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| 2 | Skinny neckAnd about 10lb is prob as much as you should ever do. And that's pretty buff as Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Skinny neckNeck extensions and flexions with a 2.5 plate on your forehead and crown are pretty safe. They look stupid as Fuck and people will wonder what the he'll you are doing though lol. Go high volume. Progress slowly. And really, you are worried about nothing. Skinny neck is not affecting your life as much as you are imagining. Its not affecting it at all in reality. Do neck extensions/flexions for you, not others. They look silly because they are. Only a perfectionist would get that petty. /perfectio… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Scared to give girls validationWhy are you scared of this? Look at it this way: you are awesome. Them getting to go out with you validates the hell out of them. They get this awesome prize which is you. That makes them so happy it's like Christmas! You get to be Santa clause for the best of the best girls! Now, you don't want to make the good girls happy for Christmas? You lament giving out the prize and just want to go out with a giant bag of coal for everyone? Fuck you bad Santa! | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Why am I being called fake now?You are changing your life rapidly and people have not acclimated. They don't believe you will stick with these changes and that its an act. If you stick with it, they will eventually accept it. I've had this happen with confidence increases, weight loss, muscle mass, dressing better, etc. Your peers won't believe it until they see it for an extended period, then they accept it eventually, often congratulating you on how awesome you did (sometimes cutting you down though out of jealousy). | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 04:55 AM |
| 2 | I've asked a valid question now FOUR TIMES with SILENT Bans. Is opposing thought too much..?Is what a problem with humans vs. women? And I pointed out no fallacy yet, just said that there is poor communication. I also believe myself fully capable of of abstract thinking, but the pronoun "it" in the question needs a reference in order to parse. Edit: I also don't get "x4". I initially assumed it was a typo, but you quoted and thereby reiterated it. So can I assume it is part of the question? If so please clarify. And yes, I was being polite and trying to extract a coherent dialog. You a… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I've asked a valid question now FOUR TIMES with SILENT Bans. Is opposing thought too much..?You are ranting but not articulating much. It's extremely difficult to parse a question out of your dialog. That may be a reason for the mod filter, I don't know. But personally I am having a lot of difficulty finding any coherent argument at all from what you have written. And understand, I do not mean that in order to discredit you, but rather to try to both inform you of it and to illicit a discussion. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:40 AM |
| 6 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Only if he didn't fap. You only get those powers from nofap. If he touched his genitals, its over dude. He's fucked. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Lol. "I want to move out of my parent's house but between my abortion costs and child support I can't seem to get ahead. What do you guys do?" | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Reasearch morning after pill to see if too late. Get together in person to discuss immediately. Discuss that and pref test. Go from there. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?And now the two if you are in a very serious relationship because you decided to make it so. Ignoring it won't make it go away. One time yesterday is all it takes. Now there is you and her and a possible baby, a nice little family. So take responsibility and deal with it. And learn your lesson this time. You had to deal with the same thing 4 months ago and you did not learn your lesson. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Good. But saying you were so drunk you could control yourself and now you are scared of rape allegations is a huge red flag and stupid too boot. Now, you just possibly got a girl pregnant. You have some things to talk about with her and deal with. Possibly 18 years of child support, possibly abortion plans. Whatever you 2 decide. But deal with it because its your mistake. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Not his first: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/86rin9/impregnated_plate/ | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Did you come inside me? What to answer?Being too drunk to control yourself, did you rape her? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:00 AM |
| 9 | How can I friendzone a girl in a date?Wtf planet are you from that any of this makes sense? Cancel your date with this girl immediately. Tell her I told you to. This girl has likely not done anything so bad as to deserve an evening of your company. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Creatine - Helpful or pure BS pseudoscience?Creatine is probably the only OTC supplement that is not pseudoscience. It gets stored in the muscles, making them appear slightly larger, and is used by them for energy, giving you a bit of a boost by allowing you to go a tad bit further in the gym. The effect is slight though. Megadosing creatine doesn't help, so keep it reasonable. There is no solid evidence pointing to any negative health effects for reasonable doseage levels and is a substance found in your food anyway. The hair loss thing … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Am I fucked?So you fucked her for a good 45 minutes allowing for time to get dressed and all and you are worried about.....? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 08:53 PM |
| 6 | After playing the field and having multiple girlfriends and FWB over the last couple of years, I decided to try my hand at dating properly again. Did I mess something up (details in post)?Aye. Its always easier to cull the herd then find the one. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 03:47 AM |
| 2 | "How to Win Friends and Influence People" being compatible with TRPA couple things to understand: This is the internet. People are dumb. This place is full of people who think that the reason they are failures is that they touch their genitals too much. Be critical in all things. The point of it all is that its not what you look like, its what you are. If you think you are shit, you are. Most people think they are shit. Just not being shit is a pretty fucking big accomplishment. If you can honestly look at yourself and say you aren't shit then you've pretty muc… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 09:14 AM |
| 1 | "How to Win Friends and Influence People" being compatible with TRPI think you misunderstood the book. The book is about pleasing others as a mechanism to get what you want. Not sacrificing yourself to please others. There is a big difference. Fighting others who oppose you in order to win and take what you want imposes casualties with each interaction. Handing others petty victories in exchange for real personal gain bypasses your personal ego to get what you want and cultivates allies. The book is about getting over your precious ego and getting what you real… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 07:54 AM |
| 9 | skinnyfat: how2raise smvDon't bulk if you estimate 20% body fat. Lift through a cut down to 12-14%. If you are diligent that will bring you into fall assuming northern hemisphere. Your newbie gains will still be taking. Bulk back up to around 16% through winter when the clothes cover everything and start cutting around valentines day. That should have you down to 10-12% in time to take your shirt off in May and sport your new gains. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do women get mean when rejected, or am I just an idiot?if you never want to speak to a woman again, reject her sexually. Its devastating. I'm in my 40's and have been around the block A LOT and there is only 1 woman I can recall having reject who will even talk to me, and that is one bad ass bitch with an irrationally high self esteem. Women are used to being the holder of the keys to sex. They say yes and no. Most guys don't turn down a chance to get their dick wet. If she's spreading her legs and you tell her she ain't worth it, particularly if th… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Lost my virginity - is it really this easy or was I lucky? Advice?Its really that easy. First, congrats. Sounds like you have some big hangups and you just took a fucking major hurdle and good for you. What you did right: you were confident and funny. You were cool to this girl. You have been putting in the time at the gym and she appreciated it. You both had a great time. Will it always be so easy? Nope. Sometimes you two just hit it off. Sometimes her shut gets in the way, sometimes yours does, sometimes life does. Whatev. Now what you did wrong: STFU with t… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 05:47 AM |
| 8 | If women can be turned off by a guy that loves intensely, how can one use that intensity for productivity and pathfinding?This is it totally. Chicks dig passion and intensity. People in general dig passion and intensity. Go passionately at a cause or calling in your life. But if that cause is a person, then it's fucking weird. Its needy. Its not attractive. Here's an example. Lets say I love Eric Clapton and want to play guitar like he dies. He's a hero of mine. I spend hours a day practicing. I jam with multiple bands. I become great at the guitar. That can be an inspiring story. Now in contrast, lets say I love E… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itThe answer IMHO to #1 is yes. Its a hookup app. That doesn't mean there aren't some gems buried in that mud, but you are digging through a lot of mud to find them. Some common red flags: Brags about guys she's had. Stories about exes are okay after you get to know each other a bit, but if she's bragging about riding the cock then you know what she is good for. "Party girl". Nuff said. Heavy drug/alcohol. Overly defensive/aggressive. Looks for rape/abuse sympathy early on. If someone confides in … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itNo. I mean I see where that idea can foster but I think its just wrong. There's a human brain in there with immense variations. Sure, there are common tendencies and statistical norms but you don't get to live in a world of norms, you have to deal with the individual data points that are all over the map. Its the same with guy friends. I've got a lot of guy friends. Most of them I would never want to be my room mate. There's a huge number of guys I know who are just carp. And I have a couple bes… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itPersonally I take them as I get them, dodge the obvious red flags up front and then screen out the bad apples. Advertising on a "Netflix and chill?" meat market is a red flag up front to me. And a big thing is to remember that she's not yours, its just your turn. That's not to say your turn won't last a long time, perhaps even your lifespan, but its just your turn and don't tie your own self worth to some chick. If he does find "the one" and isn't willing to walk away then he'll likely be domina… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itUnderstand statistical sampling. The new chicks you are hitting left and right off Tinder with little effort is likely to skew your sample towards chicks that get hit left and right off Tinder. Just sayin. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Testosterone at 462 ng/dl at 20 yoWell, I mean, he did check his T Levels as suggested and ruled that out as a problem so. I guess that's something. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?Oh. And you want to see the REAL dominance play in that vid? When he tries to tell a story and he calls her ex bf "her ex" she IMMEDIATELY jumps on him and warns him not to go there again. He's totally subservient to her. He should have done that to her when she started with the him peering thing but he retracted into a sub pose instead. She wears the pants totally. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?And if you are just feeling off-game, you can go a couple rounds and then diffuse the whole thing without getting mad with some canned over the top response like "Man, this is boring me. Lets get another beer and quit while you are ahead before I have to tell you and these fine people what your mom told me about your real dad's dick in bed last night." WAY too absurd to be insulting, and a corney note to leave things on. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?and no. Its the comedians "fault" for roasting. The guy just handled it poorly. He should have either fired back with a "game on" or straight up told the guy to keep it civil with a flat and serious tone. Taking it until even his gf smelled blood in the water and joined in was a totally weak move and getting mad made him seem like a poor sport in what everyone else thought was a "fun game". Classic beta move. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:58 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?He might be a shitty friend, I don't know. The guy seems pretty weak overall and if this is a friend who constantly dishes it out to a guy with a low self esteem, then yeah... Shitty friend. But the sarcastic banter in itself isn't necessarily shitty. Whenever you are attacked in a joking manner, your best move is almost always to agree and amplify with a smile on your face. One up them on the insult against yourself, with obvious absurdity if possible, and fire back, possibly with absurdity. Tr… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?And really.... He's sleeping on the couch so her ex can eat her cousins ass in their bed? Did I get that right? He is not the dom in this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation where you get straight up disrespected in front of your girlfriend?The guy made a lot of mistakes there. Most of all he got mad. He's obviously a pretty witty guy, but he's only demonstrating his wit in anger and he's he's flat out afraid to say anything about his gf. Worse yet, he just takes it from her and then tries to justify himself. This was easily handled (as most roasts are, as they are generally meant in good fun) by simple agree and amplify. To the point of absurdity. The guy is picking on him but he doesn't agree and amplify until he is set off. "Why… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:22 AM |
| 5 | I have lots of women interested in me, but im failing at initiating a kiss, let alone sexIf you are in that frame of mind debating whether you should kiss her or not you probably should have 5 minutes ago lol | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:07 AM |
| 5 | I have lots of women interested in me, but im failing at initiating a kiss, let alone sexAnd not just chicks you are interested. Your grandma even. Touch girls as part of normal interactions. Not gropey and shit, but like the back of their hand as part of a gesture or their shoulder. Do it until you don't even think about it and its not weird. Do it even with your male friends (but not male strangers.) Then Kino is extremely natural. Its not strange to touch people when talking to them. Its kind of strange not to because its an extremely defensive stance. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:06 AM |
| 3 | “What are we gonna do?” How to respond to this..?That's a sure thing. Everyone knows Netflix and chill is a fucking meme. You asked her to come over and get fucked. She said yeah. You two are gonna fuck. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered being an incel if you’re maxing out your fitness/fashion, finances, and social presence to get women?Changing your lifestyle has nothing to do with getting women. You are a male of the most terrifying species in the known universe. Destroyer of fucking worlds. There is nothing out of your reach. You are this even fat, no muscle, broke and in a baggy t-shirt. But here's the thing: I know just by looking at your fat ass that you don't believe that because you think higher of the fucking cake than you do in your bad ass. You are advertising your squandering of this great potential. A girl will do … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | “What are we gonna do?” How to respond to this..?Coffee, a park, to go play a mutually enjoyed sport like tennis. Pretty much anyplace public she knows she isn't going to get robbed by a stranger. The sequence she's got to to proceed through is 1) this guy ain't flat out nuts 2) this guy seem fairly cool 3) I'm comfortable when he touches me 4) I enjoy being kissed 5) I'm fucking. If you try to skip steps she's likely to bolt because its just so outside of normal. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | “What are we gonna do?” How to respond to this..?You are going to get a lot more ghosts if you are flat out inviting them to your place for sex. Just normal caution about rape/robbery around someone you never met. Expect that. Hell, if you just out of the blue right now asked me to come over for a beer and hang I'd shoot you down. On the up side, if a girl does show up for Netflix and chill its going to be a low effort endeavor. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is it considered being an incel if you’re maxing out your fitness/fashion, finances, and social presence to get women?Because you missed the whole point. You don't need any of these things, but most certainly they aren't "all you need." And if you doing everything to maximize these to "get women" then you are doing it wrong. The reason people who say this are referred to the sidebar is because they have missed the point completely and need to research more. To be succinct: if you need to change your whole approach to life in order to "get women" then you must not be getting women and your desperation is bleedin… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? Feel extremely ashamed.10% will have you sporting a nice 6 pack. If you are shaved, you should be looking damn good down there. The lower fat you are the larger it's going to appear. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 09:12 AM |
