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False AccusationSwingstar731/r/MensRights11/11/21 09:48 AM
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False AccusationSwingstar731/r/MensRights31/12/23 08:23 PM
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GeneralSwingstar731/r/MensRights24/02/24 11:39 PM
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ProgressSwingstar731/r/MensRights30/03/23 04:36 AM
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irrelevant. wrong-headed. religious. conspiratorial.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 04:31 PM
17

Bullshit. My ex falsely accused me of all matters of violence towards her and everyone believes it and turned against me knowing full well she was cheating on me and trying to cover it up and get me locked up so she could get away with it. The problem was that everyone listened to her and nobody listened to me. I never got justice. She destroyed my life.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 11:24 AM
7

Nope, she was able to redo college all over again at a different school and she married the homewrecker and they live comfortably and she is pursuing her dream and everything. She grew even closer to the girls that all helped her get away with the lies and has lots of friends. Karma isn't real. And even if it was, none of it has come her way.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 10:28 PM
30

My ex cheated on me AND falsely accused me of rape as a way if covering her own ass and I got labeled a stalker and harasser for trying to confront her as she ran off ghosting me after years of being together. I hate everything about the situation and I feel trapped in her abuse. And I feel it's a crime what happened to me. But nobody cares.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 03:05 PM
5

Gay guys have been wildly aggressive and assaulting towards me. I’m a straight guy. I’ve been hit on by more gay guys in my life than women. They have often tried to turn me gay. They insist on things like “a mouth is a mouth, who cares?” Or “I think you might be a little gay” while I’m actively telling them no. One day I was walking home when this guy in a car starts asking me for directions. I give him the directions and then he says that he likes my “dick print” and asks to see it. I tell him…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 12:53 PM
1

Troll
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:28 AM
1

You have no clue
/r/MensRights25/02/24 04:25 AM
1

Likewise.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:26 AM
0

Troll
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:24 AM
2

Thanks dude, I'm glad you understood the situation for what it is. That other guy seems like a troll purposefully misconstruing things just to be aggravating.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:23 AM
3

Thank you for the backup man. It's sadly needed even here.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:19 AM
1

I wouldn't want your advice. I've been attacked from all angles and if you can't see that then the problem is with you. Calling me overly defensive is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:18 AM
3

I would think the same but for what it's worth mentioning, the coworkers are mother and daughter that are kind of "teacher you forgot to assign homework" types. They are problematic in their own way because they are very vocal super Christians. I think that it was basically a case of women siding with women just because and the "the customer is always right" thing was more just like the convenient go to thing to say. Because frankly, the boss wants us to charge people. There is a big difference …
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:15 AM
7

That makes no sense.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:11 AM
6

Thanks man for being real. I'm getting so much hate right now in the comments it's making me wonder if this community is even worth anything.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:10 AM
2

That makes no sense at all.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:09 AM
4

Go away.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:07 AM
2

And you do?
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:06 AM
1

Thank you for the kind response and understanding that these grammar Nazis are ridiculous and counter to the real purpose of supporting men's rights considering they are now trying to get me censored.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:55 AM
-4

Actually some people have read what I wrote and managed not to bitch and complain.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:54 AM
5

I would but my state is a fire at will state so basically it doesn't matter why I was fired, the state won't care.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:53 AM
-7

Please learn to read.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:52 AM
0

You are just a hater. I'm done with you too. Fuck you for reporting my post you douche.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:51 AM
7

Because I have morals? And perhaps because I would get in trouble if I didn't charge them.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:50 AM
2

I have a master's degree. I can format in APA if I wanted to. The reason I don't have a better job is because of a woman destroying my life. Quit being a bigot.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:47 AM
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I didn't "make it hard for people to understand". I wrote what I wrote. Then you showed up to complain. I'm dealing with enough crap in my life as is and now here you are just piling in ridiculous grammar crap. If you can't read what I wrote then the problem is with you and your eyesight. You say I am upset but you are the one that is taking issue. I'm just telling you I don't care.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:45 AM
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That's exactly what a grammar Nazi would say. If you can't decipher it then you aren't the type of person I'd want advice from anyways.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:33 AM
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Can you explain what you mean by housing authority? Also what good do you think calling the lenders would do?
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:20 AM
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Wow, a grammar Nazi. So original.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:17 AM
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Bro,*
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:05 AM
0

No I referenced South Park. You are just to stupid to understand shit. Once again, fuck off.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:25 PM
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Fuck off asshole.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 10:50 PM
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Being autistic won't be you credibility. I actually made a valid point and you are just ignoring it and being a jerk actually. That's like if I said you being autistic is your parents fault.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:42 AM
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You just legit triggered me with those words. You think people choose to be abused? Hell no. To me it sounds like you aren't being supportive but rather making a snide remark about the quality of the man. If you are playing poker and you bet on a pair of aces against 7-2 and lose to 2 pair then did you choose poorly? Nah you played like a champ with your pocket aces. 7-2 sucks balls. But sometimes the universal odds of probability are fucking crazy and shit just happens. It's not really your fau…
/r/MensRights10/02/24 07:56 PM
1

Not true. That's just the brainwashing telling you that. Also thats completely off topic anyways.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 01:34 PM
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As an antitheist I think it would serve you well to look up Richard Dawkins documentary "The Root Of All Evil". In it he argues that all religious mentalities no matter how they present themselves are fundamentally similar and dangerous. The guy who believes that a magical gnome wants him to be nice to dogs clearly presents himself benevolently whereas the guy who hears the magical fairy that tells him to kick dogs presents himself malevolently. But are they REALLY so different? If that man who …
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:01 AM
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I wish I could take my accused to court but it's like the way my life worked it was like 1. Be broke college kid 2. Date girl for 2.5 years. 3. Girl cheats and covers it up by falsely accusing me 4. Everyone turns against me without even giving me a chance. 5. Graduate poor and homeless 6. Struggle just to survive. 7. Economy goes to shit 8. Struggle more. 9 economy goes to shit again 10. Struggle more. Had I been able to establish myself after college I would have been able to navigate everythi…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 09:18 PM
1

When I was falsely accused by my cheating college girlfriend that was trying to cover it up and frame me so she could get away with it nobody cared at all. Not my family. Not the school. Not the police. Not my friends. My life has been in ruins ever since 2009 and still nobody cares. It's all I talk about too. I should be one of these guys in one of these articles but nobody cares about me.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 04:21 AM
2

I'm not sure why you are asking the question and it feels awkward being asked to make a comparison and judge who has it worse between men and women in regards to religion. Saying religion is a problem for men and lgbtq's isn't a statement against nor in ignorance of women. But I am suspicious that you may be wanting me to say "men have it worse" so that you will have an excuse to be outraged.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:27 AM
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Yeah
/r/MensRights05/01/24 03:23 AM
6

Since there is a conversation here, I think it is fair to say that men and gay people share a common enemy. Religion. Religion tries to prescribe gender roles and promotes hatred against LGBTQs. For example, circumcision is a men's rights issue that puts us at odds with religion which would seek to genitally mutilate us.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:19 PM
6

Good point. Yeah that is true about women having support networks and probably being bad news if they don't.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 11:08 PM
5

Thank you for the understanding. I usually try to keep the money in my bank account as much as possible but I get paid cash at work every day so I always have cash coming back with me and since I have bills and stuff I have to account for I've gotten into this habit of having little baggies that I stick a certain amount in each day to try to reach my goals. ($80 a day for rent, $5 towards my credit cards, $1 towards clothing, $20 towards towards a Roth IRA, $1 a day for supplements, etc.) she ba…
/r/MensRights31/12/23 09:53 PM
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So basically, I have a shitty life. I'm living out of a motel room I can barely afford. I'm making it work but I'm working 7 days a week to barely squeak by each week. So there is this woman staying in the room next to me, we hit it off as friends after finding out we have mutual connections and stuff (she knows people I used to live with). She tells me she is struggling to afford her rent and we relate over that. The motel manager guy actually suggests that if we would be cool splitting a room …
/r/MensRights31/12/23 09:21 PM
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Its literally anywhere and everywhere
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:59 PM
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I would say that a good 90% of the time when I meet women, the first and only thing they want to know about me is how much money I have, and when they find out I'm not wealthy they never talk to me again.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:47 AM
1

To me after a quick read down I get this impression like you probably said something about this divided up bill that made her feel like you were being weird/different/sketchy/cheap/questioning in regards to the bill. And then you are proposing this sort of meritocracy of who pays what according to salary with this stereotypedbvision of man 60 woman 40 and she's just tearing into that idea like "so what if you are in a wheelchair you still have to pay 60?" And it's just like... you could have spa…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 05:05 PM
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I personally call it Neo-feminism rather than simple feminism. To me, feminism was about basically that oldskool kind of societal crap where it was like "women aren't allowed in canoes" and feminism was like "let the girls in the canoes" and I as a guy that isn't some religious tightwad can get behind that kind of equality and stuff. But neo-feminism is this new thing that is more akin to what you describe where its become "like omg, that guy is so ugly he shouldn't even be let in the canoe, he …
/r/MensRights22/07/23 02:08 PM
1

My ex engaged in revenge porn on me and has been using it to try to blackmail me into silence about the affair she was having. I told the police and the police told.me that it's "freedom of speech". Bullshit. Cops just don't care about men. This woman is such a horribly abusive monster and she has gotten away with every aspect of everything and ruined my life.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 11:42 AM
2

From experience, no, no one will save the victim and no one will bring the monster to justice.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 03:26 AM
2

For men yeah. Especially me as an atheist man. But my ex as a woman and an evangelical.. it's like nobody gives a shit what she did to me
/r/MensRights12/07/23 12:52 AM
2

What kills me is that when I hear so many false accusations it's like some kind of questionable sex happened or something, let's say. But in my case it happened with an ex that I was with for years and there was never questionable sex with. She just had a totally heartbreaking affair and tried to frame ME to cover it up. The fact that she's getting away with it leaves me pretty much hating the world. And the other chick it happened with was literally just a friend I was hanging out with watching…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:04 PM
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Thank you for the kind words. Honestly though I'm not doing well. When I say my life was destroyed I mean like my life was destroyed. This happened in 2009 and ever since then it's like I've been living in a prison. I've basically been homeless and sleeping on couches and stuff for years and always getting kicked around. I've been in survival mode for years and years. I'm working 7 days a week at a shit job and I've held up to 3 jobs simultaneously. But Ive just never been able to get safe from …
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:10 PM
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Dude my ex falsely accused me of rape in order to cover up having an affair and push me out of my own life. I have tons of evidence. Nobody has ever cared to look at it. My reputation was ruined and she destroyed my life and nobody will stand up for me. Society needs to stop giving women benefit of the doubt. They don't fucking deserve it anymore. Anyone who says that false accusations are rare is just lying at this point. False accusations are the go to tactic for women nowadays. It needs to be…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:29 PM
1

I've had this exact experience. Wow dude. You hit the nail on the head. When my ex ran off cheating I was labeled a controlling asshole by fucking everyone at my insane arts college just for being hurt by it. It gets worse too. She has engaged in revenge porn on me, stalking, harassing me, harassing my friends, blackmail, etc. And no matter how many times I call the cops and speak to lawyers or write about it I never get any help from anyone. Everyone always just talks shit to me like I'm the ba…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:31 PM
1

I get what you are saying. I will say this though. I'm frankly jealous that you even get to the point with women that they even see your dick. I've always been heavy and women don't even acknowledge my existence. When my ex cheated, people congratulated her and cut me off. Women are consistently rude and horrible to me. I get told over and over and over again in a daily basis by just about everyone that in fat. Even a hotel manager asked me the other day how I don't have a heart attack being so …
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:13 AM
1

Nah, one did a lot, but all women broke my my trust in women
/r/MensRights07/07/23 04:58 AM
4

When my ex ran off having an affair and ghosted me after years of being together breaking my heart and then falsely accusing me on top of it to cover up her actions and destroy my life so that she could get away with it... Anytime I talked about what happened everyone attacks me. I'm not allowed to have emotions or speak about the victimization.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 01:26 AM
13

My narcissistic cheating abusive false accusing ex has an entire team of flying monkeys stalking me. I've tried so hard to get the cops involved and they just refuse to help. She has done so much illegal shit and nobody will hold her accountable at all
/r/MensRights15/06/23 03:54 PM
5

