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/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:13 PM
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I'm not talking so much about confidence as much as interest level. Maybe the women you've been with felt they had nothing to lose, driving their "confidence".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:58 PM
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Lol, you're so right. I read the question and I thought OP was simplifying things, leaving out details to get to the point. But now looking at it, he probably really up and tells them "I'm not look for anything serious", which is why they always leave. Now I'm laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:22 PM
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Why does your title ask if women only approach men for casual sex and your question why they never approach men for casual sex? /u/RayLemmo2003
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:21 PM
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This will probably fall on deaf ears but even the most handsome guys I've known throughout life have had to "work" for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah, sex is very intimate. If I'm having NSA I always get to know the girl a little bit first, so I can at least say we hit it off before we decided to sleep together. Yes, it matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:18 PM
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I guess it depends how you define dating that age. I think if you have a close bond with someone of the opposite sex and there is a strong physical aspect to it then that qualifies as legitimate dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:17 AM
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Women's attraction mechanisms are very different to men's, little man. I know it might seem like "oh men and women are exactly the same they only differ physiologically". That's what I believed as well as a kid. But then when you're in your teens you actually start dating girls and you see first hand just how different they are in what they respond to in the opposite gender. Worlds apart. It's almost like men and women complement each or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:13 PM
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Well now I'm utterly convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:07 PM
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"Many people", maybe. Unlikely, but possible. You however are not one of them. There's a lot of bitterness that comes through in your comments which is something I see a lot from women both in real life and online who have miserable love lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:50 PM
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Not a blackpiller at all. I have blue pill beliefs when it comes to dating. Im just saying what I've witnessed in the real world. Again, I'm not talking about being happy with your current partner. That's one thing. I'm talking about saying that they're the best. So its about what people say, not how they actually feel. Maybe you're the one who is alien to human relationships if you just take it as face as value everytime a woman says her current boyfriend is the best partner she's had. Again, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:06 PM
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It's not weird at all because average people are generally the same as other average people and their lives tend to kind of follow the same patterns. I'd be pleasantly surprised if there were one or two women who responded who really do have great partners but I doubt it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:23 PM
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you settle with the best you can get Well I said she's gonna say this. Not that this is what is actually happening. Never said she's lying about loving her boyfriend. Sometimes you can learn to love someone after you've accepted the position you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:57 PM
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I'd say he's top of the list, he's the best looking guy I've dated This is exactly why I thought it was pointless for OP to ask a question like this. No woman is going to admit it, not even on an anonymous online forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:31 PM
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Yep. Every woman is always gonna say that her current boyfriend/husband is the best guy she's ever been with. To others, to her partner, to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:26 PM
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Did OP just say status beats status? He also described a dude as "beautiful". I don't know what's weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:46 PM
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Red pillers all think women only care about looks and money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:24 PM
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It kind of brings to mind how I feel whenever online dating comes up. There's a real paradox happening there with effort put in versus gain. I've always stayed away from it, so I've never had to bother with all that stuff about putting time into writing your bio and getting good photos and having to wait for responses to DM's and all that bs, yet I seem to just find high-quality women effortlessly in person. Whereas the vast majority of guys who bother with online dating seem to be putting in so…
/r/seduction12/04/24 02:48 PM
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What is rat boy talking about? Is it a reference to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:49 AM
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I don't think there is an equivalent I think the world is just a way easier place for men to not just live, but thrive. Edit: Chill on the downvoting, I say this as a man myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:26 AM
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You do realize men know women don't like being pedestaled for that kind of thing right? If the man doesn't have zero social intelligence, he's gonna hide something like that from a woman he's chasing. He's not gonna actually tell her "I'm so glad you're a virgin, I dig that in a woman." Men learn to pretend that kind of thing doesn't matter to them while rejoicing inwardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:33 PM
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Most people probably wouldn't know any because all the guys who are successful with women and get to date selectively are approaching and meeting them in real life👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:17 PM
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I'd say any man of decent value, including myself, gets a lot more from women than they do from men So I'd have to disagree. It will be a long, long time before it's even, let alone women "winning".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:09 PM
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So I noticed something interesting. All the people saying looks are objective seem to be citing research and science as their source for this, while people saying it's subjective seem to be basing it off of what they have seen and done personally. Why do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:31 AM
