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Lol I’ll delete for you then. Thanks for validating me.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:57 PM
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That was my first instinct or to make her ex jealous
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:56 PM
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Did you read the part where I said I wanted to get my finances in order or did you just wanna flaunt your elitism?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:33 PM
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My friends and I are all scattered and they’re busy with their girlfriends
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:18 PM
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Actually I should have mentioned no luck with indian girls either 😂
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:08 PM
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You find time to pause your video games to comment?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:37 AM
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And I fucked her lmao
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:24 AM
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Auto defence? If I didn’t preface you’d say I’m ugly lmfao. If you can’t provide any sort of theory or knowledge don’t comment you sperg.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:20 AM
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Yeah I don’t question that it’s nothing more than sex. But the mixed signals makes no sense is she just using me till she finds a guy she actually likes or is she crazy?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:09 PM
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Dude I already owned up for the wanting more shit I can’t change it so no need to address it lol. Lol ya I turned beta by showing her I want more but I think the sex was better than aight if she still called me over to fuck after that and also let me absolutely destroy her asshole. She also told me that I’ve literally changed her expectations in sex because it’s so good.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:47 PM
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I think the reason why I shouldn’t bring it up is because it translates to her that I have expectations (even thought expecting to be treated decently should be normal lol). And I think it does make me lose frame cause it seems like I’m more invested than she is. Ever since we had “the talk” when we officially stopped seeing each other I’ve been 0-4 in asking her out even though she said she’d like to still do that. And the last time she wanted to hang out was a booty call lol.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:21 PM
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Oh ya I agree and I only did that cause I thought that’s what she wanted which was still dumb. What I don’t get is does she act so bipolar, tells her family about me, tells me after she’s not ready for relationship/commitment, then tells me about dream she had to share me with other girls and got mad and practically forced me to sleep over and cuddle her lol. Then the odd time she calls me babe (when we sext or when we’re fucking)
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:18 PM
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Can you explain? What did I choose? To tell her I’m down for casual sex rather than something serious? And what is she paying for? She’s getting dope dick without commitment and emotions lol.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:10 PM
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Cause I want to use her for nasty sex that makes me blue pilled? Only thing I’m wrong for is letting her treat me like this cause I don’t even consider her a friend at this point cause she didn’t seem like a decent person anymore.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:07 PM
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Idk if I believe this. She’s told me our kids would be gorgeous and that white babies are ugly lol. Clearly she thought about procreating with me.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:42 AM
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She invited me over to her house last weekend and cooked me dinner. This Saturday she was suppose to come with me to a friends bday party. So I was beginning to integrate her. When I asked her to train with me that’s when this stuff came out (you’re probably thinking she doesn’t want guys thinking she’s taken but we’ve been seen out in public before).
/r/askTRP14/11/19 08:38 PM
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Boys, should I offer to pick her up at her place so we take one car? It’s not like this is my first time meeting her I’ve talked with her in person like 5 times.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:56 PM
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Okay okay, thanks for the positive reinforcements fellas.L
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:05 PM
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Cause girls never order finger foods because it’s messy and embarrassing.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:04 PM
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It’s a week day date tomorrow and we both work early in the morning. I know action dates are better but I hardly know her it’s more to get the vibe going. But there is a pool table at this place I can leverage
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:19 PM
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I did isolate, it was me and Boston girl at the bar side and her roommate and Scottish guy were sitting on a bench. And exactly when the roommate bailed that’s when I was gonna make some serious moves (make out or leave for the closest bar). I think next time I should address the cockblock (give a high five) then turn my back, completely ignore and order a drink for me and the girl and then continue to ignore CB. What you think?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:17 PM
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“Yeah I’ve been once or twice before” with a smirk on my face. Works best if you clearly workout.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 06:06 PM
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The question is how to turn her into a plate though lmao. Do I hit her up and be like “yo yo, let’s go out and do something tmo or Friday night” or just hope to run into her at the gym and banter with our inside jokes and suggest chilling after the gym?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:42 AM
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She said she’s waited a year to fuck me cause I had a gf and that this was her opening (as she may not get a chance if she gets into a relationship with this guy)
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:36 AM
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She said she’s waited a year to fuck me cause I had a gf and that this was her opening (as she may not get a chance if she gets into a relationship with this guy)
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:36 AM
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I almost feel like she won’t cause there is no plausible deniability. In her head she not only told me she’s seeing someone but showed me but I’m the one that “pushed” her and she just went with it. This girl seems like she needs a small amount of plausible deniability to get going lol.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:22 AM
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Too late I already asked 🤷🏽‍♂️ would be weird for her to feel bad. She has literally slept with at least 3 different guys since she started seeing that guy
/r/askTRP02/06/19 12:08 AM
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“Yes agreed!! had lots of fun, hopefully no repercussions” what do you think she means by repercussions?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 12:05 AM
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Did what you suggested invited her over Sunday for wine and a movie on the condition that she doesn’t bring up our exes, she replied 8 hours later ignoring what I said and texted “guess who came into my work” which was my ex so I just stopped replying. Thoughts? Soft next?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:03 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:30 PM
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Bingo
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:17 AM
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I already invited her to my place and then she said she was in a grumpy mood and was cramping and didn’t want me to see her like that so soon. Then she said she was working all weekend now she’s working nights all week and only free this Sunday. Just seems like an excuse after and excuse.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:15 AM
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I said : Sounds good, keep me posted - I’m good Monday or Wednesday Then immediately she responded “how was your day?” I waited 14 hours to reply to her last msg. what’s her issue? Is she crazy or is this beta bait to make me an orbiter? She completely ignored the date and asked how my day is
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:42 PM