False rape/stalking/harassment accusations used by girlfriends to frame innocent boyfriends so they can get away with cheating without being confronted.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 01:37 AM
54

Heck, even if you provide they will still cut you down
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:36 PM
4

If they are both cheaters then screw both of them.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 05:58 AM
4

Yeah it really bothers me that nobody even cares that I'm being blackmailed with it. Everybody knows but nobody cares
/r/MensRights30/05/23 01:34 PM
4

I've tried. Literally nobody will help me. It's really breaking my heart. I have evidence that nobody has ever even cared to look at to support my claims. Even lawyers have just simply not cared. It's leaving me to feel like it's me against a world that doesn't care if im abused. Everyone is like "oh well I guess there is nothing that can be done about that. You just have to move on" like this dumb one size fits all life advice crap that is meaningless to me.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 01:01 PM
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I've been told by the police that my ex cheating on me and falsely accusing me of rape to cover it up and destroy my life (which was the result) and then proceeding to threaten to murder me (time and date and everything) and engaging in revenge porn on me and using it to blackmail me to stop me from speaking out about her crimes is all freespeech but meanwhile they granted her a restraining order against me for speaking about the abuse and crimes.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 03:07 AM
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Thank you for understanding
/r/MensRights13/05/23 11:47 PM
10

Was falsely accused of rape by my ex in order for her to get away with an affair and push me out of the way and turn everyone against me. Destroyed my career, social life, family life, and pushed me into total homeless poverty. All the girls we were friends with cheered her on for doing it.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 11:03 PM
7

Sigh.. apparently this subreddit is just like the rest of society. Everyone's answers to my victimization aren't calls for justice or anything but just telling me to move to another country. Do you even understand how stupid that sounds? I'm sick of hearing this crap from everyone like it's their fucking preprogrammed go to answer.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 12:12 AM
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This happened when I was 21. I'm 36 now and haven't had any real friends since. I did get my degree but yeah the student loans left me in debt and I couldn't even get started in that career before everything happened so I've been hopelessly poor and actually homeless for years since.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:17 PM
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She didn't go to the cops claiming the rape story because it's a lie and she knows it. I stead she just told everyone we were friends with and destroyed my social life. Literally every single person I ever called a friend cut me off and turned against me. It also did massive damage to my career both directly and Indirectly. I was going to be a teacher but now nobody will hire me. She did immediately start calling me crazy though and claimed to the cops that I was harassing and stalking her when …
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:10 PM
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Thank you but honestly she did irreparable damage. I really don't know what to do. I'm just stuck in a nightmare now. I've written about it pretty much every day for years and nobody has ever spoken up. Even my own family refused to speak up for me no matter how much I begged them. Instead they turned against me. Everyone just let.me be attacked and have my life destroyed and nobody cared. I'll never forget that honestly.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 09:59 PM
38

My life was utterly destroyed. I lost everything. I'm still completely struggling to this very day.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 09:47 PM
118

When my girlfriend cheated on me and falsely accused me of rape to shove me out of the way and bring her homewrecker In all the girls cheered her on. To this day nobody has held her accountable for her betrayal. They all think it's normal and im just some crazy person for being upset. It's fucking insane.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 07:13 PM
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A Christian woman is the most harmful person I've ever met in my life. It isn't just Christian men. It's all of them. And it's not just Christians either. All religion is toxic.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 09:40 PM
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Yes, now I have fears of women and people just tell me "not all women" but they don't get what I'm fearing. Obviously not all women. But enough women. And what's truly the worst is that it could be any woman because every woman benefits from the privileges their gender is granted and one of them is innocence and men have the negative disprivelege of being deemed violent and stuff. Like dude for real Its not even in my disposition to be the bad guy. But it's like I can't even defend myself from a…
/r/MensRights17/04/23 09:23 PM
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My ex falsely accused me of rape, stalking, and harassment to cover up and affair she was having and try to get me locked up so she could get away with it. She destroyed my life. She needs to be I. Jail for what she did but I can't get anyone in the world to care.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 08:42 PM
1

Yeah and that's partly the problem. She destroyed my life right as I was graduating from college. So it just totally threw my whole life trajectory off track and basically hit me at the worst time possible financially when I had nothing because I was just starting. Lawyers don't care about you if you don't have money. Plus, they all acted like because she ran off to Montana that therefore it's across state lines and nothing can be done about it. But meanwhile she was able to run a witch trial co…
/r/MensRights13/04/23 05:09 PM
1

Yeah it's related to the courts and the reputation smear campaign ruined my social standing among my career peers. I've called lawyers and cops and they've never helped at all. In fact even when over the summer I got death threats from the homewrecker, the cops didn't help me at all and ignored me.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:44 PM
1

I don't want to speak too openly about it unfortunately because I am being actively stalked and harassed s d blackmailed by this ex and her homewrecker and a whole team of white knights . but let's just say she spun a web of lies so thick that even my own family turned against me, plus it didn't help that my dad was betraying my family in his own right at the same time everything with her happened. . And yeah she got me in legal trouble because she found a bullshit female judge from Montana that…
/r/MensRights13/04/23 03:59 PM
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My ex cheated on me and ruined my life with false accusations of heinous crimes. Everybody knew she was cheating yet they all took part in helping her ruin my life. I've been blackmailed threatened you name it and I can't even get the police to care. It's such a long story but yeah you are absolutely right. Nobody cares about a single aspect of anything she has done. I'll be dead by the time she is done torturing me and nobody will care.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:18 PM
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If a woman cheats and you get an std because of it then it's your body.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:10 PM
15

sigh
/r/MensRights07/04/23 04:00 PM
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My life was ruined by a woman that cheated on me and falsely accused me to cover it up. Everything would be different if people stood up for me and called her out but Instead everyone was silent. It would help if homewrecker men didn't exist too.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 12:09 PM
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I do feel like we've had some bad media representation that makes us look bad like Andrew Tate being deemed the king of mras and stuff like that. Jordan Peterson is also a terrible representative for us.I'm that antitheist that hates all manners of religion and rightwingism. I do feel like a lot of the talk I see, I would sum up as being pro-tradwife in this way that makes "tradition" into something that wreaks of the biases of more right wing type people. I don't necessarily want THEIR version …
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:04 AM
0

I know you are but what am I?
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:24 AM
0

I'm a mens' rights activist dumbass
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:23 AM
-2

God you are stupid.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:38 AM
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She didn't attack him. We've already been over this. She tried to grab the phone to stop him from recording her pain for trolls like you to laugh at. If you call that violent abuse then you don't know what violent abuse is. You are just as bad as the neofeminists that think a man walking by is an attempted rape. But you are just doing it in reverse white knighting for some man.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:28 AM
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You are a reactionary fool that doesn't even listen. I already told you I'm not a white knight. It's hilarious you think I am one. Shows how little you know about me or anything. I can't stand white knights. I'm red pill AF. I can't stand the bullshit entitlement of women. You simply project too much and have no clue what you are talking about. You have no regard for nuance. That's your problem.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:23 AM
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🙄
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:01 AM
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I'm no white knight but it's funny you think so. I'm just a rationalist and I guess you aren't. I already explained the issue of crying or not. Repeating what you already said doesn't further the conversation. You are just angry and reactionary and not considering what I am saying. As far as the phone goes, his recording of her could be the ultimate narcissistic crap where he thinks her pain that he causes is funny. I've been there. Clearly you've never been through what I've been through. If I …
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:36 AM
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I don't think you need to actively cry to have been wronged. My own emotions have vacillated between crying, anger, frustration, pleading, etc. Hell, I barely even cry anymore because I've become so numb. Also, asking for a second chance doesn't mean you necessarily fucked up. Him saying he gave her a second chance doesn't mean much either. It could just mean you don't want to lose the person you love and he could be gaslighting her acting like she did something wrong that isn't actually wrong a…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:23 AM
3

I had this conversation with my mother yesterday.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 04:45 AM
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I wouldn't be so quick to judge this woman. It's easy to see her breaking down and judge her like she is out of control but I know that some people breakup in terribly painful ways that hurt other people severely. For all we know he was cheating with some other woman after years of being with this woman who may have built her life around him. He might be calling her a stalker as a gaslighting tactic to make her look bad. I mean, she could just be crazy, but I just feel like even as a man I can r…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 04:42 AM
1

Now if only they would arrest my ex that falsely accused me in order to get away with having an affair. But clearly nobody cares about me because my life has been in ruins since 2009
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:29 AM
2

I do. Super far left pro LGBTQ antitheistic atheist.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 02:25 PM
-2

Non Christian feminists? Do you mean "no Christian feminists"?
/r/MensRights14/03/23 03:29 PM
1

As left wing as they get here
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:31 PM
2

We should make a men's version of this. I would love to inform everyone about my cheating whore ex.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:54 AM
0

Bullsshhiitttt
/r/MensRights13/02/23 03:52 AM
3

Too bad he is also a psycho Christian
/r/MensRights13/02/23 01:47 AM
4

I've been a victim of revenge porn. I called the cops multiple times because the same group of people are stalking harassing and threatening me. The cops don't even get back to me. They literally don't care and refuse to help me. It's a disgrace and I've lost all faith in the police because of it
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:46 PM
0

Timothy 2 :12 is NOT feminist AT ALL. Religion is poison.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:15 AM
2

I'm progressive AF and I'm also a MRA.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:13 PM
5

I love seeing men's rights and atheism in one article.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:06 PM
0

As an atheist, in offended.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 02:06 AM
1

This is pretty much exactly what happened to me. I want justice so bad.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:40 AM
2

I wish I could be she destroyed my life so bad that I'm literally homeless living out of a motel. I hate it. She destroyed my career, my family life, my social life. Everything. So it's like justice is something I can only get if she didn't destroy my way of getting it.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 11:55 AM
3

Love Roma Army
/r/MensRights29/01/23 03:08 AM
8

Im sincerely terrified anymore. I dated a woman who became a monster, cheating on me and then falsely accusing me and everyone attacked me. I'm currently being stalked and harassed by an entire gang of people that she has sent out to try and ruin my life. They've even created fake phone numbers and facebooks and even pretended to be a girl that wanted to date me just to get me to send nudes so they could blackmail me and Intimidate me from speaking out about what she has been doing to destroy my…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 05:45 PM
7

It is a double standard. I've never seen a woman get labeled a stalker and harasser for calling out her own boyfriend for cheating on her.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 02:21 PM
7

Women are allowed and encouraged to cheat on their boyfriends and if you call them out on it then that's labeled stalking and harassment.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 12:47 PM
1

Right?
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:21 PM
5

I don't want sex. Women have tortured me. I simply fear women now and want nothing to do with them.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 02:29 PM
2

This is the truth. My abusive horrible monster of an ex ruined my career and family and social life and pushed me into homelessness and utter poverty and despair with false accusations. I can't even afford a lawyer because of what she did to me. So it's like there is no justice at all
/r/MensRights11/01/23 02:49 PM
0

Reading this and seeing so much of my life in it is really pushing me to the point where I'm just over women and don't want to date again.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:22 AM
6

If you are entrusting men's rights to prayers then it's no wonder men are losing their rights.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:52 AM
2

I dealt with the exact same situation. Shit ruined my life and yet I get hate for even talking about it. Even my family and closest friends all turned against me. I lost everything. I'm living in a motel as we speak literally scared for my life but I can't even talk about it. In my case my ex did it to push me out of the way to cheat on me. I hate to say it but it was super easy for her to do. Literally the courts even violated my right to be represented in court and granted her a restraining or…
/r/MensRights19/11/22 11:26 AM
4

While I generally want to agree with you, as a victim of a false accusation, alot of the proof that I had/have was on a computer that the motherboard got fried on and it's made me realize that while evidence is nice it should not be the be all end all of determining believability. I know what happened to me and I also know how hard it is to preserve evidence. Problem is this complicates everything but it is what it is. It's worthy of deep consideration though in order to help create a truly good…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 05:58 AM
1

Absolutely but we can also just appreciate that women have problems too and that a woman complaining about the problems isn't some sure sign she is some priveleged whatever right?
/r/MensRights29/09/22 05:45 PM
1

Because I don't need to one up women in who has worse problems.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:58 PM
-22