| 3 | What should I do? Feel extremely ashamed.??? You said you are overweight. 15% is certainly not overweight. You aren't sporting a 6 pack at that level, but its slim. You sure about that? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Hey boys. I'm having a solid bout of depression at the moment. What are some specific threads I should read in order to stay focused & not fall deeper in?My experience with Keto, so take it as you will. Keto will help you feel more full, for longer, with fewer calories. You are eating things that take a longer time to digest, and as a result, your stomach is just fuller longer. So that helps. What hurts though is that a lot of things you are eating are WAY more calorie dense. So, if you typically determine how much to eat by the sheer size of the food, you can eat way too much on keto and gain weight. The old "whole can of nuts in one sitting" pr… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Hey boys. I'm having a solid bout of depression at the moment. What are some specific threads I should read in order to stay focused & not fall deeper in?It's easy to skip fiber sources on a keto diet. I see a lot of people do it and basically try to live off meat and cheese. I imagine they must shit solid bricks. A balanced intake is important on keto. Lots of leafy greens, berries, and other fiber sources are a necessity since you are cutting out the normal american diet fiber sources that tend to be carb heavy. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 04:24 AM |
| 9 | Hey boys. I'm having a solid bout of depression at the moment. What are some specific threads I should read in order to stay focused & not fall deeper in?Identify the source. Is your mom dying and your job is on the chopping block? That is an externally stimulated depression and is normal. No amount of pills you take or diet changes are going to keep your mom alive, so that's not effective treatment. Not that good diet and exercise won't always make you feel better, but they won't get rid of the catalyst. If this is your case, you should focus on coming to grips with your current situation and learning to deal with the stress. A good councilor is… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | I initiate sex 98% of the timeAhhh. Missed the sarcasm. I was interpreting you as literally avoiding getting a good BJ for fear that if you showed her how to give a good BJ then she might give someone else a good BJ in the future and your fragile ego wouldn't be able to handle even the thought of someone in the future getting a good one from her, so you are just going to sit here and deal with too much teeth; It's just safer that way. Which just made me say WTF. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 11:21 PM |
| 3 | I initiate sex 98% of the timeAre you seriously preemptively worrying about the quality of your girlfriend's sex life in the future after you leave her to the point of modifying your behavior now so as to diminish it? That's some next level insecurity there. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:07 PM |
| 26 | I initiate sex 98% of the timeHere's a game: Initiate sex well in advance. Tell her you expect to be pampered and fucked tomorrow night. Give her a few demands, but leave room for her to throw in her own ideas. Now let her Initiate. Tell her she's going to get a spanking if she doesn't come through, then do it if she doesn't, have sex, and reinforce that she's got to do better next time. By demanding it in advance you are flipping her slut defense script. She's going to be judged poorly for NOT being a slut. So you get her i… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Starting a tinder convo?"Meet me at this place at 8. Okay?" | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 07:50 AM |
| 15 | I was just placed on a list of rapists at my university that is circulating twitter. How should I take action?An initial consult with an attorney to just give them the lay of the land is normally cheap or free (think of it as the sales pitch: they want your business but they need to hear what that business is then give you options to buy). From there the lawyer will give you your options and projected price ranges for those and you can decide from there. A cease and desist letter will likely be pretty cheap. Full on defamation case without easy settlement very expensive. Probably lots you can do in betw… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Question for looks maxingSome chicks dig it. I'm pretty hairy and do massive trimming, but some chicks don't want me to trim at all and are like, the hairier the better. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you follow up with a girl the next day after hooking up for the first time?For me it depends on the girl. Most I just go on with life and get back to them whenever I do. The really, sweet, shy, lower self esteem ones ill send a quick text to next day. Basically "Hey, you are awesome and its okay that you enjoy my penis in you, so go kill it in life and we'll see each other soon." | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Your Devotion is WorthlessI like to paraphrase Jesus when he coined 'the golden rule' in context. He was asked point blank, if the entire old testimate with all its rules is now moot, what are the new rules in this new philosophy you are spouting? To which he replied that it's simple. There are only two rules. Love God and stop being such a fucking was home. This is the whole of the law. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Your Devotion is Worthless50's are prime male years. Most of your biggest Hollywood male sex symbols are in their 50's. Chicks dig a man with the cock sure attitude of a 20 year old but who actually knows what the fuck he's doing because he's been around the block. Picking up chicks at 20 is convincing them you are interesting. At 50, you ARE interesting. The chicks pick themselves up. You just have to beat off the swarm of desperate 40+ divorcees trying to get in your bed to give the younger ones a chance. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Your Devotion is WorthlessYo, I was curious too. Not because I want your car to pick up chicks, but because you loved this car enough to build it yourself as you imply, so its got to be a pretty sweet dream car. I'm always in for hearing how some guy put in a labor of love for a fucking awesome dream and their insights as to why they love that one. Personally I was interested in why the Gran Torino? What do you see there that I don't? Not how to gets me a chick magnet. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | What are red pilled degrees or jobs to pursue that aren't dead end jobs, ever be automated, or useless degrees like gender studies?If you are taking a masters in it then you aren't falling behind. You got a fucking thesis coming up! And in addition, CS programs at the moment tend to be geared towards engineering, not science! So score! Your college is like wrong about its own field and as I said, serving as a vocational school, not a college. So make sure you get your math. Statistics, discrete math, linear algebra, modern algebra, basic topology. Most science maths is based on yesterdays careers, which were chem and physic… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | What are red pilled degrees or jobs to pursue that aren't dead end jobs, ever be automated, or useless degrees like gender studies?If you love it, then yes. If you don't, you will be trapped in purgatory. CS in my personal opinion is really freaking cool. But its math. And even I get overwhelmed by math sometimes and I get it that being human is more important then. But it really is cool math. Its the math that describes math. If that ain't your thing though, then don't. At the end of the day you are a great ape. You really weren't evolved for this shit and there is no shame in admitting that. If it's not cool for you then … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 2 | What are red pilled degrees or jobs to pursue that aren't dead end jobs, ever be automated, or useless degrees like gender studies?Kind of. But not really. Individual languages may change over time through versioning (this is Java 7 vs. Java 8 for instance.) A much older model was that if there were major semantic changes, you called it a new language, because really, the SEMANTICS are different so by definition it is not the same language. But more modern naming techniques favor branding over purism, for better or worse. So, what changes? Its up to the demands of the users usually, which may or may not be rational. See, la… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:57 AM |
| 1 | What are red pilled degrees or jobs to pursue that aren't dead end jobs, ever be automated, or useless degrees like gender studies?If you "get it" you don't even need to improve. Ain't nothing in practical CS application that wasn't invented in the 70's. The new stuff won't hit production for another 20 years because we don't have enough engineers with the right maths. Sure, if you call your degree in Java a CS degree instead of what it is, a trade school education, then yeah... You are fucked. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 12:40 PM |
| 5 | What are red pilled degrees or jobs to pursue that aren't dead end jobs, ever be automated, or useless degrees like gender studies?So, grape nuts, right? If I eat grape nuts I've made it? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 12:33 PM |
| 5 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisI get it. I felt that way when I walked into a gym not knowing WTF I was doing. The dread was real. But you quickly realize no one gives a shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Too much alpha?Sounds like she's seeing a guy. "It's complicated" is basically code for that. I don't see where you specifically did anything wrong from what you are saying. Sounds like she just hooked up with someone. Push her on the no sex thing. If she doesn't fold, then she sounds like she's just keeping you on the back burner, so just don't go all orbiter and break it off. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Running my mouthAsk more questions. Where did she grow up? How did she get this job? What is her opinion of some album... Get her talking. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism’s Answer to NoFap (repost)I did not justify whacking off or porn in my comment. I called out the BS of an orgasm being comparable to coke in it's effect on the dopamine cycle. If it were, then why the hell do people do meth and coke then, when jerking it is just as good? And why isn't whacking off an effective strategy to combat meth addiction? Coke is an effective strategy to combat meth addiction (if you want to be a coke head instead) but masturbating simply isn't. And I'm glad you are doing well! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 12:09 PM |
| -6 | Stoicism’s Answer to NoFap (repost)How do you know so much about what I do with my cock? That's pretty weird, dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 11:44 AM |
| -2 | Stoicism’s Answer to NoFap (repost)It literally isn't the same as coke. I'm pretty in tune with my dopamine levels, being fairly severe ADHD, which is essentially a dopamine deficiency (more complex than that, but that's the most impactul factor). And I medicate as needed with amphetamine, which is pretty similar to coke (coke has been looked at a bit as an ADHD med, problem is in its short half life) so I've learned to gague dopamine levels. I've also whacked off plenty. If whacking off were as effective as cocaine for elevating… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Stoicism’s Answer to NoFap (repost)Except that running, lifting, screaming, dancing and swimming are all high dopamine releasing activities, so there is that. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Testosterone levels at 520 ng/dl, best ways to increase and push 800 level?Estrogen was severely elevated. As would be expected if testosterone was too high. You don't want to push test too high unless you are doing a slew of anti-estrogen meds. That's why gym Bros who don't know what they are doing and just shoot up steroids grow tits. Testosterone breaks down into estrogen and estrogen makes you female. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Testosterone levels at 520 ng/dl, best ways to increase and push 800 level?Fact is, you need cholesterol for Test. Test is made from cholesterol. Doesn't mean you should be sucking down lard every day, but make sure you are getting some. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Testosterone levels at 520 ng/dl, best ways to increase and push 800 level?I'm on TRT. Had to reduce. Levels were around 900 and I had itchy nipples and started having erection issues. I knew what that meant, so I demanded estrogen test. Sure enough.... I would totally not be trying to push 800+ on TRT without very close monitoring. You aren't going to get post cycle therapy from your doc in that scenario. You are blasting and cruising, so keep numbers sane. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Ex fwb ended things, life in shambles, suicidal thoughtsKeep pushing to get therapist. You need it. Suicidal thoughts are not okay. Look at it this way, from an outsiders perspective: you're life is in shambles because someone else, who is not you, isn't around? Think about it. She is not you. Never was. Has nothing to do with you. YOU are the only part of you here. She can't affect that. What you are feeling is emotional, not rational. Emotions pass and fade. You keep improving your own life and don't let other people who are not actively trying to … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | “You’re such a girl” shit testThis is a plate? Not a pickup? Dude, just tackle her, tell her she's a girl too and you just made her a lesbian and fuck her good. She's teasing. Tease back. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 07:27 AM |
| 3 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?It just happened. Sexually, I'm pretty damn vanilla. I really don't get much out of paddling a girl's butt. But I'm with this girl and give her a little swat and she fucking just melts. So yeah, I did it more often, cuz it's getting her off, next thing you know I'm having her call me Master, taking over everything in her life, making her do anything I want, making her ask permission for the dumbest things... Because she liked it. So then I'm reading up on it and just kinda start naturally doing … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?No.. I'm totally not talking about abuse. Much more benign self punishment scenarios. Drawing a parallel and hypothesising that it might be the same mechanism at work. A sub likes to be spanked, even when they get no sexual gratification. This often has to do with a feeling that guilty feelings are alleviated. A cutter cuts herself often describing the alleviation of guilt in a similar fashion but in this scenario there is no reassurance from an outside party. No cuddling. So here we see JUST th… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?I think you might be misunderstanding me. No, lol. I didn't mean cutting as part of a Dom sub thing. I've heard of that, but no. I meant girls who cut themselves, like slashes across the lower arm. Seen some that do palms or legs. Generally where they can hide it. Yes, often accompanies depression and suicidal thoughts. Alot do it without suicidal thoughts and have no intention of killing themselves or doing permanent damage. If asked to describe why they did it, at least the more self aware one… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?Oh, totally agree. That's when it crosses the line and begins hurting onesself. From Bing a quirk to a disorder. It's common though. I've known LOTS of girls that were cutters. I've never met a boy cutter though, but maybe they hide it better. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 01:37 AM |
