Sxilenced Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	23 almost 24 and still a virgin (in fact I've never even gone on a date before, I know it's pretty pathetic). Need some advice on steps I can take to improve my situation. I can boil all of your responses to "women don't find me attractive / it's too hard, so therefore I can't do whatever it is you just said." Come on, man. You want something, you do it. You want advice, you take it. You want to avoid risk, so go right ahead, just don't expect any rewards.	/r/seduction	02/03/18 05:32 PM
1	How to handle extremely challenging girls? Also I want to say that a lot of feedback you're going to get is utter B.S and you're better off asking in r/relationships There's a different frame of mind when you're dating than when you're trying to seduce / get someone's interest.	/r/seduction	22/02/18 10:33 AM
2	How to handle extremely challenging girls? You sound serious, so I'd posit that a serious talk is merited to an extent. You shouldn't have to "play games" with someone you're officially dating. This isn't really about seduction in the classical sense, because you already passed the point of having this person get "into you", but rather it's about being upfront with what concerns you. You can initiate it with a "I've noticed you doing X when I do Y. Is that what's happening here? Why is it like this?" You don't and shouldn't have to read …	/r/seduction	22/02/18 10:30 AM
9	How to handle extremely challenging girls? I don't know man. You have to straight up ask her what the deal is and point out the same stuff you've stated here. Open communication is best.	/r/seduction	22/02/18 05:27 AM
5	STOTD - I like big strong men This one's the best on the thread at the moment, I'd say.	/r/seduction	20/02/18 06:33 PM
2	Be desireless. Be excellent. Be gone. Does this work on men just as well as it works on women? I think OP is talking about some tenets that make women attractive to men. So, basically if the traits of "not seeking men", "being overall excellent" and "not being available all the time" work for guys. That's just my interpretation, though.	/r/seduction	22/10/17 05:45 AM
–	I'm 20 and feel like I'm just gonna give up with girls for the rest of life. Should I do this? Girls shouldn't be the source of your happiness or your wellbeing. Treat it as just simply making friends in general, and stick with the basics. Eye-contact, smile, initiate conversation. I'm in college as well - I try to take advantage of the opportunities I have to interact. Don't give up, just see it as a skill and a learning experience. Your game will just improve over time naturally.	/r/seduction	20/09/17 12:58 AM
2	New at college, how do I hang out with this girl/people? I started with no connections at all, but lately I've especially been in good standing from the girls from my orientation group, and I treat it as kind of a home base. I don't go in with expectations - I just be friendly - and I already have snaps now that I can use.	/r/seduction	09/09/17 04:23 PM