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Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:52 AM
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Can't all be as smart and objective as you chief. Take care now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:43 AM
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we're circling again and this is boring. go ahead and tell me how emotional and illogical i am and we can wrap this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:50 PM
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ok, so if i replace 'violent crime' with 'murder' in my earlier statement you'll agree with me? 'You know, I'm beginning to suspect your political opinions aren't actually what you claim lmfao' I'm trying to point out how the arguments made by white nationalists are painfully similar to lefty idpol. I didn't think it was that hard to parse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:05 PM
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https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-u.s.-2019/topic-pages/tables/table-43 They are responsible for the majority of murder/manslaughter and robbery. And that's 13% of the population. Sure these crimes would be around if they didn't exist, but if would be down by half for only 13% of the population. You don't think it's factual to acknowledge and call that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:59 PM
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If you think it's reasonable to say "men voted for trump" because 55% did, then i can say "black people are responsible for violent crime" since they are responsible for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:45 PM
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Every group voted for trump as well, but you say it's ok to call out men because they voted majority for him. All ethnic groups commit crime but black people commit the majority of violent crime. So it's analogous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:39 PM
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Did you ignore my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:36 PM
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I think saying "insert group here are taking away our rights" is idpol and unhelpful, idk why you keep shifting what I'm saying to something else. If I said "black people need to stop committing crime" is that ok because they statistically do commit more crime and I'm just acknowledging the facts of the matter? Or is that totally different for a made up reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:25 PM
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That's not what's being done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:21 PM
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we're going in circles at this point. If you genuinely think this kind of pointless idpol and generalizing rhetoric is healthy and good then I can't reach you. Have a good one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:16 AM
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They accomplished the latter by doing the former. No, 'men' never took away women's rights, it was a combination of men and women. If you haven't seen similar messaging directed toward white women, I invite you to look more I have, which is why I find it absurd to single out any one demographic as being the ones responsible. Again, you are quibbling with people who've just had their rights taken away about how they phrase their distress with that situation. Men (most of them) voted for something…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 AM
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No, I'm changing the statement from singling out a random group to singling out the correct group. What you're doing is a motte and bailey where you switch to a more defensible framing. Asking 'why did a majority of men vote for the guy responsible for ending abortion rights?" is fundamentally different from stating "Men are taking away our rights." The latter, as I've established, is senseless since many groups (like white women) are equally culpable to 'men', not to mention many demographics a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:35 AM
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Disenfranchised in the sense that neither of the major political parties care about the issues men face. Conservatives only care as far as men are useful and liberals don't even pretend to care. I also think redpill is really stupid and cringe so i don't even disagree that it isn't the right path, but dating and culture in general is in a really weird place for men, so it's really easy to get sucked down a rabbit hole of someone offering you an answer, it's not as simple as these guys being weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:20 PM
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Of course not, but i acknowledged much earlier that this is not a majority of women who do this so i don't understand why you're bringing this up as a 'gotcha'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:16 PM
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You're right, all these men are just dumb and brainwashed, there's no good reason for men to feel lost or disenfranchised in the modern dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:42 PM
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I do actually. I'm not sure how that has anything to do with the media being consumed by the people harassing them, or how you would even know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:41 PM
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Ngl I didn't know this sub had a discord, I'll give it a look after work. I get the feeling we probably don't disagree that much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:34 PM
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You shouldn't have to specify which kind of men because it's not an issue of men, it's an issue of conservatives. Why not just say "those dipshit magas voted to strip me off me rights. " it's not even about being nice it's about making a modicum of fucking sense. Singling out men when 45% of women also voted to, as you put it, strip women of their basic rights, doesn't make any sense. Why not get more specific and equally blame white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:32 PM
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Yes, you're right, that's why is important that we as grown adults apply nuance to topics we discuss instead of just painting with a broad brush. Here's an example: when women discuss MeToo insofar as just bringing up issues with sexual assault, that should be taken seriously and not interpreted as an attack on men. If instead, you have women who are talking about how MeToo is a problem because men are all trash who lack empathy, then that is fucking stupid and should be called out. My issue is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:06 PM
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I'd be happy to discuss this in person, based on my prior experiences with online discussions on this sub we'd probably end up snarkily talking past each other ad nauseum. If you're down for that lmk, but we're getting deep enough into overarching power structures that it seems silly to just send paragraphs back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:00 PM