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She doesn’t even know if she’s working Monday or not yet
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:17 PM
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I think she might be legitimately busy here. I think she’s suggesting Monday rather than later in the week because she doesn’t want to wait. And doesn’t seem like she’s down for a daytime date cause she misinterpreted my Saturday daytime date and said she’s busy Saturday night (I’m also busy Saturday night that’s why I didn’t ask her). Sunday is mother’s day so I get why Sunday isn’t good either. Monday makes the most sense.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:22 PM
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I think the reason she’s pushing for Monday is cause it’s the closest available date to hang out without there being a huge gap. Friday and Saturday don’t work for her and Sunday is Mother’s Day so probably busy till Monday.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:18 PM
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What’s a good reply to her message?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:17 PM
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So don’t reply to her last msg? She’s been really positive, but I don’t plan on being her pen pal was just gonna say “sounds good, keep me posted” then leave it till she says something
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:39 AM
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Red flag trust me. My ex’s best friend had 70 kills when we first met and that’s her role model. I knew it was bad and still did it. It blew up in my face.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:03 AM
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That was a good read.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:32 AM
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Hmm, will do for next time. I did get behind her on squats for those last reps but it’s training so she probably didn’t think much. But yeah next time I’ll pull the trigger. Should I wait for her to try looping me back in with another workout/wait till I run into her at the gym again? I feel going back on the offense is needy.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:08 AM
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Okay just got back from everything. During my workout she asked me about a guy who was working out at the gym if he was my friend and he was so I asked her why and she said he was cute, I deflected quickly and act unaffected said yeah he’s cute but sucks he’s taken. Then later in our workout I find out she’s “seeing someone” from school (her school is 4 hours away from here) and she met him in the last couple of weeks at school. Best part is she literally got back from Cuba 2 weeks ago so she de…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:30 AM
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You got any suggestions for a first date (outside the gym)? I know this is unconventional but we live in a small town and I’m not worried about demonstrating high value as my ex was a rocket and this girl knows. I’d rather build comfort with her as I would hope to pull friends with benefits with her this summer. At least I’ll go for kiss close unless she makes it obvious she’s down to fuck on the first date. It’s too cold outside for patio beers and appetizers would something like bowling or poo…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 06:23 PM
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Escalating which way? I kind escalated lmao
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:02 PM
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I guess, just seems like she was way more interested in me last summer but I’ll ask her out and see what happens. Should I ask in person during the workout/end or should I try over text?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:06 AM
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But she’s super dry on text and doesn’t really snap me back, I’m probably gonna go for it but what makes you so sure?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:57 AM
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My ex girlfriend told me about this. And said she knows all my tricks now and how to play the game back. Lol. Gonna have to take a look at this.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:46 PM
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I’d be living with 3 other roommates. Rent 700 Groceries 400 Car insurance 110 Other expenses 1190 (based on average credit card bill) Net monthly pay $2800 I get independence is vital part of growing as a man which is another part. I would honestly move out if my job was far away, but if my parents place is so close I don’t see why besides opportunities to date more girls.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:05 AM
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Yes I agree, dumb decision
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:44 AM
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Haha based on your recent comment history can’t tell if you’re trolling me.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:24 AM
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Touche
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:08 AM
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This is the most helpful response. Yes I believe I have situational depression. Never in my life have I felt this way and it’s because I went through some really emotional traumatic shit and I just can’t shake it off no matter how much I exercise or meditate. Any tips to overcome this?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 11:49 AM
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Just got a new job today and was not excited at all.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:47 PM
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This sounds lame but it’s because my Ex LTR gutted me and having self esteem and confidence issues and just feel like I must be a crap person to have someone treat me the way she did after we broke up.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:46 PM
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Dude, I do HIIT 4-5 times a week and powerlift and bodybuild.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:44 PM
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Yes I read a lot.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:23 PM
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In Canada
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:49 PM
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Not even concerned I might have low T, just want more test to get my sex drive back and feel alive.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:26 PM
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I read a study that depressed rats were injected with testosterone and their serotonin levels increased and they lost their depression.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:23 PM
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Got my serum test checked and the receptionist just said “25.68” didn’t tell me the unit of measure at all she said she had no idea.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:21 PM
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I just feel so defeated. I look high SMV on the outside but it’s like girls have a 6th sense and sense I’m low smv.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:45 AM
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Dude I said in my post that I am in amazing shape haha. Yes I have an amazing body.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:43 AM
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But I can’t even get into an LTR I want to be in. And my sex life is so inconsistent without an LTR. I just lack status. I know guys in my town who have girls all over them and they’re ugly and work part time jobs lol.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:37 AM
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Bro you’ve been to jail and you’re scared to initiate with a teacher? What’s the worst that can happen. Toss her a bone and see if she bites.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:53 AM
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Kinda torn gaming college girls now. Just feels so weird and have to dumb down myself to talk to them.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:39 AM
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It’s in Ontario’s second biggest city (from Canada). So Canadian cities are super diverse and Canadian towns are generally very white lol. The university town has 0 job opportunities.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 01:26 AM
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So definitely not the university town.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:22 PM
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Is that how you got your ugly ass nose 😂
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:14 PM
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Yes I agree
/r/askTRP25/03/19 03:04 AM
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Fuck that’s deep af. I won’t be meeting up with her but it’s a good idea for anyone considering this to never go alone. Cause bitches be crazy.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:50 AM