| 3 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?There is self cutting too, which is amazingly common and is almost always a form of self punishment. There's no cuddling afterwards there. Cuck videos I suspect might be a similar mechanic. And yeah, no thanks for me too. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 3 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?That's why it's called a fantasy. Die Hard is a guy shooting people I can't shoot too, but that doesn't mean I don't like the movie. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 4 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?Doesn't make him a pussy necessarily. I'm a Dom and I've dealt with a lot of subs that like to be spanked, beaten, mock raped. Sure, a lot of it is that most of them like a little pain with their orgasm. But some of them flat out don't like it. But they still want it. A component of that is that they feel guilty about shit and they deserve punishment, so they are beating themselves up for something. When I spank them then cuddle them and tell them it's okay, then they can relax. They got punishe… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?I personally don't see porn that way, but I'm totally not a sub either. In fact, I don't watch porn with men not of my race or uncircumcised because I'm projecting myself into that cock mentally, and the cock needs to be the right color or shape or it ruins the projection for me. I'm not watching some other guy fucking in the video, I'm watching myself. But yes, I assume that there are people that are fantasizing it's a guy fucking a girl they can't have. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with racist jokes and breaking frameAye. I meant eye contact until it's uncomfortable for the room, not for him. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with racist jokes and breaking frameI'm thinking just a "Dude, really?" and maintain eye contact just enough so it's uncomfortable. It's a sharp chastize in front of everyone but unlikely to start a fight. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it OK to hit on strangers?Your #2 is a fucked up question and you should do some self reflection on that. If a little criticism is "really bad" to you then you need to man up. Some girls are just sweethearts and even when they reject you will still try to build you up. Others will have a serious bitch shield and lay into you. Laugh off the latter and don't be phased. You might be able to keep frane and even end up fucking her, or you might crash and burn. Learn from your mistakes, but understand that criticism from some … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How can I find the power to break up with 1 year LTRNo. She isn't. That's a silly statement. She's not getting what she wants out of the relationship and she's trying to drive you away but hoping you will man up because she hasn't quite got a branch swing lined up just yet. "You are taking me for granted" is something a woman says because she hasn't been fucked good for a while and she wants attention. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How can I find the power to break up with 1 year LTRAnd read "no more Mr. Nice guy" immediately. And I mean immediately. Your issue is precisely what that book is about and it will be a huge eye opener to you. The title is not implying you need to be a dick. The title is about what you just wrote about not seeing the same level of investment. Wtf does that even mean?!? You going to start saying she takes you for granted next? Lol Read the book. It's about you. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:26 AM |
| 5 | How can I find the power to break up with 1 year LTRI didnt see anywhere where you described her treating you badly. How do you want her to treat you? She doesn't read minds. You have to tell her. And then, she is going to fuck up too, so you need to either ignore the occasional fuck up, correct it playfully through mock punishment, or have a serious discussion with her if it gets out of hand. Part of that discussion may be leaving her because you can't correct the issues and just aren't compatible enough, and there is no shame in that. Do you wa… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:21 AM |
| 5 | How can I find the power to break up with 1 year LTRSo what you are saying is the best you can do in life makes you miserable. Come on dude. It's not her, it's you. Read your own words. You've got a hot chick who is being loyal. You on the other hand are being a scared little boy afraid that no one will fuck him WHILE he's getting fucked by a hot girl he feels is out of his league. You, my internet friend have a big self esteem issue and need to deal with it. Are you lifting? How is your weight? You say she isn't initiating sex. Did you tell her … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.No, I mean for a new guy who doesn't know ropes. I'm not worried about a new girl with ropes in the hands of an experienced Dom. But some guy who has never tied up a girl before can do some serious damage. I'd rather a guy new to topping use a cuff. Hard to hurt someone with a cuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:59 AM |
| 2 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.And get pink if you can. Black is scarier. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:51 AM |
| 5 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.I'd disagree on ropes for new girls. ESPECIALLY for new guys. Ropes can cut off circulation and be dangerous if you don't know what you are doing. Get a cheap but nice set of wrist and ankle cuffs at any sex shop with a buckle so it doesn't need to be sized, and clip on chains. Much easier and safer and not all leather daddy intimidating. You can do a collar too, but I'd never collar a first timer girl and again, safety concerns so be careful. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:49 AM |
| 8 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide."Even good girls sometimes need a spanking to keep them good." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:38 AM |
| 2 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.In my experience it's way higher than 50% but maybe I just attract them. I'd say 50% will enjoy total power exchange, where they literally live to serve you and you control everything in their life (finances, career decisions, etc..) 98% enjoy a good flogging once you get them to be honest. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:36 AM |
| 8 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.I'm 5'8" and have been slacking at the gym recently (unfortunately) and am a bit out of shape and mid 40's. The girls all submit. One of my subs wouldnt think about ordering coffee at Starbucks without asking her master if it's okay first. Topping in bed is not out of reach for anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:33 AM |
| 10 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.Every time she goes outside her comfort zone the slightest bit, you tell her she's a good girl. Every time. You also tell her she is when she does something you liked, whether she was outside her comfort zone or not. You find things that turns her on. Like maybe some mention of getting away with something naughty in public. So you push that a bit. Like maybe you finger her while you are driving and as she cums you tell her everyone can see her right now. Then of course you say "good girl". Or an… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:28 AM |
| 8 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.I don't really care for it, but I'm a full on Dom. The OP really describes "topping" as in, having a top and a bottom in kinky sex (the one in control and the one being controlled.) Dom/sub is a bit different because although it involves being a top, it's mostly outside the bedroom. My subs are full on slaves in real life, not just in the bedroom. I don't know if I just attract them, or if most girls are really just like this and because I know what the fuck I'm doing, I just end up doing it. Bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:19 AM |
| 5 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.Serious LOL at "it's always pineapple". I teach them yellow, red. Yellow means "I'm scared, but keep going." Red is just stop and cuddle immediately. I like having yellow. It gives them a lot more confidence that they can slow down but don't have to stop if they like it but are scared. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | [field report] deepthroat and anal fingering on the first date, but cold afterwards...Lol. Yeah. Always use a safe word. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | [field report] deepthroat and anal fingering on the first date, but cold afterwards...I am in no way saying hard/soft isn't a good tactic anytime. My point being that taken to the extreme and being her full on Dom is different. Don't enslave her like a bull in a China shop. Good way to end up with domestic abuse charges. The rest of my comment wasn't meant to be moralization. It was meant to be a 30 second tutorial. The reason I say only for serious plates is because it's just too much work for anyone else. If I'm going to be someone's master then my investment better be worth it… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | [field report] deepthroat and anal fingering on the first date, but cold afterwards...If you are going to be her Dom though, learn how. If you don't know what you are doing and just go hard/soft you are going to fuck her head and end up with a crazy. Then you just stuck your dick in crazy. If she's a serious plate, meaning you actually care about her and want more out of this than your dick wet from time to time, then learn what makes her tick. Her hopes and dreams and shit. Then incorporate those into your demands. Everything you did made her more of the person she wanted to be.… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:48 AM |
| 9 | [field report] deepthroat and anal fingering on the first date, but cold afterwards..."good girl" is such a magic phrase. Like seriously. It's unfortunate that it is really tough to use outside of sexual, male female relationships. Because really, it's pretty universal. I did a short stint in sales way back when and an older, very successful salesman told me something I didn't believe at the time but verified on my own. When you see that what you've got is actually what this person wants, then you don't fucking ask them what they want to do. People don't know what they want to do… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:31 AM |
| 22 | Finding women with low sex drives?Let me introduce you to my ex wife. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Housemate is mentally unstable, almost like an Eliot Rodger... advice on how to handle?I had a legal midget GF once. She kicked ass. Ain't nothing inherently wrong with legal midgethood. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 11:29 AM |
| 2 | put the red pill into practice last night. looks like i can successfully fight off women looking for orbiters.Not saying the interaction was hostile (I didn't even begin to think it was.) But you verbage implies there was a struggle inside you. Just saying that "resisting" her is not where you want to be. She's not the enemy. Your need for her to validate your self worth is. She's probably a cool person. Fun to talk to. To kiss. To fuck. There's no reason to fight a cool person off. You need to fight any desire or just plain habits you have of being a doormat. You don't need to sit around and listen to … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | put the red pill into practice last night. looks like i can successfully fight off women looking for orbiters.You did good and bad IMHO. First, you weren't all white knight trying to make her feel all better for no reason. Good! She respected you for that! Second though, you state it as if she was an adversary you were "fighting off". She's perpousfully bringing up that you are single and so is she. She's hinting. That's not adversarial, that sounds more like her wanting you to come up with an excuse to get her alone and start a tongue down. Third, and I wasn't there but, why were you listening in the f… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Why work a job that doesn't care about you in a country that doesn't care about you?You say you are educated and could work at a job paying well. If that job is something a child can do, wtf did you study and why hasn't it been automated out of existence? No wonder you are dispondant when your skills are so worthless. And I've had much bigger issues than some fully grown man trying to kill me. That's stupid and frankly pretty easily dealt with. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Why work a job that doesn't care about you in a country that doesn't care about you?I have enough meaningless papers. I don't need to collect them. I can do whatever I want within reason. I still work. For money. What I do is enjoyable. I don't work for money for extended periods sometimes when there is other work that needs doing. I can go ride a horse and admire the mountains all I want. It gets kinda boring after a while. Having the money gives me the freedom to do that. If I didn't have it I'd be stressed about where tomorrow or next year or 10 years from now meal and shelt… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 02:41 AM |
| 5 | What body type do women find most attractive?I have been skinny, fat, low muscle and high muscle. High muscle changes everything, skinny or fat. Guys treat you different, girls treat you different, your job treats you different, life is just better. You are assumed to be a high value, dominant male before you even make eye contact or open your mouth rather than coming from the position of having to show you are a dominant high value male. With musculature you have to fuck it up to lose it rather than earn it. Height probably is similar, bu… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Weird question for guys with vasectemiesYeah. It could get messy. I figured a paternity test would have me covered though. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Weird question for guys with vasectemiesOh, it's true. She didn't have the kid, and she wasn't an LTR or anything, so not like it even phased me to ghost her. It was just perfect timing that I had a friend there to kick back with when I realized what was happening and thought "Oh dis gunna be good." | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:15 PM |
| 11 | Weird question for guys with vasectemiesI've had one for decades. I've gone both ways and yeah, for most girls it's kind of a turn off when they find out. I generally keep it to myself unless we go monogomous and it's a deal breaker for the no condom thing. The absolute best is when you get the talk. Happened to me once. Phone call, "We need to talk. I'm pregnant." I muted the phone and put her on speaker and poured whiskey for my roommate and I. We sat back and listened for about 45 minutes about how she was keeping it and how faithf… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.I have months of nonstop blowjobs. Well, they do stop from time to time, I mean, a guys got to pee. I still enjoy a good wank now and then. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.Only if she could also debate politics intelligently, honestly be stupified when I took her to Rome for the first time, and outwit me once in a while and need a spanking. Now we are getting to the level of strong AI and the need for civil rights for machines, at which point, it ain't really a bot anymore, it's life. But that's an issue I don't think I'll face in my lifetime. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | 25 and I already have dick problems. Help?I think they must get referral bonuses because they are like Amway distributors for the cock. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 10:50 AM |
| 2 | I’m in an open relationship. Should I be straight up with potential plates, leave that info out until asked, or never bring it up at all?Initially I'd leave it alone. Who cares if she thinks you are cheating with her... probably a turn on for her. Bring it up when it's relevant (like when/if she starts asking when you are going to leave that girl... "why would I? She knows about us...") | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:24 AM |
| 3 | I’m look for assistance ASAPNo no no no no. You don't follow up a rejection with a kiss. You kiss when you aren't getting a rejection. Be friendly. Invite her out again another time maybe, or don't. Most likely just forget about her. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Don’t get married?Being in an exclusive relationship is what you are thinking of "being married" as. Real legal marriage is signing a legal contract with someone which says "If you ever get mad enough, you have permission to fuck me in the ass and destroy my life." How is signing that contract "fulfilling" to you? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 07:07 AM |
| 2 | 25 and I already have dick problems. Help?Could be a test issue. Make an appointment. Get test and blood pressure checked. Be open and honest with your doctor and tell him. There is a small possibility it is something even more serious, so you want to get that off the table and checked out. Lay off the booze, pot, cigarettes, and any other drugs for a bit. See if that helps. Masturbate less. I think nofap is a crock, but laying off the wank will do something reliably: make you hornier. Finally, medical issues and over-jacking out of the… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Is Classmate into me?No, mean, always use your hands when you talk normally. When your telling someone a joke, touch their wrist to emphasize a punchline. Stuff like that. Touch everyone. Except the ones who immediately shy away. If it's a dude who says away it means he's a beta and further touch is a challenge. If it's a girl, it means she REALLY isn't into you and get the fuck away. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Is Classmate into me?I got it from basically just speaking the language, but also being self aware of it because I was beta as fuck at one point and had to actually figure this shit out. Once you stop being afraid of touching people and being touched, it becomes obvious. Shying away from touching IS this language, it's just that you only know 1 word: "I submit! I submit!" And yeah... Do it with everyone and it becomes very natural. Do it with your mom. Old ladies are great because they are SO safe and forgiving also… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Is Classmate into me?Impossible to know without escalation. Your first thing you should be doing is touching her. This should be natural to you. If it's awkward and creepy it means you don't touch people. That's okay, it's just the body language of a beta male. Here's a basic primer. Touching is a normal part of communication. You touch both men and women. Let's start with men. A man who is not your friend you DO NOT TOUCH. When meeting men there needs to be a dominance cerimony. Touching a non friend male is an ove… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 05:13 AM |
