SwimmingSeason Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Woke schools / States and minors... how does that work?	Discussion	SwimmingSeason	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 03:07 AM
0	"The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men.	Discussion	SwimmingSeason	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 01:06 AM

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1	How Much of Guys Being Sex Obsessed is Socially Constructed? If I recall its women who label men as less valuable for not having sex. And its women who chase men who look like they have more sex or have a partner. A wedding ring gets more attention from women than the reverse. And I also recall women have more sex and more sexual partners. And it's women who push movies and books like 50 shades of Gray to the top. I have yet to see men push a smut film to the top of cinema. I mean heck, look at HBO. The moment a show has a bunch of sex scenes it's literal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 11:08 PM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. I will gladly take the bet to ensure you that Women have hit and attacked more men than the reverse. If you account any form of hitting someone as abuse ( as it should ). You would easily find out definitely in couples. That the woman hit the guy 100s of times before he actually hit her back. Just because it doesn't do damage does not make it not abuse. Yet society allows and jokes about women hitting men constantly. If someone hit a child but didnt hurt them, that would STILL be abuse. But we a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:15 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Women rulers started more wars btw. Dartmouth Scar Experiment \| Younique (aknowbrainer.com) (PDF) Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued characteristics on social interaction (researchgate.net) "Acknowledging Facial Stigmas to Reduce Discrimination" by Juan M. Madera and Mikki Hebl (bgsu.edu) Gender and responses to disfigurement in self and others. (apa.org)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:06 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Dartmouth Scar Experiment \| Younique (aknowbrainer.com) (PDF) Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued characteristics on social interaction (researchgate.net) "Acknowledging Facial Stigmas to Reduce Discrimination" by Juan M. Madera and Mikki Hebl (bgsu.edu) Gender and responses to disfigurement in self and others. (apa.org)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:06 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Check my other comment. I linked 4 studies on the matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:05 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Implicit attitudes about gender and emotion are associated with mothers’ but not fathers’ emotion socialization. (apa.org) Its women who push for less emotion in men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:03 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Wait till I tell you that its WOMEN who force that mindset and not men. The Irony of the "Patriarchy" is all that is was a bunch of social norms based around on what women WANTED and what made society move forward. Women wouldnt do the things needed for us to stay alive. So men did them and took power because without authority but all the burden.. thats slavery. If women didnt want to fight to gather resources ( that she needed ) what are we supposed to do? Just die? If women didnt want to provi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:03 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. If you look up the stats of violent men for assault crimes. It's like .3% of the population of men. Yet women use that as an excuse to attack men on the subject. But men are supposed to trust getting married when its at 50%+ divorce rates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:57 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Is this because anything that shows poorly on women is thrown away? Kinda like how they would purposely leave out questions for women but give them to men to prove men were more Narcs? Still trying to see how they will blame Men for women being the larger audience for violent porn. Or the fact 50 shades of Gray was promoted to the top by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:54 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. And theres a study that shows if men were treated the same by the legal system as women. Meaning same crime. There would be 80% Less men in prison at all times. Another one done ( in the UK ) showed that Women were charged more often with human trafficking crimes. Because it is easier for women to Trick people to going with them alone. See Epstein as an example. They always have a Female counter part who scouts for future victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:52 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Dartmouth Scar Experiment \| Younique (aknowbrainer.com) (PDF) Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued characteristics on social interaction (researchgate.net) "Acknowledging Facial Stigmas to Reduce Discrimination" by Juan M. Madera and Mikki Hebl (bgsu.edu) Gender and responses to disfigurement in self and others. (apa.org)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:49 AM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. There was a study done that showed that Women will make themselves a victim almost 100% of the time. The study had women wear fake makeup of facial scars. These women were told they would do job interviews to look for discrimination against facial disfigurements. Before sending the women off they removed the makeup while telling these women they were being touched up. So the women didnt know they had nothing on their faces. Every single woman came back from the interviews saying they were discri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 01:00 AM
1	Women are unable to handle rejection How so? if women are UNABLE to choose? The one thing they are supposed to do and cant? Hench why Bumble had to allow men to message first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 12:53 AM
1	If a Woman claims to have been raped, regardless of if she's telling the truth, is she more likely to be believed or not? We live in a time where if a man was in a place of "power" sex with him no matter how long ago is considered rape. Imagine playing guitar at a party. After playing your set you go join the party and have a few drinks. One girl comes up to you and is relentless trying to hook up with you. You both have a good time and part ways. She brags about fucking the lead guitarist. and so on. What happens 15 years later? She grows up and "Matures". And now decides to claim rape because now in her new view …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 02:32 AM
