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Field ReportT-Shirt_Nerd/r/seduction21/09/22 12:27 AM
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Meet her close to your house. Just be chill during the date, maybe touch and kiss her a bit if the vibes right, but make sure to pre-plan an excuse for her to come back to your place.
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:25 PM
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This is beautiful. Not immoral at all, it just gives the girl a good excuse. I do the same thing but with my guitar.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:09 AM
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Wish you luck bro, I can see I’m wasting my time here.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:37 PM
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Women have high standards for character, not for looks. They may say they’ll only date 6’ or whatever, but their actions tell a different story. I’m ducking different girls several times a week. I might know a bit more than you, despite your 10 years of doing all the wrong things to try and get laid.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:26 PM
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I guarantee they do not. If only you could see the things I’ve seen
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:54 PM
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The tinder subreddit is trash bro. I know because you’re a ripped dude in the prime of his life and you’re not getting matches. I’m not going to beg you to get laid bro, if you don’t want to you do t have to but don’t pretend like you’ve exhausted all your options. I’ve done my best here to give you some value and help you out, so do with it want you choose.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:51 PM
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I do have a degree lol. What a weird question. I’ve also read over a hundred books on dating, seduction, sex, psychologically, spent thousands of hours and cash learning different pickup methods. I’m not ripped but I stay in shape. But that’s the thing man, girls don’t care if you have a degree, or if your ripped (it does help for tinder) but at the end of the day they want to follow a man who has a purpose, is confident, and can be a grounding force for their emotional ups and downs. That’s the…
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:40 PM
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Nah, it just bothers me to see people struggle because I used to struggle too. That was before I figured out it was easy. The only reason it’s hard is because you get in your own way. The secret to girls is that they will believe whatever you believe about yourself. If you believe you’re the shit, then they’ll believe it too. If you believe that you’re not a catch and that women do t like you, then they’ll believe that. I guarantee I’ve put more work in than you have. Absolutely no question.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:26 PM
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Bro, I promise you’ll get laid if you just do the right stuff. Im not super tall either and I’m a minority where I live. Your brain is just trying to come up with justifications to not try. Getting laid is easy, you just have to put in the bare minimum of the right kind of effort. If getting laid isn’t worth that to you, ask yourself why you even made this post in the first place.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:11 PM
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Let me tell you man, I’m 28, not crazy good looking, I don’t have abs, hair is starting to recede a bit, but last night a cute 20yo came over and sucked my dick and tomorrow I’m gonna fuck another girl. I’m not trying to brag, I’m just saying if I can do it, you can do it too. Don’t give up man. I recommend making a brand new tinder. Make sure you have high quality pics, no more than one selfie, have someone else take some pics of you if you don’t have any. Get a gym pic in there (not a mirror s…
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:05 PM
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Bro, let me help you out, cause if that’s true there’s no way you shouldn’t be getting girls on tinder. What does your bio say? It could also be that your account got fucked by the tinder algorithm. Sometimes guys will get matches for the first week or so and then for one reason or another tinder will stop showing them to people. To fix it you either have to delete your account and make a new one or sign up for tinder platinum. But first let me know what your bio is rn.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:46 AM
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Everyone is so caught up on looks and money here. All you need to be is a 5 out of 10 and 80% of that is grooming and style. I believe most people can become a 6 or 7 with good grooming, style, and some physical fitness. Add good personality to that and you can easily be a 9. Unless you have some horrible deformation, you can pull girls bro. People often don’t want to work on their personality or take the risks to fix their game, so they blame looks or money for not having success with girls. Bu…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:32 AM
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If you didn’t get a single match it means you either A. Weren’t swiping like enough, B. Your pictures suck, or C. Your bio isn’t polarizing enough
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:58 AM
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Nah dude it’s super easy if you know what you’re doing. If you meet 10 women, probably 4 of them will be willing to go on a date with you if your a normal dude who can flirt, go on dates with them at a venue walking distance from your place (or at least a very short drive), escalate a bit on the date, have a reason to invite them back (“I wanna show you my guitar” is what I use), probably 3 of the 4 will come back, have sex with them. Now you have three girls. Also, if you don’t want to approach…
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:55 AM
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Why practice sexting? Just have actual sex. Sexting almost never actually leads to sex
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:04 AM
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You gotta work on that bro. Love yourself and others will love you too. If you don’t even love yourself, why should other people love you?
