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Nope…not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:42 AM
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And yet you were too chicken to address me yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:04 AM
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And you spend time reading my comment history. What have I said that is vitriolic? Quote me. No my life isn’t perfect. I’m on a work trip away from my husband so yeah I could be happier. Edit: it looks like you spend your time bitching and moaning about women’s dating habits. What a sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:03 AM
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I understand the definition just fine. This is not that. It is you that can’t seem to wrap your smooth brain around the concept. It is not entitlement but a preference. What’s not clicking here? I’m willing to be cash money that you struggled in primary school. I never said they “owe” me anything. You are hellbent on deliberately misunderstanding my argument. I am not a 5th grade teacher. I do not have the patience to teach you. At the end of the day, I am a happily married woman. So why do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:47 PM
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I will. Because don’t come to my comments looking for engagement and then become upset when I give it to you. You came to me, fool. I’m traveling for work. You think I’d be on here with you if I was with him? I hate that your girlfriend has a whiney little bitch as a boyfriend instead of a man. She’ll see the light soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:37 PM
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Lol don’t flatter yourself. You wanted engagement but now you’re mad that you’re getting it? Can’t please a PPD man. Why’d you hop in the conversation then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:16 PM
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No that not it at all. You are projecting these beliefs on to me. Read what I said again to understand and not to argue. I already knew the definition of the word, dusty man. It is just not entitlement. Get over it. Well men should provide monetarily. Women bear all of the reproductive responsibilities. I’m not sure why you’re trying to argue with me over this. It is not entitlement. You will not change my mind lol. I never felt like i deserved or demanded a man pay for me. So what are you actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:19 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:47 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:06 PM
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Well we all have our own requirements. He just likes to be appreciated over anything else. Generosity was not his requirement like it was mine. It has nothing to do with his self esteem. I look for generosity because I’m was choosing who I’m going to get married to and have children with. I will be the one carrying the burden of reproduction when starting a family so it is very important to find a generous and thoughtful man that would care for me. I’m not hostile. You’re the one making ridiculo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:54 PM
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Sure buddy. Why you’re obsessed with me and my husband so much needs to be studied. Whatever you have to tell yourself at night. At the end of the day we’re both sexy and thriving engineers. Maybe you try to focus on your relationship instead being a stingy whiny loser on PPD. I feel bad for your “girlfriend” for being with you. I’d rather jump off a bridge if I was her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:37 PM
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Not really. It’s the weekend. I’m not the one whining in perpetual loneliness here. Don’t flatter yourself. You not as smart as you think you are, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:12 PM
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I’m sure you thought you ate with that. Thank you for proving to me that you are in fact a loser. Stay single and loney buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:42 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:35 PM
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Ok and this isn’t about you… You are very concerned about a happy couple. I think it’s because you’re jealous lol. What is the end goal here? You want me to pat your head and say good boy or something? Mommy didn’t give you enough validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:17 PM
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I am a generous partner. Why are you so concerned about my husband’s very intact self respect? He was confident enough that he’d get the girl. Why does it matter to you? You’re mad that we’re married or something while you’re struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:05 PM
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Ok and he didn’t. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:01 PM
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Entitlement is thinking you’re owed something. This is not that… I already said what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:01 PM
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You literally said I’m generous to my husband. I was generous to him before he was my husband. The rest of your first paragraph is irrelevant… It’s not that I thought I should’ve have paid. I could have but that would have been our first and last date. I was vetting for generosity. Call it what you want…I’m not stingy at all so you’re really just yapping to yap this point. Lol ok…and where’s your wife? My husband self esteem is just fine lmfao. Blah blah blah…more useless blabbering. No you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:37 PM
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Yeah my husband did that too. This is literally just the first date…and that is one of the first indicators. You think I only vetted for one thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:13 PM
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What? He wasn’t my husband then? Maybe you should learn to read next time kiddo… we were actually only dating for like a couple months when he birthday came around (and I don’t even bake). I was very obviously interested in him leading up to our date, so that’s probably why he was comfortable enough to do that. Now the first date is always a gamble. We also did an activity so I don’t think I was stingy for not paying for that activity. Don’t worry about my husband he’s actually very confident wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:53 PM
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How else would you display it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:43 PM
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How is the standard entitled? It’s entitled to think that I am obligated to give men a chance when they don’t meet my requirement of generosity. You can think it’s entitled if you want. That’s not what entitlement means… So is preferring someone that cooks, cleans, have your children entitled as well? Having a guy pay is a preference. We can argue about this all day. You won’t change my mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:08 AM
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It’s not entitled. How am I being entitled in my dating preferences? That makes no sense. I’m not demanding that they must pay (that’s entitled). If they don’t then like I said no harm done. I’d pay and be on my way. Nothing entitled about it. Ok and you can bring generosity to a relationship just like cooking…? You can have YOUR moral standards all you want. People are allowed dating preferences. How is it unfair? Unfair that I won’t continue dating them if they don’t pay? Be so serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:57 AM
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I can tell. It’s hilariously pathetic to get mad at women for not wanting them. Then they have the nerve to talk about gold diggers when their pockets are empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:21 AM
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🥱…use your own words. Seems like you haven’t had a single original thought in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:19 AM
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For a comfortable life yes. God forbid I want to raise a family comfortably! The horror!! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:44 AM
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Well yeah I want to love and build a comfortable life together. Love doesn’t mean impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:20 AM
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It really is 🥹 Ok good. You should. Let those women not waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:49 AM
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Sure. It is also a requirement for him to make equal or more too. I have a certain lifestyle I want. And guess what? Me and my husband are in the same page. I know you’re seething about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:24 AM
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It is a genuine relationship. You find someone that is compatible with you and makes you happy. That’s all you need. I don’t really need to justify anything to you. You are deliberately missing the point. I have already said that the goal is to find someone generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:22 AM
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What resources? Money? I have money too. Is he using me for my ability to care for him and to have his children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:07 AM
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No one is exploiting anything. That is just a fact of life. Why would I want to put myself through that and not have a loving and generous partner to help me through that? Too many women have sleigh husbands that treat them like shit. This is dining 1 of the many vetting methods I’ve used. I disagree. I can tell you I experience real love with my husband. You also say romance is performative so I will take your opinion with a grain of salt. Yeah no I wouldn’t have because we’d be fundamentally i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:06 AM
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Ok and people have preferences for lots of things, I.e someone that cooks. What is the end goal of arguing here? It is a compatibility issue. Me rejecting them isn’t the worst thing in the world. Clearly my filters worked because I am happily married. So oh well. You can hate it all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:01 AM
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Use them for what? What am I using my now husband for? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:16 AM
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It’s not an act but ok lol. Used for what? A date? If we are both being generous then how is he being used? I’m the one that has to put my body through hell to birth his children so yes I expect a generous man to take care of me…? Every relationship is “transactional.” You get something out of every relationship I.e companionship, love, finances, experiences, etc. you’re a liar if you say that you don’t benefit from your relationships. It would be a first date so no I would not have loved him th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 07:16 AM
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Entitled how? They can choose not to. It’s not sanitizing entitlement at all. I filtered for generous men I can depend on. If they don’t meet that criteria then I’ll walk. Is it entitled to want an attractive and compatible partner? Because by your logic it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:53 AM
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I’m not surprised, I’m married lol. I think I filtered pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:51 AM
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If that’s how a guy wants to interpret it. Doesn’t really matter. We’re not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:50 AM
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Or no pay, we’re not compatible. That is not prostitution. If you’re hellbent on being disingenuous then there is no point in continuing the conversation. Well yeah because we wouldn’t be compatible. So yeah it is real love. If a woman wasn’t attractive (looks or personality) you wouldn’t be with them either. I just laid out examples of my generosity…? And yet you didn’t quote or respond to any of them. You’re very disingenuous. No not really. If a guy wants to interpret it that way then he is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:16 AM
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No if I’m on a date with them then I already like them enough. I lose attraction after they show that they aren’t generous. So yes. Well yeah I am married. I just said that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:07 AM
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Well yeah. If it’s our first date then yes I would like them to pay. I am filtering for generous men. I’m not going to waste my time on a stingy man. So yes I lose attraction if they don’t pay. Yeah I’m actually very generous and caring. I spent my time learning to make his favorite cake for my husband’s (then boyfriend’s) birthday, and bought him hundreds of dollars in gifts. And I actually got him 1300 dollar aviation headphones he’s been wanting since I’ve known him. So yes I am very generous…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:04 AM
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It’s not about the money exactly but how generous and caring he is as a partner. Some crazy mental gymnastics you got there 🤸‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:55 AM
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No they’re based on love and generosity. I’m happily married, thank you lol. You’re going to struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:54 AM
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I have indeed stopped talking to guys because of it. But that should help you filter for the ones willing to pay much faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:50 AM
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I wonder what your relationships look like. Sounds like a very miserable experience. Everything is performative. You really expect women to want to have sex with you and you can’t even romance? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:33 AM
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It’s not a “demand.” You either do or don’t. It’s still just incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:23 AM
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Not at all. If I were to go out in a date with a celebrity crush and had to pay. We would not be seeing each other after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:53 AM
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Lol mine too! My husband is actually much neater than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:23 PM
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It will be his… I have no intention in cheating on my husband. I’m not sure how you got that from me saying men need to do the legwork to get dna tests themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:50 AM
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Hit dogs holler… 🥱 What does that even mean? What social justice do you need? Men can get a DNA test whenever they want. Your argument does make any practical sense. You’re just yapping just to yap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:53 PM
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Who’s name calling? I just said what my husband isn’t. Hit dogs holler. What’s idiotic about my opinion? You didn’t press anything. You just regurgitate the same thing everyone else has said…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:11 PM
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We don’t have children yet. Also why wouldn’t our child be his…?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:32 AM
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Well thank you. That’s very kind of you! Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:16 AM
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Not really. We’re just eloping…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:34 AM
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Or it’s stressful because she realizes that the person she decided to have a kid with is accusing her of cheating and lying…? That wouldn’t work because a DNA test is not apart of the patient care for the woman so that doesn’t make any sense to even waste resources on that when you can literally just do the legwork to get the DNA test yourself. Sounds like men are just lazy… What consequences? Who is saying men can’t get a paternity test? No one. My point is do not be surprised when your relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:30 PM
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It shouldn’t be standard because the government allows you to get one already. That is a waste of government time and resources. How about don’t be a chicken and just get the rest from Walgreens yourself… I am in a heterosexual relationship. I’m getting married tomorrow actually. So stay mad. My fiancé isn’t some chronically online paranoid loser. If he didn’t trust me then we wouldn’t be getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:21 PM
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Why am I being questioned in my relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:41 AM
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Ok that’s fine. Ask all you want. No one is saying you don’t have that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:31 PM
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Ok that’s fine with me. We can agree to disagree. I’m not close minded at all. I just think it’s very selfish that you think women aren’t entitled to our own personal feelings of being accused of lying and cheating. You can recommend it all you want but I am still getting married in 2 days. I recommend women stay away from paranoid men. It’s not worth it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:30 PM
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When did I say I expect men to never ask? It just makes no sense to feel this strongly about it and then spring it on them later. You can avoid the whole ordeal entirely if you just tell the truth. It’s like asking each other your political stances. They can ask but don’t expect to preserve the relationship. So thanks for putting words in my mouth because I never said that I’d make men promise not to ask. Quit being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:52 PM
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Lol how so? It’s not about pride but an accusation. Why would I want to stay with someone that would think I’d cheat and lie to them about it? It’s incredibly self centered to think your partner shouldn’t feel anyway about it. Women do not have to bow down to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:50 PM
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It’s not at all. You are being very hostile for no reason. I disagree. The family is ending because of the lack of trust. I honestly would lose interest in maintaining the relationship. So what would you suggest? Staying together even though we are romantically over? What would happen in the real world is that we would get a divorce. I’m not going to stay in a relationship I’m not happy in. My husband questioning my fidelity and my ability to even lie and deceive him is a deal breaker. I love ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:47 PM
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Ok and if she doesn’t then ask or at least say it will be a possibility before you even have a kid. No one is telling you not to ask. But don’t be surprised when the relationship ends…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:03 PM
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But all of you in the comments advocating for paternity tests are going to sit here and say that you may not know until it happens… like what? So you feel strongly about it right now but suddenly you won’t when it happens? Why not just say you might want one in the future. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:01 PM
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What makes you think I didn’t already have this view on my own? It has nothing to do with internet discussions. This is what I would do personally. Well no I have never had a man ask me for a paternity test if that’s what you mean and I’ve never been pregnant either. I don’t think my husband would ask me for a paternity test so I’ll give you that. I do not have personal experience in this realm. However this is a hypothetical discussion. I’m not sure why you are so passionate and hostile about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:42 PM
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Yes like if I’ve previously cheated on him then I can understand that. I think you are intentionally trying to misunderstand my argument here. And I’m glad you said that. So if he is suspecting me of cheating and lying then there is no reason to continue the relationship. He can have the paternity test though. I’d never say no to that. I need to touch grass? Please be serious. You’re seriously arguing that women are unreasonable in wanting to leave you. You’re also incredibly hostile for no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:27 PM
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The doesn’t end I just wouldn’t continue the relationship. I think you’re the one projecting here. I never said all of that. Unless I cheated on him or I’m acting suspicious there is no reason to randomly ask for a paternity test. And yes I will be offended. What is there to be wrong about? I’m wrong for wanting to end a relationship over a cheating accusation? How does that work? No…just because I don’t agree with you doesn’t make me wrong or mean I out little thought into my views. Yes they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:25 PM
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How so? What is immature about it? And explain how you think your ideas aren’t immature? I’ll wait. It’s deranged to end a relationship? Don’t make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:01 PM
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How are my ideas immature but yours aren’t? Why do you think women should stay with you after accusing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:59 PM
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Predicting the future is irrelevant. Just say you’d like to have one when it happens. What would change in the future? Your trust for her? No I don’t think so. I think you should work on yourself with a therapist to handle your trust issues…and even your abandonment issues because you think women breaking up with you is somehow “wronging” you. No my solution is not that they have to bend over backwards. I would never tell my husband that he can’t have a test but the relationship will be over. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:58 PM
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If I am pregnant/just gave birth and you’re bringing up wanting a test then yes it is over. Why would I bring up cheating unless I think my partner is cheating? It makes no sense. What kind of backwards logic are you using? I’m immature but you can’t inform your partners that you’ll require one before a relationship isn’t? I’m immature but you think women are obligated to stay with you when you accuse them of infidelity? Please be serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:54 PM
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If she is pregnant by you and you don’t trust her then no she does not have to stay with you. She should have earned that trust already…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:51 PM
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Yes that is the point. If I’m bringing up the subject the relationship is already over. I’ve made up my mind already so this isn’t the gotcha you think it is. If I’m bringing it up I have a reason to… Ok…? Read what I said slowly this time. I don’t care is the relationship ends. I’m not trying to trap someone in a relationship with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:48 PM
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It can already be a high risk pregnancy and the potential of the relationship ending. Idk that’s pretty stressful to find out your partner thinks you potentially cheated on them and you’re lying about it. I’d honestly be more pissed than stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:24 PM
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So? It can happen. Men can get a paternity test anytime they want but women can be offended by it. I’m not sure why you guys think you can control the reactions of other people. It doesn’t matter if the relationship ends. At least you know whether or not you’re the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:22 PM
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So then you better tell her you require it before hand or be a man about it and accept the consequences. You think women are just supposed to suck it up when you accuse them of cheating and lying? Yeah I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:19 PM
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Unless he is acting suspiciously then there is no reason for me to bring it up…if he is cheating then the relationship is already over when I bring it up. It’s not a ridiculous logic at all actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:18 PM
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They are. Why are you all so desperate to keep women you think probably cheated on you? If the kid isn’t yours then where’d it come from hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:20 AM
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You’re blowing up the relationship by asking. Women do not have to stay with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:18 AM
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Why wait to tell her you’d like to have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:59 AM
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A stressed mother…are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:49 AM
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No…be a man and get the paternity test on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:36 AM
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So suddenly you don’t trust her now that she’s pregnant? The dumbest thing I’ve ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:32 AM
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Passive men are not attractive and I can’t respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:18 AM
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Well yes…a persons actions and personality is who they are. Not just their physical looks…?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:15 AM
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So you wouldn’t actually like or love her. That’s why you aren’t being chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:05 AM
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Protecting women from who? Other men…and their job is to protect everyone in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:56 PM
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Lolll not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:27 PM
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Yeah uh huh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:49 AM
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I find it funny that this is always the response to posts like this. Which ethnic group are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:07 AM
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Looks like you better decide what’s important to you. Who cares if you get divorced, at least the kid is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:14 AM
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Men would not choose to endure the level of pain women do when it comes to pregnancy and childbirth when they can just go to CVS and a get a dna test. Your argument makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:54 PM
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I highly doubt men would accept “some pain” pregnancy and childbirth isn’t just “some pain.” Typical ignorant male opinion. Mme can’t even go to cvs for a dna test and you expect me to believe they’ll accept the pain that comes with being a woman. Gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:47 PM
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That has nothing to with equality. Men can get a paternity test any time they want. And using this same logic of equality then men should also be experiencing the pain and discomfort of pregnancy and childbirth. It needs to be equal right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:15 PM
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A test they can buy at a cvs too…just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:35 AM
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It shouldn’t be…just get it yourself and deal with the aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:31 AM
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As opposed to what? Mom and dad unhappily staying together? You think that’s better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:17 AM
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That’s fine with me. I already told my fiancé that if we ever divorce he can keep the kids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:25 PM
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I don’t bring anything but vibes to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:27 PM
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Then continue to have a problem with it… that is a personal problem. Why are women obligated to appease you in dating? What does that have to do with rights? Men would do that because women aren’t giving them what they want? But I’m the sociopath? The jokes right themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:39 PM
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You’re not being very specific. How am I privileged? Why do I need to have empathy for male struggles and their loneliness? What will my empathy accomplish? Women’s empathy isn’t going to get you a relationship or laid. So now what? So you want to take away women’s rights because we’re not dating/having sex with you but you also want women’s empathy? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:17 PM
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How am I privileged? Explain. Why do men think they’re entitled to women? Women don’t feel entitled to men. Men don’t care about women’s rights because they don’t get pussy? Is that correct? What social privileges? Medical care is not a social privilege and neither are equal rights? Men should lose their rights over being the gender that perpetuates violence more than women. But women should lose rights because we aren’t dating men we don’t like? Is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:01 PM
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It’s called an ✨example✨ follow along sweatie. Don’t care. Men don’t need to be happy. Women aren’t obligated to approach you just because we have equal rights lmfaooo. Yes because pathetic men are the ones voting to overturn reproductive rights and not the married lunatic evangelicals…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:54 PM
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Women don’t have to do anything. We are not obligated to split 50/50 or approach at all. That was not a condition of our rights. My boyfriend is pretty happy. The men upset by it are undesirable anyway, so nothing is lost there. My boyfriend is very happy. When I’m expected to birth his children and change my last name in marriage then you damn right he better pamper me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:44 PM
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I disagree. What does that have to do with women choosing whether or not to approach? Or what traits were attracted to? I have a full time job and still get pampered. I fail to see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:21 PM
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Equal rights is not linked to dating no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:12 PM
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It doesn’t… Women have ample amount of responsibility. Women don’t approach men because we have different desires and idea for what we want in relationship. Men just use “equality” as an excuse to be lazy. Don’t get mad when women don’t approach or want to date you. They aren’t packaged together…who is shuddering and hiding? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:07 PM
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Legal rights have nothing to do with dating. I said what I said. Women do not have to approach you because we have equal rights. Be serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:41 PM
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Men aren’t dying everyday to date women be serious. Men work their jobs to maintain their own lives. It has nothing to do with dating. Men work their air conditioned jobs just like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:40 PM
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Equal rights have nothing to do with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:41 PM
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What’s with you and women’s bodies? Why do you care. Most women are not with rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:39 PM
