| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Modern Divorce | SyllabubSure5715 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:31 PM |
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| -10 | Modern DivorceHey have you seen Deez anywhere? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.What should I be doing according to your genius woman brain? Should I be desperate to partner with a woman immediately? I don’t understand how you think. Maybe I’m just a dumb cave man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:47 PM |
| 3 | What worked for you, what questions did you ask, what do you wish you had done instead?I wish I paid attention to red flags | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | SadnessYou hear about divorces as a kid and you think wow, that sucks. That’s sad. You have no clue what divorce is all about. When you think about the epidemic of deaths of despair. You think about losing all your hopes and dreams you had with a woman. And if it’s that long, or with kids, it’s just brutal. There’s no way around it. Women get over divorce the next day. Men almost die from it. Many do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.What does that have to do with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Is movie style enmeshed romance a masculine ideal?It’s a false hope for men because women don’t experience authentic romance. It’s always within the confines of him being useful, impressive in some way, and her having control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Really? Oh well. Life isn’t a fairy tale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I haven’t had sex in over a year. I haven’t had a new partner since 2015. And I’m in no rush to be used and manipulated again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I like sex but I can’t be bribed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:15 PM |
| 9 | Going CrazyWhen I was dating I always wanted to have a partner with that piercing. Never happened. But as Snoop Dogg once said “Ain’t no pussy good enough to get burned while I’m up in it.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Well enjoy yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Getting what you need by yourself is the best way to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:52 PM |
| 0 | A video of a group of girls dancing during Mardi Gras went viral on social media and provoked a strong reaction from some in manosphere. What are your thoughts on the controversy?Who the fuck cares. Bourbon street is a pit anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Yeah if that means you also think you should fuck off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Decenter all you like, i’m all for it, that just means there are men out there you won’t fuck over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Either way, we’ll see who hurts more long term in the era of sexless men and single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It’s one of the reasons why women get bored in relationships. Why women leave most relationships. Women need sexual variety more than men do. Women lose sexual feelings for their partner faster than men, that’s been proven by science. Flat out women are not worth dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. It’s a shit deal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.The comments are your friend if you want to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.https://youtu.be/bR638YYph5g?si=fV1joim-lm3pOQ14 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Fuck pair bonding altogether. Women treat men the way men treat jobs. Opportunity for resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Modern DivorceIt’s very true what he’s saying. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 08:11 PM |
| -10 | Modern DivorceI think it’s a disgusting lifestyle for a man to be living with his parents, or off his mother in law’s wealth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Go fuck yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.A good choice. You don’t respect us, we’re just semen donors to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Many of us have dropped out of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You’re just using men in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:54 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.There are nothing but selfish reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:52 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Modern DivorceThere is no new relationship on my horizon. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 04:38 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Why do women torture themselves this way? We’d be better off staring separate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:37 PM |
| – | Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck?When I initiated my divorce I had nothing but contempt left. I think there is contempt growing among men. Having this mass of disrespected and emasculated men can’t lead to anything good. Men are quitting relationships. I know because I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Modern DivorceYou see how it’s always the man’s fault? The woman can drown herself in alcohol and have bipolar melt downs on the sunset strip, she fit right in by the way, but it’s still my fault. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Modern DivorceYou are a fool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Modern DivorceThat was actually the catalyst for me initiating divorce, that she blamed me for her drinking. That and her Sunset blvd episode. That’s another story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 02:39 PM |
| -1 | Modern DivorceMost people don’t know how to help a man in tough situations. Least of all psychologists or women. We’re addicted to this psychobabble from the same medical community that thinks cutting your dick off is treatment for gender dysphoria. We live in an illegitimate society and only weak liberal men are still going along with this social wide suicide. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Modern DivorceOne time in 1983 Metallica was playing a club and Hetfield says “I’m not supposed to say FUCK” to the crowd. That’s how I feel right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 02:19 PM |
| -2 | Modern DivorceWhat, is it because I said fuck too many times? The world must have changed since Bruce Willis went mute. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Going thought a divorceThere were four when I was there. One has since passed. These hands are never gonna scoop shit again. Ever ever ever. Not even if there’s a fire. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:59 PM |
