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Field ReportSyggie/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 06:11 PM
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I've calmly said "I'm not in love with you anymore, and to be honest there's no one else in my life right now. This relationship got to a point where I would much rather be single than with you." You'll say the truth and she won't believe it anyway. Double win.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:57 PM
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I would say Jessica. Never trust a Jessica.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:58 AM
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Could you explain why? She's still able to have babies and gets the attention from much younger guys at the club. How has she hit the wall 10 years ago? I'm curious, I want to know what you think.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 01:51 AM
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I really have no answer for this. Not in a bad way tho, I just don't know what to tell you. You said what I didn't know how to articulate on another post. By allowing her to come back in any shape or form, i'm kinda breaking frame. But like I said, she tried to shame me, break me, befriend me and fuck me. I only gave in for the last one, when she made the move, I didn't. Which was my plan all along anyways. I don't care about what she gets back, I get mine under my terms from now on, and that's …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 01:16 AM
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What I told her was that it seemed unbelievable selfish and whimsical to come and tell me all this thinking we could still be friends. She should do whatever makes her happy and I think this was some blame she had in her mind about what she had done and wanted closure, or trying to be friends to amend all she had done. I don't think that me pumping and dumping her helped much. It's truly the behavior of someone who's always used to get what they want no matter what they do. I also don't get it, …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:33 PM
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It was 10 months. Intense. Full of chemistry and good sex. I understand the things I did wrong, and I'm sure whenever I think back I'll improve on them. One day I saw her texting this dude and I just put all the dots together and stopped talking to her on February 14th. She called me I didn't answer. I didn't tell her happy bday or anything, and then she contacted me beginning of June. I remember reading Black Dragon saying that if you stop talking to an ex for 4 months they come back, and in th…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:30 PM
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To have a stoic frame you would need to have a frame first. Any frame. Fucking an ex made you stronger mentally. Dude, you wouldn't have to write all of this crap if it would. You needed to rationalise your oneitis to yourself. First of all, don't assume. I didn't write this thinking "people will back me up and clap at it", nor thinking it was some kind of revenge. I don't care what she got out of it, I truly don't give a shit. She wanted to shame me, break me, befriend me, and then fuck me. I o…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:24 PM
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What can I tell you. You seem to have all the answers my friend. I come here to share a story that would not have happened 1-2 years ago. I'm not trying to dress it up as anything more than what I wrote, and if it helps someone, great. I know I've been the receiver of rough shit that has killed me inside back when I was completely blue pill, but this is a sign that it's changing, especially because it made me feel happy afterwards, that's the main point. It felt good to get all that out of my sy…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:44 PM
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You are right, actually. Some of the things I said hurt me while I was saying them, but here's the thing: I knew they were the right things to say. It felt like for the first time amused mastery was somewhat flowing through me. This is new. I wouldn't have been able to do this beforehand. I know it sounds silly, and it may not be much for other experienced redpillers, but holy shit does it feel good. Anyway, ghosting has always felt like the childish thing to do. I don't have to ignore anyone, I…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:34 PM
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Well, I still wanted to fuck her because it's a great lay. 100% blue pill me of two years ago wouldn't have been able to deal it the way it went down. Maybe you won't learn anything from this, maybe some other people find it useful.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:31 PM
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"Controlling the frame" is not "being stoic", or "give one-word answers" or "keeping your composure". Controlling the frame is simply remaining resolute that your perspective of the interaction dominates hers. Now whether your answers are 1-word long, full discourses, or anything in between, is up to you. Thanks. What you say does tie with my conclusion, but it's good to always be looking for improvement, and I felt I could've even been better at some point, especially because unlike in english,…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:29 PM
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Like I said above, I have a lot to learn. I have two plates but the sex I have with them is devoid of passion or excitement. I can't help it, I don't really understand it completely, but I can make my ex come 7 times, but with a plate if I come once or twice I'm done for the night.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:26 PM
