Sweaty-Loan-1835 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-12	Stop the "emotional labor" As a woman, you get sex, a financial safety net, someone to buy you a house, a source of children, etc. As a man, you get sex and nothing else. The privileged, pampered sex wins again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:16 PM
-1	Stop the "emotional labor" Yes, women make men miserable when they don’t share women’s needy nesting instinct and inane, superfluous spending habits. Men deal with this because, unlike women, they actually love their partners. You will never see a woman say “it’s worth spending my money on a bunch of stupid shit just to make him smile.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:05 PM
0	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. I have to deal with women romantically. You don’t. And bisexual women have similar complaints about women. But continue to gaslight men until the day you die. I prefer having character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:03 PM
11	Stop the "emotional labor" Yeah her attempting to make the untolerable tolerable is nagging. “Untolerable” to whom? Certainly not him, or he would just do it without talking to you about it. Which means the only person who finds it intolerable is the woman, and she’s elected to make the man’s life miserable until he complies with her every whim and fancy. It’s not men making their wives miserable for buying ground beef that’s 10% too fatty. There is no male equivalent of “happy wife, happy life.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:49 PM
7	Stop the "emotional labor" Yep. Men have been doing emotional labor forever. But now that women are having to do a little bit of it themselves, here comes the bitching and “men’s problems aren’t women’s to solve.” Women dislike any relationship that isn’t endless take for her and endless give for the man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:46 PM
14	Stop the "emotional labor" Bingo. Every girlfriend I opened up to ultimately told me “you need to go to therapy.” Just imagine the shitshow if men told women when they start problem sharing to talk to a therapist instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:44 PM
-3	Stop the "emotional labor" Men often have less friends Quality over quantity. Men build a few close friendships that last a lifetime. Women make a million friends and bitch about all of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:43 PM
-10	Stop the "emotional labor" Talking isn’t fun. You’re a weak person who derives gratification from external validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:40 PM
9	Stop the "emotional labor" if the other person isn’t doing their part to regulate their own emotions It’s grown women that throw tantrums when a man won’t take her to the lake. Women can lecture men on our emotions when they figure out theirs. take responsibility for their self care Women don’t take responsibility. They are endless participants in oppression Olympics who derive their whole identity from being victims. Tell a woman “men have it just as bad as women, but in different ways” and watch the emotions flare. or b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:40 PM
3	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Yes, I’m aware of the limits of your capacity for systematic reasoning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:26 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. If mowing the lawn is no big deal, then putting clothes in a laundry machine is basically sex. Remind me why women can’t stop bitching about having to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:25 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. “6 hours” of sitting on your ass while a machine does all the work for you isn’t remotely comparable to 2 hours of sweating in the dirt. But don’t worry, men will continue to do the harder work while you bitch endlessly that you had to move a vacuum cleaner across the floor and press a button on a washing machine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:17 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. I‘ve been cleaning my own damn house my entire life, sweetheart. I know what goes into it. Even if you mop, vacuum, dust, and sweep every weekend religiously, it’s an hour or two of chores at most. The bathroom isn’t even that bad when you aren’t a woman and don’t turn the sink and shower into a soup of cosmetic chemicals and shed hair. The only reason women bitch about it is because they’ve been socially conditioned to. It’s not hard work. Get over yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:07 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Black swan fallacy. This is debating 101. Get it together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:03 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Okay. Enjoy mowing the yard and pulling weeds for 2 hours a week while your man lounged on the couch after spending 15 minutes cleaning dishes and clothes. I look forward to this utopia where a woman goes 24 hours without complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:02 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Not an argument, but it seems to be all women can say when confronted with facts. Which means you either (a) concede that women are terrible people, and men should avoid them, or (b) just want to silence anyone drawing attention to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:01 PM
8	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. This is illegal So you’re a legal positivist? Does that mean people shouldn’t do illegal things, no matter what? Use your words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:59 PM
2	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Quick tip, sweetheart. When a man brings a source to an argument and you bring nothing but feelings and vibes, you lost the argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:52 PM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. This doesn’t happen. What happens is, boys (and girls) are taught emotional regulation, with girls getting away with more, because girls are coddled and pampered compared to boys. But having your toddler start scream crying in a crowded store because they want chicken nuggets is obnoxious whether it’s a boy or a girl. Girls just get away with it much longer than boys, and that lack of emotional regulation contributes to their lifelong neuroticism and self-centeredness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:51 PM
-1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. In that case, gender roles haven’t been forced in half a century, and women have nothing left to bitch about. Do you, and all women, concede to stop bitching?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:49 PM
–	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. And those Romans were oathbreakers, like any woman who initiates divorce today. That makes them liars unworthy of respect. But you’re a bitter loser who tries to brag about your soft husband’s do-nothing tech job and spends all day drinking and angryposting on Reddit while he fucks his intern. No amount of snark can spare you that humiliation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:47 PM
8	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. He’s a very stupid little guy. Gets big in his feelings and starts snorting angrily when you call him out on it, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:45 PM