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It's not so much about what they say regarding their dating preferences, I was just talking about how people know what kind of people they've dated in the past and tend to go for, as well as what kind of people their friends tend to date so they're not gonna put much stock in what research says we find attractive. You cared enough to post a comment about it, so what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:05 PM
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Research shows Ah, so that's where you're confused. When people say looks are subjective, they are basing it off of personal experiences - their own and others'. It's not about research. I'm sure that research has its basis, I don't mean to say the research is wrong. But when people talk about something they're going to go with what they know from both their own experiences and that off their peers rather than citing some research that they were never involved in. I'm sure there's some research …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:36 PM
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If you're quiet and have a small social circle, you have to get lucky and hope one of your few friends can introduce you to someone attractive. I've been noticing pretty much the exact same thing as you, that very extroverted people have a lot of dating success even if they aren't the most attractive. Of course if you can meet a lot of people it will help loads. Other than that, hobbies where you can meet people, particularly people of the opposite gender are the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:13 PM
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All things RP considers as negative are the same, didn't you know that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:01 PM
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I am definitely not saying the same thing as him lol. I am saying that women like men who feel and show strong emotions, not just that they're simply "allowed" to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:08 PM
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Eh, if that's what you believe, then by all means go out there and put it into practice. You gotta start somewhere. The important thing is that you're taking action,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:05 PM
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It implies being non-reactive and non-emotional, 2 things that are opposite to qualities women get drawn to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:39 PM
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I feel like this strongly needs context. Do you want me to agree that bullying women is wrong? If so then I'd need to know what is defined by "bullying a woman" and how the issue came about in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:27 PM
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Assuming you're a woman and talking about not wanting to partner up with a man who's N-count is higher than 25 - do you have any idea how hard it would be to keep your count under 50, let alone 25, by the time you're in your late twenties unless you've spend almost your entire life in a committed relationship? You'd have to be constantly turning down hookup opportunities with women you like and find attractive, for no other reason than to keep your body count low to save yourself for your future…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:21 PM
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Very good point. Why should you have to talk to people just because you live in the same place? Similarly, why should one exercise regularly? Why should one be employed and be able to provide for themselves? Why should people, even introverts, keep regular social contact with the outside world? The answer is, we don't! We don't have to do any of these things. , lame Yes, very.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:03 PM
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Someone who is a good person is usually down to earth, and that can be an attractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:19 PM
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Yeah, you're not entitled to not be hit on. Don't know if this is satire but if not then I don't know where you got that from on. It's literally not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:08 PM
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Good point lol. If they willingly put my dick in their mouths, is that a good indicator of whether they pick up a dangerous vibe from me? /u/Windmill_flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:12 PM
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Oh, you specifically meant women we're dating. I don't take any particular measures. If she thinks she has reason to be afraid of me then I guess its her decision whether she wants to continue dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:10 PM
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Never knew there were steps I had to take. If I were to say I actively did this before going out in public I'd say I just hope I look non-threatening and approachable, and hope women don't just assume the worst of me out of hand. It seems I succeed for the most part. The funny thing is I do get the odd occassion where a woman looks at me like she's scared I might do...something? I don't know what exactly, but when this does happens its always a woman that I would never bother with even if I were…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:23 PM
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My dude, everything you say suggests that you have never had sex with a girl. You come off infinitely more as a "woe is me" niceguy/incel type than a guy who slays. Now suddenly we're supposed to believe that you're a stud some girl "was crazy" for? lmao. The shit people will make up to prove a point xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:37 PM
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You can 100% manufacture attraction lol. Don't know what you're on, saying you can't. The phrase "you can't negotiate attraction" is true in a sense, but most people who use don't know what it actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:33 PM
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Are you new here or something? This is sub is filled with incel/blackpill types who spout this kind of rhetoric. Its not so much that they have an agenda, its more that they are hard convinced that everything in dating comes back to looks in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:30 PM
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You know you're free to actually make good on your premise and explain how exactly these issues translate to being caused by lack of attraction. I can say I was sexually assaulted by some of my exes because they weren't attracted to me enough to respect my boundaries by not forcing themselves on me when I wasn't in the mood for sex. But that sounds just as silly. Communication issues, for instance, can stem from misunderstandings, different communication styles, or unresolved conflicts rather th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:40 PM
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I agree that its not ideal, but that just goes back to my original point; women go through too much shit to care about being "prejudiced" in a way that manifests through guys being told that the reason they struggle with women is that they are "entitled" or whatever. Its a drop in the ocean compared to women's own hardships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:49 AM
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Don't know if you're speaking metaphorically, but I'm a dude as you can see from my wording. But no, that's not what prejudice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:43 AM