1	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. "She gets half of assets earned during the marriage because of equal participation in home maintenance, raising kids, etc. and she put her career on hold for that. Or he did. " This one is wrong. Based on the fact when women refuse to date men who make less than her. Or will leave a man once she gets more than him. Divorce increases when a woman wins the lotto. Even a simple pay increase of $5k more increases divorce to 90%. Lesbians have the highest rates of divorce and gay men the lowest. Beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:32 PM
–	Question for women who have/had hookups & FWB: What's your perception of men who can only get sex in a relationship? You have to define "settle". Because many of us men dont find super models attractive and honestly the opposite. Id rather have a Proxy paige / Cody vore type than a Megan fox type anyday. One feels more human VS the other a soulless doll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:15 PM
1	What do you believe about emotional availability? "Emotional availability" for men isnt just about love or money. When women say they want us to be Emotional availability they dont mean weak and seeking help. Emotional availability for men means being a woman's emotional tampon. Its MORE WORK. And after doing this for every other woman we tried dating we get tired, worn out. Men value peace above all. And weirdly enough once we stop being Emotional availability guess what? Women now want to fuck us. Women chase us and so on. We are rewarded by …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:09 PM
1	At this point, is being married and having a family just something that doesn’t happen anymore? 36 here. I have no plans on ever getting married. Legally there isnt anything in it for me but financed suicide. Imagine buying someone a watch. Then buying yourself the same watch the same day. Then they leave you. Now they keep their watch but also get half of yours. plus you have to keep paying for their new watches or you go to prison. Women in their 20s taught me to never be a "Husband". And women in their 30s just want to punish me based on what the men she chose over me did to her in her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:01 PM
58	Men can now message first on Bumble Never understood how women messaging first was an issue? Women complain about having too many men to message back. So now women could simply message and keep the guys they were interested in. Her inbox would never be overwhelming or full because matches expire if she never messaged them. The app Screams "WOMEN MESSAGE FIRST" like 3 times when signing up. Prompts women to send the first message when they get matches and so on. You would have to be braindead to not know that. How hard is it for wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:48 PM
-1	Women are unable to handle rejection There's a difference between rejection and being toyed with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:32 PM
7	Women are unable to handle rejection I will converse with them then tell them they have horrible communication skills and unmatch them lol. I cant stand it. If she just sends a "hi" it means she has 20 other dudes in her inbox that she also sent hi too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:31 PM
1	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. 60-70% of all purchases in the USA are done so by women. 80% of all consumer debt ( Credit Cards) is women. The 3rd or 4th largest destroyer of the environment is Fast fashion. Women are TWICE as likely to respond to internet Ads. Women are literally responsible for the majority of consumerism in the USA that contributes to the destruction of the planet and most men's wallets. How do women make more money, own more homes and are more educated yet have more Credit card debt? I dont recall which c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:28 PM
2	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. And the men who didnt go were shamed by women who were demanding the right o vote and NOT have the responsibly of going to war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:23 PM
0	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. The point of giving women free money for school was to put more women in school. But again who was keeping women out of school? Look in the 1950s of women making discoveries in the medical fields and so on. So youre telling me women int he 1950s were not allowed to go to school but there were women with degrees in biology making medical discoveries? Now that there are MORE women with degrees, MORE women with homes, MORE women making more money. Why is the support STILL given to women over men? W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 09:16 PM
-12	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. Women can literally choose to be anything they want. With FREE Money for school. FREE training in many fields that literally will reject men for women. Tons of government programs that literally give women tax breaks and free money for JUST being women. A Woman can come in 7,000 Place in skills compared to the other male applicants and will still be chosen over men. Entire sports leagues of women based on the fact that their top professionals are making millions, yet any record they set can and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 02:02 AM
-3	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. The current system doesnt work. Main reason is simple. Women DO NOT WANT TO WORK. Actually work. The entire system that allows women to work ONLY is possible due to the work of men. Roads, Buildings, Protection. Even the currency itself having ANY kind of value. All comes from the labor of men. Men are simple. We dont need or want very much. Much of what makes men tick are moral codes and ideals. And we build /aquire things around them. The majority of consumerism comes from Women. Women base th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 12:11 AM
-6	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. Onlyfans begs to differ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 12:02 AM