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:22 AM
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Yo, are you based in Japan?
/r/seduction26/09/22 02:45 AM
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I wouldn’t say that. A lot of Japanese girls are afraid of foreigners. I’d say it helps in as much as, I stand out. But I got laid in America too lol. I mean maybe my “conversion rate” is a little better, but that still doesn’t mean you need to be Adonis with a lambo to get laid in the states. But I guess because you aren’t getting laid you need to blame it on some factor other than what is really holding you back, which is your personality. Chill out, stop thinking about conversion rates and de…
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:36 PM
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I feel like we’re growing apart
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:54 PM
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I mean you asked me my “conversion rate”, my dude. I used to work in advertising. Also I think meth would help you count each one. It’s something like that. I do pay for tinder platinum where it shows you to your likes more. I will also say that I live in an Asian country so that may contribute somewhat just because I stand out. I’m curious what you have in your bio though, so I can get a sense of what you’re doing. I will say I did tinder with no bio for a bit and when I added the bio I got way…
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:30 PM
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I like it
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:55 PM
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Bro I have no idea. I don’t even swipe every day. Probably every three days. I don’t have that much time on my hands to be counting shit like that. If I had to guess I’d probably say 3 or 4 matches for 15 swipes
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:30 PM
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Definitely not B, don’t buy into her frame. I would combine A and C, say something funny and then ghost her for a while
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:21 AM
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Is there a place in the app to find that? I don’t track that kind of thing Edit: if I had to estimate I’d say about 1 in 6 matches is a date and most of my dates are lays
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:26 AM
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Because they want to look cool, but they don’t want to fuck the lambo, my dude. Women will fuck cool guys, lambo or no lambo. The fact that I have to say you don’t need a lambo to get laid is insane to me.
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:19 AM
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I think you’re too caught up on “demonstrating” value. If you have value, it comes out naturally, there’s no need to “demonstrate” it. As far as my looks, I’m a skinny white dude, 5’10, somewhat receding hair (though you can’t tell in my pics), and as far as my face I have an overbite so I have to have stubble otherwise I look super young (even tho I’m 28). I’d say I’m pretty average.
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:14 AM
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Your original post didn’t mention tinder, I will say that yeah, you need to not look like a troglodyte for tinder, but I think average is fine. Asking “how can I show groundedness” etc in the profile is like asking “how do I display this that and the other” in the opener when you approach a girl. The profile is just the open, you want to stand out. In my profile I have a picture of me shooting a gun (illegal where I live) that makes me stand out, also in my bio I have “cooler than your boyfriend…
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:13 PM
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Bro my tinder has no pics of cars and valuable things except my face. If fact I could see putting a lambo on your tinder as being try hard. You might get girls but honestly if you want the type of girls you can buy with money go to a brothel. At the end of the day, girls want a grounded dude that understands women and has his own thing going on, if he has a lambo, cool, if not cool. I really don’t get how people are still caught up on looks and money. Remember Elliot Rogers? Dude had the looks a…
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:00 PM
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Because it’s not about those things bro. Girls don’t give a fuck about Lamborghini’s. It’s all about the emotions you make them feel.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:32 PM
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It depends on the city. Believe it or not I moved from small town Florida to Tokyo, the cost of living here is like 40% cheaper. It’s always going to be scary making a big life change like that, but think about the opportunity cost, if you stay where you are what kind of life are you honestly going to live? I think you know inside that it’s the right decision, don’t let fear hold you back.
