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DiscussionSwimmingAd9458/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:39 PM
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You need help. Therapy at best. Seek it. You're clearly projecting things I've never said to anyone. Listen, women don't date you for a reason. This reason is not shallowness. You probably look okay or even good/handsome. But your personality is something people would not want to experience. You're probably very empty inside if not creepy. PPD and RP men always whine 'bUt WaHmEnN aRE sHaLLoW!!!😓' nope, they just avoid your kind. it takes time to build a likeable and interesting personality. It t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:00 AM
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I didn't get the memo that the PPD sub is the Holy Bible of relationship dynamics ☹️ also where did I say that my gender is flawless? I literally said that women who settle end up as miserable cheaters too. Accept the truth: women don't want you. Not because you don't look good enough or you're not a Chad enough. Youre just probably an empty person at best, a fucking creep at worst. You need to be interesting and likeable in order to get laid. Work on yourself and stop eating the BS that PPD and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:19 AM
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I'm speaking as a woman, with many women in my friend circles with the same opinion but yeah. Teach us your divine knowledge on female sexual attraction 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:47 PM
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Being a back up plan doesn't sound right either! I hope you heal from that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:46 AM
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I had men picking me for this exact same reason, those relationships were the worst. It's sad to be picked for your looks and number of college degrees, and not be seen as a more complex human. I always felt like an object for being shown off :/ I guess children of narc parents tend to land such partners, but due to therapy I learned how to avoid such men and instead find people who appreciate every aspect of me, and see me as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:36 AM
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Nobody can be slut shamed for their past. But anybody can have a preference not to date serial one night standers. I strongly remember that on some stupid couples quiz TV show one local (male) celebrity's past came up as he had slept with a couple hundred women. His fiancee burst out crying because she clearly didn't know about this. I was also disgusted to learn this about him. If I were his gf I would have been very concerned about STDs and his overall spiritual connection to sex as an act. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:06 PM
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Any self-proclaimed nice guy I met was a huge creep with full disrespect towards women. The least harmful was 'only' ridiculing girls with body hair, to the worst one I had to call the cops because he stalked me and threatened me with various stuff only because I was not willing to date him. Nice guys don't promote themselves as nice, they just are nice people. Not just with women (...whom they like) but with every person they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:54 PM
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31F here. (lookswise: slim, blonde, good fashion sense). Whenever I meet a new social group (new workplace, new hobby, new sports mates, friends of friends) there's at least one or two guys who ask me out. However I deny their requests hence being in a relationship. Sometimes stranger men approach me as well, on public transport for example. When I was younger, my popularity was lower because I didn't look as good as today. Puberty hit me very weirdly causing problems with my skin and weight. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:00 AM
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I also did. I was told this from age 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:05 PM
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As selective as their options let them to. If a man's so afraid of competition, they're free to step up their game. Life is no fairytale to either gender. Women are told too, from a young age to look pretty, be good housewives with motherly instincts but also have a career and a crazy creativity in the bedroom. I'm getting tired of man complaining about having to go to the gym or growing a better fashion sense, maybe seeking a better job? If you want a good partner or even just want good sex wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:16 PM
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I don't fancy Jordan Peterson but he has this quite insightful speech about women being sexually pickier than men. Rightfully so. Eventually, when having sex, women carry the major consequences by getting pregnant - which is a life altering physical and material consequence, it limits their future prospects in many ways! Children need a huge effort and most of your free time! ofc money-wise having a baby affects a men too, but the women are the ones to carry and deliver the baby. And in case of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:22 AM
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I don't recall Mark Ruffalo playing a dumb character ever. For Jack Black I also dare to say that the most negative characteristic any of his roles had was "quirky". On the other hand, women portray weird losers on screen. Teri Hatcher's role in Desperate Housewives was so weird that SNL even made a skit about it. The curvy woman from pitch perfect also always stars in unbearable roles (the movie How to be single? comes to my mind). And don't get me started on Zoey Deschanel's nonsense in New Gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:52 PM
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Thank you! I, especially, have no problem with the looks of Jack Black or Mark Ruffalo. But they don't really have female equivalents (maybe the blonde, curvy actress from pitch perfect, but I cannot list anyone else being even remotely different from the skinny, conventionally attractive trophe)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:36 PM
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Because given the patriarchal society we live in, women's value is still primarily perceived by their looks. Just look at Hollywood. Every famous actress is exceptionally pretty while actors have a wide diversity in attractiveness. "For every Chris Hemsworth there's a Mark Ruffalo and a Jack Black". Actresses, even if they play an ugly duckling in the movie, are above average pretty and slim. So little girls are conditioned to look pretty no matter what. This is rule number 1. It comes before as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:26 PM
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Beautifully said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:06 PM
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This man never loved her. I'm so sad to read stories like this and I hope she continues her treatment! Kudos to her sister for jumping in when the LVM left. I think a good vetting strategy is to talk about health conditions with your boyfriend, very early into the relationship. Most people have minor or bigger health problems. Your guy's reactions to hearing about your health problems says a lot about his personality. Also it's useful to observe them when you have a cold or menstrual cramps and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:31 AM
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Being single or taken have both their ups and downs. One should learn to appreciate the good parts that come with either being single or taken. I usually see many people being constantly sad about not being in a relationship/not being single anymore which is a bit immature I guess. Although imho there's nothing wrong with wanting and working towards having a relationship when you're single. Also if you don't feel good with your partner and want the single life back, maybe you should break up bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:26 AM
