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If you’re going to quit your job be married tmrw at the court house it’s just not a safe move for you
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/26 03:10 AM
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You stopped working for someone you’re not married to yet? Why.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 05:20 PM
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Don’t marry him. 🚩🚩🚩🚩Imagining having a daughter with this man
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 10:09 PM
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A weak man
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/26 11:50 PM
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This is terrifying. You are being abused.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/26 11:43 PM
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If you’re in Boston I know someone. These guys are hard to find out and about, they aren’t really that type.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 07:17 PM
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No I honestly had not heard of the one you mentioned but now I want to, I did feel there were several sections of the Surrendered Wife that needed updating. I want to check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/26 04:06 PM
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I found her other book The Surrendered Wife very helpful in my marriage and even if this book doesn’t exactly help your situation it certainly can’t hurt. Laura Doyle’s podcast is also awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/26 04:36 AM
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The maritime industry. I only work with conservative men.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/26 07:34 PM
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You shouldn’t be doing an AMA based off your post in r/marriage 4 days ago
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/26 04:14 AM
7

Agreed, I truly feel only gotten more attractive and sexual every year into my 30s
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 10:04 PM
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Personally 30, by that time I had a well paying job, was comfortable with my own body and sexuality in ways I wasn’t in my early 20s, and was a lot more open to my partners needs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 07:02 PM
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The person who made that post is completely unwell. I would not take it seriously, that is no man. Is your question do some people suck? Can people be horrible? yes and yes. Generally don’t get married at 18 and get pregnant with a total loser like the guy who made that post. Vet your partners. Honestly, someone who would only date or marry a virgin in this age scares me. Unless both people are very religious I suppose. Edit: honestly OP stay out of that subreddit. It’s not healthy for a young w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 08:19 AM
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I married into one of these families, not sure what you’re so upset about? I know it first hand.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/26 04:34 PM
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Are you on the east coast? Kinda a requirement. Find someone attending Massachusetts Maritime Academy that is from one of these families would be my easiest advice. For your bullet points I do not think social background matters as much as behavior, values and femininity. Yes. Personal presentation, attitude and career. Knowing these types of men I do think that not being white and blonde would be an issue. A lot of these families, especially east coast wealthy families are straight up racist an…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/26 06:55 AM
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The surrendered wife
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/25 05:43 PM
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This isn’t someone I’d continue to date
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 02:03 PM
2

I do IF without low carb 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/25 04:09 AM
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He needs r/intermittentfasting
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 05:48 AM
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You still lied and that’s wrong. Justify it to yourself however you will.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:42 PM
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No 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 03:36 AM
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I think it’s horrible to lie to your sister and say a book was gifted from the local church. Be an adult and hand it to her directly, sounds like you guys are close allow her the opportunity to be open minded and have a discussion with you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:26 AM
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I teared up reading this!!! So beautiful
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 03:22 AM
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Are you in WA state? Maybe sharing your rough location would be helpful
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 10:08 PM
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Are you in WA? I’ve got an amazing friend who is looking but won’t do the apps because he thinks they are gross. He has an amazing job, his own home and he’s very handsome 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/24 06:48 PM
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There’s no rules. I’m a liberal and my husband looks like a conservative but is far more liberal than I am. RPW is a toolkit that has helped me in my marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 06:44 PM
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Do nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 03:47 PM
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2 years for my husband and I, it’s what worked for us and our work schedules.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 12:19 AM
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This is a relationship I wouldn’t feel comfortable staying in. He may choose to leave you when you start up your hobby again, you should let him.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/24 01:49 PM
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Grew up outside Boston and live in Seattle. I would honestly feel like it would be absolutely reckless to marry before 26/27 I’m so glad I waited until I was 28.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 09:20 PM
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You haven’t missed anything. I don’t personally know anybody who was married at 24
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 09:18 PM
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I’ve never heard of any man ignoring women for age based reasons within that range. That would be wild to me. Maybe it’s cultural? How old are you OP?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 09:04 PM
