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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know.Leave yesterday bud | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 11:01 AM |
| 10 | My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment.She needs to grow up and offer support financially and emotionally for her family. She is incredibly selfish, and you need to tell her to shit or get off the pot. You can’t allow her to make these decisions against the family for her personal reasons any longer as it is destroying any cohesion and security you could have had. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Wife forcing vasectomyNo you didn’t. You repeated your thoughts for yourself back to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Wife forcing vasectomyNo. We got no information from the OP about his friend. I had mine. These are genuine feelings. I am not pulling the shit out of thin air. You don’t know either, so I asked the OP why. You read it as condescending, that’s your fault, not mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 11:58 AM |
| -1 | Wife forcing vasectomyWhatever dude. Getting a vasectomy is WAY fucking easier and way less invasive. Look it up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 03:44 PM |
| -1 | Wife forcing vasectomyLol. I offer a genuine question and my opinion/advice and ppl get so butt hurt. We don’t know the whole context of the situation, just a friend’s view of it from his buddy’s telling of the story. Which will inherently be biased towards the man in this scenario. Please don’t respond unless you have actual things to contribute. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 03:43 PM |
| -2 | Wife forcing vasectomyLol. I already got one bro. You are dismissive on how his wife may feel. I understand it’s divorce men subreddit, but we shouldn’t be assuming his wife is a controlling bitch. Sorry you’re so scared of it. Must be tough to think about losing the only thing that makes you a man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 12:41 PM |
| -6 | Wife forcing vasectomyInsult him? I’ve had friends in healthy relationships not want to get it, because they “don’t feel like it”, but it is safer to do and quicker than a hysterectomy. Everyone jumping on my back cause I asked the alternative question, and it could provide some change to the relationship that is positive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 12:17 PM |
| -2 | Wife forcing vasectomyWe aren’t getting any reason. We are getting secondhand info from a friend. Seems maybe he can consider the alternative person in the relationship also. Not that hard. Not everything is a manipulation tactic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Wife forcing vasectomyWhy won’t he get one? I mean it takes away the chances of pregnancy and actually can open up the sex life more. I had one against my wife’s will cause I was done with kids at 40. Best thing I ever did. Couple days of watching movies with an ice pack and then you are good to go. Does he need to not do it for pride or something? Scared? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Wife touts savings while I carry billsIf that’s the case then he better start looking for apartments and get a lawyer. Idk if it to that point yet | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Wife touts savings while I carry billsI think sitting her down and talking about what the money means for the family. Express to her that you are proud of her for getting a job and contributing, and have excitement about the situation you are in now being debt free. Be excited about the things you all want to do together and for yourselves. I had to express how she got something that she wanted and then said ai have wanting to do this now. It seemed to work, but only after we went through the tough financial Times and got on the sam… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 02:47 AM |
| 3 | 38M high-earning professional in a long marriage with 2 young kids — planning to initiate divorce but drowning in guiltI need to say this. You need to ask yourself why you are checked out? Is it FOMO? Is it dead bedroom? Something else caught your eye? After kids, humans change. She definitely has. Walking on eggshells could be a factor that you haven’t changed and her expectations are now higher of you personally. Happened to me. Had to look inward before I looked outward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Are female couple counselors biased towards wives?Wife and I had female counselor that started to call her out on how she treated me. She said we needed a “warmer, more family oriented” counselor. This new counselor was nice, also female, but she o my heard my wife’s side of the story and how bad I was. We stopped going. Knew it would probably end eventually. It has not yet, but know that at anytime it could be over. Just have to be my best self, and make sure my complaints are heard by the heavens and not her, and will see how far we make it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Men should unite - they can’t keep killing us!It’s called the army | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/26 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Feeling hopelessNever give in. Document her affair, document that she most likely brought a stranger into the home and put your kids in danger. Show to the judge. Explain how she threatened you using them as leverage to gain the house. She can’t win that easily, even with that silver bullet. Know also, that this fling she is having will assuredly end also and she will be in a really rough spot if she doesn’t get child support if you split 50/50. Just my opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/26 12:18 AM |
| 11 | Hopeful there's a light in this darknessPraying for you man. One step at a time forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 04:18 AM |
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