Damnit guys, sometimes certain things women say aren't wrong. Every single thing from that woman's post was valid. Then you guys come marching along to talk shit on it and her and insinuate she needs therapy and all this crap? You are just trying to beat up on a woman who has some legit problems with actual "patriarchal"-like things in society. If women get injured in car accidents more because seatbelts are designed for men then that DOES suck. But y'all JUST want to act like you don't understa…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 02:04 PM
1

I'm sorry, I thought I said there was a stray raining order against me. I guess I didn't but yeah there is a restraining order against me. I did nothing to deserve itbin the first place. She was just able to manipulate the system. When she got the restraining order they violated my constitutional right to even be represented in court and just took her crocodile tears as proof in a bad person and ran with it even though she is the bad person and im the victim throughout the whole ordeal. And now …
/r/MensRights27/09/22 12:44 PM
2

This really hit home with me because I've been trying to get the police involved after my abusers homewrecker threatened to come to my house and attack me, harassed me and all my friends online, and even Catfished me pretending to be someone else just to try to get me to incriminate myself anyway they could do they could use something against me. I filed police reports over and over and the police just ignored me even while pretending they weren't. Even when I called the police out on ignoring m…
/r/MensRights27/09/22 07:06 AM
6

While I would normally tend to agree I feel like it has kind of gotten to the point where it's like women in general have become pretty predatory and power/money hungry. I know a woman who is a stripper and she won't give a guy the time of day unless he gives her money. If it was just sex work the. Sure that's not wrong. But it's like.. sex work multiplied or divide or something by callousness towards actual relationships. It feels like this sort of sex/relationship monopoly where it's like "if …
/r/MensRights25/09/22 11:01 PM
14

As a white guy that has been horribly abused and legally discriminated against and is homeless and everything, I agree with the comments here.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 02:28 PM
2

fist bump
/r/MensRights12/09/22 01:16 AM
5

This post has me crying because I am living in that exact horror movie situation
/r/MensRights12/09/22 12:48 AM
-8

Good for her. Cheaters are monsters. But can we also let men get revenge on the women that cheat on them? I couldn't even get closure without being labeled a stalker and harasser. Double standards are ridiculous anymore.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:05 PM
59

You just hit the bullseye. I mean, I agree with the other guy who said that's it's not even about not being good enough, but otherwise yeah you hit the bullseye. My life got completely turned upside down just like that and all I can really say at the end of the day is that falling in love with a woman was my "mistake". I wouldn't even normally view it as a mistake but people hold my feet to the fire and judge me for everything without even grasping what my life has been and it's just like all I …
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:56 PM
2

Your welcome. I appreciate the chance to speak to somebody that just listens without attacking.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:50 AM
3

Off the top of my head, no not really. Even the idea of Intimacy in a non sexual way doesn't really apply. Like I said, my guy friends listen better and care more than the women I've known. I will say that we do need women to have a family though with kids. That's part of the sexual thing but not exactly. But generally no, I used to teach music and it always amazes me how the boys would be making jokes, having fun, learning, etc. Meanwhile the girls would just sit there quietly with nothing to s…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:36 AM
5

No, I would say I agree with the red pill messaging that women do get turned off to men having emotions. That was pretty much the point of everything I said before. Obviously not all women and it depends on the man's emotions too and what they are all about. But as a rule of thumb yeah there is a reason why so many men are emotionally closed off. It's because if we aren't and we are open with our emotions we are just written off by women as weak and unworthy of love.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:25 AM
3

I tend to think alot of that is a defense mechanism. The same way feminism has told women that they are all perfect and beautiful just the way they are, alot of these men are trying to do the same for men. Basically just take a little pride in who we are for a change instead of the constant media whatever telling us that we are all just would-be rapist pigs that are angry "mansplainers" and stuff like that. It's nice to take pride in who we are for a change. But I'm sure it also has to do with t…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:15 AM
9

I feel like the exact opposite is the case for me when it comes to confiding in women. Women will expose things you said in confidence at the drop of a dime. Also, women are basically so insensitive to men's issues that it's pointless to even talk to them anyways because they just don't get what it's like. Women always just start preaching about all the things you need to change about yourself to be a "real man" which they don't even know what that is anyways. Also, they are very testy if you ev…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:58 AM
6

Legit, I never get compliments from women or any acknowledgement. Meanwhile gay dudes are always flirting with me left and right and saying the sweetest things to me complimenting my looks, style, etc. What it has shown me is that women aren't appreciative enough of men. If gay dudes can be super nice and complimentary than so can women.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:40 AM
-2

I'm sorry I'm confused what you are saying
/r/MensRights01/09/22 01:31 AM
-5

I suspect that the greater context of your story is that a woman may have been saying something along the line of "men are pigs" and you said "not all men", to which they basically accused you of being myopic and missing the point. Personally, I would tend to agree with them in that case. I always call out bad stuff religions do and I frequently get told "not all religious people...". There is a fallacy with that kind of thinking or something. I forget what it's called. But basically one person …
/r/MensRights31/08/22 11:52 PM
0

Smh
/r/MensRights31/08/22 08:13 PM
7

Cheaters are scumbags period. Doesn't matter who they are otherwise, man or woman.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 08:05 PM
0

Exactly that is what happened to me so your insulting insistence that cheating isn't that bad and should just be ignored is wrong.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 07:59 PM
0

Well that's exactly what happened to me soo...
/r/MensRights31/08/22 07:40 PM
0

You are putting words in my mouth I never said. And actually cheating ruined my life so you know nothing.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 07:40 PM
0

No, letting the bad guy get away and calling it a victory is ignorance.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:53 PM
0

I never said being mature is bad for society. What you think is mature is actually ignorance. Ignorance is bad.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:04 PM
-1

Your idea of maturity is very bad for society
/r/MensRights31/08/22 03:49 PM
1

My answer is "no justice, no peace". I don't think violence is ever the best answer. But in a world without legal justice then don't be surprised when people get violent. In fact, when it comes to personal betrayals that is the kind of thing that goes deeper than any law. Frankly I think you are just trying to get me to endorse violence because you know it would trigger a ban. You also conveniently stated your question as a man beating the fuck out of their girlfriend because you know it would c…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:25 AM
1

Because screw what the cheater wants. They are the bad guy! Whose side are you really on here?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:49 AM
1

Dude, I'm not the one who was saying cheating doesn't do major harm. That was you. You were making excuses to see cheating in the softest way possible. And in trying to show you that sometimes it's really bad. Sometimes the cheater runs off with a honewrecker too. I know a woman who lost her baby because she was cheated on. So your answer to the problem of cheating that it's not that bad and that ending the relationship is the best form of revenge are just a wrong one size fits all way of unders…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:46 AM
0

Ending the relationship? That's what the cheater wants! Omg you are thick dude. That's not even a punishment if they are cheating on you. How do you not get that? I guess maybe it's like I sort of suspected that you haven't been cheated on so you really don't know what it's like.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:37 AM
-7

You are just minimizing the harm of cheating through nothing but sheer rhetorical posturing. In fact science has shown that heartbreak can have damned near the same effects as physical pain on the human body. Also, having years of your life wasted by someone else is horrible. You can sue if somebody backs out of a business contract to paint your house but you can't do anything about a cheater that wastes years of your life, Insults your worth, lies and manipulates you, ruins and divides your fam…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:35 AM
1

Have you been cheated on? You think cheaters are innocent? If not then why oppose retaliation against them? Are you against jails in general and punishments in general? Have you never wanted revenge or justice? And since when does it have to be a competition of who got hurt worse anyways in order to understand the desire for justice or revenge? Why the one-upsmanship?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:20 AM
-2

It's a perfect analogy and the reason I made it is because you and other people aren't getting how bad cheating is. So I tried to make an analogy to something that maybe you all would understand so that you could understand how Insensitive it is to tell a victim to just accept that the person that hurt them has different morals as if THAT is supposed to be an answer for what was done to them. I could have made a million different analogies to a million different bad things. So I made an analogy …
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:12 AM
-3

And for what it's worth most of the people in this thread acting like im wrong are likely Christians who believe that it's completely fair to send non believers to hell to be ultimately tortured for all of eternity and burned alive. So it's like don't give me this crap that it's wrong to take revenge on a cheater if any of you think it's ok to send people to hell just for not believing in your religious cult.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:09 AM
-3

Cheating is too far. You seem to be missing the fact that cheating is one of the worst things you can do to another human being even if you keep saying you understand that it's bad. Cheaters are like traitors. You know what the military does to traitors?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:05 AM
-10

There is nothing crazy about wanting revenge on someone who wasted years of your life and broke your heart. And yeah no fuck therapy. Seriously. It's an Insult to even say I need that crap. I'm not the problem. The cheater is the problem . They need therapy.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:04 AM
-3

I think what she did is kind of funny and not even that bad. Cheating warrants extreme retaliation. Signing him up for the military is hardly even an extreme form of retaliation. They let kids fresh out of highschool do that. They sign themselves up. I just think no matter what the victim does you would blame the victim.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:03 AM
-11

But it's ok for the cheater to leave you to die alone and heartbroken? I mean I know you aren't exactly saying that but come on. This zero tolerance nannyism stuff is so lame. And meanwhile the same people that can't understand a person wanting revenge for being cheated on are the same people that probably love John Wick. I'm sure if your wife ran off fucking another dude and that dude rubbed it in your face that he was fucking your wife you'd want to do some gangsta shit too.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:00 AM
0

Cheating is an act of betrayal. There is very little that actually is worse. And yeah often times cheaters do leave their victims in perilous positions. I know because it happened to me.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 03:52 AM
-8

Haven't you ever heard of machiavellianism?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 03:50 AM
0

They should die alone but that doesn't mean they do. Hence the desire for revenge.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:34 AM
-12

To be honest I didn't actually read the article. I just saw the headline and saw people freaking out about the idea that a person that got cheated on would be vengeful like they couldn't even begin to comprehend it. That's all I really needed to go off of. I mean yeah, I'm not trying to say that he absolutely cheated or anything but from what I saw it seems like the fact of the cheating wasn't in question, just her response to it as if it was true. I mean yeah you shouldn't just get an idea in y…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:31 AM
2

Thanks for the kind words. I'm sorry you were hurt too. But yeah, all of my friends stabbed me in the back. They knew what she was doing but basically they all chose evil. For me it happened in 2009 but I got "cancelled" never the less. It happened during the eat pray love time where she was able to play it off like she is just a woman on an adventure of self discovery. Everyone ate that shit up. But it was all crap. Really she was a massive cheater that would tell any lie imaginable to cover he…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:03 AM
2

Thanks for being honest about that stuff. I will say though that my ex went full amber Heard on me making horrible false accusations in order to turn everyone against me so they'd excuse her cheating. She is still getting away with it. She absolutely put my life in danger. I'm still in that position years later. I literally had someone threatening to kill me just the other day.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:46 AM
-28

I don't think it's an overreaction. It's a perfect reaction. Somebody fucks with your life, you fuck with theirs right back. Remind me to tell you when someone does a heinous crime to you or something to just accept that you have different morals. Oh somebody murdered your family? Bro they just have different morals than you. Leave them alone
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:14 AM
2

So being cheated on has nothing to do with my pain? It isn't the cheaters responsibility that they cheat? And yeah I am responsible for my feelings. That's why I wear them with pride. I'm very consistent. Meanwhile the rest of you are in a men's rights subreddit where we all hate when people patronize uw by saying what a "real man" has to be and what men get to feel. But here you all are doing exactly that right now. It's inconsistent.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:10 AM
2

That's how you treat victims of cheating. No justice for them, right?
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:35 AM
2

You are responsible for your own headache. Don't blame me. :p
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:34 AM
1

If all is fair in love and war then all is fair in love and war.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:32 AM
2

And cheaters aren't responsible for their actions? You don't get to tell people that get abused how to react to it either based on how it makes you feel then. Don't want to have revenge enacted upon you? Then don't betray other people. Simple.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:31 AM
2

Wow... I don't want to live in that world at all
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:28 AM
-90

I'd date her in a heartbeat. Sounds like exactly the kind of woman I would want to date. What I would never want to date is somebody who turns a blind eye to cheating like it's not that bad.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:26 AM
2