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This is true. I had oneitis until I decided to stop talking to her altogether. When I offered the "intimacy and laughs" deal, deep inside I knew she wouldn't take it, and it was best for both of us. I trust myself now that I won't fall for her, but I have a lot to fucking learn, and it's better to cut it off asap, because I don't know what could happen if we were to have sex often.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:24 PM
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What makes me happy is not that I "broke" her, my intention was just bedding her and that was it. I took care of what I wanted to do and what I wanted to get, and I knew how to do it. I trusted my knowledge until I reached the destination. I was clear with her at every single point of the situation and never lied or misdirected her. With the way I was treating her, she could've dipped at any point, or stop talking to me, or not coming to my house at all, but that's her problem. Again, I share th…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:21 PM
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I understand it makes no sense from a TRP point of view, but such is the situation when analyzing blue pill decisions. My original though back a bit more than a year ago was: Is there chemistry in and out of the bed? Yes. Is she hot? She looks 30-32, not 37. Is she smart to hold an interesting conversation? Yes. She wants kids in two years, do I? 31 doesnt seem a bad age for being a dad, I should be much more stable if my career keeps rising the way it is. She comes out of an 8 year relationship…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:47 PM
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Maybe, and thanks for the words, I wanted to give back to TRP at least something after all I've taken and learned here. I can't seem to recall situations word by word, but I do remember thinking afterwards I should've been more direct with some of my words. Also all this happened in spanish so I know i'm missing some things in translation. Anyway, to be honest, I thought that right off the bat I was breaking frame by allowing her to come to my house, if I didn't care about her I thought it was b…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:34 PM
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I will never forget I was once hanging around with a couple of friends at a chill bar at night, say 3 girls, 2 guys including myself. I had no interest whatsoever in these girls, but we were a group drinking and having fun. Out of nowhere these two guys that nobody knew came up, and tried to start chatting with 2 of the girls there, and as soon as I caught up on what was happening I just kept eye contact on one of them. Something like this, of course ignoring the fact that when LBJ does it, ther…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:58 PM
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Quick question: How are they post-wall if they are 27-28 years old?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:37 PM
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Exactly. Try threesome but bail anyways.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:11 PM
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Great to know failure has pushed you towards a more masculine and decisive frame. We've all needed some kind of push and I'm glad you've finally started walking this path. All you need now is to lift heavy and eat your veggies.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:08 PM
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Why would you care about a woman giving you the cold shoulder when you didn't even fuck her? It sounds like you fell in love just by receiving her attention. Go out and fail more often, this is nothing. Edit: Btw, great movie and excellent link.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:42 PM
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Did the whole Roman God workout twice at the gym this week, will do cardio for the last days of the week, will go back to it on monday, my day off. My body feels spent, but happy. Stopped procrastinating big time. I used to push for later things that I knew I had to do, from now on I'll take care of them on the spot. Opened up a Tinder account after breaking up with my gf and realized what I was missing. Planning on having a couple plates by the end of the month. Haven't talked to my ex since Fe…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:55 PM
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Just say show me the carfax
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:09 AM
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This is full of so much knowledge. A 28 year old working in his life thanks you more than you can imagine.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 03:55 AM
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I had posted something similar a while ago but I'll jump on what you said for further help: You can also pinch your forearm everytime you think, say or react in a way you don't like. It'll eventually teach your brain to associate it with pain and the bad thoughts, reactions or words will recede and eventually stop happening. I can attest to that.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 11:25 PM
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This is like that trap where guys pretend to admit being gay just so the dude in the group they all think is a closeted homosexual finally opens up. "Ofc I never fucked more than 10 minutes" "HA! Got heem!"