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Neither of us have any interest in getting back. The bridge is burned. She just wants validation now.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:44 AM
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Solid response. Yeah not replying to her msg. Will be interesting to see if she tries talking to me at the gym.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:44 AM
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Just pure ignore.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:42 AM
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Will not respond.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:42 AM
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Just to hear some thoughts, this is a red pill theory page just saying.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:20 PM
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It was the ego boost and self esteem boost. She was really hot and it felt good having a hot girlfriend who was also caring and sweet. But she turned out to be a huge narcissist like you said (no empathy, doesn’t feel she did any wrong). How do you spot a narcissist? Cause she always came off as a put her friends first and family first type of girl this caught me off guard.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:37 PM
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Appreciate the honest feedback man! This is what trp should be about bringing our brothers up not put them down for mistakes!
/r/askTRP22/03/19 11:43 PM
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Oh I don’t care how expensive my clothes are. I just want to know what’s a 25 year suppose to dress like. My last LTR (20 years old though) always said I had really good style but dressed like a classic fuck boy (which I think is the male equivalent to dressing like a basic bitch) and no I don’t wear supreme or other swag fag shit. But at some point I gotta start dressing my age. I’m 5 years away from 20 but also 5 years away from 30 so how do I dress? Haha
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:23 AM
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Wow thanks for the thoughtful and helpful write up man really appreciate it. She did a complete Dr Jekyll mr Hyde on me. She broke up with me but always said she was hoping we would work it out in a month or 2 so we were sleeping with each other while broken up. She would keep going back and forth saying she wants it to work when we’re ready to saying it’s completely over. Looking back what I saw as cute was probably signs of abandonment issues (would keep me out till 3am on a work night cause s…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:59 PM
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Part of me feels played. In our relationship she was perfect and now that all her friends are single she wants to be single too. I think I’m obsessing over this because I’m trying to see everything so I won’t experience this again. She was my best friend and she betrayed me.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:23 PM
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I just constantly think about it all the time. Obsessively. I guess time will have to do its thing.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:17 AM
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PM’d
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:15 AM
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I should also mention that this broad never went to the gym the same time I did (very rarely) and now does all the time cause she knows I’m there and the people I associate with her are there.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:56 AM
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The only thing I lost was feeling accepted at my gym. I’m alienated now. But yes these people are not my friends and I’m glad I can see that now.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:55 AM
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No we were broken up but still sleeping with each other. So if she did fuck him then she technically didn’t cheat. I honestly don’t care, she’s dead to me. She talks to every single guy in the gym now to piss me off and I just ignore it and don’t care cause she’s actually dead to me.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:06 AM
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This I agree 100%.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:47 AM
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Check my post history, should be 3rd last post. I sent her a long text when she was at the bar. Her “friend” a guy who I’ve never met before had her phone and filmed the text I sent her and sent it to a viral Instagram page. The video was posted 2 days later and she her friends all were laughing in the comments. Keep in mind me and my ex literally slept with each other 4 days before I sent that text and she told me how much she loved me and blah blah blah and how she wants to get back together. …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:46 AM
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Nah I don’t need to do any of that. She has no money anyways. Neither do her friends. Just a bunch of hot girls with no money.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:36 AM
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Calling me a sheep? I’m confused. I told her if she ever cared about me she would delete her comments of her roasting me and get the video removed. She did neither. So fuck her man.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:35 AM
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Yes those are the only guys who ask how I’m doing (concerned for my mental well being). None of those guys even acknowledged what she did or ask how I’m doing. Fuck those guys.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:34 AM
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I know the feeling of losing “friends” and acquaintances over it. But I know who the real ones are now.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:33 AM
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Dude same thing to me. Yes she struck first. My friend is a cop and said it’s harassment/cyber bullying what she did to me and my friend who is in law school said if she had her license she would have sued her.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:32 AM
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I am easily one of the most jacked up dudes in my gym that’s completely natural and oftentimes people ask if I’m natty. But no one is gonna say anything to my face they’ll gossip and talk shit behind my back and I couldn’t care less at this point.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:30 AM
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In hindsight yes. But I’m from a small town. I’d rather people know that I know about the video than people wonder if I know about the video. Also she looks like she has the maturity of a high schooler now. And by owning the “attack” nothing can bother me.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:28 AM
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Too much to type. It’s in my post history should be 3rd last post.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:26 AM
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But yes, it’s been a week since I found out this betrayal. And I feel a lot better now. I’ve been back watching RSD videos and will hopefully go out this weekend and apply some shit. I’m ready to crash and burn and kinda miss the rush of not knowing what’s going to happen.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:24 AM
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I will admit I called her out on my Instagram. Instead of being embarrassed that she posted my private text to a viral page ( video got over 30000 views and over 60 comments) I just owned the situation and exposed her and her friends on my social media by sharing that same video so everyone could see (didn’t tag them or anything though). . I took a page of Eminem’s book and 8 miled that bitch. But she was unable to see me do this because I had blocked her already but surely people told her.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:22 AM
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Well I would agree I’m being a drama queen if I faltered and called out all the guys for being treacherous cunts or if I responded to my ex ltrs text message apology or called her out for trying to get a rise out of me. I’ve ignored all of it.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:38 AM
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The people who still talk to me are the guys in long term relationships. They all told me how fucked up my ex is for doing what she did to me and to never talk to her again. But yeah these guys are fucking losers who legit only know my ex because I dated her.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:37 AM
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That’s how I feel man. It’s all noise at the end of the day. When you meditate you realize this is all just a distraction. I even kind of low key like it cause I get my workouts done way quicker no more talking to fake people. And yes man can’t believe it took a break up for me to see who my real friends are and who the wolf’s in sheeps clothing are.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:25 AM
4