But it's ok to cheat... You don't have any problem with that ..
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:23 AM
2

But it's ok to cheat...
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:23 AM
1

I'm good. But if you think that the desire for justice is unhealthy then THAT is unhealthy and requires therapy
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:22 AM
2

Would you say that to someone wanting revenge or justice after their family got murdered? Obviously their angriest moment should be exactly what we legislate around.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:02 AM
1

If it's ok for them to cheat then. It's ok to get revenge on them. Male or female.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:59 PM
2

Even if that includes hurting me and ruining my life? I think that absolutely concerns me and I didn't consent. And as far as I see it screw that line of reasoning because if they can arrest two people smoking weed they can arrest cheaters too
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:56 PM
1

No. I can't stand cheaters regardless of who they are.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:55 PM
3

The cheaters in my life didn't lose their social reputation because, as you are basically advocating for, nobody cares what they did. And if they are willing to betray the relationship in the first place then losing it isn't a punishment at all
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:28 PM
1

And if so many Christians say the Bible is the perfect word then why is punishing a unmarried cheater such an unbelievable concept yet millions of people subscribe to a religion that says cheating in marriage deserves capital punishment? This girl didn't even murder the guy she just signed him up for the military
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:26 PM
1

So you support cheaters getting Carter blanche to be scumbags and get away with it?
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:24 PM
2

So cheaters just get away with it?
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:22 PM
1

So cheating is ok if you aren't married? I feel bad for anyone that dates you
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:22 PM
2

According to the bible, cheaters should be dragged outside of the city gates and stoned to death. I'm not a Christian but I bet most of you acting like you don't know where I'm coming from are.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 09:23 PM
3

Laws are laws. Society can judge you however the way they want. Doesn't mean they are right or you are wrong. But it's a good reason for cheating to be made illegal so that cheating is disincentivized so that victims of cheating don't feel the need for street justice.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 09:21 PM
0

What if the cheater runs away on their own ghosting you and you don't even get the benefit of dropping them?
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:34 PM
-6

So just be a helpless victim then? Whose side are you on? The cheater? Cause that's what cheaters tell their victims.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:23 PM
-32

Nah, why would I want cheaters on this planet. You need therapy cause your world is a shitty one where people get away with taking advantage of other people and you pretend you can't understand a victim with a Machiavellian take on things. Of course I hate cheaters. As should you.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:21 PM
-5

What is?
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:44 PM
-64

Actually it isn't disproportionate. Cheaters can destroy lives and put their victims in the way of death too. One woman that cheated on me did exactly that to me. This was never about men's rights. I'm a total men's rights advocate. I couldn't even confront my abuser without people freaking out. So I'm fully aware of what it would be like if a man tried to take revenge against a woman. I couldn't even call out her criminal behavior without being deemed the bad guy for doing so. But this post isn…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:23 PM
-20

No I didn't. Maybe you did
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:18 PM
-111

Good for her. Screw cheaters.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 06:48 PM
2

I actually don't care what the law says and to be honest im not so sure it's what you think it is either. If the law didn't say anything about murder I'd still call it murder. I care about the actual reality. And the reality is that randomly groping strangers is sexual assault, much less harassment.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:38 PM
5

So if some dude started touching your legs repeatedly you wouldn't feel sexually harassed?
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:32 PM
0

You are so spot on with the whole accwpt being cheated on or be labeled a sexist. I could tell you horror stories.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:12 AM
1

But some girl was wearing a shirt the other day that said “no womb, no opinion”. So what is a man supposed to do?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:03 AM
2

So much this
/r/MensRights30/06/22 04:44 AM
1

That mens anger is inherently bad
/r/MensRights14/06/22 11:16 PM
0

I'm good. You are the one with the mental issues here lol.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 03:31 AM
0

You clearly have shitty reading comprehension because I was never EVEN talking about myself. I was talking about my friend who gets incessantly harassed by assholes like you. And you dont know shit about his life. Dude was in great shape before he became a monk, but AS a monk he isnt really allowed to leave the temple and is forced to have bad eating habits because they only allow him to eat shitty food and have a sedentary lifestyle. Being a monk is what made him go from being in great shape to…
/r/MensRights14/06/22 01:03 AM
0

You are just an asshole. That's it that's all.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 11:31 PM
0

Missing the point.part of the problem.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 07:04 PM
0

Yeah it is and if you think differently then you are part of the problem.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 05:11 PM
5

Personally I'm an antitheist so I think your religion is delusional but my best friend is also a monk and I feel like I need to speak to his experience being one. He wants to give it up. He has realized that the other monks are phony and have bad morals. Their practices are pointless and the temple just reinforces sexist crap, fat shaming,etc. The only reason he is even still doing it is because he gets to live there for free. UT otherwise he hates it and sees it all as part of the problem rathe…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 04:42 AM
9

No I've lost hope
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:05 AM
24

Except when even the people who know just side with the woman because they are asses. Trust me, it happens. I've never found support. It's worse than you even think.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:11 AM
1

This hit me right in the feels. Its like you know.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:05 AM
2

Ok troll
/r/MensRights20/03/22 02:56 PM
1

I never said all religions say the same things. But all the major religions have glaring problems. Man you are thick. But yeah hate is usually a part of it, from Islamic writings calling for non muslims to he killed to christianity calling lgbtq people abominations. There is hate alllll over religion. Its. Built on hate. The southern baptist church for example was explicitly started based on racism. Even rastafarianism is based on hate towards white people. So yeah. Its hate all the way and you …
/r/MensRights20/03/22 12:07 PM
2

Why don't you? First of all, the article points to just about everything but religion as reasons why people would succeed or not in life and the. Just throws religion in the mix at the end. I also never said social capital among working class people is bullshit, nor do I know what point you are even trying to prove. A sample size of 3000 boys is hardly even enough to truly make a judgement about the usefulness of religion or not with. Also, like I said the idea that these boys who are religious …
/r/MensRights20/03/22 03:12 AM
2

My arguement isnt anti-intellectual. Religion is anti-intellectual.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 03:02 AM
2

I read the whole article. It’s bullshit. What you said doesn’t change that.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 02:31 AM
2

What a bullshit article! Religion doesn’t make people more moral. It makes people less moral. Anyone who is happy thinking their friends that don’t belong to their religion are burning in hell is a monster, not a moral person. Btw, I’m an atheist with a masters and my evangelical Christian ex dropped out and cheated on me and then falsely accused me to cover it up. Screw everything about this crap article.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 02:10 AM
4

Sounds like you have a very similar story to me. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 04:37 AM
3

This is my experience except they gave her the restraining order against me instead. she ran off making false accusations of rape in order to cover up that she was cheating on me. But nobody ever cared about me and deemed me the abuser simply because I wanted justice, as if that was stalking and harassment. No matter what I do I'm the bad guy apparently.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:40 PM
3

I feel this post sooooo much
/r/MensRights17/02/22 08:24 AM
2

Yeah and if we are going to allow ourselves to fear women then women can fear us too
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:02 PM
0

I still don't get what your point to me is though. Like are you trying to say there is something wrong with what I wrote?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:18 PM
-3

Dont misquote me just to call me delusional, asshole. Plus you seem to have a stick up your ass about the idea that men who rape men could be labeled gay. That's weird bro. Raping other guys is kinda gay bro
/r/MensRights03/01/22 01:21 PM
-3

I dont know what you are trying to say.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 01:19 PM
-22

I completely disagree with OP. I feel that way about women and its for good reasons and I think OP just hasn't considered some of those kinds of scenarios. If I get to feel that way then so do women. I think the important distinction is whether someone does something to you AS the thing which you are fearing.. Or whether they do it and the thing which you are finding yourself scared of is something that is only coincidental. Many things are coincidental and not intrinsically related to the natur…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 04:36 AM
1

Cheating is abuse. The cheater deserves nothing.
/r/MensRights01/01/22 02:25 PM
-7

I fully support her and I'm a big mens rights kind of guy. But fuck cheaters. I say good for her!
/r/MensRights01/01/22 04:26 AM
2

Doge to the moon! Couldn't agree with philosohipster more
/r/MensRights21/12/21 12:06 PM
2

If you don't agree with them about their delusional crap they will just cheat. Happens every time.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 11:29 AM
3

Can't listen if women don't talk to you.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:02 AM
14

That is exactly what my life is because my ex falsely accused me in order to get away with running off to Montana having an affair with some 50 year old man when we were seniors in college. Everyone took her lies for granted and cut me off entirely and turned against me with utter hatred. I've been seeking justice ever since it happened in 2009 because she destroyed my life. Still can't really find more than a handful of people who even nominally care about what she did to me. She destroyed my c…
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:00 PM
-2

Well said
/r/MensRights16/11/21 08:37 PM
-18

I completely disagree. For one, bankers don't have a reputation for ignoring anyone so it is a weird unreal hypothetical that doesn't reflect reality, but car dealers do have a reputation of thinking of women as know-nothings when it comes to cars and taking men more seriously. Consider the opposite where a guy shows up to a yoga class and isn't taken seriously but then puts on a wig and pretends to be a woman and gets treated with more aceptance, you'd probably be saying that its a genius comme…
/r/MensRights16/11/21 06:55 PM
1

Yeah... it is...
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:24 PM
0

I'd argue that it is the corporate center that has positioned itself into denial of men camp... not the progressives... remember, the progressives ran a fairly awesome old man as a candidate. The centrists were the ones who ran Hilarys campaign on the whole breaking the glass ceiling thing. Progressives on the other hands are mens only real hope. The conservatives basically give meaning to the phrase toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:12 PM
1

Good thinking and yeah I’m already kind of on that. There is another girl I’m already friends with who is also young and maybe she can hang out a few times with us and give me some insight into the other girl
/r/MensRights11/11/21 07:26 PM
0

I'm not trying to get with her. I'm just trying to be her friend. She has a boyfriend.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:58 PM
1

I'm surprised how much people are anti-work friendships here. I understand that coworkers arent neccesarily friends. But I wouldnt avoid making a friend at work either.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:01 PM
-11

I disagree. First of all not all the advice has been to run. Some of it has actually been to give the girl a chance. Plus, in a community like this I would certainly understand there being a statistical skew towards run anyways. But regardless, I know plenty of women who hate me because of what my ex did to me. They'd tell you I'm a creep and potentially a rapist. None of that is true. I'm just saying that people can be very prejudiced in their judgements and the same way assholes like Steve Har…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:32 PM
-7

Calling people names meant to minimize isnt being blunt. Its being rude.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:27 PM
3

I have a very thick skin. However the thickness of my skin has nothing to do with you being needlessly insulting though. That's just an excuse you made for yourself to be nasty.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:24 PM
0

I disagree people who have been through trauma shouldnt be shamed for talking about it. Cause then you would run from me too and I'm a pretty alright guy
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:21 PM
-9

You just cant resist being rude can you.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:17 PM
5

Yeah it was and you are still doing it.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:12 PM
0

Cause I dont neccesarily trust my coworkers advice just in general given worldview differences and stuff. I'm just trying to be this girls friend.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:04 PM
6

I think you hit the nail on the head for why I'm more tempted to not assume the worst and instead just think she and her boyfriend are nerds that need a cleric. You make a good point about my coworkers only talking shit but not providing credible evidence. Thanks for mentioning that, genuinely.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 02:30 PM
15

Its tempting to think so but they are female too and just as capable of jealousy and shit. Also I think it could very easily be prejudice because I work with a bunch of superchristian conservatives and this girl is wiccan and its like... the same kind of shit they'd probably say about her is the same shit they'd say about me being an atheist. So yeah.. it's just endlessly confusing.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 02:20 PM
4

All I ever hear is dont make friends anywhere. That's the problem. It's all just never open up to anyone. Never be real. Never think. Never feel. Just sit down amd shut up basically. I'm not trying to say you are being that harsh but the overall effect of what it feels like to be in this world anymore is "just assume that everyone is bad and out to get you".
/r/MensRights11/11/21 01:18 PM
3

Being insulting isnt topical, helpful, or to the point.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 12:52 PM
-1

If you are going to be insulting then I'm not gonna listen to any of your advice.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 12:27 PM
-2

I'm not trolling bro. For fucks sake why is it so hsrd to have a conversation with anyone anymore without getting attacked? Fuck it I give up. I'm just going to go back to avoiding everyone altogether.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:50 AM
1

