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Do you always try to gaslight people like this? You replaced the word experienced w/ promiscuous. By definition, you associated a word meaning ‘skill developed over time’ with a word that means ‘many transient sexual relationships’. No amount of bullshit semantics will change the facts. You did that on purpose to be a dick & try to slut shame. Accept that I am the more intelligent debater in this situation, & go try to gaslight someone else now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:10 PM
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Eh, I think thats one of those things that may not be preferred but isn’t a dealbreaker either if you really like someone. I had one bald ex, & one who was balding/had patchy hair pattern. Loved them both & found them insanely attractive during the relationship, who someone is & how they treat you can make them more or less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:19 PM
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Omg thank you for saying that. I feel the same way & having to tell men that I do not like being choked always felt so strange, I shouldn’t have to say that but at some point many assumed this was a universal thing & would do it without even asking. To me, if a man is a bad kisser then I assume he’s not great (or compatible with me) sexually. Thats usually my only cue, how things are & feel when making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:51 PM
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If you aren’t a virgin yourself but you specifically seek out virgins; you are creepy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:33 PM
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Slut shaming = the exact thing you are trying to do to me. Those women aren’t complaining about me using the word slut, they are complaining about men exactly like you. Wake up. You keep trying to get to me, or hurt my feelings, but Im seriously way too old to give a single fuck about opinions that juvenile. I do feel for those younger girls tho because ya’ll are really putting terrible things in their minds for no damn reason other than to be mean. It will backfire big time. Women are more natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:46 AM
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I was gonna say, assuming we orgasm with every partner is a bold statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:06 AM
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I honestly don’t care at all what you say. And most grown women would laugh if you called her a slut, that shit stopped being shameful in highschool. We have thick skin now after years of witnessing first hand misogyny & sexism. I simply called you out for your bitter incel response, & instead of admitting your intentions or apologizing, you tried to gaslight me, & play semantics. Its exhausting letting these interactions go on too long when theres clearly an imbalance of intelligence. No need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:04 AM
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I would never say that to a gay man because I am a straight woman & discuss tests with my partners. Not once has that wording been an issue. This is a post/question about the direct correlation between the number of male partners a woman has had, & the common stigma associated with that, versus a high N man. Its literally a heterosexually aimed post about gender equality within sexual conquests. I don’t ever purposefully say anything cruel or mean to anyone, & I support everyone having their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:42 AM
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Omfg no it wasn’t. I broke down what I said below better for you. Through. Dating. And. Relationships. You. Will. Have. Multiple. Partners. Throughout. Your. Life. Also, the actual N threshold varies by person (to those who actually care about this). Its a subjective measurement. To some, 4 partners is a lot, to others, anything over 8 partners is a lot, and so on. Therefore, there is no way for me to determine what you, or anyone else, even define as promiscuous. What do those “studies” define …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:06 AM
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No, I said experienced. Experience mostly comes through relationships & dating. You are the one equating the word experienced to promiscuity. So now you must figure out why that is. Is it because you have little to no experience so you consider those who have any experience promiscuous? Is it because you are jealous? Is it because you haven’t healed from a woman hurting you? Only you can figure out why your mind is associating things in a twisted fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:46 AM
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Ohhhh I see what you were saying with the language now. No offense but I’m not responsible for how anyone else interprets language, & feels. I certainly didn’t say, or even think that at all, but if it makes anyone feel a certain way then I hope they figure out why that is, & heal those intrusive thoughts about themselves, instead of telling others to tiptoe around it. If you don’t trust regular testing that is your personal choice, though. I don’t think the scenarios you laid out are high risk,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:37 AM
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Yea man, this is wild. I’ve never felt more grateful to have grown up during dial-up, making real connections, studying people for real through experiences & not articles. If I ingested everything I do now when I was more impressionable & emotional… whew. I feel pretty terrible for all younger people though, they got a shit deal. I think dating apps, social media, hookup culture, & continued public animosity toward the opposite sex will create a strange new reality of loneliness; similar to Japa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:06 AM
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What? You literally just ask them to test for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:06 PM
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That word was never said by me. You were trying to put me down because you have issues with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:05 PM
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There is research to prove the exact opposite too. Thats the whole point of “independent” studies, to push an agenda. Everyone needs to know this right now before believing things that are marketed. Does that really make sense to you logically though? How in the hell would more partners magically pull the ability to bond out of a woman’s vagina? Most times high body count women actually have sex less than those who were in long relationships:marriages. Maybe getting railed 10-20 times a year vs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:01 PM
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Ah yes, you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:49 PM
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I mean, I wouldn’t expect to encounter a virgin at my age but if I did, I would not be interested. That is a fantasy men have, but its more of a nightmare for women. Our anatomy is complex enough. I think about sex in my 20s vs 30s & once everyone knew what they were doing, it was so much better (in general, of course there are older people who are still unskilled). I totally understand why a virgin might care about sexual pasts if they are losing their virginity to them, but thats an extreme ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:48 PM