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Ok good for them. The only thing that matters is whether or not the other person is willing to accept. That’s all. My boyfriend is high value and has a lot of great qualities that I am lacking in. Yet he accepts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:08 AM
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🥱 I am a power plant engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:06 AM
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You should get a life. This was over 2 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:05 AM
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What does “REAL engineering and invention” even mean here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:32 PM
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Ok and a lot of women don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:58 PM
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Sure those women exist but it is more hassle to go out with someone you don’t like just for a $20 dollars meal. She has to be really hurting for cash to even think about that. Nothing worse than wasting time with a man you don’t even like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:57 PM
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No I understand. You are legally allowed to get a paternity test. There is no reason for the government to try to preserve your personal relationships. If you suspect the kid isn’t yours then do it. If you just want to know just because then do it. The rest is your personal problem to deal with. There is no benefit to the government standardizing paternity tests. All it cares about is if the kid is being provided for. Doesn’t matter by whom. I’m not fond of standardizing anything to do with my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:54 PM
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Ok then do what you want but deal with the fallout. Women do not have to be ok with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:58 PM
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Be man enough to ask for it and deal with the consequences. That’s it. Or choose to have a kid with someone you trust. I would not want to be with a man that asks me for it but I would never deny him of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:50 PM
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Lol then deal with the consequences. That’s your personal problem. The wife should get divorce papers. Choose what’s more important to you….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:54 PM
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That was me making fun of your point…you clearly didn’t catch on. Are you autistic or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:19 PM
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You consider that large? Well if that’s the case then I don’t know why women even continue to be with men when a large enough percentage are rapists and murderers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:27 PM
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You’re siting irrelevant facts and figures though and then wrongly claiming that majority women are cheaters when that’s not even what the study is about. Be serious. I’m literally an engineer. All I deal with is facts and figures lol. Nothing you said was a fact. All you did was draw conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:48 PM
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I’m not sure what you want me to do with this information
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:40 PM
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Ok then 30%. That’s still 70% that are still the father. So 7% as opposed to the other 93% somehow suggests majority of women are cheaters and every child should be government mandate tested even though you can just buy a kit from CVS or Amazon? Is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:27 PM
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Your “math” didn’t a source. I’ll consider your argument if you have actual data on a study conducted for that. It’s also not 10% of women!!! You can’t even read the data correctly. It’s 10% of people that test for it to begin with. Not everyone is getting a DNA test and the men that are, are actually the parent of the kid. What’s not clicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:20 PM
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I’ve passed several. I’m an engineer. That’s not how you use data…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:02 AM
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And that’s your business...I’m not reading that dissertation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:14 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:08 AM
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Yes…when he was elected the first time I wasn’t old enough to vote so yah. Presidential terms are 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:18 AM
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Eww I don’t like trump at all and voted against him twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:40 AM
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Annddd we’re getting off topic. I don’t care bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:39 PM
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There’s a thing called insurance…most you’d pay is probably 1000 dollars out of pocket. You have no idea what you’re talking about. Irrelevant…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:33 PM
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Then choose somewhere better to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:16 PM
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You weren’t worried about the hospital at all. In America that literally tag the babies lol. Oh no I was reported again!!! /s for a married man with a child, you have a lot of time on your hands. Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:46 PM
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Oh no you reported me!!! I don’t care lmao. She clearly doesn’t because she let a whiney insecure manchild play in her face. Yeah I don’t care about your wife’s qualities. Accomplished and beautiful women can have low self worth too. Too many women are head over heels with their abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:42 PM
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You wrote an entire essay about nothing. You cannot just come to your own conclusions based on the study. That is NOT what was being studied, dumbass. I’d be surprised if you even graduated from high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:30 PM
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That’s not gender equity in the slightest. Men can get a DNA test. It does not need to be legally mandated because you can literally buy it yourself. This argument is pathetic. The government is not obligated to preserve your relationship. If you are in a years long commitment relationship and she has worries about you suddenly becoming abusive then yes she also has problems and need to see a therapist. So this argument is not the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:28 PM
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That response is NOT virtuous in the slightest. You’re just very immature and clearly was not ready to be in a committed relationship or a father (which is very unfortunate for your kid). So you would have wasted time and resources just for the kids to turn out to be yours. If her self esteem wasn’t so low she should have left you. P.S. No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:26 PM
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Ok key word…PAY. It is literally a transaction/exchange for labor. Not a violation of someone’s person. It’s disgusting that you guys fantasize about being a rapist. Women contribute significantly to society. Nursing isn’t an important job? Teaching isn’t an important job? Taking care of children and the elderly isn’t an important job? Just because you don’t value those jobs doesn’t mean they’re not important. People would literally die if women didn’t do those things. And you know what…I’m glad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:23 PM
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Thrown in prison how? For what? Men go to jail when they don’t pay their child support. You should take care of your kids, buddy. What part of broke people don’t pay alimony for you not understand? Broke people are the ones doing majority of divorcing. And alimony is only awarded 10% of the time when one person was at a loss during the marriage. Women aren’t stealing money from a man…it’s literally a marital asset and compensation for the woman not working. If you don’t want to pay alimony then …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:18 PM
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Ok….? It’s still the same logic when a guy asks for a paternity test. Anyone would be offended after being a committed relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:43 AM
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Ok so what does that have to do with being in a committed relationship versus meeting a stranger? Most people are weary of strangers. And no these are equivalents at all. You should not be having children with someone you do not trust. It is an accusation because how else would she be pregnant if not by you? Riddle me that Batman… you’re not confident if you’re questioning them. That does not make any sense. Men can want it. That does not mean women are obligated to stay with them. I would file …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:41 AM
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You can’t just infer that from the study. That is just your opinion. That is not how actual research is done. So no “common sense” will not cut it and is not a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:36 AM
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How is being weary of a person you’re just meeting the same as being with someone for years and accusing them of being untrustworthy? Please be serious. How else would the kid not be yours? She didn’t impregnate herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:41 PM
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I still stand by my original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:40 PM
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You did all of that for what then? You didn’t even get the test. You were testing her and clearly did not trust her. Loser behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:54 PM
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It’s a cheating accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:38 PM
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He can actually keep the kid personally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:33 PM
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Having a go bag just incase your husband turns out to be abusive is ridiculous and kind of on the same line as asking for a paternity test. If you were that concerned you should not have married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:13 PM
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What’s irrational is living in fear that your partner cheated on you and then being surprised when they’re offended and the relationship is damaged. So no it isn’t extreme or irrational. If my husband thinks that way of me after going through a traumatic experience then he can hit the road. You’ll see your child 50% of the time during your week. Relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:58 PM
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Ok and if you want to live your life thinking that then that is your business. Women do not have to preserve a relationship with you after that. And you should actually bring your concerns up before even having the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:56 PM
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We should not make something standard just to avoid hurt feelings. What dumbass logic is that. Just grow some balls and do it regardless of the consequences. The government does not care about preserving your relationship/feelings. Just get the DNA test…! It’s not difficult. If she leaves you after that then oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:55 PM
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You can’t infer that from the study. That’s just your Opinion that cheating is higher than that. Again just your opinion. Anyone would be offended about being accused of cheating…? So whatever get the DNA test. If it’s yours then it wouldn’t make a difference other than your relationship falling apart. But at least you’d know and that’s all that matters. Why are you saying 30% of women. Again that is not how the study is interpreted. It is not 30% of all women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:53 PM
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I’d respond calmly and let him get the test but he’ll be getting this divorce papers along with the results
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:01 PM
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You’re saying this like you would know for a fact that she slept with another man… that doesn’t make any sense. She either did or didn’t which is why you’re asking for the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:56 PM
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No it does not happen regularly. 30% of men that get a DNA test are not the father. That means 70% of men that requested them are the father. That does not mean 30% of all of society 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:53 PM
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This mentality is clearly not for people that want to be in happy or healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:50 PM
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You don’t even seem to like women at all so I doubt that’s true. Men are the most emotional and irrational people I’ve ever met and I work in a male dominated industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:48 PM
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You book it and pay for it…are you serious? You’re the one being selfish here. Why does she need to do that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:46 PM
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If you suspect the kid isn’t yours then get a dna test. No one is stopping you. Why men fear the consequences of their actions is the real question here. So what your wife will be upset? So what if it damages the relationship? If you really want to know then just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:43 PM
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Broke people don’t even have any assists to lose!!! Alimony and rape are not comparable. This is for special cases where either person needs to be compensated when they were at a loss during the marriage. Men killing themselves after a divorce is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:40 PM
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No women do not legally get access to men’s body. Try again. Labor is not the same. Women work and contribute to society too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:38 PM
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Always broke men worried about money they don’t have. Alimony is only awarded 10% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:13 PM
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Men are not owed sex and those men work their jobs for money/survival the end. You do not get access to another persons body. Women are not a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:10 PM
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You guys just want sex even if it’s not enthusiastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:56 AM
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Could undesirable men be any more pathetic? Women are denying you their bodies so you vote against everyone’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:36 AM
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That’s because they don’t have to do the hard part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:21 PM
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Has never been a problem for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:19 PM
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I believe in equality and men paying for dates 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:09 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:30 AM
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Not even close…try again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:55 AM
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These aren’t euphemisms. That’s just what’s happening…. If I can do why I want with my body and that includes not enabling myself to keep a child alive that’s living inside MY body. I still don’t care. What’s not clicking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:57 AM
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Yes I have the right to stop my body from producing undesired hormones yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:11 AM
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You’ve said that already. What else do you have? How am I selfish with my own body? Still don’t care. Women should have as many abortions as we want. We are obligated to be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:02 AM
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Don’t care…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:52 AM
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It is your opinion… I have clearly said I do not care. Call it whatever you want. I get to choose whatever I want to do with MY body and if that’s ending a pregnancy then so be it. What is your actual end goal of this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:52 AM
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Lol Its your long winded opinion, kiddo. Not the truth. I have stood firm that about my opinion on abortion. Take it or leave it. I am not going to read your dissertation of the same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:25 AM
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Yeah you are a clown lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:49 PM
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I’m not reading all of that…next 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:50 PM
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I can kill whatever I want WITHIN my body. We can literally kill people for breaking into our homes/trespassing. Please be serious. Men are not legally obligated to work dangerous jobs and guess what…women work too. So not only do we have to sacrifice our bodies for pregnancy and childbirth but also to make a living. Please stfu. You aren’t changing my mind. You just want to hear yourself talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:26 AM
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You’re the psychopathic one if you think you get to dictate what women do with our bodies. We are under no obligation to gestate a child if we do not want to. That’s it. That’s all. You’re not the one doing the work and going through the stresses of pregnancy and labor. You constantly saying “yOuRe KiLLiNg yOuR cHiLd” is not going to change my stance, buddy. No men are doing so because they want to. There are plenty of young men without families doing dangerous jobs because either A they like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:24 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re writing all of this for. I’m not going to agree with you here. Men die choosing dangerous jobs for the money. You can literally do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:48 PM
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Not when you’re pregnant…you’re not obligated to do anything. If I want to take a pill to stop my body from producing a hormone I can. It does when they’re using my body. You can kill some from breaking into your house or simply self defense. So yes you can… I bet you’re the type to think that if a woman and the child’s life is on the line when during birth, you’d save the child over the woman. Be so serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:16 AM
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Lol if I’m pregnant I am not obligated to d any of those things. It is my body that I’m doing it to. It doesn’t really matter what your opinion is. You’re not the one doing it. Guess what buddy…I don’t care. I can do whatever I please with my own body and that includes ending a pregnancy. Go fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:13 PM
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Ok well what are you saying this to me for…?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:26 PM
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No we are preventing our bodies from producing hormones and the fetus dying is a by product. You using inflammatory language isn’t going to change anything. Women should have the right to choose whatever we want to do with our bodies. GTFO. And you better be adopting and taking care of these kids,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:26 PM
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Ok because men CHOOSE those jobs. How is it that women are required to use our bodies to grow another human being? It is our bodies that we can choose what we want to do with it and if we want to take pills that don’t produce pregnancy hormones then we can. Are you going to ban birth control pills next? And oh please plenty of men push women to get abortions and animate their entire families. You’re being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:24 PM
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Most abortions are not dismemberment. What about the pill? How are we not entitled to stop our bodies from producing a hormone that keeps a fetus alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:33 PM
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Then YOU birth and raise them then…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:31 PM
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It’s not holding on to pain, it’s literally just learning…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:27 PM
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Not true. Plenty of cultures don’t have women change their name. I’d wager a pretty plenty that you’re full of shit. Change your name to hers if you’re so sure then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:16 PM
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Doesn’t matter. It is the name you’re born with. Why should women have to go through the hassle of changing their last name when it hardly makes a difference? Most of these men are acting like they have some grand empire when you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:05 PM
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So? Women find my boyfriend socially interesting and yet he still remains ✨loyal✨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:02 PM
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Because that’s not attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:01 PM
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Ok but why does it matter if women want to have high standards? There’s nothing confusing about that. If I am choosing someone to spend the rest of my life with and to have children with then ya darn skippy I’m going to be picky af regardless of how old I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:50 PM
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Women have a much more difficult time than men. Are bodies want to hold on to fat and we have to in a much larger deficit when literally most foods are high calorie in the U.S. with added sugars. Even the goddamn bread has a shit ton of sugar and sugar is addictive. Lol you’re really going to sit here to explain the laws of physics to an engineer? And it is the laws of thermodynamics, fool. Again, just because something is simple in concept DOES NOT mean it is easy to do. Will power and addictio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:30 PM
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Not necessarily. As it becomes more advanced you will not actually. I’m thinking about the future and so was the other commenter so right now is irrelevant. I JUST said if it was needed women will do it when they are already voluntarily doing the jobs right now. Try to read properly next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:09 PM
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Not it isn’t. Women are much more hungry around our cycle. And we hold on to a lot more fat so it is much more difficult for women to lose weight than it is for a man. And that’s where I disagree with you… it is much more difficult to have that will power in the U.S. when everything is made to be addictive. You’re just ignorant and lack any kind of nuance whatsoever ever. Telling people to just not eat when you literally have hunger cues is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:03 PM
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Yes obviously but you wouldn’t need the person driving necessarily. Probably just an engineer and a mechanic. Want is irrelevant. If it was necessary then women would do it. I am actually an engineer for power plants and I’ve met quite a few women doing the physical labor for those jobs willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:02 PM
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Just because something is simple does not make it easy at all… you have no idea what you’re talking about it. And not eating is hard for some people. It can have negative effects for days. I’ve been on this rollercoaster up and down and it was not easy. You’re clearly a guy. It is much more difficult for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:42 PM
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So what? Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:27 PM
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That’s not true at all. Just because something is simple doesn’t make it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:21 PM
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Pretty hard. Food slaps. If you’re British then you have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:20 PM
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Ai can drive trucks. Women can run power plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:18 PM
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Women have whole ass babies and men whine about a vasectomy. It’s so pathetic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:10 PM
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Well I’m human so I don’t bark lol. I’m not the one violating animals like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:42 PM
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Lol heavy projection I see. For companionship and yet majority of men still have women do the majority of domestic labor and childcare. How else are you going to have kids if not for sex? And are we going to pretend like men and women can’t have platonic relationships? Maybe YOU’RE retarded because you can’t seem to even be friends with women. Ok then don’t have relationships….? No one is forcing you, fool. I promise you no one is missing out on dating you lmfaoooo. I can read just fine. You’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:31 PM
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Ok then do that? We don’t care. No one is forcing you to date. The people that want to be in relationships will go on and live our lives regardless. My boyfriend and I are really happy so do what you want. No one cares. I promise and women are not missing out on anything from you 😂 No one is downvoting you lmaooo. You paranoid cyclops. Lol oh break the rules?? What a cry baby
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:09 PM
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Lol babe…stats do not agree with you. Women do majority of the housework. And men cannot have children and not do they do majority of childrearing. Children isn’t just something mundane or light that’s just offered. That fact that you don’t see it as an actual sacrifice tells me all I need to know. There is bodily and emotional trauma. I don’t see why any woman should want to be with a boy like yourself. A pet? You’re having sex with pets?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:08 PM
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How is the tea app at all comparable to a rape academy?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:54 PM
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Thank god. I’m glad you decided to spare women from your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:43 PM
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Just besides children’s huh? As if that’s not already a difficult task? Like women don’t do most of the cooking and caring for their families? Are women not taking care of women when they’re sick either? You’re a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:43 PM
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Ok…so what? Women can be attracted to whatever we want. If you guys can’t provide it then oh well then you just can’t. I don’t see why it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:40 PM
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Then say no…?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:51 PM
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Lol yes… Right I’m sure everyone not agreeing with you is conveniently “stupid.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:41 PM
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I’m not saying YOU specifically. Your entire argument is blaming women for having a choice in who we’re dating. It is so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:52 PM
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You get on here and whine about women not choosing you and we should somehow be blamed for it. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:21 PM
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The real question is why does it matter? You’re mad at women for not giving pity pussy? Please be serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:36 PM
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They’re creepy regardless. Attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:18 AM
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Older men have always been creepy. I’m 26 and they still are. I went to a very populated college and all of the girls hated when they showed up at our nightclubs/bars to try to hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:20 PM
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Lol okay and you think that’s a flex? What a weird thing to say about a 26 year old. That’s how I know you’re a creep and I shouldn’t take anything you say seriously. Your 26 year old probably hasn’t caught on to how much of a loser you are yet. My man doesn’t have to pay to do anything. He’s just a very generous and caring person. He takes care of the people he loves. He’s an actual good man, unlike you. He’s also very attractive and has not struggled to date at all. Women still hit on him. He’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:32 PM
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Lmao can you guys read? Talking about your feelings IS being emotionally open. Literally look it up. You guys make no sense. My bf and I talk about our feelings all of the time without being whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:11 PM
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Ok? Why is that my problem? I don’t date women. Lmao imagine being upset and hating women because someone doesn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:09 PM
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I am his safe space. He can express his emotions and not be whiny about it. We’re perfectly content so don’t worry about us. Worry about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:08 PM
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I have great relationships. Why is it bad to not want to deal with emotionally tumultuous people? I should just love myself. Why would I love anyone else over myself than my children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:38 AM
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Ok? That goes with everyone… Why should I date someone that makes me uncomfortable because they can’t regulate their emotions? Please be serious and act like a grown up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:06 AM
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I googled what does emotional expression look like… Sorry you’re wrong, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:05 AM
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Well yes. Why would I have a relationship with someone that is stressing me out with their emotional outbursts? The same goes for my friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:04 AM
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Yes it is expressing emotions. You don’t need to have big emotional outbursts to do that. That is called being an emotionally regulated adult. I will not agree with you so this conversation is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:13 PM
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Lol not really. I am a solution oriented person by default. We do express our feelings to each other. You’re just making up stuff to feel better about yourself and it’s pathetic. I urge you to see a therapist. You’re very temperamental and can’t regulate your emotions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:11 PM
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No. It’s calmly expressing your feelings. It is doable. My boyfriend does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:09 PM
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Lmao. Bringing me problems sometimes wanting help with a solution is fine. But if that is ALL the time then you are a whiny loser. That goes without saying, fool. Get over it. Another subhuman black piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:53 PM
2

