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It’s lack of logic. There are amazing beautiful women that are open to meeting a guy, love men and want to love and love back. If you date them they are very loyal and see you as the most handsome ever. Guess what? They’re only single for maybe 4 months in the space of a few years. These types have one boyfriend stay with him for a few years, break up maybe date around a while then get in another committed relationship. They’re hard to find because they are serious about commitment and what sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:29 PM
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I think you’re focusing on narcissistic women man. I know the reasoning trust me. When I’m wearing rough clothing just out after playing sports and I see a young woman dressed up in full make up, sometimes when I walk past them they see you and then as soon as your eyes meets there’s they literally close their eyes and walk with their eyes closed with a look of disdain like “don’t even think I’m looking at you”. “I don’t even like someone like you looking at me”. This happens occasionally. Next …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:43 PM
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Honestly always seemed weird to me.. There were guys I knew that dated attractive women and were respectful and just didn’t go all the way, like in some cases did some had girlfriends that were “saving it” whatever that means. A lot of them did have sex with the girlfriend just a bit later or with a new partner. Whereas other guys I knew were just desperate for a hole, didn’t matter what she looked like she could be the bike that had “taken” like every guy in the groups virginity and they were h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:59 PM
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Honestly you should never give up dating altogether.. Think, you may have been born in the wrong city.. Country or even continent. Trust me, when I say an example is black men treated as a 3/10 despite being tall in shape well earning, discovered they were seen as celebrities in Croatia and went from dating woman after woman. You can still see the discussion on roosh's forum. Guys talked about how beautiful young slim attractive women would approach them and try and get relationships with them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:26 AM
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`This is the kind of comment that I love this sub for, very interesting getting that kind of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:15 AM
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Honestly it's scary how many people out there really feel this way. You KNOW that if it was a gruff butch old lesbian feminist woman that shot dead some men protesting or something they'd be saying the exact opposite. Obviously killing people in cold blood is wrong.. I'm shocked I saw this post because I remember seeing this exact video and the comments too! I was taken aback that people actually reason like that... "I feel so downtrodden by society I'm glad when people get shot randomly. Now I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:12 AM
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Sounds like the good life bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:15 AM
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I think this is true as women are not held to the same standard when it comes to crushes and obsession with a guy. I remember a Reddit thread where women would say they saw a bit well dressed successful looking guy at a coffee shop in the morning so they would change their schedule just to “bump into him” by chance all the time. I’ve actually experienced this, when women like you they’ll make sure to always be where you are surreptitiously. I also was Facebook stalked constantly by this girl tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:09 PM
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The best women are talented bro especially when you get older. Think about this: I admit I was so lucky to meet beautiful really hot, intelligent, kind women who even made the first move these women I knew had maybe one boyfriend, broke up after 8 years then married the next one or one after (in rare circumstances second didn’t work out). There are some truly amazing women out there, but why would any sensible man give up a loyal, hot and incredible woman? That’s the answer. That’s why many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:53 PM
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More power to you. Always best to be prepared for life to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:53 AM
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As guys we blame women for this but my opinion it’s based on expectation. We all know guys who are crazy over a hot girl that is bitchy, aggressive nasty and selfish and treats people badly, but people still chase her and act like fools for her. Men are shocked because they believe what women say when they pretend not to be superficial. That’s why we get surprised when a woman will swear up and down a man is evil, he leaves her on read and pumps and dumps her every so often. But she always seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:54 AM
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I find the most ridiculous thing someone like Myron, a supposed Muslim living it up in Florida of all places, chasing the player lifestyle and materialism and high maintenance women and being on a sugar dating site... While claiming "women are ruined.. When I'm ready I'm going back to Saudi Arabia and marrying a virgin". It's demonic. I'm far from "blue pill" and have a lot of different opinions but it's amazing how many of these guys are juvenile, basically: "women suck, men are better, we shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:49 AM
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I think a lot of young men find out the hard way.. Simping for a girl that keeps him around while she is a doormat for the guy she actually likes. She knows the guy really wants to be with her.. Oh well, she needs a big favour moving house? Or needs someone to do some major work for her? Oh I can't ask the guy who booty calls me then ghosts me for weeks at a time while I furiously scroll his social media looking at the other women he's in pictures with and clearly bedding. i know, I'll just get …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 05:17 PM