I actually like this comment. I'm an antitheistic atheist myself but I like the Dao De Jing. I think you kind of hit the nail on the head about the kind of hypocritical crap that goes on just about any direction you go.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:27 AM
1

So dont hang out with women alone.. but also dont hang out with women in groups either?
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:16 AM
19

True, but my overall issues here transcend the work environment. It could just as easily be a situation where I meet some girl in a bar or library or grocery store etc and other people start telling me to be careful. Hell, if I cant even trust a coworker to not be out to falsely accuse me again or some shit the how i could i ever trust any woman in any setting ever again? You know?
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:15 AM
3

No actually fuck you because I cared about my ex immensely. I read books about eating disorders to learn about her. I basically did everything I could to try snd be supportive and helpful and then she ran off cheating on me and acting like shes hot shit all of a sudden and im just some freak who she didnt even care about that she made me feel suicidal because of what she did to me. So fuck YOU for denying my experience of finding out that people who claim to have eating disorders or self harm ca…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 11:08 AM
14

Er oh I might know what you are saying.. like there is something about the whole situation that seems fishy? I guess I could point to a few things... A) she is young B) she seems to have a troubled life where she is moving in and out of places alot C) she did lie about wanting time off to go to a concert and said she had to go out of town for her sisters baby shower or something. Shit, now that you got me thinking she does claim that she has been througg sexual assault when she was 14 and she al…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 10:43 AM
1

I'm not sure what you are saying
/r/MensRights11/11/21 10:38 AM
6

As an atheist I can get with this becauss my ex was an evangelical and this new girl acts like she is all into new age "stuff about being a green witch and Crystal energies and stuff". But yeah, my ex actually played the "I'm a good Christian girl" and "hes an evil atheist" card to get away with the affair and false accusations and everyone ate that shit up. Trust me, if I could find women who didnt engage in religious woo-woo I'd go that direction immediately. Lol
/r/MensRights11/11/21 10:30 AM
11

I'll grant you that but what should I really be looking for as warning signs? I mean I've heard that alot over the years in regards to my ex, but we had a seemingly loving relationship. I dont think I could have seen that coming at all. And I'm not sure what my coworkers are seeing in this girl that I'm not seeing now unless she explicitly told them something she was planning to do or has done in the past to take advantage of a guy.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 09:55 AM
21

From personal experience... they cheer the cheating woman on and turn against the man who is the victim and treat him like a stalker and harasser for caring that he was cheated on.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 09:53 AM
12

This happened to me in college too. I'm still seeking justice but as you can all imagine in this world they deemed ME a harasser and stalker for simply being hurt and trying to seek justice by own ex girlfriend who falsely accused me in order to get away with an affair she was having with a 50 year old man and running off to Montana from Pennsylvania with him. The court in Montana refused to allow me to have representation in the trial and ran a complete witch trial against me based on nothinf b…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 06:01 AM
1

Like Rodger from American dad? Lol
/r/MensRights16/10/21 04:14 PM
14

I got deemed a harasser and stalker by a female judge in Montana where I’ve never even been who violated my right to even be represented in court because my ex who falsely accused me of rape in order to cover up an affair she was running off having decided to try and destroy my life because I tried to talk to her and find out why she broke my heart like that after years of being together. I went from graduating with my masters and having a big group of friends to being universally hated and home…
/r/MensRights16/10/21 03:15 AM
2

If you are talking about what I think you are talking about I dont think the red pill people are the ones making that the case or even really truly trying to say it about themselves. It is more of a label that gets slapped upon them by women. It isnt that they agree with the label that's been slapped on them. It's just that they accept that society sucks enough to give them that label.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 03:09 PM
7

I would describe my life exactly the same but frankly even shittier. You are actually steps ahead of me in every direction and younger than me too. But I’m not saying that to discount your experience at all. I just had this honest reaction like “fuck.. my life REALLY sucks this guy actually goes on dates”
/r/MensRights09/10/21 07:26 AM
0

I think the truest answer to this would come from the mods simply because this sub or any sub really is just a message board. I bet half of the people that write in this sub aren't even advocates for mens rights and come here just to talk shit and call people incels. Then another swath of people here are actually the male supremacist assholes that get us called incels. Then among the more legitimate people here many of them are sympathizers moreso than victims. They might be well intentioned but…
/r/MensRights09/10/21 02:37 AM
4

I never get matches at all and I've been on there for years
/r/MensRights04/10/21 05:05 AM
3

I’m about to be 35 and American and I can’t even find a woman to be friends with. This shit isn’t a choice.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 09:26 PM
1

Nope
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:17 AM
1

Absolutely. I've never done anything wrong to her. She waa the one abusing me.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:07 AM
13

Wrong. The court violated my right to have a defense and proceeded just based on her accusations. I'm not kidding. The justice system is broken. Complete witch trial kangaroo court bullshit.
/r/MensRights27/09/21 03:04 PM
100

My life waa ruined by my dancer major girlfriend who decides to falsely accuse me in order to push me away and get away with cheating on me. All the other dancer girls helped her get away with it. I went from getting my masters to going to jail and being homeless and having my career and social life ruined. I will never forgive any of them. I've been seeking justice for years and I've only ever been abused further for trying to get it.
/r/MensRights27/09/21 06:14 AM
2

That's the telltale sign that they have lost for sure
/r/MensRights26/09/21 09:59 PM
4

Buuuurrrrnnnnnn!!! Ahahaha I love it. I got a masters degree and I was top in my class and a gifted student and still a complete academic but I write how I write online. It is what it is, typos from autocorrect being my biggest thing. But also, we all type so much anymore and that shit takes too long. Smart people just learn how to condense the process. Grammar nazis fundamentally don’t understand that language is an ever evolving thing and that slang and misspellings and all manners of shit tha…
/r/MensRights26/09/21 09:41 PM
10

You just described me.
/r/MensRights26/09/21 09:31 PM
6

You too.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 02:23 PM
4

I’m in the same boat. The exact same boat.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 02:20 PM
4

Wow I didn’t expect to see man shaming in here but ok
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:43 PM
9

How would that help? It doesnt matter where you are. This bullshit in society exists everywhere.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 02:32 PM
17

I've been kicked around for years but I am still in the same area. Why?
/r/MensRights21/09/21 02:25 PM
98

My ex falsely b accused me in order to cover up the fact that she was cheating on me and dropping out of college and running off to Montana with a 50 year old. The truth was plain to see and yet all the women turned against me and cheered her on for cheating on me and th false accusations tore my life apart. That was when I was 21 and now in 34 and my life is still in ruins. No friends. Universally hated. Homeless. Poor. With a masters degree ill never get to use. Jail. You name it. The court vi…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:05 PM
12

My ex ran off cheating and then her and the other girls laughed at my pain. When ive opened up about that experience to every woman ive met since then they have all distances themselves from me and treated me like I’m asshole for having been hurt by a woman. It’s a total catch-22 and I’m stuck in it.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 02:51 AM
4

There is one guy that spoke up for me who I have kept in touch with for years because I appreciate that he sincerely tried for me. We are polar opposite on the political spectrum and I frankly I think he first stumbled upon my writing online because he is a troll for sure. But then he wound up realizing that zi really was suffering real abuse and he backed me up. He is the one person in my life that gets that chewbacca life debt kind of thing with me.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 09:54 PM
13

I went to the police. They just said "that sucks"
/r/MensRights15/09/21 09:34 PM
6

I'm in the same situation and I'm so confused... Is it that people don't care about false accusations or is it that they don't care about me? Everyone just turned their backs on me and le my life fall apart and it's like no matter how much I write about it its just in one ear out the other with people
/r/MensRights15/09/21 09:33 PM
1

Exactly. People act like because I'm alive therefore it's basically ok what happened and it isnt worth pursing justice for or anything and that oissing justice is crazy stalkerism.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 12:48 AM
2

Honestly. Yeah. Kind of just like anything, it’s one thing to conceptualize something in your mind and it’s another to experience it. So thank you for acknowledging that. One of the hardest things for me has been this sort of negligent denialism about what happened to me that I get from most people. My WHOLE life was effected and people just don’t even begin to see that.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 12:30 AM
2

I was falsely accused and my life is still I ruins 12 years later but you don't hear about me because of it.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 09:43 PM
1

Jordan Peterson is most singularly wrong about considering atheism a religion. Otherwise I would give him credit for trying to be a rational reductionist philosopher type and people really poly thug don't understand that anymore because everyone is so reactionary to challenging ideas. But he does it with a consistency that I appreciate. He isn't perfect but he tries. My fear for him is that I think he gets ideas in his head and insists he is right and is probably a bit to used to actually being …
/r/MensRights08/09/21 11:55 AM
4

Ok I understand. The important question then I guess is did you run away from the situation and become an absentee father or something that could be construed as either crazy or neglectful of the responsibility to your child? I can certainly understand why you would want to under the circumstances, but at the same time if you did then I think you would also have to understand why the mother would feel like all the responsibility was laid at her feet and therefore you sacrificed your right at lea…
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:21 AM
0

I highly doubt that to the point I'm willing to question if that is another lie you are telling to yourself perhaps? Or maybe just one more like you are willing to just say because you are a troll hearted monster. And even if you were an atheist then you'd still be spreading hate against your own kind when the things you claim against us isn't even statistically true and still deserve every bit of my revulsion to your bullshit. You don't know how to stop do you????
/r/MensRights07/09/21 10:26 PM
0

It is your religion to lie about the irreligious as an excuse for yourself to hate us? And yet you wonder why atheists like myself are sick of you? And you think it is appropriate to antagonize me further after your hateful post was removed? Give up your harassment and hate and simply realize you are wrong and acting like a complete douche that throws further hate at the person they are wrongfully hating on as if they themselves are the hater for simply calling out your bigotry that isnt even ba…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 10:15 PM
-1

Did you cheat on her or something? And why would your supposed daughter say two men can claim to be her dad as if you aren't her biological father?
/r/MensRights07/09/21 09:55 PM
0

Honestly fuck you for hating on the irreligious like the religious are some how better and more loyal people. The actual statistical truth is that religious people get divorced and cheat more often than the irreligious! You don't know what you are talking about! My evangelical ex had a completely illicit affair because I am an atheist and covered it up by falsely accusing me and everyone I ever called a friend socially ostracized me for being an atheist and assuming she would never lie because s…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 09:32 PM
8

I saw it posted here a couple weeks ago maybe. A scientist guy was coming forward showing the medical evidence and facing alot of censorship about speaking about it.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 06:30 PM
9

Yeah, to my understanding it causes damage to the development of the prefrontal lobe and some other lobe.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 06:22 PM
27

It's not neccesary. In fact research shows it does irreparable harm to children mentally as well. Its just a barbaric religious cult insanity that shouldnt exist.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 04:26 PM
1

Off topic, hateful, and simply wrong.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 04:27 AM
2

I was kicked out of L.A. fitness for reporting a sexual assault that happens to me in the locker room when a some old gay creep groped me. So I called the cops and they didn't give a fuck
/r/MensRights24/08/21 01:36 PM
41

My own girlfriend did this shit to me so that she could get away with cheating on me and it all went down exactly as you imagine. I'm still seeking justice but making more enemies trying to get it than allies. My life has been in ruins since 2009 and it seems like ill never be saved.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 03:13 AM
44

I can't teach because of a weed arrest though..... Go figure... I can't stand this country anymore
/r/MensRights16/08/21 11:28 PM
1

They literally ran the case without me
/r/MensRights16/08/21 05:44 PM
2

At least the judge let him have a defense at trial. My ex falsely AC used me of tape in order to cover up an affair she was having and the judge refused to allow me to even be represented in court. It was just a meeting between her and KY ex where they decides I'm a criminal. And to this date nobody cares how kuch my rights were violated. Nobody. My life is in ruins. I have a masters degree ill never end get to use. Fuck America.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 12:01 AM
-1

Disagreed. Its ok to hate people. People suck.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 04:08 AM
1

I was referring to the commentors. The guy who started ranting against people talking about misogyny was responding to somebody talking about capitalism.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 01:00 PM
-9

