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Swmando/r/MGTOW214/07/21 03:43 AM
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Nice. I'm hoping to go boar hunting sometime. But I do plan on going tuna fishing in the late summer.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 03:09 PM
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Pretty much copying and pasting from a previous post about prostitution. What would you do in my situation: I love my wife. We’ve had 40 wonderful years together, two successful adult children, financial success, been there for each other through cancer (her’s) and injury (mine, car accident). We had what I thought was a mutually satisfying sex life together. When I retired, she said she wasn’t horny anymore and said we were done making love. We snuggle, kiss, flirt, but no more sex. I suggested…
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 01:59 AM
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Thanks. Joining right now.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 06:44 PM
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Ah yes. Those losers? I wish I could punch them, but I guess that would be assault.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 11:46 PM
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Or, I could just want to do my own thing. You know... Why must there be a three-page all caps manifesto for me just wanting my weekends free?
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 11:37 PM
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I seriously do that to myself. I have been led to believe that is bad, but it recently paid off. Everyone in my friend group knows how negative I am about my job. Last summer at a socially distanced beach trip, one asked me about a scientific paper that recently got published. He noted that the paper’s financial disclosure listed four patents (applications, but they will eventually go through). In a rare moment of bragging, I mentioned that a major pharma company was licensing the inventions. Th…
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 01:25 PM
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I really like getting my dick wet, too, but dude.... The Internet, apps, websites, fantasy distanced shit...they are all poison to a man’s soul. Really, stop it. It only leads to depression. You are better than that. Concentrate on building a world of friendship and your own power, not a life pursuing the con of true shared affection free of hidden motives. If you must, seriously consider sex workers. They exchange sex for money in an honest way. You know what you are paying, and you know what y…
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 01:13 PM
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Quick note on peanut butter. Eat real peanut butter, not the fake stuff. Ingredients should be only two things: ground peanuts and salt. Things like Skippy and Jif are filled with added fat and sugar. Now...I can only control my sweet tooth by eating Keto. My sweet tooth only gets under control if I also avoid most starchy carbs, too. Complex carbs start converting to sugar even before you are done chewing. Your stomach just sees it all as sugar. Bullshit opinion but I’ll write it anyway: Men ar…
/r/MGTOW208/11/20 01:36 PM
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I split 50/50 and have no child support nor alimony. Key: Good lawyer, good judge.
/r/MGTOW207/11/20 07:09 PM
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I have guy friends who try to pull that shit, too. I have none of it.
/r/MGTOW207/11/20 10:17 AM
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Weirdly, my closest female friends keep helping to get me laid by setting me up with their friends. I don’t simp, don’t do anyone favors without reciprocation, don’t loan anyone money. I have no memory of the last time I asked a woman out on a date. But, I’ll get my dick wet if the situation is right. It’s okay to have female friends, but dump the ones who abuse the privilege.
/r/MGTOW206/11/20 07:29 PM
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It’s not clear to me that she actually asked for the seat with real words. It read like she looked at him expectantly. I’ll give my seat up to anyone who asks. Anyone. I will not give my seat up to people who don’t actually use their words to ask. I gave up trying to be a mind reader after my divorce. Be explicit in your requests, or fuck off.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 06:19 PM
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Mostly, I don’t care. I’m doing my own thing and I really don’t give a shit what people think about it. Red pill, blue pill...it’s unimportant.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 01:50 AM
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Not at all. I try to treat women like I threat men: with compassion. It reflects on who I am as a person, independent of anyone who has been a shit to me in the past.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 03:25 PM
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False. MGTOW is about men owning their power and living their lives by their own (reasonable) rules instead of the rules of a partner. It’s about seeking financial security so you don’t have a boss commanding you (at work or at home). Lots of MGTOW guys still date. They just come at dating from a position of confidence and strength rather than simping, being an incel, or being friendzoned. And if they do spend money or time on a sexual companion, it is their choice how the money is spent. It inv…
/r/MGTOW220/10/20 04:40 PM
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When I used to date regularly, I’d always downplay this. I’m a lab chemist staring at chemical reactions all day. It’s almost blue collar work, but in a lab. Sometimes they let me get a new lab coat! Reality: Team lead chemist for a pharma company with six reports and making solid good money and stock options. Several patents, one for a drug you’ve probably heard of.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 03:36 PM
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Step one, get a really good vasectomy. That will eliminate some of your problems. A lawyer is going to be more than willing to charge you $300/hr to listen to whatever you want to say, but I can’t see that going to a lawyer without a specific plan is going to help much. You can’t get legal immunity from future accusations. But, you might be able to get a blanket insurance coverage to cover some things.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 12:33 AM
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The temples were amazing. The food was amazing. The banging hookers was not great, but plentiful and cheap.
/r/MGTOW209/10/20 09:55 PM
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Six bozos just got caught trying to kidnap the Michigan Governor. If that’s the best they can do, I’m feeling pretty safe.
/r/MGTOW208/10/20 11:56 PM
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Correction: Hooker Banging: Thailand, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Tijuana.
