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| 6 | How can I get what I want without coming on too strong?I'd bring it up on the next date that you are looking for a companion that's open to committing to a long term relationship, and you were wondering if he was open to that. If not, then suggest that you guys should break things off (be polite). If yes, continue as you have been. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Can 'shit tests' be summarized by saying that she wants to know your masculine energy can handle/compliment her feminine energy?No, I want my fiance to get rid of the spider because I have severe arachnophobia. If he was scared of them too, I guess we'd scream together, lol. I don't know anyone that tests their SO like this. Not anyone that's sane, anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/19 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Men love women's bodies. Women don't care very much about men's bodies. What makes up for this?XD just because it has a different shape from a woman's ass doesn't mean it can't be appreciated. A man's ass may generally be more subtle, but that doesn't mean it ain't a part of the male body women find attractive. Also, I think women are more generalist than men are. If a woman has a nice face, tits, and ass, she will be attractive to nearly any man. However, aside from ass and general musculature, the parts of the male body a woman likes to check out are rather variable. I see women talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/19 02:46 AM |
| 14 | Men love women's bodies. Women don't care very much about men's bodies. What makes up for this?-_- women like men's butts. We also check out musculature and whatnot. It's only appraisal-like when actively looking for a BF, though, otherwise it's more like admiring artwork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | under what conditions will you allow yourself to be a 'forever gf'?I'm only getting married so that my fiance can be on my health insurance and because he likes the idea of being married. The legal contract has no bearing on how much we love each other. If it weren't for certain legal hurdles, I could definitely see myself being his forever GF rather than his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you have a secret fetish that no one can know about?I don't really have any overly strange fetishes, certainly none that my fiance doesn't know about. In fact, he's kinda disappointed that I'm such a prude. As for 2., I'd dump my fiance if he touched children or animals. I'd be weirded out by fetishes such as those dudes that like to wear diapers and shit themselves, but as long as he didn't try to force my participation then whatever, he's free to do that on his own time. I'm confused about the shit taking one, because you worded it weird so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What measures do you take to prevent the idea of cheating from becoming a reality?You can't really remove ideas from your head; our brains are often random, impulsive, and stupid with thoughts that don't reflect who we are as people. Don't give yourself guilt trips over it, you'll just be giving yourself pain over a nonissue. It's like feeling guilty over having a dream where you are in a relationship with someone other than your SO: have you forgotten that same subconsciousness put you through dreams of drowning, utter nonsense, and being at school naked? Some people do fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What measures do you take to prevent the idea of cheating from becoming a reality?I'm not tempted to cheat at all, so, no measures. I saw my mother's life utterly ruined by men who wouldn't remain faithful to her, and my fiance has had similar negative experiences in regards to cheating, so we consider it a non-issue. If you have trouble staying faithful, perhaps an open relationship suits you better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | So you're more likely to have sex with a man who will keep it quiet and say nothing ?I'm not into one night stands, but it would be kinda weird to mention your one night stand by name with the bragging. Distasteful? Trashy? Something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with themLol, she's just casually sucking Bobby's dick just cause, then? Not exactly a common situation. Friends with benefits is a type of relationship. Again, if Tom doesn't enjoy hanging out with Sue, he shouldn't be her friend or her SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | So you're more likely to have sex with a man who will keep it quiet and say nothing ?Lol, why would my fiance brag about my vagina to his friends? Is he trying to make them jealous? Interested in me? It'd be such a strange thing to do. I'd find it funny if he did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with them-_- well gee, she's in a relationship with Bobby, why would she be fucking around with Tom too? Plus, is friendship not enjoyable? You are basically saying that Tom doesn't enjoy having someone to play video games with and watch movies with, just because he's not having sex with that person too. If he doesn't enjoy doing those things with Sue, then he's just pretending to be her friend in the hopes of getting laid. If he does, then why would he stop being her friend just because she's in a relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:08 PM |
| 4 | How has your experience with men in the "friendzone" been?I don't have many friends in general, but it's about evenly split between male and female. I have no idea, and I don't really think about how many guys want or don't want to have sex with me. I'd find it weird if someone became my friend just to get in my pants, it kinda makes it seem like that they don't actually like me much as a person but are willing to invest their time in hanging out with me on the hope that they'll get laid. None, as far as I am aware. I've never had a close friend ask me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work.Wealth isn't a genetic trait, lol. Good health, to a degree, isn't either. For example, having measles at a young age will potentially impact your appearance long term, making your face less symmetrical and thus making you less attractive. The good health I was speaking of was in reference to a person getting good nutrition (thus avoiding being stunted by starvation). Even people with genes that would allow them to get very tall won't if they don't eat well. Not starving to deal is appealing, is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work.It might simply be because men tend to be at least a bit taller than women on average regardless, and because being tall meant being well fed in the past (a sign of wealth and good health). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Role of SpouseWe split the chores and put them on rotation so that no one gets stuck with the worst ones. We both work so that we can support ourselves as best as possible, and we both actively try to improve ourselves as people and compromise when we have disagreements. Support each other through good times and bad times, lol. That's about it as far as set in stone expectations, and they apply to myself as much as they apply to my SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you lose respect for your SO if he backed out of a fight?I'd lose respect for my SO if he was goaded into a fight by situations 1 and 2. Who cares if some random asshole starts flinging insults around, it's not worth getting an injury or being arrested. Doesn't matter if they are insulting me or insulting him, it would be stupid to get in a fight over shit like this. As for 3 and 4, that would depend on what he does. Is he fleeing so that he can get help/call the police? If so, that's perfectly reasonable, the attacker/intruder might be armed and en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work.I'm pretty sure that it's just that women tend to find that trait to be attractive. People rarely, if ever, choose who they have kids with based on wanting specific genetic traits to be passed down, and attempts at breeding people for specific traits have had very mixed outcomes. For example, you could practically guarantee that a kid will have blue eyes if both parents have that eye color, since eye color is almost entirely genetic and blue eyes are usually caused by recessive genes (injury and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The importance of masculinity.I am trying, the poor guy has had a really hard life, it's not an easy thing to shake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Low N-count women in serious relationships, what kind of man did you pick?Current N count of one, my fiance is my one and only, and I am his one and only. Neither of us cared that the other was a virgin, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 01:55 AM |
| 6 | Relationships are better than a constant stream of hookups, CMVI have seen too many examples of people that clearly either failed sex ed, or never took sex ed of any worth. There are definitely idiots that think oral sex can't spread STDs for example, and plenty of people that simply don't realize that they are infected. There are women that like casual sex and men that don't, I'm not sure why you mentioned men specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 01:42 AM |
| 5 | Relationships are better than a constant stream of hookups, CMVLol, even looking up the definitions of those words wouldn't make that clear, since those still imply that their application is just towards the subject, which is relationships. From my perspective, casual sex may satisfy sexual urges, but it carries with it a much greater risk of STDs and interacting with stalkers and other crazies. Forbid you get pregnant or get them pregnant, and that fling you never bothered to get to know suddenly becomes a part of your life long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 01:27 AM |
| 4 | The importance of masculinity.I wouldn't be marrying him if I wasn't happy with him, though it feels like I am sorta insulting him, listing those traits you presented as generally unattractive. It's more like, there's a lot more to finding someone attractive than the traits you listed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 10:46 PM |
| 4 | The importance of masculinity.None. I am marrying a man with an average wang, has never had sex with anyone aside from myself, is 5'7, poor, thin, and not dominant. He's funny and romantic as fuck, and is very understanding when it comes to my issues in regards to my autism. I wish he would be more confident in himself, true, but many of the things you labeled as "generally unattractive to women" simply aren't unattractive to me, so he doesn't have to make up for them, so to speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 10:32 PM |
| 12 | Relationships are better than a constant stream of hookups, CMVMeh, I think it varies from person to person. Some people, such as myself, have no interest whatsoever in one night stands or other sorts of casual sex. Others prefer to have sex with no strings attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenSame kinda goes for the people bragging about 100+ different sexual partners, though. All we get out of this is that there really isn't any way to tell how many different people a person has had sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenSurveys are always at the mercy of the participants. There's really no other way to tell how many people a person has had sex with unless they tell you the number. A dick that's been in 30 different vaginas doesn't look any different from a dick that's been in 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: What kind of dating advice did you get early in life?Female (age 17 when getting the advice, age 24 currently), my mother: "Getting a date is easy, look at how easy it was for her, she just walked up to a guy, asked for sex, and got it" (in reference to a character in a TV show, lol). I've never gotten any constructive dating advice from anyone, I just kinda wing it in my relationship with my fiance I suppose. My advice for a younger person dating: If you can't see yourself being friends with this person, you shouldn't see yourself as being th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenMen increase their number to a similar degree women tend to decrease it. Personally, though, I'll never understand people lying for anonymous surveys, lol. http://www.data360.org/pdf/20070416064139.Global%20Sex%20Survey.pdf Durex does surveys like this a lot, though I don't find Brazil specifically on any. Given my interactions with humanity as a whole, I would think there is a lot of disparity between the top 10% of the population for sexual activity versus the remaining 90%. That is, I doubt m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenWell, it's not like dicks and vaginas come with counters on them, lol. The studies note that men tend to inflate their body count, whereas women tend to report less than they've actually had, and that they even each other out to what is likely to be a realistic average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenIn the US and most European countries, most people don't have more than 20 different sexual partners in their lifetime, and 20 would be considered a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 04:03 PM |
| -1 | Reasons to prefer low n-count womenWhy do you care more about being the best she's had in bed than being the best SO she's been with? Relationships are more than sex. With high n-counts, I'd be concerned about STDs, which can be tested for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Disney movies had a lot of truth to them. Why didn't men here absorb the SMV lessons from it if it was a part of our childhoods?In The Hunchback of Notre Dame II, Quasimodo gets a GF, in part because so many people wanted him to end up with Esmeralda. Too bad the movie is absolute shit, lol. Also, there is a lot of media in general where average and below average looking guys get hot wives. Maybe not in Disney, but nearly every sitcom I've ever seen has a dude paired up with a woman more attractive than he is. None of this crap is really about "how to get a girlfriend". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality?It depends on context, are you talking about some dude doing it for weird sexual pleasure? I guess I'd be concerned he's doing it in public and potentially disturbing other patrons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality?Oh, at least a dozen times. Until he got sick of the joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality?My fiance would probably deep throat a drink like that, just for the lols. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:42 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality?I really don't give a crap what drinks a guy orders, as long as they aren't an alcoholic chugging mouthwash it's fine. If a straight dude ordered a drink that was shaped like a rainbow dick, I'd find it hilarious, but wouldn't consider him less of a man for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:14 AM |
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