Nobody mentioned misogyny until you did. They were talking about an effect of capitalism that merely involved a man getting credit for a product created by a woman. They would have said the same things if it was a product created by a man and marketed by a woman or created by a man and marketed by another man. But you do draw us right to the point of why it may have been posted in r\feminism because back then I'm not even sure women were allowed to be business owners. You mention the family unit…
/r/MensRights12/08/21 09:56 AM
76

false accused by my cheating evangelical ex so she could push me out of the way to make room for her home wrecker. My life fell to pieces and everyone turned against me.for seeking justice .
/r/MensRights10/08/21 03:31 PM
1

Because it wasnt about feminism just because it involved 2 two women. I was attacked for being an atheist by a bunch of Christian's. Yeah gamma bias played into it you are right but it was mostly about Christian's hating atheists.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 09:56 AM
1

Agreed lol
/r/MensRights10/08/21 03:13 AM
0

According to the Bible it is ok to take women as sex slaves. Conservatives love the Bible. By confirming patriarchy and rape culture the right wing has created the environment in which bad men are esteemed and because of it the natural response is to fight back against it. If it weren’t for the political right and these ideas then there wouldn’t be a patriarchy to fight back against and men wouldn’t be demonized. Meanwhile I am a leftist, I’m the victim of an abusive right wing conservative evan…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 03:04 AM
8

I wish this would happen to my ex who falsely accused me to get away with cheating on me
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:53 AM
-4

Its not the far left. I am the far left. It's the right snd the "center" that are responsible for this. The far left gets it. The center doesnt get anything, and the right is the ones giving the sub a bad name by turning mens rights into a competition with feminism. Dont blame the far left. I'm over here shutting down yall conservative anti-feminist goons while simultaneously telling my own story of being abused by a woman who got away with it because of christian privilege
/r/MensRights09/08/21 07:31 AM
1

Not cheating and being a decent human being
/r/MensRights09/08/21 07:21 AM
2

ops making excuses for child abuse.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 05:37 AM
1

What?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:31 PM
0

So is an atheist as likely as a muslim to shout allahu akhbar and blow up a bus of school children for wanting to learn science? No, clearly they arent. Religion is the motivator. And you dont see atheists saying its adam and eve not adam and steve. Are you really prepared to say that religion didnt come up with that. Adam and eve? Come on.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:16 PM
1

Yeah he did. He said Christian's shouldnt love atheists.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:15 PM
4

You speak very intelligently
/r/MensRights05/08/21 07:09 PM
2

I do but I dont, you know?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 06:50 PM
5

The discussion you guys are having is breaking my heart cause my life is so exactly everything you are talking about. Even the sort of "arguement' between you two on how to interpret the meaning of the bad stuff is what i deal with. It's weird finding people that understand. I feel like I'm on a desert island usually. I'm so traumatized and novody in my life even cares or sees it or cares to see it.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 06:39 PM
1

Wow this is how I know you have no clue at all what you are talking about and are just trying to spread hate. Seriously go fuck yourself.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:33 AM
3

Funny cause when I tell people I only want to date atheists now they say I being hateful
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:32 AM
1

And if you think its hateful to want to love and be loved then your views are disgustingly backwards.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:30 AM
1

So are Christian's being hateful when they try to convince us to be christian?
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:29 AM
1

Loving someone is selfish? Gtfo
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:22 AM
1

Then is it any wonder why atheists would seek to get people to leave religion? We do it because we love them.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:05 AM
1

But I think its horrible that you want to reinforce the hate rather than confront it and say that religious peoole should be able to love non religious people
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:04 AM
0

If religion pushes you farther from people than closer than it isn't love that's at the core of what the religion is all about but rather, hate. Also, when we started dating we didnt even know each others views. So your whole idea just kind of breaks down there in my situation.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:04 AM
0

Why because religion is too hateful?
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:51 PM
3

Fuck off douchebag
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:47 PM
0

Wow. How hateful. And you dont even see it. Being an atheist doesnt make me unlovable. Wtf
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:47 PM
1

There ain't nothing masculine about this dude. I could rock him.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:46 PM
0

My dad cheatesnon my mom. I would never act like that. Get your head on straight.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:44 PM
4

Fuck off
/r/MensRights31/07/21 08:07 PM
1

Can you explain?
/r/MensRights31/07/21 06:58 PM
3

Likewise and yeah I know exactly what you mean
/r/MensRights31/07/21 05:54 PM
2

Huh?
/r/MensRights31/07/21 03:59 PM
5

Then why did you say it in the form of a refutation? And I'm not heated up. I'm the one telling you to not get heated up yourseld make an issue of things that dont need to be made issues of.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 02:40 PM
8

All we were doing was watching Alien 3!
/r/MensRights31/07/21 02:21 PM
21

I didnt escape at all. She falsely accused me of rape in order to cover it up the affair she was having, everyone cheered her on for finding a "good christian man". I went to jail and she has a restraining order against me. My career that I had just gotten started at 22 after graduating with my masters degree as a teacher was ruined. My family turned against me and kicked me out and I spent many years homeless and helpless while stuck in horrible college debt and lawyers fees and court fees and …
/r/MensRights31/07/21 02:20 PM
21

My ex cheated because she was an evangelical christian that resented me for not being a Christian but rather an anti-theistic atheist who thinks that religious people often use religion as a lame excuse to be hurtful and hateful to others for no reason than they they live differently. Her actions are just about the height of hypocrisy while getting mad saying "not all Christians!". But yeah she played it off like I was some uncaring horrible monstrous evil atheist person and everyone ate it up a…
/r/MensRights31/07/21 02:11 PM
2

I think i get what you are trying to say about me being non-agressive. Like that her actions are over the top. But I would make the counterpoint that many people who are caught in the middle of doing something horrible play it off like you are the one freaking out for catching them because they were just joking around or something and try to act non-challant. Doesnt mean they arent perfectly capable of doing something atrocious though. Sorry I appreciate your comments and support. I'm just neuro…
/r/MensRights31/07/21 01:45 PM
2