I’m sorry but you’re wrong… Yes it is whiny for anyone. Women included. I hold the same standards for my female friends..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:38 PM
1

I disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:23 PM
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There are conditions for all relationships I have. That includes my friendships. I will not be dealing with emotionally volatile people. So yes I will choose people that aren’t going to cause me stress and decrease my quality of life. You can express your emotions without emotional outbursts. Talking about your feelings calmly IS openness. YouTube is not real life…women are absolutely looked down upon for emotional outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:54 PM
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Well you guys should probably figure it out then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:31 PM
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No one should be doing that. That is emotionally unregulated behavior. Most adults should be able to have a metered conversation. We don’t scream or yell at each other. Bursting into a fit of laughter is not an issue…what a weird thing to say. Men can laugh…? My bf however has a very emotionally expressive mother so he probably just learned how to regulate his emotions early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:31 PM
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No I’m not wrong. It is about how you express them. My boyfriend expresses his feelings just fine and it’s not whiny at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:28 PM
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Not really. My boyfriend has expressed fear/uncertainty, sadness, etc. it wasn’t an issue. It’s how he expresses it that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:37 PM
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If you have crippling anxiety, you should see a therapist. A gf can’t help you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:33 PM
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Wow I really struck a nerve with you lol. My boyfriend is the perfect example of someone that can express his feelings without coming off as whiny. He already has solutions to his problems. He tells me how he feels concisely in a normal conversation. My bf expresses his stress and fear/uncertainty to me and it’s not whiny at all because he doesn’t bring it up every damn day. Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:31 PM
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It’s all about how you present it. If all you have are problems and no solutions then yes you come off as whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:27 PM
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You can be emotionally open and not whiny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:40 AM
1

I didn’t read it. It was a light skim at best sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:59 AM
1

So what? It’s her body and it’s just a clump of cells. Majority of abortions happen in the early first trimester. That is irrelevant. My body/autonomy > than a child I don’t want to have. So what? Women have miscarriages all the time and it’s basically the same process in some cases. Annddd I’m not reading the rest of that. It’s pointless to waste time arguing with you. I said what I said. Women have a right to choose whatever the fuck we want to do with our bodies and it DOES NOT include wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:00 AM
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I care more about women’s bodily autonomy…if a woman wants to remove something from her body, she has the right to. And you think forcing women to get with men they don’t like isn’t backwards? Society and marriage is a man made concept. If you really wanted to move back toward that then women should have the free real to choose our partners. That is just nature, babe. You’re a complete loon if you think forcing women into marriages and having children for men they aren’t attracted to is ok. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:56 PM
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I thought I was replying to someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:48 AM
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So what? It is women’s bodies to do with as we please. So the world should evolve backwards because some unattractive men can’t get their dicks wet. Please be serious. It’s not penis envy. Just reality. That is not an argument. Men are not entitled to women’s reproductive labor or our bodies. Get over it. You have a hand for a reason. Yes cost of living is high. It is you that is living luxury. You also don’t have to deal with any of the downsides of pregnancy and labor. So men should be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:05 AM
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So what? It is women’s bodies to do with as we please. So the world should evolve backwards because some unattractive men can’t get their dicks wet. Please be serious. It’s not penis envy. Just reality. That is not an argument. Men are not entitled to women’s reproductive labor or our bodies. Get over it. You have a hand for a reason. Yes cost of living is high. It is you that is living luxury. You also don’t have to deal with any of the downsides of pregnancy and labor. So men should be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:05 AM
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How about we leave women alone. We are not obligated to want you. Get over it. The world shouldn’t change nor should you take away women’s right because we don’t want to fuck you or have children with you. Women bear the majority of reproductive responsibility and cost of living is high. And on top of that, you want us to date men we don’t like? That is NOT a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:28 PM
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Yeah no…I’m not on any birth control at all so that is definitely not the problem. You’re just looking for an excuse to take away women’s bodily autonomy. I hope men like yourself continue to have dating issues. It is not required for women to want to date you. You really think that will work? You have to be rage-baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:17 PM
7

And that means dating and having sex with men we don’t like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:55 AM
7

Explain how it’s relevant to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:54 AM
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Women weren’t just taking care of children. You are severely out of touch with reality. Women literally farmed, made clothing, worked in factories, etc. especially ethnic women. There weren’t any offices to work in until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:39 AM
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It’s not about the money, you one dimensional thinking nitwit. You have the brain power and critical thinking skills of an ameba. Lol I make 6 figures fool. So does my man. But I’m the money grubber? Be for real. You probably have no money and that’s why you’re offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:31 PM
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I never said wanting to be a mother was wrong though. Nor did I say they were a slave to hormones. You guys can’t read. It was just a statement of fact to explain why women would continue having kids after going through bodily trauma. I never said it was an issue… Learn to comprehend next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:21 PM
1

Does pregnancy turn off your brain cells too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:28 PM
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It wasn’t even an argument per se. I was just saying it is just hormones that keeps women having children. I never said it was bad or good… Yet you still got offended, babe. Maybe read next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:11 PM
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Clearly not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:09 PM
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…what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:09 PM
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The thread is fine. I was replying to a specific comment, moron. There are zero benefits to having children with ignorant and unempathetic men like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:32 PM
3

…what? Did you even know what you’re talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:25 PM
2

What are you even trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:24 PM
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I never said there weren’t any benefits to being a mother…you should read. I never implied that either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:09 PM
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Yes obviously… you are severely missing the point. That was just a statement of fact. No one is diminishing the want to have kids but i was just explaining that women continue to have kids because our bodies get flooded with hormones to forget the trauma and “reward” us with the kid. That’s it. I can see now that you felt offended by my comment. I don’t care if you love your kids or not lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:29 PM
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Yes a fucking moron when it comes to the physical pain/changes that women go through to have children. That’s why they lack empathy. I never take a man’s opinion seriously on this topic. They don’t know what they’re talking about. So yes stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:24 PM
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Yes I know that…I was just saying that is the only reason people keep having kids. Your body is flooded with hormones to make you forget the trauma your body just went through. Keep going as in having kids… Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:23 PM
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And that’s your opinion and you are a man. You have no idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:31 PM
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It’s just hormones convincing you to do it again. That’s all. I’m not saying it’s wrong but how else are women supposed to be convinced to keep going?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:28 PM
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Lol this is such a reductive and intellectually dishonest way to interpret what I said. But it doesn’t matter. I like men that aren’t lazy and selfish. I can multitask just fine. My man doesn’t “NEED” to pay for it (I’m assuming you’re talking about sex here). He’s just a generous person and so am I. I adore him. I feel sorry for any woman dumb enough to get with you. My bf gets more than enough attention. He’s fine as hell. You’re a loser, bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:15 PM
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Lol are you daft or something? I have zero children and it is just to vet. You think I only have one criteria? If a man isn’t generous then he will be a terrible partner for me. So why waste time ur time? I’d rather find out early that we are not compatible. I don’t care the kid of women you dodge. This is irrelevant to me. You’re not my type and I’m in a happy relationship. Yes I’m getting to know whether or not we’re compatible. That is the entire point. I can break it off for any reason whats…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:06 AM
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Then your point is irrelevant and no it isn’t. What is feminist then? Letting people walk all over you?! What a comically dumbass and irrelevant take. No they are NOT masculine qualities. They are genderless. What’s not clicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:49 AM
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Not even close. If you’re in a relationship and that’s how you see it then you have your own problems. It’s more like what can I get for my effort? Am I supposed to birth a man’s kids and change my last name for nothing in return? I don’t think so. I dodge men like you like the plague. So I don’t care what you like. Why should I be selfless? You’re the selfish one for expecting that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:47 AM
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So your statement doesn’t make any sense. Boundaries and a spine are not masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:08 AM
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It doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:07 AM
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Ok the majority of couples have children…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:07 AM
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It doesn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:23 PM
2

I do actually. Funny how you have nothing of substance to say about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:18 PM
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Sure you do buddy. I work more hours a week than my bf too so now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:29 AM
6

Try again…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:30 AM
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I’m not offended. I just disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:30 AM
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Ok if you tally up work hours and hours spent doing everything else, no men are not doing more hours. You’re using remembering birthdays as an argument to be disingenuous. Women work AND contribute to their families more on average. While men just work and that it? Be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:20 AM
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I’m not trying to make you change your mind. I just think your assertion that it’s a waste of money is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:17 AM
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You’re trolling. What do men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:29 PM
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Ok and you can have a wedding and still have money for a marriage. It is not all or nothing. If people want to celebrate it then it is not a waste…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:10 PM
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Ok and some people want a party. Just because you’re low maintenance ™️ doesn’t mean that everyone else should be. Nor is it just a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:38 PM
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You’re obviously being very disingenuous. The majority of women work and then on top of that have to do the domestic and emotional labor. So you left some parts out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:33 PM
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These men make no sense. Women have children everyday and they’re talking about some super unlikely hypothetical scenario. And somehow women have to work, do childcare AND cook?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:12 PM
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His wife is too busy with an actual job…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:09 PM
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Do you pull your weight with pregnancy and childbirth too? That scenario is more likely to happen than this fantasy you’ve got going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:07 PM
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Do women not work too? He should make me a meal. Men don’t want to do husband duties these days and it’s truly a shame!!! PROVIDE me and my girls with mimosas!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:05 PM
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Having a spine is masculine behavior? That doesn’t even make any sense. My theory has already been tested. I’m not bullying or disrespecting the me I’m dating but I do have firm boundaries and I do not let them walk all over me. What’s not clicking? You clearly missed the entire point, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:55 PM
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It’s not about fear but respect. Hopefully you found someone that respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:16 PM
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Hmm sounds like Instagram and I don’t have one. I have had men repeatedly tell me that they know not to play around with me (my bf included). I am not his bang-maid though. I can tell you that for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:20 PM
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Hardly. Men respect women more and usually want them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:15 PM
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You should be mean. I encourage it. You need a spine of steel!! Men know not to play with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:15 PM
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You can be insecure, that doesn’t mean we have to tolerate it. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:11 PM
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What was that social contract?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:35 PM
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No…why should I? If I wanted to pay for myself then I’d go out by myself. If I did, the guy would not be seeing or hearing from me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:39 PM
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What a weird thing to say. Men are unwell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:01 AM
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What does that mean? I’m not sure I’m following your point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:09 PM
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Ok but how though? I need examples
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:38 PM
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I like that my bf is very helpful and takes care of me. He solves any minor/major inconveniences I have. He’s a great cook too! And not only is he academically intelligent, but emotionally intelligent too (which is rare to find).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:37 PM
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No, the content of your comment made it bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:12 AM
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Ohh ok I can see that being an issue when it comes to dating then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:06 AM
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Lol ok? Then what are you bitching about then? Women don’t like whiny ass broke ass men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:05 AM
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Hmm at least for me I just don’t really try to impress them or be in my head too much. I’m also pretty strict with my dating criteria. With my bf, we met on hinge and he’s the only guy I went out with. This is my experience, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:55 AM
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Idk. I don’t worry about that at all…either we’re compatible or we’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:50 AM
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Then don’t date them, fool. Women have way more options than a stingy loser whining over paying for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:47 AM
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Who is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:44 AM
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Oof my boyfriend meets all of these requirements though. Never settle ladies!! 😌💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:57 PM
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I was on this sub before I got with him? Now what? We’re not attached at the hip 24/7. Yeah he does have a social circle lol. Ok? You’re probably just single and mad about it. So what is your actual point here? What do you mean? Do you share every single thing your partner does to your family? Do you share their YouTube algorithm? What is the relevance here? My bf knows and he does not care. You’re so salty right now and I love it. I don’t even spend that much time here and I don’t even make pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:51 PM
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Neurotic in what way? I don’t believe in pill ideologies. I just like making fun of people that do. My bf is peak man. So probably lolll. We’re just compatible. Idk. I’m not sure I understand your malicious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:04 PM
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What’s your name? I’ll google you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:02 PM
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I’m not understanding the relevancy of the first paragraph. I can only speak for myself. You’re upset about women being in a happy relationship? That’s a weird way to try to prove a point here. My bf is actually more organized and cleaner than I am. He does most of the cooking too. Very independent and emotionally mature. My man is an outlier though. Yet he keeps me around and plan to get married this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:43 PM
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Lol show you how? Believe me or not. Doesn’t change my reality. You can stay mad about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:40 PM
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I do though. We’re very happy actually lolllll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:55 PM
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Lol not really. I’m on a relationship so I do not have this problem. Any man that wanted to split never saw me again… And yes I do have a job and yes I can pay my bills. What do I need a man for then? I’m expected to take his last name and birth his babies…and you guys are bitching about a $50 meal. Get real lol. Great. I wish more men would spare women from men like yourself. A man like you would have already been put in the “loser” bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:18 PM
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It’s not a trade for pussy. That’s just what you think it is for. That says more about how you view dating than anything else. And it’s not a hypothetical when that’s what happens majority of the time. They should look elsewhere. If a man can’t pay for a date then we are not compatible. I don’t have these problems because I am taken. Are YOU in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:15 PM
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And that’s fine for those women. It’s better not to date. Men that don’t pay should be left out in the cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:32 PM
1

Untrue. If a man doesn’t pay then he’s not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:51 PM
4

Oh please. Women are expected to do majority of domestic labor, take a man’s last name and stamp the man’s last name on their children while being all of the reproductive labor. Men can stfu about paying for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:50 PM
2

don’t make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:48 PM
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Imagine actually taking my comment seriously and getting offended lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:48 AM
1

I am calm. Don’t get mad because your dates suck ass Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:06 AM
1

I know. Calm down lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:50 AM
2

I am like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:14 AM
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So what? You should aim to find someone compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:11 AM
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Not going to lie…your “creative date” sounds boring as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:55 AM
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It’s not about my memory, fool. The conversation served no purpose. Your literacy isn’t good, little boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:08 PM
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I was confused why we’re having this conversation… Ok little boy lmaooo. You’re like 12
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:09 AM
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I don’t need a reminder when this is just a pointless conversation. We disagree that’s it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:44 AM
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It doesn’t feel like much of a sacrifice though since I’m able to come home to him everyday instead of just seeing him on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:33 PM
1

My relationship isn’t that hard. It doesn’t feel like a sacrifice with the right person. I had to move an hour away from my job to live with my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:45 PM
-1

Ok great….so what are we talking about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:20 PM
0

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:40 AM
1

So again, the sex is not about love at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:18 AM
1

Because I don’t care about any of this other fluff. Whether you think it’s justified or not is irrelevant to the point. That isn’t love and if the sex was about “love” then he wouldn’t just up and leave if he was actually craving that love with her, which INS’T the case at all. Then your same logic should apply to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:46 PM
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We already agree. I’m not sure why you’re writing a dissertation still. What are you trying to convince me of? I don’t really care. Men only love women’s utility. We’ve established that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:11 PM
1

I’m glad we’re in agreement that men only “love”based on utility of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:51 PM
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Lol my point has been flying over your head this entire time. I’m actually really concerned for you. So we agree that it is not about love for men and they do in fact only care about women’s utility. So thanks for that, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:48 PM
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Mario babe…you’re still not getting it and frankly I’m tired of holding your hand. There is nothing I can do about that. Just keep rereading my comments until it sinks in. The entire premise is that sex has nothing to do with a man’s love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:17 PM
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What agreement? Do you say you explicitly need sex x number of times a week, a month, a year? Besides that is irrelevant to the point. The point is that men are also only focused on women’s utility and has nothing to do with love. Umm cheating does mean something though. If sex is about love then you would not be so quick to jump to cheating on someone you love if it was actually about that connection, when it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:33 AM
1

Ok how is that relevant then? It is clearly not about “love” at all. I didn’t ask what men should do or feel justified to do. My point remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:19 AM
1

Hmm try reading my comment again. It seems like you’re missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:36 PM
1

Ok and how does that disprove my point? It doesn’t. So thanks for that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:27 PM
1

Lol…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:01 PM
1

She’s calling out the double standard of your assertion about women only using men for their utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:01 PM
1

Lol you just proved the point of irrational cry bay male that doesn’t know what he’s talking about and it’s “they’re.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:21 PM
1

Oh please. Men are the emotional irrational ones here. You’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:20 PM
2

Yet as soon as a woman stops having sex with a man their first thought is to cheat. It’s not about “love” at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:15 PM
1

Or the equivalence is the man also gaining weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:03 PM
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Then it doesn’t sound like you’re disproving her point at all then If you’ve been consistent throughout the relationship. Do you still go out on dates and do small things together?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:40 PM
-8

Men get fat too in these very same marriages, I don’t get your point about women being the only ones to gain weight here….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:26 PM
-7

Are you trying to disprove her point? Are you saying you put no effort into the relationship after marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:25 PM
2

No. I love my bf more than any of my previous exes and it’s the same for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yes…several times actually and he only wanted to “act right” when I was ready to leave him. By then it was already too late. I couldn’t take it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:01 PM
2

Lol why is it either or though? Women in relationships don’t like wine and cats? I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:49 PM
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You don’t have to be happy all the time but to be consistently bored, I think leaving is a valid reason. I was bored with my ex being a homebody all the time and not initiating dates. So I left him… I disagree. It’s not about being an entertainment device. That is a lazy argument. It’s about keeping that spark and actually putting effort into the relationship. Men get too complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:47 PM
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And what’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:31 PM
0

It’s not hard and yet majority of women are the ones doing it… And you do women a disservice by being a moronic misogynist. Hysterics? Seriously? Show me the data where men are doing at least half of the work… show me the data where they’re doing the chores and feedings half the time. I’ll wait and no your little link did not support that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:05 AM
1

Sure…this shows that men would blame everyone else but themselves and not actually step up…next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:24 AM
1

Unreliable how? When women are still doing the majority of the household tasks and childcare. Please be so for real. Just be men are 1% better than in the past doesn’t mean women aren’t STILL taking the majority of the load. You are being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:06 PM
1

