are alll better off financially then any of my buddies who went to college or got advanced degrees. They’re more masculine, know how to work with their hands, use tools, are generally more…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:46 PM
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Now? Probably not. I’m in a major city and even if you take the risk of going to the bars all tables and chairs are spread apart for social distancing. Social distancing makes it very difficult to approach. If you’re not bartender or a server all eyes and pressure will essentially be on you and whichever unfortunate girl you decided to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:34 PM
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Not always the case, but after dating many attractive women there’s not much going on personality wise outside of boozy brunches taking IG pics all day and being a bad bitch. It’s the plain janes that put in the effort. They pickup hobbies, join clubs and work on their personalities to meet and attract men. More times then not, these women are the better long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:22 AM
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4 separate occasions I can think of. One was complete stranger(slept with her) , 2 of the four I knew through school(slept with one). And 1 was someone I knew of but had never had any previous interactions with (didn’t sleep with her) It’s always flattering but sometime the delivery can be off putting. Asking me directly if i want to fuck is odd especially if there isint any other previous context. Most guys woulndt trust it, it’s wiser to think of it as a shit test. The other girls I fucked wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:24 PM
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I would never commit to a women I’m not having sex with unless she’s a virgin. Sex is the only thing that makes a relationship official( most people would agree). Without it, youre essentially nothing more then friends, which is not a dynamic or frame you want to be in when entering a committed relationship. We’re all adults here, save the juvenile stuff for the teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:59 AM
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Karen is a state of mind. A lot of you guys missed, or have never been to the monthly PTO meetings and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:07 PM
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Women have a stronger since of self preservation. Men have testosterone which has been linked to more risk taking behavior. Men are also saddled with the “burden of performance” to be attractive to mates(usually). Most men also know that doing overly ballsy shit is attractive to women. 12 o’clock wheelies on a motorcycle gets panties wet. Choosing to play vidya games over contact sports??? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:05 AM
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In short: Hvm see through the bullshit right away and this usually gets the girl ghosted or passed up by the next girl in his DMs. Hv people don’t play games. They don’t have the time because they actually have a life (hobbies goals other interests, and chatting up other people lol etc) Hvm also are able to easily discern and gauge the true interest level of women he is courting. If there’s is any indicator of indifference or lack of interest he’ll next you In heartbeat. In my personal experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:13 AM
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I personally wouldn’t give a shit but my mother, her sisters, and grandma would never let us hear the end of it. They. Are. BRUTAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:21 AM
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You’ve clearly never heard of a shotgun wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:35 PM
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You even admitted it, why do you think you appropriate black and hip hop culture? Because it’s attractive and because it’s trendy. The standards of beauty change with the times and right now, y’all ain’t it. Don’t shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:38 PM
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But why, Is the real question. People don’t just naturally hate themselves and worship others for the sake of it. Those minorities were subjugated by foreign white nations and only through cultural domination the ideals of”self hate” and “worshipping other races” became a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:30 PM
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In non white majority countries white women dominate through status obtained through imperialism and colonialism dating back centuries. White women may be the base benchmark for the standard of beauty but the standards of beauty shift with the times. In 2020, those very same white women are packed into gyms doing squats to get an ass that black women get naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:05 PM
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Doesn’t answer my question. My question is why are all the “supreme” white women changing their bodies to look more black/ African women? Especially since black/African women are at the bottom of totem poll?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:52 PM
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This is true they are the standard of beauty because they are the majority. But explain why they surgically alter themselves to get African or black features?( fuller lips, fatter perkier asses, smaller waists)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:45 PM
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Lol not no more, it’s 2020 my guy. The majority of white men out here are taking major L’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:37 PM
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I would be inclined to believe this buttt why do the kardashians( literally every white women’s overload) try their hardest to be black? They get plastic surgery’s to get fuller lips and fatter asses with smaller wastes, all of which, are Africans features. The most popular kardashians ONLY date black men, and white women follow right behind them following the same trends. I’d also be inclined to believe this BUT as POC it’s mostly white women in my DMs, mostly white women approaching me at bars…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:35 PM
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Lol the same can be said about whiteys with yellow fever and Asians
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:15 PM
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Immediately! You must establish dominance early over his weak and squeaky farts. Bonus points if u ask to sit on his lap or if u can conjure up a “wet” one. Just don’t do it in kitchen while cooking. We don’t need shit particles on our cheese eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:56 PM
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In women’s defense: As a judoka and jiu jitsu practitioner (who’s has sparred with many women including Olympic medalist ronda rousey)I will say that women tend to have natural low center of gravity and are generally harder to imbalance because of it. Of course a lot of that has to do with that fact that theyre shorter but overall their hips tend to be heavier then most dudes. In a self defense situation with no knives or guns I think it’s important for women to learn some type of grappling art …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:11 AM
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An actual HVM! HVM have more REALISTIC options then most women. Women might get more DMs, but are likely to only date few, if any. Men will be more open to entertaining more women which would mean that he has more viable options. HVM know that they are in demand, they know the numbers are in their favor since the number of HVW far outweigh the number of HVM. Talking from experience, I would never wait 3months to have sex with a women. I’m attractive, I simply don’t have to wait. I have no proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:59 PM
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It comes off as pretentious and condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:43 PM
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I see what your getting at. I wouldn’t go as far to say that it’s harder in real life but it is little more tedious/ fun and u have to always factor in logistics. With OLD, women more or less do the work for you, they seduce themselves. Either way, if women are giving you their number without u asking, you’re doing it right. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:48 AM
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Because men with option are attractive and OLD is VERY easy if you’re attractive. Talking from experience. But logically why limit yourself to one or the other? You have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Por que no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:19 AM
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False! men with options do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:07 AM
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I don’t have a problem with high N women. Most women are smart enough to pass the test and not answer the question or at least lie about it. The only time high n can be a problem is if the girl is fairly young. For example I was in Fwb situation with a girl who was a recent Harvard grad. She was 21 with 40+ partners. Assuming she started having sex at 15 thats 8 partners a year which averages out to little over 1 partner every 2 months. Not super crazy by today’s standards but that number is a b…
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