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In my experience there are many kind cool attractive women that don’t care about height… I swear to god when I went round my town centre I saw 4 different couples in one day with an above attractive woman with a man like 3 inches or more shorter. The women were like 5’10 or more. Sure I find weirdly it’s always short women that are obsessed with 6 foot plus. But I find tall women really don’t care about a guys height. As long as you make her feel beautiful and don’t act weird about it. I always …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:14 PM
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I don’t take pleasure in others misfortune, ever. But my experience as a younger naive man with innocence was that when women in general have more power they are far less gracious and far less ethical. Women would openly admit they were doing something hurtful but would do it anyway, because why not. I’m young and hot and people will still treat me well and guys will still chase me. I used to be a nice guy, there were nice girls. But think how many are single, they are on the market for like thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:11 PM
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Take it from a guy who used to be a selfless kind guy.. When I grew up friensds who were players said "if you want to get loads of girls just reat them terribly, they're worthless treat them like it and you'll get loads of women".. I always said that was outrageous and disgusting.. I was content getting a few women interested in me an approaching me for my character but I had really painful experiences. As a young man it is very destroying when you first come across what feels irrational and imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:16 PM
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I witnessed this with this coke head body builder guy that lived on my block.. One day he must have taken a bit too much and he randomly started pressing me, screaming and threatening me out of nowhere.. My god.. I stood there and took it but the moment I started to stand up for myself this fat trashy woman who had been watching (I thought it was strange how she was not disgusted by his behaviour) sudden;y starting fawning and saying "no leave him alone".. I realised the entire time he showed un…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:58 PM
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I don’t even think that is more common but I think the whole “most men are invisible to women” thing is at least somewhat an issue with men regarding women. I remember in social groups how there were fat homely girls who weren’t even treated as potential prospects they either didn’t exist or guys would mock the idea of someone trying to serenade the woman. When I’m sure she’d have loved to feel wanted and be given romantic overtures. Guys would complain in a lot of circumstances of the few baddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:47 PM
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I mean, if you’re athletic and in your thirties as a woman I’m certain it’s not hard to attract men because if you look at the obesity statistics just on having a good body it puts you ahead of all the people letting themselves go by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:32 AM
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this influencer is fat That's literally a fat woman. She's not ugly or the worst kind of fat. In eastern europe she'd be less desirable but in America she would be seen as attractive because the fat is distributed well. I just find it funny ho the level of obesity in the west has made people forget that this is indeed fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:59 AM
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Honestly looking back you’d think I was the only 13 year old that hadn’t had sex from how much friends bragged about this or that experience. The ones I had close conversations with in years past admitted to me casually “yeah I just made that all up” but it worked. I never thought that they were lying, their projection of the image of having successfully crossed that hurdle got them in the door and made women more accepting of them going forward “yeah I’ve done it before don’t worry”. It’s amazi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:10 PM
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I didn’t “harp on it” I took your word you aren’t delusional and you accepted some are, that’s simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:58 PM
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That’s understandable and reasonable. Some women with round faces (no age associated wastage) and a youthful hair length and style can look younger. It also varies in general. Some people let themselves go and don’t take care of themselves and shift the perception of what it means to be early thirties. But I’m talking mainly about people hunblebragging that people say they look early twenties or like a teenager or even underage when they’re late twenties to mid thirties. I think people brag abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:56 PM
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Fair enough but will you concede that a lot of women say that everyone says they look “10 years younger” on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:55 PM
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I’m sorry but it seems like literally every woman online seems to declare “yeah I look super young for my age!!” “Me too I’m 33 but everyone says I look 21” Other women complimenting you doesn’t always mean it’s true. I saw a post on a make up sub where a woman was commenting that “oh people always think I’m a teenager!!” She had crows feet, I think too many women, especially maybe petite women have people exaggerate or jokingly say they’re a kid or mistake them for one from behind because they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:20 AM