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Its literally never anything I have ever thought about, or wanted to ask; & if anyone ever asked me that, I might vomit its so cringe. And I will welcome any healthy debate but no one has provided a rational reason as to why this information has any relevance, or importance to a future with someone. Of all the qualities & characteristics in a person, this being of any importance seems absurd. They are literally creating more reasons to resent, hate, & distrust women in their heads… then wonder w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:39 PM
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As a secure person I’m going to ignore the slight but fyi no one gets hurt by being called a slut past high school. We all know where those insults come from. The quality of life you will live when you let go of all your resentment, hurt, insecurity, & anger is so much better. Trust me. It will open your mind & heart to things you are closing off in your current state.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:19 PM
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That makes no sense. Think about this logically. Experienced women would only marry a good sexual partner. And sex is best with a partner. Hands down. No comparison. You know each other, its comfortable, you like how they kiss & smell, you can switch it up, try new shit together. A hookup will always have at least one thing you find fucking revolting. Breath, kissing style, body odor, condition of home, skills in foreplay… There are chemicals & natural animalistic levels to our chemistry as huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:43 PM
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What? That number literally does nothing. It causes nothing. It means nothing, really. If you think you may be marrying a sex addict or something, then I assure you that there will be other signs. I can’t think of another reason why you would love someone enough to want to marry them, but then when you find out they fucked 24 dudes in their lifetime, suddenly its destined to fail. What would be the only other reason? Because you’re insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:53 PM
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I genuinely don’t care how many partners my new partner has had in their past, as long as we both have clean tests. And I think its just hard for me to imagine anyone really thinking about that. Its just so fucking weird to me. We all know everyone has a past so why even think about that? And if you don’t ever ask then are you assuming, or what is the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:25 PM
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We talk about individual encounters but not numbers. I stand by my statement thats weird & a more incel mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:24 PM
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I find it strange adults still talk about body counts like this. I’ve never had a mature man ask me this info, this has only ever happened in my late teens/early 20s when men were still very insecure about that stuff. I have no interest in knowing anyone else’s number either. So where is this assumption coming from? A bunch of people who never have sex? Because in the real world anyone who cares about this is cringe AF…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:14 PM
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Well yes, I did say “tend to” as an indication of not every instance, but in this sub they do generalize everything lol. I guess this is my general experience as a woman :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:50 AM
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This is interesting. I do find that men on the conventionally attractive end start out much nicer, more positive, & with a lighter tone; however once you get to know them more the “ugly” qualities begin to come out. Whereas, more average men tend to start things out on a slightly depressing note, can be negative, with a darker tone… but turn out to be really wonderful people inside (if they don’t get too negative & theres not too low self-esteem to where I unmatch). Im an OG nerd. I might’ve had…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:36 PM
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What? Im not meeting giga chad… Many normal men with their own place are struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:16 AM
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I personally do not have huge standards. I already have older kids, a career, & Im only 5’3 so height is of no concern. Im looking for a best friend/love. I prefer to meet before dismissing most people as Ive been very surprised by who I fall for. Most of the time if I like them after a first meet, there seems to be very little effort to converse & scratch the surface (wyd? How are you? Good morning…🙄), yet these men always continue to hit me up weeks or months later saying they really liked me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:01 AM
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Worse. We have a large quantity of men/matches to engage with, but the quality is very low. Frequently we have to sort through married/cheating men, fuckboys, emotionally unavailable men, catfishes. Many times we spend a lot of time messaging everyone back to only get asked on very few dates. We also get ghosted, stood up, used… there also seems to be a huge trend of general depression among the population, could be partially caused by financial issues, which would make dating hard but Ive notic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:59 PM
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But every man doesn’t want the same thing. Your assuming men still want to take care of women financially. The reality is that most single men in their 20s/30s in the US can’t even afford to do that, nor does it seem they want to. They are literally complaining about paying for dates on here, imagine if they paid all the bills how spiteful they’d be. And we don’t have any trouble with interested men, there is an abundance of willing suitors for even the most unattractive of women. But we aren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:15 PM
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I was going to say this too. Money plays a part too. If you can afford fancy facials, creams, serums, fillers then you have an advantage. This is why both sexes of the lower class rarely age well; they are out in the elements working, many times doing manual labor, eating cheap processed foods, & not getting botox, or using $100 face creams at night. They are trying to survive, & stress plus lack of sleep ages you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:40 PM
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Yea, your getting fixated on a particular example. I just remember those times fondly, esp being young & broke. If I was offered a drink, Id always say that I need one for my friend too & we would laugh wildly every time it worked. He taught me a lot about how I should be treated. My other ex taught me a lot about how I shouldn’t be treated. Now when anyone starts to show signs of controlling behavior or anger etc; I leave immediately. Experiences, good or bad, always leave you with a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:09 PM