| 6 | Is Classmate into me?Well, there's your problem. If there's no escalation then there is no way for either of you to express interest. Touch her socially, isolate, kiss. She will either reject at one of these points, or she won't. If she doesn't, then she's into you. If she does reject she's probably not, but maybe. But ignoring her altogether as you are doing is simply telling her that either you are a pussy or you aren't interested. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when she jokingly says "no" to a polite request.You have been dating for 8 months. Soooooo.... Stern look. "Come here." "I said come here." "Put your panties around your ankles." "Did you hear me? Don't make me do it myself." "Now bend over my lap." You are either going to end up in a submissive spanking session followed by amazing sex, or a giggling wrestling match followed by amazing sex. Either way, the next time she tells you no, you will know exactly what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Is Classmate into me?Dunno. What happened when you kissed her? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Will i ever get out of the friendzone with this girl?There is no such thing as "the friendzone." There is: 1) Girls you are fucking. 2) Girls you are not fucking. This one is #2. But I think you know that. So what is your problem? So I met this girl, lets call her S, at a political event. She caught my eye straight away. Beautiful face, very sexy body, bubbly, friendly. We talked a little bit and I got her number. Cool. wasn't sure if she was into me, since her personality is generally friendly and outgoing, so maybe she just talked to me to be ni… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.And it cant happen anyway. Any guy who thinks a rubber doll is better than a woman and swears off women for them because they are easier is ALREADY not having sex with women and not interesting to them. They are not removing themselves from the pool, the fuckers never even put on their bathing suit. The reason they think the dolls are easier is because women are too hard for them. I'm not suddenly going to be getting a lot more sex because they took their dolls and went home. I'm going to be get… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 02:50 AM |
| 2 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.Resorting to it isn't. Giving up real life for it is. I mean, I enjoy a whiskey now and then, but if I left real life to go live it at the bottom of a bottle, then I've got a problem. Similarly, I enjoy a good wank now and then... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 02:39 AM |
| 2 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.My immediate thought was "Who the fuck still calls them rubbers?" | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreTIPS still undershoots inflation because the consumer price index is purposefully formulated to be as low as possible. True or not, Tbills handily beats the CPI in nearly all periods, and his bond side is going to pay way better than tbills because of it's extended duration. So with long periods of over performance in a long term hold portfolio, he's only going to be concerned if there are short periods of high spiking inflation where the bonds severely underperform. That's where the TIPS would … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 01:59 AM |
| 6 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreBecause the investment mix I recommend is simple ( about 40% us equities index, 20% ex-us index, 40% total us bonds market index.) You don't need an advisor to do that. Advisors extremely often will put you into all sorts of investments that are equivalent to that, but break it up into 16 different funds so it looks complex and then take their fee plus a kickback commission from the high fee funds they put you in. A kid with no investing knowledge walking in off the street with $10MM is a prime … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Please explain what is going on and talk me out of thisIf you like the sex and you are okay with it, then plate sounds reasonable. You know she lies to you, so never more than that. What you really need to do though is as you said, get your head on straight with the oneitis. You've got a chick you KNOW us straight up fucking around and lying about it yet you are still committing. Fuck that. Go sleep with a couple girls. Stop being needy. You don't need this girl (in fact, emotionally you shouldn't even want her because she's not being honest and fuc… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 11:24 AM |
| 4 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreInvestment grade bonds don't pop. They fluctuate in current market value on their way to maturity then pay a set amount of interest. Treasury bonds are risk free (unless your government goes away in which case you are just fucked anyway because all your money is worthless). Bonds are only risky when not held to maturity. So if I have a known $10,000 expense in 1 year and I buy a $10,000 treasury bond expiring in 30 years, then yes, my bond may not be able to cover that expense if yields rise, so… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 08:59 AM |
| 20 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreDivorce is nasty in the best of times. If he's got a nest egg that sets him up for life, and she's going to have to go a Denny's waitress when they divorce, those trusts better be locked down harder than fort Knox because she's going to get the best lawers in the business to get at it and he's got absolutely zero sympathy from the judge. In the least, it's going to be extremely expensive just in lawyers fees just to litigate... And he's going to be paying for her top tier lawyers. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:33 AM |
| 58 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymoreAnd SERIOUSLY think twice about marriage now. Divorce is going to extra devastating. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:14 AM |
| 90 | So I essentially just got handed a few million and now I dont know what to do with my life anymore1) Learn how to keep the money. Sure.... You are rich right now. You still have (hopefully) a long healthy life in front of you. That money is going to burn up. You need to keep it working for you. Google "Three fund portfolio." This is a low overhead, low risk portfolio allocation that if you are talking 6 million plus, will likely last you the rest of your life if you don't get spend happy. You should probably have about 40% bonds 60% equities. You have a low need to take much risk, so investi… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:12 AM |
| 33 | I keep hitting it off with women that have boyfriends, i do not know why. Help!High value women always have boyfriends (except the occasional oddball... Every rule has exceptions.) You don't catch them in between relationships. You catch them and let her hampster how she was already technically broken up or something. That's the "branch swing". | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 02:09 AM |
| 5 | FuckingThe older you get the easier it is. Until literally nursing homes have a problem with public fucking. Not making that up. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 04:44 AM |
| 3 | When is the ideal time to imply subtly to a girl that likes you that you want to have sex with her?Just kiss her. If she's not ready, she will stop you. You are thinking too hard. Think with your dick. Seriously, no girl is turned on by you beating around the bush. Most are very turned on when you just go for what it is you want. So go in and see her reaction. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?Some of the older girls do get pretty fun in the sack. They got knowledge and way fewer hangups. Most of the hottest young girls I've been with are dead fish in the sack till you train them. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?In mind d 40s. The 20 something's are more plentiful to me now than ever in my life. The mid 30's and up I literally have to beat of with sticks. If all I want to do is get my dick wet with older women it's like making a dinner reservation. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?"How old are you?" "Too old for you. You've got more growing up to do before you can have someone like me." Or just leave it at "Too old for you." Make sure your smile, eye contact and body language say this is a challenge and a shit test she better not fail. "You're so old." Same as above really. And they do say this. Most after you have already fucked them and it's an ongoing playful shittest. Young enough to be my daughter is a good response. Works well if I'm getting the "naught girl" vibe b… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | The Problem With Nice GuysI meant things that can't really be "fixed" in the mind. ADHD, Aspie, stutter maybe, stuff like that where you can get better at managing it but your never going to fix it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 03:11 PM |
| 22 | The Problem With Nice GuysWhy aren't you confident? You will never be confident showing some facade and drying to percieve those around you as inferior in order to feel Superior and confident is a trick that you can't fool yourself with for long (nor those around you.) It all points to the fact that you don't like yourself and you are insecure in that knowledge. Soooooo. Why don't you like yourself? Stop trying to be better than others and shine that light on you. There's 2 categories of things in you to like or not like… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 09:48 PM |
| 15 | The Problem With Nice GuysThe greatest line ever, for me, is that every time she does something that you can sense for her was a little awkward and scary, you say powerfully "good girl." She begins to learn that the thing isn't judged, whatever that thing is. Her willingness to show you is judged as good, always. Then a flood of the sexiest stuff starts coming out and she can relax and give you what she wanted to but couldn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 09:36 PM |
| 3 | I keep messing up my chances with women by being a nice guy. Really need help on how to change?Yeah. The book is literally the post title. It doesn't get more straight forward than that. Read it! Great, life changing book and not your usual self help pablum. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 07:35 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys handle the "Don't pay for her food" deal?I agree. I didn't mean that I'm overtly pressuring. Just an invite is pressure. If you are broke and I invite you out then your feelings of "I can't go because I've failed at life and have no money" are the last thing I want to illicit. Just offer to buy and avoid all possibility if that. The financially capable will do the same back to you next time. It's about making things NOT about the money. A chick that is making it about the money is doing the opposite, which as I said is fine in my perso… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 12:33 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys handle the "Don't pay for her food" deal?Agreed. If I'm asking my male buddy out to dinner, then I'm paying. That's just implied. I don't know their financial situation and I'm creating a scenario where they are pressured socially to be in a situation that costs money. If I'm the one pressuring because I want to go out, then you better believe I'm picking up the check. A female date is no different. Now if she's asking me out and wanting me to pick up the check, we are going to have gentle and flirtatious but firm words. Personally I d… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 10:13 AM |
| 7 | Reading TRP is itself a dopamine hit?There's nothing wrong with dopamine hits and almost anything you do produces one. The important thing is to conciously select where you get your dopamine from and not just chase dopamine. If nothing gave you a dopamine hit you would literally sit in a corner and starve to death wondering at the futility of life. It's the center of the brain's executive function system. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 07:58 PM |
| 12 | Why is does TRP generally advise to block/delete women after a breakup?I block every Reddit sub that I'm not interested in. It's not about will power. It's that the platform is useless if all it does is spam crap at me that I don't care about. If we are talking about social media, then what my ex is out doing with her new bf is at the very least spam. If I actually CARE then I have a problem. In no case should I be watching feeds of what my ex is having for dinner. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 02:46 PM |
| 30 | Why is does TRP generally advise to block/delete women after a breakup?If I don't play guitar and don't plan to, why would I subscribe to reddit's /r/guitar forum? At the least, it's noise I don't need. At the worst it's a constant reminder of a mild feeling of guilt for never having picked up the guitar. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 01:41 PM |
| 21 | Do you bail the first time FWB rejects sex?I do not. She may be crampy, have a yeast infection, tired and grumpy, just found out her aunt has cancer.... Whatever. I don't expect every vagina to be gushing for me 24/7. I know my dick ain't. If I suspect some loss of attraction then I'll pull back as a punishment and regain it. If she no longer responds to punishment, thats when I consider bailing. No girl is going to please you all the time if you don't teach her how to please you. And you can't teach if you bail on the first little issue… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 04:19 PM |
| 9 | Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision)I wouldn't go that far. Allow it as long as the person is electing to do it, regardless of whether there is a medical condition. I don't give a shit if a grown man wants to get a Prince Albert even though I can't conceive of why myself. If a consenting adult wants to poke holes in his cock, I say it's his right to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 03:56 PM |
| 71 | Women hardest hit. "Men won’t be able to deduct alimony from taxes...You would expect that the pro divorce lobby (nearly everyone) would be cheering... the problem is ex husbands are already being bled white. It has gotten so bad that the parasite is now expressing concern for the host." DalrockAnd I've worked in nuclear. It's not a dangerous field at all and really isn't difficult work (the constant focus in safety slows everything down to a point where it's damn near leisurely.) Interesting statistic: there are about 20 nuclear reactors in the US and 1500 coal plants. The nuclear plants supply 20% of the electricity, the coal 80% (other plants are just a blip). The deaths attributable to a single coal plant during it's life on average are more than the deaths attributable to the comb… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 10:26 PM |
| 50 | Women are Red Pill as FuckI'm an old man. I have more pussy than I can handle. I'm not talking 40+ either. May I impart a bit of experience? Women are not stupider than you. Read that little power talk sidebar thing. It's important. Men tend to be not very good at it. There is this thing called a rattlesnake. It's pretty badass. Some snakes are them. They don't worry about much. In fact, their major evolutionary trait is to warn large grass eating mammals in the area that a badass is around so you are advised not to step… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha investment.It depends. When you are done done, where are you getting your money for hookers and blow? Is it income or savings? If it's savings, you should pay the tax man then because you are technically broke and what better time to pay taxes then when you are low income? If it is income, then you should have paid the tax man when you were broke. Trad says you will grow old and stop earning and then you pay your taxes as low income. Roth says you are living off generating assets and you should have paid t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha investment.There is a simple answer to this that implies there is something here. It is illegal to contribute to a Roth beyond a certain amount. The tax man is not an idiot. Small loopholes maybe. Infinite ones never unless unbelievably clever. Roth contributions (and traditional IRA contributions) are capped at a rather miniscule amount. Hence, there is money to be made here. If there wasn't then they wouldn't care if you did it all day long. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Exactly. What benefit to her would there be in signing such a thing? There would have to be ample consideration in the contract just to be legal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Stanford Law Professor Michele Dauber Calls For Death Of Brock Turner Because He Is Appealing His Sex ConvictionIt's not like it was planned or a kink or anything. Just alcohol + late night/early morning, one moment your into it then the next she realizes you're snoring. In retrospect it's funny and actually an awesome way to fall asleep. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 05:18 PM |