I see your point. Very good advice. It’s so sad to see how these guys betrayed me cause a hot girl is finally talking to them. What fucking losers. Today I was really good at keeping my cool especially knowing you’re the gym outcast and that no one likes you lol. But yeah I might have to go to another gym or start training in the morning.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:41 AM
3

Wouldn’t say I’m in misery anymore. I’m aware she’s doing this cause she’s immature and I find it pathetic and funny at this point. Will see what everyone else has to say. If I’m being hard headed then I’ll switch gyms.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:35 AM
1

Isn’t changing gyms letting her control the frame here? This place was my kingdom, my temple, you’re saying I should just let her boot me out and reign supreme?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:33 AM
0

In due time. I’m still very dead inside after her betrayal and need to just focus on getting my self esteem back. I wouldn’t want to fuck me right now if I was a girl let me just say that.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:32 AM
1

I’m Indian would they still wanna fuck? My ex was a blonde Barbie type so it’s not like white girls are repulsed by me like most Indian guys in this reddit whine about
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:57 AM
1

Really hard to do this when you’re really good with your money and hate materialism haha. But I will focus on goals and see if I can travel somewhere nice.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:31 AM
7

Been itching to travel. Went to Thailand last year and it was amazing. Want to go somewhere new this year though and solo backpack, any suggestions??
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:30 AM
-2

Texted her to say she should take it down if she ever loved me
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:59 AM
1

The text was about me saying we can’t keep going back and forth and I won’t let her treat me poorly anymore if she wants to be friends I’m fine with it I’ve accepted there’s no saving the relationship etc
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:27 AM
1

The text message is irrelevant. She was sober when she commented on it and was getting tagged with her friends and laughing on it lol
/r/askTRP02/03/19 05:47 AM
1

Probably if she was single but her boyfriend is much more alpha than me in every aspect so I don’t think she was trying to get with me like every sperg on here thinks....
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:49 PM
1

Idk I travel and do fun stuff
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:31 PM
1

100% unprovoked. She’s drunk but I was sitting there watching the dunk contest and she tells me that. Then everyone told her how mean that was for her to say that
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:16 AM
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Dude you’re a sperg. My friend is not hitting on me she’s insulting me.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:13 AM
-15

I hope you’re a troll. If not you’re a sperg and need to gtfo.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:08 AM
0

My ex also ended it because I was low on emotional support and comfort
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:47 AM
-1

Any steps for improvement if that’s the case? I have friends but most girls consider me only for hooking up and not for LTR
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:46 AM
1

She FaceTimes me a lot and texts me a lot. We don’t live together, also tries to hang out at least once during the week which sucks cause I have a 9-5 job and need to gym after work so I can be up till 2am on a week night when she wants to hang out which is crazy as I have to be in for work at 9am. I’m just use to having so much time in my day/week and feel like I don’t anymore.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:28 PM
13

I thought it was always women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships and thus why you should hold out for as long as possible before rewarding a girl with an LTR.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:39 AM
1

How do you be chad but be provider type at the same time? I just want to LTR the same girls who are down to sleep with me but it’s usually just hook up and nothing more.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:32 PM
1

I think it’s the last sentence. All the girls I’ve hooked up with and tried to LTR are still single.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:58 AM
1

Still swole, don’t smoke anymore!
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:57 AM
1

TeamForeskin #DickCheese
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:56 AM
1

How do you do both? How do you be alpha but be boyfriend material? You have to be a little beta in relationships
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:55 AM
1

I missed the answer... cause I live at home still and rather save money for a house which means stability for a woman? 🤔
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:54 AM
1

Nah I’m 24 and can’t lock down quality 21 year olds who are finishing school/in school.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:50 PM
1

I have a good job for my age, currently live at home (been out of school for 1.5 years only).
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:23 PM
1

What constitutes low relationship value? I’m good in bed so I know it’s not that. I’ve been told I give off mad fuck boy vibes unless that’s the only reason.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:48 PM
1

Work at the school gym. You will get laid with hot gym girls all the time.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:55 AM
1

You seem like the most honest person on this thread. What’s the best course of action? Ignore until she comes back or text her again?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:39 AM
1

Tbh being a nice guy is what got her to fuck me. I have never been an ass and she always calls me a sweetheart. Yet I still managed to fuck on the first date and fuck her 4 times in a night.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 02:52 AM
1

What makes you think she’s that down? She hasn’t shit test me once yet besides ignoring my text the first time I asked her out and maybe saying “awe” and calling me “lovely”.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:05 AM
1

Date is for patio drinks a place 20 minutes walk from her house. I’m going to get huge LMR. Her roommate is a huge slut but this girl acts like she’s different but I’m not stupid (hoes of feather flock together).
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:36 AM
1

Yeah I’ve moved on man. I definitely hear you on the problem solving part. I tried a couple things like suggesting to the guy we go for a smoke so I could tell him to stop fucking up my set but he said nah and I was too drunk and tired to problem solve. And yeah I agree with u/fnordsnord I’m not her best prospect in this moment so it’s a nah for her now. On to the next!
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:46 AM
1

I didn’t say I was going to text her... I already decided not to. This was about the setting date part where you sounded like an aspergers patient like a good chunk of angry AFCs trying to be alpha on reddit...
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:52 PM
1

You’re the same type of breed of new trpers who say “HARD NEXT HER” after everything... Fake alphas giving advice needs to stop here. And it didn’t offend me, but when you have a guy like RSD Todd forbidding what you suggested I think you should listen.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:47 PM
1

Yeah I guess it’s also worth noting we go to the same gym but this was our first time meeting and live in a small town so it could be bad to keep probing.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:42 PM
1

Yeah I guess it’s also worth noting we go to the same gym but this was our first time meeting and live in a small town so it could be bad to keep probing.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:42 PM
1

You can’t just be like let’s hit up x bar at 9pm on Wednesday. You have to see if she’s even available that week just toss it out as a prescreen. Todd explains this on his new channel. Also I said this week not “sometime”. Read the post first man.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:40 PM
5

“The best diet is the dread diet”
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:21 AM
1

Alright I responded with what you said. Now she messaged me this “So now that I’m done school and have the time and wanna do something you don’t want to?” That’s pure manipulation, I can’t answer back with logic because she ignored my logic. What do I say to this?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:05 AM
1

That’s a perfect response. I’ll definitely do that.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:31 AM
1

Okay she threw me a curve ball, I told her I’d pop in her place at 8 or so and she said “sounds good, I’m basically moved out of my place, want to go do something instead?” In case you don’t know what she’s saying, she’s basically saying I don’t have any furniture or a bed or a tv or anything to do at my house we should go outside instead. Sounds like LMR/ASD, what’s the right way to go about this? I don’t even want to go out I’m gonna be so tired after work and volleyball, I just want to put on…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:02 AM
1