0	Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes exist No one tells women to date "Undesirable men". No men are telling women to date abusive, ugly, fat, jobless loser men. Yet women assume this. Date a man who has hobbies, a degree, a job, takes care of himself. Doesnt do drugs, doesnt commit crimes and so on. Which is the MAJORITY of men. But these men are deemed "Undesirable" because they arent in the top 5% of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 04:42 AM
1	Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes exist Which again does not make the man "Undesirable". One person not liking a food doesnt make that food "Undesirable". Yet women think its ok to literally deem the entire population of men as diseased or something for not being some imaginary standard these women cant get themselves because by her own standards she would be literally LESS than "undesirable".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/24 08:07 PM
5	Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes exist "Undesirable men" , WTF does that even mean? Every man who isnt the top %5 of men? If men called a woman "Undesirable" it would be because she is the bottom %10. Overweight, health issues, Mentally ill, a sex worker and so on. Men dont label women who arent the top 5% "Undesirable". Yet for women "Undesirable men" are literally all the men who arent a fairytale. Its stupid. If most women dated men that were literally the same as her none of this would be an issue. Soo tired of women who are 6/10…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/24 05:11 AM
–	Woke schools / States and minors... how does that work? Yes. But in states and say school boards who are heavily pushing these things. So much in fact that they double down on the stupid when its happening. They would in fact fall into this situation if it happened. They wouldnt talk biology. These are the same places that say if a woman has ONE drink she is unable to consent and take back consent even a week later for any reason. Thus rendering the man a rapist. Doesnt matter if she asked him out, bought him drinks. Drugged him. Took him back to her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 04:31 PM
1	Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare] Hate to break it to you. But men are NOT privileged. There isn't a single benefit of being a man in western countries. No woman who became a man has ever agreed with your statement. Norah Vincent. The divorce rates. Even the legal system has shown if men were treated like women there would be 80% LESS men in prison at ALL times. Every single issue faced today with the genders comes from the fact that women are expecting equality While still DEMANDING men to be traditional. Every single metric sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 08:07 PM
–	Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare] Same thing in college as well. I remember literally having a 2 year degree BEFORE applying for my BA. I was pretty much ahead of all my classmates and had a portfolio of work geared towards my field while my class mates were all fumbling with student work. When we graduated all the female classmates found jobs easily. They didnt have any UX or UI or game engine experience. No 3D work. But they got roles and promotions in all types of gaming and tech companies. I was looked over again and again. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 04:49 AM
–	Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare] Women create their own problems. Its that simple. "it's too dangerous to walk alone at night." But vote for polices that put more prisoners onto the streets. Vote for polices that make it illegal for men to defend them. Women constantly do this. Instead of taking accountability for a problem they will just make it harder for men to solve the issue. Women would rather destroy everything around them because they refuse to give up privilege. Men are forced to be in power because of this dynamic. Wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 04:39 AM
1	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” Thats just One instance of many from women. Wasnt like I was doing it on purpose. I was just being a good person to someone I knew and did projects with for years. I even fundraised her cancer treatment when I saw no one donated to it. Met through my artwork at the time and she was a customer of mine way back at the start before I knew it. I had an ex who I was engaged to. Highschool sweetheart. Aborted my child ( her choice ). Then turned around and blamed it on me and left. Spent years stalkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 12:43 AM
1	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” Easy. Walking the walk and not just talking it. Women constantly list out awful things that have been done to them. But these same women will literally do the same things X10 to others. How many women complain about being cheated on? Being ditched? But literally cheat and ditch people all the time? How many women scream from the rooftops about empathy, being heard and expressing emotions? But turn around and gaslight a man for expressing his insecurities of not being heard or valued in a relatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 09:12 PM
2	Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from? 80/20 rule came up roughly 10-15 years ago. OkCupid was free. Had better filtering tools. It allowed people to search not swipe. And even let you look up keywords in profiles. The 80/20 came from there. It showed that 80% of men found 80% of women attractive. But 80% of women only found 20% of men attractive. Ok cupid use to do all kinds of research data studies and publish them. Over the years those numbers gotten worst with swiping apps. Because those apps do not allow you to see less popular …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 03:22 AM
1	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” The majority of women speak from privilege and ignorance. You will be surprised how many times women ask the most obvious questions of men. With the millions of red pill videos, mgtow articles and so on there are women out there who have ZERO clue. They will post shit asking men " Why dont you approach us?" , "Why do men not want to marry?" and other painfully obvious as day concerns. Why? Because just like in dating women dont have to chase anything. The idea of looking things up, learning is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 03:14 AM
