SweetAccording3153 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
90	Married 38YO	Field Report	SweetAccording3153	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/25 11:45 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive Don't say she's beautiful either, she wouldn't say that to you on an opening so you're putting her on a pedestal. I'd go with "cute" if anything. Some guys might get away with it but I find it better to actually get a conversation going for a bit before asking for her number rather than just straight away. Also if you approach and a women is acting severely cold, don't ask for her number just move on. If you talk to other women or even guys at the bar, having a good time, you can revisit it and …	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/25 04:12 PM
21	My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive Don't apologise on your opening, why do you need to be sorry for striking up a conversation that possibly only takes 10 seconds of her time?. Something along the lines of "this is the best pub in town, isn't it?", just casual with no expectation behind it. If she's into you she will engage and at that point it's on your to turn the conversation into more but I do find the "sorry to bother you" already puts the expectation of you're hitting on them so your follow up would need to be very smooth a…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/25 04:00 PM
2	Married 38YO Tbh I get that type of comment a lot, but no one seems to be able to give me an answer why it's on me to keep women in relationships faithful. I was kind of curious the answer he would give, the most I usually get is something along the lines of "be a man" which is contradictory. I understand you have your rules that you want people to follow and respect that though.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/25 02:38 AM
2	Married 38YO Why is it my job to keep someone else's missus faithful? As for the wrecking homes comment; I'm not special, no one is. We all evolved from the same point if you go far enough back. Out of the 4 billion men in the world would I have been the only one to "make" her be unfaithful? Or, is the more likely scenario that if it wasn't me it would have been someone else?	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/25 04:16 PM
3	Married 38YO I am an overthinker, I don't have "natural" game as like I said in another comment just wasn't something I learned growing up. I'm also someone that prefers rules, a process you can work through to get the right answer at the end and like seeing the overall picture. The logistics thing was always going to be an issue which I knew, if they weren't from out of town and staying in a hotel i'd have probably moved on from them during the night as I knew logstically it would have been hard to overcome…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/25 02:54 PM
4	Married 38YO Your insight was good to read. The thing about external validation is true, majority of my life I was "ugly", obese and riddled with acne and just sat inside playing video games. I then started hitting the gym and gained a noticable amount of muscle, took accutane to clear up my acne and started training martial arts which everything in combination gave me more confidence. I'm not tall, at 5ft 7 but seem to have good genetics with my jawline as I get that commented a fair bit as well as how I ca…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/25 09:08 PM
3	Married 38YO How women logic things can be very far from reality but it doesn't matter as they hold a lot of the percieved "power" in the sense that they don't need to think about any of it, it's all just subconscious to them. There might be people that are literally RP'd in their blood, but I constantly have to "check" myself at times. Our "power" comes from the ability to walk away, men being the gatekeepers to relationships with women being the gatekeepers to who they have sex with. But all that is facade…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/25 08:55 PM
7	Married 38YO 100%, there's a lot of emotion involved with something like that. But all women see is that you're more emotionally invested than them.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/25 04:23 PM
10	Married 38YO There's always someone taller, better looking, funnier and has a higher value than you. It's very hard to not become "black pilled" when dealing with women and using RP. I just met up with the married women again, she's going home to her husband today who's watching her kid. Tragic really.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/25 05:10 AM
3	Married 38YO It was too late to book, hotels either weren't taking bookings or the ones that would have were already full, probably for the same reason I was looking. This was at like 1-2am. I did actually book one for me to realise I couldn't check in until 3pm.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/25 06:27 PM
8	Married 38YO Yeah, that actually makes sense. Like I say, the insight you can gain from mentioning RP at certain times is helpful and allows you to apply it better in other situations (in my opinion), it's almost like you see them suddenly realising the reasoning behind that subconscious feeling they get.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/25 05:11 PM
13	Married 38YO I think it's early on in the cheating, from what she told me that there was 1 other guy that was 55, she was going to leave her husband for him but was "stupid" is about all she elaborated. I'd imagine that the relationship with her husband is very cold, to the point you'd know, but her husband probably is trying to "work through it with her" by the sounds of it. The best of it is that both of them have cheated on their husband, so when you're in that environment they just feed off each other. S…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/25 04:44 PM
3	They really don't care about anything if they like you Dapoxetine could be a short term solution. Very tolerable at 60mg dosage, studies showed that likely hood of side effects significantly increased at 100mg. At 60mg in a double blind study of 130 men the 4 most common side effects were nausea (5.8% compared to 0.7% in placebo), diarrhea (5% compared to 0.7% in placebo), rhinitis (4.3% compared to 0.7% in placebo) and headaches (4.3% compared to 0% in placebo). Just a suggestion, do with it what you will.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/24 03:09 PM
4	1) Be Attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive. Notes from a bodybuilder. There's no such thing as a "hard gainer" either. You're just not eating enough, bottom line. There's been studies done on this exact subject and the conclusion in so many words was "you're fat because you eat too much". Won't link them all but just Google "is obesity associated with altered energy expenditure". If there's no such thing as a slow metabolism then there's no such thing as a fast metabolism as fast and slow are relative concepts. If people want none bro science advice; Eat protein. …	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/24 05:00 PM