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If I showed you screenshots of women talking about how men suck and are responsible for not protecting them, would that suffice? The false equivalency is pretending that its the same to shout NotAllMen!!! when women discuss sexual assault as it is to point out the stupidity of people who make broad generalizations about the opposite sex. I have no problem with women who are upset about trump winning, I have no problem with women who are upset about losing bodily autonomy. But if a woman is blami…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:51 PM
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so if I can find an example of a woman blaming men you'll admit you were wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:12 PM
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If you wanna reduce my point to a soundbyte to further your agenda, sure, given that some women are blaming all men for the actions of a few, yes I'm pointing out that is stupid. Your false equivalency is that this is the same as NotAllMen in response to metoo. The distinction is that in metoo the target isn't all men, my response is to the generalization of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:11 PM
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If we both agree that it's happening why do you demand examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:07 PM
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It's great that you found your way dude but I'm gonna tell you definitively, if your take on lonely men is that they "think something has been taken away from them because they don't have women throwing themselves at them for puffing their chests out" then you don't understand these guys at all, and that your experience doesn't map onto everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:07 PM
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You don't believe that any women are generalizing all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:01 PM
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I would bet you a lot of money the vast majority of men harassing women have never heard of andrew tate, and most tate simps rarely interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:59 PM
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So how am I doing the same thing? I'm trying to understand what you're saying but it is not very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:58 PM
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The guys who simp for tate are probably just as sick and fed up with the state of things as that girl on tik tok. I think both are stupid so I will point out both as being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:50 PM
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Yes, I think Andrew tate is a piece of shit sex trafficker who should be rotting in prison. It is very clear though that you don't really understand anything about how lonely guys feel given how dismissive and unempathetic your description was, so idk what to even discuss with you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:49 PM
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No. I never claimed that all women are doing this, just that its happening, the people doing this are stupid, and that they should be condemned. If you agree that its bad to generalize men then what are we even arguing with me about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:47 PM
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If that's your takeaway from what I said then you are beyond help. But I already established that you are engaging in bad faith, so that does not surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:33 PM
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Cool, so we agree blaming men as a group for the actions of some men is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:32 PM
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So if I say women are greedy gold diggers because some women will use guys for a free meal on dates, that's fine because obviously I'm only referring to the specific greedy women who do this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:11 PM
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I don't know what you're saying. The men who who used notallmen in response to Metoo as a whole are dumb. But like I've pointed out multiple times, that is fundamentally different from using notallmen in response to a stupid generalization so I don't know what your point is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:03 PM
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Let me flip that on you. A certain ethnicity statistically commits more violent crime than any other group in this country. Is it fair for me to generalize them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:02 PM
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Sure andrew tate is worse than 4b, I don't deny that, but unlike yourself I think any case of blindly hating all members of the other sex is dumb and harmful, so I'll call out both. Tate stans are fucking morons, so are these 4b women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:01 PM
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Is that really what you took away from my comment? If it's being used in response to metoo in general then yeah its pretty stupid. If it's being used like in this case, against women who wish to generalize all men, then it's perfectly valid. My stance on this is clear and consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:56 PM
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I never said women as a whole do. There are some women doing it, and sensible men and women should have no problem calling that shit out as being dumb and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:48 PM
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Idk how long you've been online but the notallmen thing has been around way longer than metoo. When it's used in response to a women airing general societal grievances it's dumb and a diversion. When it's used in response to some group trying to collectively blame men for something, it makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:46 PM
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So if I don't see the issue with guys who idolize andrew tate and the manosphere, that means its not an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:45 PM
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Sure, it's not as big a deal as a lot of people online are making it out to be. Shit, its not really what you mentioned either, odds are people are just upset about inflation and decided on a change. So I'll grant you that I was being hyperbolic in saying that this is why we're gonna lose in 2028. but it's really fucking stupid all the same to dismiss all these guys as 'crybaby incels' just like how its stupid for them to dismiss you as a pink haired radfem baby killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:44 PM
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I'm not worried, 4b is obviously just some crazy women. But if someone is pretending like I don't have any examples then yeah I'm gonna jump to an extreme an obvious one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:39 PM
