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| 2 | The “being too young” problemafter she asked me my age she immediately said I was too young "Why are we preventing ourselves from a great experience just because of retrograde paradigms? I'm old enough to make you feel awesome 😆" I would say smth like this. Even if she says u are too young, that doesn't mean she would not like you. If she approached you, she likes you, u just need to make her think this idea of beeing "too young" is preventing her to be happy. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Quantity vs. QualityQuality makes u anxious. Go for quantity and enjoy the best women u find out of the dozens | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How to chase-frame a girl the right way?!U need 3 things: Enough intimacy to do this, be playful and stop overthinking. I would never do this when first answering a stories, for example. U need first to introduce the "flirt" setup in her mind before actually flirting. In this first approach u need to create comfort with her, so u'll frame urself just as a guy looking for a new friend to hang out. She'll disarm herself a little bit, allowing herself to enjoy a date with you. If u start flirting, even a subtle flirt (chase-frame is a sub… | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How to chase-frame a girl the right way?!Complete oposite. U never do this correctly if u say so | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to invite a girl over while having a friend stay at your place?Even him won't like to be the candles of ur romantic night. Talk to him and say "bruh, I got a lady to get laid. I need the sex zone prepared and empty" If hes really ur friend, he'll get the mission. He can of course come back later after the job is done tho. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Having to be flawless with messaging in OLD or get ghosted?Yep. It does work always, of course, but when it doesn't I don't waste too much time. If her messages are not receptive, I also stop messaging. Sometimes I talk to them without the intent of dating tho, just because I want to say something interesting on their stories and sadly my agenda is filled, so I dont set a date. The general idea is that she either wants or dont want to hangout with you. Theres nothing u can do by text to change that, so u shouldn't text too much and go straight to the po… | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Having to be flawless with messaging in OLD or get ghosted?Usually I dm smth about their stories. Stories of her reading: "Hey, great book! Do you know any good book store where I can read a good title while drinking a good coffee?" She says where the store is "Wanna hangout there anytime? Maybe on saturday?" Sometimes they are all on, sometimes they give excuses, sometimes they ghost me. Just ignore the ghosts and find solutions for the excuses. I sadly wont share my profile cuz I've shared some very intimate things of my life in here... but the better… | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Having to be flawless with messaging in OLD or get ghosted?U follow her and like 2 pics or so. If she follows u back is a match. If she doesn't u unfollow and go on. I started using tinder recently and got 6 matchs, 4 ghosts and no date. I started doing this on ig got 4 text messages, just got home from a date I went this morning the second I asked to go out. All pretty beautiful woman, this last one was wonderful. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?U buy the clothes u like at the mall. U then search the contact info of a tailor. U then ask if that tailor can trim the clothes to fit ur size. If that tailor can do it, u give him your clothes and pay him. Go next week and get the tailored clothes. Done | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Having to be flawless with messaging in OLD or get ghosted?U can go to the profile of ur friends and search a girl there. U than can ask them to be ur wingman. If u have no friends, go to profiles of local pubs, colleges, etc. See the likes and follow the girls u like. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:00 PM |
| 8 | Having to be flawless with messaging in OLD or get ghosted?Dating apps are shit. U get woman much more ugly there. Use instagram. Also, dont give a fuck abt getting ghosted. This is not smth u can control through text game. Always ask for a date asap, u minimize the time spent texting to the return in dates u get. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Not near my goals for development currently, keep working on myself or improve my game?If u wait to become handsome enough u will never start talking to girls. Start now, and ur game will improve with ur physic. Working out also helps with game cuz makes u more confident when u see the gains and people start complimenting u | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 02:11 PM |
| 4 | First night together - what do I do?There's not many more things u can do Imo... Do u really don't want sex at all? Like, never? If u are only saying is a mutual decision to make her feel more comfortable, I would advise u to not do this anymore. This once will feel good certainly tho I had a girl that we did all things that didn't involve her low parts and my ass, and lemme tell u it was good on the beggining but things got unpleasant pretty quick Eventually she got comfortable because she knew she was always there | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice?My ex gf canceled a date with me to date an anorexic bald 25 yo guy before we met. That guy was completely stupid and was an asshole with her. They stopped dating 1 ½ months later and she started messaging me again. Turns out I was the longest and healthiest relationship she ever had (and the best looking guy she ever had, at least according to her family and friends). I broke with her because at some point she turned too needy and was sufocating me and my plans for the future. moral of the stor… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 06:36 PM |
| 4 | How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?U buy them and bring to a tailor | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Escalated too quickly, after?I always ask for the kiss funnily and see her reaction. The ammount of escalation u need is suggesting u want the kiss, but u shouldnt do any move too fast. Everything should be slow so she can think what to do and have time to deny it smoothly so u can have another chance later. I usually do it when the conversation is running out of subjects or is getting to the end. But flirting and complimenting all date long so she can start thinking about the possibility of a kiss way before. E.g.: Once I … | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Getting laidIf she's virgin aswell buy lube. Water based lube to match with condoms (oil based lube destroys condoms) I also got broxei If she's virgin aswell buy lube. Water based lube to match with condoms (oil based lube destroys condoms) I also got erection problems in my first time cuz of anxiety so having a tadalafil at hand is a great idea 🤝 | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Where do most of you find girls to meet or cold approach?In my college, and throught the friends of my woman friends. I'm currently learning cold approaches and beaches seems the best place to do it. Be aware that online dating is a powerful way of meeting new girls tho, and Instagram is probably the most powerful online dating tool. U should create an account 100%, and since u are independant, when u are doing ur interesting independent things, take pics of those moments and store them in your instagram. I like to use it more like a cloud of my trave… | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 07:28 PM |
| 3 | "So why are you texting me?"They send this because u dont state ur intentions. Say u want to hang out with her | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | What to do when she doesn’t want to escalate from text to phone conversation?Can someone explain to me this type of voice menssage escalation? Multiple times girls I'm talking to start sending voice messages but I keep texting... Is this bad or send a bad signal by any chance? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Why did you guys start all this seduction?Horny, rejected and anxious af 😔 | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Advices for an Uni Student?Meet as much people as possible, preferably talk to them in a friendly way regularly, and go to most parties that they invite you. Its actually very simple, your only barrier may be ur niche style. If u see other punk people, talk to them, they probably are in a punk group or smth. Also, never get laid in your classroom. I did this and got in trouble. Things didn't end well and now I'm forced to see her every day. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Ending a conversation abruptlyIts beneficial to do this only when both of u are on a series of "live replies" or "simultaneously active", and u need to get out asap. Leaving her hanging may incentive her to do the same with u, or be a let down (showing disinterest usually not a good idea) Ideally u won't be needy neither disinterested | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Clubbing soberI think clubbing sober is actually easier than drunk. I can think better and say the correct thing more often when sober. I have excessive anxiety however (used to use anxiolytics) so maybe the alcohol isn't strong enough for me, and thinking straight makes me feel less stupid | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:09 PM |
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