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You’re asking a lot of big questions here. 31/f I am married to an amazing man. No children yet. I’ve got a lot of fantastic guy friends (male dominated industry) who are in the ages you’ve described who make fantastic money and are quite the catch. I don’t think 25/30 dating options are bad at all. I wouldn’t be with a man who was concerned about “geriatric” pregnancies.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 09:00 PM
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Love her podcast!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/24 01:39 AM
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He deserves someone who is 100% into him and wants to grow with him. You clearly are not that person. Move on and stop wasting your time and his.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 03:18 PM
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My husband and I have great sex and it only gets better. Our relationship isn’t always “exciting” but I am very into him and excited to be with him. I personally think you should break up because your boyfriend deserves that respect. You sound far too apprehensive and not 100% in.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 08:54 PM
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Why did you take him back?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 07:36 PM
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I do too! Really fantastic guy too (Boston)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 02:41 PM
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This man isn’t for you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/24 03:58 PM
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the real girl power is in being able to express it without self imposed restrictions Absolutely love that u/chatianne thank you
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 04:53 AM
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That’s awesome, thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 03:57 PM
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Are you worried about how you’ll be treated if you become pregnant and gain a lot of weight you cannot control?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 03:50 PM
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r/intermittentfasting absolutely changed my life
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 03:47 PM
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Do you live in the United States now?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 11:00 PM
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Minimum around 6+ times a week. 31/f & 32/m married for 3 years, together for 10. We are apart for half the year for work (merchant mariners on giant ships all over the world) so keep that in mind. This is our frequency when we are home together making up for lost time I suppose 🤷🏼‍♀️. Some days we will have sex twice a day and then maybe one night a week I’ll go to bed before him and we won’t have sex. Sex is very important to my husband, even when I’m not “in the mood” I can get there with him…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 04:30 PM
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r/intermittentfasting changed my life, especially r/alternatedayfasting
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 12:25 AM
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You abused your child. Slapping is so wildly inappropriate.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/24 08:12 PM
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Oh honey please don’t spend your life like this, it won’t get better with marriage. You’re young find someone you can build a life with. Surprising you left that very important fact out of your post.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 01:07 AM
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This isn’t a life I would accept. How much older is he than you?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 12:17 AM
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Make sure your mom has your exact address at all times. Do a share location if you have an iPhone.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 09:05 PM
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This is like exactly the dynamic my husband and I have 31/f & 32/m. He’s also an engineer and a truly incredible cook. I’ve never leveled up my cooking game other than learning his favorite meal (lasagna) he always appreciates it when I cook it for him how he likes it. When he travels for work I’ll have it ready to go when he lands back home. I am nurturing because I’ll do the bulk of all the grocery shopping, if he’s forgotten an ingredient and it’s later at night or in the morning, literally a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 12:13 AM
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OP is a man for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 12:29 AM
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It’s absolutely abuse, if you’re in MA and need help my mom is affiliated with women’s shelters. I’m so sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 12:04 PM
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Any man that calls one of my friends “cum dump” is not HV. Any man that calls any woman that does not respect women. But there’s so much more that broke my heart for you. I’m so sorry OP reading this was just so sad and unsafe, please get out.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 11:29 AM
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NONE!! Lol these descriptions are insane, run.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 06:13 AM
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Yup. I married one, no regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:16 AM
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Proud of you 🫶
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 09:10 AM
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r/intermittentfasting changed my life. Highly recommend. And yes OP, fat woman should date. I know many overweight women in very healthy happy marriages and relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/24 11:51 PM
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Yeah obviously. If I didn’t notice my husband coming around and us discussing it at least two years into dating I would have never stuck around. I value myself and my time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 08:43 PM
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I was in an extremely similar situation when I was 22 as well. My ex was also 29 and established. I chose the guy with the crazy chemistry. Best decision I’ve ever made. My husband decided early after dating for a year or two that marriage was for him (he had only seen horrible traumatic divorces so I didn’t blame him for his apprehension), his family is still somewhat difficult but with me by his side the relationship will all of them has gotten better. I’m now 31 and I have absolutely zero reg…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 11:21 AM