Oh my man is great and an exception so what else you got? And better by what standards? Where’s the data. Just because you take little Timmy to the park for an hours doesn’t make you dad of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:12 AM
1

6-8 weeks of maternity leave…have you ever been around a new born? 6 weeks is literally the he time it takes to make sure physically heal from the vaginal trauma/tearing and that’s it. It’s not low expectations. Women do it but women also have the right to complain about it. Most men are bare minimum and have no idea what it’s like. I expect an ignorant ass comment like this from a red pill “MaN”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:43 AM
1

I disagree. Especially if you’re working and have a new born/ recovery… you are ignoring all nuance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:06 PM
2

The average scenario is the same excluding ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:59 AM
2

I just said doing that on top of recovery. And you think you’re the only one that has family that are nurses? Are we going to pretend ppd doesn’t exist and that not everything goes back exactly the same and breastfeeding. Don’t be daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:40 AM
2

Yes…you think hormones and the body just go right back to the way it was before?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:24 AM
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Household issues while still recovering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:15 AM
1

The logic isn’t logicing. Why is it disrespectful and why do you think it’s ok to be disrespectful but she can’t? You’re not don’t a good job at defending your point. Let me ask you this…do you think men should be circumcised?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:03 AM
0

That’s because it is a lazy and a logical fallacy. What about the tradition do you like and why? Why is it disrespectful but not reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:12 PM
1

I said other than tradition…are you so unintelligent that you just follow a tradition just because? How is it a sign of respect? Does that mean you’re disrespecting your wife for wanting her to change the identity she’s had for the majority of her life and STILL have to birth your children and work? Be so serious lmao. No I won’t move on. If you can’t explain your logic then you have more problems. I thought men were logical? Guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:10 PM
5

Ok but tradition is not a valid argument. Why do you need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:37 AM
2

Is this trickle down economics but for dating? Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:22 AM
1

Lol this is so delusional omg. The majority of people date in their level. That’s just stats. Even in my personal experience that is true. Majority of the educated men I know are with educated and successful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:07 AM
1

And if a woman decides to take a pill that will keep her body from producing vital hormones to the fetus then what? It’s something she is doing to HER body. Just because the fetus can’t survive without her resources doesn’t mean she can’t take the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:31 PM
1

Lol it’s not. Most people agree on monogamy and that includes flirting with others. It goes like this “if you sleep with or flirt with someone else, I will leave you.” Controlling what someone else wears in a relationship is NOT included in monogamy. You don’t get to get into a relationship and then decide that you can control what your partner wears. And what they wear literally has no bearing on their loyalty. You’re just trying to do what exactly? Keep men from asking them out? Which will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:57 AM
1

Who said I wouldn’t communicate a boundary? Now you’re just making up arguments. What immature is expecting someone to change their entire wardrobe. I didn’t “sneak” that in. I have quite literally said that several times before. You clearly were not reading what I said. Your analogy doesn’t prove anything but your ignorance…we simply cannot even agree on the equivalence or flirting with someone versus wearing clothes. Your argument does not make any sense and I wish you would stay on topic. Irr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:32 AM
1

Because if they do xyz then I LEAVE. I’m not telling them to stop doing something especially if I knew they were like that to begin with. You are stepping into controlling territory. I’m not going to continue this conversation further. Messaging women vs wearing clothes is NOT the same and I will never agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:44 PM
2

This is a boundary I set for myself. Not for other people. Trying to control what your partner wears in public because you think it will invite other men IS insecurity. Idk speak with your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:50 PM
2

Ok let’s just agree to disagree. This doesn’t directly affect me in any way. If I met a man like this he’d promptly be shown the door. Now…men need to make it explicitly clear what they expect from their girlfriends before entering relationships. And make sure you get your fellow insecure brothers on board with funding an entire new wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:43 PM
2

Who is wearing lingerie in public? Are you referring to tops? And no it doesn’t mean that. Context fully matters. Wearing full on lingerie with your partner in the bedroom could mean that. But a lingerie top with some jeans/skirt does not signal that at all. I thought we moved past being obtuse. My boyfriend isn’t an insecure loser so I have not experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:01 PM
1

Outfits no because I already look good…I might add some eyeshadow and blush if I want to get crazy. Does that eye shadow and blush signal that I’m single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:46 PM
2

And if a woman wears a low cut top that signals what? Still doesn’t back up your point. How does known expensive jewelry compare to a halter top?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:45 PM
1

Not that different. Maybe I’ll wear a bra because grandma is obviously old fashioned but that’s it. But I do not get dressed thinking about whether or not I’ll signal if I’m single or not. Now that I think about it, my clothes that I wore to go on a date with my bf were consistent to what I wore everyday. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:19 PM
2

If people assume something and it’s incorrect then no it does not signal anything. That doesn’t even make any sense lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:15 PM
3

Act what way? Wearing clothes? Are we still talking about that? It’s seems like you’re just airing all of your random gripes. No one is talking about Instagram. I cannot argue against that as I do not even have one… Clothes do not signal to men anything about their relationship status unless it’s literally a wedding ring. You won’t change my mind about clothes equally a man going out of his way to flirt with women. Arguing about this further is a waste of time. Oh great so you can create false e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:29 PM
1

You’re forgetting these are clothes she already has and replacing them just because you’re in a relationship is not only ridiculous but impractical. I’ll humor you for a second though. Do you think men will actually front the money for an entire new wardrobe for their girlfriends? So are you saying women should also stop wearing makeup because it signals that they’re single and looking? Is that correct? I put on makeup and wear a sundress to just to see my grandmother…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:23 PM
1

You need to stay on topic when you debate, genius. Clothes is a material item. Behavior is not. Women do not have “single” vs “taken” clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:46 PM
4

And what’s that? I don’t get dressed every morning thinking I’m about to signal whether or not I’m single? The clothes that I had when I was single are the same exact clothes I wear now. Nothing changed… So do you also use this same sentiment when it comes to rape victims as well? Were they signaling they wanted sex while fully clothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:44 PM
9

Analogies only work if there is a direct equivalence, which there is not. Clothes do not signal availability. Be so for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:07 PM
2

Lol am I writing an academic thesis in the reddit comments? Pipe down. You’re not important. A moot point as we are talking about clothes. You made a totally different scenario that has nothin to do with what we’re talking about. I don’t think women in relationships should be accepting drinks from strangers. So now what? Has nothing to do with clothes 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:06 PM
8

No you aren’t. The first is literally just wearing clothes. The second is not…false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:31 PM
3

No one said anything about accepting drinks from men. Now you really are being obtuse. Make you make this ridiculous expectation of your clean before starting a relationship. I thank god everyday that my man isn’t some crazy ass ppd loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:30 PM
5

This literally has nothing to do with wearing clothes and you’re being willfully obtuse. Again. Are you going to fund her new wardrobe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:26 PM
10

What a false equivalence…what else you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:25 PM
15

Is she to buy a whole new wardrobe? And that’s not “advertising” 🙄 Only an insecure man would say something so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:40 PM
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They don’t…what is the meaningful difference of a man with a bachelors in engineering versus a woman with a masters in health?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:01 PM
3

You’re saying all of that to say what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:14 PM
7

That’s only usually an “ick” in the beginning of a relationship. Women aren’t just going to think less of their husbands just because she got a masters and he has a bachelors. There isn’t any meaningful difference, say in something like engineering and she has a masters in public health or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:35 PM
7

Why would she suddenly think she’s too good for him? It is far more likely for the man to be insecure about her education. Men like to be “better” than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:59 PM
9

So it is the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:46 PM
14

Literally backs my point up…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:45 PM
29

Maybe the man is the one straining the relationship with his insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:06 PM
3

We will literally find something else to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:37 PM
6

Ok fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:24 AM
-5

You’re not being specific at all so that doesn’t help much. It sounds like you just came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:35 AM
-4

Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:16 AM
0

Lol what? What do you mean she meant attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:12 AM
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That does mean women don’t have responsibilities at all. I women have the burden to populate the earth and raise their kids while sacrificing our career growth. Also an unspoken responsibility to take care of their elderly parents while the sons can do whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:35 PM
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What responsibilities don’t we have? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:40 PM
1

I don’t care. I don’t date men with high body counts… Nothing hypocritical about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:35 PM
9

Of course a man would say something so unbelievably ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:34 PM
1

What do you mean? I provide the vibes and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:44 PM
1

He’s not 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:49 PM
2

I will. Planning on it next year actually lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:53 AM
1

Meh. My bf pays for all of our dates and does most of the cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:34 AM
1

Lol nope. I’m not “traditional” and my man still pays. I have a job and he does most of the cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:52 AM
1

I don’t think it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:50 AM
1

Well aren’t you a prince…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:23 PM
5

I just straight up say it. The man should pay! 🗣️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:21 PM
1

Lmao please be for real. Guys like you deserve much more dating “discrimination”. The jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:09 PM
3

You’re being willfully obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:26 PM
1

5’3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:27 PM
-1

Yeah under 5’10 is crazy. 5’10 is the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:59 AM
6

You know what…hell yeah. I am a firm believer in leaving children with their father. He better figure it out. But honestly out of me and bf, I think I’m more likely to forget our kid in the back seat. Women have to figure it out and women should let men figure it out. I know a lot of women get anxiety and just do it themselves. But a lot of men just straight up refuse and this is why you vet weed out the useless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:09 PM
1

One of the things yes. It’s not my only criteria. That’s just to date me in the first place as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:46 AM
1

Don’t be daft. It’s one of the few metrics I use to judge that. Is he a generous man? Is he consistent? That’s enough for me to consider even dating him in the first place. Ok and you’re making a lot of assumptions here. The bar is definitely not on the floor. Use common sense. This is just for a date. I have other criteria. Paying for the date is bare minimum. I assume you’re in a happy long term relationship at least since you know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:17 AM
6

Hmm I don’t think actually that traumatized. Debate is something I enjoy as well some light trolling. If you want to have a heart to heart then sure lol. I was taught by my dad to always look out for number 1 (me) and that a man should pay. Now was my dad a great husband to my mom? Definitely not. Lots of infidelity and gaslighting. But I did learn what not to accept and he taught me how to avoid men like him (intentionally and unintentionally). Which is why I’m am very much a will not have chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:46 PM
5

I’m mean it’s the weekend and I’m actually not here that much. Plus we all have our super niche thing. You don’t have to be convinced. It actually doesn’t make a difference to me, buddy. Haters hate. Lol my princess attitude is working out for me. I should be treated like a princess if I am to damage my body and risk my life by birthing a man’s children. You better worship the fucking ground I walk on. This is how I avoid lazy men that don’t give an F about their wives/SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:18 PM
4

Not really. It’s actually working out perfectly for me. I’m in a very happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:11 PM
2

Well I don’t really care. It’s not a problem for me or the men I date. I don’t care about dating culture overall. I’m vetting for MY husband. So what? They should look to find someone else compatible with them. If they don’t have a strong sense of self and what they want then that’s their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:01 PM
1

Oh I probably should have quoted. I meant “it doesn’t “ to your statement: I’m not sure it will make any difference for women. And yah I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:40 PM
4

As much as I’d like a man to pay for dates, that’s something I would never do. I have never been that down bad in my life to suffer through a date with a man just for some free food. I would not care if it was a Michelin star restaurant. But if a guy doesn’t pay then there won’t be a second date after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:33 PM
2

It doesn’t. There is always a man that will pay. If you refuse, then oh well on to the next. Sure it’ll help you find someone more compatible but a man will not see me again if I have to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:30 PM
2

Lol no. I see it as a man showing me he’s worthy enough for me to marry him and risk my life having children for him. If you can’t even pay for a date then boy is that woman in for a hell of a time and not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:26 PM
2

I hardly paid for dates when I was dating and for the rare dates I did have to pay on, the guy wouldn’t get a second one. Other than that it wasn’t an issue dating as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:25 PM
3

I would definitely be like “bitch are you crazy?!” If my female friend told me she paid for a man. I get annoyed when she’s constantly worrying about how much a man spends on a date with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:17 AM
4

You can just tell them no. I find it easier to let them pay to see if they are a generous person. And if they expect sex after that then tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:58 PM
4

Oof my bf is both so hard to choose…luckily people aren’t so binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:59 AM
2

1 & 2 is still vague as hell. You are not giving any objective meaning to what you’re saying at all. What does 7 mean? What constitutes easily? Wait 3 months? 3 dates?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:56 PM
2

Lol oh I’m just calling a spade a spade. Those statements do not inherently contradict. Me saying you’re lagging was actually me being nice lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:20 PM
2

It does make sense. You’re probably just lagging today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:58 PM
2

“Be a lady” and “treat him like a king” is vague. Provide more detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:47 PM
11

Ok good for them. Doesn’t stop them from whining about it online though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:21 PM
17

Well I guess they eventually find out when she just “leaves him out of no where” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:44 PM
3

To be fair it is mostly men that do this. At least my experience and what I’ve seen. Especially on Reddit and in this sub specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:43 PM
1

It’s worked out pretty well for me. It’s not just for sizing how who wants quick tail but which men are actually generous and how they act afterwards. Ok…good for the man then? Better to find out that we’re not compatible. Any date that I had to pay there wasn’t another date after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:16 AM
0

What’s not clicking? If she’s paying for fear that men will be transactional and think she owes them then she is just delaying seeing who they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:34 PM
1

At that point aren’t you just preventing yourself from seeing what kind of person they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:46 PM
9

I agree with you. It’s one thing to want to get married because you’re in a long-term relationship and truly love that person, but it’s another thing entirely to want marriage simply because it’s a goal, without any real regard for who the other person actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:13 AM
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Ok…?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:21 PM
3

Lol sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:42 AM
1

Lol nuance? There isn’t any. No one needs to validate your need to be some creepy ass loser. There is nothing to be bitter about? I am in my twenties. It’s gross and we wish the old heads would leave us alone. Is my dad bitter because he wouldn’t approve of me dating a man a decade+ older than me? Is he jealous too? What about other fathers? Riddle me that, Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:40 PM
2

50% of men do not end up with women significantly younger than them. So I am referring to a very specific small subset of creepy ass men. This has clearly struck a nerve and has turned your projection levels up to the max. Ok great. I hope I haunt your dreams at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:36 PM
2

The sign is that he’s a loser and likely emotionally stunted. It is that deep. It’s very disgusting and the 20 something’s don’t like it. It’s pathetic. They need to be starting families with age appropriate women. Not being creeps. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:06 PM
3

And those older men are creepy. All the girls talk shit about you. The girls were not happy that some 30+ year tried to hit on them in a college town 18+ club. Get a grip. These older men seeking out younger women are losers. What is there to be bitter about? I am with my age appropriate man. I think that’s projection, sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:04 PM
2

Lol I’m not being a dick. You can like music outside of the club. Especially in a college town.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:02 PM
1

Yeah I don’t care about some 25+ year old being with a man that’s 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:59 PM
2

I think I can gauge just from how active you are in these forums lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:48 PM
2

No I said I am in my mid 20s. Present tense. When I was in college 30+ year old men were in our college town clubs. That is what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:47 PM
1

You’ve also been debating on this forum and on different posts for hours. Please get a life. You are clearly not one of those successful attractive 30+ year olds you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:24 PM
3

Lol you are grasping at straws now. I was also speaking about when I was in college. That was from 18-22. I’m not in the club these days. I’m also an engineer so I know math, fool. What is back then?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:22 PM
3

Lol this has clearly struck a nerve. Get over it. The majority of women do not want old ass men. There is a reason most women end up with men around Dree age. Not a decade older. 30+ year old men should not be in the club with 20 something year olds. It’s just pathetic and annoying. Sureee buddy. Or maybe they’re just embarrassed and they should be lol. These attractive older men dating young women are definitely not the majority. And 9/10 there is something wrong with that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:00 PM
-1

I’m not disgusted by men. Just indifferent unless they are actually being gross or older men hitting on 20 somethings. A 30+ year old man in the club is never a good sign lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:49 AM
4

Mm if they are visibly older it doesn’t really matter how attractive they are. Why are you in the club with 20 year olds?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:38 PM
56

This. They really think it’s only older women disgusted by this…? I’m in my mid 20s too and me and my friends and even random girls at the club were disgusted by the 30+ year olds trying to hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:05 PM
1

Right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:45 PM
1

Ok but what does that have to do with looks match. You think there aren’t any unattractive tall men with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:48 PM
2

What makes you an Adonis? No one is thinking about looks match when dating. Either you like them or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:16 PM
4

Because you’re so great…/s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:51 PM
1

You severely underestimate scorned women and their ability to collaborate. Is feminism a joke to you? Also men will be affected by lack of contraception as well. My bf and I only use condoms. So we can’t use that because why? Some random as men aren’t getting some? Please be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:13 PM
4

Yall can leave. No one will care lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:02 PM
1

No there wasn’t other than penis goes into vagina and it was definitely not really taught to the youth that well either other than preaching abstinence. It won’t because again, why would a society with contraception willing step backwards? That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:25 PM
1

When has the world used contraception and then decided to take it away? Let’s think about this for a second. You are thinking from a standpoint of when it was not used or there wasn’t any sex education. It will not work the way you think it will. This is just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:54 AM
1

So that will be the Catholics then? You really think even married women will just continue to endlessly get pregnant? Married couples with children use contraception too. And many marriages are going to be in dead bedrooms. And you do realize that many people live lives different from their parents? You really think every generation of women is just going to accept this? I’m not even sure why I’m even actually entertaining such a ridiculous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:52 PM
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No women won’t though. That is just delusional. If people are already having less sex with birth control why do you think it will suddenly change after removing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:19 PM
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Maybe not give up. Sure people will still marry and have kids but it will definitely make our current situation worse. You really think people are going to just start popping out babies after removing birth control. You severely underestimate just how pissed off women and men will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:33 PM
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How are STIs relevant though? I thought we were discussing pregnancy. Birth control pills aren’t going to affect STIs. Pregnancy is an issue for couples though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:31 PM
1

I’m confused about what you’re saying here. You are talking about removing contraception. That doesn’t just affect people having casual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:05 PM
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But makes you think it will return to that though? Especially after sexual education and women already knowing what it’s like to have access to contraception? This will have the opposite effect of what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:03 PM
1

There was a point in time where I had like 5 dates within one week. My roommate was like “you’re going out again?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:36 AM
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No it’s not. People in relationships have sex all the time and my bf and I literally only use condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:16 AM
1

This is the very same government worried about the replacement stats? You really think the government would benefit from not having citizens? They’re literally trying to incentivize women to have more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:05 AM
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You couldn’t do both? She might’ve wanted a switch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:10 PM
1

What part of a have a job do you not understand? He is not “funding” my survival. We don’t live together yet and I can literally live on my own. I will literally be sacrificing my body and mental health to have his children. So your opinion does matter here. I will NOT be doing the majority of childcare and that is final and he’ll still be funding our dates and the majority of our bills. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:05 AM
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Yes. Will he be changing his last name? Will he be giving birth to our kids? Do I not clean his apartment and cook/bake for him in return? If I can pay for my own things and if I really needed it, I have a dad. He doesn’t have to do anything he doesn’t want to do. He pays for my things so what? I have a job too. Why on earth would I do the bulk of childcare? What a stupid comment. And yes I do. He makes more money than I do. That’s just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:47 PM
1