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 05:41 PM
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This entirely depends on what you want to do. Then it is the same as traveling with someone. Tourist stuff: Thailand, Puerto Rico, Costa Rica, Canada (Montreal or Vancouver). Sex tourism: Thailand, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Tijuana. Nature/hiking: Seattle, Oregon, Thailand, Costa Rica, Maine, Puerto Rico.
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 05:07 PM
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I’d strongly encourage you to drop the Incel identification. That whole community is filled with self-loathing misogynists. “Incel” fundamentally goes against the main concept of MGTOW. Live your good life. Work on yourself. Do your hobbies. Become financially independent. And if you want to get your dive wet, there are options that don’t require simping. Good luck.
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 11:20 AM
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Work on yourself. Always work on yourself. If you chose the dating thing later on, fine. But never give an inch on who your best person is to get a chance at dating. If people start speculating that you must be gay because you refuse to simp yourself for a chance at sex, you are doing it right.
/r/MGTOW206/10/20 04:55 PM
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In a sense. I’m much better at telling people, “No.” I’m also better at planning my playtime instead of letting other people suggest things. Other than that, I’m still the same fucked up guy I’ve always been.
/r/MGTOW206/10/20 01:43 PM
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LPT: Don’t go on dating sites and don’t obsess about women are up to. If you were actually going your own way, you would never have bothered to know this.
/r/MGTOW205/10/20 10:59 PM
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I’m totally not monk. I just don’t see a need to learn a bunch of coping strategies For dealing with women. I am me. Take it or leave it. I’m kind, considerate, honest, and completely unwilling to compromise on my lifestyle to appease another human being. No tactical guide needed.
/r/MGTOW229/09/20 07:31 PM
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Actually, there are enough guys here who are still stuck on women that this might get good responses.
/r/MGTOW229/09/20 05:46 PM
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So, understanding women is certainly useful. For many MGTOW guys, it isn’t really necessary, because they just avoid women, and choose to live on without that complication. It’s like, why study motorcycles when you never plan on riding one again?
/r/MGTOW229/09/20 05:37 PM
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I’m assuming you don’t mean prostitution, but it isn’t clear. Lol. A truly blessed and free man can spend his money however he wants. That can include jet skis, fishing poles, a new drill bit, investments, on friends, or even on pussy (amateur or professional). The key is that it is his money and his decision, not someone else’s decision. I seriously pity the guy who turns his paycheck over to a woman every week.
/r/MGTOW229/09/20 02:36 PM
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If a person actively tries to get in the way of you improving yourself, they need to be left behind. Friends (and partners) are supposed to help you rise up. What is the point of associating with someone who holds you back?
/r/MGTOW228/09/20 12:55 PM
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This. They are looking for THE RIGHT guys. And there is a shortage of those. Partly it is that a lot of guys are complete simps these days. Partly it is ‘the right’ guys are already ‘taken’. Partly it is what OP is hoping, in that some guys aren’t interested in playing bullshit games. Partly is that the women were raised on Disney and believe they are princesses who are too precious for regular men. It all adds up to a shortage of the exact men they are looking for. Meanwhile, the world is fille…
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 05:26 PM
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Thanks. I feel like some variation on this statement is all I comment on this sub. So many men need to be reminded to stop bitching about women and actually go their own way.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 04:26 PM
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I have no idea what a beta marriage is, and I don’t really need to know. As a MGTOW man, my goal is to know myself better and live a good life for me. Do your own thing. Have fun, today. Improve yourself. Get your dick wet in whatever way you want (assuming consent). Stop concerning yourself with some woman’s bullshit.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 09:52 AM
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Why would I be welcoming of a man who has so clearly NOT gone his own way? You ask a question about feminism. You have other posts with simp pictures of women. This is not a place of safety or welcome. It is a place to discuss issues around men who are trying to improve themselves for themselves. Not some place where we can circle jerk about women.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 12:47 AM
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What does it matter? What does that have to do with men going their own way? Move on and stop obsessing about women.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 12:35 AM
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And yet you are the one bringing up women. Interesting. This particular sub is about men helping each other to be free men going forward with their best lives. The most popular posts on here don’t even mention women.
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 09:47 PM
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Totally GYOW, dude. But I don’t like your example. He doesn’t sound like he is simping. He sounds like he is committing acts of service for his best friend. If there was a negative tone to it (like he better do this or else he will pay for it for the following year), I could see the problem. I used to have a coworker who was clearly scared of his wife. Constant walking on eggshells scared. This dude doesn’t sound like that. He is doing him. You are doing you. Good for both of you.
/r/MGTOW225/09/20 12:25 PM
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Or, you could go your own way, and stop worrying about the differences between men and women. It is difficult to be the best version of yourself you can be if you are busy comparing yourself to others. Just my silly opinion.
/r/MGTOW225/09/20 07:23 AM
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Am I the only one who has gone MGTOW who doesn’t know what all these pills are? I just want to...you know...do my own thing. Edit: I think my statement was misinterpreted. I don’t CARE what pills are what. I don’t need them explained to me. Don’t over analyze this. Go your own way, however you define that, and stop trying to fit into some stupid pill category.