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Kept texting me constantly after breakup, because he still wanted to suck every ounce of verbal intimacy out of me. He acted like he hadn't dumped me ever although he had and sometimes he even had the guts to brag about his new dates. Eventually I had to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 10:39 AM
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What really amuses me that many purple pill commenters act like looks is the only fucking thing a woman (or a man) possesses. Personality-wise the deepest thing they can think of is that said woman has to cook, clean, and not nag her partner. This kinda shallowness produces many single, unhappy people. Same applies to men's own qualities: they blame their unsuccessful dating history only on their looks. That women only go for the top X most good looking men. This is simply not true. Having an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:40 AM
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If you treat them as unquestionnable truths, you don't do science, you do religion. This statement is so beautiful, may I copy it and use it in other discussions? Some people clearly don't understand science (usually they're not official academics even) and this statement puts them in their place so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:26 AM
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More (monogamous, committed) couples are going too meet via OLD. More people are going to come out as bisexuals. (Due to the LGBT stigma slowly fading away) Polyamory will be more accepted especially in big cities. Less women will commit to LTRs or marriage due to the parallel rise of red pill movements and FDS. Birthdates slowly start to fall (other factors also have a role in here, like economy and climate change)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:49 PM
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Looks fade for men and women too. Most girls I know have the standard for men to be well groomed, well dressed, good with conversations and holding a decent job. There's a guy from my social circles who is above average good looking, works out, tall, blonde hair, etc but he has a hard time dating. I never knew why until I have found out that he's an exceptionally dumb creep with no special interests and weird sexual fantasies. Meanwhile average Joe's playing DND with an acceptable dress sense an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:23 PM
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We might be on the same page about this one! Even tho marriage needs a short (!) dating/courting process before making it official, just to make sure you're not tying the knot with a shitty person. But I think these relationships should be not more than 1-2 years, especially if the parties are above 25-27 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:13 PM
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"family" as a term means a traditional family for me. Like marriage plus (optionally) kids. My personal opinion is that staying away from a life-awaited opportunity for your partner needs a higher level of commitment from said partner. For me marriage is higher level than just dating. I'm very traditional in these things. Marriage (even engagement) is a mutual promise that we never ever leave each other's side and always support our partner. A relationship without this commitment has more risks,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:01 PM
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Definitely. "Career or relationship" and not "career or family". Some commenters even pointed out that marriage/kids are a huge factor in this decision, opposed to a childless relationship on a lower level of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:10 PM
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I get what you say, I actually stumbled upon this in my life. I got my dream job at a local company, later to realise that most people working there are fucking bullies. This is a valid reason to have second thoughts about choosing the dream job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:38 PM
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I'm a she, and I'm interested in anyone's POV. I don't think there is a universal truth for this. However, I happened to disagree with some people but that was loosely related to the topic (one iconic debate thread under this post is about whether west Europe is a desirable destination to move to). Anyway. Don't make hard assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:43 AM
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Some don't put money over relationships, they just happen to have a good degree in a well paying field. A woman working in tech or as a doctor doesn't necessarily ignore her family or partner. Having a good paying job or a good family life are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:50 AM
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What about women in high paying jobs? They exist. Some women are breadwinners. What you describe is a legit family model but some people differ from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:48 PM
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Interesting concept. I might not live by this but thank you for sharing, it makes me wonder about priorities! People on both sides in this thread clearly make good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:29 PM
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Omg I heard about that girl on social media and damn. Even if I didn't love my SO anymore I would stay with them and try to make them as happy as I can if they had saved my life before. Out of pure respect, if not even the big 'love' which fades anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:25 PM
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Back in the single days I simply told them I'm uninterested and hoped for them not being psychopaths trying to kill me for revenge. (Only two of them turned out to be psycho) I do NOT entertain low effort texting and ghosting. That's humiliating. It's only justifiable if, in case of honestly turning him down, you're afraid to be harassed or physically hurt as a consequence by him .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:12 PM
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Britain is in Northwestern Europe. Spain is in western Europe. Switzerland is also located in the central West and is a beloved destination for eastern European people to migrate to. Finland is part of the Nordic that you were denying to be desirable 2 comments ago... Having a colony for a country (for pure historical reasons) is not the same as citizens of a country desiring to move abroad for political and financial reasons in the 2010s and 2020s. I enjoy listening to people with opinions that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:07 PM
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Where do they leave for? The US? Talking about living expenses, maybe not. Middle East? Not the most peaceful rn. Russia? Well unless you're lgbtq then maybe but not every city is like st Petersburg so its still a risky business and not a major improvement to EE. Japan, NZ, Canada and Australia are also expensive but after WE only they seem reasonable to move to, yet they're not crowded with Dutch, German , etc people. (I have not enough info about the rest of the world to judge their standard o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:51 PM
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The time to move to the West was 20 years ago. Today it's lol. People are moving from the West now. Ukrainian people might disagree... probably some others too. For many of us out here the Nordic or Benelux states are the fucking dream. But I don't want to make this thread political, I just don't see so many people running away from the west/north. I appreciate the statement about choosing your relationship tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:02 PM
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All the forever girlfriends I know were dreaming about marriage back in the day but after dating for 5+ years and no ring, they convinced themselves it was just a piece of paper, yada yada. From my friend group 4 women are affected by this. I feel guilty because I had never mentioned them that maybe their boyfriends were not really into them. Should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:16 PM
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