| -11 | Modern DivorceYou read all that and concluded I have insecurities. I initiated a divorce and fucked over her entire family in doing so. She lost a husband, and 65k income, and now is single with cats for the rest of her life. How am I the one who needs help in this situation. I mean give me a break. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Modern DivorceI’m working and saving money and living with my parents. This money will never fall into the hands of a woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:26 PM |
| -8 | Modern DivorceLook how it turned out. Now her daughter lost a husband, and my 65 grand income, and has nothing but cats. She’s hopelessly dependent on her elderly mother. Those are the motherfuckers who need to “do the work”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:24 PM |
| 0 | Modern DivorceWhy the fuck has stupid psycho babble taken over our society? Do the work/ Take a back seat. What does that even mean? Its sounds stupid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:21 PM |
| -12 | Modern DivorceOh yeah? Well look how it turned out, when loser, moron parents try to “help”. I had ten grand and stocks and it was all sunk into a house a disgusting old witch owned and her human vodka garbage disposal daughter. My only crime was not understanding women or addiction or frankly the greed and stupidity I was dealing with. That’s on me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:19 PM |
| -5 | Modern DivorceIf you don’t want men to be angry, stop staying stupid things. My gramps fire bombed Tokyo and he never needed therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:15 PM |
| -2 | Modern DivorceNext time a woman is sad I’ll tell her to fuck off because otherwise I’m trauma bonding. These psychological terms pathologize normal human behavior. Oh you’re sad? That’s depression, here’s chemically castrating SSRIs to help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Modern DivorceThat’s called normal human behavior. You act like I showed up just to trauma bond. When your date is sad maybe just telling them to fuck off is a good idea. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Modern DivorceI didn’t have any trauma at the time, my life was good, I had compassion for her and wanted to help, and she gave me the fuckin trauma. Yeah I do blame her mother and the rest of her family for raising an asshole then dumping her on me and taking advantage of me financially, which is what all women will do if you let them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Modern DivorceOh she’ll only have so much patience. I’m the one who lost patience genius. I mean holy shit, you try affording a $30 handle of vodka every day on top of adult bills. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:59 PM |
| -3 | Modern DivorceWhat a dip shit comment. No, it was real love. I couldn’t make progress on building wealth because all my money and energy was going into my mother in laws condo. I did all the cleaning and fixing while she sat around and drank vodka. That’s why I was broke. Do you know how much a handle of fucking vodka cost a day? I’m getting wealthy now being away from her. She lost respect because her mother railroaded the relationship. She was an old feminist who thought her daughter should never depend on … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Modern DivorceAll true but why? Because it’s unnatural for a man to be emasculated in a relationship. It creates mental crisis and physical sickness in men because during evolution emasculation meant death. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Dating a Divorced ManI initiated a divorce and I plan on being less affectionate in my next relationship, if there ever is one, because the vulnerability blew up in my face, and it blew up in your date’s face. Divorce throws a man into an extreme existential and mental health crisis. You should take it as the utmost compliment. He learned puppy love and cute things don’t preserve a relationship. He probably doesn’t think he “gave his best.” He probably thinks he was a sap then and now he’s loving you correctly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?I did that with an ex in college. I miss low stakes dating. I miss 2010. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:16 PM |
| 7 | Going thought a divorceWomen are doing this to men every day. Taking away our entire lives. Leaving us with nothing. I cry every day after my divorce. I’m rare in that I initiated the divorce. But the pain is no different. She chose alcohol and cats and a family that makes poor decisions over me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 12:09 PM |
| – | Men who travel overseas and sleep with women are the same as men who stay in their own countriesI plan to become an expat eventually not for sex but because of the declining living standards in the United States. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I did not. The toxic situation is how women treat men and think of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I’m the one who doesn’t want to be trapped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Whatever you have to tell yourself to justify this toxic culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Good then we agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?That just means they can discard men all the more easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It’s not possible for it to be in the norm in our economy. We’re dealing with the fallout of bad policies. But sure, maybe it shouldn’t be the norm. But I think women still have subconscious expectations of men in this regard that lead to toxic relationship dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Well life isn’t a fairy tale. In the distant past pregnant women needed protection and resources, so our ancestors developed a system where men could be the providers, the survival utility, and to this day men are drained of resources in relationships, in divorce court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I’m protecting myself from people who don’t have my best interests and who have shown a willingness to try and destroy my life. Has nothing to do with my self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I’ve been called an incel just for being single. Or told I have erectile dysfunction, that I need pills. This kind of gendered-humiliation is what makes me sick in terms of modern women. I have interests outside of dating that can fill up my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?That’s how we’re treated. Single men are even called ad hominem names like “incel”. Women love to taunt men in this way. Femdom is a common sexual fetish among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Why do you lecture me while single women are celebrated? It doesn’t make sense. Women are enlightened geniuses for staying single but men are in