| 8 | Stanford Law Professor Michele Dauber Calls For Death Of Brock Turner Because He Is Appealing His Sex ConvictionI have passed out during more than one BJ. I don't consider the girl deviant. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 02:13 PM |
| 10 | Wife left me after 6 weeks of marriage. We were HSSHs and together 11 yrs. How can i recover?As a softer touch (he's right, but damn....). I've been there and done that. It gets better. Years later I look back on the HSSH marriage and just wonder why I didn't cut and run 2 years in instead of 10. At the time I was devestated, not knowing what I would do. And that was the problem. I didn't know what to do with myself, I only knew how to please her and that's why I wasn't worth all that much to her or anyone else. Chill. You are going to be fine. It's time to please yourself. Learn what y… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:52 AM |
| 12 | Is cuckoldry really that popular of a fetish?I've been injecting soy like crazy since I heard that, but it's just giving me a nasty rash. Am I doing this right? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 09:23 PM |
| 9 | Dropping my plates has taught me how much women crave male attention.I think it's easier to get them in my 40s than it was in my 20's actually. Alot of 22 year old hotties love older men. Kind of a daddy thing I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 10:57 PM |
| 16 | Why do 5s and 6s reject me and are nasty bitches in general but I can close 7s and 8s and they're fun?They tend to estimate the average. In real life you never get to interact with the average, only the individual data point. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 07:44 AM |
| 11 | Mom Dropping A Red Pill BombI have. I've not a lot mind you and I haven't taken anyone home, but yeah, if there are straight women at a gay bar then approaches aren't even necessary. The straight girls just flock to the straight guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmateIf you need comfort and support all the time then you aren't happy with you and your life. You have to make it a you and a life you are happy with. sure, we all need a little support now and then, but that should be rare. Most of the time you are winning. The purpose of life is not to huddle up with each other and have a pity party. That should feel horrible. If it feels good and comfortable then you don't need it. If you are seeking it out then you are really doing it wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating a rape survivorDated ones that were awesome people. Dated ones that had hangups they never got over, and dated one that would drink, get punchie and scream rape before curling up in a ball sobbing. Some handle it and it's a bad thing that happened to them but life goes on. Others are batshit crazy. You don't know just from the event how she personally is. From what you write though, she sounds okay. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 02:50 AM |
| 30 | Suicide statistics could be of interest to TRPMy brother is an EMT and he is seriously sick of shit like this. Imminent threat of death gets everyone scrambling and brings massive attention to the threatened where they are center stage throughout. And as he says it is unbelievably common. So here is how he deals with it, which I like much. Someone threatens suicide you immediately call the authorities, get someone out there. Basically tell the authorities you are confident they will do it and it's imminent, not that you are just worried abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/17 04:33 AM |
| 5 | I feel like minorities make a way bigger deal about race than white people do in social interactions, any other ethnic guys with similar experiences?I'm a huge believer in the "content of character" dream. And I realize that there is massive racism out there, which is why it's still a dream, but I refuse to be part of the problem. I know as a white guy, there is a lot of shit I don't have to put up with from racist assholes, and I sympathize. What irks me though is the acceptance of racism amongst minorities. If someone said to you, "you just think that because you are black. Let me tell you how it really is..." I'd be down that fuckers thro… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How to hold a conversation and be able to talk forever with anyone. Develop your million dollar mouthpiece with this one mindset shift.You aren't going to become an orbiter in one conversation. Dont even worry about that. Now, if you are talking to her 3x per week for months and getting nothing out of it.... You are an orbiter. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | (No More Mr Nice Guy) States one of the hardcore BP beliefs is the need to hide weakness. Why is hiding weakness BP?I don't even think it's really talking about sharing your weakness so much actually. It's about not hiding it. And think there is a big difference. Lets say that I think I've been drinking too much, so I'm trying to cut down. One way to approach this is to beat myself up over it, and when I want to have a drink I feel guilty about it and try to appear to others like I am drinking less than I really am. I might succeed with some, but others may catch me. The fact that I am hiding my drinking is v… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do women who aren't fucking you alternate how they act towards you? What does it mean?I would agree. If 1) you aren't physically present and 2) you are completely oblivious to her then she's just going to do the next thing that captures her attention. But if you occasionally completely space a non-crucial response, and you often don't respond for a couple hours, or the next day... or even next weekend sometime... You are constantly re-grabbing her attention but she knows that she isn't a priority. She's highly likely to start chasing you. I've got a few girls that would not DREAM… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 09:13 PM |
| 29 | Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?Broke up with a girl a while back. Was told that she was "Mentally a virgin when we met and that I has abused my power and taken her sexual innocence from her that she will never get back. That innocent, naive, beautiful little girl is gone forever." She was 38 years old and can go all night telling stories of guys she has played and orgies she's had. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 08:58 PM |
| 7 | The never ending shit tests I have experienced while losing weight"Do not speak of your happiness to one less motivated than yourself." - Balderdash77 FTFY. I mean, pedantic, but if you are going to attribute a quote... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 07:17 PM |
| 3 | The never ending shit tests I have experienced while losing weightYes, which reinforces the human mating strategy. Get impregnated by the best genetics. Nurture is irrelevant to breeding, so the strategy puts blinders on and goes full nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | The Great Banning of 2017I did serious construction work (hod carrier) in my 20's and I looked damn good. Not as good though as a well structured routine I started in my 40's. Labor doesn't target all the groups efficiently. Now, had I been smart, I'd have been in the gym twice a week in my 20's hitting the weak spots for 30 minutes and it would have been easy peasy paired with hard labor as opposed to fighting an uphill battle against a desk job... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:13 AM |
| 1 | The Great Banning of 2017I work on strength, mobility/agility and cardio. Sure, I don't want to be a big slow/awkward guy. I also don't want to be a big guy with a pissy cardiovascular system. You can do all of that. And imho it's pretty hard to get too big without serious juicing if you work mobility into your routine. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Hurting shy girls?I've got a total terminator fetish. So hot. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Hurting shy girls?Think of it this way. Super hot girl walks up to you in a way that makes you almost come in your pants. Hits on you HARD. Takes you home. Has crazy wild sex. Kisses you fondly in the morning as she leaves. You never see her again. How bad were you hurt? I mean sure.... damn... I want to do that AGAIN! Is that hurt? Or is that an awesome thing that you never got the chance to do again? Well, it's the same for her. The only hurt you are going to cause by being the man of her dreams is the regret s… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 06:09 AM |
| 1 | "No sex until a relationship" Shit test responses?It can be a nice thing to do. Powertalk. It's not dirty. It's honest yet keeps a mutually negotiated ambiguity. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 05:37 AM |
| 1 | "No sex until a relationship" Shit test responses?You done good, son. If it's a showstopper, so be it. You have both made your terms clear, so now either one of you compromises, or it's over. Just don't end up a pathetic orbiter. She may decide that you are worth the sex and withdraw the challenge. Or she may stick to her guns because she has really decided no more sex. Abundance mentality. Just roll with it and get another one so you don't fret about this one. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Tax Lawyer here - The Gift TaxThese are just dumb ideas, not advice. I am not an accountant. I am not a lawyer. I am certainly not your accountant. I am certainly not your lawyer. This is not accounting advice. This is not legal advice. This is not advice at all. This is a stupid guy on Reddit spewing stupid ideas because he likes to drink and talk shit. You should not even read this. yearly, before catchup contributions, let's start with the obvious: 18000 401k Trad 35000 401k Match or Post tax with Roth Rollover 5500 Backd… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - The Gift TaxSo here's a question that is not legal advice. If the recipient of the gift is not liable for any taxes on it, must they still report it? The gifter is dead, which not only puts a damper on investigations but there isn't even anyone to punish except the estate, which may be very unlikely to be found out given the only one who knows of the transaction are 1) a dead person and 2) Someone who has done nothing wrong. Then how is this even enforceable? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - The Gift TaxForgiveness of debt is also income generated by the recipient, so it's likely to be taxed at a higher rate than estate tax anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - The Gift TaxThat's any tax. Income tax and property tax fit that description much more keenly than estate tax. And even if they have infinity dollars at death, they are still redistributing 60% of it. And that's the part they literally couldn't give away in time (tactical marriage, charitable contributions of appreciated assets, college savings programs, etc.) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:30 AM |
| 0 | Tax Lawyer here - The Gift TaxAs a rather high earner, I am deferring tons of assets into the future for taxation. This will have me pretty darn well off at a point in time not to distant from now. At that point I will drip my income down to near zero. I will keep it above zero, as earned income because I actually want to be low income, not zero income/retired because I then get subsidies. I will then begin converting that deferred money into taxed money and a very low income, while I reset my cost basis levels upwards, payi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Tax Lawyer here - Trusts & Marriage / Trusts & Divorce (Part 3 of 4)I work in risk mitigation strategies. The real goal is not to avoid all legal risk: you can't and trying to do so is a sunk cost with diminishing returns. You avoid the obvious ones that are low hanging fruit and you take the risks with good return. The goal is also not to win in court (unless it is a completely manufactured case to establish case law, or a tactical assault). The real goal is to be too expensive to ever even consider going to court. This isn't alway money. Expense can be loss fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Tax Lawyer here - Trusts & Marriage / Trusts & Divorce (Part 3 of 4)There certainly is if she is the wealthy one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - For what purposes do you use a Trust? (Part 2 of 4)It can get even hairier. I am not a licensed attorney, but I work in a specific, highly specialized legal field. I actually advise attorneys on domain specific knowledge that they are not expected to have because it isn't legal knowledge per say, rather it is cultural, business, technical, etc. knowledge. I know who might be mad, who might be litigious, and basically where the land mines are buried. For me, I can often SOUND like I am giving legal advice, but I'm not an attorney, so it is actual… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?he might have a nice pay day when he gets out of prison. Which is highly likely to end him straight back in prison. Ross is going to be watched like a hawk by the DEA, FBI and IRS. However he can probably bargain for lots of "favors" from people who may just discover keys to some missing coins, but I doubt he's going to be able to get his hands on anything we would traditionally call wealth. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?unless it never comes back. In theory you can tumble it (or use a darker coin like Monero) and sell to private buyers outside of large exchanges (like coinbase) that may report your information for cash. Now you have the mattress full of cash problem, but at least it's anonymous. Keep an encrypted record of what you do however, because if a lot of money just shows up in the future, the IRS may be more likely to notice than your ex and also has a much bigger stick with which to beat you with, so … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?I had documents drafted for my solo 401k. I am the Adminsistrator, Trustee, Custodian and Beneficiary. Quite a few hats, not to mention paperwork. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?Or an asset search pulls up the fact that you own a safe deposit box. If I were to attempt to hide assets from a court proceeding, which of course I never would, I don't think I'd want them hidden somewhere someone might look with my name on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 09:54 AM |
| 2 | "Marvel executive says emphasis on diversity may have alienated readers"Tony Stark has ADD. Classic case. Hulk much less so :) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 08:41 AM |
| 10 | Dave Chappelle: Marriage is Nothing but an Awful Contract You Shouldn't Sign50k to 100k is a huge difference. 100k to 200k much less so. Sure, I can sock away more at 200k, but day to day difference really isn't much. At 50k, you are trying to get by. At 100k+ you are getting by just fine as long as you aren't paying off an ex wife. The getting by part doesn't change much until you hit wealth, which has more to do with savings than income. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 04:32 AM |
| 2 | What the hell is up with chokers?In private this is true. In public often a choker is worn as a collar so it's not obvious. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Accepted new job at large firm- Current boss given me counter offer. What to do?To a lateral pay job that looks worse on his resume? Sure, BigCorp says "And this is just a trial offer. We will promote you in 6 months to a year if you do as well as we think you will." Every job ever says that. No they wont. He got the bump in pay, but more importantly the bump in responsibility. Take the better resume experience. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How can you not pedestalize women when you are abstaining?Wanting them isn't putting them on a pedestal. You don't need to detest them. That doesn't sound healthy. Putting them on a pedestal means valuing them above yourself. I go 3 days without food and then am confronted by a juicy steak, then he'll yes I'm going to be at half mast thinking about putting that in my mouth. I don't need to remind myself of cow shit and how I shouldn't want the steak. That's dumb. The point is I shouldn't feel that just because the steak isn't in my mouth I shouldn't fe… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 07:38 AM |