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:15 AM
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If a woman isn’t testing you then she’s not really into to you. If tests piss you off then you’re investing too much in outcome. Like I said tests are how women get turned on by you, if anything be flattered that she thinks you’re valuable enough to test. But never let a woman dictate your emotions, if she pissed you off, then you failed the test.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:14 AM
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Bro, she’s testing you. Just be unbothered, make a joke about it and move on. Girls do this kind of thing, they like to feel like they’re with a strong man who’s on his purpose and cannot be blown around by the wind. If you start bitching that she didn’t text you or you start sending her a bunch of messages, or you get mad that she’s complaining, then you will become unattractive to her. You can find a new girl if you want, but all women will test you, it’s what women do. Trying to find a girl t…
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:40 AM
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I feel like it’s pretty normal for there to be a lot of affection in the beginning of a new relationship. It’s called the honey moon phase
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:28 AM
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Great advice my man, thanks a lot!
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:46 AM
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I get the rotation. But the problem I’m having is I like one of the girls I’m seeing and I want to make her my main girl. I can tell that she already thinks of me as something like a boyfriend. I’m pretty sure she’s aware that I’m seeing other girls but we haven’t really talked about it. How can I tell her I’m fucking other girls but also I want her to be my main? I can feel that she’s going to ask me the “what are we?” question soon.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:11 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:19 AM
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If you start seeing a girl more seriously while still fucking others, how do you frame that for her?This is something I’m struggling with currently.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:16 AM
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My dude, are you trying to tell me that a guy wearing 4” inserts isn’t self-conscious about his height? Call it game if that’s what gets you through the day, but those inserts are made of pain, shame, and self-hatred. If someone really, unconditionally loved themselves, there would be no need. My little brother is the same height as OP and he’s dating a nine. The inserts are purely to quell the since of inadequacy. Let’s face it, we’ve all felt inadequate at one point or another, no shame on OP,…
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:27 PM
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I’d say the same thing to all those people. But for one, what does it matter if you get laid, if at the end of the day you can’t keep them and you hate yourself? Two, I promise you will get laid more being free and accepting yourself than always thinking “Am I good enough now? What about with the lifts, am I good enough now?” You we’re always good enough brother, you just got in your own way.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:05 AM
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Bro, you could have gotten the girls without the inserts, they just made you feel worthy enough to act in an attractive way. Just go without them and don’t mention it. It’ll either go well or it won’t. But stop trying to be something you’re not and learn from this in the future. Accept yourself and others will accept you too.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah, I agree with you man. Self-love too is important. But there’s something different about those moments after you fucked someone’s brains out and there’s no boundaries up anymore, no need to talk, you can just stare into their eyes and feel a sense of oneness for a while. It’s an addictive feeling.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:23 AM
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I’ve noticed this too. It’s a test to see how you’ll react. Take it as a shit test, be grounded, open, and unbothered. Remember she just wants to feel your power as a man to be solid and unwavering and she wants to feel that power and be turned on by it. Be relaxed and don’t react and definitely don’t turn and look.
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:51 AM
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Bro. BRO. She was lying in your arms and you didn’t make a move then (she’s thinking “why won’t this guy make a move on me”) and then you wait until the end and do some weird stuff. The problem isn’t kissing. In the first one it sounds like you didn’t do anything physically and then you tried to do a Pearl Harbor sneak attack kiss out of nowhere. The second one you just missed the opportunity. Btw if a girl invited you to her house alone and is obviously interested in you, 9/10 times she’s tryin…
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:23 PM
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Maybe I do need therapy, but I feel like companionship is a core human need, no?
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:56 PM
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I’ve been chasing women for the after sex cuddle, idk which is worse
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:08 AM
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You’re really not getting it bro. I mean say whatever comes to mind, doing so puts you in a state where you can be more charming. Try picking up a creative hobby, you’ll understand better
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:15 AM
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Tinder
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:45 PM
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You’re missing the point. You’re not rambling to her, the point is don’t judge yourself. It’s the same thing with writers block, people think they can’t write because they pre-judge every single idea they have before they write it, but if you just start writing whatever comes to mind, then you create a mental state where the good ideas can flow. It doesn’t matter so much what you say to women anyway, don’t try to appeal to her logical mind, that’s a ticket to the friend zone. It’s the subcommuni…
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:33 PM
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So no kissing or anything?