pain and damaged. This is all stupid to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?She’s one of many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It’s not just her. If I knew women would enjoy sex with me, then disrespect me, then leave me at my age with nothing to show for it, I would have focused on myself and I’d be wealthy today. Women have been the biggest disappointment of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Either way, I wish I never gave sex to any woman. If I knew how little we were respected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?She hated all men after her father and uncle were cheaters when she was growing up, then she cheated on me. I hoped to marry her and have children but I didn’t understand hypergamy and the empathy gap in those days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Because she was my long term girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It’s just a fact that if you demean and insult innocent people they won’t want to take you on a date or have sex with you. I’m disgusted with some of the man haters I’ve had sex with. Never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Normal men like me were called all kinds of names. Gendered Ad hominem attacks. Trash, useless. Now you blame me for the social consequences, of over half of men not wanting relationships with women. It’s just too bad. You didn’t think gendered attacks on men would have no social consequences? Do you think we’re just stupid and wouldn’t stop dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I never abused anyone. I’m talking about normal men being called all these names. And now you selfishly can’t handle the consequences. That’s pathetic. You made your bed now lay in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It was the disrespect and devaluing of all men that made all women disgust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?That’s what I don’t understand. You think women would leave us alone. I’ve left women alone, just like they said. Just in general I did everything they told me to do. But that doesn’t stop the social decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Sure but I do think women secretly hate men. It’s resentment from patriarchy, because men have been seen socially the default human in western society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Regardless, men do not have a duty to partner up. We just don’t. I’m single at 37. It doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Calling men all these names was just a canard. The kernel of truth for some of us used against all of us. A man can’t be respectable if he partners with a woman who despises men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Take it up with them then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I get the feeling women today are trying to fix everything they ruined with “Me Too”. It was supposed to bring men to our knees, but it wasn’t supposed torpedo relationships entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I don’t know if you remember 2017 and 2018 but many women said men are useless, men are trash, men are predators, cat callers, animals, violent criminals, today they still say de-center men, and I say fine, let’s not have relationships, and now that’s a problem too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I think it’s a fairly common family dynamic. I know families like this, where the husband is so withdrawn and emasculated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?It doesn’t matter why. Whatever problems develop in a relationship the underlying issue is humans don’t pair bond for life. I tried it, it can’t work. I will never live with a woman again that’s for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Women are more aggressive and controlling in relationships. Whether that’s just nature or women hating men. But it’s a fact of life. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/06/26/women-more-aggresive-and-controlling_n_5532275.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Humans pair bond but not for life. Women initiate 80% of divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Women over time in relationships become more controlling. Women have less to lose because women benefit less from relationships per the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:50 PM |
| – | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?And somehow my posts get deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.Well that’s what it is. Dead bedroom, here’s a big long trail of subpar reasoning why it’s all man’s fault. Men can’t get blamed for stupid ass shit when single. You can’t beat that perk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Women ruin men’s lives all the time by ruining relationships where men have more invested in and more to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I don’t understand what’s so hard to get about this. A man loses power & control over his life to a woman with who has less to lose in the relationship. That’s a great way for a man to ruin his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 07:22 AM |
| 2 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.It’s just a stupid & whiny excuse to bitch about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 07:20 AM |
| -2 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.You have had multiple relationships with men with a psychiatric condition related to porn usage? And you know other women who have too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.You personally know men’s porn habits and consider it a sickness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you ask women to rate someone, are you asking if she's attracted to them? Or are you asking what she thinks they're objective looks are on a 1-10 scale?Women rank 80% of men unattractive. I think all women secretly hate men. Even if they find you attractive they just use you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you ask women to rate someone, are you asking if she's attracted to them? Or are you asking what she thinks they're objective looks are on a 1-10 scale?Women rank 80% of men unattractive. I think all women secretly hate men. Even if they find you attractive they just use you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I would assume you think this is a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:17 AM |
| – | Why do you care what men masturbate to?45% https://medium.com/hello-love/study-predicts-45-of-women-will-be-single-by-2030-1fbc99bad6a8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Because one party benefits more. One party has less to lose. One party has more to lose. That can easily be used as leverage. Plus women don’t like being in relationships with you men long term. That’s why women initiate most divorces. There is literally no reason to date a women today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Does a mans social status attract women?A man is worth nothing without some kind of status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:08 AM |
