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| 1 | Just grow some balls already.Sorry, poly is rather specific in that it encourages developing feelings. That's not blurry at all. My partner's marriage fell apart because he made that same mistake. Vastly different expectations and desires in poly and being open. One specifically disallows feelings. One specifically allows. That's a huge difference. Also even fwb like each other. That's different than "having feelings" and all the connotation s that go along with that phrase. | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Just grow some balls already.She said "I get all the love and care and excitement from a normal relationship, while still having the option to have a bit if fun with others. So long as everyone is in the know." well, that IS having your cake and eating it, too. It's also not poly; poly are multiple relationships; I have two relationships, and while one is newer, she is certainly not a "bit of fun." WHat your girlfriend is describing is an open relationship. | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Just grow some balls already.Still, being able to have your cake and eat it too, is worth the effort. Okay, sorry, but this is another myth I take issue with....how is being poly having your cake and eating it too? You have two slices of cake, maybe more. You haven't eaten anything. And, yes, I was talking from experience :) | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Just grow some balls already.But we are still very much in love. isn't it the weirdest thing that when you tell people you want multiple loves, somehow you have to defend being in love at all? | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:23 AM |
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