Syd1804 Archive

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1	Balance between being direct and not seeming desperate? Being direct is assuming attraction. "Assuming attraction" mentality is focused on your mindset, your "way of life". A needy guy is someone who is focused on the result (I MUST get THIS girl). Generally, it generates one-itis and anger when it fails. The difference can be tricky on the field but, honestly, it's about mentality. A girl didn't answer to your invitation at a party ? Well, no problem, you just go to this party and meet other girls. A girl declined your date ? Well ok, we can still h…	/r/seduction	07/04/15 02:26 PM
1	Help confused What do you mean "Then she hates me" ? Your story is unclear. Sorry but it looks like she is laughing at you though.	/r/seduction	19/03/15 02:37 PM
1	Is asking if the girl has a boyfriend a valid question...? that boys just want to talk to them Except if the girl is <18 and/or ugly or lived alone for 20 years, you are so wrong dude. Some may look like naive, but they are not. Hey, remember that a pretty girl got every single day men trying to attract her. And they have access to internet. You are trying to convince yourself but it's not the truth. And if girls told you that or seem like naive, it's 100% bs.	/r/seduction	08/03/15 03:13 PM
1	Is asking if the girl has a boyfriend a valid question...? No, it's generally a bad idea because you should be anytime attractive no matter what : thus, you don't care if she has or not a bf, because you are yourself, cool and attractive. If you ask for her boyfriend, it indicates that you are not entirely confident on yourself (I don't say that it's not a reasonable question from a rational point of view, but it's just unnatractive in terms of seduction). You talked about loosing time. Oh, yes, sure, it's very annoying to loose 30 min but, hey, picking…	/r/seduction	06/03/15 03:58 PM
1	Need some tips for a fellow beginner. The fact that you are worried about looking stupid is the reason that you will look stupid. I'm a bit exaggerating but just be natural, talk about what you like, talk about what they like etc. You might still be a bit awkward at the beggining but you will improve with time. Don't forget : a dude a bit awkward but having the balls to talk (it can be cute) is more attractive then a guy saying nothing or that talk with zero confidence.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:56 PM
2	A FUCKING HANDSHAKE Ahah dude, it's ok in my opinion. She probably find that it was cute. What I would like to tell you though is that you must try to get the correct "mindset". I mean, imagine a PUA take your place just after the handshake, he will not just try to compensate this mistake ; he will use it to seduce the women by a mean you wouldn't expect. For instance, "Oh, sorry ! You look so much like my boss !" and have a good laugh with her. Your mistake could have been this way more like a good move !	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:48 PM
14	What to do when she kisses you on the cheek? If you feel that the girl is attracted to you, after that she kissed you on the cheek, catch her with your hands on her arms, look at her, look at her lips, come a little closer. You will find out very fast if you can ; then, it's all your job.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:38 PM
1	Need Advice I don't agree about asking for her number straightforward (except if OP has received a lot of IOI's) First at all, I think OP must make her comfortable by not being awkward. "Hey, I've seen that xxxx so I was wondering xxx (find an excuse, like "you're reading this book so I was wondering how you felt about it because I found it very exciting !")" If she seems please to answer, you can then continue "Oh by the way, my name's op ; what's yours ?". Then fluff a bit. When you feel that she is prett…	/r/seduction	18/02/15 03:06 PM
3	(HELP) I want her to be more than just a friend :( </3 It'll be hard. I'm pretty sure you are, since a long time, friendzoned. You have to change your behavior. Don't be that guy listening to all her issues and talking at phone for hours. Your time worth more then that ; you have a social life ; you meet other girls etc. Hang out with her, but not to listen to her for hours ; take her somewhere you can meet other friends ; game with her (stop no-point discussion ; you have to make the temperature higher : that means that you should value yourself, k…	/r/seduction	09/02/15 02:21 PM
1	Girl initiates conversation but doesn't continue/long time to respond?!? HELP PLEASE!! Oh right you are quite young, I understand more now :) Yeah why not. Any occasion can be good. Try to talk interesting things, funny jokes. Make her confortable with you . Try, if the temperature seems good, to kino escalation. Be patient but don't be that dude listening to all her personnal issues every single day (you are a cool dude so you have social life, stuff to do without her etc.). Don't be awkward but don't be too much afraid. Remember you are a cool dude so if she says no (it's maybe …	/r/seduction	05/02/15 03:16 PM
1	Girl initiates conversation but doesn't continue/long time to respond?!? HELP PLEASE!! First thing : don't overthink/focus too much on THAT girl. I'm not saying that just to annoy you, but because this mindset will more likely make you fail from what you want. Second thing : Signals are often mixed and messages on internet don't mean a lot. Don't think about whether she likes you or not ; that's not the correct mindset. Just game as usual : you have also a social life, so stop giving a f*** if she has seen the message or not. Try to do real stuff, invite her at parties or just han…	/r/seduction	05/02/15 03:01 PM