She said she’s back in (college town) for the day and having dinner with a friend and wanted to see if I wanted to do something after. This seems like a green light at first but she has flaked on plans in the past the day of. What do I say? Should I make her chase a bit more or say okay 9pm your place, wear something cute”
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:16 AM
1

That’s so uncalibrated. How do I go from “what are are you doing Wednesday night?” To your place 9 pm? Seems hella autistic. No offence.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:13 AM
1

Lol thanks I hate mushroom on pizza so that was my response to how much I don’t like her right now. Do I answer honestly and say “Not much just Netflix/read and then bed” and see if she offers something after that?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:05 AM
1

I responded “mushroom on pizza level” and she said “well I like mushrooms on pizza so... what are you doing Wednesday night?” Seems like she wants to make plans on a Wednesday night? I don’t actually have plans but do have work the next day, is she suggesting something?? What next?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:55 AM
1

So how do I convey what I want to convey? What’s a good text to reply with?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:19 AM
1

Yeah I was gonna answer back her text saying “Hey trouble, what on earth are you talking about?” This text uses a playful name and also shows that I haven’t thought much about her and not concerned that she’s ignored me
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:14 AM
1

Yeah I think if I just tell her to hit me up in September she’ll get the idea.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:10 AM
1

I live with my parents and she’s 50 minute drive from me hence why I wanted to hang out with her before she left for home. I don’t expect to see her all summer but in September she’ll be back in school and I can fuck her at her place. But I’m not driving to see her unless I’m guaranteed a fuck. How do I proceed?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:55 PM
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If you get morning wood and can masturbate without porn then it’s all psychological. I’ve had your exact same problems and found a technique that works for me all the time now. The thing that your nervous of is her seeing you with a limp penis. Instead of taking your clothes off before you’re hard and she see’s you limp, keep your clothes on while making out with her and touching her and start dry humping her, eventually you get hard and that’s when you pull your pants off and voila, you will se…
/r/seduction02/05/18 02:49 AM
1

Actually over a million permutations of my name....
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:09 AM
1

Because there’s thousands of other last names to go with it..........
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:09 AM
1

Cause that just seems like the normal thing to do? It’s just a first name and it’s a really common one.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:07 AM
1

Dude I’m not fucking trolling.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:45 AM
1

I’m saying if I let her follow me she’ll know it’s me and if she is pregnant I’m fucked
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:43 AM
1

But she doesn’t really know it’s me she hasn’t seen my profile.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:41 AM
1

I see what you’re saying. Should I just leave it pending or decline it? I feel if I decline it she’ll know it’s me. But if I leave it pending she wouldn’t know.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:51 PM
1

You’re saying you’d accept the request just to know why she followed you?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:15 PM
1

She has no info except if the hostel were to give up my information as they have photocopies of my passport and know which bed I was sleeping in. All I know is she’s been living in Thailand for 6 months.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:42 PM
1

That’s a little reassuring. Honestly learned my lesson after this. The paranoia is not worth it.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:53 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback brother.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:49 PM
1

Worst scenario she gets pregnant, goes to the hostel and they give up my information. But could she actually trap me if it happened in another country and I’m not there anymore?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:41 PM
1

No, but as some others have suggested, she might have done that for me, to make me happy so she wouldn't leave a bad taste in my mouth.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:54 PM
1

Is she really having the time of her life if she's in pain though?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm going to focus on making the emergency fund and hopefully have a good amount to move out by summer 2019.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:16 PM
1

Can't grow in comfort, definitely gotta take some risks to grow as a person.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:16 PM
1

Living at home is challenging, my parents have their days where they are insufferable to live with but I am barely home now to experience it which helps. But also feels like a hotel now since I'm never home. I initially wanted to move out cause of my parents, but now it's because I want to mature and grow up.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:15 PM
1

Nice man, congrats on the purchase!
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:13 PM
1

Yeah I really gotta step out my comfort zone and just go for it.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:13 PM
1

Yeah I was speaking more about at the bars. Girls at work have also said "hey handsome" and stuff like that(not hard to be attractive in the office when you're the youngest and fittest).
/r/askTRP02/11/17 06:39 PM
1

Yeah I was speaking more about at the bars. Girls at work have also said "hey handsome" and stuff like that(not hard to be attractive in the office when you're the youngest and fittest).
/r/askTRP02/11/17 06:39 PM
1

What is considered dressing like the college bro? My casual wear are thermal sweaters, Henleys, jeans, t shirt, the occasional button down, shoes are derby boots worn with cuffed jeans and Sperrys in the summer... M-F I'm in dress shirt and dressy chinos. Anything I should change? I really think dress shirt tucked in with jeans is such a dad look. Side note my beard isn't long it's just takes up all my face real estate I don't have a hipster beard.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:57 AM
1

Well it wasn't me soooo
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:17 PM
1

Yeah but TRP always says don't pay if your reason for paying is for her to have sex with you. I say friends cause I don't like her more than that and just wanna have sex. I've been on friend dates with girls I'm sleeping with so that's what I was going with.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:52 PM
1

Lol the guys here are all in the anger phase of trp and shouldn't be giving advice :/
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:51 AM
1

Scarcity? That's why I booked another girl at the same time to prevent flake? A lot of you guys are so narrow minded ffs.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:02 AM
1

No this concept that gets thrown around trp is so stupid. You are literally a complete stranger to a girl on tinder you haven't met, unless she's uglier than my ass crack she won't agree to hang out without building comfort. If you're slaying 40+ year Olds and nasties then don't give advice on this sub.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 01:05 AM
0

That was bad ill agree
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:56 AM
1

This guy fucks. Jk, this advice is useless for millennials, girls have a billion options, she'll forget your existence if you act like that.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:38 PM
1

Should I just kino hard and tell her how bad I want her and try to get her into the idea?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:11 PM
1

I'm not Chad lmao.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:00 PM
1

Man, I haven't scored since school and that was April... I'm actually finished school now so it's harder to find girls.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 12:55 AM
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All women are whores and prostitutes when you go by the definition of exchanging something for sex. You paid for dinner? Guess what you paid for sex. You paid for the movie? Guess what you paid for sex.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:59 PM
0

