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3

Just means you bring a wild/good time
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:14 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:33 AM
67

(no this isn't a "wow she really likes me!" Story) It mid-key is one
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:21 PM
5

It also comes off as the following: needy shallow unexciting unimportant repetitive ingenious distant uninterested and whatever more
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:03 AM
2

Do you want us men to get the word about men treating women as objects out more and get the word of raising boys better on how to treat their fellow half? Also what do you mean by this: I am so happy you are not that guy but unfortunately you are suffering the results of men who are.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:52 AM
2

Absolutely!
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:39 AM
2

Ok so I get it now. First want to apologize for this: Your answer reads very "not all men" It does comes off as that, my apologies. To help facilitate intentions/give better communication, me and other commenters (referring to my upvotes and the lack of upvotes for you) were viewing these comments and giving advice based on the unspoken trait of helping the average guy or/and US who is trying and not getting desired results. We/they aren't the type of people to be what you're saying. Seeing your…
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:10 AM
3

Oh yeah I guess this just comes down to the type of women you both are talking about.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:44 AM
3

Sorry what are you asking for in the example, i didn't catch it 😅
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:24 AM
2

You can say this about ANY kind of men.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:04 PM
2

She finished the date then block/ghost you after too
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:58 PM
3

We men we want you to respect us. Okay, we admit it. We want, need and love your attention. Wait so are you a man or a woman?
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:47 PM
1

The issue is he already HAS. Now he simply just wants to make use of the experience and information he gathers and actually be efficient and effective with it. Telling him to be less scared and approach more isn't the answer. There are more, better options to choose like understanding your targeted woman and how she'll operate
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:11 PM
3

This is true, it also comes off as inauthentic to her and she doesn't get a chance to pry into what you're like (assuming you ARE what she likes) which makes her lose interest.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:04 PM
2

Oh I think I get what you're saying! So like to be a lightning in a bottle example of confident self-made guy that stands out and has success! One that doesn't get phased by people and expectations and is all around just that guy who's comfortable and happy with himself, sort of the guy people want to be. Am I correct?
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:01 PM
2

Most guys that aren't on dating apps are like this
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:50 PM
2

Sort of like the saying "you can be the sweetest peach, and some people just don't like peaches" But I'm of the opinion it's not too demanding to just something about you ever so slightly that's nessicary to get the woman you have in mind.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:34 PM
4

u/IceColdBrewsz is right btw. Most guys don't actually see women as objects or to be manipulated. They just genuinely want to be happy with a woman of their interest. Most people who resort to listening to pickup artists and stuff are out of some form of desperation. When writing this, was there a type of guy you had in mind that you felt this would be really helpful for and did you imagine this would be one of the biggest tips for guys in general?
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:30 PM
7

I hate stuff that's like "yeah we guys can be idiots sometimes and don't noticed/take advantage opportunities" It's self-deprecating without giving the proper credit, categorizes all us guys into one, doesn't actually help guys, it's just all around terrible to me. It's better to say specific aspects and why they most likely are bad at those. But tbf that doesn't really pick up steam tbh.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:19 PM
1

Because their authentic self is most likely irrelevant to women in all honesty.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:08 PM
5

This isn't what I imagined the person above meant tbh
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:04 PM
2

Do you just want to not look bad/lose in a comment chain? Edit: nvm you're fair with the previous comment, my mistake.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:58 PM
7

He doesn't need to do anything. Yet you felt the need to say this.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:55 PM
9

No I'm just curious because I wanna see what that looks like it action and if it aligned to my own theory of guys being increasingly scared of their own masculinity. This is an argument.
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:49 PM
5

You have an example/story of this? Just curious
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:51 PM
25

Honestly a sense of relevancy. Why should this women consciously or subconsciously care about you compared the other confident guys? How/Why would you even be a type to her? These need to be purposeful aspects/tactics that it doesn't look like your trying to communicate, that's just who/how/what you are, at least to her.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:48 PM
2

Completely depends on the dynamic you and the girl have with each other Edit: I just need to know a conversation you had with someone and then I can say the best way to course on the matters of flirting because itt differs WILDLY!
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:36 PM
32

Boot her. It all just goes downhill from here.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:02 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:44 PM
1

I didn't say not pursue it, I didn't even imply it. Just that it wasn't probable
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:37 PM
-1

That's not pessimism. I'm not telling him NOT to do it, by all means go for anything! I was just saying the base of such circumstances means it most likely wasn't anything legit.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:36 PM
3