| -3 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Why are you upset about the quality of men if you are in a relationship? Mind ya business then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?One party benefits more, it’s inherently an unequal relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 3 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?I was never told to repress anything. And I hung out with my gramps who fire bombed Tokyo. Maybe my family is just too cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:35 AM |
| 0 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Like Dr Dre once said, if you try to get close, your ass will get smacked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:33 AM |
| 3 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Fuck yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Hell yeah, me too. I think it’s good for men to be single. You agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.They are weak. A strong man can stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:24 AM |
| 3 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Just the dispensary, Publix, and my favorite Mexican place why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:22 AM |
| -2 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.I don’t have low standards. I’m so tired of these anti-male myths that paint us as desperate, that women are better. Fuck all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Women lose interest in sex faster, are more likely to cheat or leave. Women hate men and don’t respect us yet somehow keep trying to get into relationships with us. Why don’t you give it up and leave men alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?If women benefit less than men in relationships why should men bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I completely agree. I avoid women every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Why can’t we accept that we’re better off single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?There’s a humiliation involved in all this. How men are happier married than women are. Fine. My opinion is get fucked. Who am I to impose unhappiness on a woman for my personal gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?I’m good I don’t want a relationship with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenI guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenWomen don’t approach men. I don’t meet women. I work from home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenI don’t approach because I don’t want to waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:53 PM |
| 3 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.Agreed, men shouldn’t date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenI can’t relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.The study shows what I said. Women lose romantic interest faster. Then they have the rationalization, the context that somehow negates the fact. Context can’t negate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:46 PM |
| 4 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.Yeah I know they always find a way to make it men’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:43 PM |
| -1 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.When did I say literally every divorce is out of boredom? No. But it’s one of many factors. I think women are more prone to seek out variety and novel experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Good, pair bonding is overrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Who made you men’s kink police? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:38 PM |
| -3 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.Women lose interest in their partner much more quickly. I don’t even know why women try to date men. https://www.huffpost.com/archive/ca/entry/women-sex-drive_ca_5cd501e1e4b07bc72973e97b/amp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenOP was talking about being afraid of women when they are half our size. It’s stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenNone. That’s the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:27 PM |
| -4 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?If you hate men you have no right to tell us how to live or what to do. You aren’t my girlfriend or wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:26 PM |
| -2 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.The reason why women are more perverted than men is because deviance gets them more excited whereas men are happy with regular sex with the same partner. Women get bored of that. That’s why 80% of women initiate divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:19 PM |
| – | Why do girls say it's not okay to slut shaming girls? when even they do it all the time?What we call slut shaming today was just part of basic rules about human decency not very long ago. It was a better world when pregnancy was always a risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:17 PM |
| -3 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenI don’t give two fucks about being “afraid”. I’m 6 feet 200lbs, like Dr Dre said you chances of jacking me are slim. I could clean up. I don’t approach because women aren’t worth approaching. They all play the same exact game. What’s the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenIt’s a lie men can’t approach. The truth is we don’t approach when women desperately want us to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Because women are happier single. And I think men are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:05 PM |
| -2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Oh yeah I was too. By the end of the decade half of all adult women will be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Many of those relationships are predicted to end by the decade. By 2030 half of adult women will be single. That’s what you wanted, why are you arguing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?By all metrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 09:00 PM |
| -1 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Yeah because your options suck. Women talk about it all the time. Men are trash, men are in their flop era, no men approach, no men commit, you have heard this before from girlfriends. It’s because 63% of men said women aren’t worth relationships with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Sauce https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?According to Pew as of 2023 63% of men under 30 are single and 57% not looking. Don’t go telling me you are satisfied with your dating options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?63% of men have made that decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:38 PM |