Well, I like going down in general but sometimes it can change their mind.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:01 PM
1

Didn't even see this get posted twice here thanks!
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:06 PM
1

So her saying not to have any expectations was a shit test? In all fairness we ended cause I thought her feelings were too strong and tried hooking up with another girl at the same bar she was at that night.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:14 AM
2

I have experienced the exact same thing in University. Roomed with a nasty girl who never cleaned shit but was also convinced she cleaned the place... and told me that whenever she did bad on assignments she would cry to her professor's and they would bump her grade or even got out of writing exams she was under prepared for and got them deferred. Another time, I was writing a midterm and a girl wasn't even able to get half her exam done in the time allotted and started crying to the professor d…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:47 AM
1

Great post, we need more posts on a man's "mission". I really enjoyed the part about being scared of the alpha male when I think of it now, any time I've taken the easy road or the less risky road was because I was scared what my dad would think if I failed. So now I'll keep my dad very out of the loop about my successes and my failures and do what my instincts tell me to do and take those risks.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:40 AM
1

It's cause I don't have the social proof I'm pretty sure. I know how seduction works and I'm quick at building attraction. I just can't get the really hot girls.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 02:35 AM
1

I think my inner game is there. I assume attraction always and feel I have better game than a lot of guys and find high smv guys have terrible game and get laid through high smv.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 02:24 AM
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The only thing you need to know is to join as many intramural sport, clubs and events as you can and make a strong social circle. You'll never have to cold approach girls and they'll be so much easier to hook up with if they know you.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:49 PM
1

I don't think her roommate found me attractive until my Fb started telling her roommates what a stud I am in bed (thanking trp for that tip). But how do I go for the roommate now? Only like 2 more weeks left of all of our undergrads and I don't know their current situation (maybe they made up and now hate me lol).
/r/askTRP05/04/17 04:25 AM
0

It should almost feel instinctual when to do kino.
/r/seduction23/03/17 06:18 AM
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If you're hanging out with her at night then that's not a bad idea, but doing that during the day would be harder.
/r/seduction23/03/17 06:14 AM
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You should do it after the hook up. It's never a man's job to move any relationship forward it's the girl's job. David deida covers that in his book. So you must hook up with her, have 1 big deal breaker that would make you guys incompatible for ltr and just keep it physical and friendly.
/r/seduction23/03/17 06:03 AM
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We hooked up that night then had sex in the morning and she dropped me off to work and I said "that was fun we should do that again some time" and then she said "yeah, text me whenever you want to fuck :)". Then the next time we hooked up she said she wants to be exclusive fuck buddies with me and I told her I only want to see her 1-2 times a week and not expect me to text her except to hook up and she was very happy and agreed.
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:34 AM
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I just recently got my first fuck buddy. The girl is one of my classmates and group members for a project and we ran into each other at a pre drink then I closed her at the bar and gave her the best fucking she's ever had and that was that. Keep in mind before this we had never talked even though we were group mates. I believe all you need to do to be fuck buddies is be cool, don't be needy, be very very forward about what you want and be amazing in bed. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:20 AM
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Honestly, just get a viagra prescription and go fuck them.
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:17 AM
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I found it's a lot easier to hook up with girls in college if she has mutual friends with you as you're less of a threat and more trustworthy. It's actually almost as easy as kino and then escalate to setting logistics in my experience when you and the girl kinda know each other.
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:00 PM
1

That's lucky
/r/askTRP09/03/17 06:15 PM
1

What do you mean by people ask about "hints". My fuck buddy went to the washroom last night after we fucked and I saw her phone light up and it was her hot roommate and it said "wow...." so maybe she told her I took her to pound town and she could possibly be curious?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:26 PM
1

Lol well 5 weeks left of school I'll propose it later.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:17 PM
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Flirt with everyone, girls and guys to the point it becomes your personality and not something you turn on and off.
/r/seduction01/02/17 09:10 PM
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Here is a very creepy tip. Enter each number into the Facebook search engine and find the hottest one and game that one or whichever one you like.
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:18 AM
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Saturday is a bad idea, it makes it look like you have nothing better to do. Do it during the week or schedule in advance to do a saturday. "I realize this may seem too soon/loserish, since it seems like I have too much time on my hands, but I also want to keep things moving and keep myself on her radar" - this is the definition of needy behaviour. Who cares if you're not under her radar, always remember abundance mentality. 2) This is too hard with no information given. Night time is definitely…
/r/seduction28/01/17 03:56 AM
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Your problem is you're not staying present to the moment. You're worrying about trivial things like if you're doing it right. Close your eyes, feel her body with your hands feel the warmth of her mouth feel how soft her lips are. Listen to her breathing and your breathing. Experiment with slow and fast kisses. Just enjoy it man, you're not enjoying anything while worrying. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction28/01/17 03:52 AM
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You got it dude. Outcome independence and abundance mentality.
/r/seduction27/01/17 10:43 PM
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You don't ask looool. You discover this through conversing. Find out first then make it known you're interested.
/r/seduction27/01/17 10:42 PM
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Have a list of things you look for in a girl like is she funny, does she have a good sense of humor, is she nice?
/r/seduction27/01/17 10:30 PM
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Exactly, be cool as a cucumber.
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:43 PM
5

Sorry we played pool.
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:59 PM
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Yeah for sure having no expectations (cause I didn't know it was a date) I was free to be myself and share things with her that I wouldn't with a girl I'm trying to get with and some of the things I shared with her she really enjoyed and surprised her. Essentially, I was being myself and didn't try to hide anything I think was bad. Annnndddd I may have applied some good game (breaking rapport).
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:17 PM
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Maybe try qualifying girls besides their looks because there are hot girls everywhere. You don't even know her personality. Full on talking to her what you did is just validating her and she did nothing to earn it.
/r/seduction27/01/17 02:44 PM
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TLDR: fucks HB 8.5 on her ex's bed.
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:47 PM
1