/r/MGTOW223/09/20 02:44 PM
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I’m an introvert. OMG, this pandemic has been personally wonderful. I am not a sociopath, so I recognize the illness and economic turmoil, but I just love being stuck at home doing mostly my own thing by myself and getting my work done on my schedule instead of an office schedule. And not one person in the last six months has asked why I’m not dating.
/r/MGTOW222/09/20 02:33 PM
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OMG, I had a coworker last year who seemingly spent all his time being terrified of his wife. He was constantly on the phone placating and calming her. I can totally see someone dedicating their life to the devotion of another person, but to do it out of fear rather than love and mutual respect? They just had a baby boy. That poor kid is going to grow up thinking that is a healthy relationship.
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 12:29 PM
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The short dark one is totally my type. Lucky guy.
/r/MGTOW218/09/20 05:47 PM
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OMG, this. Like, you put a colander someplace reasonable, and it is STILL THERE the next time you need it.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 11:26 AM
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Honestly, there was a guy on here a few months ago with a MGTOW T-shirt he was touting. He got more mild criticism than enthusiasm.
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 11:55 AM
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Not really the right place for this question, maybe try r/askmen. Obviously, work on improving everything you can work on. Stop trying to define yourself on relationship status. Get really confident in being single and happy about it. Most men on here are avoiding relationships for the rest of their lives. On the sex front, obviously consider prostitutes. Obviously also put yourself in situations where women get to know you for more than just your wonky eyes.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 03:59 PM
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Work on yourself. Build a great life. And if you want sex, there are rental options that range from cheap to lavish. It’s your money.
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 12:05 PM
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Divorce. I decided that I no longer wanted to work hard for someone else. Now I work hard for myself.
/r/MGTOW213/09/20 05:31 PM
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Exactly. If you want to discuss unfair divorce laws in some state or another, you can.
/r/MGTOW213/09/20 12:15 AM
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r/MGTOW was always somewhat misogynistic. But, it really tanked when Incel subs started getting banned and all the Incels started going there to rant. After that, it really became worthless. Of course we need someplace protected from that drivel. I worked in my garden today. It’s really shaping up for fall. And not one minute of that work involved me blaming women for the rocks I had to move around. That’s my MGTOW experience. Cheers, gentlemen.
/r/MGTOW213/09/20 12:12 AM
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Because r/MGTOW has been taken over by emotionally stunted incels who seem to love living in resentment and anger instead of celebrating men who are going their own way. In r/MGTOW2, that whining projection and baby resentment is weeded out. If you want to let women live in your head, feel free to post on the main r/MGTOW sub or some other immature rant location. This sub is for men who have actually moved on.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 11:03 PM
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I’m no fan of deleting things. But, this sub seems to be about celebrating men who have gone their own way, not guys ranting about women. Seriously, you haven’t gone your own way if you are still giving a shit about women’s opinions and come here to rant about them. They are living rent free in your head, dude. Don’t waste your time. They will let you rant on here as long as it isn’t misogynistic, but why waste time doing that when you could be bragging about your extra money and free time? Dude…
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 10:43 PM
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I’ll never know. The last time I went more than one day without ejaculating was when I was sick with severe pneumonia. And I still popped one out most days.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 06:14 PM
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The only GenZers I’ve ‘dated’ are Latina prostitutes half my age. That’s not a situation to notice general anxiety.
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 10:51 PM
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I see it in both genders. I don’t think it is just the women. The whole generation grew up in a world of war, terror, economic turmoil, and environmental destruction. And every bit of it is amplified by access to the Internet.
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 10:44 PM
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I once spent time with an escort while on a business trip to Montreal. Do I now owe her 10 years of support?
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 04:36 PM
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Small mouth bass, most likely.
/r/MGTOW210/09/20 01:12 AM
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Men need to wake up and literally do their own thing with their own minds. Don’t follow some stupid guidance from retards talking about red pills, or silly Incel garbage, or wasting time ranting about women. Just fucking go your own fucking way. That’s what I think. I’m going fishing this weekend. How about you?
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 01:34 PM
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You could block him. Then go your own way. My block list is ridiculously long.
/r/MGTOW204/09/20 05:28 PM
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Or, go fishing with the new rod you can afford. Either way, both good.
/r/MGTOW202/09/20 12:30 PM
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Honestly, if the initial MGTOW was presented as guys who have given up on serious dating (or marriage) so they could spend their time improving themselves and doing more fishing, it would have been received better. My memory is that it was originally presented as guys who were done “putting up with women’s shit”. That is intrinsically stereotypical and misogynistic. Then you get the most vocal MGTOW men spewing seriously misogynistic hatred of women and you end up with the current impression. Ra…
/r/MGTOW228/08/20 03:52 PM
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Exactly this. If you feel a need to brag about it on a T-shirt, then you still care what others think.
/r/MGTOW214/07/20 07:47 PM
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Massachusetts
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 10:40 AM
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Not all US States screw over the man in a divorce. After a decade of marriage, similar incomes, one child, my divorce divided things exactly down the middle in terms of assets and parenting. Now, I will definitely never marry again, but the legalities were not the problem in my marriage/divorce.
/r/MGTOW206/07/20 04:11 PM
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