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Again, good for you? Carry on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 10:36 AM
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We have different opinions and that’s okay.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 10:05 AM
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Good for you? Hope you don’t end up in a marriage like this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 09:20 AM
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If you don’t think there’s anything wrong with a 36 year old getting together with a woman who is 22 than we don’t have anything further to discuss. He can prefer whatever he would like but doing so is predatory and there is obviously something wrong with him. She was 22 when she got with him and therefore didn’t have enough experience to recognize the warning signs.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 09:16 AM
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Exactly. Numerous things within this post signal LV. Mean but true. A man with absolutely nothing wrong with him would find someone his own age, but he went for someone 14 years younger? she should get out while she’s still young enough to seek HV men.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 08:07 AM
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Lol obviously? Like duh. I can only go off of what she wrote and what she wrote wouldn’t be good enough for me to stay in this marriage. I didn’t listen to my mom when she told me dating older men was a mistake but she was completely right. Thankfully I married someone my own age.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 08:00 AM
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I strongly feel someone your age shouldn’t be with a man so much older also…he hasn’t worked a day in nearly an entire year? That’s just not good enough. I would not be wasting a moment longer with this person. You’ll really regret staying when you’re 35 and this is still your reality.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 07:48 AM
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I would absolutely never do that until I was married and I was with a man who had proven he could provide for both of us. He would also have to prove to me that he’s isn’t weird about money and that all money either of us made was each others 100%. No such think as allowances or invasive monitoring. My husband is a HVM and can provide for both of us, I don’t intend to give up my job until I am fully ready to have children. I make a lot of money on my own and wouldn’t give up that financial freed…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 03:28 AM
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I went to basically a all men’s college (maritime academy college) and there were a ton of HVM, I married one.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 12:13 AM
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Sounds like the men are the issue not you, it’s okay that they are being honest with you and allowing you to move on. Nothing more disrespectful then wasting someone’s time.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 01:07 PM
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I think you need to be a lot more proud of how hard your parents worked to give you the life you have. It sounds like you need to come to terms with how fortunate you are. Comparison is the thief of joy. I’d invite him on a coffee date and just tell him how you have been feeling. Tell him that your proud of who you are / where you came from. If being straight forward in a non aggressive way is an issue for him then you two shouldn’t be together. He probably really likes you for you and could car…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 01:21 PM
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How long have you been together? You don’t give an exact timeframe in your post. Have you ever straight out lied about anything or mislead him in anyway?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 12:52 PM
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My husband is significantly wealthier (large trust fund and generational wealth) than my working class family. I never hid that and he never made me feel less than. You should be able to be your full truthful self in your relationship, a HVM wouldn’t break up with someone for that reason alone. Why don’t you tell him about your life and see how he treats you? If he’s a jerk then move on, he’s not HV. My husband is not weird about money and after dating for several years we combined finances and …
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 12:02 PM
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I think your friends are just worried about you. Getting married at your age and not having an education allowing the necessary skills to finically support yourself fully is really scary for you as an outside looking in. I think that’s what your friends are probably sparing your feelings not saying. Ultimately, you’ve made the decision to get married, if you’re an adult enough for that your adult enough to not care what your friends think. If this works for you great.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 01:31 PM
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Do not marry this bum. You can do better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 01:27 AM
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Men need direct communication, hinting is never going to work.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 01:30 AM
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Me and my husband had a lot of really hard conversations around this topic in what we both need. Have you done this with eachother?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 08:47 PM
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It’s actually ten years today that I’ve known my husband, married for 2.5 years. We have sex at least 5 times a week and on days I’m not interested I usually help him out in other ways. I don’t recommend comparing yourself to other people at all, there’s sooo many factors. How you feel about yourself, money concerns, work stress whatever can really make sex seem so daunting. Ultimately though the times I wasn’t into sex was when I wasn’t with the right person. My husband is HV and hot as fuck (t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 11:49 AM
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I’ve very pro r/fasting and r/intermittentfasting and I do it daily. I personally don’t think the sugar in juice cleanses are for me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 12:21 AM
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Get over yourself! Hahaha so funny.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 05:17 AM
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Look at her comment / post history and tell me otherwise. Feel free to go to her when she’s licensed 🫢 Nvm she deleted it all, that makes sense lol I would have too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 05:11 AM
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In what ways was he aggressive? Are you safe Op?
