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1

Smh... Either way we can never win
/r/seduction15/04/26 01:55 PM
1

For me, not at all. Masturbation and porn just drilled in my head that women were just sex objects. Which gave me a 1 track mind. Once I learned self-control, I was able to focus and value my dates for who they truly were. Good or bad. And when we did have sex, we had some type of bond that made sex better. Serious or casual.
/r/seduction08/04/26 10:37 PM
11

If she only did ONS/FWB, I would be worried about her emotional maturity on how she can handle a serious relationship
/r/seduction24/03/26 11:37 AM
-2

Then, by all means, give him your 2 cents player
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:41 PM
-6

Tbh, the dating world is broken. No matter how you come across it, you're gonna run into problems. Just be you and Stop looking for sex/relationships. Enjoy life as you see fit, and out of nowhere, you will find yourself with a girl good 4 you.
/r/seduction13/03/26 07:42 PM
1

On my first date I don't like to make out. I like to almost like light tung with tease. I want her to be eager and want more.
/r/seduction10/03/26 07:27 PM
-1

The bottom line is.. Do you really want to involve yourself with a person who can't do what they want to do without someone else convincing then otherwise .
/r/seduction09/03/26 04:03 PM
2

Chiiiiit, I would love for a woman to approach me even if it's just for chat
/r/seduction02/03/26 09:23 PM
2

Ny Florida CT..
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:09 PM
1

This shouldn't be the only mindset to have!
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:49 PM
4

Don't play this game... If you're interested, show it. But, if you see yourself the only one initiating everything ( setting dates/ kissing/ hand holding, etc...) I'll have to double guess her intentions... The only game is see that valid is the cat n mouse game. BOTH should be pursuing each other. Not just one person doing all the leg work.
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:29 PM
2

That's why I say I have a conversation with them to see where there head/mindset is at. You can get the feel of when and how to ask questions. I usually just ask about their drive and then drop it. It is not my main priority at that moment if she is active like me.
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:40 PM
1

Lol.... I'm not asking if she takes it in her ass.... It's a general question. I've been in relationships where they didn't care for sex while they knew I was into it. It doesn't work. I never had a negative response when I asked it... But then again, I don't lead the conversation with this. It will come up while talking to each other. I usually bring it up if the conversation is flowing nicely. There's always 21 questions period
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:09 PM
-2

First conversation with her... I'm not into wasting anyone's time, especially mine.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:45 PM
5

Good way to see if they play victim or if their liars
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:35 PM
-7

Are you affectionate? Describe your sex drive.. Are you still in contact with ex, fwb, anyone you have been intimate with?
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:34 PM
1

My flirting comes along with a flowing conversation. There will be cracks in your conversations that you can insert a nice compliment/flirt. Just trying to flirt is overbearing and tacky imo
/r/seduction26/08/25 06:19 PM
1

I think it's cute. Especially if I know I'm the cause of it.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:37 PM
1

Having a Healthy Sex life with someone with the same sex drive as me.
/r/seduction21/05/25 02:25 AM
1

Like forcing to know the person. Let the conversation take its own course. And by al means do not bring up sex right away! That can wait till like your 2nd 3rd date. But that's just me. Usually, when I don't bring up sex, they will.
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:09 PM
1

Feel like what exactly?
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:16 PM
1

In my experience, Whenever I go out for these intentions, it never happens, or it feels forced. Whenever I go out with no expectations, I see opportunities and things go effortlessly and smoothly
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:08 AM
3

I'm a big dude.... sometimes, i amaze myself with the type of women I attract. Some of em told me later on that they were not initially attracted to me. But once they got to know me, plus I really never pursued them, they became hooked
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:35 PM
2

This might be my age speaking.... But, fuck with someone who you vibe with. I know when young and/or inexperienced, you just wanna nut for the pleasure. But in my lifetime it gets old quick and becomes unfullfilling. At least if you can enjoy their time out of the bedroom, you WILL definitely enjoy their time behind closed doors.
/r/seduction18/03/25 05:44 PM
2

When I was younger I dated an older married woman. We bumped into each other at the local movie theaters. She blew up my beeper that night and had the audacity to get extremely upset that I was dating.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:58 AM
1

All I need is a long look and welcoming smile. I don't believe in league! Ima big dude and gotten with women that SHOCKED ME!
/r/seduction10/03/25 02:56 AM
2