| -2 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?What a woman thinks affects what she does too. And women are more perverted than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Why would you think something so awful? Do you think your brother wants to have sex with you? 🤢 is one of you adopted? 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?I don’t think men masturbate to familiar people. I think women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?But I sincerely hope women never do it to their brother because I have sisters and that’s fucking gross. 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:49 PM |
| 4 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Who cares what you masturbate to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:38 PM |
| 5 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Women masturbate too, just as much as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:30 PM |
| -1 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?What about women masturbating? Ever single ex I’ve had had vibrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Is it ever OK for a man to push for exclusivity first?It’s an extremely bad idea because she could have other men she’s sleeping with. Asking to lock down a woman is asking her to give up sexual variety. I made this mistake in 2009 and it blew up in my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:46 PM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menWe talk about now flawed the 1950’s were. Maybe in the south. But in New England according to my late grandfather the 50’s were the best years of his life. These men who supposedly needed therapy built a good middle class society where people were held to decent standards. The scariest thing was a teenager rolling a pack of cigarettes in his t shirt sleeve. It was their kids, the boomers, who fucked up society. Their whiplash from hippy to robber Barron was fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?Exactly correct, this exactly happened to me, twice. Once in 2009 and again in 2012. Betrayal is not supposed to happen if you open up to women. We didn’t have terms like blue pull but I was a male feminist and outspoken Obama supporter. What happens to these men is women use and dominate them until they die or leave. I left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?So basically women use sex to control how and what men think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:30 PM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menMy understanding is record numbers of men and women live without a romantic partner. 63% of men are single today, but women will catch up with half of women single and childless by 2030. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:54 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menIt the average man raped and murdered there wouldn’t be many women left alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:22 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menWhat do women never have ugly features? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:20 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menGood I’m glad you’re honest about how you hate us. It’s good to know who stay away from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:17 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menDoes every sad thing require therapy today? My gramps fire bombed Tokyo and never needed therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:15 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menDesire is a long way along from like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:14 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menOhh boo hoo. Pity you can’t date gays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:13 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menWhat would happen to me is total confusion because we know you hate us.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:12 AM |
| – | Men need to be on social media to be relevant in today's dating market & economyI’m not on social media. Idc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Are childfree men happy??Oh well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:55 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeGood. I’m glad you think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?Women don’t even like blue pill men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeEven if I were giving non verbal cues to women it wouldn’t matter. Women don’t approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeIt’s not relevant. Why is it single women are independent and boss and single men are wiffle bitty stressed out losers because vagina is so scary? It doesn’t make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeAre you trying to get at fear or avoidance is why i reject women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeYeah that’s a panic attack. The month after 9/11 I had one. But that doesn’t happen to me talking to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeWhat’s there to be stressed about? I’ve seen women before. I lived with two different women for a total of ten years. If anything my psychiatric problems stem from knowing women too well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeWhen I see an attractive women I go blank. I act completely uninterested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeYeah I think NYC is what helps you. If that’s how you want to live your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI don’t think I have a signal. I rarely meet women I’m attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeWhat is a mating signal men use to women? The male equivalent is the approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:08 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeIt’s the feminist idea that men are dogs and need sex. Men can go for longer without it than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI’m talking about mating signals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeYou have a decent profile? I’ve had maybe 20 matches but I’m not on it seriously. I ghosted one girl who wanted to make plans. Since then I don’t bother. Sometimes I have unmatched women when they are mid typing. It’s pretty funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI don’t think I’ve ever given a signal before. This is how human mating works. Women initiate with a signal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:55 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeIf you’re single then who was