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| 2 | My red pill view on the West Elm Caleb situation.This is something I agree. I went to TikTok and found lot of the girls he met were slightly overweight and not attractive ? For nyc standards. They were just plain Jane. That’s why these girls were desperate for male attention. Also the men women ratio in nyc favored him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | My red pill view on the West Elm Caleb situation.The thing that these women don’t realize is that when they blame a guy for playing them in social media, they’re the ones that look like a fool. Stop getting played and also block at the sign of narcissism. I’m pretty sure those women’s gut feelings were more accurate if the guy was short and ugly. I’m a woman and I don’t even feel sympathy for those women. But on the other hand, most men who idolize him, you can’t be like him. Either the women who got played were dumb or had lower smv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you?Hell to the NO lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?That looks matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Beyond shallowness - are men are attracted to competence?Lot of guys here say they like successful women but I don’t believe it. They say they’d like successful women to girls who are plain Jane or just slightly attractive. But when it comes to women who are very attractive, they don’t bring that up. Then lot of guys think they’ve settled for their SO. Be pretty first. They like hot and independent women but ugly and independent women. Even one of the most successful guys I met told me they care about looks the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:13 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Obesity is problem for men and women. I always found American men to be too fat for my taste. I never dated even slightly chubby guy let alone a guy who used to be fat in the past. Just goto EU and come back to the states 😂 And I always wanted to say this. It’s not curvy you’re just fat. Fat is heavily heavily looked down upon in Asia. I also value the guy less if he used to date fat girl. I had a really hot guy who was bullied when young so he dated girls who approached him first. Literally any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:32 AM |
| – | [Q4W] Have any of you experienced guys who use dating coach tactics on you recently?I lived in the US and Germany and I think American guys are way more prone to using these redpill tactics. It’s funny that redpill guys tell themselves to have abundance mentality and hold frame when in reality, the guys value is already decided based on women’s standards. If a guy is ugly, it won’t work. I wouldn’t care less if not attractive guy compared to my ex flirts with his female co worker or meets his female friends one on one. I’d recommend guys to be either, go die and born again with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:51 AM |
| – | [Q4W] Have any of you experienced guys who use dating coach tactics on you recently?In the past yes and usually shut them down by not giving any reaction. But if you’re ugly, whatever tactic you’ll use on me won’t work. I already decide the guys value, based on his looks, personality, his pat partners, family relationship and his job and him using triangulation and other things won’t make him look more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | If women gave genuinely good relatiomship advice to men, then boys raised under single mother households would have the best dating outcomes.Lol. It’s not true. In my culture we have strong dislike from kids from single parents. And when I moved to the west and dating foreigners I found the same thing. We didn’t go further since I avoid dating guys from single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?Yes they do or in the wrong way. I came across very few redpilled man due to their looks. I can immediately tell when a guy was born with good looks vs had to work hard to be attractive looking. I usually always go for the former guy since I don’t date short guys, guys with health problems and have bad body type ?. I can get away with lot of things due to my looks as a female. And all my female friends put way more effort when they were dating hot guys. But my hot female friends usually date guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:31 AM |
| 19 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Lol. Most men wouldn’t date down when it comes to looks. All the couples I know, they date someone from similar background. Especially When it comes to income and education. They’re high earners and they don’t date Instagram model type of girl but instead they date someone from top School, good family with good looks. Good looks as in good basics with no cheap looking appearance. Most of them are skinny and fit. Might look plain, but they have good basics such as having food skin and being fit. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.I think the reason why I didn’t engage with redpill guys is because I wasn’t into their looks in the first place. I’m not into bulky bald guys with tattoos. It’s usually very obvious when someone is playing games and have hatred on women. Most sane women can see through mind games easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the American dating culture just toxic?It’s true that men and women are less attractive here. I never found any single US men attractive. There are attractive women but it’s still rareS Too fat for my taste. When I deal with American men, I tend to be very passive since they assume any kind of politeness is having sexual interest in them. I have briefly dated American men and he was clingy. I think he tried to play games but it didn’t work since I wasn’t attracted to him. If he was smart enough, he should be having lower BMI and prob… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Correlation between men who come from broken homes and the red pill communityMy sister is well known psychiatrist with her consulting mostly kids adhd issues. There is strong correlation between aggressive children and their abusive upbringing. I always told my friends and even my no.1 standard in men is dating who isn’t from abusive family. When I as volunteering for low income kids who came from neglectful parents, they were difficult to deal with than normal kids. Lot of them became troubled teens. I’ve never met RP men in reality since I can distinguish when a man is… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Older women and datingNo. Ugly people are ugly no matter what. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: if you see a guy with another woman, does it make him more attractive?Not really. I had few guys who tried to triangulate and make himself look popular. His smv is already decided based on my standards. People mostly date within their leagues so when my ex tries to triangulate me with his female friend, I didn’t bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?Usually those who do are guys that don’t make much in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | People need to learn to give only what they're willing to give without receiving anything in return.Or just don’t give anything. People think not giving anything is being rude. It’s incorrect. You don’t have to give anything but be polite. Listens to what he says but don’t say much. Be on time. Don’t react emotionally and don’t show negative emotions. Things like this. I don’t sleep with a guy that can’t provide for me and pays everything. And some people assume I’ll end up single and miserable. Most people end up miserable and single are people who are below or bottom in looks hierarchy. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?I think I was redpilled from early age but I didn’t know what redpill one. I was very realistic from young age and came from conservative environment and family oriented environment. One thing I noticed was women and men from damaged environment and family experience more dating issues. But if you’re smart enough, you’ll be able to detect and filter abusive men. You do not have to know dating tactics and redpill to learn how to navigate dating world. Most of my friends parents are still married … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Has red pill helped you in any way? Opinion piece from both a red piller and someone who sees the BS in red pillReading redpill helped me as I know what to do when a guy tries to play games. Also it taught me to only text for logistics and be stoic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"Yes bad and good looking guys. Not bad in morally bad as in they have criminal history. And good looks are important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | would you mind dating someone uglier ?Yes I don’t mind. One thing I agree with redpill is that dating someone 1,2 points uglier than you in relationship. They usually try hard as I’m the hottest person they’ve met so they really don’t want me to let me go and I don’t have to try as hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do ;I don’t think it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you assume relationships when the guy has said he'd rather be casual?In my experience, that never happened to me, but let’s say a guy says he wants casual. I shut off my emotions and shut him down when he tries to talk something more in depth rather than something of surface value. Lot of them wanted relationships but I rejected saying they wanted casual in the first place. Lot of women experience this because they are naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 01:28 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Do naturally attractive women have to "try"?Then maybe you could change your clothing style or hair style ? But I’d just recommend changing your environment. Male attention in general isn’t important but that from high quality ones are the only one that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?Don’t have one either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?I’m allergic to cats, so none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?Most of the guys in my social group are well off. I mostly dated guys around my age but don’t mind dating guys in late 30s either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?People all die alone. And mostly, men die faster than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?I’m not interested in athletes and never been. Not into musician or athletes since they r more like celebrities and their identities are bit more public. But I still wouldn’t date them. I like guys who are more normal men types and old money type of guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do naturally attractive women have to "try"?Yes and their education and career matters also. I’ve lived in different places and there’s very few women who are naturally attractive. Harsh to say this but lot of US women may naturally be pretty but also are on heavier side. If you want to do minimal effort with most male attention, high quality men, staying fit and slim is no.1 thing you should be doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?I like skinny guys and those are the only types I go for. Skinny and athletic is my preference but I don’t like goth types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Agree with this since lot of my hvw friends are usually from rich family with good looks. Also I went to private schools so they put high emphasis on education. They only date guys with money and from similar or better background. Ive never any one of them go for male models or guys with only good looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Lot of my friends are HVW, but also lot of them come from rich family. One thing is they’re very conservative and expect men to pay for everything and lead. They take great care of their looks. I live in major city in the US, and even here, girls with extremely good looks and good education is rare. Redpill tactics might not work on these girls since they could see through and mostly if a guy doesn’t offer anything, it’s immediate next for them. Like my friends mentioned, they have endless optio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 13 | How to get guys to plan dates when they are the one traveling to you?When he knudges you to plan things, just say you have np idea. I always date with passive mindset. Guy pays and initiates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?I always tell guys that I’d love to be dog lady instead of cat lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 72 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Like I said, from my experience living in EU and US, lot of western guys don’t make any effort in to women. And also generally, girls take shit way more than Asian girls I know. I don’t know any white female friends who receive designer bags or gifts with efforts while my Chinese and Korean Friends receive expensive gifts on birthdays abs anniversaries. 99 percent of white men date and marry for the sake of sex and housework. That’s why there’s all types of PUA, red pill and seduction subreddit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:55 AM |
| 15 | Misogyny is normalised because it only effects womenOne thing that really opened my eyes was how American woman generally have low standards when it comes to men and how US is misogynistic. I’m there there are way more cases like Gabby petito’s case but didn’t receive attention on media as much. I’ve learned to accept how American society works and use FDS to maximize my benefits. So many men are misogynistic, your coworkers and men you see on the streets… and it’s especially worse if you’re an Asian female. US society is misogynistic and pick me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I think it’s because it’s harder for guys to manipulate women into sex. Lot of FDS rules are pretty much commonsense in my opinion. I used to read a lot of what’s on redpill and Rollo Tomassi and posts on asktrp. I think lot of redpill guys deal with woman who don’t have wit or commonsense so it’s easier for them to game these women. That’s why FDS is needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 19 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.I’d report him so he gets his consequences. He should be fired. In my first job, a guy kept mentioning sexual things to me. So I immediately reported him to HR and he texted me saying how he got fired and he has kids at home. Then you should have acted as responsible adult. DO NOT feel empathetic to grown man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 27 | REMINDER: It's ok to ignore / not be friends with / get distance from a man "for no reason".I just completely ignore guys I don’t like. I don’t know why we have to by default nice to people we don’t like. Just pretend those people are invisible. If someone negs you, act like he’s a ghost. If your boyfriend cheats on you, start ignoring him. Ignoring is the best strategy to woman when it comes tonLVmz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:16 AM |