| 1 | I want out.Yeah, I see a bunch of other issues, but I wanted to see what he was getting at here, as I might be misreading. I'm feeling like "these tactics" refer to RP tactics... and then I'm not sure which ones as there are a few volumes of material available on the RP sidebar. Does he feel that RP tactics are abusive and likely to get him arrested? How is he interpreting them if that is the takeaway? Maybe he's reading too much into the "dude, stop being a pussy, she wants to get fucked otherwise she wou… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I want out.And even if I were up for utilizing these tactics what's stopping a woman from simply throwing me in prison based on some allegation that needs no evidence whatsoever? What are "These Tactics?" I don't think I'm up to this and even if I were it could easily land me in jail or enslave me to child support payments if I ever decide to have a family. Up to what? I feel you are implying something here you aren't saying. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 08:26 AM |
| 9 | Steroids are legal for women thinking their slab of fat for a penis makes them a man. A man can't buy steroids for personal use. Why is this the case? Inept politicians whow want to keep men beta?An elderly person taking steroids to reduce discomfort would be on cortical steroids. What is being discussed here is anabolic steroids. These are COMPLETELY different things. There are many different types of steroids and most do not help in any way to add muscle mass. Even vitamin D is a steroid. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 09:38 PM |
| 3 | You didn't win, Trump didAnd electoral college isn't a rigged conspiratorial system or antiquated either as many people believe because they don't understand it's purpose. The people get representation in the house, the republic (states) are represented in the Senate. Since the president's job is to be the final veto and act in matters of emergency, he is elected by a blend. Half of the influence of the election is the members of the republic (the states) with one member one vote, the other half is the popular vote. Oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 04:45 AM |
| 3 | You didn't win, Trump didOkay, technically it it was about one hundred thirty millionth part the result of your actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 04:39 AM |
| 3 | A male birth control trial was cancelled for being unsafe to men. Feminists beta-shame and find a way to make it all about themselves.They die and get reabsorbed. Same thing happens if you don't cum for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to put on the fun,stoic,carefree act forever?As an argument of pure logic against my original statement, you win. I don't think you are arguing against my intended point though. Of course we gave the choice to be whatever we want to be or feel like being. I take no issue with that. However, SOME ways of being are highly unattractive to all sexes and in particular the opposite sex. We don't see Gomer Pyle an Urkel as either playboys or leaders of business. We see Don Draper's there. These are masculine qualities. Now, the question is are th… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to put on the fun,stoic,carefree act forever?True, bad phrasing on my part. Should have said something along the lines of masculine. Having the traditional traits attributable to men. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Do I have to put on the fun,stoic,carefree act forever?Never give in completely to "being yourself" though. No matter how far you come, there are still many things about you that objectively suck. Keep improving. Find new ways to improve. Find new flaws to tackle. Complacency is where you lose. I'm reading a lot of flaws in this guy that aren't endemic "him". He's pretending not to care when he does. There's a flaw. He should be on guard of being at her mercy because he can't walk away and opening himself up to being fucked royally. It's not pretend… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Do I have to put on the fun,stoic,carefree act forever?If you are a man, then you are stoic. If you aren't stoic, then there's nothing wrong with that, just don't expect man privilege (I can't believe I just used that term). When women do "wrong" things, we tend to forgive them as long as they are cute, give us orgasms and take care of themselves. We may guide them sternly, but really, they are allowed to get away with a lot. They are being sexy women. If a fat, bitchy woman did those things we wouldn't give them the time of day. Similarly, if you a… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 02:25 AM |
| 18 | Woman hides her $25k debt from her husband until after they're married. New hubby pays it all off and even adds her to his bank account.And closing the wife's credit card so she can't continue to run up debt is borderline abuse. Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Womans perspective - Why Beta Guys are Actually Scary AF When You're Use To Dating Bad GuysIf you never want kids, vasectomy should be first resort. It seriously takes most of the stress out of fucking. There are still STIs so it doesn't mean you won't be using condoms anymore, but knowing that an accident isn't going to be leading to an 18 year financial obligation is liberating. Vasectomy means never asking "did you have your period?" again. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:18 AM |
| 48 | Womans perspective - Why Beta Guys are Actually Scary AF When You're Use To Dating Bad GuysYep. "No More Mister Nice Guy" gets it perfectly. The book isn't about being an asshole. It's about how to stop being quote "nice" in a toxic manner. Expecting that your niceness should be compensated is a toxic and dysfunctional attitude and very manipulative. Sacrificing what you want for others expecting something in return is not very nice at all and is the manipulative beta ploy. That doesn't mean you need to be a royal dick. Be confident and tell people what you want overtly and expect to … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:08 AM |
| 2 | So "The Red Pill" movie is debuting soon. Was there any input from TRP mods or endorsed members?Naw. We didn't want to silence al queda. In that case they wanted a manufactured enemy to justify increase regulation and control the political agenda. It's because al queda is a minor threat to the establishment. You only silence major threats, not minor ones. Notice how this video gives voice to MRA while silencing TRP. It's because MRA will never gain widespread traction, so they are useful to keep around to show how persecuted you are. A group of people who disagree with you rationally while… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 07:55 AM |
| 11 | So "The Red Pill" movie is debuting soon. Was there any input from TRP mods or endorsed members?It does, but I think the trailer is showing a bit of a skewed view to attract a wider audience. The very opening is making fun of the MRA movement "There has never been a larger gatherings, blah blah" and then a zoom out to show only a handful of people. They then present some arguments that sound interesting (but include a few pretty ludicrous ones that are inaccurate or hyperbole). Then they conflate MRA with Red Pill to confuse the issue, and then the "rational feminists" come on to "balance … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 05:40 AM |
| 3 | So "The Red Pill" movie is debuting soon. Was there any input from TRP mods or endorsed members?watch the trailer. its a hit piece. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 04:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Oh, and on the "approach" (I really don't see it as an approach. My stable is pretty full and I'm not hunting). Just be casual. You aren't going to get a girl half your age by locking eyes across the room, walking up to her, and somehow insinuating she would like old man balls on her chin. Again, she's got a social rep to maintain. Just be casual. Be outgoing with EVERYONE, then it won't seem weird if she is 18 or 81. Does she have an infectious smile? Say "You've got a really infectious smile!"… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Also, creepy is an attitude. If you are low confidence and fail the shit test thrown at you, then you are creepy. If you are strong guy with great eye contact who laughs at any shit test thrown his way, then you aren't creepy. You're a fucking cool ass older gentleman. Creepy is a title given you because you were so far below their SMV that it was insulting even to try, OR it was given to you by her peers in order to get her to reject you via peer pressure because they are either jealous of her … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 01:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Online and invite out to coffee, or just generally socializing. They are girls. They make up 50% of the population and they love to talk. My bankroll is decent and I dress well, but I live very frugally. No bling. I look okay. I'm no Richard Gere, but I'm not fugly. Decent shape. I lift, not overweight, although I'd like to drop a few bf percent (prob around 18%. I'd like to be below 16 and I'd love to hang out around 12%. Working on it.) Not totally stacked though and I don't juice. My hair isn… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Online, or in person. Grabbing a coffee or dinner to get to know each other is an easy in online. Strong eye contact always (in every aspect if life) but nothing overt. Isolate (so her peers don't start the creepy shit), conversate, touch, wait for an IOI, move in for kiss. Same as it always was. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Oh, but having her accompany you on a business trip when she's never been on vacation without her parents and giving her her first Champaign and just watching her mind explode the first time she feels like an adult woman.... Worth all the Pokemon go blather. I mean, to me it's a fucking Hyatt regency. To her she just became Cinderella. Turns her into a sex goddess. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Multiple plates, so any time I want? Current lineup: 19. She's a 7 but thinks she's a 5. Real sweet. Shy. Rapidly becoming my primary. 19. She's an 8 with the body of a 9.5. fitness freak. She's kinda flaking though. I'm giving her leeway cuz of body and kinky side. 33. Was primary. A 9.5 in her pre-wall days and still hot. But she's got a model's attitude, a crazy streak and has become way clingy and wants commitment bad. Prob on its way out. 25. Just finished nursing school. Sweet, but a bit e… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:03 AM |
| 3 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?Both. Most single people in my age group are sad, emotionally broken, overweight divorcées. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 06:29 AM |
| 4 | How do you live the "red pill life" at 40 and beyond?I'm in my 40s. Trust me, it's WAY easier. There is very little competition in this age group. And then there is a whole, large segment of the 19-27 year old female population who totally goes for fit, dominant older men. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. Not to mention, some of them think they are gold digging when they aren't even competing with my snack budget. When making low rent payments is a major expense for a girl, $100 is a shit load of money. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Plate #2 found plate #1's underwear in my bedIf my hot houskeeper's twice a week visit has transpired. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Former "Mr. Alpha" himself, Johnny Depp, gets divorce-raped.And the staying in shape part would become more of a challenge! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Former "Mr. Alpha" himself, Johnny Depp, gets divorce-raped.Nobody can eat a jar of almond butter a day, much less three. Hence the expenditures on health care. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 02:49 AM |
| 36 | Pump and dump rule #1: Always send text after.Same. And I throw in some lovey duvey words about how wonderful they are, goodnight sweetheart, whatever. A sweet transaction over txt not only serves as evidence if needed, but generally leaves her feeling good about the experience so you will likely never need it anyway. If you are all "k. Thx. Bye." That's what gets the hamster spinning and causes her to formulate how wrong what you did was. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 07:01 PM |
| 4 | The girl I lost my virginity to is claiming that I gave her chlamydiaIf someone accused you of giving them the flu and you believed you were healthy at the time, would it bother you this much? It's a communicable disease with an easy cure... Easier than the flu. Even if you did have it (doubtful) then it's no big deal. Don't sweat it. And good luck on your test. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | An Experiment at a Dinerit's not that it's pleasurable to hurt them, it's that it would be wrong not to. Are we talking physical pain, or emotional here? Physical: Yeah, most girls like light pain. They like to be spanked, tossed about, wrestled to the ground, taken. They want to feel taken and controlled. There's a fine line with most of them though, although they might let you cross it and not tell you because they are afraid you will let up completely. Others take it so far that yes, the slitting throat fantasy is r… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 07:18 AM |
| 3 | An Experiment at a DinerThen find a funny, smart one. They exist. You still need to be dominant to keep them and they want the same things for the most part. I would agree; the dumb annoying ones are only fun to get my rocks off. I typically don't keep them around unless they are insanely hot. But I don't relate to the sadism thing. Can't help you much there. I don't find any pleasure in hurting someone. If they bore me, then I'm just bored and I find someone who bores me less. I'm never angry at the boring girl. And I… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 02:38 AM |
| 16 | An Experiment at a DinerI'm not talking dark triad. I'm talking about swinging the pendulum to the center. Just because she's your sex doll and you fill her up with cum every time you feel like it and she loves it does not make you evil and self centered or her less human. She LOVES it. She wants to feel full of your cum and have it drip down her thigh while she talks to the neighbor. It reminds her that she is protected and cared for and that a big, strong real man finds her sexy. That's not dehumanizing, that's what … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 02:22 AM |
| 18 | An Experiment at a DinerThat's just sex though. And yeah, if you aren't confident then that is a powerful fantasy. If you really want to get it out of your system, then go down to Mexico with a couple grand saved up and spend a week fucking beautiful women three at a time and having them suck you flacid cock in between sessions. The fact that you are fantasizing about it though and actually viewing it as a potential life plan means you don't have abundance mentality. I see the option of a Mexican brothel as similar to … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:47 PM |
| 2 | An Experiment at a DinerTrue, but most "game" is really made out to be too complicated. Confidence, eye contact, and forwardness with what you want is pretty much the heart of game. The rest is just social skills which has nothing to do with women per say, but people in general and would place more in the bucket of general attractiveness then "game". IMHO, the practiced pickup artist style game works for people not because they learned some tricks, but rather because they think those tricks actually work so they have a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:22 PM |
| 104 | An Experiment at a DinerIt's acceptable because shaming is a shit test. Men are valued on their dominant characteristics. If you get taken down a notch by shaming, then you are placing yourself in the invisible class. If you lock eyes with her, stare her down, laugh at her attempt and then start treating her like a naughty flirt, you place yourself into the top 20%. Perfectly acceptable. It is not acceptable for a man to test a woman that way. Women are not valued based on their dominance. To shit test a submissive wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:14 PM |