Well we don’t live together yet and won’t be until next year. He pays for our dates, any food we get and miscellaneous things for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:57 AM
1

Lol what?! No. I’d have a job and would be recovering from childbirth. I told him the first 3 months is on him 🤭. He loves children anyway so I don’t think that would be an issue for him. I’d be employed and the one that stresses my body to have children. Why would do the majority of the childcare and domestic duties? I actually think my bf is more domesticated than me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:58 PM
1

Aww don’t be like that fren…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:32 PM
2

Aww you’re too kind! My man did just pay for me to get my nails done too. I feel fabulous! And to answer your question…✨nothing✨ Haha just kidding. I mean I don’t pay for things monetarily unless it’s his birthday or I’m feeling sweet (ie. grabbing his favorite snack while I’m at the store). I clean his apartment before he gets home from work on my remote days. I make him breakfast before work, and that’s at 6am when I do not need to be up until 8am when I’m working remotely! I’m actually drivin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:32 PM
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No, I don’t think I will! Who do you think you are? You’re not my man! 😌💅🏽 Ooh yes! Everyone look at me!! Edit: maybe if you ask nicely then I’ll think about answering your question 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:58 PM
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Irrelevant. Next question…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:27 PM
3

No…you’re reading way too much in the word “interest” here. It doesn’t matter who it is. It could be Henry Cavil or Shamar Moore. I would still lose interest if a man doesn’t offer to pay. A 10 would go down to a 0 regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:03 PM
3

I have been interested in a guy and then turned off when he didn’t offer to pay. The desire was there but then the “ick” had kicked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:33 PM
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You guys are over thinking this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:20 PM
12

Why are we talking about lingerie that is a very specific example. Do you mean the shear lingerie tops that women wear when going out sometimes? I have sexy pajamas. I didn’t buy them thinking some man would see me in it. I ought most of them when I was single. Really we dress to get the approval of other women. My friend and I were going out to the club with our boyfriends one night, and my friend kept changing outfits. And of course her boyfriend thought she was trying to look sexy for other g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:19 PM
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The point is that the women aren’t dressing for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:05 PM
1

No. I’m obsessed with him… 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:33 PM
2

To be fair. Women can do this too though. When I was single my best friend did all of this for me. Except for the spider. I kill her spiders and she gets rid of my lizards. It was a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:23 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:04 PM
1

Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:03 PM
1

Right the guardian… Your second source is comparing single women with single men. That’s not what we’re debating. Women are happier single than with bad partners. Women are free to do what they want. I am however VERY happy with my boyfriend. So I’m not sure what we’re even talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:01 PM
1

There is nothing self destructive about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:56 PM
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It’s disappointing that you think that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:54 PM
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Lmao. I’ll pass on that one. I love the men in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:51 PM
2

Oh really? What data says that? And the key word here is “healthy.” Lol that last line is all I need to know. This comment is so unserious 😂. There is no way you unironically believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:38 PM
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Lol don’t project your skill issue on to me babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:01 PM
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I can’t speak for other women but my life has significantly improved with having my boyfriend around. He’s the most attentive, emotionally intelligent, and responsible person I know. He’s also a great cook and sexy as hell! So I of course would love to get him off of the market permanently! As for the stories on Reddit, I’m going to say that a lot of those women (not all) ignore redflags in their relationships and they think these men will somehow improve via marriage/commitment. Some women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:21 PM
1

You’re not a man. My boyfriend is the best man ever! I feel sorry for your wife to be married to such a man-child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:43 PM
1

And yet all of the compromises will be made by the woman for you. The fact that you don’t see that is very telling. I’ll say this one last time for the class. Get with women that are compatible with you and stop trying to police women that aren’t. This is such a simple concept. I’m started to think you’re special
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:39 PM
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lol going out dancing does not equal hoeing. The fact that you say that it is says more about you than anyone else. If someone wants to cheat on you, they don’t need the club to do it. I’m just glad my boyfriend isn’t some unintelligent emotionally stunted loser like yourself. You’re not a man, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:37 PM
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Ok and that is your wife’s choice to do so. But to intentionally get with someone who likes those things and to then police what they can and can’t do is unreasonable and ridiculous. Or my boyfriend isn’t some insecure loser and actually trusts me. My boyfriend is more of a man than you’ll ever be and you should be taking notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:17 AM
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My very simple points have been going over your head all day… What is so difficult about dating women you’re compatible with? You should not need to control someone kiddo. Your insecurities are for YOU to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:29 AM
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Aka you policing the relationship. You don’t actually care about anyone but yourself in this scenario or you would only date women you are fundamentally compatible with and not police women you are not. So no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:25 AM
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So you think a “rEaL” relationship is you thinking you’re entitled to policing women? I figured . Date women that aren’t into those things. Easy peezy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:08 AM
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It is on you to do the work to find someone that is compatible with you and does not like clubbing. It controlling to police women that like to do those things. You’re an idiot and can’t be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:58 AM
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No it isn’t. The very simple solution is to date someone with similar values to you in the first place. You keep calling it compromise, but your version is one sided. she changes, you don’t. Real compromise would be you changing your dating pool and picking someone aligned with your values instead of policing women who aren’t. That’s the behavior you need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:06 PM
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That is truly unfortunate. Trying to tell your partner to change their wardrobe, where they can and can’t go is not a boundary. And yes I am in a relationship right now and my boyfriend isn’t some insecure loser that gets upset at me going out with my friends to a club or try to change the way I dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:04 PM
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Lol a Bluetooth speaker and the club are not the same. There is a literal DJ at the club and the atmosphere is way different. Nothing about what you said is even remotely logical. I have provided you with so much logic if just dating someone you’re compatible with and you just refuse to accept it. What is illogical about that? Your issue with clubbing is purely based on your feelings. If she wants to cheat on you, she will lmao. The club won’t change that. Have you even been in a long term relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:14 PM
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He should change his insecure and controlling habits. It’s very easy. Why do women need to change for you? Don’t date women at all. Accountability is hard for men like you I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:11 PM
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You can be monogamous and still enjoy the club. The club is not speed dating. This conversation is pointless to have with you. I have explained simple concepts to you so many times that there is no point in trying to reason with you further. I already explained why that scenario is different. See my previous comments until it registers. Reading comprehension is hard, I know you seem to struggle a lot with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:10 PM
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Why is the only “solution” you’re proposing is that the woman be the one to change her behavior? How about you change yours? There is no compromise. Only control. All of this could be fixed if you ONCE AGAIN, stuck to women that share your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:06 PM
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You’re being willfully obtuse. Obviously I do not wear club attire to work. Don’t be dense. I said “cute” clothes. I didn’t think I needed to spell out that they are also professional clothes. What is stopping men from dating someone that does not like to club, wear makeup, or sexy clothes? Why are you not seeking out women that do not enjoy that? (ACTUALLY ANSWER MY QUESTION) The only person here doing mental gymnastics is you. You are projecting right now. Why do women need to be responsible f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:03 PM
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And why not? I have gone to clubs and have not flirted with men at all and just hung out with my friends. Clubs aren’t just for hitting on people. And why can she only dress up and wear makeup around her partner? How is that not controlling? It’s not weird. That is your limited perspective. Women should not have to share that same sentiment with you if they doing fact like to do those things. Again why not just date someone that isn’t into that in the first place? I wear makeup and cute clothes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:52 PM
2

Yes the man is controlling for being bothered if she was already like that before hand. What part of that don’t you understand? It’s like touching a hot stove and then getting mad that you got burned. Well duh. She can’t wear makeup or push-up bras? That’s actually crazy. What else can’t she do? Again should she just abandon all of their clothes, and girls nights out because of somebodies mediocre son? What is even the point of arguing about this? This should be a non issue if you just date some…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:41 PM
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I’m just using common sense. People don’t know how to date properly or efficiently and then waste a bunch of time with the wrong person. If she was like that before then why do you think you can suddenly change her behavior now? Is she supposed to a new wardrobe every time she enters or leaves a relationship? It does not make any sense. Either trust your partner or move on. It really is that simple. My boyfriend doesn’t complain about any of this and if he did he will promptly be shown the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:09 PM
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Then we’ll circle back to the point of “trust your partner or find a new one.” But why though? I understand not flirting with others, etc. that much is a given. But to restrict going out with friends is ridiculous. These are things you should have figured out before even living together. This is where the skill issue really lies. Do not date someone like that or ask what nights out with their friends look like. This is literally so simple and not rocket science. No wonder some many people strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:45 PM
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Explain what is difficult about it? And the fact that you’re downvoting me over this is comical. Considering you don’t really figure that stuff out until later in the relationship then their complaints are warranted. Now if they saw the signs before and continue to stay with them then that is a self inflicted problem at this point. And yes I would say that to them. If she was a party girl and likes to hangout and have girls nights prior to the relationship then you too have a self inflicted prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:33 PM
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It really is though…you understand just how unintelligent the average human is. There is nothing to argue over. Make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:26 PM
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I wouldn’t date someone with “boundaries” like this, so why would you want to date someone that clearly likes to do those things and then try to impose “boundaries.” Doesn’t make any sense and sounds counterintuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:21 PM
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I fail to see the point here. Women can say no. So back to the point of trust your partner or get a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:55 PM
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Lol no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:53 PM
1

He doesn’t do “all of the work” I do things for him too. You clearly didn’t scroll far enough through my profile. Cherry picking is a common tactic amongst redpillers so I’m not surprised. My relationship more mature than any relationship you’ll ever have, kiddo. But my boyfriend IS emotionally mature and intelligent. Can you read? Babes your redpill self has no clue what maturity is. You unironically subscribe to pill ideology. You are the epitome of emotional immaturity. The jokes write themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:00 PM
1

Yeah what’s wrong with nice treatment? I’d hate to see the way you treat anyone you’re dating Mr.redpill man and I can already tell it’s not great: god forbid my boyfriend loves me and treats me extremely well! What an injustice to all men! /s 😂 I didn’t ask my boyfriend to do anything. We were on a call and I started freaking out because I saw a lizard. He made the choice to come and remove it from me because I have a phobia of lizards. He’s a grown man and makes his own choices. And yes that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:03 PM
1

So I attract immature gamer guys because of what? How do you explain my current relationship then? Nothing about me has significantly changed between my previous relationship and my current one. He plays soccer and he flys and works on planes outside of work. Yeah it is lol! What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:27 PM
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That’s not true though. My current boyfriend is capable of having a hobby and is the most emotionally mature and intelligent person I’ve ever met. Are we really going to sit here and pretend that every person that comes into your life is a direct reflection of oneself? That’s just not how that works and it is illogical. Umm no. I asked you because that’s what you said. I obviously don’t believe you and just wanted to prove that you’re talking out of your ass and you are. So thanks. My relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:59 PM
1

You’re just saying they avoid me but why though? What does it say about me directly? You’re not specific enough. Do you even know? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:49 PM
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What does it say about me? My current boyfriend doesn’t really game at all. He has other hobbies that require him to socialize and be outside. You think they’re good partners. Are you dating them? Do you go home with them? Do you think you’re a good partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:43 PM
1

Not really hypocritical tho. Most gamer guys are hyper fixated on their games. They would choose to play their game over quality time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:34 PM
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I like to play the sims but I wouldn’t date another gamer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:31 PM
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Eww yes. He lacks self control and is likely a porn addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:26 PM
4

As opposed to what a perpetual bang maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:10 PM
2

Why does she need to explicitly say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:58 AM
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She didn’t. She said she’s attracted to him. Don’t be daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:23 AM
2

Aba and preach have repeatedly said that they aren’t redpill 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:08 AM
1

Are you dumb? I do not have a 50/50 relationship. I was just specifying that a 50/50 pregnancy would be ideal. And there isn’t danger lurking around every corner. Stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:48 AM
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Because I’m the one with the womb. The guy can make whatever judgements he wants to make lol. Ok good thing I’m not dating you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:10 AM
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Ok I can get behind that. I wish more women would kick these kind of men to the curb so I agree with you there. Luckily for me my boyfriend is a great cook and he’s actually cleaner than me. I still wouldn’t pay on the first date tho. What can I say? Old habits die hard lolll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:59 PM
2

Ok true. But I would LOVE to do 50/50 pregnancy and labor and then breast feeding. Sounds like a dream. Ok I can agree with you there if that is the setup you want then you go girl but I’m not going to sit here and say that all women should aspire to that. I don’t care if a woman wants to be a stay at home wife or breadwinner. That’s for you to decide. Personally not my taste but do you. That’s not what I want mine to look like. I’ll work for funsies because I’m bored. It makes sense because aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:51 PM
1

I have a job and plan to work but I would prefer my husband to make more. Especially when we begin starting a family. I’m not trying to be a working mother with a baby in daycare. If that makes me trad then so be it. Lol that last part doesn’t even make any sense. How is that seeking male approval? Tbh I receive princess treatment and my boyfriend does majority of the cooking. 50/50 is a myth and only benefits men because it is usually monetary. Genders should be equal under the law and have equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:39 PM
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I date to get married so yeah it kind of is. I’m not wasting my time to find out undesirable traits later that I could have found out on the first date. I’m am being real. Every single thing he does is a being looked at. I’m deciding if he is husband material or not. Paying for a date it bare minimum. What’s unreal about it? That is for the guy to determine so no. I can have whatever standards I want and same for him. So that point is irrelevant. Lol good for you little Susie! You’re a FeMiNiSt,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:30 PM
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Can you read? To see if he is a generous person duh. If I’m expected to take career hits and sacrifice my health to be a mother and a wife, the least he can do is pay for a dinner. Be serious. Maybe you’re low maintenance and don’t have high enough standards but not everyone is a pickme cool girl. Who says I don’t show that I’m a kind generous person? I do and it’s not monetary on my end. More like acts of service. In the year of our lord, men can be pregnant and birth babies. I will not pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:21 PM
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Lol or it’s about seeing if he is a generous person. A $20 meal isn’t even that deep. I can pay for myself obviously, it’s nothing. I would not go on a second date with a guy if he did not pay and I’ve had no problems and it’s NOT treating a man like an ATM. I am being honest. Just because something is difficult for you to wrap your brain around doesn’t mean it’s being dishonest. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:16 PM
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5’9-5’10 is my preferred. I’m 5’3 on a good day and I once dated a guy that was 6’5 it was genuinely ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:56 PM
1

I don’t want to have to communicate every single thing. My boyfriend is observant enough to know if I’m upset but I will say that if I tell him “it’s nothing” I do not expect him to keep asking. Sometimes I’d think it’s important enough to address. But if I’m stressed out he can tell and just know what to do to make me feel better vs having to tell him “I’m stressed and I want you to do xyz” that would annoy me. I mean I do prefer princess treatment. What can I say? I just made a post on it a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:54 PM
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I was comparing my last relationship to my current. My boyfriend knows what I need like he can read my mind. It’s pretty amazing. I don’t have to communicate much tho. So I do not find that preference unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:22 PM
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It’s totally possible tho. These guys are in fact unicorns though. Having to constantly communicate the same things over and over is annoying and exhausting. We shouldn’t have to hold a man’s hand. There’s nothing wrong with having a guy that just gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:11 PM
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It’s much better to be with a guy that is emotionally intelligent and observant. My last relationship I had to over communicate and it just wouldn’t land. Now I don’t even have to do that with my current relationship. Heck I don’t even have to say much of anything sometimes and he just gets it. It’s refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:09 PM
0

Asking a man to pay for a date is tacky but not going out on a second date with a man who didn’t is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:06 PM
1

That’s a whole lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:24 PM
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Oh yes because a $20 dollar meal sure does make someone a gold digger. It’s always men with hardly any money calling someone a gold digger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:08 PM
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You’re too immature for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:58 PM
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How romantic for the man to reward his wife by staying with her. Whooptie freaking doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:37 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:41 PM
1

I always wondered about this too. I already told me boyfriend if we were to ever divorce he can keep the kids loll. But seriously I do wonder why some women don’t just drop the kids off with their dad and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:40 PM
2

Not wanting to date and fuck men with no resources is entitled? Please be serious.. men are entitled in thinking they deserve hot women. And last I checked women are STILL birthing children and doing the majority of household labor and childcare. The least the man can do is have some goddamn money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:20 PM
2

The only person that should be determining if she checks off his boxes is the guy so that point is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:17 PM
3

As for only wanting a man for money she just admitted to it making her a gold digger. Why does it matter though? Who cares if she would only ever date a man for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:22 PM
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Even if all women don’t consider resources when dating a man, they absolutely should. Especially if they plan on marrying and starting families. You need resources for that, kiddo. Love won’t pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:14 PM
4

This entire comment is so pathetic and reads like a broke salty man that can’t meet standards. Who cares? Men want sex and women want resources get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:30 PM
1

Wanting a man that takes initiative…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:26 PM
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The real question is why does it matter? She is the one that will have to live with him. So better damn well check the fucking boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:16 PM
1

A large amount of incels are delusional and feed each other’s delusion. That is not objective facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:56 PM
1

You can’t just tack on (pEw DaTa) like that means something. Send an actual link that supports your argument. If not you’re wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:56 PM
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How do you know this? Is this from your own anecdotal experience or are you actually seeing the same men all the time dating different women at the same time? I find this hard to believe. Your anecdotal experience does not reflect an 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:55 PM
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You’re the one making claims and you have yet to answer my question with an objective answer. There is no proof of 80/20 nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:46 PM
1

But women are still getting into committed relationships. So are we with the top 20% or not? And again what is average and looks match. You did not give me an objective answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:45 PM
1

Yeah many women just blatantly ignore red flags and then all of a sudden they’re surprised when their now husband is still like that. And when I call them out then I’m victim blaming lol. I’m usually a woman defender but there is no excuse for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:58 PM
1

That still doesn’t make any sense. Plenty of hot guys want to commit and date long term. But you just said that women only go for the top 20% so which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:50 PM
1

Lol no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:49 PM
1

I actually agree with you, because that doesn’t make any sense. Unless the guy is a major manipulative psychopath, why would he all of a sudden do a 180 after getting married and years of a relationship? Most men aren’t that good at acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:24 PM
4

Ok so what? Why shouldn’t women choose their best options? Are we supposed to pity date men we have no attraction to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:10 PM
4

Lol this sounds like sour grapes. So with this logic, since I’m dating my boyfriend that makes him the top 20% and he’s also cheating on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:59 PM
2

How do you determine an average looks matched guy though? What are the objective standards of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:57 PM
1

I wouldn’t lmao. Just because that’s your reality doesn’t mean that would be mine. And how do I treat men? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:20 AM
1