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:43 PM
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Wow tall girl. So did you make any moves on her? Girls tend to get bored if you don’t.
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:25 AM
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Owen Cook
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:19 AM
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The easiest way to get a girlfriend is to have sex with her. This idea that if you bring a girl home the first night you can never see her again is pretty illogical. Second date is fine too, just invite her. It’s not like her saying no will ruin your chances.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:50 AM
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Just say the first thing that comes to mind. Even if it’s random, doesn’t matter. People run out of things to say because they’re trying to say the perfect thing, just let go and let it flow.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:40 AM
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When you say you “dated” what do you mean? You went on dates with her, you fucked, you were bf/gf, what?
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:34 AM
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Yeah, I mean usually sex is better after the first time with a person. Always just doing it with new people sounds pretty unsatisfying. Plus at 50 people your risk for having stds is like 50%.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:34 AM
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I mean, if they come back to your house, they’ve already decided to have sex with you most of the time, so it’s pretty easy from that point.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:28 AM
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What do you mean by subtly? You mean you want to turn her on without her knowing? I don’t think being turned on is ever going to be subtle, but here’s some things that turn girls on. Polarity. Be a man, make decisions, disagree with her, lead the conversation. But do it in a natural way, you’re doing those things because that’s who you are, not to make her attracted to you. But she will be attracted if you can do those things unashamedly. Touch. This is the biggest thing that turns girls on, it …
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:26 AM
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Bro you’re literally handsome af. Plastic surgery isn’t going to help you at all. If you aren’t getting laid, it’s because of your game, that’s it.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:51 AM
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Are you trying to sext or are you trying to get laid? If the later, I would move on with a joke and set up a date
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:45 AM
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I’m an introvert too. Hanging out with friends for me can be exhausting, but on dates I don’t feel that way. I think it’s because I’m just having fun, if you’re trying to control what the other person thinks about you, you’re coming from a bad frame. Just let go, self amuse, and you’ll notice your dates will go better and you won’t feel drained at all.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:38 AM
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Breakfast is okay, but brunch man, girls love brunch.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:26 AM
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You have a success barrier, it happens man. Think about why you got in your own way, why you feel you don’t deserve those girls, why you don’t trust yourself to be able to make conversation etc. You’ll need to uproot those things and let go of them. You can’t control outcomes in life. Next time you see a girl you want to talk to, just go introduce yourself. It will either go well or it will go bad, that’s life, it doesn’t have any reason or meaning and it doesn’t reflect anything about you. The …
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:03 AM
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I think you took the advice “only text to set up the date” too literal. That advice is for people who try to constantly text and get to know a girl through text. The goal is two fold: To set up the date To keep the rapport warm with value giving texts You want to send texts that are funny, don’t take too much thought to respond to, and ideally are somehow related to something you talked about previously. Videos of something weird you saw, relatable memes or gifs, or even just a funny anecdote fr…
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:50 AM
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Maybe it’s because you try to brag about how much your apartment costs online
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:23 AM
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It’s not about being nonchalant. You can be the aloof cool guy all you want, it almost never works. That being said, you shouldn’t try hard either. Just show interest, be normal, funny, but have other stuff going on. Invite her to a date at a place near where you live, until the date, don’t text her too much, but send her something funny now and then to keep the rapport. On the date, just be normal, talk, make sure you touch her at some point. I like to read their palm. You can try to kiss, but …
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:19 AM
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If there’s a girl you want to get with, your goal should be to get her to meet up. Don’t have lengthy or in depth text conversations with her, save that for the date. The goal is just to remind her that you exist and add a little bit of value. I find if you don’t text at all, she will flake on the date, if you text too much, she’ll lose interest and you won’t have anything to talk about on the date. Just send her something that’s relevant in some way, funny, and doesn’t require a thoughtful resp…
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:46 AM
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