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 06:04 PM
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I wish I had better advice. When I was dating my husband I was faking it too, he was a very HVM and I thought he was so hot! I didn’t want to disappoint him by not orgasming. I really wanted to be with him. A year + into our relationship I finally came clean when he was like “wait, did you orgasm?” Kinda side eyeing me. I think he knew something was up. I finally stopped lying about it and told him everything. My husband (then bf) was like, “we can fix this I wish you talked to me sooner.” Now 8…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 04:37 PM
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Please don’t fake it, you’ll regret this big time if you stay in a relationship with him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 04:15 PM
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My husband is “overweight” technically but he’s also 6’4” and 275. He is a giant human. He makes great money being a Marine Engineer and through that work onboard ships he’s got really amazing back muscles and legs that I think are super hot. He’s super strong and can pick me up no problem. I would hate if he got a six pack, I honestly think they are gross.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah for sure of course! What I was saying is that in the past it was an issue for us when I was answering every text or Instagram message that was sent to me. I was spending too much time on my phone. Will be even easier now that I’ve deleted Insta 😎
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 02:28 AM
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My best friend is a man (since we were 14) so I don’t agree on the no hanging out with other guys alone. If you cheat, we are over. I have self respect. My husband watching porn is perfectly fine with me because it doesn’t interfere with our sex lives. But…No subscribing to OnlyFans. No following THOTy Instagram girls. He usually is the one driving so he asks I stay off my phone in the car as much as possible and be present with him.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 06:50 PM
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Does he have money? Child support is a thing…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 04:18 AM
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I looked at your post history a bit. I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I couldn’t sleep in the same bed of someone that hurt me and destroyed my trust in such a way. I didn’t see how old your kids were? I don’t believe in “staying together for the kids” not sure if you do. It was not a healthy environment I grew up with, I wish my parents had divorced and found their loves sooner. Btw my mom found the love of her life in her 50s with a very wealthy business owner (she has kids obvi) but t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 04:06 AM
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I was your age dating a man his age. I do not recommend it. If he wants children (even if it’s the future) you should respect him enough to all him to find a woman who is a 100% hell yes on children. Do not waste his time or yours.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 03:49 AM
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I do. Unless children are involved maybe that would change my answer. I am not a mother so that isn’t my prospective. I also have a very good job and feel confident I can make plenty of money on my own. His money means nothing to me. Even if I didn’t have my education/job I’d rather work at a grocery store the rest of my life than be with someone who didn’t respect me. Like I said, I have self worth.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 03:46 AM
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We have a prenup and I have access to every single banking and investment account shared or otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 03:40 AM
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My husband is a HVM with a very good job and an insane trust fund, I would leave him in second if he cheated on me. I have self worth.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 06:09 PM
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Saw on your post history you’re studying to be a therapist, I’m concerned for your future clients.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 04:59 PM
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That’s fair but she wouldn’t have made this post if it wasn’t overly bothering her. You should feel comfortable asking your partner for clarification and reassurance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 08:41 PM
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You should be able to express that it made you feel a little weird and you’d just like to talk more about that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 06:23 PM
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Instead of getting mad why don’t you ask him for clarification in a neutral way. Maybe he means loving when he says softness. Or maybe he’s using softness and kindness interchangeably.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 06:02 PM
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Do you want to let it go? I think that’s bigger than “minor”. I think you and him are both adults and you should be able to express how that makes you comfortable and he should be accepting of that and not a jerk. If I told my husband something made me uncomfortable he’d stop doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 12:55 AM
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This is for a specific group of people, if you read what I wrote…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 09:21 PM
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Love it! Haha
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 07:19 PM
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I’m married (and my husband also works at sea like me) but I meet so many guys at all ages who are handsome, make great money, own their own properties but just can’t find someone who is okay with their work taking them away half the year. It’s such a bummer for them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 07:18 PM
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Nah not too much, sorry! It’s my dream (30/f) to create a dating app for the men I work with at sea to meet women who are like independent and totally down for someone who works half the year away from home but makes a shit ton of money.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 07:11 PM
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What state do you live in?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 07:09 PM
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You need to date a man in the maritime industry, I know a lot of people with this relationship dynamic. If you can handle your bf/fiancé/husband being away for half the year you’re golden 😂
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 06:55 PM
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I have a sapphire, they are gorgeous but def not cheap!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/23 06:26 PM
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I grew up in the fine jewelry business, my mom managed really nice jewelry stories while I was growing up. Mined diamonds are so overrated it’s ridiculous, why do we need a Diamond plucked out of the ground by people forced into this labor or children? It’s so barely regulated. In many cases these people are forced into Diamond slavery. I just helped my best guy friend buy a lab grown Diamond for his fiancé, the ring he bought was absolutely incredible and if it had been a “mined” Diamond it wou…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 09:44 PM
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Do not marry this man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 03:13 PM
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Get WhatsApp or LINE? There’s no excuses with the amount of solid messaging apps these days.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 05:55 PM
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