Usually my truth.... I didn't want to be home, so I spontaneously came here to kill some time...
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:29 PM
1

8 million to go
/r/seduction06/09/24 12:27 AM
1

Then give her time to heal and find herself again
/r/seduction02/09/24 07:17 PM
2

Hot gold n bold sauce. It's one of my favorites. Also left a $10 tip. She checked on me often for whatever I needed...
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:34 PM
4

Needed something to numb the pain
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:29 PM
28

I wasn't even able to shoot my shot. She Quickly deflated the ball!
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:43 PM
471

I once told a waitress I thought she looked cute, and she quickly replied No, you don't... So I just quickly ordered wings and long island ice tea
/r/seduction25/08/24 12:38 AM
1

Not as good looking as you! Wink, and continue walking....
/r/seduction03/08/24 03:37 PM
16

Don't invite over till you are ready for sex! TBH, on the back of our mind, we think we are getting some.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:41 PM
3

I did this. My typical woman I go for end up cheating on me. So I changed it, and I still get cheated on
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:34 PM
1

I gave my ex wife another shot, and I got shot!
/r/seduction10/02/24 02:52 PM
1

Chilling getting to know each other and enjoying the time
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:31 PM
1

When she ACTS like she wants me around no matter what situation. Broke/Sick/Bored/Hyper etc... Fall out of love: When that energy disappear.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:44 PM
1

By literally just going out doing life. The problems is figuring out which are approachable
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:33 AM
2

IMO Raw should only be in a committed relationship
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:42 PM
2

If an unattractive guy try to say hello, it's considered creepy
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:29 PM
1

If you already asked to let you know she is free, let it be. It's hard to tell if someone is genuine over text. TBH, I'll just wait for her reply. She knows your interested. Let's see if she has the same interest.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:34 AM
2

This only happens to me when im not clicking with a female on any level. As I got older, sex means more to Me then a "conquest"
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:03 PM
3

That shit gets old very quick though.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:12 PM
1

With 2 mature parties YES! All my FWB either ended respectfully or ended with us being together. But we just dated each other. We didn't juggle other dates. The reason for fwb is to prevent of constantly meeting new people and doing the same old song and dance on 1st dates
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:15 PM
2

Free drinks
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:02 PM
1

Quite the opposite
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:33 PM
1

If we are walking around, I'll find something of interest in the distance and tell her I wanna check that out. I'll extend my hand as I walk quicker then her, to see if she will grab it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:48 PM
2

Since when has it become Men Vs Women? Dating requirements are unreasonable on both ends. Both parties want the new potential spouse to bring more to the table then them. While claiming they can bring to the table, but potentially down the line?!
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:40 PM
1

If your main goal is to get her in bed. It's not gonna go as planned. Might even ruin your chances. If she already at your place. Your already 50/50 it's gonna happen. Just enjoy the time together and let it happen naturally.
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:23 PM
2

Uh... your dwelling on what didn't happen and not focusing on what could happen
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:37 PM
8

I don't think it's a crush if you chased another women?!
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:39 PM
-17

I get that.. but it's creepy when it's JUST THAT
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:00 PM
3

Flirting doesn't mean just sex talk! Flirting is complimenting what you like bout the person without truly telling them your into it. Hair, eyes, outfit, smile, scent... Flirtatious should open up possibilities of out of bedroom as well as in. But outside first!!! It's obvious what he thinks of you...
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:00 PM
36

An attraction to JUST have sex
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:26 PM
3

Rule of thumb, You don't shit where you sleep
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:17 PM
4

That's the problem... your looking at a girl as a sex object . Your going to remain hopeless dude with a strong grip
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:30 PM
0

I envy you women.... All you got to do if you don't want to approach, simply smile at him when there is eye contact. If he didn't get the hint or he is simply trying to gain courage to approach you, smile again...
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:24 PM
3

Your becoming a predator
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:53 PM
2

I hear you!!! Like I said , to each it's own
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:32 PM
3

I heard this once in my lifetime Women are the most beautiful puzzle you will ever see but missing a few pcs
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:31 PM
9