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True words
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:45 PM
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I’m sorry but I know it’s wrong but I lived that for too long and the difference is too stark, sure I can be my best self abroad and do even better with women but here in the west maybe I’m unlucky but this has been my experience, I’m too tired of it and I just give them what they want. Heard that too many times and heard the same ( seemingly intelligent) woman friend swear up and down “yeah he treats me like shit this is the last time I’ll never speak to him” and then crawl back to the guy when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:48 PM
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Yup I used to be a selfless guy. Until I realised it is only neutral if anything you just invite being hurt and abused. Being arrogant, treating the woman as less than you only ever gains you respect and she will never give you bullshit. When you’re the nice guy a lot of women will swear up and down you’re the perfect gentleman but they’ll always traumadump on you and treat you like shit because guess what? The bad boy they’d chasing left them on read and pump and dumped them and the idea of “gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:39 PM
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Honestly I’ve only ever been successful when women approach me… and something about my style and look is just a few womens type so I guess I’m approachable. It never seems to work when I approach but it’s not awful. It seems much harder as a guy to go out and get women now compared to before but I admit the couple I approached recently were exceedingly polite when it didn’t work out, they claimed to have boyfriends but held conversation and I was the one who broke it off, they were nothing but f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:21 PM
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I don’t know about the obsessive bitterness and raging and fantasies but all I can think is that most men agree things were easier in the past. It was more easy to meet women, women would actually regularly approach guys in my experience. Growing up to get a girlfriend you just had to be normal and hang out and a woman would show she’s open to dating often ask her friend to tell you she’s open to it. Things have changed universally for men, it’s just harder. I still get women approach me occasio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:37 AM
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I think in the case of women it’s often deep insecurity. I’ve met the type of woman that will sit there calling herself ugly and “ I hate my x and my y” and you CANT give her love and tell her to feel better. You have to sit there and let her wallow and act like you’re trying to be a little supportive but can’t be bothered and find her weird and beneath you… So that she will continue to beg for your attention and approval. When you turn to her and say @no you’re perfect for me, you’re beautiful …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:16 PM
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Add to this fact that even when a man does make it, become a millionaire and have children, any child he has it’s a half chance they’d female. It doesn’t make sense to m that a woman born to an upper crust family, wealth upon wealth, would then ha a preferential policies for hiring, in the country im in the best university (arguably best in the world) has women’s only colleges. Doesn’t make sense to me why there’s pressure to place women whose family s still have royal titles. It’s too much and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:44 AM
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If she’s admitting she thinks she’s going for the top 30% then my god she’s probably going for the one in a thousand or rarer. Probably included extreme outliers of height already cutting off many, not even getting into wealth/status and facial attractiveness. Think how rare it is to have a 6’2+ male with a high salary who also has a full head of hair and also has the facial look she must desire. Those kind of guys have a lot of options. The fact they’re “ghosting” her shows they probably have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:07 AM
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That women even grown women are very fleeting about interest and even the most mature woman will 90% of the time be spiteful if you reject them when they chase you I’ve experienced multiple times in my life a woman being forward with me and giving a sincere and undeniable interest only for them to be quite hurtful if I initially declined due to shyness or lack of self belief. Straight up “ yeah I don’t remember liking you” or “what are you talking about that never happened”. Whereas I’ve reconsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:03 AM
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I think I'm influenced a bit by heavy bias from experience because too often I experienced my friends and once or twice had a woman slide back in to my dms (using as a backup). But I accept I have selfish biases and have to consider the female experience, honestly yeah I've had a friend as teens have his gf dump him for another guy and honestly, he never got over it. Even 3 and a half years after, long after she left the guy and matured a bit and moved on as an adult he would keep bringing it up…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:31 AM
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You’re a great woman. I’ve noticed other women like that who have principles. My ex knew that even when if she totally hurt me in the worst way imaginable I would never do anything that could affect her life. I feel sorry for the fact so many people have nudes leaked or sex tapes leaked. What’s the point sharing that if you know as soon as there’s a slight rift someone would use that to go nuclear. I liked that we both protected each others image and had clear principles. Even now that we finall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:42 PM
