| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 231 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work. | PICKME CULTURE | TAALLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 161 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife. | MALE DEPRAVITY | TAALLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife. | MALE DEPRAVITY | TAALLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:32 PM |
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| 2 | Has anyone seen the "Ask The Other Sex" subreddit post where men reveal how old they are and how many partners they've had?Just looked and found it gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 114 | My ex-husband is in an age-gap relationship now and I feel sick to my stomach!This is not your problem, everyone cant be saved. You both shouldnt be discussing your love lives with each other, distance yourself. Your communications should be focused around your child only. Practice your poker face, he probably got a jolt of joy at your facial reaction to her age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 41 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herI started to watch this but couldn't finish. I got about 5 minutes in while reading the comments posted under the video. She is a bombshell at age 38 and (seemingly) still has low self esteem (she calls herself sad) because she isn't attached to a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:36 AM |
| 84 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichSo very true! I asked a guy at my job this. It started as a conversation about whether or not he would start a relationship with an acquaintance that he saw on a regular basis knowing that if things didn't work out there would be potential awkwardness. He asked what I meant by relationship. 🙃 To make it simpler for him I just said "sex". Would you have sex with her? He then asked how good she looked? I said average. He said yeah he would have sex with her. Then out of curiosity I asked . . . "wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 06:16 AM |
| 110 | My sister is dating a guy who lied about having kids, thoughts?He knew dating prospects would be low if he was honest about his kids so he lied! He has no respect for her. He lied to get what he wants. A mommy bandmaid, someone to care for his kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 317 | My sister is dating a guy who lied about having kids, thoughts?Lied about being responsible for a whole human being?? Multiple human beings im guessing from your use of "KIDS." What else is he lying about? She should've dumped him immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 114 | Age Gap Gross OutLol I had a similar experience 😅 I was at a pool party with a friend and these two guys came up and started talking to us. They were well educated, respectful and seemed to be close in age to my friend and I (we are early and mid thirties). We tried to guess their age and were way off!! They were 23 years old 🙃!! All attraction disappeared lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 33 | Freeloading scrotes 😐Nah, im good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 10 | What would you consider going above and beyond?For me its being prepared and planning ahead. This lets me know that they are dependable and trustworthy. Woah, wait. . . . This should be a standard. . . . Damn I guess the bar is low. . . . 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 83 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Yes, reminds me of Ariel Castro! Couldn't face life in prison so he hung himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:48 PM |
| 18 | He stood her up, left unhinged VMs, then his mom joins in (part 2)Every time I start to think about beginning to maybe make an online dating profile I see some bullshit like this! I just can't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:11 AM |
| 11 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 647 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️No ring on the finger? He gets exactly zero input on buying decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 131 | You shouldn’t be cultivating a HVMThank you! Do not mother a grown ass man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 35 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Lolololol a friend of mines NVM boyfriend will do this. I was at her place one day and they rearranging furniture with her roommate. She asked her NV boyfriend to grab a plant and move it, but he said no. She so started to do it herself so he stopped her and grabbed the plant from her and huffed "I'll dO iT!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 161 | Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLDI actually use the "i love cooking/baking" as a test because I genuinely enjoy it. You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at the number of guys who respond with "WhAT aRE yOu gOnNA cOoK fOr Me?" Its a really quick way to judge what there expectations are early in the game. And their first thought shouldn't be "how can I benefit from this woman." I'm not thier mother lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 06:50 AM |
| 58 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"Saved this post! Also, this really resonated with me: This is why sex work is NEVER EMPOWERING: the sex workers themselves are members of the subordinate oppressed class, their labor is exploited by the ruling class (men and capitalists). Truer words have never been spoken (typed?) !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | 'It is what it is'. This is dismissive at best, gaslighting at worst.A guy I was seeing casually once would always say this bullshit. . . 🤔 Strangely he would get very mad when I started using the same phrase on him 😂 Also, this is why I can't do casual ever! The respect just isn't there. . . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 57 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withI work in a male dominated industry with a handful of other women. One of the women im close to, I'll tell her about all the guys on the job that hit on me. Mind you, these men are 10+ years older than me (some married, ugh I have so many stories). Not surprisingly all the guys that try to talk to me, also will take their shot with her! One day a guy from work walks up to me and says "after this (covid) thing is all over I'll take you to a movie." I dismiss it. He walks off. A nearby woman who I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 118 | Scrote wants to divorce his wife that recently gave birth to their child because he's no longer in love and he's mad that they haven't had sex in FOUR months (she just have birth!). Now he's upset that his family and friends see him as selfish (not the fact that he's created a single parent home).I have a feeling it was a single parent home even before he decided on the divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 35 | On the MRAs, TRP, MGTOW and IncelsI once mentioned thinking about becoming homeless by choice for a year on an anonymous app called Whisper. I got so many DM's from men "offering me a place to stay" that it was scary!! Like oh, a vulnerable woman! Let me help her! Yeah, right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Media and FBI villainized and basically LIED about the Pulse club shooter's wife, because misogyny (especially against WOC) sellsSame with school shooters. Mom is always blamed, not "the parents" not the "dad", always the mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:53 AM |
