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| 6 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenSeriously. The law of the jungle is no good for anyone but it’s like absolutely, extremely, very, very not good for certain people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenSo…. You disagree with OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenHere’s the deal. I would never say women have no right to have any qualms with the way men act. It’s called fairness. Men in general have some annoying tendencies that I certainly don’t agree with. It’s not that hard for me to admit that. Furthermore it’s not that hard for me to recognize my own bias and the bugs in my programming, that’s how I avoid things like street fights or falling for a hot crazy lady. Women don’t just shout at the sky about periods, we have panty liners, tampons, pain med… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:48 PM |
| – | Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in datingI think no matter how much of a catch you are you need to sell yourself. Unfortunately that skill of selling yourself has been discouraged as this douchey thing that’s wrong. I’m what I would call a hot nerd. So while I’m attractive and successful I’ve just never had game. As soon as I started doing some of those so called douchey behaviors I was always discouraged from I immediately started having more luck. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with your personality but if you’re anything like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.So you guys are still friends? Frankly I think because your perspective as a woman you just can’t fathom the struggle a man would go through in this situation. Unconscious woman freezing to death in the snow. Even carrying her inside and saving her life could blow up in your face because of this prevailing “wisdom” that all men are evil. That’s all I’m trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Man says fairness is good, woman offended by the extreme rhetoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.So you would buy a homeless man lunch even if he was notoriously picky and got agitated every time you do it calling you names and berating you? Damn you are a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:45 PM |
| 2 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.It’s not. I would never say that. I’m only saying that we should acknowledge that men can be part of the solution too. Frankly good men are pretty good at stopping bad men from running roughshod over everyone. If we assume all men are inherently bad then it discourages good dudes from doing good things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 4 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.Yeah I find that it’s not hard to denounce the evil people within a group. The frustration is that no matter how much you do that you will still be lumped in with the bad ones in your group. Say you were the world’s most preeminent super cop solving 100s of SA cases. Go out in public and women will still be terrified of your presence as if you were part of the problem. So no I won’t defend bad people. That’s kinda my point. If we make it seem like 100% of men are evil then the good ones will be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.Something something…. “In spite of everything I still believe people are really good at heart” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.I think we can train young people to be better matches for each other. Better school leads to better career outcomes which are huge for men’s attractiveness. More social programs that make love less of a risk vs the way it is now where many view it as a business not romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:37 PM |
| – | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.I think we need to be more fair to men. Most men are good people. Not violent psychos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.I think it would be pretty easy to just decide to be more fair to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.All things are transactional. For the sake of debate it’s just more acceptable these days for some people to acknowledge the transactionality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsI think they do indicate some form of preference. Maybe something tamer than depicted but still I think it elucidates something about desire. I don’t find this argument convincing “sure watching and reading media about X gets me off, but that has nothing to do with what gets me off” That’s just silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever forgiven a cheating girlfriend or would you ? If so how did the relationship turn out ?I don’t expect anyone to be faithful. That way I don’t have to be faithful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Well… our whole conversation is right here so…. Lying is an interesting choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Damn you’re really closed minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.My whole point here has been to open your eyes to the fact that it’s not just a niche group of people but a larger less-so niche group. I think it is a problem and a crux of the misunderstanding here. People extol the virtues of “treating women normally” but then the lived experience of many refutes that. I know in my career, in friend groups, in every other social situation, being accommodating and sensitive to the preferences of others is helpful. There is one avenue in which it is NOT. I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Too many men see selfishness as normal masculine behavior and it results in loneliness (amongst other things).Here’s my issue. Women seem to also view men negatively when exhibiting those positive social behaviors. If we want the world to get better we need to make being smart sexy, make being stable sexy. You can’t blame the winners for the rules of the game and you can’t judge the losers so harshly if you’re also criticizing the game and the manner in which the winners won. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factI agree but the problem is a lot of people are allergic to admitting certain things. So while a particular behavior might be almost ubiquitously desired people are out here shouting with conviction that it’s wrong to do that behavior. As long as that’s the case all this conversation is null. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.I think you just need to maybe open your mind to the possibility that the problematic preference is more widespread than you think. I don’t find this defense convincing “oh sure some people act like that but it’s such a fringe thing” It’s like when white people talk about racism and rather than condemn it outright they would say it’s a fringe group and they were probably just joking and it’s better now than it’s ever been….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 03:48 PM |
| 3 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.So you chose a title for yourself that means nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:35 PM |
| 7 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.I see this a lot on here “oh that strategy only works on dockside harlots and trad fems” I think that’s the emperor getting undressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 09:39 PM |
| 4 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Good question. I would just call it being polite and gentlemanly. Truly the thing that makes it blue pill is that it doesn’t seem to work as good. It’s what I’ve been told to do by women and yet it is less successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?Look man, doctors say you should crank down like 21 times a month for prostate health. Even in committed relationships where both parties are crazy in love and attracted to each other I think that’s gonna be hard to achieve with real sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:42 PM |