I'd really say this sub is not about ignoring girls. The red pill is way more about ignoring girls.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:00 AM
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"hey, I'm doing X activity this Friday, you should come along, it would be a lot more fun if you came." You're doing 2 things here, you're not asking her out, but you are and you're giving value by invite her to experience your fun.
/r/seduction25/01/17 10:48 PM
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My fav date is going to a pool bar or billiards club. There's still lots of people there and you can have some beers and relax and hang out.
/r/seduction20/01/17 05:20 PM
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You're forgetting the most important rule of pick up/game/seduction, to have an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction07/01/17 09:52 PM
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Wait, I was joking! Rip
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:37 AM
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"what would you be doing if I was over rn 😏😏" text book panty wetter
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:54 AM
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I think my parents made her.
/r/seduction06/01/17 09:21 PM
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My sister brought me on a date one time she ended up marrying the guy though I was probably 12 and I'm 22 now.
/r/seduction05/01/17 10:36 PM
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Exactly this, if you focus on building a social group instead of looking for girls to bang you'll get more opportunities in the long run which is more sustainable and easier.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:14 AM
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Bro, you really need to stop being negative. Negative people have a problem for every solution. If you're not tall, put on some muscle, if you're not good looking wear nice clothes and properly groom yourself. Max was just saying he was wearing boots and all boots elevate your height somewhat. He's picked up girls on beaches, what's your point? Wish you well.
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:20 PM
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RSD Max is 5'7" and kills it. Watch this video https://youtu.be/j1UZe5Z62X4. Also I've had kiss closes with girls I had to tippy toe with who told me they're shallow and don't like short guys.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:35 PM
1

I meant lack of knowledge of shit tests.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:28 PM
2