| 51 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Lol on hand washing! I used to work at a fast food restaurant back in college. The soap in the woman's restroom ran out rather quickly and had to be replaced regularly. I never replaced the soap in the men's restroom as the soap was not used so it never ran out 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 12 | Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay?This is one of the many reasons I got divorced. It was "gross" for me to have underarm hair but perfectly fine that he had a bush of hair under his arms that was visible even with his arms down by his side. Then you'd think he'd be willing to compromise. Ide keep my underarms shaved if he did the same. But no, he didn't even wanna do that 🤷🏿♂️ I hate shaving my underarms because it gets itchy when the hair grows back. Of course I could just keep it shaved but if he's not willing to shave his un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 25 | This can’t be real! And everyone in the comments is saying to “talk to him!”She needs to talk to a lawyer and get papers drawn up. When he is at work, take the day off pack yo stuff up and move!! Leave only the divorce papers behind for him to sign! Instead of "irrreconcilable differences" put "abhorrent hygiene practices". And she has the nerve to call them crumbs!?!? CRUMBS!!?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 83 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhSame, I was thinking it would be very tempting to play this game after they'd already said something problematic to take them out of the running, but blocking/deleting is way less of a hassle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 45 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?It seems men want the Father title without actually doing any of the work. THIS!!!! is why I was so hesitant to have a kid with my ex, and I thank god every day that we never did. I expect to be a very involved parent if it ever happens for me and I need a guy who will be equally involved. My child won't be sitting in front of the TV for hours and they won't live off processed fast food! I've even looked into being a single mother by choice and using a sperm bank (because I really don't think il… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 8 | If it's not a hell yes, it's a no. We don't accept sure if, but if or maybe. Image credits - @HiddlstonFan on Twitter.This literally happened to me once!!! A guy I was talking to had a habit of never inviting me out despite the fact that it was obvious he wanted to. One day he tells me he's about to go to a familiar bar, I ask if I can join (I had been to this place with him once before). He says "if you want." I stayed my ass at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 50 | PPD Post Question: Women Seem Capable of Admitting Negative Traits, Are Men? They KNOW Who They REALLY Are. MOST Women Are In Denial/ Wilfully Obtuse...I've noticed that in past relationships of mine, when something goes wrong I can reflect on my actions and behavior and take note on how I could have done something better to prevent the negative outcome. The guy could NEVER do the same self reflection, they could NEVER be at fault. I think it starts from childhood, maybe boys aren't held accountable as much as girls? (I have no evidence to support this, just a thought) I once had an ex start a conversation by saying "I'm not trying to tell you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 89 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+668 subscribers today; 324% trend score)Good! Hopefully this means more women are seeing the light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 33 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife.This guys story differs so much he's probably lying about her being a big spender too. One post says he has 7 kids, another says 4. One post says the youngest kid is 1, another says 8. One post says they've been married 16 years, another says 4. He's posting anonymously to reddit, there's really no reason to lie. But even if the wife is a big spender, I guarantee she's spending on THEIR FOUR (MAYBE SEVEN) KIDS and not for sex at massage parlor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 52 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife.A comment on another post of his mentions "his kids will be grown in 17 years" which makes it seem like the youngest is 1 year old. I wonder why he'd lie about such a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 184 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife.In the original post (which has since been removed) he talks about how much he loves his wife and doesn't want to leave her because "it goes against his faith" but they are both miserable. Its obvious he wants to cheat but when I mention it its "wHo sAiD AnyTHiNg aBOut cHEatiNG" 😒 3 days later he wants to leave her but can't decide if he should do it now or if he should WAIT TEN YEARS!!!! 4 days after that he's frantically worried about HIV from having sex at a MASSAGE PARLOR! What a wild ride! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 29 | Go see Promising Young Woman.The previews looked great!! I'll probably end up seeing it tomorrow now that you've mentioned it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 17 | Ten behaviors of guys with impeccable class - The World Needs More Gentlemen And Fewer MenBut to the non-gentleman, a code of conduct serves as another obstacle. If he can’t win by following the rules, he bends or breaks them. He justifies his actions by convincing himself that he’s not really cheating, merely playing tough — as a man should. Wow, this sure does remind me of a very well known LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Man: “I want to get to know you!” Same man: *answers questions in the least engaging way possible and never asks anything in return*Lol reply with "cool" then block and delete. I hate when guys give short responses and I'm writing full paragraphs. Then when I start to mirror their same response style, suddenly there is an issue and I seem uninterested. . . . Hmmm. . . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 21 | Cheating & murder- The number of pregnant women being killed by their husbands and boyfriends so that they can be with their mistresses 🤮My ex's uncle is currently in jail now for doing just that. Killed his side chick the day before she was scheduled to be induced. And the uncles mom has been spending thousands on a lawyer to try to get him out of his life sentences. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | If women "hit the wall" after certain age because we're too old to be "fertile", while men can mate for life, then why is sperm donor's age cut-off at 40, buddy?Worse than adoption? How? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | 🤮 “ion see shit wrong with this” EXACTLY why we don’t do dinner at home dates ladies - the queen in this story up and left!!Aside from the more obvious egregious errors, there isn't a single vegetable. . . . . Oh wait, ironically I think I see some lettuce on the bottle of Crisco. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:30 AM |
| 31 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?Run! He wants a caretaker i.e. a mother! You do not want to be responsible for multiple children and a grown ass man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 177 | See ladies... we are called Gold Diggers but when it’s about a man and his kids, we are unfair.I'm glad to see most of the comments on that post are giving good advice. A small slice of faith in humanity restored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:24 PM |
| 11 | This was disrespectful. OMGThis is sad af. She probably can't find a guy because they'd all be intimidated by her. She's 35 so she's not going to fall for bullshit games and she's financially independent. Its a shame that she graded herself period but even worse that she only gave herself a 5. 10 out of 10 in my book and what I aspire to be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 11:30 PM |
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