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Honestly, My experience in life has been every single time I’ve had success with women, they’ve approached ME. It was more common when I was younger, women were very forward. Not just with “chad”. But if a woman had any interest in you they’d tell their friend to tell you “oh so and so likes you”. But as time changed I don’t know why but I noticed that I’m certain women’s type, I’m no chad by any means, though above average in all departments. I’m not very good at approaching women. But I’ve not…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:19 PM
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More power to you. It's crazy how you can be a guy in the west, above average height, talented, treat people well but you just aren't getting what makes sense. Like it feels like you have to fight so hard just to get a 5/10.. And you walk on the street and fat women are strutting around acting arrogant. Whereas it's crazy. You go to the east and even chubby women would be humiliated with how glamorous the average woman looks. Women are much kinder e.t.c I just don't care about my home country an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:50 AM
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My experience with this was I was in a social group and women were talking about some guy in the wider group and referred to him as a 30 year old guy who keeps having sex with a lot of women they know “but he’s such an asshole and a fuckboy, he’s really not a good person” But when you said that it was like the women just hearing about him, a light went on in their heads. They were nodding as socially they knew “yes we must denounce this guy” but you could tell they were immediately interested, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:59 PM
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I'm sorry but even if I agree with a lot of the pro-male points on this sub, Myron is straight up goofy, ​ He goes to Miami chasing superficial women, has a clear chip on his shoulder addicted to "frank castling" women, shouting at them going on rants on his podcast and talking over them, when they're like "hey can I at least respond" he's like a 5 year old " it's my show!". I can't take this guy seriously when he later says "Oh when I'm done doing this I'm going back to Saudi Arabia and I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:56 AM
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And to be honest in high school a lot of guys do the exact same “ONLY CHAD” behaviour we complain about here. “ oh she gives the real validating sex for chad, she’ll bang him same night while the other guy gets strung along waiting while she’s taking alpha cawk, she won’t treat the beta the same way etc etc” But think how often the fat girl with good skin that’s shy, quiet but kind. She just wasn’t even on the radar. I specifically remember like an entire multiple groups of women in school the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:28 PM
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I think an annoyed asian masculinity poster put it best when discussing this video of jakenbakelive before he cleaned up his image. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZfePP5mON8&list=PL95ZxgdZ9nRc7Cj2cLUbc_wDM_MUzBpaJ Hot Taiwanese woman with no dignity is gets on her knees and offers to suck him in front of everyone in the room. The poster basically explained "Look, this guy is very average, the kind of guy who in a dating app in USA will be struggling to get hotties. Look at his interviews when …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:26 AM
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Amen so true, I wish more of us were not gaslit into doing the opposite..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:31 PM
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I say this as a man that it sometimes amazes me that other guys aren’t aware there are women that genuinely had that experience. I’ve been friends with some women and they spoke about how genuinely they don’t get asked out. I felt really bad when I saw a Reddit post about a girl who’d always go out with her friends that would always turn heads and guys would hit on her ask her number in front of her but not even pretend to be polite to her. She had s traumatic experience because she wanted to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:18 PM
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Does anyone remember when there were so many articles written about how “nice guys are the real evil ones!!!” And discourse on Reddit and so much hatred shitting on misguided chumps. It was like mass unchecked neurosis. Not all women are like that, there are many normal nice women that genuinely are with someone nice that they reciprocate with. But the loudest BPD serial dater types were pushing the narrative. Everyone’s experienced that girl who is chasing the guy who pumps and dumps her and ju…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 04:22 PM
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Probably the best response to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:30 AM
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I don’t think it was ever about “hating” nice guys. It was about keeping up appearances. I remember when this took off so many women were going on rants about how “the nice guys are the bad ones”. It was more one big cope and reflexive reaction to the embarrassment about a lot of posts about “why are women always complaining about jerks and assholes and guys that want to be just loving and nice are lonely”. Rather than admit just like men they are superficial and would much rather a hot guy that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:44 AM
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I didn’t define all stalking as that or deny that he majority of experiences are legit. I’ve witnessed women be groped in public and nothing happened assailant walked away woman looked humiliated and traumatised. Witnessed a 50 year old man openly walking behind an 18 year old girl at uni, like she was hot but this guy openly walked 4ft from her like a tranced dog and nobody reacted and guess everyone wanted to think it wasn’t what it was. Despite knowing this and deliberately not wording my pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:33 AM