I'm not an anti-feminist like so many of the guys on here. In fact, I get in many arguements with anti-feminists here. So while your point is generally valid, you say it like you think me telling my truth makes me some hypocritical anti-feminist? Simply not true. I understand and support those women. Sometimes I think real victims understand how other real victims act and to everyone else it's a mystery or something.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 01:35 PM
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As a person that has been both a victim of crimes as well as someone falsely accused of them, I would caution against victim blaming in the sense that even though I did nothing to that woman, if it was a true scenario then I wouldn't blame a victim for trying to get away after being drugged even if dui is illegal. It certainly doesnt make a persona horrible person as you say. But nevertheless that's not the story here anyways.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 01:18 PM
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I would say they dont even go for the top 20%. Theybjust go for random dumb shit that makes no sense at all half the time. I'm definitely more affectionate, more caring, smarter, and better looking than the ugly cave troll my ex ran off cheating on me with.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 12:28 PM
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I'm glad you understand. As I'm sure you can believe, its surprisingly hard to find understanding from people, especially women. They just get mad at me and say "not all women" when I say I dont trust being around women in private any longer. That ironically just confirms to me why I dont trust being around them in the first place.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 12:22 PM
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Do you also snap out at women who write in womens forums about fearing men? I doubt you've ever dont that once In your life. And it shows how little you understand mensrights as a movement because our fears of being falsely accused have direct correlation to the way we then get falsely tried by the courts too.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:34 AM
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Sooo yeah.. just cut out the bullshit. This shit happens ALL the fuckinf time to men because women think they can just do whatever anymore
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:31 AM
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There is also another time where I was hanging out with another girl watching aliens 3 and halfway through the movie she got up and started packing up her stuff and leaving my house and got in her car and when I asked her what she was doing all of a sudden leaving in the middle of the movie she said "you know what you did! You out a date rape pill in my drink!" And then she drove off and was completely fine and never apologized and then even came into where she knew I worked to apply for a job a…
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:30 AM
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There was also a time that I asked a girl out who I had been friends with for a few years and she proceeded to run around my neighborhood screaming rape after punching me in the face.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:28 AM
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Because then when I expressed my pain about it all because I loved her it was deemed that I was harassing her and she was granted a restraining order.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:26 AM
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Same bro. Literally always cheated on.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:24 AM
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I was falsely accused by my own girlfriend so that she could find an excuse to get everyone's support when she decided to run off cheating on me and ruin my life.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 11:23 AM
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No. It isnt. Douche
/r/MensRights28/07/21 06:18 PM
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I literally just woke up from nightmares that I have regularly from the PTSD I've developed after being falsely accused by my own girlfriend so that she c would get away with cheating on me. It destroyed my career, my entire social life, my family etc. and pushed me into homelessness and made me suicidal. She is still getting away with it to this very day. so honestly fuck this woman for being ok with another woman torturing me and ruining my life. And the thing is, the way she describes the tor…
/r/MensRights28/07/21 12:31 PM
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Thanks for the support. Its appreciated.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 08:06 PM
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Frankly, she has a restraining order against me and my right to even have a defense in court was utterly denied to me when they granted it to her. They have basically silenced me from even getting the chance to persue justice against her. So I'm sadly not comfortable doxing her to reddit because that shit would just come back to haunt me.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 07:23 PM
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I dont really know. What I really need is justice so i dont know how to get that. And as we all know the justice system is broken.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 04:51 PM
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I feel like the people complaining about no true Scotsman issues herd are actually doing the opposite many tines... The uh... "All true Scotsman" as in "all true feminists hate men and want to kill men" or perhaps "no true feminist cares about equality they just want female supremely". That shit goes both ways and it seems like slot of the people here don't get that. They think that being feminist means you are a terrorist basically. It just simply isn't true.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 07:00 AM
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I wish I could agree but after hundreds of insane people here jumped down my throat and harassed me for an entire day after I tried to defend the idea that feminism doesn't have to be about hate and instead can simply be about treating women with equal dignity (it was as if they had never encountered anyone who thinks feminism can be a good thing before) I have to disagree with you. The people in this sub aren't generally cool with shoeing a bit of acceptance and empathy. I was called everything…
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:56 AM
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So wait, now you are saying feminism is a good thing and that people keep trying to make feminism about a bunch of dumb bullshit that it isnt truly about? That's been my point all along!! Thanks for making my point so clear. Thanx bro. Later!
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:44 AM
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Wow 9 minutes... Its fucking 2:30 in the morning and you are distracting me from making my watchlist for the market tomorrow. That's way more important than talking to you. You have no point. Trump lost. You are just a sad anime loser that cant get laid alone in your room writing about how much you hate feminism at 2:30 in the morning.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:38 AM
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A contradiction is an inconsistency between ideas in a statement. That's exactly what I've been telling you this whole time. A contradiction is you getting butthurt at being insulted while calling someone else a slur. It's you that doesnt know what a contradiction is.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:23 AM
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You said some dumb shit about how if you think all lives matter that therefore you also think womens loves dont. That makes no sense. I read your idiotic comment perfectly. Its rhetorically inconsistent.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:14 AM
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K
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:13 AM
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You are so dumb. Just because you dont make sense doesnt mean I cant read. But you are so dumb that you WOULD think that. Plus I'd bet I did better on the SAT verbal than you.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:12 AM
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I read it just fine. It's you who doesnt make sense. You must be schizophrenic. Talking in nonsequiters that barely show cognizance.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:09 AM
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You have no point
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:06 AM
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I said it doesnt make sense. Not that I cant read it.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:03 AM
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Says the one who is lying to the one who knows he is lying.. K
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:02 AM
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You got anime dweeb shit all up and down your profile and yet you call me a simp? Dude you are the simp! Hahaha I bet your whole room is full of action figures lololol
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:00 AM
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What's basic or simpish about having a doge shirt? It's hilarious you have to try to dox me or some shit because you got nothing logical to say.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:58 AM
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What you said had nothing to do with what I said
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:56 AM
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Is there any lie you wont tell? Haha. Retrumplican tears.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:53 AM
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retrumplican. Said blm is anti BLM. I mean. Come the fuck on... you don't even have a real arguement... so I dont need to take you that seriously
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:52 AM
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We won. Bye bye retrumplicans.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:51 AM
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What??
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:50 AM
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You do realize trump lost right? Lol
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:48 AM
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SMH you are just insisting on your definition over the ones a google search turns up. You say that I portray women as victims even against homeless men and yet if you knew the first thing about me youd know the very reason I'm here is because I am the male victim of so many of the exact things you describe. But when I come here and see that despite many if the posts here being great there are also plenty of people with a stick up their ass about even saying the female perspective matters and cal…
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:48 AM
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That's simply not true. You can even look it up. In many places explaining feminism theybezplicitly desc ri be feminism as seeking to promote equality between the genders. Perhaps more tellingly I even saw one definition where they say that feminism is exactly what I said it is, an ethic of caring about diverse people but analysing gender bias in general. Feminism is about about gaining Insight into life by allowing the perspective of the main character in a book or movie to be female for exampl…
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:15 AM
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I didn't say misogynist...
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:36 AM
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Or show me where I ever said there are valid reasons to criticize feminism.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:34 AM
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Show me where I ever used the word misogynistic. Please.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:33 AM
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I agree with alot of what you said there but I eont think being a feminist and an egalitarian are mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:32 AM
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Wow, you just cant stop yourself from misquoting me can you. I didn't say a single thing you just said.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:28 AM
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My ex waa granted a restraining order against as if if I was threatening only because I wanted the chance to confront her about her false accusations towarda me that she made in order to push me out of the way and get sympathy from people when she also chose to have an illicit affair and break my heart and run off with the p.o.s. and ghost me. I waz the victim and I wanted answered but apparently that makes me dangerous even though I never threatened her. They ran the court case without allowing…
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:50 AM
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I never said its lame to treat people equally. I'm say it a lame way if getting to equanimity by not taking peoples specific needs into consideration and handling everything as a one size fits all approach. Because one size does not truly fit all.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:03 AM
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So then how is it any different to support talking about black specific issues but not female specific issues?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:34 PM
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But are you anti blm?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:20 PM
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We arent unequal in the same ways though. We get treated unequally because men get deemed as being physically strong while women get deemed physically weak. A girl that wants to play football faces a different set of societal hurdles than a man that cant lift something heavy. Addressing those specific needs is worthwhile and ignoring our individuality and trying to only do things in a one size fits all manner is lame.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:15 PM
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You are misquoting me. I never said you cant criticize feminism. If anything I've said that all ideas are open to criticism. Whether you should or not is a different matter.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:10 PM
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Are you also anti-BLM?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:07 PM
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No you just are bad at creating analogies.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:06 PM
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I didn't come here to start trouble. I'm trying to help you guys realize that respecting women doesnt mean disrespecting men. The only circles you ran were chasing your own metaphorical tail. You didnt make any good points. You just think you did. You clesely csnt admit when you are wrong. Its frankly pitiful that so many people in a mens rights group are so hypocritical about something as basic as valuing feminism. If you want respect you should give it too. Nothing I said was toxic. I spoke el…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:05 PM
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It isnt one in the same. The nazis were specifically a german political party. If you are an american national socialist then you certainly aren't German. If you emulate the Nazis then I guess you be a neo-nazi. Either way ethno-nationalism is certainly problematic. Honestly I'm not sure the nazi party should be called socialist anyway. I'm not sure what socialist policy the nazis ever really enacted. But I think whe you are trying to make your point is ultimately backwards too because it's like…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:55 PM
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That's fine. But you can still be a feminist. Being a feminist doesnt mean you think less of men. Same with how saying black lives matter doesnt mean you hate white people or something. It just means you think Black people matter. I wonder if everyone hating on me here also thinks BLM is racist or something.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:46 PM
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Sorry I gotta get into work myself. maybe I'll respond more later.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 01:06 PM
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I never said I did. Get your head out of your ass bruh. I'm glad my head isnt up my ass like you.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 01:02 PM
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Also never said you cant criticize feminism. Every idea is open to criticism. Except for saying "k" to the OP apparently lol
/r/MensRights11/07/21 01:01 PM
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I've already been over this as well. Patriarchys do exist. The Taliban tried to kill Malala Yousefani for going to school because they think women should be allowed to receive an education. I'm not delusional. You are. You just want to cry "not all men" whenever a woman talks about the shitty things she sees men in general doing or something. It's like when women scream "not all women!" Whenever a man talks about being terrified of women after how women have treated him or how the religious say …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 01:00 PM
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So even though I'm a man and u stand up for mRNA rights you mean to say that I hate men because I also stand up for womens rights and call myself a feminist? What a fucking joke!
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:55 PM
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Some labels we chose for ourselves. Some other people chose for us. Some labels are compromises. But I think also that most people who talk shit on feminism are not actually supports of women with dignity and respecting for their rights. I said in another comment that they are usually religious people who want women to conform to their religious standards. But men who want to talk shit on feminism and compare it to terrorism or a only caring about money like the op did and many people in the com…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:43 PM
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I've already been over this in other comments about how I do actively support men's rights and stand up to fem-nazism. I am the victim of fem-nazism. That's why I joined this sub. So dont accuse me of not doing those things.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:35 PM
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What's backwards about saying that you dont have to be a woman to support womens rights. You said you support womens rights. Does that mean you are a woman then? Plus, I waa ultimately just turning YOUR bad logic back against you. So for you to say that me saying what I said means how illogical i.am is actually proof of how illogical YOU are because I was referencing YOUR bad logic.You also say you support gay rights but the tried to smear me by I insultingly calling me a transvestite. You dont …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:30 PM
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That's a lie. When did I ever act like I'm the only person who has ever been violated??? And what story did I exaggerate? You are so desperate to win a point that you are willing to lie amd harass me to try to make that happen. How deceitful! I'm also not a kid. How old are you. I'm older than you you big baby. And how do I "seem like a woman"? Because you canr possibly fathom a man actually caring not to have a mens rights subreddit just become a hate first against feminism? You are a joke. And…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:27 PM
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That's a lie. I'm a feminist and I advocate for womens rights and I dont advocate for female supremacy or male oppression. I fight against that crap. I'm the victim of that crap.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:18 PM
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I agree it doesnt need to have a name. But the OP is the one who called it out by name saying he doesnt support it. So the issue shouldnt be with me for just responding.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:16 PM
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It's the same with how someone that thinks 1+1=3 doesnt have to admit they are wronf for you to label them wrong. If you support womens rights you are a feminist. If you dont, then you aren't.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:14 PM
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Being a drummer is such as much a statement about who you are as being a feminist is. It shows what you do, what you think about, what you care about. Its. It. not a political movement I guess but why would that matter? They are both labels and the point is that you guys are trying to reject a label just because perhaps you dont like the sound of it since it references women and you got some kind of hateful pride about being men. But ok, perhaps it's more akin to describing someone as being on t…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:13 PM
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What's it matter how old I am?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:06 PM
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I never said that supporting womens rights makes you female. YOUR logic is incredibly flawed.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:05 PM
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That is fem-nazism. I've already been over this. There is nothing inherent to being s feminist that says you have to go protest and shutdown talks about men and mens health. But yall keep acting like feminism and fem nazism are the same thing.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:03 PM
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Words do take on multiple meanings but I'm not the one who claimed that feminists are all bad people. Lol. That was the rest of yall. It's you guys who are acting like there can o ly be one definition of feminism and that it is always bad.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 12:01 PM
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How so?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:59 AM
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I've already been over this 2 other times.. feminism is not an orgganization... it is a philosophical disposition that answers "yes'to the question "do you care about treating women with dignity" yes or no. Feminist or anti-feminist. If you care you are feminist. If you dont care the you are anti feminist.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:58 AM
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Feminists dont exclusively support womens rights. That is such a lie and you know it. I am a feminist and I came to this sub to write about how my rights were violated as a man. So quit lying about feminists. You dont even know what you are talking about. The fact I'm even hear talking to you is the proof that you are wrong lol.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:55 AM
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You project so much hatred it's not healthy. I'm a man, but you clearly are so hateful that you think anyone who stands up for women against men hating on them for standing up for themselves is a woman? And a privileged woman at that? How the hell am I privileged? I'm a man whose rights have been violated and I care about keeping this community free of men that want to just come here and attack women for doing the same thing that the men here are trying to do.. standing up for their rights.. And…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:53 AM
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I do agree with you that feminists could do a better job of policing what it means to be feminist and disassociating from fem nazis. In fact I call out fem nazi bullshit and explain the difference between feminism and fem-nazism alot. It's funny you assume that I dont because i actually do...alot.. in fact that's exactly what I've been doing here in this comment section. But it takes standing up to the hypocrisy of man-nszis who wants to talk about mens rights but then hate on feminists as if th…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:44 AM
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If you support womens rights then that makes you a feminist. What you are saying is like saying "I'm a person but dont call me a human being". I already went over this with someone else. Feminism isnt an organization like the democrats are. It is a point of philosophical positioning where you can either be feminist or anti feminist with the basis for differentiating between the two being whether or not you support treating women with dignity.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:36 AM
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All I did was say "k" and everyone jumped down my throat because i surmised that the ops point boiled down to that he rejects feminism for the same reasons he rejects peta and greenpeace.. because in his view they are all terrorists that only care about money. I got it from what the op wrote...
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:30 AM
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I'm what's wrong with this generation because I stand up for womens rights? Or because I can write full paragraphs? Or understand full paragraphs without crying about it like a baby? Or is it that I'm ehats wrong with this generation because I sont like being misquoted? I'm what's wrong with this generation because I've tries to approach this conversation logically and respectfully while yall have been freaking out about the fact that I said "k" I think you got it dead backwards. YOU are what's …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:27 AM
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Why take the action but act like the label that describes the action is bad?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:22 AM
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That's like saying "I make music by hitting things with sticks but I'm not a drummer and drummers are bad people"
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:21 AM
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But if all being a feminist means is that you support womens rights then how can you support womens rights without being properly described as a feminist? It's one in the same. Why have the viewpoint but act like the label doesnt fit?
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:19 AM
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I literally stated in one of the comments that this isnt about me. Where did I ever make it about me? And so what if I'm the only person that thinks the way I do here. The people arguing with me are expressing hatred of feminism. Then they wonder why the world at large thinks subreddits like this are a joke. But I'll tell you a reason why I care to explain how shitty you are all acting right now. Its because I care about mens rights. I've been the victim of multiple forms of abuse that have caus…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:12 AM
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Yes that is my opinion. Pointing that out and saying you have a different opinion isnt an arguement against mine though. As far as your idea that feminism does the opposite of what it stands for can you explain what you mean? And as for christianity I didnt ask about bad things that contradict what christianity stands for because there is plenty of bad things that Christian's have done acting out their faith such as threatening people with eternal torture unless they become Christian. It's very …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:39 AM
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You dont distinguish between feminists and fem nazis? I think that is part of the reason for misunderstanding between us. I distingush between those things. There is a difference between treating women with dignity verses enforcing a matriarchy. As to the specifics though, did either the womens march or the Cavanaugh hearing involve people storming the capitol? I dont remember seeing anything like that, especially not with violent attacks of police, zip ties to take hostages, breaking and enteri…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:31 AM
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How can you supports womens rights without being a feminist. Can you explain what you mean by that? I think it could be argues that women that are anti feminist are not actually for womens rights. They are often times just religious zealots that are essentially anti-humanist and do not seek for women to be treated with dignity but rather to fill some kind of prescribed role according to their religion.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:20 AM
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You are falsifying quotes and attributing them to me now? Wow... that's embarrassing for you... Also you are really on about this whole thing where paragraphs freak you out. Did you graduate elementary school or no? I am taking what you say seriously. That's why I'm responding point by point to everything you are saying. You on the other hand just keep misquoting me and ranting about paragraphs. Yet you call me a Broken record? If I repeat myself it's only because I keep having to respond you ma…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:16 AM
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One could easily argue that all chrisrians are terrorists if you are going to say that all feminists are. Likewise, if you are going to say that most christisns arent terrorists then I think you could also say that most feminists arent terrorists who only care about money either. If anything I think the case that all or most Christian's are terrorists has as good if not better standing than the idea that all or most feminists are terrorists or only care about money. After all, most Christians be…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:04 AM
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I doubt you know the actions of most feminists enough to actually qualify that view. It's not like feminism is some organization where you sign a document stating you will hate men and do terroristic things or something like that. I would also offer up the idea that most of the bad actors among supposed feminists are more properly described as fem nazis. I cant stand fem nazis but I think feminism is a good thing and is more of a greater philosophical position about treating minorities of all ki…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:44 AM
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You are a joke. Lol. Suddenly I'm overly offended because I told you to stop being so easily offended? You make zero sense. You also write about how I wrote a long paragraph as if that's a sign of freaking out within a long paragraph that you wrote yourself. You say I'm so offended because I said "wrong" and yet you act like you arent offended when you picked a fight with me calling me brainwashed and have been snapping out for the past 5 minutes at me. Dude calm down. You are the one who cant c…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:23 AM
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So you say "not all christians" but you do say "all feminists".... in other words the bad actions of some feminists neccesarily refute the validity of feminism as a whole but the bad actions of a few Christian's dont refute the validity of Christianity as a whole? Seems like you have a double standard
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:18 AM
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I get what you are saying but whereas peta and Greenpeace are organizations feminism is not. Instead it is just a matter of supporting womens rights or not. To say that someone supports womens rights but is antipathic to feminism is like saying "I'm for animal rights but I dont support respecting animals".
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:14 AM
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I'm offended because I said "k"? Uhhh.... Im actually laughing at how butthurt you are right now. You accuse me of bringing up identity politics and yet all I did was say the logical equivalent of "if you think one group of people are bad because some people in that group have done bad things then do you also think this other group of people that alot of people belong to are also bad because some people in the group did bad things? That's not identity politics. It's a question about how this per…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:09 AM
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It's not a silly question. It's a rhetorical question designed to make OP rethink his faulty logic. He said he rejects feminism for the same reasons he rejects PETA and Greenpeace - because in his view they are terrorists who only care about money. I agree with you that there is nothing about being s feminist that implies terrorism or only caring about money. That's why I said what I did. What is my kind? I never even identified what kind of person I am. I just asked a rhetorical question. If th…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:02 AM
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Wrong. I didnt even identify myself. I just made a logical comparison. Stop being so offended.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:56 AM
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The OP made a direct comparison of feminism to PETA only caring about money and Greenpeace being terrorists. Dont blame me for OPs faulty logic.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:54 AM
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Are you Christian? because Christians have been terrorists too.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:08 AM
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Christians have been terrorists too. But I'd bet you most likely are one.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:06 AM
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So feminists are terrorists who only care about money? K
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:48 AM
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According to christians god killed nearly every living being. ;p But seriously though, you do have a point that mao killed more people than anyone and he waa an atheist. But I think that is looking at who aa one person killed the most in one timeframe. I'm no expert on who killed how many people but I think it could at least he argues that religion has probably killed more people in total. I dunno.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 05:16 PM
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I wish. My best friend is obsessed with that story and followed the whole thing. That's kind if why when he met me i was like "wow, finally somebody who gets it". He waa printed to understand it. I wouldnt have even known about Johnny Depp cause ik not a celebrity news type person. I'm glad he told me about it though. Likewise he had me watch an anime called "legend of the shield hero" and I'm not a huge anime person but it too was about a guy who is a solid dude who get falsely accused by this …
/r/MensRights10/07/21 05:03 PM
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Human history is riddled with the atrocities of the religious acting in the name of their religion. I feel like it is some bad trope that is spread in churches and amongst the religious to say "hitler, stalin, and pol pot were atheists" while most of the people saying that line probably dont even know who Pol Pot was. It's just a thing they've learned to say. And also frankly those things can be debated as to their veracity. Hitler if anything was a deranged catholic with anti-clerical tendencie…
/r/MensRights10/07/21 03:42 PM
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I feel like half my problem is financial timing spiralling out of my control. I was finishing grad school at the time of all this crap starting and I also found out my dad was cheating on my mom at the same time. So with all the cheating and anger and confusion it left me with I had alot of fights with my family about cheating. They wound up not supporting me because standing up against my exs behavior meant standing up against my dad who then kicked me out. Right during the financial crisis fal…
/r/MensRights10/07/21 03:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights10/07/21 01:05 PM
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Religions are actually something worthy of being afraid of though. I agree with what you say saying in general but consider that it's usually the religious who are trying to make people afraid of godlessness
/r/MensRights10/07/21 12:48 PM
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My cheating ex who I genuinely loved waa granted a restraining order against me for trying to even have a single conversation with her about why she abruptly ran out on me and ghosted me to an affair. The judge violated my right to even have a defense in court and ran the whole court case with only one party present believing my exs fabricated lies. It destroyed my career and social life. And frankly I have alot more to say about how my ex became abusive in the process of leaving by doing shit l…
/r/MensRights10/07/21 12:29 PM
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Feminism isnt the same thing as fem-naziism though
/r/MensRights08/07/21 07:07 PM
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Standing up for women isnt wrong. But so many people here act like feminism is so attack on men. Probably also think BLM is an attack on white people.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 06:49 PM
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So I am making excuses for people to act shitty by saying that something has been mischaracterizes? How does that make an ounce of sense?
/r/MensRights08/07/21 01:21 PM
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I never said not to criticize feminism. You are full of projection. Wow.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:54 PM
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Wow that is a load of crap.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:52 PM
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How am I making excuses for people to act shitty?
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:23 PM
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I think you'd find more respect for feminism in a Wendy's than in a church TBH. Also, do you accept doge? But in all truth, I'd say stop making excuses for people to act shitty just because it's an online forum, especially when this forum wants to be taken seriously and freaks out when they arent taken seriously.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 12:15 PM
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Nah, just look around at how much people say all the time that feminism is a bad thing. They completely mischaracterize it.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 11:52 AM
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I completely agree with this post. I am a man. I've been viciously abused by women. But I am also a feminist in the sense that I understand that women have also been abused by men. I'd think that any true victim of abuse would understand this. I love this sub because many people here understand the shit I've been through but there is this extra element of sexism that is just plain old abuse in and of itself that distracts from the otherwise credibility of the sub and sadly let's people on the ou…
/r/MensRights08/07/21 10:29 AM
6