Lol actually I wouldn’t. The males in my family have no problems with women. I think you’re projecting. Men aren’t doing half of pregnancy and labor so 50/50 is nonsense and a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:45 AM
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Lmao I’ve never been cheated on and my boyfriend isn’t a player. My dating style doesn’t attract players. 50/50 is complete nonsense. Are the household chores 50/50? Is pregnancy and labor 50/50? How about childrearing is that 50/50 too? I don’t do 50/50 lmao. A passive man is unattractive to me. We aren’t doing the equal amount of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:53 PM
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Lol I hate to tell you babe but not being passive doesn’t automatically make a man abusive. Misandrist much? My boyfriend isn’t passive and he’s not abusive either. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:49 PM
1

Lmao I go to dating subreddits for the drama. I’m in a loving relationship which your bitter ass probably can’t relate to. I’m here for the circus, now get to dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:48 PM
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I’m not complaining about men though lol. I’m in a relationship but go off sis. I don’t care about my options beyond that. But I’ve never struggled with dating. So I am at least better than you my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:22 PM
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Not really. I just like an assertive man. I’m not afraid of rejection, I just don’t like passive men. Sounds like you’re the one that scared here so you need a woman to do the work for you. It balances out in the relationship anyway, especially if we’re getting married and having children together. I’d rather not be the one that has to initiate all the time because my husband is a passive chump. Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap my dear. I don’t need to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:14 PM
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As opposed to being with a passive man that will likely need mothering? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:31 PM
1

You’re talking about a very specific type of woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:45 PM
0

Ok good for you. I’m not sure what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:42 PM
0

Ooga booga like sexual attraction and starting families? Like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:35 PM
-2

Wanting a man to be the leader doesn’t mean you have to do everything he says and that you have no opinions. That’s ridiculous. I’ve been in a relationship where I was the leader and it was exhausting. I didn’t respect him and I lost sexual attraction. If you’re not a leader then get with someone that is or doesn’t mind that you’re not lol. Women cant change what we’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:21 PM
1

And that’s his business
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:39 PM
1

Wanting equal opportunity and rights under the law is not the same as pursuing romantic relationships babe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:13 PM
1

Work to get a man?! Please be serious lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:13 PM
1

And neither are you. You’re making any sense grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:30 PM
1

Okay thank you for such useless information. You are not the OP so I’m not sure why you even commented. “FoCuS oN yOuRsElF SiS.” You say that under my comment that had nothing to do with you. Go back to the circus in which you came.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:27 PM
1

Lol what? So then you and OP shouldn’t complain then…thanks for offering useless info
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:52 PM
1

How are women supposed to approach dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:14 PM
15

It’s not an issue for me though. I filter those men out when dating. It’s just annoying when some of them lie about it. I would much prefer if they were all honest so no time would be wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:10 PM
23

Some men actively say they only have interest in sex. That is the issue. Not men having libidos. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:07 PM
24

No one is saying they don’t like men that have libidos. Don’t be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:59 PM
24

Why would we want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:40 PM
1

Or you didn’t comprehend what I asked in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:54 AM
2

Proof that most women are like what you claimed…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:23 AM
1

Sexualities as in what they find attractive. What part of “women have responsive sexualities” do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:22 AM
1

You can advocate all you want but people sexualities aren’t going to change babe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:12 AM
1

I fail to see how that supports your argument. Where is your proof? The same can be said for attractive people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:57 AM
2

Look, I know you just learned what that means, but no I’m not saying how anything should be. I’m explaining how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:52 AM
1

Oh so anecdote. These attractive men date most women? They must have a lot of time on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:54 PM
1

And that’s fine. I’m not arguing against that. Those men are simply not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:01 PM
1

It is biological imperative. You’re just trying to make yourself feel better. There’s nothing I can do about your Manlet status. It’s a “privilege” because men are more “desperate” than women. It is supply and demand. There is no incentive for us to approach. And again reactive sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:58 PM
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Lol aww did I hurt your wittle feelings? It’s not double standards, because men and women are obviously different. Women have reactive sexuality. How am I supposed to respect a man that lacks initiative? I can’t. Don’t get mad at me, because you’re a passive princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:54 PM
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Not really because women don’t need to do the approaching. We have options. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. You thought you did something there lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:50 PM
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Why not take some initiative and approach first? Tells me a guy is either insecure, shy/reserved, or lacks initiative. None of those are traits I’d want in a man personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:43 PM
2

And you know this how? Oh right you don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:34 PM
5

Yes for passive insecure men sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:54 PM
2

What’s wrong with love island?! 😭 how does liking a tv show make you immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:57 PM
-1

Lmao spill the tea 💁🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:42 PM
1

Well join the club buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:32 PM
1

Or men like to play it up in the beginning and then it dies down but oh what happened to “cOmMuNiCaTiOn?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:30 PM
1

Or I can find a man that I don’t need to coach. Next… It’s difficult having to teach a man to be a partner. Why do I have to constantly tell a man to be more thoughtful and attentive? No thanks. Why is it so difficult for some men to be decent partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:16 PM
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Yes it is exhausting having to communicate everything all the time and several times at that. I stand by that. I had to do that with my ex and in the end I was frustrated and resentful. I don’t have those problems in my current relationship. So yes I do have realistic expectations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:14 PM
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Why do you need to be told something repeatedly though? Are we training a dog? I had to constantly tell my ex to be more attentive and thoughtful and he just didn’t get it. I didn’t have to tell my current boyfriend to do anything at all. He just gets it without having to be told or he’ll simply just ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:01 PM
1

No one is complaining about this from the first time. I don’t think anyone is actually complaining about this at all. This is a horrible example my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:58 PM
1

What are you talking about? I’ve never been mad at my boyfriend for not bringing me food. Also, he just buys me food without asking or if he does ask he’ll either A get it anyway or B get extra to share with me. He doesn’t need to guess because he knows me and observes how I answer his question and what my mood is like. If I say I don’t food, then I am genuinely fine with not having it, and I wouldn’t be upset if he got food for himself. He will still share or get food for me to eat later if I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:11 PM
1

If they are attentive, observant, and just generally socially intelligent they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:54 PM
3

To be fair some guys do just get it though. It’s exhausting having to communicate every single little thing and half the time it just falls on deaf ears anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:53 PM
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It doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:33 PM
1

Do these studies show that women are the ones lacking in communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:52 PM
-1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:47 PM
0

You’re using a 17 year old as an example? Please be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:38 PM
0

I highly doubt that. My ex would always say I didn’t tell him something when I’ve told him several times and then all of a sudden he wants to listen and change when I’m ready to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:27 PM
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What will calling women delusional do except make YOU somehow feel better by attempting to “HuMbLe” them? Explain. It genuinely doesn’t matter because women will always have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:16 AM
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Um yes? Because who cares? How does it affect you in the slightest? I wouldn’t because I don’t care but I would find it amusing for sure. Because what does that do for you? Women aren’t going to care. We actually have more options than men. If one man doesn’t want her then guess what? Another one will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:26 PM
1

Ok? Then say no. I’m not sure what the problem is. Trying to humble women is so juvenile and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:49 AM
1

Humble how? They also do not want you either lmao. It won’t change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:38 AM
1

Lol good one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:42 PM
12

Man…what are you even yapping about?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:05 PM
1

“MaLeZ!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:01 PM
3

You’re ridiculous. Most victims are scarred mentally and emotionally for life. Please be serious. You are obviously unreasonable and unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:56 PM
2

*woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:42 PM
2

Accountability for what? To whom? Abortion is against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:05 PM
6

So if you were raped by some guy, it wouldn’t scar you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:21 PM
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I don’t care men showing their emotions lol. You can express your feelings without being whiny and begging for a crumb of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:27 AM
1

Because majority of women want to get married and have kids…it’s pretty much common sense to plan for that when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:48 PM
1

Why are you worried about people that aren’t into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:02 PM
12

Men don’t care about women’s accomplishments /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:46 PM
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You can complain all you want. Doesn’t mean women have to find you attractive because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:46 PM
1

You’re just talking just to hear yourself talk at this point. Now run along shrimp dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:32 PM
1

Lol you are so incredibly immature. I’m not even going to bother giving you a serious response. Goodbye, child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:03 PM
1

No it isn’t. Hypocritical about what? I’m not sure how it matters when you are free to DNA test. What are we even arguing about? You want women to have a council meeting about that alleged 10%? Please be serious. I think you just want to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:45 PM
2

It’s a non issue because you can DNA test your kids and men need to choose better partners. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:24 PM
2

A non issue. DNA test your kids and deal with the consequences like a man. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:20 PM
1

Well yeah either bring it up early or blow up your relationships. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:17 PM
2

Lmao you’re such a loser. I don’t think any woman would want to be near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:14 PM
1

Blame men for what? Blowing up their relationships? Absolutely. What does it matter? You can get a DNA test. No one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:24 PM
1

No one is stopping these men from getting DNA tests though. Women are allowed to take it personally. So now what? You guys are going to cower because you’re afraid of blowing up your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:23 PM
3

Lmao okay, loser. Take care of those babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:01 PM
4

That is out of the people that test for it. Not the entire population, babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:00 PM
1

I didn’t come here to read novels... I am Gen Z after all. You gotta keep my attention and your novel was a 0/10 for me, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:54 PM
3

I never said any of that though so what are you trying to argue? Everyone needs to be taught about consent. Sooo… It’s not a real issue. You guys bitch and moan as if the government is preventing you from doing a DNA test. The real problem is that you guys don’t want to deal with the consequences of your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:51 PM
1

Not “can’t” but “won’t.” I’m not that interested in what you have to say, homie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:49 PM
0

I ain’t reading all that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:42 PM
3

Orrr mention this as a requirement before seriously dating. Exclusivity heavily implies monogamy but the situation here is that you guys will ask for a paternity test regardless of having proof of infidelity or not. It’s nonsense. Leaving over lack of trust is not trivial. Accusing your partner of infidelity and lying without probable cause is paranoia and who wants to deal with that in a relationship after giving birth? Alimony is only awarded 10% of the time. Next. 🥱 The father decided to bike…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:32 PM
3

Most women aren’t committing paternity fraud so try again. Even if all women aren’t committing paternity fraud, you guys would still bitch about moan about this same topic. No one is stopping you from DNA testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:28 PM
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Not really. Why should a woman have to constantly deal with your paranoia especially after just giving birth? No one is stopping you from getting a DNA test but be prepared to deal with the repercussions. Women are not obligated to stay with you after that. Take accountability… And I didn’t say anything like that. Projection much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:50 PM
2

I disagree that most reasonable women wouldn’t take it personally. That is simply not true. I would absolutely take it personally if someone accused me of doing something I know for sure I did not do (I.e. stealing at the store) that would piss anyone off. And it was clearly the timeline that gave him reasonable doubt. We are talking about scenarios where timelines aren’t an issue and there is no reason to suspect infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:26 PM
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Do you really adore and cherish her if you’re making cheating accusations? What does her feelings matter? You want to make sure the kid is yours. Repercussions be damned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:20 PM
-1

Well you might find it reasonable and she will find it offensive to accuse her of cheating. That’s just life, man. Why would you care about preserving a relationship with someone you think may have cheated on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:12 PM
6

Oh that’s perfect! Men should be primary caretakers for babies! I’ll just pump the breast milk and make sure you have enough for 3am feedings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:58 PM
3

Why shouldn’t you be shamed is the question? You can’t control how your wife/girlfriend should feel about a cheating accusation. This is something that should have been brought up before even getting into a relationship in the first place. Why are you guys so concerned about your partners being upset? What does that matter? So what if she leaves you? At least you know the kid is yours, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:50 PM
2

Orr you guys can simply not get into relationships if you’re that paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:48 PM
4

That’s of the people that sought a test in the first place. That’s not of the whole population. That would mean that 90-70% of men are not experiencing paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:47 PM
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If you’re married, yes you do have to pay for your husband’s affair baby. That is money being taken away from their joint finances and don’t forget about filing taxes together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:38 PM
4

Why shouldn’t it be shamed? What does it matter? Accept the consequences of your actions. Accountability and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:34 PM
8

One of my dad’s old friends turned out to be a serial killer and a rapist and that’s pretty rare. It doesn’t matter the percentage. Women need to be careful and vet men thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:12 PM
3

Lmao no…you’re out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:03 PM
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Yes babe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:00 PM
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You guys have completely gentrified this term. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:34 PM
1

Who is Chad? Women have sex with ugly guys too. Women complain about fuckboys even when we haven’t even had sex with them. Again the majority are not participating in hookup culture so this is a subset of people issue and probably mostly contained to college campuses. Yeah because attractive men never want anything more than sex and they most definitely never settle down ever/ s What of men in relationships? I’m not sure why we are discussing hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:15 PM
1

So are the majority of women dating Chad? Fuckboy is a term for a reason. Last I checked most people in relationships are pretty average. The numbers don’t exactly line up here. You also said that Chad doesn’t need to pay to get laid when again, my lived experience is the opposite. My experience can’t possibly be unique in this way. I’m pretty sure those women know that “Chad” is a fuckboy, especially if he’s not paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:08 PM
1

Explain further.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:00 PM
1

The majority of women aren’t participating in hookup culture, so you’re clearly talking about a subset of people. Most of us live in the real world and date for committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:57 PM
1

I disagree. That does not reflect my experience being a woman, having sisters and friends, as well as being on women’s forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:53 PM
1

I don’t “demand” anything. If I go out on a date with a guy and he doesn’t offer to pay then he just won’t get a second one. I’ll pay my share without complaint. He just won’t see me again lmao. It doesn’t really matter how much I like the guy, that would be an instant turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:51 PM
1

Fair enough but as a woman that has dated that also has sisters and friends. This is not the case for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:12 PM
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Sure there is. If a guy isn’t interested enough to pay then he likely won’t be that great anyway. Men pay for the women they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:43 PM
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It absolutely will matter though. Whether she can pay for it or not. If a guy isn’t paying for the date he’s not getting a second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:29 PM
2

Lmaoo okay and?! That’s supposed to offend me how? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:26 PM
2

I can’t even be friends with someone like this, let alone date them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:28 PM
3

Oh so you’re just being disingenuous…got it. So not only are you sexist, you’re racist too. Why doesn’t that surprise me? Lot’s of women contribute in engineering and programming. We couldn’t have landed on the moon without guess what? BLACK women. Majority of teachers and nurses are women. You better not accept any care from female nurses either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:35 PM
5

Well that wasn’t very nice. Now go stand in the corner until you learn how to be respectful, mister. Women have done a lot besides carry children. Inventions, farming, programming, etc. I’m even an engineer so now what? What have YOU done to contribute to society? Oh right. You rant on Reddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:25 PM
2

Men should have access to women’s bodies because of what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:41 PM
3

Sure but seeing as majority of women are NOT having casual sex, what she said spot on and not paranoia at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:57 PM
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Some people are reckless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:52 PM
2

Exactly! I bet he has never done anything remotely important for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:38 PM
2

I will never forgive Shrek from removing Fiona’s baddie status 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:13 PM
5

I find them low effort and wouldn’t text a guy back if offered lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:19 PM
1

Lol sure buddy. I just feel bad for you now. This is so pathetic even for you. Another nobody redditor that gets their high from being a loser and keyboard warrior online. Something tells me you wet the bed. I do hope you are able to gain reading comprehension skills eventually, little buddy 🥹.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:18 PM
1

Yes yes you’ve said that already. What else you got? 🥱 You rarely leave your house, fool. Put the fries in the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:50 PM
1

Right…I’m sure your life is very boring and Reddit is the only place you can find excitement, but please go bother someone else with your foolishness, mmkay? Go touch grass and see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:35 PM
1

Sure, whatever you have to tell yourself to cope with your lack of braincells, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:24 PM
1

This conversation is pointless lol. Please get a life…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:10 PM
1

You’re obviously not comprehending a single word. I was saying I believe that she had that experience when someone called her a liar. That’s it…that’s all. You can lead a horse to water and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:49 PM
1

Lol right…I’m the one with the pea brain when you very obviously cannot read. What part of I was saying I believe her experience happened don’t you understand? You’re your own class of idiot, smooth brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:26 PM
4

And what of George Lucas or Mark Zuckerberg?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:30 PM
1

I was corroborating the story because people said she was lying, fool. I never said all men were sexist. Please point to where I said or implied that? I’ll wait. The level of projection from you is comical. Just admit you can’t read lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:08 PM
1

You very clearly DON’T understand the point at all. At this point you’re just making a fool out of yourself. Do YOU even know what you’re talking about? Run back to your illiterate circus, clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:13 PM
1