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 10:19 PM
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This. They come from a weak side because it means you are settling for her even when she's disrespected you so much that you are strongly considering to break up. When it gets to that point no guy with options and self respect would stay in that relationship. That's one thing, another point is that an ultimatum makes her realize she could totally have it better and that you're not THAT good, and she'll start scanning through her orbiters to prove her stupid hamster right. "Who is this guy that g…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 12:32 AM
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My body fat% just hit the single digits not so long ago (9,7%): I'm trying to balance a diet where I cut and build mass at the same time and so far it has been working. I do have a genetic predisposition for muscular hypertrophy (and I don't have a genetic predisposition for hair, apparently), so it may not work for everyone. I barely drink alcohol at all (socially but barely), I drink lots of water, almond milk, eggs, bacon sometimes, lots of avocado, among other things: now, here's my question…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 11:23 PM
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Much like high school, there are a lot of fakes, flakes and narcissists. Everything is expensive as hell for no reason. This. Living in South Beach or Brickell is expensive and there's not much to do anyways, the traffic is shit and the apartments to live in are incredibly small for the price. In Miami you either go clubbing, go buy shit at a mall or go to the beach, that's seriously it. The culture of "having a boat and party" is everywhere and it's borderline disgusting. Losers with no game wh…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 11:15 PM
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Miami: You better be rich. It's almost as bad as LA. I live in Miami, can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:46 PM
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Girl I fucked 2 years ago still writes me from time to time. Told me this yesterday. She has a boyfriend. She didn't want to talk much about it or me, but i pressed a bit and got her wet by telling her how hard i'd fuck her if she lived here (she lives in europe). It's amazing how much emotional connection they have that a couple of words make them wet. She loves broad shoulders and I was like a magnet for her. I'm much bigger now I have no doubt that if I go I'd pound her anytime. I could drown…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 10:19 PM
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Hijacking this comment for good reason: Not only stretching is important, please pay very close attention to the technique utilized when benching and pulling. I've seen countless videos on the internet where they ask for a 90 degree angle on your elbow and another one from your armpit and this last one is damn wrong. Or when they just pull up using their delts. The bench pressing exercise exists for, say, one reason: to push. Nobody pushes with their arms at their shoulder level, its done with a…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 05:56 AM
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Yes and no. This dude helped him in dodging one bullet, he won't be able to help him dodge ALL of them, but hopefully he learns. "Chances are that he's going to run into another girl and do the same fucking chump shit" well, i don't know, a similar situation is why I ended up here, so maybe it's his wake up call. If anything, it's better for him that this happened. Then whatever conclusions he draws and acts upon are his own matter, you can't babysit an adult, hopefully he'll figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:16 PM
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Point of his post is that if you give attention to the one with the lowest SMV in the group, the rest will surely pay attention to you. They'll be like "wait, she's the one getting this guy? I'm much hotter, right? What's going on with me?" Then you leave the ugly girl and hit on the hot one, as she's definitely looking for that confirmation of her having a higher value than the ugly girl in her group, that's why you usually won't see any resistance. More than adding value to himself, he made th…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 04:36 PM
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Holy shit thanks!! you made me find out i'm around 10-12% of bf. I was always doubting it. This is me: http://imgur.com/pnxnABP Thanks!! Now looking at that pic, which is 2 months old, I still need to work a lot on inner and upper pectorals plus forearms.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:20 AM
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When a woman feels the need to state something about her that should be obvious to the point of not mentioning it, well, then the opposite is the truth.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:26 PM
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I get the point you're trying to make, but to be fair, this list is pretty basic. I mean, anyone can do with their lives whatever they want, but I'm sure you'll be better off reading a book than masturbating for the same amount of time. This is the thing: you don't need to improve because of future possibility of sex, that will most likely lead you to angst and depression. You need to do it because using your time wisely is the best you can do for yourself. I dread the possibility that maybe in …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:33 AM
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as much as this stuff is true its depressing. I would say it's just sad, but that's how it is. Don't let it depress you, don't let it define you. Stop comparing yourself to the life other women are living, it's like comparing playing soccer to baseball, it's not the same sport, it has different advantages and disadvantages, understand that. They are able to always have a companion, have sex at the tip of their fingers thanks to technology, they barely ever will understand what loneliness truly m…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 09:32 PM
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But, in my humble opinion, none of us will find their unicorn. Yeah, most people won't find their unicorn, they'll either think they did, or just marry whatever they had close because people told them their life will be a failure otherwise. Chances are the only unicorn you had in your life was your Mom (and for some not even), do not think women out there are like your mom or any of your female family members. The family love superseeds the relationship one tenfold, easily. A woman will never lo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 09:24 PM
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