| 25 | An Experiment at a DinerI live a pretty frugal lifestyle but sometimes the gold diggers sniff me out. Hell, sometimes I plate them even if I can keep them in line. Almost universally though, gold diggers are a royal pain in the ass. You get women by being a man and being dominant, then they respect and love you. If you get them by having money then they really aren't worth it. There is no respect there for you as a person. They don't want your dick, they just want your wallet and it shows. Conversation is like talking … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.It's not just about showcasing the guns and it's not just about women. Dressing well will open all avenue of opportunities for you. You will be more respected in business, in social settings, etc. You physically look "alpha" in well fitting clothes. Oversized close look cheap and frumpy and others will tend to think you are more insecure and of a lower social class. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Hotel cleaner accused me of assault and incited violence against me, looking for adviceThey went WAY back in comment history. A couple years back I had posted a link which they could tie to me. From there the found my domains, Facebook, a decade old love journal I had forgotten about, LinkedIn.... It wasn't like I was hiding. I get in arguments on the internet, but in not really the most controversial. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Hotel cleaner accused me of assault and incited violence against me, looking for adviceSome damage control irl. Deleted all public accounts. Much more anonymous online now. Nothing life shattering. Annoying really. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 14 | Hotel cleaner accused me of assault and incited violence against me, looking for adviceI was doxxed for giving a kid advice to be more aggressive and just kiss the damn girl. Yeah. Emais sent to my daughter's, ex wife, employers. Comments from me taken out of context going back 10 years from all sorts of other sites just to make me look bad. SJWs patrol this forum and have way too much time on their hands. So yeah. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you want Orgasm or do you want to Fuck?Not at all. In fact, when I tell her to ride me because I want to watch her breast bounce when I cum, then it's totally an act of submission. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Do you want Orgasm or do you want to Fuck?bro tip: If she is too structured then yeah, you are doing it wrong. She isn't "letting go" because there isn't any fantasy. Sure, your cock all up in her feels nice, but she was hoping for more. She is structured to keep your ass at arms length. Someone that will save her and her baby from a charging bear is the kind of dude she is waiting for and well, your cock is up in her, but you ain't no bear killer. If she's laying there, enjoying her self kinda, then you are shy. Remember that favorite … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Do you want Orgasm or do you want to Fuck?Oh yeah. When they do that it means they want you to totally dominate them. Anytime she gets that aggressive you bench press her off you, pin her down, flip her over and have your way. If she plays faux dominance, that's like permission for game on. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you want Orgasm or do you want to Fuck?I know they are because they plead to come back for more. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you want Orgasm or do you want to Fuck?Mine tastes like candy, but I'm not giving it to either of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How do you be good in bed after a dry spell? I'm cockblocking myself because I'm nervous about fucking up my college reputation.When in doubt, Dom. Hold her down, fill her up, tell her she's a good girl. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceHe's got a lot of money. Perhaps millions. Most of your mainstream channels will track identity. That's going g to put him in a situation where he is scrounging for anymous sellers, a with no connections since he's new to the space. Then he's throwing millions around the blockchain, not knowing what he's doing. He would likely want to tumble, so there's another issue, and he's going to want to trickle that in with that kind of coin. Then paper wallet the thing and sit on it till shit cools down,… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:16 PM |
| 3 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceI'm also kind of implying that discussing an illegal move to hide assets in a public forum when the other party may steal passwords or other means to prove that it's him who wrote it (in divorces, keyloggers and other meansmeae often used to gain access to electronics). If he's getting advice like this, then that's the first place they will look. And unless he's covering his tracks real well, bitcoin is a lot less anonymous than cash. Assuming this dude isn't a bitcoin pro, the discussion on Red… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:55 AM |
| 3 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceIt is absolutely possible. I'm 42. I was hard up my whole life. 2 failed marriages, ded bedrooms, pity sex. I literally have more hot 18-26 year olds than I know what to do with. Hardest part of getting laid is scheduling it. Women want to please a strong man who is in demand and will do anything to do it. Lift, don't be a pussy, tell them what you want and in return you are their unfaltering rock and they will claw each other's eyes out to be with you. It really is that easy. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 02:36 AM |
| 4 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceHiding assets is illegal, just so you know. And btc was found, in one court, not to be money for money laundering. That doesn't mean it's not an asset. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Guys, if you acted like an asshole to a woman by accident and she looked "hurt", would you tell her you were sorry or just let it go?This. If I do something on purpose then I won't apologize because of pressure from the other party to apologize. Giving into that pressure (tears, pouts, anger) is weakness and you are being manipulated. I only apologize if I am truly sorry either because I did something unintentionally, or I caused unintentional consequences. If you meant to make fun of her and she took it badly, then no apology. If you said something intending not to make fun of her, but in retrospect it was insulting, then ap… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 11:29 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?You should make an order of magnitude more than interning once you have a real job. Internships pay for shit. Some are unpaid. As someone who has had many interns personally, it's for good reason. It costs me more to have an intern than the work I get out of an intern generally. I'm mentoring, guiding, teaching... I love my interns, but it's not easy having them and the work they are doing is generally the "fun but not important work everyone else would love to be doing but we have real work to … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpI've been there. Trust me. And I've gotten far away from there. If I could go back and tell 19 year old me what to do, here's what it would be: Lift. Take your days off and do squats, deadlights, bench press, Pullups, overhead press and rows. If you have more energy throw in some biceps curls, skull crushers, and lateral lifts but those are way less important and just for the ladies. Sure, you are very physically active which is awesome, and I'm sure you are plenty strong, but you want to be bal… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How to get your girl to love anal sex.It could be endowment also. Not trying to brag or anything, but I've had girls who were experienced in anal need me to do a lot of prep/training. One of them asked ME for anal, but then couldn't handle it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm pregnant and you are the father.Really, it should be her that pays if it's not yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm pregnant and you are the father.I got the call once from a cute 24 year old. I put her on speaker, muted and my roommate and I poured shots while listening to her plans for us to be together and raise this child. She got really upset when I told her it wasn't mine. We let her go for about 30 minutes, laughing and toasting. Finally I told her I was sterile and the silence on the phone was glorious. She "miscarried" a couple weeks later. I still kept her around as a plate for a bit until she locked down some other guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 08:33 PM |
| 4 | There's a new gender gap that's building in America: women have surged ahead of men in obesity.170 OHP is fucking awesome. Good on you. /OHP impaired | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Girl calls me sirCertain people. And yeah, it could mean she wants the D, particularly if she's giving other IOI. Maintain frame, be confident and dominant and make a move. Then you will know. I find most girls are pretty sub. Most haven't formalized a D/s relationship before though, they just fantasize. If a girl is giving me serious indicators though (like calling me sir), then I tend to assume she's experienced. Test it out by giving some good ass-swats in bed. She'll let you know if she's not liking it. If s… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 03:39 AM |
| 18 | Girl calls me sirIt's a pretty common sub thing. "Mister" and "Sir" in public, later, if things go well, "Mister" becomes "Master" behind closed doors. She gets bare bottom spankings and you get the best blow jobs of your life. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 03:20 AM |
| 35 | Girl calls me sirShe's likely a sub. Try calling her your little girl and see if her eyes light up. Get yourself a flogger. Have fun. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 02:57 AM |
| 11 | If she's smart, Watch Your SixFor me, dumb girls are like hookers. I can have one any time I like. They have really nice boobs, and I do appreciate that. The investment it costs me is pretty negligible in relation to my assets. Overall, I'm going to get my rocks off pretty cheap. But If I compare that to masturbation, it's really just enhanced pornography. It costs a bit more than video for the enhanced pornographic experience, but in the end I'm not really emotionally attached to this. Smart ones on the other hand are a rid… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Does keto really work?It depends on what you mean by "works". I assume you mean " can I lose weight eating keto?" You can ad long as you eat fewer calories than you burn, which is the only way to lose weight. Keto can make that easier because the heavy fat, protein and fiber diet is much more filling and for longer periods than high carb. But you can also gain weight on a keto diet If you overeat. So watch your calories. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/16 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How do girls like to be "taken"?Read sex God Method. And then pretty much so what you want. What you always fantasized about. Use her body to fulfill every porn fantasy you ever had. Tell her what you want her to do to you, and then "make" her do it. If she wants you to back off, she will tell you, in which case back off a bit. More than likely she will absolutely love every minute of it. She probably wants every nasty thing you have ever dreamed of just as much as you do, and she is hoping that you will be the one to break th… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 06:39 AM |
| 40 | Question on how to fuck MILFsFriend of your mom, you really like her husband, you are invited to stay in their home. You are about to shit where you eat, kid. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Man Affections vs Boy AffectionsMy primary plate is one of the hardest bitches you will ever meet. She eats men for lunch and excels in her career. Total SJW also. But as soon as she's alone with me she puts her head on my chest and asks "am I still your little girl?" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Man Affections vs Boy AffectionsThat need for the all encompassing hug is the exact same need you have during a hard run to just stop and walk. That craving during your last set to fail and just drop the weight, you can hit the gym tomorrow. That's the Siren of failure. The idea that success is so hard and respite would feel so good. It's a lie and following that Siren leads to suffering. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonI like to do it when she gets really mad, particularly over something silly. As soon as there is a pause in her rant, I say "I love you" with a grin and a kind of chuckle in my voice. It's like "you are so cute when you are mad". Of course this sets her off more, but then I go to the fatherly " okay, you've had your tantrum" tone and get stern. I've passed her comfort test preemptively, now I can get controlling and take over. Generally leads to really good sex unless she starts shit testing and… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:27 PM |
| 33 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonVasectomy. It's the shit. I once had a plate get pregnant. She gave me "the call" while I was with my roommate. I knew from the tone where it was going, so I put her on speaker, grabbed a bottle and poured some drinks for the two of us. We sat and listened while toasting, and I let her go on for about an hour about how she was keeping the child and what part I would play in the child's life, her ideals of our future together, how she thought I would be an excellent father... Finally she asked wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 06:20 PM |
| 5 | How can late bloomers who missed out on the fun of dating and social life in their younger years recover mentally? Any ideas?So you missed an opportunity in your life. Are you going to mope and regret and continue to miss more? Or are you going to start taking life by the balls? You are ALWAYS going to miss opportunities. You didn't start saving for retirement as early as you could have and have lost millions of potential dollars. Well, start saving now. You could have been lifting five years ago and been stacked by now. Well, start lifting now then. Don't go through life bemoaning how your life could have been better… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | New member here, spoke with an ex girlfriend and this is what I've found.I get what I want by taking it. She's my woman and I protect my things. If she asserts she's not mine, then she's not and she doesnt get my protection or attention anymore. It's as simple as that. And they LOVE it and will do anything to remain a possession. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 04:52 AM |
| 1 | "You know, maybe we should stop seeing each other. I have another guy that has been asking me out, maybe I should let him." I agree. The tears fall and I get a clean house and home cooked meal in the interim.Chances of that are really low if the surgery is done right. And it almost always happens in the first couple years. That's typically because the lazy doc just snipped rather than taking a section of the vas out. You shouldn't trust it 100% (although, still better odds than a broken condom) for the first couple years, then get your sperm counted at a lab. If you're at zero 2 years later then you're golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 02:35 AM |
| 6 | "You know, maybe we should stop seeing each other. I have another guy that has been asking me out, maybe I should let him." I agree. The tears fall and I get a clean house and home cooked meal in the interim.Snipped is fucking awesome. Your life changes. Your stress melts away... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyAnd I agree that 20% is way too high a percentage. And you shouldn't take them with OJ... Acid breaks down the medication and makes it less effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyMaybe I am. Having lived with others my entire life and observing something "different" about how I and they operate however, I have come to the logical conclusion that taking out the trash is not something they seem to need 2 days to work up the motivation to do. Neither do I experience the "darkness" and "hopelessness" of life that is described for depression... I've actually always been pretty happy, except you know, when shit happens and I'm sad. And having done some Ritalin (which really di… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 07:24 AM |
| 9 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyI would like to explain for a moment about ADHD. I'm in my 40s and spent most of my life until recently without medication. I am lucky because I'm really fucking smart, but most people aren't. I am highly successful but until I latched onto my current career was never able to hold a job for more than 2 years (although they were very successful jobs). ADHD is primarily a dopamine deficiency (and norepinepherine, but let's forgo the details). Dopamine is the reward chemical. Whenever you accomplis… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 04:50 AM |
| 8 | Plate is subtly hinting that she wants commitment for sex to continue. Next?To add to what others have said here, I think you might be jumping the gun. This sounds like one incident and one conversation. A conversation where she even admits to not feeling all that great ("ometimes I just don't feel like it and it has nothing to do with you."). Understand that for her, feels > reals. She didn't feel sexy that day. Probably dealing with a low self esteem a bit. Doesn't want to fuck. Want one of those "serious" chats. And asks for more commitment as a comfort test. It is h… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/16 07:48 PM |
| 12 | So, what's a Sigma male? And is that class applicable within TRP theory? And if it is, who would be a good example of it?I would expect any community of self identified sigmas to be a group of wannabes. I mean, by definition, the sigma doesn't give a shit about community so why would he form or join one? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 04:50 AM |