Yeah because I skimmed the first paragraph. Does it look like I read the entire thing? Lmao Or you’re just an idiot that completely missed the entire point of my comment. Learn to sharpen those reading comprehension skills. You are a child that was left behind, I fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:36 PM
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I should tell you since no one apparently did but…you’re incredibly stupid. The fact that you are writing dissertations in the comments is hilarious as well. I’m not ready all that so take care lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:16 PM
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There is something wrong with your reading comprehension. I just said I believe her experience. What part of that don’t you understand? You’re just yapping at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:28 PM
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I never said she was right about most men being sexist just that I believed her experience. Please work on your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:33 PM
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Can you read? I never said it was regular nor was I claiming that most men are like this. I just believe her story because I have experienced something similar. Work on your comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:17 PM
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Lmao what are you talking about? I didn’t know those guys. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:10 PM
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I believe her. I’ve had a similar experience and I’m Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:29 PM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:03 PM
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Okay but who implied that? No one did. How you’ve drawn that conclusion is a reach. No one implied that they should just that they would be kept out of the gene pool. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:47 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:41 PM
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Who is? I’m not advocating for anything. How is saying those that don’t get picked will be left of the gene pool? Eugenics how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:44 PM
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I don’t actually and you are baiting. So now what? What do you think these guys would look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:23 PM
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I’m not sure I need to. If you’re not picked then you’re left out of the gene pool. What more of an explanation do you need? You’re just baiting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:13 PM
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Right because those women represent all women all over the world. I never said that women don’t enjoy sex. I’m not a virgin but okay. I just disagree that it’s the best thing in the world and neither is it as life changing as you think it is because it’s not… Lol I’m in a long term relationship but go off, sis. You sound like an unintelligent teenage boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:10 PM
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The ones that don’t get picked…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:56 PM
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Did I say I was confused…? Even more of a reason not to give ugly men/ “nice guys” a chance. Thanks for proving the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:27 PM
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Amen to that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:03 PM
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Lol how would you as a man know what sex is like for a woman? You live in a fantasy world or you’re just a 15 year old boy. No it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:02 PM
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Are you me?! My ugly ex stalked, threatened and harassed me. My attractive exes didn’t do anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:44 PM
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It’s not life changing lolll…Unless you have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:32 PM
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You want this to be a problem so bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:30 PM
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Sounds like c0pium to me. “wOnT rE-hAsH aGaiN” suurrreee lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:29 PM
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How is that me trying to dismantle your argument when I said it was irrelevant to what I actually wanted from you. Lol Mr “wE’Re PaRt Of a TeAm CaLLeD hUmAniTy.” What other solution do s there? Acknowledgment does nothing to solve this problem. Okay men are lonely and women apparently have high standards. Now what? You keep saying “We’Re DoNe” and yet you’re still here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:22 PM
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I didn’t miss anything…though. You said I was trying to dismantle your argument but I just asked you a question lol. How dare I not want to fuck men I’m not interested in! Soooo selfish of me. Please be serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:11 PM
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Babe…I asked you what your solution was. What’s reductive about what I asked? Actually I am part of a team called myself. Whether or not men get to procreate is none of my business. Which why I agreed that they either get with the program ( deal with women’s standards) or get lost. Acknowledgement of men’s dating woes solves nothing. There is no such thing as affirmative action when it comes to dating. You’re re-explaining because your “points” are ridiculous and irrelevant. Lol I don’t care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:57 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:52 PM
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Yes they need to meet the standards of women. There aren’t any collective standards though. I don’t understand what you’re arguing. Okay so if every woman has different standards then what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:31 PM
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No…? I never said the standards were collective. But if a bunch of men are complaining about loneliness then what’s the solution? Women don’t all have the same standards so I’m not even sure what the problem is. It’s men that argue that we’re a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:27 PM
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Whether you think it’s reductive or not is kind of irrelevant. I’m asked YOU for a solution when you were the one arguing about a “problem.” The solution IS to either deal with women’s standards or get lost. Your solution was…acknowledgement? Why do I need to be the one to provide a solution when I’m the one that asked the question. You don’t make any sense and you’re talking in circles. It doesn’t affect me though. I’m just curious and bored during my lunch break. It entertains me to see men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:25 PM
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If men want to be partnered up then yes. Women aren’t exactly in desperate need of relationships right now. Men can do whatever they want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:20 PM
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Lol babe…you’ve clearly lost the plot. We are talking about male loneliness are we not? You said the other persons comment was reductive yadah yadah so I asked what your solution was. Play dumb if you want. Doesn’t really affect me at all lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:11 PM
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How is acknowledgement going to change women’s preferences? Explain further. I urge you to give actual solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:08 PM
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Acknowledgement doesn’t solve the problem. Now what? Lol. You’re just yelling into a void at this point. The solution is either get with the program or get lost. Now what’s yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:02 PM
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Umm well you’re the one with the issue so yes the onus IS on you to provide a solution? Why should I be the one to provide the solution? Just say you don’t have an answer instead of beating around the bush and deflecting. All I hear are problems…now what’s the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:55 PM
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So what is the proposed solution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:49 PM
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What freedoms are being taken away from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:42 PM
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What do women need to bring to the table though? It doesn’t need to be justified. Like she said, either men adapt or they’ll be left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:41 PM
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Lol what on earth are you talking about? Who is censuring them simply for not dating? No one. You go on the sub and all it is, is just a bunch of guys talking shit about women and being misogynistic. Please be serious. If you guys actually talked about other things than just hating on women then no one would make fun of you for it. Who is telling men that they need girlfriends? Show me. Male loneliness isn’t just about romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:48 PM
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What actions make you think that women care about MGTOW other than addressing their misogynistic rhetoric? Lol right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:58 PM
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It’s not. We would very much prefer if you guys just shut up and actually went your own way. You want to convince yourselves that we care so bad but we don’t lolll. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 AM
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Lol not true. I love me a man in short shorts and my friend and I used to watch our school’s water polo team practice in their speedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:29 PM
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Lol babe you did not give any specific examples. How about you quit being lazy. Receive what? Read that slowly this time…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:05 PM
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Receive what…?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:03 PM
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Okay and how does that matter to individual women with actual jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:19 PM
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Lol we don’t though…the thing that bothers them is the misogynistic rhetoric. If you guys fucked off and kept your mouths shut, no one would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:41 PM
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What women? Last I checked I’m paying taxes like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:30 PM
1

Ugh chicken parm is my favorite smh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:00 AM
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Lmao this is very obnoxiously c0pium on your part. Whatever helps you sleep. Women don’t have to be attracted to you get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:16 PM
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Lol what does it matter? Are you guys salty because women don’t have to settle for you? If a fat man wants to believe he’s a 10 then let him lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:34 PM
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This is such c0pium if you believe that how girls and boys are raised play little to no role in their interests. Please give me a break. I’m not going to further waste my time with you there’s no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:55 PM
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No I don’t think it’s an issue per se but I do think young women and girls should be given the same opportunities and encouragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:53 PM
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And that’s your opinion. Men dominate because of the differences in how men and women are raised and how they are encouraged. You ever wonder why girls are given babydolls as children and boys toolsets?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:50 PM
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Women don’t get preferential treatment if the field is still dominated by men. How does that work? I had to work my ass off just like every one of my classmates. What preferential treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:47 PM
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Exactly men still dominate STEM which shows an obvious gap in interest and encouragement. How is encouraging women and girls a problem? What groups? It’s mentioned all the time that it’s dominated by men. That was apparent in all of my courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:45 PM
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How is that a problem? I need an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:43 PM
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What is the issue with trying to get women into STEM and how is that political? How dare they try and encourage women and little girls! The horror!!! I mean men aren’t going to college anymore right? So they may as well hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:42 PM
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Yahoo lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:40 PM
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Who is they? Because I worked hard for it and it’s an interesting field…? Why wouldn’t I be? I’m the first person in my family with my kind of degree and I completed it without any debt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:40 PM
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They aren’t. You haven’t provided any proof of that. Show me a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:38 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:38 PM
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You said that already 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:37 PM
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Because men are going into fields that don’t require a degree. Are your braincells working today? Okay? That’s a matter of financial planning and choosing a lucrative degree. I have zero debt. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:36 PM
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Oh yes my engineering degree is SOOOO useless lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:35 PM
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Just because your degree is useless doesn’t mean everyone is else’s is. That’s YOUR business. Not mine. No one is forcing you to go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:35 PM
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Yes you do need a degree. You clearly have no idea what you’re talking about… You’re talking in circles and completely ignoring what I’m saying to you… I’m not reading the rest of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:34 PM
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Thank you! This man is just an ignorant and miserable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:32 PM
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Lol what? Do YOU even know what you’re talking about? Your personal issue with college is NOT my problem to solve. I suggest you look inwards because you sound bitter, insecure and ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:31 PM
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Right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:44 PM
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Did y read anything I said? Or is this that lack of reading comprehension you accused me of? Do you know anything about business degrees? It’s not just about starting businesses. I literally gave you several examples. Accounting, finance, management of information systems, even marketing and project management. None of those are about starting businesses. I’m starting to think you didn’t go to college lmao. My bf is NOT anomaly lol. Do you live under a rock? Hmm more useless opinions of yours. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:16 PM
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How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:09 PM
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This dude is full of nothing but opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:42 PM
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Do I think the cost for degrees should be down? Absolutely but that doesn’t mean most are a waste of time if it leads them to the life they want with minimal debt. The debt is the main issue, not the degrees themselves. Yikes. I’m not sure what you have against my wonderful prince of a boyfriend but he was just an example of someone with a totally non useless business degree. Again I’m not sure why you’re so catty and bitter. Perhaps a therapist is in order? Because History doesn’t have to be en…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:34 PM
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You’re not. It’s your personal opinion though. I even called you out on mentioning things that wasn’t even in the article you sent. So if it’s not a personal opinion then where’s the data? Idk why I need to convince you lol. I don’t care enough to convince you of anything. I just respectfully disagree. No offense but you’re not that important…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:26 PM
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It depends on who you ask…they can take it as far as they want, from regular school teacher or a professor. You’re just giving me your personal opinions and idk what I’m supposed to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:23 PM
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Lol it’s not. That is your personal opinion babes. People go into massive debt because they’re ignorant about finances. I don’t have any debt. My bf’s debt was what 30k that he paid off before 30. But he did though. His company wouldn’t have hired him without it. What don’t you not understand about that? Your beef with university is personal and clouding your judgement. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:12 PM
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And that’s your personal opinion. That does make it true….so now what? Yes he did and makes 6 figures lmao. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:07 PM
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I disagree with History, English, Business and communications being useless. You can become a lawyer with a history degree, a teacher, etc. With business there are quite a few more subsidiary fields, like accounting, finance, Information Systems Management (my bf has this degree and makes 6 figures). Doesn’t sound useless to me at all. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:05 PM
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Thank you for proving my point about you being catty lol. That’s assuming most of the degrees are bullshit but you only provided me with ONE degree example that’s not even a popular degree. Who’s being stupid now? (Spoiler…it’s not me)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:52 PM
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You were being catty. Let’s just call it what it is. What are most majors and why are they a waste of time? You only gave me one example. Show me some stats. Was your major a waste of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:46 PM
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Haha honestly same!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:38 PM
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I’m not sure why you’re getting catty. You need to relax… I just asked a question. It’s never that deep. Guess what? Most people are not majoring in gender studies. I have not a single person majoring in gender studies or something related to that and I went to a pretty large university. Just because some majors are waste of time doesn’t men university is a waste of time in general so I don’t understand what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:36 PM
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Are you saying it’s a waste if it’s not dominated by men? What part of it is a waste? I need specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:23 PM
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Again, it depends entirely on what you’re going to school for. The men that were in my engineering program would strongly disagree with you. I have 4 younger brothers and only 1/4 want to attend college. I tell them to only attend college if they know what they want and to research whether or not it is a lucrative market. And to not just blow money on college for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:09 PM
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Well in that regard I agree with you a little bit. I do think the curriculum should be restructured for sure but I do understand why the universities would want their students to be well rounded in other subjects. If you feel that it didn’t help you greatly develop then that’s okay too. I can’t fault you for that. That’s just the way you feel. That’s great! I know debt is one of the main reasons people regret going to college. Would you date a woman in med school as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:04 PM
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I mean and that’s their business 🤷🏽‍♀️. Men should do whatever they want in regard to their education and whether or not they go to college is alright with me. Who’s begging men to go to college?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:57 PM
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And I respectfully disagree with you. My degree and my boyfriend’s degree was not a waste of time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:52 PM
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I wouldn’t consider that a huge waste of time. It seems like you learned a lot. I guess it’s a matter of perspective. Did you get into med or did you change your mind which is why you think it’s a waste? I graduated in engineering with a CS minor without any debt which is why I disagree with you about it being a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:38 PM
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Exactly! They miss the point entirely. My bf is college educated and makes 6 figures. He said wouldn’t even date me if I was some waitress at IHop with no college education lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:21 PM
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It’s a waste because you didn’t study anything lucrative and didn’t financially plan properly or what? I didn’t have the same experience as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:15 PM
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Off topic but I love your username!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:10 PM
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Yeah his personality explains why he wants uneducated and financially struggling women smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:09 PM
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Did you go to college OP? There are a lot more things to learn in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:05 PM
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The funniest part about this is that you think people other than your parents should love you for who you are. Men do not love women for who they are either so please be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:03 PM
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Lol bitching about women not being interested in you is. And somehow women are being brainwashed into lesbianism is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:44 PM
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Your original comment IS irrelevant. You’re just yapping at this point and you’re bitter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:51 PM
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This is soo pathetic lolll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:24 PM
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Lol how would you know? You know nothing about her bf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:13 PM
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And whose fault is that? You chose to date her…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:16 PM
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Lmaooo you’re no prize…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:51 AM
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I don’t think so. I just have friendships based on shared interests. Like with my male best friend all we do is debate and roast each other. He doesn’t directly give me anything if that’s what you mean. I’m also usually the one listening to his relationship and general life’s problems lol. So if anything he’s the one benefiting from me the most. As for my other male friends I say it’s about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:43 AM
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Haha no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:24 PM
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What do you mean? I’m not in an LDR with my boyfriend. Or do you mean friendship wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:18 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:01 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:01 PM
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I spend similar time alone with my male friend as with my female friends. My bf lives in a different state than his friends now but when he visits he spends time with them. It’s not really an issue. Private messages as in what? We have our own text messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:35 PM
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Silliness…I have a close male friend and my bf has close female friends and it’s not an issue. He has more female friends than I have male friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:23 PM
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Lol not true. I have a male best friend and we are not attracted to each other at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:18 PM
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Who’s pressuring you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:33 PM
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It’s my first choice…it’s not the first choice for the women you’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:13 AM
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Do you all just recycle the same talking points? Is there like a handbook you guys follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:30 AM
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It’s not bigotry like racism, nice try though. It has everything to do with the reason why and I left man would seek out a young woman in the first place. Maybe they’re the real bigots for not choosing women their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:30 PM
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Only if you’re white.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:43 PM
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Only if you’re white.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:43 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:49 AM
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Not really…it’s only an issue if he is financially abusing her or manipulating her with the money. My 30 year old sister is married to some wealthy guy and since they’re married now, it’s THEIR money. Power imbalance gone. Now what? You’re not making a very convincing argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:46 PM
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My 30 year old sister would also be working with her own career. Should would not be trapped in that relationship. I fail to see how this is relevant in the first place. An 18 year old that gets married to some 38 year old creeper will have a much more difficult time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:38 PM
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What’s not logical about? Older men actively seeking younger women to date are just looking for someone with less experience and who is easier to manipulate. Why do you think some fathers are against their daughters dating and marrying significantly older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:31 PM
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This “jealousy” argument is tired. What about the young women saying the exact same thing? Are they jealous too? What about the parents? My dad would not be pleased if I brought home some 38 year old man. Is he jealous too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:39 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:31 PM
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You have never met boymoms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:31 AM
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There’s NOTHING to argue. You just can’t read bro. Explain the gist of my original comment. I’ll wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:41 PM
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…you just can’t read or comprehend. Not my fault… You made a new account just to bitch and rage at women? Argue with your momma and not me. And see a therapist, it’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:31 PM
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How is that a cop out though? I was very clearly speaking about myself…not my fault you didn’t read properly. Some women might not like it but again, I was very clearly talking about my own experiences…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:28 PM
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Then it’s a personal choice. I personally appreciate the effort. Women aren’t a monolith. It can also be situational. If you’re going out and you gave them to her then, maybe she was annoyed about having to hold on to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:26 PM
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Suurrree. I’ve had guys buy me flowers and that absolutely helped to win me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:03 PM
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Lol what do you mean? Like education? Teachers are more equipped for that. If every mother homeschooled, you all would be more stupid than you are now. If women don’t want to have kids then so what? My elderly relatives take care of themselves…and again they would be more equipped than me. Damn right I’ll hire a nurse if my parents or grandparents need one. The children are just fine you clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:32 PM
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Then get one and stop whining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:35 PM
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So what? Still contributing to species and you get to send them home at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:32 PM
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How is asking for proof means that I’m offended? I’m not misinterpreting anything. You said rich women…you didn’t specify old or new money at all. So yes you are moving goalposts. You can’t be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:16 PM
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So now you’re moving the goalposts. Great so I don’t need to take anything you say seriously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:04 PM
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Umm yeah again that’s not how that works. What is the existing knowledge base that tells you most rich women are stay at home moms? How does that work? Do you know most of these rich women? When you make sweeping generalizations then yes you better have the stats to back it up.. I can make this same logic by name dropping all of the rich and famous women on social media but that’s not stats. But you do need to prove it though or else you’re just making it up and everything you say should be igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:38 PM
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That’s not how that works. I can pull plenty of anecdotes as well, simply from being online. But those aren’t stats, now are they? Again, you made the affirmative claim so now you need to prove it. Or else you’re just talking out of your ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:29 PM
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Do you?…you’re the one that made an affirmative claim. So I want to know how you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:26 PM
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And yet you have a career…? What are the stats that most wealthy women are stay at home moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:03 PM
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Lol no it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:43 PM
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Idk…I asked my bf if he would like me if I worked and McDonalds and he said no lol. Most men date and marry within their economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:35 PM
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I thought about and decided not to. Why are you so desperate? I can choose to read whatever I want. What is it to you? Worry less about my paper and more about yourself. Go away. I know you’re desperate for female attention but this is just pathetic actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:39 PM
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Meh it has my personal information on it and you seem like you’d be a sick person so I don’t think so. You can go away now. And I’m not your honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:33 PM
1

Suuurrrreeeeee 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:24 PM
1

But I did. I can send you a link if you’re interested but I doubt your reading and comprehension skills are good enough to understand. Same reason you keep replying. There is no adult conversation to be had with a child like yourself. You’re boring kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:12 PM
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I just finished writing an 140 page paper and you think I want to read your nonsensical dissertation about…nothing? No thanks. Run along now, child. Yap yap yap 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:05 PM
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I’m not reading all that and I don’t care to. Yap to your momma and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:01 PM
1

🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:58 PM
1

Sorry not sorry. I don’t respect incredibly dumb people. It is what it is… lol I interact with people all the time and I’m in a long term relationship, something you clearly know nothing about. I can only explain simple concepts so many times. Either you can comprehend or you can’t. I don’t hang around dumb people so it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:43 PM
1

Lol this interaction is just pathetic at this point. Tell me you’re single without telling me you’re single. Next… 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:37 PM
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You’re missing the entire point babes. It has everything to do with his lack of regard for her feelings and happiness. Why would any woman want to marry a man that can’t do something so simple?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:01 PM
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Thank you for this disingenuous reply that offers nothing to the conversation. You can run along now. A beach proposal is very realistic. If your gf doesn’t have sex with you at all then you are well within your right to leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:57 PM
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It’s not an overreaction though. Proposing is a pretty important event and just doing it anyway without any regard of your partners wants is pretty shitty and demonstrates the lack of care of their partner. Stop acting like it’s something simple and small. Clearly you have no clue about relationships. Use your braincells here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:27 AM
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You’re still having a hard time understanding here. If he can’t do something as simple as follow a proposal request then this will be a reoccurring thing in their marriage as well. He had NO regard for her wishes. How are you going to propose marriage to someone and not consider what would make them happy? Just say you hate them. And I’m over trying to explain simple concepts to you. I can’t help you after this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:22 AM
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How is it being difficult to please when she especially stated what she wanted? It’s not like she asked for him to rent out an entire restaurant or building but to do it by a beach. You’re kind of telling on yourself here. sense not since
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:18 AM
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And that mentality right there is why so many men get divorced these days. You think it’s trivial when it isn’t and then men have the nerve to be shocked about their wives not loving them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:00 AM
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You’re missing the forest for the trees here. The point is that he blatantly disregarded her wishes…how do you think that marriage will go? Her explicitly saying what she wants and needs in the relationship and him does the exact opposite. Sounds like a great time, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:36 AM
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Umm he’s proposing marriage to HER. You’d think he’d try to get a yes. Why is it so difficult for you guys to make someone you’re supposed to love happy…especially if it was her dream proposal and she mentioned it? Yes he’s trash for blatantly ignoring her desires and then thinking he should get a yes when he clearly could not care less about her or her feelings. That shows how their marriage will go and it’s NOT good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:18 AM
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*she dodged a bullet. Why is it so difficult when she already gave him an idea of what she wanted. Who wants a husband that doesn’t listen or care about your happiness? Good riddance to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:02 AM
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If a man doesn’t listen to simple requests then he doesn’t love that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:56 AM
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If he couldn’t do something as easy and as clear as that then he isn’t the one. It shows exactly what their marriage would have been like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:55 AM
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I never even thought about this tbh. I’ve been too busy thinking about the actual trauma and pain from child birth instead. Like girl you have bigger problems to worry about 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:34 PM
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Then this man can and should be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:32 PM
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But I did…you should have never joined the conversation when you’ve added nothing of value. Scurry along now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:25 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:09 PM
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Then I can’t help you…I’m not going to continue to repeat myself and frankly you’re not worth the effort. Have the day you deserve, lil champ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:08 PM
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You can lead a horse to water and all that. It’s giving you struggled in secondary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:56 PM
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Go back and read it again until it sinks in. I promise it is not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:53 PM
1

