Symph0ny7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Just had the shortest date in my life. Tried to be clever with the math, but fell for the same order of operations mistake everyone does.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 03:51 PM
1	Is my line of thinking correct here, am I running from my problems? I understand man, sometimes you need to vent. It's okay to have bad days, just make sure you don't let a bad day stop you from trying tomorrow.	/r/seduction	24/10/14 04:02 AM
1	Is my line of thinking correct here, am I running from my problems? I think you know the answer to your own question. I understand that you're frustrated and that's normal. Take a deep breath, don't worry about it for tonight and you will feel better tomorrow. There is statistically no way possible that an entire city that size doesn't have any people worth being friends with and any girls worth dating. You just haven't found them yet. Keep looking and I promise it will be worth it.	/r/seduction	24/10/14 03:54 AM
2	How much of the seduction process should you be personally attached to? You don't have to change yourself to fit in with them. Seduction is about learning how to be confident and present yourself in a way that even these girls will want to know you and be interested in being a part of your life. Just from reading your posts I'm guessing you talk about your interests in a condescending way that comes off as negative and offputting. These are your passions! Show her why they are so amazing. Persuade her that what you love is exciting and should be something she wants …	/r/seduction	24/10/14 03:10 AM
3	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... I would take that sub with a grain of salt. They have some good advice but they also have some really bad advice. The single best piece of advice I can give you about relationships is not to force it. If you're in a good one, you can just be yourself and you don't have to pretend to be anyone else. Just find someone who you genuinely enjoy spending time with and feels like it is worth it. Don't try and force yourself into one because it just will not work.	/r/seduction	24/10/14 01:35 AM
3	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... I'm just sitting in class that I've already thoroughly studied for haha, I don't have anything better to do. The most important thing to do for you, I think, is decide what you want from these girls. Spend some time trying to decide if a relationship is what you want. You gain the personal connection and it can really be an amazing part of your life, but you will also lose some independence. You don't have to lose yourself and throw away your own identity but it's pretty much impossible to be in…	/r/seduction	24/10/14 01:05 AM
5	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... It sounds like you're taking the advice on this sub way too literally. You don't want to appear needy when you're picking up girls initially. When it's time to move into the relationship phase, this PUA stuff needs to go on the back burner. It's okay to say you miss them, it's okay to show your vulnerable side and it's okay to let them see your emotions. That's what a relationship is. Don't go completely in the other direction and start spilling everything nonstop but you can open up when you've…	/r/seduction	24/10/14 12:58 AM
1	How much of the seduction process should you be personally attached to? I was in the same boat as you, I also live in the south and don't feel like I could be interested in those types of things. Take it as an opportunity to expand your horizons, learn new things and make yourself into a more complete person. I dated a girl who loved country music, and I also used to be really condescending of country music and thought I would hate it. I ended up doing some searching through the genre and found some things I really liked and now there is a whole new segment of the p…	/r/seduction	24/10/14 12:56 AM
5	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... Yes, that's what I mean. If you're seeing them that often for that long, girls think that it is a relationship. You may not see it that way, but think about how much time you're spending with them, they're not really wrong for thinking this might be something more than just a FWB situation. If I had to guess I think they are expecting it to move to another level and when it doesn't they drift away. If they're asking if you miss them and stuff like that it's because they want to know if you feel …	/r/seduction	24/10/14 12:47 AM
3	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... Hmm, well it's hard for us to tell without knowing you, so I'm just guessing here. Maybe you are doing the "pull away" phase too hard? If they have stayed with you for 2 months and you're seeing them several times a week that's starting to get relatively serious. At this point you're not supposed to be "gaming" them the same way you do with random girls you're trying to get out for the first time. You don't need to push/pull so much, you can just be comfortable in your relationship at that point…	/r/seduction	24/10/14 12:25 AM
6	After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest... Are you maybe getting into a rut with your activities? Getting the girl doesn't mean you crossed the finish line, you still need to work at it. Make sure you're both still trying new things, change it up and keep her challenged and guessing. Just being attracted to someone starts to wear off at about the time frame you're describing so make sure you keep seducing her even though you're already with her.	/r/seduction	24/10/14 12:11 AM
1	Going on my first Tinder date tomorrow There's a reason for that. You basically didn't actually go on a date, you sat in the same location for two hours without interacting. It's wasted time. Save it for when you're in a relationship.	/r/seduction	23/10/14 11:15 PM
1	Going on my first Tinder date tomorrow It's better than just doing a movie, you might be able to get something going afterwards. Movies make a good date once you're already in a relationships because you can get a little physical in the theater when you're already at that point. A better movie date would be watching a movie at your place where you can put the moves on. If the plans are already set like this I guess I'd just go with it and see what you can do afterwards but for future reference movies are a no-go for the first date us…	/r/seduction	23/10/14 10:59 PM
2	Going on my first Tinder date tomorrow The best first dates are things where you can be active and easily build kino and talk to her alone, I like things like mini-golf especially because you're moving around, you're alone and it's a shared activity that's very low pressure. You can very easily build kino and go for the kiss by grabbing onto her to "show her your technique."	/r/seduction	23/10/14 10:54 PM
1	Going on my first Tinder date tomorrow Was doing a movie your idea? Not the best date unfortunately, there's no opportunity to build rapport and seduce her. You're basically just sitting in the same room together. If there's any chance of changing to something else where you can share an activity together you've got a better shot.	/r/seduction	23/10/14 10:48 PM
1	How can I learn to be able to just say fuck it and go for the kiss? It's like everything else in the game, you just do it more and more and eventually it becomes easy. You're going to be nervous and you're going to do it badly the first few times but then you realize it's no big deal and you'll do it better. You're going to be surprised at how receptive they are. After all, they are hanging out with you. If you got her out on the date or she's choosing to spend her night at the bar with you, you already know she likes you. People don't go out on a date with some…	/r/seduction	23/10/14 01:30 PM
7	A newly tried, and successful online opener. Opinions? My initial reaction is not good because it frames you as the one needing to prove yourself to her when it should be the other way around. Openers are not all that important I find, just say something about her profile. She's not messaging you back for your opener she's messaging you for your pictures.	/r/seduction	11/10/14 01:53 PM
1	[FR] Today, I sucked. I'm curious as to how you feel about this now that you're not feeling any anxiety anymore. I've eliminated my approach anxiety at this point and I just want to improve my actual technique, and because of that on days when I can really tell I'm off (tired, hungry like in this report), I don't feel the pressure to approach any more. When I was still training myself to get over anxiety I would always push myself in this situation but now I know that I can game whenever I want, I'd rather just do it…	/r/seduction	08/10/14 05:25 AM
3	How I got a kiss close when she said "but we just met" Pay attention to this man. When I was in the 16-18 range I got oneitis super hard, tried to be the nice guy because I thought that would make them want me. It got me two girls in two years. After that I got sick of it not working and stopped trying and was amazed at how suddenly the opportunities were just falling into my lap. Women want a man who is a force of nature, rocketing through life with nothing standing in his way. Make yourself the guy who no one can forget and they'll be begging you …	/r/seduction	07/04/14 05:21 PM