1	It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated. I will expand it and say there is an issue when Women abuse their power of choice. Aka sleeping around. When women create a "Contest" so she can "Have the best". What happens when shes giving out the prize for free? The other men no longer value it. Why would he work hard is shes giving it to that other man for free? You end up with hookup culture where only the #1 men are allowed access to sex. Which again creates a situation where women give themselves to those with money and status. The #1 me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 07:06 AM
2	It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated. "Toxic" traits are ONLY Toxic because the men are not hot. The truth of the matter is this. Imagine 3 tiers in society. The top is #1. Those are the hot rich men. the second tier are most women. And the bottom #3 is men. In the past #2 and #3 were are on the same level. This was because both men and women had a distinct advantage. Men had strength and women had Choice ( Attention ). But as society evolved, mens advantage was punished. This in turn pushed men below women to tier #3. When women ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 04:25 AM
1	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with I tried asking this question and it was denied. In the USA you see this constantly in the news. Men are labeled with every form of rape possible. But women are "having a relationship". No mention of rape. Tell me this? If "girls mature faster than boys". And girls are "more mature than boys". If a 25 year old man is pursued by a 17 year old party girl with a 20+ body count. Why is that rape? Isn't she more mature for her age? Isn't that what the data says for girls being smarter than boys? But. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 09:09 PM
1	Dating vs Marriage Not when the Husband does not agree to it. You cant have 1 party do whatever they want while the other is FORCED to pay for it. And then FORCE that same party to pay for them breaking off the agreement. By that stupid logic when I quit my job my wife should be forced to pay for me. And then forced to pay me when I cheat on her and leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 03:44 AM
3	Dating vs Marriage My old manager had two kids with a woman. He had a VERY good job. Like $400k+ a year good. He was an overall nice guy. Kids loved him, had a great home and was always talking about the things he did with his family. He put in a TON of effort into his marriage. His wife wanted a divorce one day. Turns out she was cheated and got knocked up by the other guy. So she was trying to split before it became known. She refused to work during the marriage. Refused to go to college. Refused to work to be a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 09:56 PM
1	Why is there a shame in expressing your masculinity? Its called "German syndrome". Being shamed for the actions of other men. Or actions that never happened but women are told could happen. The Irony? If you ignore them and be that asshole of a man you are now better than the other men. Listening to women creates weak men that women themselves dont want. So the best thing you can do is view the rampant messaging to be weak as a filter for weak men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 02:46 AM
1	Men Have Abandoned Women "hey, I've have a new job coming up that I need to study for. It's a huge career opportunity for me. I've been putting off preparations to spend time with you, can you help me out a little bit and perhaps let me study a bit with interruptions?" Her reply was to dump me. "I'm needing to save up for a coming doctor's appointment. I've paid for all the dates. Can we do something a little more relaxing and quiet?" She, a strong independent liberal BBM supporting white woman who has her own house and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:59 PM
1	Why are redpillers sore about marriage? Hate to break it to you but 40k isn't that much. After taxes and so on. Imagine losing your $300k home, paying child support and alimony because you now make $30k more. All of which can be taken away at any moment when you're laid off. Then imagine going to prison for not having a job to pay her. And then imagine how difficult that career move is afterwards with a record.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:53 PM
0	Why are redpillers sore about marriage? My Grandma did chores for a few hours a day. Then went to work. Why? Because she had nothing else to do at home while the kids were in school. She got a job JUST to get herself out of the house. She still made dinner, Still made breakfast. And packed lunches. She was forever grateful to my Grandpa for working and providing. That man was in BOTH World Wars. In the Air force BEFORE there was an Airforce. So this whole idea that women were "Slaves" doing chores is false. Unless these women lived in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:32 AM
2	Why are redpillers sore about marriage? Same thing happens with the "Pay a % of your income". As soon as the wife makes more then its no longer a valid way to split bills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:27 AM
2	Why are redpillers sore about marriage? Thats still faulty logic. If they both work 10 years her taking off 2 years doesnt entitle her to that. Because who was paying that time off? If anything she should be paying him for allowing her to take that time off. Ive seen couples where the wife Refuses to do anything with her life. She makes the choice to not get an education, not go to work. There is hardly a career advantage in 1-3 years. And again what does that have to do with her? Did she fund his career? Did she do actual work to get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:25 AM
2	Why are redpillers sore about marriage? The way I look at it. A Man brings 5 Apples. A Woman brings the basket. Now? A Woman brings 5 Apples and demands the man bring 1000 apples. If he brings a basket? NO he isnt a real man. But If I already have 5 apples..... Why do I need to bring 1000 to match her 5?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:20 AM
2	What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender? Thats the Halo Effect. Women will see a hot person and apply positive traits to them. Even when those traits have never been displayed by him and he clearly is an asshole. " He is so kind and generous" just from a single photograph of him ( mugshot )	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:14 AM