More irrelevant yapping and nothing addressing my actual point. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:45 PM
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When did I say it never exists? Again you fail to understand the meaning of words, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:45 PM
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I’m not going to hold your hand for this one…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:43 PM
1

The average age of marriage for men is 30 and for women it’s 28. How big of a difference is that when most people marry within 2-3 years in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:43 PM
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The smooth brains are really coming out of the woodwork. What argument should I have for your irrelevant comment? People also win the lottery and get struck by lightning twice. What else you got? You’re taking at the sky just to yap. Please go play with your mom and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:40 PM
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Y’all are really lacking in reading comprehension…what does majority mean? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:39 PM
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I disagree but whatever. Like I said most people pair up young anyways. A lot of immature men around here but nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:38 PM
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Well you’re not exactly an engaging writer. Your comment is irrelevant then. You’re talking just to talk now. Again…what part of majority don’t you understand? That doesn’t mean it never happens but it’s not as common as you all make it out to be. So what does this add to the conversation? Oh right…nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:35 PM
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Irrelevant to what I was talking about but okay. The point is that most young women are not seeking out these grandpas. And what is the obsession with young women? Do what you want but that doesn’t mean no one is going to criticize you for it. You guys do all this yapping but when your daughter comes home with a man your age or older then it’s a problem. My dad personally would not be pleased. You know why? Because older men actively seeking younger women are weirdos and likely abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:33 PM
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Your anecdotes don’t really mean much. You clearly struggle with what the word majority means. Show me the stats that women are actively seeking out older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:29 PM
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I’m confused about how that is relevant when again people couple up within their age range and usually while they’re already young. Also how are you proving that women are actively seeking out older men? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:28 PM
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They don’t…I think that’s called delusion. Stats don’t lie..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:22 PM
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What part of majority don’t you understand? Stats don’t lie homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:22 PM
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Doesn’t really matter as the majority of people date within their age range. So yes they do. I am a young woman with young women friends and statistics also back me up. Maybe as a temporary sugar daddy but most women don’t have sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:13 PM
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Lmao sounds like c*pe to me. It’s weird and most young women think it’s weird. Has nothing to do with being ignored but I’m sure you tell yourself that so you can sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:08 PM
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Well guess what? It just might…✨increase✨ 😱. Especially if men can so easily get out of their responsibilities. At least with an abortion it’s not so easy to just do without some repercussions. But whatever send a letter to the white house or something. We get it, you hate single moms but yet you want to continue making single mothers. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:07 PM
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I actually couldn’t care less about child support money as I plan to be married before having any children. Again…You don’t need to convince me but the government. I’m not sure why you’re getting emotional about this lol. Learn some reading comprehension. Also condoms are cheaper than child support 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:20 PM
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Tory definitely shot her. How is she a liar? Where is your evidence that he didn’t? And it was HIS gun. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:55 PM
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Yep 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:28 PM
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Yep and that’s the ironic part…like I said, just tears and no accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:16 PM
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The only people placing the blame entirely on men are white women. You should see the twoX subreddit right now. Just tears and no accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:15 PM
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The problem with that is trying to convince the government to front these potential costs. And no…women should not have to birth children they don’t want because the man wants to. That’s not choice. That’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:57 PM
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Do you not know the definition of worlds? No one talked about sexual toys except you insinuating that I was talking about that. You’re just proving my point about your desperation for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:55 AM
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I think you’re failing in comprehension. No one is talking about sexual toys. Why is your mind in the gutter? Go touch some grass you and drink some water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:52 AM
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My bf does. That’s not what I need you or any other toys for lmaoo. Silly little circus monkey 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:49 AM
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You are the toy…I’m thinking you fit the monkey with cymbals 🐒 🎪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:47 AM
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Well I’m bored now and I like my toys 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:44 AM
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Because I just finished my homework, duh! You keep responding to me so you must want to play 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:41 AM
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In your dreams…you definitely cling to any female attention and it shows. Run along now, child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:26 AM
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Nope. There’s this little button on Reddit called ✨notifications ✨. Did you not know how to use the internet grandpa?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:01 AM
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Lol yep stick to your delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:57 AM
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Well everyone’s taxes would increase to pay for these children. Idk argue with the government and not me. It’s them that you need to convince. I actually couldn’t care less. Maybe wrap it up for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:34 AM
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Well maybe men should focus on being less pathetic because you can’t get your dick wet…pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:31 AM
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Hahaha you’re triggered I see. Go cry in the corner, child. I don’t have daddy issues though. My dad and I are actually very close so don’t worry about me. Go talk to your mom…oh wait. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:09 AM
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Lol I never said anything about withholding sex to punish men. If anything the men have been saying they voted to punish women so what are you blabbing about, fool? If women don’t want to have sex because of lack of healthcare then that is totally reasonable and has nothing to do with the incel clowns. Yap to your mom and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:51 PM
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Lol just because you can’t follow simple logic doesn’t make it an emotional rant babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:48 PM
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Lol I bet you thought you ate…you didn’t. Run along, child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:15 PM
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Insane and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:09 AM
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Risk IS the factor though? How can you simply not consider that when deciding to continue a pregnancy? I’ve never seen a more selfish and short sighted person in my life. Men have the choice to wear a condom. We all know how babies are made. Let’s not be moronic here. You’re just yapping at this point. Wrap it up or stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:46 PM
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The irony. I’m not the one voting and attempting to taunt women to spite them because you can’t have sex. So run along, child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:23 PM
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It’s much worse to go through that when it is NOT something you want to do. Like people should have the right to choose if they WANT to risk their life and wellbeing. What’s so difficult to understand about that? She’ll spend a year carrying and recovering. But WHY would you have a say? You’re NOT doing the physical labor. That burden is not on you. You have a choice when you choose not to wear a condom and then ejaculate inside of a woman. How isn’t that a choice? You know full well that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:21 PM
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Lol I’m not crying though. The ones that are crying are people like you because no one wants to fuck you? I mean you and your genes will die out and that’s pretty fantastic. Go sob in the corner because you can’t get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:07 PM
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Because women are the ones carrying to term and giving birth. Yes it takes two to tango sure. But let’s say you want the kid and she doesn’t. Then what? She’ll be the one that’s pregnant, uncomfortable and risking her life. So yes the decision ultimately IS the woman’s. I mean condoms are pretty easy to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:05 PM
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I get the sentiment but the execution would not be so great. It’s not really in the governments or the tax payers favor to allow that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:02 PM
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For not having sex with men? Is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:34 PM
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Men punishing women for not having sex with them has to be the most pathetic thing I have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:33 PM
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Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:30 PM
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Or it’s about control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:25 PM
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Why should you have a say in child bearing? How would that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:53 AM
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Okay well we’re not really talking about you though. Are we going to pretend that European features aren’t the standard of beauty? Non white people have to try harder and be exceptional when white people can just be mediocre. I need you to step outside your bubble on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:22 AM
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The point is that most of these complaints are indirectly about white women… they spout about how women are so privileged and have life so easy when in reality it’s white women that benefit the most in society after white men. I’m going to leave it at that. Otherwise do some research or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:15 AM
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Yep and idk why it’s so hard for these men to understand that. But oh well, you can lead a horse to water and all that 🤷🏽‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:05 AM
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Lol I’m sure being willfully ignorant helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:04 AM
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How did I disparage them by saying they have it easy? It’s just a fact. You’re the idiot here, kiddo. Rub your last 2 braincells together to do some critical thinking here. Well I wouldn’t be foaming at the mouth though because one, it’s not true and two I wish it were true but it’s not. Continue to live in your bubble. And relax you’re foaming at the mouth like a rabid dog right now. Lmao not true but okay. I find it so funny that you call me racist for something that isn’t even racist, just to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:14 PM
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This defeatist attitude won’t help you. I mean it won’t change my life at all. So sulk…don’t sulk…doesn’t really affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:25 AM
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How is what I said racist? It’s just a fact. You’re either delusional or plain stupid. And yes indeed, the jokes do in fact write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:06 AM
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To share my thoughts. Why else? Maybe they should just…try? Sulking won’t get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:05 AM
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Can’t possibly be true when most people are in relationships and that includes men as well. I didn’t prove anything because that is a small group of women. Most are just normal women with normal men. Sounds like a whole lot of c*pe going on here. Meh, I’m already in a relationship so doesn’t really matter. Seems like the undesirables are too busy feeling sorry for themselves while the men that already crossed the finish line are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:01 AM
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Lol stay ignorant or delusional, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:47 AM
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Not racist just an observation. White people have it easy, especially white women. Most of the gripes men have about women here are about white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:26 AM
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You can date without having your entire identity wrapped up in the opposite sex’s perception of you. Plenty of people are capable of that. There is a race though…I was referring to life in general but dating wise, I guess there is the race to marry an attractive and wealthy man. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:09 AM
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I was thinking more on the day to day aspects of life. Weird how men’s identities are so wrapped up in how women perceive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:59 AM
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The same things men have to work hard for. You clearly live in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:52 AM
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You do know all women aren’t white women, correct? We have to work hard too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:36 AM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 AM
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Why can’t we? I know plenty of women with children and careers. What’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:18 AM
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Lol of course some do but to think that the majority of us are doing that is simply not true… this whole dressing provocatively because of ovulation is stupid. Fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:25 PM
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Because we don’t.. you males are just delusional and live in fantasy land. You clearly have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:18 PM
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Not at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:53 PM
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That statistic is wrong and yet red pill clowns happily throw it around. It’s less than 70%. Show me the studies that say it’s 70-80%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:46 PM
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Lmao this level of delusional and projection should be studied. It must be hard for your gf to be with such a bumbling idiot. I’ll pray for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:41 AM
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Suuurreeee. I actually did finish my homework so thanks for wondering. Partial differentials is basic engineering gen ed.Meh, I’m an aerospace engineer so mostly aerodynamics and thermodynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:40 AM
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Lol you’ve never heard of a hypothetical or a scenario? These men clearly exist, look at the several threads about them. If I was dating I would not want to encounter them. What is so difficult to understand about that? I can’t hold your hand, you need to try on your own, lil Timmy. They’re trash to me. So essentially I hurt your feelings and you’re lashing out? What else is new? 🥱 I don’t care what they do though they just need to stay away from me and that is not lashing out. You’re not very g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:35 AM
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A pleb like you could never trigger me. You make me laugh though. Just another monkey in the circus. Aww did you just learn about partial differentials? How cute. It’s like a kid showing mommy they learned a big word. Again, what do I have to lie about? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:27 AM
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Lol what men am I making up? Are you referring to the men I said should stay out of my way if they’re paranoid about paternity? Are you too drunk to comprehend? Why does it bother you so much that I won’t date a man that would accuse me of cheating? If I was still dating then yes I would want the men I date to identify themselves so we can avoid each other and that makes you mad because? Just stick with the women that are okay with that and mind your business, k? 🙂 Anyways I have to study now. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:20 AM
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Lolll oh babes…bless your heart. You’re so triggered by me. I’m embarrassed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:14 AM
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Lol sure. I’ve spent too much time reading and editing my 140 page senior design paper so excuse me for not wanting to read your long ass dissertation of projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:11 AM
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Lmao you’re still writing dissertations? Thank goodness my bf doesn’t require a paternity test to know I would never do that. I’m glad I found a normal guy. God forbid men find out the truth about how loyal I am! 😱 You’re poly so I see why you would want a paternity test since this lifestyle feeds into your paranoia. Everything you’ve written is just major projection and it has nothing to do with me. See a therapist. But anyways…this conversation has added nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:08 AM
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Yes it is a problem for my husband to accuse me of cheating and lying. I’m not lashing out against men. I just need them to identify themselves as paranoid pattys so we can stay out of each other’s way. So what’s the problem? I’m not reading the rest of that long ass dissertation so I think we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:50 AM
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Lol this is only a problem for women who actually plan to baby trap. I however, have no plans to baby trap anyone but I do expect my partner to trust me and not be some paranoid fucking circus monkey. So meh, what else you got? Like what are we even talking about? You just want to take jabs and add nothing valuable to the conversation? Thanks I really wish for a world where men would use their common sense and see a therapist for their chronic paranoia instead of going around making baseless acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:16 AM
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Lol the semantics really don’t matter. I just need the paranoids to stay out of my way, which is why I gave this advice. The trash really does take itself out. Haha I should empathize with paranoid men accusing their partners of cheating and lying for no reason? I don’t think so. I’d honestly rather be alone and I certainly wouldn’t regret it. But my bf is completely normal and not a clown, so no problems for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:56 PM
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Yep and tbh they can whine about it all they want. They accuse women of being overly emotional, but get mad at this completely logical decision. My love for some guy making significantly less than me isn’t going to pay the bills and it will definitely make me resent him. I want someone to add to my life and I’m not sorry. That is literally what my dad told me to look for when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:52 PM
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If it while pregnant or after birth then it is paranoia. I need a legitimate reason and that one won’t fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:48 PM
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Yep and us normal women can weed out the paranoid and insecure men. Everyone is happy. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:47 PM
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You are absolutely a clown if you don’t bring up this requirement before deciding to have children. And yes there is something to be concerned about when being accused of lying and cheating. If my husband sprang a paternity test on me without having a legitimate reason, I’d be pretty pissed off. He can have one, I won’t complain but our relationship will be over. At least he got his reassurance. I find it wild that you guys think you shouldn’t have any consequences for your accusations. Take acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:58 PM
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Lol but we won’t 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:47 PM
0

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:39 PM
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Okay and like I said, they should just be upfront about it if it’s really that important. Not a problem. No need to waste people’s time. It’s one thing when these clowns get married and plan to have a baby then spring this paternity test nonsense on them during/afterwards and then receive backlash for it and rightfully so. Nope it is in fact paranoia lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:35 PM
1

No it’s paranoia and no amount of mental gymnastics is going to change that. Like I said you should be upfront about it before you get into a relationship. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:11 PM
1

Well you guys should say that before hand and find women that agree with you. There everyone happy and you guys get to be paranoid in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:53 PM
6

I date men according to their job title and earning potential. Welp I guess I’m a gold digger lmaooo 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:21 PM
-2

I can’t imagine being so pathetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:13 PM
3

You are though by being disingenuous and putting words in my mouth. I don’t agree with you, end of conversation. You should not support your children no matter what. We as a society have morals for a reason. I will absolutely prioritize my hypothetical grandchildren over my son that is grown and being just plain irresponsible for no reason. I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:11 PM
5

How is not creating broken homes considered simping? It was just an example to demonstrate the limit of parental support. You can be a good person and not a simp. The conversation is pointless to have with you. You’re doing a ridiculous amount of mental gymnastics. Have the day you deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:06 PM
2

Again, your lack of reading comprehension is NOT my problem. I meant what I said, there is no reading in between the lines. My child should not be creating broken homes and being a dead beat. I cannot and will not support that. I also would not support my son if he became some serial killer. There are limits to my support. If you want to be a terrible parent and raise a psychopath then that is your business. I will not and you won’t change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:19 PM
2

I can’t hold your hand and teach you how to write coherently 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:14 PM
4

Did I say random women or did I say my grandchildren? Your lack of reading comprehension is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:13 PM
1

Lol no you’re not supposed to prioritize them no matter what. The point of parenting is to teach your children how to fit into society, not to be a menace to it and not expect consequences. None of you would make good parents. I prioritize my hypothetical grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:06 PM
2

You never even had a point as it didn’t make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:44 PM
2

Or Caleb could have just wore a condom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:39 PM
-1

To a certain extent yes. I would not want my son creating broken homes, spreading diseases and abandoning children. His children will also be my grandchildren so then what? Am I supposed to prioritize his horny monkey brain nonsense? What was the point of this question if you guys were just going to bitch about the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:32 PM
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Lol why is this a difficult concept for you to understand? It is not good for anyone’s wellbeing to be a monkey brained idiot, abandoning children and breaking up homes. So yes adam is the better option. I won’t change my mind. Next. Typical low value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:30 PM
-1

At the expense of other people? I don’t think so. Creating broken homes is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:24 PM
1

Okay well good for you then. I don’t have any problems platonic talking to people. I just said you can just get up and leave. Is someone holding you hostage? Are you a people pleaser maybe? Coffee dates are low effort and I don’t like them. I tend to talk with guys for a bit before going on any date 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:40 PM
1

You’re never “stuck” with them though? What stops you from just getting up and leaving? I prefer dinner dates and if I don’t like them like that, it’s not a big deal for me to continue having dinner or if they’re really insufferable I can just leave..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:34 PM
1

I’ve always had guys pay on the first date and I never felt like I owed them anything lol. And if it did suck I just said thanks and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:54 PM
11

Lol show me the study. My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:09 PM
15

Inaccurate as there aren’t even enough single fathers to compare to single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:07 PM
1

Are we going to pretend that there are no intelligent historical figures that are women? You also said men have higher IQ’s which implied that men are smart but you just said they were dumb. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:35 PM
1

Great I encourage men to get sexbots. It’ll truly make the world a better place. Okay good for you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:22 PM
1

You’re boring and still aren’t adding anything valuable so yes please get a life and those last sentences were sarcasm. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:04 PM
1

Lol okay? I graduate with my engineering degree soon. What does that say about me? Are YOU an engineer, scientist or a philosopher? Men can demand whatever they want. Majority of women still won’t pick them. That includes you especially with your nasty attitude. Why would we want someone who clearly hates us and is jealous for…reasons? Yes I get it. You like to yap. I posted my original comment 79 days ago and you haven’t added anything valuable to the conversation. Please get a life and go buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:53 PM
1

I’m not concerned with any other country outside of the U.S…these men CHOOSE to do so because guess what? They have to work for a living! No one is holding a gun to these men’s heads forcing them to do so. So save me the sob stories. Denial about what though? Okay most men are dumb and that includes yourself, got it! What should women be doing to show aPpReCiAtiOn? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:34 PM
1

When was the last time men were conscripted? I’m all for women being conscripted or just abolishing it in general. Lmao I’m sure you genuinely believe that. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:36 PM
2

I read the first paragraph and that was enough for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:24 PM
2

spoiler …I didn’t. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:05 PM
6

She literally said that she would be heartbroken but looked at the silver lining of the situation. What should she be doing? She never anything about getting into a new relationship the next day after divorcing. You’re heavily projecting and just finding something to be upset about. I’m not going to read that dissertation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:02 PM
8

Like what? She’s not divorced. She was speaking hypocritically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:22 PM
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