Are your other friends on Reddit as much as you?
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:56 AM
-2

From my experience and everyone I know, it most likely wasn't going to go anywhere even if he played the game back.
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:45 AM
4

Most likely. Don't think about it too much tho.
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:43 AM
6

Usually when girls are giggling to each other and leave things as a shock for the other person to get stuck on, they have little intentions on doing anything with what shock they just brought. They just like the moment even if they did think you were cute. Should say I just graduated high school btw so I'm very much in tune with this type of stuff!
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:41 AM
3

Honestly it sounds like they were just playing games and nothing much could happen. Enjoy it and don't think to much about it.
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:18 AM
3

I'm still gonna reply on detail why it wasn't helpful but keeping it short the issue is the point of r/seduction is keeping it real and keeping it real the issue with the advice above is that despite it being tied for the best advice in this thread, this just makes op only slightly further than where he already is. At best OP's actual scenario is just being too safe (which can be extended to all the things she said) but realistically if he actually had the basics of what she (u/CompetitionFair76…
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:57 AM
5

This isn't really helpful advice tbh
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:38 AM
13

5'8+ none really. 5'4-5'8 quite a bit but you'll pull through 5'3 and under you'll feel very strained
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:56 PM
1

That can get sticky fast. 😏
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:15 AM
1

Literally didn't find it funny until I saw you're comment 🤣😅
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:13 AM
1

Bro you are texting way too much, meet up in person!
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:57 AM
0

Go for 2/3rds normal and 1/3rds flirty
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:30 PM
2

Absolutely don't tell her because telling her does nothing for her and does very little for you just take some time away from her, pickup a busting happy that feels all you, and go for some other girls
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:09 PM
2

This the thing about seduction, even out of the whole sexual/romantic pursuit thing, stuff like this requires understanding people in general and I just don't think most of us can tell you anything helpful with the little you gave us. In general though just date, that's what it's for.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:03 PM
4

Here let me offer my perspective of why it's kind of like this. It's easy for anyone to appear kind and loving and respective but evolutionary-wise this doesn’t tell how you are understandable/relatable in terms of goals/ambitions, it doesn't tell how well you can support while doing what your good at, it doesn’t show that your kids have what it takes to thrive, how you two will actually work together as parents to kids, and it doesn't tell how the girl can provide back because she very much sho…
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:20 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:26 AM
-1

At least this person was helping and admitted that it was based off personal experience. If people didn't have much game before, this will only make it better.
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:28 PM
4

You need to keep your ego in check. That's not ego. Really the op thinks it's a pride thing from him but it actually seems more of a miscommunication thing thinking SHE was being disrespectful. Other than that, you're 100% right.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:36 PM
1

Honestly yeah they just seem to like to play games. If you're gonna text, text like you're the catch but playfully of course
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:33 PM
1

It sounds like you need to go very direct with her actually. She wants you that way clear as day.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:57 AM
1

Try more group hangouts or clubs. But if you insist on 1 on 1 bonding, do something you both enjoy
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:12 AM
3

She probably just wants her cake on display and wants to eat it too
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:29 PM
1

At least 98% of the times you won't get anywhere
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:08 PM
1

It's also VERY likely not personal and could be plenty of people
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:28 AM
4

It very much will hurt his chances
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:27 AM
5

Try going more for who you feel is your type personality wise since that's your issue
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:06 PM
1

I mean... do you really want to? Also hard to say. Usually guys like these are pretty receptive but there's like a 30%-35% chance he'll still accept you
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:01 AM
3

Wtf... this was on your mind so much you felt you just had to post it in this thread?
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:46 AM
0

I'll say 16/17
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:58 AM
1

Sometimes it helps to just see yourself in third person
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:54 PM
1

I’m a virgin tbh. REALLY should include that in your post btw. I feel like you'd get different advice
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:03 PM
1

but it's kinda rare for high schoolers to go that far. It can't be that rare for human nature to prevent parties from getting it on even in Arabian cities. I'll respond later when I can with better advice though as I get a grasp on things
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:48 PM
1

Wait what country are you in and what are the hookup/dating expectations like?
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:36 PM
1

You good btw! So what I mean is see what gives her smiles, what makes her want to touch you, keep in mind things she likes to do with people she care about and keep doing that. But also don't do anything your not comfortable with regarding trying to change your personality for her while you are at it
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:26 PM
1

