SwedishNewFish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-13	Restraining order advice no, that’s asking too much	/r/MensRights	18/06/22 12:08 AM
1	How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide? I’m actually little bit of a “sugar mama” in my current relationship, and I love it 🤷‍♀️ It’s a dynamic that really works for me, and I can now understand why a lot of straight men also like it and don’t see it as a problem. The way I see it, my girl has almost unlimited options as a beautiful young woman in this dating market. I need to see that as some healthy competition and motivation to step it up, rather than sit around and get butt hurt over it, or psych myself out. I also know from first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 06:51 PM
6	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate I’m a 37 year old lesbian. I don’t like seeing older men with younger women because of the manipulation factor, and because I have been preyed on by old men since I was a literal child. I promise it’s not because I want all the dusty geriatric balls to myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 11:04 PM
1	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? When I’m referring to them as bitch boys it’s regarding their behavior, not their appearance. I just had bad taste in partners (being raised in an abusive environment made it normalized, and I’m stupidly loyal with low self esteem so I had a tendency to tolerate a lot of shit) You prob have a point about my SO being treated better due to his appearance and FWIW he actually agrees- He didn’t have an easy life by any means, but he’s never had to experience the kind of romantic or sexual rejection …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 08:30 PM
1	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? I don’t know what to tell you, but his looks really has nothing to do with it. I actually met him on r/r4r and had no clue what he even looked like until after I fell hard. I get hit on by Adonis types a lot and usually don’t entertain them because I make (probably unfair) assumptions about them. I’m actually glad I didn’t know how hot my partner was initially because I would have never given him a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 05:50 PM
12	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? I snagged mine right after his divorce, knew damn well he wouldn’t be on the market for long lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:24 PM
3	How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive? 🙋‍♀️ it’s really not that unusual. I have an extremely high sex drive when I’m in a secure and healthy LTR, outside of that I’m celibate. I don’t have any desire to be intimate with someone I don’t have a deep emotional connection with and can keep myself satisfied until I find that connection. I have only had a few LTR’s meeting that criteria so my n count is relatively low. I have been voluntarily celibate for most of my adult life- over 8 years in total	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 06:50 PM
21	Is crying a turnoff for you? I actually think it’s sweet and endearing when a man cries appropriately. I have fallen in love with a man because he cried at the right part of a movie (it was about a girl who was being pimped out and most men I have watched the movie with in the past clearly didn’t understand how sad the scene was, or why it made me sob) I don’t think of crying as a gendered act, it’s a human response to emotions. I like emotionally aware men, so a man who isn’t afraid to cry is a plus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 03:53 PM
2	Do you expect your man not to watch porn while in a relationship? I (a woman) don’t fantasize about anyone other than my SO, I thought that was normal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/21 04:34 PM