| 7 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.It’s commonly encouraged that when planning something with others, one should take their preferences into consideration. For instance “do you feel comfortable with me picking you up” vs “I’m picking you up at 8” One is decidedly more considerate and designed to ensure a level of comfort/agency for the other party. One is less considerate and a little domineering. If there’s one thing I was told by women about courtship as a young man, it was that I should be considerate and try to make women com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.It’s commonly encouraged that when planning something with others, one should take their preferences into consideration. For instance “do you feel comfortable with me picking you up” vs “I’m picking you up at 8” One is decidedly more considerate and designed to ensure a level of comfort/agency for the other party. One is less considerate and a little domineering. If there’s one thing I was told by women about courtship as a young man, it was that I should be considerate and try to make women com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereI guess my point is that there are genuine manipulators and then there are just really attractive bad people. I can understand falling for one, the other I have less understanding for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereI think it’s pretty clear that as humans we have innate biases (natural or learned) that we need to confront. I have no problem telling my male friends when they’re clearly being seduced by an attractive, yet ill intentioned or otherwise messy, siren. So I think we all just need to feel more comfortable calling it out and denormalizing it. Sure it may be natural that you want tall guys or girls with big tits, yet I don’t think it’s a great excuse. Ps. I don’t necessarily believe our addiction to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 13 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.I mostly agree, yet I find certain blue pill ideas to just absolutely fail to create a spark with ladies. For instance over communicating before a date. I would think that is the gentlemanly thing to do and would make someone feel safe and involved in the planning. However, I find what works better is just telling ladies what is gonna happen. It feels wrong but it works so much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:38 PM |
| 9 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.It worked reasonably well for me but im also a pretty good catch. As I’ve gotten older I’ve started doing red pill things that women seem to respond really well to. So in general I agree but it’s confounded by the fact that I’m also good looking and successful. Furthermore adjusting and utilizing red pill philosophies has only improved my outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | why do men complain about women liking bad guy, when they literally have a fetish for crazy women?Yes we all have biases towards things that are sometimes bad. I think the key is confronting those tendencies rather than normalizing them. For instance the crazy girl trope. It may be true but then again I’m not using that as an excuse for guys who fall for some really hot psycho. That’s their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I think it all boils down to fairness and balance. You can’t have a million strong opinions on throw pillows, then get upset that your man defers and concedes to your design ideas. I think as men we have all had the experience of “leading” being criticized, then deferring to the lady and somehow now she’s mad that she got her way because now she has to do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think women want to talk to men?Well in my case. Because I’m kind of a catch, but here’s the thing. I was absolutely browbeaten as a young man that I should not assume any signals are signals. It has lead to some of my dates being very confused very bored. Sometimes they even reach out later like “what is wrong with you? I was throwing myself at you” Sorry mama I might be a little too polite to be a “sexy” guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.I think people should just judge each other and choose partners according to the content of their character first and whether or not they have great tits maybe like third or fourth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:28 PM |
| – | Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignoranceThere’s a time to listen to your mother’s advice about women, and there is a time to listen to your sleazy uncle about women. They’re both kinda right depending on the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:51 PM |
| – | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Always someone cooler and richer. No use fighting it, people are like buses after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Dating market is monopolised by women and the infinite choice they've. Men will mold themselves to suit women and most men being jerk narrative is fake.I feel that yes, everyone should care less about looks. I think it’s the dumbest thing ever that people are so obsessed with boob size or slim waist or whatever. That’s how I was raised. Content of character is most important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?I think that what is fair is fair. By doing SAHM stuff you’re saving 100s-1000s a month depending on area and how fancy the daycare is. So establish some market rate you guys agree upon, then establish what is fair from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | "Rizz" is not an actual thingDisagree. Being clever and a good seducer can majorly increase your chances with women. Even if you’re a 10/10 and women choose you on occasion, if you have no game then these relationships will feel kinda forced because you didn’t really participate in the courtship. Feels like you aren’t in control of your life. Much better for everyone’s feelings if it’s a more mutual playful start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What options do high income women have?Just let go of your tradcon biases. Deal with your problematic preferences. It’s 2025 are we actually interested in fairness or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Attracting women and being a good partner require different skillsetsI agree but I think we could all just decide to change culture so that more of the stability and “good partner” qualities are sexy. Everyone acts like the world works according to the law of the jungle when actually you don’t have to live like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:14 PM |
| 7 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them.While I mostly agree I think that compassion and a little kindness can help people get out of that cycle. For instance saying “in the grand scheme of things your problems are not so bad” is not always helpful. In fact it’s often a great way to make someone even more defensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I agree that yes many people see TRP as being “the law of the jungle, no holds barred” approach to life and I think that’s wrong. However I also think people unfairly criticize the more benign and reasonable aspects of TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withI would say yeah because everyone uses it as a proxy for value and goodness so guys want to get laid to demonstrate that they’re good and worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withId argue that the social proof is as important or more to everyone else as the physical pleasure is to the man who experiences the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?I think there’s a problem with society telling men it’s important to be honorable, yet simultaneously having a perceived bias towards results over honor. I get it being good is not always easy. Yet, I think that if we choose we can shift culture to make certain positive healthy things more acceptable and dare I say “sexy”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 05:56 PM |
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