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Women deal with a lot of shit in their lives that is caused by men. I imagine it occupies their thoughts for a very large percentage of the time. When women hear a guy talk about some kind of issue he's having with women, I assume their thoughts immediately fly to difficulties they experienced at the hands of men. Its probably hard for women to not think every problem a man is having in his life is a result of karma from some bad thing he did to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:01 PM
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The first three women are okay looking(not by my own standards but by what I know the standards of most of the guys who frequent these parts are). Then things just go way down. I'm a straight dude so I don't know how qualified I am to speak for other men, but from what I have witnessed over the years, yes, being skinny is more than enough for most guys to be satisfied with a woman's appearance. Guys will take home the plainest looking girl from a bar, club, or party and be happy about it, and ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:53 PM
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Good to know. A lot of people just go "yeah, okay" and agree to what you say online but then they never actually act on their plans. Like lying to a stranger online is one thing but you're not doing yourself any favors by lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:37 AM
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It seems you have the right attitude, but at the end of the day what's important is that you put it into practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:29 AM
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Then whoever told you that romantic relationships are based on unconditional love(I'm guessing your parents, if you're not getting it from soap operas or other media)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:19 AM
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/u/Jax_Gatsby Basically, romantic relationships were never about unconditional love. There's really no evolutionary reason to love another human being unconditionally. Those soap operas you watch that talk about unconditional love are talking more metaphorically. TV shows should not be looked to for real-life relationship advice anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:00 AM
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Unconditional love is love between family members, such as a parents love for their child, or love between pets and their owners. There is no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:04 PM
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Only on Tuesdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:57 PM
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"submitted 8 hours ago" I wonder if anyone has succeeded in making sense of OP's speech yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:51 PM
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It's very amusing to me how you sarcastically say "gasp" over something that is very much a niche, fringe perspective that you and OP, and I guess some other Blackpill types, share. The lack of social awareness, its astounding. (yes, you are blackpill, even if you don't think or realize you are)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:36 AM
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Phew
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:50 PM
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This is about women objecting to unattractive men trying to act like attractive men. They are not trying to act like attractive men. They're trying to pursue their biological drives. They probably don't even know or are concerned with how an attractive man would go about it. If only attractive men mated, you would not exist. Doubly so because those attractive men would in turn only mate with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:48 PM
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“going for the woman or not” Uh, can someone translate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:51 PM
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Predation is about who is using power to take advantage of the other, not who gets more out of the arrangement. However I don't think an older guy getting with a 19 year old girl is predatory either way. I think this is one of the ways women shoot themselves in the foot; by using labels such as "predator" and "creep" when its unwarranted, they cause people to stop taking complaints as seriously even when there's actual predatory behaviour going on. That Thailand instance just sucks in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:44 PM
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Are things really that bad in Thailand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:55 PM
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alive before old
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:05 PM
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What you mean "duh"? A lot of people will say that women's standards today are very different than they were not too long ago, and that's a completely valid opinion. I personally think OP is right but even I can tell that that's just based on personal anecdote and could be completely wrong. Lol, only on reddit will you find idiots saying "duh" over something that's completely hit or miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:59 PM
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women are not so easily influenced or brainwashed into finding specific things about men attractive. No, not easily, but it happens. Modern times have indeed seen a push for greater gender empowerment, which allows women to choose partners based on genuine emotional connections and shared values. Its not that women are attracted to a large amount of men, its more that their attraction requirements vary greatly from woman to woman. What modern times has done is encourage a more open and liberated…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:57 PM
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Its hard to put what I do into words but I'll try. Women know exactly what they are doing when they butt in to cockblock you, so as soon as the friend comes in, I include her in the conversation as well, before she even gets a word out, because I know she will leave again soon. So while I'm hitting on a girl, and her friend comes up, I tell the friend something like, "oh, me and your friend were just talking about..." and start having a three person conversation. Or if I haven't met that friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:52 AM
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For what it's worth, I would have passed those tests. Also I lol'd at "but she was our slutty attention whore haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:52 AM
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If you're like my age and been going out meeting girls since your early teens, that's a long, long time. You come to be able to tell when a woman is interested in you so her friend getting in the way is going against her wishes. It doesn't even have to be a fat friend even if the friend is attractive as well she can still get jealous. Over many years of picking up girls you also learn how to disarm the friend but that isn't the topic of discussion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:51 PM
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