These same people would either not last all the way to the end for sex or will STILL lose interest after say a year because of it
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:14 PM
1

The best you can do is note would gives her the best reactionary continue with that while being yourself
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:01 PM
3

One night stands are almost impossible Impossible to have or to cut out without any ties?
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:22 AM
-1

Probably should hold off dating then
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:12 PM
1

Unless she's claiming you as she's venting, you mostly a platonic friend to her
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:07 AM
1

Care to explain?
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:00 AM
1

Oh Ima guy lmao Bit nah think about it, why would a girl shit test by venting? What she tryna do with that? If you pass, do they stop tryna shit test? Or what?
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:23 AM
1

No lol girls don't vent issues for shit testing lmao
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:13 PM
1

There's really things you need for getting humans: Independence Relevancy Breaking/Making Tension
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:48 PM
1

2nd that!
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:05 PM
2

You still talk to Joe?
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:56 AM
9

Collecting social skills, being friends with women that set you up, getting into frat parties, getting into sports/hobbies, trying out to be a pornstar, something man
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:21 AM
23

No, no, no, NO NO NO NOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOOO THAT IS A T TO THE TERRIBLE IDEA!!! I promise you that being 5'7 isn't anywhere near that detrimental to getting women. There are many, MANY other ways to go about this!
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:15 AM
1

This
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:17 AM
0

Overall yeah, it's just weird for that to be a follow up
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:47 AM
3

Op is 16, it's short but not that short lmao
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:39 AM
1

For encounters where that's the pinnacle of why yall are talking, I'll say advance within that moment. For longer terms, usually a month mote or less of just liking each other. There's no inbetween, just advancing in the moment or arbitrarily feel things out for a while
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:57 AM
1

You don't know this unless you get experience but even if you get her something she really likes, it won't have that impact that she'll like you once that moment is over. Overall it's best to be the person you want to be for this girl. Still though you can get her a present because she'll appreciate it in the moment!
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:40 PM
1

I don't see what the issue is, what could go wrong for you?
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:18 PM
1

106 isn't bad though
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:56 PM
1

Also one thing everyone is forgetting is that it was possible she never really wanted to actually do anything with him in the first place
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:49 AM
3

Fr I just saw this in two other posts and it shouldn't bother me yet sort of does
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:54 PM
3

This is mostly true
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:23 PM
3

It a guy came up to me and called me babe I’d look for the quickest way out of that conversation Well no shit you theopps
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:07 PM
1

Woooh as a guy I wanna say don't set her up for failure, guys may be interested in a girl coming for them but that could be to satisfy a side need and I don't even mean anything sexual. Essentially I think while guys are more accepting at propositions, they honestly stay fixated at their own crushes more usually
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:57 AM
2

As a black guy myself, I always assumed they hated being lumped in with black people or the stereotypes or anything
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:16 PM
-1

Subcategory of R. Kelly
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:02 PM
1

It's best if you take your personality traits and see what you feel will shine, practice them and be in surroundings that are into/support em So you're telling me all those girls that showed this were into me? I find that kind of hard to believe It's more lively you're confusing the two. I feel like if you are saying "all those girls" than it wasn't really subtle and wasn't the thing I meant per se. I guess the best question to ask is what do you expect a girl's life from a girl that theoretical…
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:36 PM
1

First you don't believe your a single person's type in this world of 3.5+ billion women and you also believe you're less than 0.00001% of the population to also be not a single person's type as well? If so then change that in any way. Second there's no reason a person should widen in interest (remember this is subtle, but it's there) to a stranger because that's just who they are. That's very different than just liking to socialize. They would have to do that with most people and I guarantee you…
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:05 PM
1

I suppose you're just not those people's type. Best way to know if it's working is if they light up or widen in a positive way before you really do anything
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:41 PM
1

It's not just happiness but confidence and having charisma
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:59 AM
2

Like the vibe you give off. The overall status she can feel just by your presence.
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:18 AM
2

Could be, or average guys with auras they like
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:16 AM
2

They want to be approached by who they want to be approached by
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:59 PM
2

He means 9/10 woman
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:18 AM
7

You lost your v card at 12 to a 17 year old?
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:37 AM
2

Well at least you cut her off... right?
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:09 PM
3

Wait there weren't any signs of this before you befriended her? She sounds like she likes to play games with you being her favorite lapdog. And that kinda stuff is hard to ignore from the jump unless you were in denial.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:06 AM
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