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She doesn't want men in her life AT ALL. That is super clear. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:38 PM
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Did I feel the same about women coming forward about the fact that they had been sexually assaulted and attempting to build a culture where women could feel safe doing so in the future? Of course not, but that isn't the same as blaming all men so why would I condemn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:37 PM
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And that's the exact attitude which will get us 4 more years of red in 2028 lol. Look dude, I get how you feel, trump is an evil and fascist man who tried to coup the government, theres not really any good reason for anyone to support him. But you don't really understand how these guys feel either. I'm in the weird place of being a diehard liberal but also understanding how these guys feel, which is why I get so frustrated with the left. If there's 2 sides, one who's only message for you is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:28 PM
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I was responding to a commenter, not the OP. Sure, statistically if a woman is attacked at night its probably by a man. But collectively blaming all men is stupid and unproductive, it does nothing to make women actually feel safer at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:23 PM
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So when she says she doesn't want men in her life period, all she really means is that she doesn't want to fuck men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:21 PM
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too bad the distinction between 'men' and 'evil men' is often left out/ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:16 PM
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Why is it one or the other? Why can't we acknowledge that women losing access to bodily autonomy is obviously super bad, but that it's also bad to spread stupid and harmful messaging? You can dismiss it as AI but the reality I've noticed the past several years is that many people on the left (and again, I say this as a lifelong vote blue no matter who) feel really uncomfortable calling out stupid rhetoric if that rhetoric is targetted at a group who 'has power', like men, or white people. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:16 PM
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Do you genuinely believe that this woman was merely talking from a perspective of sexual preference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:14 PM
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The wording that the op of this comment thread used was "blamed or alienated." I don't feel the least bit guilty for something I have no culpability in, but I sure as shit have felt a number of people trying to blame me all the same. But now we're getting into semantics. If a woman wants to talk about feeling unsafe at night, thats perfectly fine, but if she wants to talk about how men as a whole are to blame for this then that would be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:11 PM
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And I don’t think the 4b ladies say that either. ok now you have to be trolling lmao. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/4bmovement/comments/1gs77e6/good_men_are_still_men_and_i_still_dont_wantneed/ How many examples would you like before you admit you are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:03 PM
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Are you responding to the right person? If you are trying to make a point I have no idea what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM
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Sure more men relatively voted for trump, but given that its a near 50/50 split for both genders it is really stupid to be blaming men. I never said I feel attacked or guilty, you are putting words in my mouth. But as a liberal, when I see harmful and toxic rhetoric on the left I call it out so that we can improve our messaging and be less toxic. Why would I feel upset about metoo or feeling unsafe at night when that isnt toxic and unhelpful messaging but rather a reasonably expressed complaint …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:56 PM
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It is harmful messaging that those on the left should denounce and distance themselves from, instead of criticizing men for daring to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
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should I link you the 4b subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:52 PM
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The difference is I'm not sitting here blaming all women for doing this, that's a straw man that you are ascribing to me. My point, simply put, was that there has been a lot of harmful messaging from women around this. It isn't most women, nor is it representative of all women, but it is toxic and harmful and should be denounced by those on the left who want to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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Did I say that most women were blaming men? Or are you straw manning me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:49 PM
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Sure, that's why if it was only just this article I wouldn't really care. It's the fact that it's this article exists along with numerous other women vocalizing their contempt and distrust toward men for allowing trump to be elected which I have no patience for, especially when based on the polling women as a demographic are just as culpable for allowing trump into office.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:48 PM
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I explained very clearly that this is not the only or the worst example, this is simply one of many instances where women are framing the issue as "men taking away the rights of women." So again, either you didn't read what I wrote, or you intentionally chose to misinterpret what I said to bolster your own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
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That was such a willfully abysmal interpretation of what I said that I can only assume you are acting in bad faith and have no intention of discussing this maturely. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:28 PM
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Is it whining to point out hypocrisy and stupid behavior? I don't talk about this irl so if we knew each other you'd probably assume i don't care, but if I see dumb shit online i don't have a problem pointing out how fucking dumb it is. It's weird you can't just acknowledge "yeah those women are dumb and wrong " and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:26 PM
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So if I find a girl who thinks feminism is dumb that means all the angry feminist girls need to be more like her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:20 PM