| 8 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 38 - A Very Special Thanksgiving Roast +Thanksgiving Clapback StrategyThat’s what I do also. If someone negs me, I pretend I didn’t hear them. But in some cases, I use their trauma and insecurities and neg them. Most guys don’t learn until we mirror them. My ex used to see his female friends even he knew I was uncomfortable so I did the same thing. Then he stopped the behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 24 | No, a woman from a 3rd world country will not put up with your stink! (An anecdote)When I was living in EU and going on dates, the major difference between American white and European white guys were the teeth. American guys: fat, usually short and bad fashionstyle European guys: usually yellow teeth, lanky and tall with better style in fashion But lot of women put white guys on pedestal and we need to stop doing that. I usually make a face right infront of white guy if he smells. If he’s not disabled, he could take a shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 01:41 PM |
| 41 | Do not date men who are “separated”.Same here. I always wondered why would anyone date divorced man unless you’re in the same situation or going after his $ ? Whyyyy? I really don’t understand. Is it because divorce is such a common thing in the US? I see divorced men as damaged goods and I never date any guys who’ve been abused in the past, had been hurt by their ex and had been divorced. I also take marriage very seriously so I wouldn’t marry someone for the sake of love or just because he seems like HVM. I really don’t understa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 29 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.Nah, I usually would mirror the guy in same way. Probably bring up his past trauma, his lack of education or career or more about his looks. They learn when they go through the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 4 | The "Marriage is just a piece of paper" lie.My older friend was a funeral director. She claimed that if the guy dies, gf doesn’t have any legal rights. Don’t give any wife benefits to man don’t value you enough to marry you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:36 PM |
| 13 | Saw this on r/confessions... This is why I don't do FWBI’m shocked that this fattie can even attract any woman. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 23 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)I don’t recommend dating students, whether they’re in law school or medschool. Even ivy leaguers. Reason for this is because you don’t want to be the bob the builder. I never ever date a guy who is in progress unless he is rich and spoils me. Also if you read redpill or asktrp they tell guys to delay response on purpose to manipulate. Of it you’re not his top option, he wouldn’t bother to reply early. If I were you, I’d mirror or take twice the time to reply, such as replying the next day to his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 23 | What's acceptable in terms of expressing interest in semi-social non-OLD settings?I think it’s best to think like this. Would he have treated me or pursued me like this if I was his dream girl ? Even shy and passive guys do really try hard when they see a girl their type. That’s why I always say it’s important to take care of looks and other aspects of life since I’ve seen numerous times where a guy go 50/50 and let a girl does the chasing when a girl isn’t his type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 78 | The importance of lying about your disfunctional familyRedpill men prey on girls who have low self esteem and dysfunctional family. I think looking back, the reason why I rarely had any negative experiences with men was my dad was very supportive and he worked as a lawyer in well known firm so most men didn’t want to fuck with me. Men don’t fear women. They fear other men who are more powerful than them. Men are very hierarchical animals. Even if you have dysfunctional family or have been abused, never tell anyone. If someone asks about my insecurit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?Well I have done it and found my boyfriend. So I guess it works for me ? If a girl isn’t pretty I’d doubt it’d work though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?Idk why you think that but guess this proves that one shouldn’t have sex early in the relationship to be called bangmaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?I never have sex with someone I’m not in relationship for 1 year so I don’t think bangmaid term applies to me ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?That’s why I keep roster of men also. If one tries dread or triangulate, I just lose one ☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?I disagree since it a girl isn’t into that guy in the first place l, I doubt that it’d work that effectively. If I’m not that into the guy, I don’t get jealous if he tries to triangulate me or do the dread, whatever they call it. Id rather cut off contact. I’ve had this happen to me where a guy who wasn’t my type tried to triangulate me. I doubt that she even existed. I didn’t feel jealous but I ghosted him instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderWhen I read redpill as a woman, I’m surprised to see that many man dated women who had BPD or even cheated on them. In my social circle, I’ve never met anyone who had tattoos, uneducated and had serious mental issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What are your discovered preferences?I noticed I prefer someone tall thin and athletic. I thought I didn’t mind height until I met my bf who is 6,3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”Me myself & I. Or I’d usually mirror that question and ask him back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 15 | Dating outside of your raceFrom what I’ve noticed or seen in the US usually Asian girl white guy relationship was usually guy who didn’t meet standards of his own race and girl was pick me. Guy having serious history of dating only Asian girls. My cousin got married to white American and they’ve been friends since high school. Both are doctors but my cousin gets paid way more due to her speciality and I think she’s a pick me. I don’t mean to be mean, but she doesn’t meet standards of Asian beauty and she also accepted the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:32 PM |
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