Dig themselves deeper - it's like catching bees with honey. Play the nice guy( Hopefully you ARE a nice guy) what can she literally say but dam he caught me trying to play him. Bad guy - calling her out on it, maybe making a scene. Trying to hurt her or embarrass her. Makes you look over sensitive ah. IMO. But to each its own. This is how handled free loading dates. The degree they lead me on for my expense, is the degree I will leave them. I left a gorgeous women, should of known, with the bill…
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:25 PM
3

Dating sucks Ass of all species! I know it hurts when you connected with someone, but that doesn't mean he/she connected with you! Dating is literally a job interview. Some may get the job long term , as maybe others get a PT till the FT claims their position
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:19 PM
9

I agree.. BUT out of experience, it's better to catch em off guard and let them bury themselves deeper. If you just go on a tyrant, even though your absolutely right. How you handle this situation can make you the bad guy.. It's like chess. Play to win.. not to flip the board over
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:14 PM
25

Next time you guys are going out, CALL HER, don't text. Let her know you on a budget and if she can help of hanging out since you been holding it down. If she says no, and just tries to set up another day. Ask her why reschedule? We set a day to see each other, why does me having no money changes that? Then let her know that you feel like you being taking advantage of. Listen to her response with your head, not your heart!!
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:42 PM
1

Of course we want both. But you gotta work with what you got
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:50 PM
1

Have a good personality!!! Goes a LONG WAY. Way over looks...
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:42 PM
1

Act like it never happened
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:55 PM
1

If she is at your place or vice versa, your already 3/4 of the way of getting some. Still act like your in public, but push a bit more affections. Watching a movie? Do not hesitate to put your arm around her to snuggle. NATURALLY!! do not think about the actual act of sex, it'll mess with your thinking process. Just enjoy the date and basically let it happen at this point
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:48 AM
1

Don't go to the plate thinking of hitting a home run. Baby steps. Just enjoy the time together. Ask questions that are relevant to you. Questions about her goals and dreams. If yall walking around, you can be slick by wanting to walk to somewhere specific, extend your hand out and see if she takes it. Gingerly hold on to see if she retracts. If not SLOWLY put a lil firmer grip. That can lead to affection later on. If you thinking about sex.. date is done before it starts. You can't have 0 game a…
/r/seduction16/08/21 02:22 PM
2

Oh youngen, you gonna learn, and gonna learn it the hard way... G'luck
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:54 AM
2

That all the depends on the girl... who knows... but really, would u REALLY want to end up with a girl like that???? You want a women that wants to build WITH YOU. Not make you feel replaceable to a point the bf is feels he has to buy gift to make happy and stay
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:48 AM
3

She has many guys hitting her up. She will reply when she is bored or needs her ego stroked.. Hey brother. It happens. I know you want this to happen cuz She is hot. But I bet A LOT OF GUY'S will think that too. So here goes.... Move On... In the dating scene, get used to moving on
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:39 AM
1

Maybe you can start at work. . See If the town/city your in has clubs that your into.. A new city, that is tough, not gonna lie, well, for me it will.
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:39 PM
1

If your going to gym to pick up chick's, then you gotta know the area. Gym equals muscles, so if a women is looking on a gym, well she looking for her muscle type. Can't get mad at there preference. There's women that goes to library's, maybe reading a very intellectual book will attract her, and etc...
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:51 AM
1

And that is respectable. But OP stated he didn't care for freinds. That's different
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:44 AM
187

Stop!! Dude, get yourself some freinds!!! Personally if I dated a women and found out she had no freinds, that will peak my curiosity on WHY?? You can be planting your own red flag
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:37 AM
1

Funny how guys confuse booty calls with Fwb. I rather have some type of connection when becoming intimate
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:58 PM
3

Just because on their bio it states there are travelers and expect SO to be also, can be far from the truth. This person maybe never traveled and wants to put that as a requirement to date him/her.
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:19 PM
5

Don't feel obligated to stay on a date nor pay for it if you didn't get her full attention! Gotta make her feel like she is Not your only option, even if she is. Don't focus that much on your dating apps. And please don't focus on what you can do for others. Your human as well.
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 02:57 PM
1

What ever happen to falling in love with a dude with a bus pass?
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 07:26 PM
2

But at the end of the dqy,,... Who says she is in control of the marriage? Both are the heqd.. I can be a spiteful person, especially over stupid unfair situations. I would start taking vacations. With kids or by yourself. Let her say something. Since she took sex out without consulting you. YOUR HUSBAND. Then you have ALL THE right to pick and choose what you DONT want in a marriage.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 11:27 AM
5