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Since November 5th a large amount of messaging coming from women on the left has been framing the issue as 'women are having their rights taken by evil men" and that men as a group are to blame for not being more outraged to stop the Republicans. Here is a relatively tame example from just the other day: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/16/opinion/donald-trump-women-girls.html To be clear, this is not the only example, nor is it slightly close to the worst (that'd probably be the 4b types) since …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:15 PM
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Hi, I voted for kamala in a swing state and I feel that way, it's nice to meet ya
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:04 PM
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It's not misogyny. Unless you also consider every negative sentiment against a man to be misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:34 PM
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Why do you say he hates women? Maybe he just hates shitty people and would have the same feeling if the genders were flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:19 PM
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He's wishing for bad things to happen to a bad person, what's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:13 PM
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Most of the discussion on this sub from both sides is usually super fucking cringe and lacking empathy, but every now and then there's a thoughtful and insightful comment like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:47 PM
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I'm only commenting to mention it's interesting you went with ctrl g and not ctrl f
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:18 PM
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Idk what that has to do with what I said but cool dude you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:24 PM
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Maybe "incapable" isn't the right word, but I think you're strongly missing my point. I've had relationships, I've had girls into me. I've been in a relationship with a girl 5 inches taller than me. I understand how to be desirable. I also understand that it takes me 20x more work than the average person to get half as much. So when I see a short guy struggling with dating, I'm not going to begrudge him for the fact that he, as yet, had not been able to open a vein and pour in more effort than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:56 PM
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The problem with your argument is that you keep framing it as though 'desirable' is something everyone can work to become. For women i think this is largely true, as long as you stay in shape and put effort in. In the flipside, in practice women care a large amount about things that can't be controlled like height. Now, if a woman wants to filter out men for their height, she has every right to do so, it has nothing to do with being "shallow." But at the same time, it's absurd to then imply that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:45 PM
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If by 'certain kind' you mean that this who put a bare minimum level of effort into themselves want a partner who do the same and isn't obese, then yes I would say that is very reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:25 PM
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I don't disagree, but the problem, and the point of the OP, is that when someone like myself shares my experiences, folks like yourself immediately assume the second option. They don't know me, but assume that I must be a terrible person or lazy or whatever else to explain why everything is actually all my fault. In reality, most cases probably fall somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:32 PM
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Now we're back to what I would argue is just world fallacy on your part. It is uncomfortable, doesn't make it untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:13 PM
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The problem is that the most important things to women aren't things that can be worked on. Height is a golden example, it is a critical component to women yet completely fixed. I can tell you from experience as a short guy who takes care of himself and works out regularly, there isn't a huge impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:56 PM
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The Japanese also use the term neet, despite its English origin. Hikkikomori and neet often go hand in hand though, thus is born the hikkineet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:39 AM
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Don't starve together?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:30 PM
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https://roast.dating/blog/match-com-statistics I am once again getting differing numbers. I agree with your last sentence, that's why I'm pushing back against this idea that there are supposedly dating apps/sites where men have a good shot at a relationship. If you're a man going online to date is going to be awful regardless of where you look, unless you are tall or good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:01 AM
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https://roast.dating/blog/bumble-statistics https://helplama.com/bumble-revenue-usage-statistics/ The places I linked give 25 and 30% respectively. Tbh tho neither of our sources are super rigorous with the data so it's a bit of a crapshoot? Where are you getting the numbers for match and eharmony? It wouldn't surprise me if they were out there, but based on the research I've done into those sites, I would bet large amounts of money that number is skewed by bots and dead/fake accounts. If there …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:52 AM
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That's not how that works. Hinge's tag line is that it's the dating app meant to be deleted, it is very explicitly not for hooking up. The problem is that the ratio is always terrible for men, regardless of the intentions of the app. You mention bumble as one of the "good" dating apps, but based on a quick Google search: "The gender breakdown of Bumble users is quite similar as on other dating apps: you have about 24% females and 76% males. That means she'll be seeing a lot of other eligible guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:43 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:36 AM
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Hinge is not a hookup app
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:32 AM
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Sometimes people just use unicorn to refer to a partner who is extremely rare. Like if a guy met a girl who was into short feminine guys, he might call that a unicorn. That's the impression I got from op's use of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:52 PM
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Happened to me too. Had major issues with self esteem around my dating life. Got my first gf for 3 months back in 2022, been doing fine and even blossoming in life ever since. Sometimes you just need that first experience to set a foundation for your romantic confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:45 AM
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