15	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. People can be racist. Deal with it. People can pay women less for the same work. Deal with it. People can call you a loser. Deal with it. You won’t deal with that last one, though. You’ll cry like a little girl and report any post that makes fun of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:44 PM
5	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Most men aren’t making all the money that’s just reality. But they are making more than the wife, and the wife is much more likely to initiate divorce when she gets a raise. Oh, and she’ll almost certainly have a cupcake, do-nothing fake email job that lets her sit on her ass all day. Men are still doing damn near all the actually hard jobs that aren’t gold collar status careers. Women certainly aren’t the majority of pipe fitters, machinists, electricians, or commercial fishermen. The facts are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:42 PM
4	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Who’s mowing the yard, pulling the weeds, cleaning the gutters, and painting the shed when it’s 100 degrees outside in the summer? The husband or wife? Funny how in women’s endless bitch fit about having to put dishes in a dishwasher and load a laundry machine, they always forget to mention who’s doing the chores that actually suck. For that matter, literally no man I know doesn’t clean the house alongside his wife, even the 50+ men whose wives don’t work are still on their knees scrubbing floor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:35 PM
8	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Of course she did. She also left out the part where the man does all the driving and all the chores outside the home, which are actually dangerous and force a man to endure 100 degree heat in the summer while his wife complains about washing dishes from her 70 degree kitchen. Women will never appreciate what men do for them, because unlike women, we don’t weaponize and bitch endlessly about our share of the labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:33 PM
0	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I’m not your husband. If you want to bore a man with personal questions, go bore him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 09:06 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Whatever helps you feel better about yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 09:05 PM
–	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I read a lot Tells me nothing. Most books are written by people just as clueless as you. mansplained me You have that backwards. I never explained anything to you. You’re the one that “womansplained” me. Keep the projection coming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:05 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I have never said who women are supposed to choose. I genuinely don’t care. Women have proven to me ad nauseum that they are unprincipled, undignified, overgrown children. If they all disappeared tomorrow, including my girlfriend, I would chuckle and go about my day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:02 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Then you don’t know what words mean. Perhaps you’re not as educated as you think. A common problem in women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:00 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I haven’t deleted anything. You, and virtue signalers like you, are reporting my comments for breaking the rules, and mods are deleting them. Please, point out where I talked about how good I am. Alright, so you concede that you’re not a good person, and you’re simply virtue signaling by repeatedly talking about how selfless your goals are? A simple “yes” will suffice. I’ll wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 07:55 PM
3	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? You seem to be mistaking pragmatism for intelligence. Pragmatism is what overly-educated, unprincipled people mistake for intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 07:53 PM
0	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Again, you’re projecting female sexuality onto men. It’s women that assign moral value to sexual attractiveness, not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:41 PM
0	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? muh podcasters It’s amusing how obsessed bloops are with podcasts. You know you listen to them more than red pillers do, right? inb4 “it doesn’t count because I’m listening to them ironically” And ask how I know you had to look up what a “black swan fallacy” is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:37 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? blah blah blah look how virtuous I am You’re a loser mad at someone who offended you. Actual good people don’t need to talk about how good they are. Which is the definition of virtue signaling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 06:35 PM
0	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I don’t care enough about you to insult you. Go find another man to verbally hate fuck, cutie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:24 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? You’re literally doing it again. “I just care about other people.” You’re a virtue signaling slacktivist getting off on mental masturbation about what a good guy you are for arguing with me. You’re just a loser arguing with someone that offended him. Sorry to deny you your high horse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:22 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? See, I spend my time here because I'm concerned about young men Your first fucking line, dipshit. It’s not about “you.” It’s about you heroically helping those poor young men being brainwashed by the evil red pill. Such a hero. So selfless. Definitely not a sexually frustrated loser with a gynocentric axe to grind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:14 PM
–	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Yes, we have slang to describe women like you and all your friends: special snowflakes. Even if I believed you were different, the statements “swans are white” and “but I’m a black swan” are not logically inconsistent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:10 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I don’t feel like walking you through your post with a thesaurus and a dictionary. Go be sexually frustrated with your wife at another guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:08 PM
-1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? You’re projecting. Men aren’t attracted to people that are better than them. That’s a female phenomenon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:07 PM
2	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Yes, the “I’m here because I’m a selfless hero” routine is a cute way for you to delude yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:06 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Alright, clearly you have big feelings about me. I don’t care about you that much. I didn’t just touch a nerve, I played it like a violin string.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 05:05 PM