the lucky gal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:54 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI’d like to be having sex but at the end of the day it’s just vagina. Just an orgasm. I can at least have one of those on my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeThats what signals are. An attempt to get a men’s body and resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:45 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI didn’t say women are the enemy, but that doesn’t mean I owe anyone anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:43 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeWhat are you the white knight making sure all women get cock? Do you think men have an obligation to give women cock? Those 12 percenters are slacking? I’m not having sex, what are you gonna do about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:41 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeIt’s absolutely true women still send signals, flirt, leave openings, try to arrange a chance meeting. Nothing has changed, but men get much less from relationships now so we don’t respond. I consider ignoring signals at the bar are form of recreation. I’ve even rolled my eyes or made disgusted faces at women at bars who locked eyes with me. It’s funny. You think you’re above us, I laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:39 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeNo, I think that entire culture narrative is a lie. Women haven’t changed. You still send signals, leave openings, lock eyes from across the bar. It’s men who don’t respond and don’t approach. It’s men rejecting women, not responding to the natural cues, refusing to. And wow I can’t stand the term “their person”. You want a man. Not a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:34 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeHaving sex at least once in the last year doesn’t mean you’re getting laid now. A year is a long time in terms of sex. Your last paragraph is really gross ‘women are wonderful’ benevolent sexism assuming women are a prize for emasculated men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:31 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeIt’s self reported. Women under count men over count. All men know being single means no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:28 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeHow are women taking an active role in their romantic and sexual pursuits when women refuse to approach men? If women are happy independent they should be fine single & celibate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:26 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeMost men don’t approach women or respond to signals. This is a common subject among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:23 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeWhat do you mean by median young man? 63% of men don’t respond to women’s signals & don’t approach. That’s awesome. What are you trying to prove by denying the reality women have been rejected en masse by men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:21 PM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeYou sure about a majority of men are getting laid? 63% of men are single & 50% of women will be single & childless by 2050. Many marriages have dead bedrooms. As a man I know it takes effort to get laid, always has always will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:18 PM |
| -2 | Gender misconceptionsSignals are not ambiguous or unclear. They are very simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Gender misconceptionsSure it’s rejection. It immediately cuts off the social interaction that women initiate. I think it’s a good thing. It’s men who are not approaching. We aren’t doing our side of the social bargain. We lost respect and appreciation and now there are consequences. These so called happy single women are as real as Soviet grain yields. It’s something everyone should understand is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Gender misconceptionsI am a man and I notice women give me signals all the time. It’s easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:22 PM |
| -1 | Gender misconceptionsIn our society traditionally the women send signals and the men approach. Men are not approaching. The media has to frame this like spice girls girl power but that’s a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Gender misconceptionsMy favorite open secret in this society is that women are the ones being rejected. Not approached. Not asked out. All the classic signals ignored. Men ignoring women’s signals en masse. Men are the pursuers in dating. Dating isn’t happening because they aren’t pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:18 PM |
| -1 | Gender misconceptionsIt’s women who initiate sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menNever minx feminist BS. Women’s actions show no changes. They still give signals and openings, they still try to bump into men for conversation that could lead to dates. They still want dates. Their signals and openings are simply ignored by men en masse and they know it. They talk about it amongst themselves all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Women are less likely to be looking because men don’t approach or respond to signals anymore. I don’t think women have changed. If anything they give signals and openings today more obviously than ever before. It’s men who don’t approach or ask out women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Are childfree men happy??The idea that single childless women are happy is a Soviet union kind of lie.. oh the grain harvest was excellent, while people starve. Women haven’t changed. They still give signals, even more intensely now as men don’t approach anymore. That being said men are more unhappy childless because it’s a psychological blow to not be chosen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:00 PM |
| – | Is sex outside of a relationship for average men and women balanced?Or course not. The vast majority of men wouldn’t find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsWomen are single because men don’t approach. Women still give signals. It’s men who don’t respond. Women talk about this with each other all the time. They know it’s not them doing the rejecting. But to protect woman’s feelings society tells everyone it’s women rejecting everyone. Women aren’t rejecting anymore because men aren’t approaching. Women are involuntarily single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?I think the opposite. Men are the leaders. It’s men underestimating the damage they could do by shutting down casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 04:52 PM |
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