| 2 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.First, you don't punish a girl by nexting her, you save yourself. If you feel satisfaction in the punishment of the nexting then that's a bit of a red flag. You are seeking satisfaction in the pain of others. Very passive aggressive. And as for optimizing the strategy by cheating, I don't believe that is optimal at all. Why would you enter into an agreement that you intend to cheat on? The only reason to do so is because you feel the agreement will get you something you want, but there are other… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.Yep. You shouldn't care if they cheat. You can have another tomorrow. Abundance mentality. The glass is already broken. I'm just saying that the above mentality makes you more desirable and ironically, the less you care the less they cheat. The proper response to "I could have another man tonight if I wanted" is to support her in getting another man. Show her the door and watch the immediate 180 she does to become the most doting, subservient girl in the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.Trying to get them to fuck you when you are old is creepy. But fucking them isn't. As you get older, richer and more powerful and maintain your alpha characteristics, trust me, there is no try. They throw themselves at you. Any 60 year old that is trying to fuck 20 something's is a failed beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 11:27 PM |
| 3 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.I say never put yourself in a position to be able to cheat. Just tell her up front that you can leave at any time and so can she. You have plenty of options. This advertisment that you may walk at any time throws her into an insecure loop where SHE is the one committing and sacrificing all of the power in the relationship. At that point she's afraid to cheat because she knows you have nothing to lose so there is no hope of retaining you. Lack of commitment fucks with a girls head and makes them … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 11:19 PM |
| 2 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.Never share money. Fuck no. But paying for things I find to be okay. I use it as a reward. You make yourself always sexually available to me and pleasant to be around, and I might take you out to a nice dinner, or drinks, or by you a gift. In that order. If you ever demand finances then you don't get them. It's a reward, not a salary. And if you are ever starting to be more expensive than a hooker, well fuck that. Beta bux is dishing out a salary to the woman in hopes of maintaining a sexual rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you need a regular dosage of TRP?I used to need it or I'd backslide. Now it's pretty much natural. I swing by here and see if their is anything interesting from time to time, but I think once it's second nature it's like coming back to kindergarten to see if you learned to color sufficiently. It's kind of boring here to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of the drinking scene?Don't recommend straight triple sec... dude... That shit isn't designed to be drunk straight. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of the drinking scene?The cool people who aren't drinking, or who are drinking very little, you never realize it. It's the people who are telling you they aren't drinking that are bores. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Social Life Went to Shit After Swallowing TRPDid you talk about TRP stuff when you were saying stupid shit? Because the first rule.... If you are discussing social strategy with people it will do 2 things: Identify you to the world that you are a social retard that needs to study human interaction in able to cope, in which case they will see everything after that point as disingenuous, and make you look like a know it all douche. If you did these things, it could be playing a role. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of the drinking scene?When I was in my 20's I was a bartender and I made an observation. People in the bar in their 20's were pretty cool. People in their 30's were a mixed bag. People in their 40's were predominantly losers unless they had a defined purpose for being in the bar, ie. they were there to "hang out". | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 05:10 AM |
| 1 | You're probably fatter than you think you are.1) Track Your calories. Estimate what it would take to not lose or gain and eat that. Make sure you are getting lots of protein. 2) Measure your weight daily at the same time of day (after you wake up and pee/shit is a good time). Take the average over a week. See how close your target calories were. 3) Zone in on your target calories to maintain your weight. Once you know what those are, add 50-100 a day. 250 on the outside. 4) Keep lifting hard. You'll add muscle. Cut a little if you see yours… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 03:13 AM |
| 11 | What Book has had the greatest impact on your life?No More Mr. Nice Guy | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 10:44 PM |
| 3 | What Book has had the greatest impact on your life?Saying it to their face isn't talking shit IMHO. It's having a conversation and resolving your conflict. Talking shit about someone is when you are non-confrontational and going on about that person behind their back. Never do that. Either have a face to face with the person, or drop the subject altogether. Passive-aggressive behavior will pretty much always be the worst course of action. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 10:42 PM |
| 12 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatThat pic looks nothing like the proportions of any barbie doll I've ever seen. If you were to scale up a barbie doll volumetrically, you are not going to end up with shrunken head fanken tit woman. This is a publicity peice that plays on ignorance of .. Basic geometry I guess? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 08:34 AM |
| 12 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatIf being obese allows for a productive working career at peak tax paying years while dying early in social security years, while removing yourself from sexual competition with me during those peak earning years, then I'm all for obesity. Eat your fucking heart out, literally, while I fuck the women and incur a lower tax burden because you died early. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.That's exactly what I mean. She believes she is destroying you and winning. Look hurt; let her win. Really, it is pointless and en empty victory for her, but never let her know that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.At one time, I wanted someone to love me. External validation. Also, regular sex. One day, I woke up and became a man. This is easier said than done, of course. But then, I realized I didn't need anyone to love me. I needed to better myself and that led to self respect, a term I always knew but never understood. Once I actually didn't need anyone in my life, I started to evaluate those who were in my life. Many I found were only there because they "loved me" not because I got any benefit from th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.I tactfully manipulated her into an amiable arrangement via dominance and gaslighting. As a result, I have a pretty good deal which only cost me half of what I am worth, which is high 6 digits, plus 18 months of alimony, which is within my means. As a result, I should be able to recoup in about a year and a half by being extremely frugal and dumping a shitload into my investments. When doing this, you need to realize that winning to her is something completely different than losing to you. Don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.I was aware of RP before I married. I don't think I had "swallowed the pill" though. I was very much "nice-guy" and picked and chose what aspects of RP to apply. When I became completely frustrated I bought in completely as an attempt to end it all. To my surprise, she completely submitted and everything (almost) became perfect. By almost, I mean she was a 5. I can get 8's now. And no. I will never get married again. You have earning potential, ambition, sexual potency, intelligence, assets, etc… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 06:58 AM |
| 15 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.Me. Going through it now. Been RP for a while. RP dramatically improved my marriage. But the lack of the ability to "just walk away" creates an immense power imbalance and makes marriage RP on hard mode. In the end, I executed a "just walk away" anyway. It's fucking expensive. On the upside, my future savings will dramatically increase since I am pretty frugal and the higher earner and I have a drastically improved SMV so the woman I'm pulling are far higher quality than my wife ever was. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't choosing Math as a major, and it's still men's faultThat triad is also at the heart of bdsm. By purposefully being the oppressor, then coming to the rescue to rescue her from yourself, you have an equation for really awesome sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 05:59 AM |
| 4 | Besides lifting,lowering Body fat and eating clean.What else can a guy do to increase his physical attractivenessThis guy http://claimingpower.com/store2/tough-chewing-gum-store/ has some fascinating lectures on jawlines and facial structure relating to chewing hard things. After watching them, he convinced me to chew at my desk. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it blue pill to have a crush?It's the brain chemicals. Your brain is highly evolved to reproduce and ensure the viability of your offspring by keeping you around long enough. It feels GREAT because its a fucking awesome drug. It makes you feel like this ONE GIRL is everything you will ever need. Enjoy the feeling, it is fun. But also realize that it is what it is. This girl isn't REALLY all that special. It's all the drug trying to get you to mate and pass on your genes. Don't make long term decisions while high, just enjoy… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 03:34 AM |
| 3 | I know just the girl for you!It was really just as soon as I embodied dominance. When that changed, everything did. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Hormones, not just a female issue.Death rates are low, but guys who don't know what they are doing fuck up their balls permanently, give themselves bitch tits and need supplements the rest of their life. That's why its illegal. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why lifting isn't good enoughNow that's just bull. Having test driven many tits of all different sizes, I have to say that anything over a C for me is a waste, and I really do think that B cups are truly my favorite. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Why lifting isn't good enoughSorry, but that's just not true and sets overly high expectations. I would not say that "any Joe Schmoe" could do a 4-3-2-1 within a year. At least not without supplements. If they are big or built right or come to the sport in pretty good athletic condition to begin with maybe. But a scrawny or older guy is going to take longer than that even with pretty hard training, and there is a high chance of minor injuries early on that will slow them down in the beginning (like tennis elbow or the like)… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 02:07 AM |
| 16 | I know just the girl for you!I know, right? It's amazing how that went from unobtainable fantasy to just a matter of logistics for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:57 AM |
| 3 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPI, for one, love my pretty cock. So do the ladies. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Does a successful man have the power to secure nurturing, attract it without going out for it or forgo the need for it.You get it by realizing that no one really cares about you and taking that to heart. There is no one looking out for you except you. You might have buddies who you mutually benefit from by hearing each other out, giving each other advice and buying each other drinks, but when your own personal shit hits the fan you are going to be on your own. If you show weakness to a woman, she will lose respect for you. Do it enough and she will leave you. That's just the way it is. Learn to live with that bu… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 12:38 AM |
| 3 | How do I get a woman to want to cook/bake for me?Complement her, say thank you, cuddle, pay attention to her and her boring story about her day, slap her ass and tell her even good girls need a spanking sometimes and then lead her to the bedroom. Find what works for her and what doesn't, then mix up the rewards that work whenever she exhibits good behavior. Eventually she will do things for the anticipated reward. Or, some (most?) girls LIKE to be commanded and dominated, so the command to cook for you might be a reward in itself. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a woman to want to cook/bake for me?You have to train her though. She can't read your mind. Tell her. Reward her for doing it. Tell her again, reward her again. Eventually she will start doing it on her own. How do you expect her to know what you want her to do if you don't tell her what you want? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a woman to want to cook/bake for me?Tell her to cook for you. I mean really, I'm sure you've been asked by a women, "what would you like me to do for you?" Tell her "Bake me a pie, and then suck my dick while I enjoy it. It's a naughty fantasy I have. Let's go to the store and get baking supplies." It's really that simple. Tell her to cook. Reward her when she does by giving her attention and reassurances. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Does a successful man have the power to secure nurturing, attract it without going out for it or forgo the need for it.You are an adult now. Continuing to cower behind your mother will destroy you. Replacing your mother with another woman who you can cower behind is even worse. As a man, you have to come to terms with the fact that there is no one who nurtures you. You learn to nurture yourself. You can have guy friends who you can bounce ideas off of and talk things through with. You can get a therapist and talk through your issues. But at the end of the day, there is no woman that will hold you while you cry. … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 06:20 PM |
| 0 | More of a rant than a question but why do they do this?She just LOOKED at your PUBLIC information that you post about yourself and you are i a huff about it? She was probably just curious about how you ended up. If she didn't even contact you about it, I'd say she probably meant nothing by it. You are reading far too much into a simple profile view. Hell, linked in probably recommended you as "people she might know" and she clicked. Get over it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/15 02:47 AM |
| 2 | How to naturally be more commanding in the sack.Read "The Sex God Method". Just trust me on that. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/15 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Alpha players, how are you spending your $ on dates40 here with a similar income. I also am frugal, but hell, giving a 21 year old her first champagne or otherwise blowing their mind occasionally is a hell of a fun time, so I don't really skimp. I look for red flags as to whether she is expecting me to fund her or not. If she's not, then I will occasionally pamper her as long as she is entertaining and putting out. If she's there for the money then I will simply give her cheap dates and sex. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Where to begin lifting?/r/fitness sidebar is one of the best resources on the net for pretty unbiased advice. Follow their lifting advice as a newb. Once you have some time under your belt you'll have more specific and educated questions. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Lifting, getting weaker, no gainsYou have been lifting for 1.5 months AND you are losing weight. Strength losses on a cut are normal. You aren't eating enough calories to power those heavy workouts. That's not a bad thing, because it just means you are in a caloric deficit. Keep doing stronglifts and hiit. You sound like you are doing just fine. Eventually, if you keep in a caloric deficit, you will hit your goal fat percentage. Then you can start eating at a slight excess, the form you are working on now will be habituallized,… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 01:39 PM |
| 1 | I am in my early 20s and I just feel like giving up on pushing myself to max out my value because I feel like there is nothing to really look forward to, any guys been in that situation have advice for me?Seriously. Take it from me, 40's here, two marriages. Wives are fucking expensive. Now, even with two exes, I can still afford beaches and cars with relative ease at this age. Problem is, I didn't see this possibility in my youth. In my earlier days I thought I wouldn't be able to get women, so I concentrated on locking the good ones down early. Let me tell you from experience, just lift, don't get fat, and have your shit together and there will always be women. What I should have done is sacked… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 07:45 AM |
| 4 | What is there to really look forward to as an adult male if you spend your younger years maxing out your "sexual market value"?You talk like there is an end game. There isn't. Life is one long game until you die. Just fucking have fun playing it. I'm in my 40's. I'm WAY more savvy than those stacked 20 somethings and have my shit together. And guys my age are almost unanimously fat and done with life. I'm fucking in demand. On top of that, I have an awesome job that I love, kick ass hobbies, am respected in my industry. Life is fucking good and will continue to be so. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 07:45 AM |
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