0	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Uh huh. Note that intelligence is only used in one of these quotients. Nice job defeating your own claim. Looks like that degradation fetish is running a little rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:57 PM
10	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit Reddit moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:53 PM
9	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit Bingo. It’s the definition of trolling (getting a rise out of and pitting people against each other). But it’s at men’s expense, so no one cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:51 PM
6	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit Anytime I see OP’s name, I know I’m about to read the dumbest fucking shit imaginable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:50 PM
1	Q4M: do guys want women to be obsessed with them? No. My last girlfriend was obsessed with me. She was toxic as hell. Wanted passwords to all my online accounts (including email), wanted constant access to the GPS on my phone, didn’t want me talking to any women other than her, etc. She was hot and we were extremely compatible sexually, but I’d never deal with that again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:48 PM
2	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I don’t think I’m all that intelligent. Nice try, though. Keep doom scrolling my profile. It means I touched a nerve. The more morally developed sex? LMFAO 🤣 Yes. In fact, Kohlberg’s conclusion triggered women so badly that they had to make up an entirely new system of ethics just to pretend they’re actually just as morally developed as men, because feels equal reals. It’s so easy to destroy women in an argument when all they bring to it is hurt feelings and vibes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:42 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Adorable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:41 PM
5	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? No, there isn’t. Because you’re almost certainly referring to “emotional intelligence,” which is just a measure of one’s ability to manage interactions with others to their own benefit. That’s not intelligence any more than bodybuilding makes one “physically intelligent.” Intelligence isn’t a synonym for competence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:39 PM
–	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Happily married No you’re not. Happily married people don’t spend more than five minutes on forums dedicated to the issues or struggling men. But you probably lie to yourself as well as me about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:36 PM
6	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? “Complaining about things you can’t control makes you stupid.” When’s the last time you complained about the weather? Or something a politician did?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:34 PM
4	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? I’ll have to tell my girlfriend I’m an “average-looking guy struggling” next time I turn her fat tits into a Pollack painting. Believe it or not, men can derive value judgments based on more than personal feelings. It’s a benefit of being the more morally developed sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:30 PM
1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? as a woman on PPD You could’ve answered that question yourself if you understood context clues. Or you’re one of the many women I’ve engaged with that enjoys being degraded. The meme sex is lousy with that particular fetish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:26 PM
3	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? All true. And you didn’t refute any of it, because as a woman on PPD, you’re almost certainly a hot mess. Next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:18 PM
-1	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Nah. Men are like the Ron Swanson meme. “I had a friend. We didn’t talk for 13 years. Best friend I ever had.” You would know that if you were one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:17 PM
9	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Problem-solving has no merit if the solution is “compromise your integrity to be a dancing, drooling moron who performs social dances for its masters.” The same way I’m not intelligent if I claim that I solved the problem of systemic racism by killing all racial minorities. A solution that makes people worse versions of themselves is not a real solution. At least not for men, who, unlike women, value character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:07 PM
3	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Black swan fallacy. Get it together. This is debating 101.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 04:04 PM
3	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? Yes, I mean dating. Specifically modern dating, which everyone agrees is miserable, including the women that control the market. What point did you think you were about to make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 03:58 PM
14	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? You’re not describing intelligence. Intelligence is just a measure of how fast you solve problems. You’re describing conformity and status signaling, neither of which are measures of intelligence. You just reached for “unintelligent” because it’s the insult you thought had the most teeth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 03:58 PM
3	What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women? Irrelevant. He was punished for not fulfilling his gender role by multiple women. That directly and thoroughly discredits the running feminist narrative that the patriarchy is enforced by men and not women. This lived experience is ubiquitous for men that spend time dating as adults. Yet men are gaslit into believing it’s men’s fault that gender roles exist, and that it’s a “problematic minority” of women who lose attraction when a man cries. Feminists and women need to be called out by other fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:58 PM
1	Have you ever received unwanted attention from a woman you found attractive? Yes. I had an objectively attractive woman (she did modeling in college) threaten to fabricate a harassment story and report me to HR if I wouldn’t hang out with her after work. Multiple attractive women approached me in bars when I still drank to drop a fishing line, then acted offended when I didn’t bite. Women are entitled. They handle rejection very poorly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:49 PM
24	Can you call yourself intelligent if you can’t deduce, breakdown, and understand interpersonal dynamics? For example, if you’re an average-looking guy struggling, and haven’t figured out that at least part of it is how you interact or part of it is your lacking presence of mind to improve what’s mutable, are you actually “super smart”? A smarter person would’ve grokked that sooner. This isn’t actually what’s happening. What’s happening is that men are calling out these shallow, disingenuous social rituals as stupid, and women stupid for upholding them as sacred. inb4 “I’m not talking about men that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 02:45 PM
6	Okay Femcel Facts.	/r/EverydayMisandry	16/06/25 09:03 PM