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I mean I don’t really care what you call it… that doesn’t make sense because vaginas don’t get loose, they return to their usual shape & tension after sex. There is zero scientific evidence stating frequent sex loosens the vagina, that is a myth. Only if you have pelvic floor issues could your muscles become weaker, but kegel exercises help I remember on a crime show once they explained that a woman having sand in her vagina meant she was on land during sexual assault because the vagina doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:03 PM
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I feel like BDE transcends gender, its a state of being anyone can achieve. I guess if you want to find an equivalent to little dick energy for a woman who may be insecure, jealous, controlling, puts other women down, has negative energy, etc maybe stank coochie energy could work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:35 PM
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Its a funny example, not everyone thinks like you. There are many secure men who are not intimidated by fake flirting… but yes, my ex would do that & we had a blast together. He is still one of my favorite humans. He is a short king @ 5’5 & average looks/package, but he never got insecure or jealous, never lost his temper, never got aggressive or mean, & was always awesome to me. This is big dick energy. Another ex would get extremely jealous & ruin the whole evening when a man would hit on me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:28 PM
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Thank you for providing an example of small dick energy😘
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:17 PM
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Um I’ve def met men with huge dicks who were a hot mess, & men with smaller dicks who were the best I’ve ever had. Women with a little experience know damn well size doesn’t matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:06 PM
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Being literal about this is hilarious. Its a man who has swagger & confidence, but will still hold your purse, or encourage you to flirt to get both of you free drinks. In other words, he has swagger but he’s not a prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:03 PM
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I don’t think you want to know the vast amount of options us “aging women” have. I can’t keep up, Im mid-30s & receive interest from men ranging 25-45. Its the most dating options Ive ever had & the most quality options, the younger men especially are struggling w/ women their age so mature & more successful ones are dating more mature & successful women. Maybe Im having fun tho & not wanting to settle down. I make my own money, I don’t need to marry anyone. I earned everything I have without a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:07 AM
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Right? I thought this was nice guys at first…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:59 AM
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Women date, or become emotionally invested in, men they like. Its not all physical attraction either, thats the initial attraction but who they are, & how they make you feel, is what grows those romantic feelings. And yea, some are just loud charming douchebags but only experience in time will help us vet those guys before getting involved. If you’re being friendzoned a lot when you are interested in more, then maybe you need to communicate those things earlier? Im a pretty good looking woman fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:47 PM
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The same could be said with men. American men are not as polite, they don’t dress as nice, smell as good, & are more overweight/unattractive as well. But I’m not going to another country, there are still great men here, just like there are great women still too. I think we have an overall communication problem, & an inability to grow & maintain intimate relationships. I see gen z is pretty savage so I can’t say they aren’t, but I have never been rude or nasty to anyone while dating. If I ever he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:41 PM
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Oh, I am not defending the country but to act like American women are unattractive, as if we aren’t a melting pot of all ethnicities & nationalities, is ridiculous. We are more likely to be educated & have careers too but he mostly mentions weight so this is about looks for OP. Thinking that you could pull a hot lady abroad who doesn’t want those things from an American is absolutely delusional. There are unattractive women, gold diggers, & entitlement everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:10 PM
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Hahahahahahaha hilariously delusional. Go ahead, Im sure she’ll pinky swear that shes not interested in your money or a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:19 PM
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I am a reasonably good looking woman w/ a good career who is very attracted to intelligence, conversation, & effort. Of course a base attraction has to be there, but that is already implied if you both swiped. I can get many dates with men of all ages, but I very rarely connect w/ anyone to want to see them again, & when I do feel that pull its never the “most attractive” option (by conventional standards of course). Its the ones who I felt had great conversations, poignant thoughts, no over-pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:22 PM
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Women are most insecure in their younger years, my body was far better in my 20s but I always was ashamed of it; we feed into that ideal image of beautiful when we are more impressionable. Now, I feel way sexier in my late 30s even tho Im 25lbs heavier. Self-love, confidence, & security can take time to develop for many. As for men, I feel like they are the opposite & begin to lose confidence over the years. Therefore, once men & women both hit our 40s we are wildly different in that aspect, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:40 PM
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As a 30+ curvy woman, I am attracted to all types of men because who they are, & who we are together, matters more. As long as there is a baseline attraction then that could grow exponentially with how you treat me. The reverse happens as well, you could be the most attractive man ever but if you’re a douche then you become unattractive. Last man I fell for was very short & not athletic at all🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:16 PM
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This is so genius, you are right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:43 AM
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I made a vow to myself to never let a man use me again, & making them wait until we know this could potentially be a LTR weeds out the ones who only want sex... which is all of them so far lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:24 AM
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