But still... half right or not, still fkd up
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 12:37 PM
10

Oh...... wtf..... tried to give benefit of the doubt.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 12:36 PM
2

My guess is she is giving him a 2nd chance In her head,but probably her heart was already checked out. It was over when he cheated..
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 12:26 PM
3

If she fooled him or not it goes to what I'm saying. What man will turn down sex. It's totally on The wife. She is the one that said the vows to you in a wedding most likely all her planning. But I get what your saying
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 04:11 PM
2

True.. it's getting ugly out there! Good you have your head on straight for your boys!!
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 02:39 PM
7

And it's funny that females always say men are after 1 thing... Smh.. Don't get me wrong there are men like that, but not the majority. But women have total control on who they're date and sleep with, so... who is really at fault there? IMO, I think cheating is a women's game now. What man will turn down sex from a attractive women? Married or not. Women controls the sex game. Lol. Then they claim they want something real while having 5lbs of make up, fake breast/eyes/ thighs/ lips etc.. We are …
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 11:45 AM
58

She keeps stating MY DAUGHTER as a asset or bargaining chip..
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 07:22 PM
2

Personally, I know I can flirt. I'm told everytime that I am such a charmer. BUT, alot of females ( not all ) DO NOT like being complimented, flirted with etc with someone they find unattractive. And handle that situation very rude and obnoxiously. The reason why I don't try to flirt
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:05 PM
12

Ny gun laws are stupidly crazy. Guns are not for protection, just for sport. If you use even a rifle/shotgun to an intruder meaning to do harm to you or family, you will be charged with whatever the outcome..
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 05:15 PM
1

Do something you love.. Like working with your hands, pc etc... Nothing wrong in going to trade school. Find a good field and make sure you will enjoy doing it.. I kick myself all the time with my time wasted on the streets instead of establishing myself
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 07:47 PM
5

Worry bout your financial future... Men's value does not hold up in time.. Mothers and children have that unconditional love. Men, If they can't provide we are thrown to the side and replaced with someone who can. We are replaceable and that turns us unlovable
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 07:17 PM
2

Smh... If u got friendzoned then l you put yourself there. While I stated before about just enjoying time with each other, I left out that you can also casually throw flirtatious remarks and compliments to Express your Interest in her. Your just telling dudes basically go in with all this sexual energy and some guys are just gonna come off as creepy or sexual predator?! To be honest on a date especially 1st you shouldn't be expecting sex anyways. It happens but not as often as people think. TO B…
/r/seduction12/02/21 01:24 PM
17

How bout instead of channeling energy for sex, why not spend that energy on just trying to enjoy yourself and the company. Once that's in full swing. Sex will come on its own and it will actually be better cuz there is SOME substance there
/r/seduction11/02/21 01:06 PM
2

Tip 1 - Clean your car. Tip 1a - Make sure it smells good!!!! If passenger car seat fugged up, get seat covers.. The car you drive shouldn't matter at all. But how you maintain it does..
/r/seduction05/01/21 02:48 PM
1

Insecurities of my weight. Rejection Maybe low self esteem
/r/seduction03/12/20 03:06 AM
1

I got LUCKY. In my lifetime i had 2 Gorgeously sexy over the top way above my league Women approach me and began convo. 1 ended in a 3 yr relationship. The other ended on 1yr FWB .
/r/seduction08/11/20 07:02 PM
1

Personally, dont bring up sex. IMO its a turn off to women knowing your intentions. But you can be sensual and affectionate to a point where they will know.. Besides, Females love virgins so it might work out in your favor.
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:34 PM
1

You might be the new guy.. or was
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:10 PM
1

How bout finally sleeping with your Crush to end up regretting it cuz she was so Horrible in bed???
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:23 PM
2

DO NOT CHANGE YOURSELF for Any girl!! You be the best you can be. You will find a girl that will accommodate your life instead of trying to change it to her needs/ wants. Stay Golden PonyBoy
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:27 PM
1

My weight is my thorn. Football player build.
/r/seduction27/08/20 02:08 PM
2

Uh... is that suppose to happen?? I usually just get a nod (if there nice)then they walk Faster away...
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:27 PM
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