When my ex broke my heart running off cheating I was made into the bad guy for being hurt. It haunts me every day of my life.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 11:12 PM
1

Being cheated on broke my heart and ruined my life. Fuck this piece of suit woman and fuck my ex and all the women that cheered her on for cheating on me as if I didn't matter at all.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 08:04 PM
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I am in a very similar situation in many ways. It happened when I was 22 and I'm 34 now and still homeless and my career is still ruined and KY abusive cheater ex is still getting away with it and everyone still hates me for no reason and I feel so trapped and victimized and traumatized. I really don't know what to do. I have nothing good to say. Just know that you aren't the only one and you aren't alone in this struggle
/r/MensRights29/06/21 06:25 AM
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Funny... My abusive cheating runaway ex was granted a lifetime restraining order against me for simply trying to ask her why she was doing it. I've never threatened her. Never laid a finger on her. Nothing. I actually loved her. And yet she. This woman beats her ex physically she gets 2 years? My whole life is left a painful mystery where ill never even get to confront the person that abandoned me? Yet women get to be physically violent and get a lesser punishment than I did for trying to talk t…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:38 AM
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I've wanted to but I have no money and nobody even cares. I've tried to talk to cops and lawyers and they all just say "that sucks. Guess there is nothing you can do about it"
/r/MensRights21/06/21 11:15 PM
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You posted here. Idiot.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 08:07 AM
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Love can be proven in many ways. Clearly somebody told you that love can’t be proven to try to convince you of religion though. Here are some books for you to read “the end of faith” by Sam Harris, “the god delusion” by Richard Dawkins, and “god is not great” by Christopher Hitchens. I think it’s you who needs to read more.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 07:40 AM
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Subjective truth? Sounds like a cop out. It seems like we are talking about the same thing but now you dont like your own words when applied back to a different situation where I'm guessing you are religious?
/r/MensRights21/06/21 07:05 AM
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Plus, the military covered up the murder of the atheist soldier Pat Tillman and they also routinely deny atheists military promotions deeming us mentally unfit.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:58 AM
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Hell no. I barely even support this countries atrocious politics. No way am I gonna be the one to enforce it. I hate this cou try for what it's become and for what it's done to me. Remember this country threw me in a cage...
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:56 AM
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I waa basically compelled to go back to loving eith my parents because I became so down and out.. ut as you can imagine... I tried to escape my family I initially because of both my dads cheating and my parents refusing to stand up for me because of my ex cheating and then falsely accusing me.. my mom is delirious as far as I can tell and my dad is a cheater himself who just freaks out and kicks me out for even talking about anything that happened. So I'm kind of still completely down and out. B…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:48 AM
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I'm terrified of women in general now because of what I went through and basically continue to go through... muchless dating... muchless dating christian women... I'm from the USA.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:41 AM
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But instead they expect atheists to prove them wrong and all we can really do is just show how fallacious their claims are and hope they get it
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:25 AM
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This is why atheists confront the religious over the lack of evidence or terribly I'll conceived attempts st establishing evidence for their claims
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:24 AM
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And to make matters worse... between what she did and also ny dad cheating on my mom at the same exact time it drove me suicidal... and everyone just made fun of me and didnt even care... w They just had me locked up in a mental institution and when I came back after spring break some kid in my class even said he hated me in the middle of class because at that point my atheism was completely in question and with me vigorously trying to defend myself from these attacks coming at me from all angle…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:16 AM
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Everyone just has the reaction of "sad man = crazy man"
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:11 AM
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She literally sent my my livejournal account into somethingawful.com and got people to harass me... and they did.. for years...
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:10 AM
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I've tried every conceivable thing I can think of. I wrote online every day of my life for years and everyone just treated me like I was a crazy stalker.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:09 AM
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I was falsely accused by own girlfriend behind my backto make everyone hate me so she could get away with having an affair and running off with the home wrecker and ghosting me. They gave her a restraining order. It broke mg heart, destroyed my career, social life, family and basically everything. I went from getting my masters degree to being homeless living out of my car getting arrested for other stupid shit and going to jail while homeless and desperately trying to just survive basically. An…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 01:14 AM
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Absolutely
/r/MensRights16/06/21 05:38 AM
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I applaud this so much.
/r/MensRights15/06/21 02:55 AM
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I agree wit basically everything OP said but I consider the tactics that people use to raise kids with religion to be child abuse. Telling little kids they will burn in hell if they ever even so much as doubt the faith is toxic and its the reason we have so many delusional religious people who vote against their own interests and ignore the hate and abuse inherent to the religion. I don't really consider that something that people can just easily reject in adulthood. I think it saddles them with…
/r/MensRights11/06/21 02:59 PM
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Being told to get over being falsely accused of sexual assault and also being told to get over being sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 07:32 PM
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I'm literally terrified to even be alone around women now.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 12:39 AM
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Not going to lie I have so much of a dislike for the common human being now because of what this experience has shown me about the lack of humanity in human beings that I do wish it would all stop.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:26 PM
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I wish. But I literally have no support at all from anyone and I'm homeless now. I've talked to the cops I've talked to lawyers and all anyone ever says is "get over it" or " oh that sucks guess there's nothing you can do now"
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:09 PM
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A corrupt judge Kathleen Jenks ran a complete kangaroo court against me refusing to even let me have a defense present and granted my abusive cheater ex a restraining order against me just for trying to figure out why she ran off to montana having an affair. So you are completely right. My life is the proof. I was deemed a stalker and harasser all because they saw some young girl crying crocodile tears.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 11:52 AM
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Women ganged up on me and laughed at me when my girlfriend cheated on me. No sympathy or anything. Just denialism and hate. When I tried to speak up about the abuse I was just denied and hated on even more.
/r/MensRights08/06/21 08:00 PM
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My abusive ex was granted a restraint order against me by a judge who violated my right to even have a defense in court and jyst believed her lies with full sexist and religious prejudice against me. She is still getting away with her abuse towards me to this very day. Ive been fighting for 12 years for justice and it seems Luke nobody gives a shit what she has done to me.
/r/MensRights08/06/21 12:15 PM
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So much this.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 09:08 PM
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I'm in a very similar situation. My ex cheated on me and apparently accused me of raping her in order to cover it up and make me look like the bad guy snd for everyone to pity her and take her side. I've fought as hard as I possibly could or even know how and she has so thoroughly gotten away with this abuse that it has made me contemplate and even attempt suicide. She destroyed my career, she turned all my my friends and family against me, I went from graduating with my masters to becoming home…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:48 PM
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