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A really fucked up thing for me is I’ve had women approach me and love bomb me and I’m Like how the hell did a gorgeous woman fall for me, maybe women do appreciate that I’m tall and athletic and chill and interesting. But why is it when I approach I screw it up or later mess it up when we progress? They lose interest and seem not to find me cool anymore. I have to think it’s possible that it’s literally because I had so much fucked up shit in my life that I couldn’t bring myself to care about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:49 PM
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Yeah has to be. I’ve witnessed other women break up relationships. I’ve had a woman treat me like a worthless orbiter who she’s too good for. The moment another girl asked me out and I showered the other girl with love and affection and kindness, cuddling and leading her round by the hand.. Suddenly the original insecure girl that is the type that gets abused by bad boys but chases them and then takes her anger out on her gaggle of simps… She was so emotionally affected but like in an insane way…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:29 AM
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Honestly I have women approach me not because I’m chad but I guess I’m the right mix of certain peoples “type” and also come off as easy going and open. So eve try girlfriend I’ve had had actually asked me out or aggressively came into me. I thought this was somewhat normal but it isn’t according to all my friends. The ONLY exception was my friends who are legit anonymously tall like 6’6. I would hang out with him and a cashier would come on to him talking about “smooth talking tall guy”. He had…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:30 AM
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You don’t have to put too much effort but can you explain why she was going to reject him and what you said that made her see him differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:10 PM
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It’s so absurd to me. Because as a guy if I like a woman I like her, my attraction doesn’t change based on other men liking her or if I feel insecure later because she’s with a guy and I’m “feeling left out”. I had one case a girl that was attractive but had insecurity issues, type that had orbiters she abuses while being addicted to abusive guys that don’t want her (tolerates anything from them). When she was very cruel and degrading to me another woman asked me out. I showed the exact love and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah, I rejected women at points in my life and none of them ever handled it in the casual way men are expected to. Keep it in mind as a guy I was far more kind than women would be. Women are very cruel and often sadistic when it comes to rejection. It’s like some women that chase after and get used by the wrong guys turn around and take all their aggression out on the easy target which is the guy that’s nice but they see as worthless. I simply just explained I didn’t want to date her but still …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:02 PM
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I remember as a mid teenager around that time things were perfect. Online dating was still taboo and we weren’t old enough for it yet. If you wanted to meet someone you simply put yourself out there. There was a site where you could go and send your messenger contact and let randoms add you, we’d just do that to try and get a big friends list and just like that you’d hope to end up talking to someone. And end up in video chats with women. Or for example if you wanted to meet women, you just went…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:13 AM
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I was getting out of the train station and there was a Mediterranean looking girl wearing a tank top and yoga pants she had a big fat ass and slim waist with wide hips. This guy going past her on the stairs did something… Something that traumatised her like touch her ass or something. He just boldly says “it’s just your body innit.. relax” when she stopped looking angry and shocked. And she looked pissed off, but didn’t say a word. Looked over her shoulder to see if anyone had witnessed anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:44 PM
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What people don’t understand which is a harder pill to swallow than all this red pill/ blue pill stuff as a man I’ve noticed this. There are normal beautiful women who aren’t obsessed with tinder and social media. They are human beings, just women, smart thoughtful empathetic, some even selfless. These women are very loyal, if you get closer with them they like you, you buy them flowers they gush. You show you’d give them the moon and they’ll ride or die for you. You fall in love they fall in lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:45 PM
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Haha agreed on those women that PICK you. It’s weird as fuck my experience is if you are a certain type and get out enough, women that find you to be their perfect type can be straight up hotties and they’ll be so forward and all over you. But it never translated to “oh I guess I’m a hot guy and I can get with hot girls regularly”. Nah. I just have to put myself out there and wait because I would never be able to discern which girl is that type that finds me like their own personal Brad Pitt spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah lol Just go to any upscale club, wear a suit, buy a table or VIP space. Smile and look like you don’t give a shit about anything and internalise that you’re the prize and the women are going to be begging for you and you’ll get laid every night as a millionaire. I saw in a club once some 40 year old Indian guy in a Hugo boss suit dancing his heart out and there were these 20 something year old hotties taking turns trying to dance with him because he just looked rich and successful. For all …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:09 AM
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