It's probably cause sex is most available and easy to obtain in college after that it's much harder.
/r/seduction03/01/17 02:32 AM
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The rational male by rollo tomassi is good for understanding how attraction with females is purely based on her perceived value of you and her ability to find a man of higher value than you. It's very dark and red pill and not for people with closed minds. No more Mr nice guy by Dr Robert Glover discover how nice guy behavior actually repels women like mosquito repellent and why you behave that way and how to correct it. Dating playbook for men by Andrew Ferebee this book is never mentioned but …
/r/seduction03/01/17 02:30 AM
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Not really, this is 1/4 if my university experience. I feel better than during my panic attack epiphany but still feel at a loss.
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:49 AM
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I'm Indian, 5'8" but muscular/athletic ~170lbs been in the gym for 6 years. But muscles don't get you girls, it just adds to confidence. Game is life and can be used outside of women too.
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:22 AM
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My biggest fear and insecurity I have that can't be corrected from game is that I have never had a gf or been in a long term serious relationship. I'm still not OK telling girls my story I just rather them think I prefer to be single but that also kills attraction because they can view me as a player or manwhore. When girls ask me my relationship history I kind of don't know what to say. Not sure how to fix this but something tells me that owning my past and being honest is the only solution, bu…
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:24 PM
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Thanks, I just fixed it!
/r/seduction02/01/17 09:45 PM
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Congrats on taking the first step in improvement. My approach was absorbing as much theory as I could from seddit, audiobooks on game/pickup and watching lots of RSD videos mainly Madison, Todd and Max. My issue was never approaching and I had approach anxiety. Although I'm a good looking guy as told by females (I'm also a brown guy and only hook up with white women) I never get approached so I have to do the approaches myself. I still get anxious but not as bad, I tend to approach large groups …
/r/seduction02/01/17 09:45 PM
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Opinion openers are usually good to get the group talking. It's better to engage the whole group, then isolate one after you won the group over.
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:09 PM
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Yeah, she could have liked you. Hot girls do dumb shit when they're nervous like blow you off cause you made them nervous. Reframe your thoughts that she thought you were disgusting and frame it that you made her so nervous she made a gross face in defense. I always assume attraction a lot of guys will say it's not the best but it surely gives you no escape to think she's grossed out by you.
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:45 PM
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Great video, thanks.
/r/seduction28/12/16 01:29 AM
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Thanks for all the advice and support guys, this really put things into perspective.
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:29 AM
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Just make a joke and tell her you use really good moisturizer lol
/r/seduction26/12/16 08:18 PM
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Practice how you play. If you're going to go approaching women you should practice with approaching instead of online.
/r/seduction26/12/16 05:17 AM
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New school is called natural game essentially. RSD is new school game, controlling frame, teasing with push pull, have the girl qualify herself to you, kino, etc.
/r/seduction24/12/16 06:34 AM
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Why reward bad behavior? This is standard psychology (operant conditioning) used in pick up. Positive reinforcement for good behavior and a punishment for bad behavior.
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:58 AM
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Congrats on your make out if it actually happened, but reading that you used Jeffries NLP, and Neil's beauty is common routine and mystery's kiss close line was CRINGE X1000. Old school Pick up is so cringe and so fake and unnatural and I'm just really bothered that you used old school pick up which really should never be used.
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:53 AM
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Nah, I was just super beta and failed every shit test she through my way cause I thought she was trying to hint she wasn't into me anymore. She said I ended it not the other way around cause the last day we hung out she was being a bitch and wouldn't kiss me and then said "I just feel like I'm wasting my time" so I said "Alright, I guess I should take you home then" and she's like "yeah, OK" and she's convinced I ended it but she said she only said that cause I was being insensitive to her feeli…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:28 AM
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Thanks brahs, that was super hard for me to do especially since she was the sweetest girl ever and my unconscious and conscious fully still believes she will be the hottest ass I will ever date and the nicest girl I'll ever date, but I'm only 22 and need to work on myself instead of wallowing on this girl. I convinced myself she's a whore to get over her, not very healthy but I rather feel anger and hate towards her than heartbreak and disappointment.
/r/seduction21/12/16 06:45 PM
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The way of the superior man goes deep into how females and men (feminine and masculine) differ and explains stuff like when women say one thing they don't necessarily mean it and explain why. A lot of famous women have read it too.
/r/seduction20/12/16 05:36 PM
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Had huge approach anxiety before and now rejection is nothing. I feel nothing. I laugh, smile and move on to the next one. I learned to like rejection by looking at it differently from the "I'm not good enough" lens and looked at it as 2 incompatible people and the ability to get closer to find someone compatible.
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:14 PM
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Do what girls do and say wild shit like "You're such a great friend" or give them daps like the homies and call them bro, they'll get the idea.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:04 PM
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Yeah it works indirectly. Most guys on seddit will say sub communication is more important in seduction than verbal communication. If you possess a feminine essence as a man and she has a feminine essence it won't work. He's probably acting really indecisive and unsure of himself and that's feminine essence.
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:01 PM
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Bro you just gotta have a man to woman interaction. Look at how your dad interacts with your mom. Lead her, touch her, tease her. You're a big guy, pick her up throw her over your shoulder when she misbehaves. Being a funny guy is bad if you're not sexual and if it's not congruent. Comedians don't get laid. Brooding bad asses like James Bond do. I feel like if you read The way of the superior man by David Deida you'll start getting girls as it teaches you how masculine and feminine polarity work…
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:18 AM
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I did then didn't want to then had a girl sleep over for the first time and it was something magical.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:35 AM
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I'm Canadian.
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:30 AM
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Maybe try in a blue state.
/r/seduction05/12/16 12:13 AM
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Thanks for the advice, I think I also need older mentors in life cause guys like you have lived my youth and know what you regret not doing.
/r/seduction03/12/16 05:04 PM
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Idk why this doesn't have so many up votes. This inspired me to get a better life. I just go to school and party on the weekends I've never even left the country, been to a sports game, hiked or done anything interesting. I'm a boring mofo.. May I ask what you do that's so interesting? I'm only 22 in my last year of college so money is kinda an issue until I graduate... But it everyone my age seems to have such fun lives but I also pay for so many things people my age don't have to cause my pare…
/r/seduction03/12/16 06:23 AM
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Women are attracted to masculinity and you probably look like a boy (no offense, seriously). You should try to eat more and lift weights if you aren't already. And if you are eating a lot and not gaining weight then you're not eating enough still. Download myfitnsspal and start tracking how much you eat and if you're eating and not gaining weight then eat more and track your increase in cals on myfitnsspal. To answer your question, women are attracted to a lot of things, there are gonna be some …
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:15 AM
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I know, it make me look so insecure and a man should never apologize to a woman I noticed this after I apologized and got nothing back, she's acting masculine by brushing it off as nothing (like how I should have) and I'm acting feminine by worrying... Ugh. Okay, I'll try guys,thanks brodies.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:01 PM
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In this order of life changingness: The power of now by Eckhart Tolle - all you need for solid inner game, it's a spiritual enlightenment book that helps with eliminating irrational fears and anxieties like talking to girls or presenting projects in class or work The way of the Superior Man by David Deida - game/pickup/seduction is useless if you don't understand how a man must behave. Having no male role models growing up I spent lots of time with my mom and older sister and became very feminin…
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:24 PM
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https://youtu.be/Z3qX-cgpHUs this video should help.
/r/seduction24/11/16 04:38 AM
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Update, doesn't look like round 2 is happening, she keeps avoiding sections of my texts regarding our hook up and replying only to bits that don't talk about us hooking up.
/r/seduction22/11/16 04:03 AM
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Thanks for this, I also have/had a crush on her (been wanting this to happen for 3 years) but don't care if it's serious or not. I'll message her and see what happens.
/r/seduction21/11/16 10:49 PM
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Yeah she has 1800 insta followers and put her full name in my phone, could this have been just a way to increase followers or am I just being insecure lol. I didn't follow btw cause my insta doesn't increase my value.
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:12 AM
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The thing is if she went to 4 bars she must have got tons of numbers, shouldn't I be trying to get her attention and stand out from the rest of the numbers she gave out?
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:58 PM
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The thing is if she went to 4 bars she must have got tons of numbers, shouldn't I be trying to get her attention and stand out from the rest of the numbers she gave out?
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:58 PM
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Thanks for this reply man, I know I'm a pretty 2-dimensional person and I have to change that. I'll get out there and find a passion.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:24 PM
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I just mean my guy friends are like huge Dicks to girls like they don't really care about them and I do I guess... Like I feel bad if I don't text a girl back but my guy friends do it ALL the time. My one guy friend had a girlfriend for like 5 months and dumped her by not responding and deleted her number blocked her off everything just cause she thought he was upset with her when he made a joke cause he said if she can't trust him that means he can't trust her so he vanished just like that... D…
/r/seduction19/10/16 07:25 PM
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AMOG the shit out of the guy. Stand beside the girl maybe put your arm around her and say "hey, player here is trying to pick you up, let's hear his pitch" and then look to the guy so he can say something stupid then you guys can both laugh at his feeble attempt and bond over that aha.
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:06 AM
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"" No More Mr Nice Guy "" by Robert Glover. This is the only book you need for what you described. He preaches things like learning to say no, not being an approval seeker and why you are seeking approval and probably don't know.
/r/seduction17/08/16 02:06 AM
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You should pull back first cause the girl will crave it more after cause you're depriving her.
/r/seduction10/08/16 10:26 AM
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Thank you! Honestly, the seduction felt really natural and being truly outcome independent is what allows you to think quickly cause you don't really care what you say too much. For me it was more along remembering the principles not necessarily lines. Watching in fields are definitely the best way to improve. Keep on gaming brother!
/r/seduction02/08/16 10:00 PM
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Thanks for the advice man, I'm going out again I'll try closing earlier instead of closing at 4am lol.
/r/seduction31/07/16 01:55 AM
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