0	Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave. Women do the same thing when labeling men "Losers". If he sits around playing video games smoking weed he is a loser. But if she sits around on Social media all day drinking wine she isnt? Emotional Maturity is the ability to self reflex, look at yourself. And choose the correct way to react to a problem and improve it. When Men do this by Default women label it with all kind of shaming language. Then Women do the exact opposite of that and try to label themselves as emotionally mature because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:09 AM
1	Women who are looking for a father not a partner. I think its more ironic women vote Dem while at the same time wanting a man to be the protector. Women have set it up so men cant do anything to protect women. While at the same time getting mad at men for not being men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 12:28 AM
2	Men Have Abandoned Women As a man deep down in my soul im always wanting to be helpful and caring towards women. But over the years I simply stopped. Women just feel entitled to my time and energy and never return the favor. Even when you are in a relationship with them or are best friends. Thinking back the last 20 years. My ex drove me to work one time because I was having car issues back in college. Thats the only thing I can remember a woman doing for me. Most of the time its just assumed I will give them money, pay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 12:25 AM
–	The Hottest Women Are MILFS I wont deny Thick women are sexy. But I also think Milfs are attractive mainly because they generally have less ego. Less games ( most of the times ). And dont really shame you as a man for enjoying sex. The loose skin on the gut gets to me tho. Thats the ONE no. I enjoy Natasha nice and Cody Vore and Proxy Paige type thick Prior to the mommy gut. I will admit I only been with Milfs who had a rather large flap. That was mainly because they put on and loss a ton of weight VS taking care of themse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 12:20 AM
1	Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men? Someone else wrote this perfectly. Society has been set up to have women's needs met from men, but not men's needs being met from women. Men growing up are taught and told everything they do in life is to be a good husband. To work hard, and put everything aside for others. Even mothers react negatively to boys expressing emotions. ( Not fathers ). So you end up with Boys having to work to prove themselves to be loved. They are denied it and spend most of their lives building themselves up to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 01:46 AM
1	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options The point is that most people deny this and try to pretend it's not an issue. That's what the OP is going for. If we didn't discuss this, point it out it wouldn't be a matter of not dating those types of people. Because it wouldn't be looked at as a Red flag. Women know this is what they use social media for and are shaming men to accept this behavior. Just ignoring it doesn't change. Men as a whole need to stand up and start having standards. Because women aren't going to have them for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 01:31 AM
1	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options Dont get me wrong. I have a few women I do the same for. I even pop a Viagra without telling them so they really have a good time. Some have Husbands or Bfs. Many are Traveling. Some are "Not looking for hookups". Even funnier when they try to make me jealous with another dude and I dont care. ( That pisses them right off ). But when you date these chicks, they always hold out or catch feels for these dudes. Never know when they will hit up her inbox. I ghost them and sometimes just blunty say I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:55 AM
2	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options You are actually wrong. This one has been shown and researched.A Woman in a relationship does not want strangers looking at her half naked body online. She wouldnt want stalkers taking photos of her in public. Posting photos online, and self sexualization has been directly linked to women Competing with other women. When there are high value men to compete over, the images increases. This has been tested on college campuses and in larger cities.When there are less men to date competition increas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:48 AM
8	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options Social media in itself is one of the worst things to happen to women. Its worst than video game and porn addiction. Why? Because its BOTH of those things but IRL. Social media is like a AR video game. ( Augmented reality ). When studied it shows and from basic truth of women themselves. Instagram and so on is the largest Dating app on the market. Most profiles on apps like Tinder are women collecting men to her instagram and other socials. Its shown when women are competing with one another AKA …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:40 AM
2	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options The issue is that her options require no effort. And his does. Dating app profiles? She has to put no effort in there. While the man has to pay and swipe a TON and work hard to get a small group of numbers. Those contacts and links took paying for dates and so on. I know, Ive deleted my dating apps a few times and removed numbers from my phone because she asked me. And of course it turns out she never did numerous times. The women I cut off wont talk to me again. The dudes she cut off? WILL talk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:28 AM
-7	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options This one is rather simple. A woman isnt going to be friends with the ugly dude. Shes going to call him a creep and never talk to him again. And the woman who thinks shes "One of the guys". If she is even half decent looking will just simply be surrounded with a bunch of dudes who want to bone her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:24 AM
3	Men should not commit to women until they close all their options Lol I hear the shaming before I even made it to this post. Cant say I dont disagree. Ive dated a few women who wanted me to delete my dating apps and so on. Did I? Sure. Did she? No. Every single one of those women ghosted or dumped me. Because she kept her options open while demanding exclusivity from me. I dont even use social media. So Its always a one sided of her being in constant contact with other men. Or shes collecting men while shes dating me. And if that pump and dump comes back aroun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 02:21 AM